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To be perfectly honest, I don't really even like 30min appointments and certainly can't be motivated to accept a 15min appointment. I need to "feel" in the moment or what's the moment or what is the point? I could never be proud of what I could muster up in a mere 15mins.

As much as I enjoy what I do and spending time with my regular gentlemen I know what the relationship is between us I have a seperate life from this I was seeing this one gentlemen for some time and when he asked if I was involved with someone and I.told him yes he gave me an attitude and I.never heard from him again The time we spend together when we are together is exactly that when.we leave to go our ways what you do is your concern and what I do is mine We owe each other nothing other than respect and friendship I provide you with companionship/friendship

I removed the nasty comments that are not in the spirit of the cerb community.

Wow this is getting so far out of hand it is ridiculous. Lets start with the fact that despite claims to the contrary, no spa in Ottawa, licensed or not follows the regulations set out by the city. Other jurisdictions are more explicit in stating that attendants should not touch the genitals etc of the client. Nowhere in this country is it legal to get a hand-job from nude employee. Whether or not by-law and the police turn a blind eye is a different matter. So now we are talking about "conventions" and breaking house rules. That is a totally different matter. True if word got out that a spa was openly offering FS then maybe LE would scrutinize more closely, but that is merely a supposition. If you feel that being a snitch is the way to go, and you want to turn an employee into the boss then go ahead and do it. It is not something I would do. Of course the word would probably get out, and I don't think many people would trust you much any more, or ever try and be a little generous with you. If you feel uneasy about an offer, tell the person offering you and then put it out of your mind.

Like I said in responses to your Pms..Good for you !its great that they are attractive to you. You started the tread with a strong opinion about the québécois clients..Which seem by posts that you resented them for a while..Like we say in French ""une crotte sur le coeur" in last 2 days you met nice québécois ..Good You say they are attracted to you.. Good not sure what else you want me to add to your tread:icon_question:

I very recently met with Midnight-Massage at her location in Halifax. This was my first Cerb meeting in way over a year and I cannot say enough good things about Tracie or our time together. We had exchanged a few emails and PM's over the last few weeks and her teasing manner with the written word carried over into reality. She has a great incall location that was easy to find and with easy and close parking. A last minute text to confirm everything and I was almost there. Stepping from the elevator of course I turned the wrong way so the long way around I went and as I approached her door a slowly beckoning finger was motioning to me from where she stood behind her door. I am even now smiling at how that set a tone for our entire time. I stepped in, the door closed and the sound of the lock clicking signalled the start of an immediate and long and truly sensual make out session. That alone would have made my visit memorable and successful. However, there was more and ever so much more indeed. Eventually a short few steps took us to her bedroom where everything was delightful with awesome subdued lighting, and a room that probably defines Tracie herself. As always for me this will be where specifics start to be omitted. Suffice to say that Tracie gave of herself and devoted herself to me alone. We had made very few specific "plans," with the hope that things would flow in their natural course and that was ever so correct. She is very into sensuality and pleasing and along with her intuitiveness she guided us to areas that I found exciting and erotic and very rarely touched upon by others. The 90 minutes that I had requested absolutely flew by and it was only in those last few remaining minutes that we had calmed down enough to have an interesting conversation. She is just as genuine, and interesting, and articulate, and nice as she shows in her on-line persona. For gentlemen from Nova Scotia or visitors to the area I have no hesitation in suggesting Tracie as a person with whom you could spend some quality time. If you read her webpage and peruse her blog then what you see and read there is the genuine person. Thank you Tracie for your time and the lovely visit. I guess this means that MN2 has officially returned to Cerb, and it was the most perfect welcome back that I could have had. MN2

Great post, Tracie :) Well said! I guess we can easily apply this to anyone who trys to negotiate our rates... Not only to the men from the province of Québec. Because let's face it, there are hagglers everywhere, no matter where they are from or where they live. Again, thank you for your post :) Much appreciated! From a proud French Canadian woman from Montreal, Québec xox

