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. "The Lancet is a weekly peer-reviewed general medical journal. It is one of the world's oldest and best known general medical journals,[1] and has been described as one of the most prestigious medical journals in the world..." http://www.thelancet.com/series/HIV-and-sex-workers Executive summary: With heightened risks of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections, sex workers face substantial barriers in accessing prevention, treatment, and care services, largely because of stigma, discrimination, and criminalisation in the societies in which they live. These social, legal, and economic injustices contribute to their high risk of acquiring HIV. Often driven underground by fear, sex workers encounter or face the direct risk of violence and abuse daily. Sex workers remain underserved by the global HIV response. This Series of seven papers aims to investigate the complex issues faced by sex workers worldwide, and calls for the decriminilisation of sex work, in the global effort to tackle the HIV/AIDS epidemic. HIV and sex workers Published July 22, 2014 Bringing sex workers to the centre of the HIV response Pamela Das, Richard Horton Full Text | PDF Dispelling myths about sex workers and HIV Steffanie A Strathdee and others Full Text | PDF Trafficking, sex work, and HIV: efforts to resolve conflicts Richard Steen, Smarajit Jana, Sushena Reza-Paul, Marlise Richter Full Text | PDF Responses to HIV in sexually exploited children or adolescents who sell sex Craig McClure, Caitlin Chandler, Susan Bissell Full Text | PDF Why are sex workers who use substances at risk for HIV? Maia Rusakova, Aliya Rakhmetova, Steffanie A Strathdee Full Text | PDF Register for free to view the full articles, it takes 2 seconds!

So I didn't want to reply but I think what you said here is exactly what is missing from the site. This Bill is criminalizing the ability to screen clients and the SCC already unequivocally established that screening is vital to the safety of sex workers. You mention that it was the ability to screen your clients that increased your happiness because it changed your feelings of fear AND that is going to trigger a response from MPs or to attract MPs to listen to your messaging. Otherwise, like I have previously mentioned, the MPs will brush you aside and all sides of the political spectrum will dismiss your voice as a small minority or someone the Bill isn't meant to protect. You may argue that you are not a victim and that your voice isn't being heard but the logic behind the Bill isn't meant to protect the non-exploited sex workers. You can call this an opinion but I am telling you, your site misses the point of the charter challenge, the SCC decision and the government response (the Bill). These facts are undeniable. The SCC also said that third party violence does not negate the role of the state in creating the harms. If the Bill prevents a sex workers' ability to screen and the SCC already unequivocally established that screening is vital to the safety of sex workers, then the state is negating its role in creating harms in sex workers' lives. You can be happy all you want but you need to make it clear why you are happy on your site and why screening has protected you. Like I said, this isn't about happiness it is about safety and protection--the right to life, liberty, and security of person (FYI happiness isn't included in establishing the legal test for this type of charter challenge). And as for your comment, "why do your feelings matter and mine dont?" I never once said this was about my feelings. This isn't personal. Also thank you Gabriella for asking a much needed question!

I can certainly say it is worth joining CMJ. I've been a member there for over a year and it's been very much worth joining! The girls are gorgeous, the rooms are fantastic and you would certainly enjoy your experience there. When it comes to other places, certainly both Paradise and Angel's have very nice rooms and beautiful women. Vibe Urban Spa seems to have that urban posh look to it, stunning women and I am looking forward to checking it out very soon! ALO has it's VIP location as well as several other locations around Ottawa and I have always heard good things about it. All in all I think you would be happy with whichever choice you go with! As Il Re mentioned, we are pretty fortunate in Ottawa to have an outstanding selection of spa's with an unreal amount of stunningly gorgeous women to visit.

Most ladies had advertisements and websites stating whether they can do short notice appointments or not. This gives an idea of whether it is possible or not for those you have not met. If you're unsure based on that information, communicate with them and see what their policy or availability is (if there is someone you're interested in). For those you have, I would say discuss your circumstances with them and see if there is perhaps a way or a compromise to leave everyone happy. This is an industry full of flux and fluidness so communication is the key.

CMJ is Ottawas ONLY private members club. There are many differences between CMJ and the other mentioned establishments. Without getting into details on here, I would suggest just coming in for an orientation and seeing the difference for yourself. After, you can choose whether a discrete private club or a public spa is for you. I welcome you to contact us directly via the PM function or by our website. ____________________________ And while others are noting other providers and establishments - lets not forget about the lovely ladies and awesome owner/manager of the ALO chain. Love Jasmin, Mya and the hostesses

In keeping with upholding & supporting future law in Canada, I want to provide law enforcement with an easy & convenient way of identifying Johns & Prostitutes. Johns: They look like your everyday, normal neighbours. They often walk their dogs and wear cardigans and rubber boots. Very sensible clothing. They also sport an unlit tobacco pipe just to make everything seem normal. Their names often start with John, Jack...names that start with "J". They cut the lawn religiously every Wednesday evening and take the garbage out in keeping with the local by-laws. They look like you and me, but they lead a secret life. Prostitutes: These individuals are a different breed. They look like your everyday, normal neighbours. They are often the target of hostile political movements which suit the moment. Sucks eh? Prostitutes also cut the lawn and take out the garbage in keeping with local by-laws. They look like you and me, but they lead a secret life. Hope this helps the Harper government in passing the new laws. Lock your doors everyone.

speaking only for myself of course, as everyone had their own experiences, I've rarely felt unsafe. On those few occasions that I have, I was far from happy. I've made changes to my screening to try to ensure that feelings of fear don't happen, and I've remained safe and happy because of it. Hope that helps. edit: Mod pointed out to me that my first response to Kathryn Bardot set a negative tone for the thread, and I agree. I could have done better. Please accept my apologies for that. Remember that everyone has an opinion ... that's what makes us unique. If mine is different from yours, that doesn't make it wrong, it makes it different. All of the posts here are opinion... just like mine. I often disagree with yours, but I don't object to your right to express it. Please respect my right to express mine.

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As it turns out, my father knows that he will not be driving much longer. We had a chat while waiting at Doc office. I asked him if he thinks....and to my surprise, he does actually know his time is coming soon. He has agreed to no night driving, no winter driving and no highway driving for now. So I did not bring it up to the Doctor yet. I will see how the remaining of summer goes. At least he knew in his heart that this was coming soon. He was not angry at me, he really appreciated me caring about it, and thanked me for asking his opinion first before " making him" give it up. I feel better about this now, and so does he. Thanks everyone for sharing your stories, and I hope mine helps others with this same kind of situation:)

I hope one day you realize that your site adds support for Bill c36 and not opposing it. The government doesn't care about your feelings or the feelings of clients-they will bulldoze through this Bill and the antis will say you are the minority and they already have. That's the problem with this site. You can create your own movement but this site just adds support to the preamble to the Bill--it's about the victims and you are not a victim thus, you are not a representative of the people the Bill is trying to protect. That is all and that's the logic behind the Bill and the site. I'm out.

This is an interesting article regarding dignity and human rights in Bill C-36: http://rabble.ca/blogs/bloggers/views-expressed/2014/07/does-bill