Besides the major and obvious turn-offs that have been covered on this thread (poor hygiene, lack of communication, bad manners, negotiation, etc), one of my biggest turn off is the client that you have to constantly remind that this is a no string attached escort/client relationship that works BOTH ways. There is a minority of men who cannot just take our "relationship" for what is it, and won't hesitate to pronounce the "L" word. They soon will develop a sense of entitlement and even become jealous, possessive and intrusive. They will constantly try to push your emotional boundaries. They are used to conquer in order to get what they want. You will give them a inch, and they will immediately ask you - or take - the mile. Not a second it would cross their mind that you may already be in a solid relationship or even married. I find that quite disappointing because it actually usually starts with a great chemistry...However their perception of the escort-client relationship will soon get distorted. Personally I find this to be extremely emotional draining. If I find myself in the obligation to burst the client's bubble more than 2 times regarding the nature of our arrangement, I will unfortunately have to fire him. I understand that this is a sensitive service and that as human beings we cannot always control our emotions - and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. What may turn wrong is how those emotions are handled.

and now off to the cemetery to place some flowers, 28 years ago of my fathers passing. May is a tough month, Mother's Day, (lost her 4 years ago) and Dad passing away.

Found 5 of the pinks girls at tease last night

Personally, I will never understand how anyone could go see someone to be intimate and not be clean. It's mind-boggling. Honestly, I say keep all of his damn money and hope he gets the message that this is unacceptable. Probably won't take though. If a guy goes out to see a lady, being that nasty, he probably is too stupid to realize what's going on anyway.

@ Angela I wished for happiness and that covers, well everything, including a boat. No the boat wasn't forgotten, not to mention brand new truck, and, well I could go on Money seems so obvious and may not bring happiness, but if truck and boat amongst other things bring happiness, well my wish for happiness bring me a truck and boat amongst other things RG :-)

When you are paying for an intimate encounter that involves sharing both your and someone elses' body, you are in fact negotiating and haggling over the value of a PERSON which is not the same as haggling a better price on an air conditioner or lawn rake. Inanimate objects bought and sold have a cost associated and most have mark up's. This is not the same as a person who is taking the time to clean and straighten, shower, do hair and make up, chose clothing and give the best experience possible. Never reduce a person to an inanimate object. Buy a blow up doll or fleshlight instead if that is the value you have for another person, including yourself.

I have a few: Toronto: The Rushton http://www.therushton.com Saint John: Thandi http://www.singhdining.com/thandi/ & The Urban Deli http://urbandeli.ca London: Abruzzi http://abruzzi.ca/#italian-inspired-cuisine North Bay: Churchills http://www.churchills.ca Gander: Bistro on Roe http://www.bistroonroe.com Corner Brook: Gitano's http://www.gitanos.ca

I finally got to visit cherry yesterday after months of waiting for our schedules to match, and it was well worth the wait. She' a beautiful girl with a sexy body and great personality. Had such a fun hour with her I had to write my first reco. I will definitely repeat.

There was a recent thread regarding good restaurants in Halifax but given all the traveling that CERB Members do what about the Best Restaurants in Canada... Ladies where do you like to eat.... where should we take you? I am in St. John's NL and I would recommend any of the following St. John's resturants: Atlantica Resturant - Amazing food wonderful ocean view and fantastic accomodations... enjoy a great meal then hang out in a jacuzzi tub overlooking the ocean with your favorite lady http://http://atthebeachhouse.ca/ Raymonds - Fine Dining in Downtown St. john's http://http://www.raymondsrestaurant.com/ Bistro Sofia - great food and excellent service at amazing prices... deserts are out of this world http://http://www.bistrosofia.net/ Black Sea - same owners as Bistro Sofia but more of a fine dining edge. Boutique hotel upstairs... 2 birds one stone http://http://www.blacksearestaurantbar.com/ Blue on Water... excellent food... great sea food.. boutique hotel.... see above lol http://http://www.blueonwater.com/ Portobellos - Great Dining... wonderful view http://http://www.portobellosrestaurant.ca/ That's a start... if your traveling to NL and want some advice on dining please feel free to PM me.. we gave amazing restaurants in this city. Now where should I eat in your City?

Been to body basics and i havent been in awhile. The place has changed alot, new girls, new look, nice and clean. I had Charlie and i saw Bonnie , they are SMOKING HOT! Ill go back for more.

Funny how staring down an impending move will incentivize you to get stuff done--ANY stuff done--that you were procrastinating on before.

Actually my doctor told me the number of physicals he did every week, including prostate exam. After that I wasn't so much embarrassed, more like, well I felt, ummm, cheap LOL:icon_cry: Seriously, nothing to be embarrassed about, it's your health, and whether checking your prostate, or treating ED, this is what your doctor is there for. A trained professional who knows about these things and options available BTW Pfeizer Corporation wouldn't even bother to create Viagra unless there was money in it, and the only way there could be money is if ED affected a lot, I mean a lot of men Me, well the various ED drugs I can't use because of various health issues making them contra indicated. But my doctor suggested L Arginine is OK for me (which I first heard of from Soleil, thank you again) The girl who works at GNC where I buy L Arginine, and she can't be more than 21-22 not only rang in the sale, she also took me to the locked shelf, allowed me to look at some other ED stuff, in a helpful, very non judgemental way. (my doctor had told me the stuff to look for and avoid in OTC remedies) Now if a girl can be helpful and professional working in a store like this, don't you think your doctor is professional too. Probably the embarrassment is in a patient's mind until he broaches the subject with his doctor...once brought up, the embarrassment is gone A rambling RG

In Ottawa, Tuckers MarketPlace, in the Market. Its buffet, service yourself, all you can eat and about $17. Obviously what I like is the ability to pick and choose EXACTLY what I want, be it a salad, bread, potatoes, desserts. Generally have a choice of 3 main meat dishes, like beef, pork, chicken.

Well, for me, I would obviously understand if the lady was under the weather or if you are extremely tired and not feeling well, I would completely understand if you called me and explained that, too. As for bumps and bruises, definitely not something to worry about. I work in plumbing and heating and I get more cuts and bruises and crap all over then a little bit. (It's all okay, my tetanus shots are up to date, lol.) Hell, a couple weeks ago,I had a big scar on my forehead from smacking it on some ductwork so I figure a little thigh or butt bruise is no biggy. Those little "imperfections" just make it more real and enjoyable. :biggrin:

In Ottawa have to say Navarra on Murray St, makes the best Mexican food ever(the owner/chef just won top chef Canada), For sushi I would say Kochu sushi on Preston and Gladstone, yes sushi in lil italy lol. For some good southern cooking hands down the Smoque Shack and El Camino has the best tacos in the city.

If you want to give more than what you're supposed to as an MA go be an escort, or go indy(Im sure you will make more!) . It's not fair to the other ladies who follow the rules and aren't giving bbbj ECT. And as for the client who got offered, you should definitely tell the owner in private im sure they would maintain your privacy.:)

Sounds like a fun time to be had so after this encounter I really don't care about anymore wishes

I've had a lot of 15 min appointments and there has never been any disrespect between me and the SP. Not everyone can afford costly sessions, and you can go more often to the same SP if the cost is lower. Some SPs don't mind this at all. It is totally arbitrary to say that 15 min is treating someone like "cum dumpster" whereas 30 min is respectful! Each case is different and it depends on your rapport.

Guys, I explained my mindset when I made that "joke" (having my car keyed in the past). Let's just agree that it was most certainly not my best joke, move on, and keep the thread on topic. :) Thanks....

Wash your hands after using the bathroom...maybe I should be a bit crass...when u piss, flush not only the toilet but your digits too!

I am in Memphis today and visited the Lorraine Motel the site where Martin Luther King was shot... it is now the site of a national civil rights museum... it was amazing to be at such a historic site.

I am still on my road trip but I expect to get home tomorrow. I had an awesome visit with family and we did lots of things together. I had a visit with a Cerb lady too.:) I will have another highlight later on if my Canadiens can start their comeback against the Rangers tonight. It's been a great week and I am ready to get home. :)

Mosquitoes that are as big as vultures!

People who use texting short-cut language when writing pm's or emails. Drives me crazy. Whoops - caught myself - used the word "UR" instead of "your" when I sent someone a pm this morning from my iphone.

Defragging a windows XP laptop... I mean who even uses windows XP anymore??? And this lady complains it's slow... HAHAHA

I'm in my new home and I adore it. Thanks for all the love guys. I'll miss you. Xo

Why do you repeat with the same woman?

Might this be something the police would have access to (assuming it's not a pay-as-you-go phone)?

I am 54.... i have some heart issues and take a number of medication....i am pretty sure that a 15 minute session would not serve me well my time would be up long before anything else is up...lolol All joking aside... i actually want the extra time to chat... relax and form a connection... it heightens the experience for me. Just my opinion.

It's been fruitful hearing from you gorgeous ladies. I understand that many women are uncomfortable with that, but it's seems like more are comfortable than not. I personally think that guys can be a bit over the edge with feet, but otherwise, it must feel good to be pampered. When you think of it, it's the guy (sort of) putting the lady in a temporary dominant position, therefore expressing respect and admiration.

I don't really have a foot fetish.... but I do think a woman's feet can be very sexy.... when I am attracted to a woman I like to touch and caress and kiss and lick every inch of her body including her feet.... certain positions result in her feet being in your face and hie can you not luck and suck and caress them. Just my opinion

Here is the CBC Story http://www.cbc.ca/player/Embedded-Only/News/ID/2051137449/ It reports only one case (sorry that sounds minimizing, not intended to come across that way) of the super resistant strain and in Japan, not in Canada. As I said not written to minimize, but there isn't a worldwide epidemic. As for me, I've always respected ladies' boundaries. If those boundaries should change I'll understand and continue to respect them Anyhow, a rambling. RG

I think its totally fair and makes complete sense to consider BBBJ along with other services (Greek, DATY, kissing...) part of a spectrum of services SPs have every right to refuse to provide for any reason as a legitimate claim on their rights to optimal health & safety. And, yes, while this thread is about gonorrhea, it's also become about issues of risk relative to BBBJ and other services as well. The NZ model represents the most ideal model in practice which we can draw and build on here in Canada. But, it does not mean a copy and paste approach is warranted. The idea that we will see success by outright banning sexual practices such BBBJ is nonsense. Again, creating markets, and expanding the rights of providers, including those who work for agencies to refuse ANY services they feel uncomfortable (or any client they feel uncomfortable seeing) with is alot more realistic. Aggressive educational campaigns and access to services that promote personal responsibility for ones's sexual health, including clients doing so will be another important piece. Along with increasing access to STI testing....hassle free clinics etc, and better educated and more receptive GPs. To go with this, mandatory health testing will also be a huge mistake despite many people saying it's a great idea, as it will create illegality where it did not exist before....where those disenfranchised from the formal registered system will be on society's shit list....and where all of the blame and medical control will be placed on the bodies of sex workers, instead of on clients and the general population. So, what's the connection between the mandatory testing and regulatory measures against BBBJ? What are we going to do?: Start fining workers who provide BBBJs to their clients?....How do we go about determining their 'risk levels'? Do we start tracking all SPs sexual partners in private to see whose bare cock they are sucking, maybe who they have screwed bareback on their own time and then use that as a reason to say, hey, no kissing and no daty with your clients....cuz you COULD have gonorrhea and/or you COULD give your client herpes. Banning BBBJs is going to create a specter of illegality and stigma. Bad idea! Sex work is not and has never been a level playing field. And standardizing sex acts like McDonald's happy meals is not going to resolve that.

I have never agreed to a GFE with anyone to date and would like to be clear about the services I provide, which is a sensual massage with finish. I am pretty sure that I know who the poster would be since I have a handful of people it could be. I am completely new to this space. I can say that on my behalf, I am completely upfront with what I offer and ymmv. Thanks!

These I use daily in life to help me understand things people do, whether it is hurtful things; incorrect things; everyday life things; or just plain wrong things. I aply them to myself too. 1. People do what they know how to do, if you teach them better, they know better, when they know better they do better. 2. A person can't change what they can't acknowledge, and what they can't acknowledge will only worsen until they do. 3. Choose the behavior and you've chosen the consequence. Now for starting the day out right when meeting and greeting people I often say, " boy, you look good, you working out", even if the person has gained wieght. I've never had anyone get angry. They usually smile and say "yea, right" or " yes, can you tell". The same people hear this over and over and they still smile. When asked how I am, I always answer "lovely" which sounds strange coming from a man. When others get use to it and start using it themselves I will respond with a "you are lovely, I believe you". These little wierd but positive things make angry people smile too.

I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

All the term GFE means "Girl Friend Experience" as opposed to "standard service" (standard meaning they do not play into the sensual or intimate part they just get the job done for you and out the door you go) instead GFE implies that the lady plays into the fantasy of intimacy and sensuality.... I would assume "ultimate" would imply that they are really good at this. GFE does not imply that ANY services are included. If you assume certain services are included you will find yourself disappointed. (Your hygiene and attitude would also make a big difference in how "ultimate" your experience would be too I suspect) I am sure others will charm in here, I just wanted to mention that GFE & PSE are "STYLES OF SERVICE" and NEVER implies that certain SERVICES are to be expected.

Congrats! :) January 17 will be 2 years smoke free for me, and I know for sure that I will never smoke again. I prepared mentally for several weeks and then just went completely cold turkey. For a while, I replaced the physical habit with a piece of fruit, which worked well, and was obviously a healthy tradeoff. Everyone has their own methods that they say for work for them, and if they actually do work, that is great.. everyone is different, and if it works, great! However, I am of the belief that all nicotine replacement therapies, prescription drugs, "cutting down" methods, e-cigarettes, etc just prolong the pain and madness more than necessary (or exactly as PassionVitto said, replacing one bad habit with another). Just end it. Be a non-smoker. Nicotine is physically out of your body within 72 hours; after that it's just the mental battle. I just constantly reminded myself that I was stronger than the addiction. One thing that really helped me was The Canadian Cancer Society's Smokers Helpline Online. There is lots of great info there, and it's all personalized and interactive. The best resource I found there was the online forum. It's like CERB, except for people quitting smoking. It tracks your progress in a variety of ways, and can be very motivational and helpful to talk to others in the same situation, share experiences, tips and ideas, push each other, etc. I also read a few books which I found helpful. Reading a few chapters everyday, early on in my quitting journey, kept me on track, and made me want to stay a non-smoker, and not have to start all over again (remember - 72 hours is key). Alan Carr - Easy Way to Stop Smoking Joel Spitzer - Never Take Another Puff I knew I would *feel* better physically after quitting, but what I didn't expect, and the best thing that happened, was the amazing feeling of freedom I felt. It was so good to know I wasn't tied down to the addiction anymore, and I didn't have to constantly find a place to smoke, go out in the cold, find a store to buy them, spend my hard earned money on this bullshit that was contributing to my early death, and be a slave to these disgusting multi-million dollar death corporations anymore.

I have never have an addiction or anything similar..., but i have met people that had serious addiction to cigarrets... IMO the one and only thing to achieve your results is to really want it! I see people that instead of being addicted to the cigarrets.., they get addicted to the Gum or what ever product they are using to stop the craving..., to me that is just changing one for another.., yes maybe one less harmful than the other.., but yet an addiction.... My 2 cents... Good luck with quiting smoking :-) You will see that your body will thank you for it :-)

Katherine is a trained massage therapist. I think that is also true of Lilly. I'm sure either of them would be willing to give you only a massage. Mind you that would be an enormous waste, but hey....

I just had a session with the Amazing Angela and she is as described; witty, gorgeous and knew which buttons of mine to press. A great experience for me. I did remark to her how much she looked like Vivian who is another wonderful MP. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with her as well. You won't go wrong spending time with either of these delightful ladies.

Couldnt agree more. There are some nasty people out there. I think I'll kepp my rose coloured glasses on and thank the stars that there is CERB and that we are all great people.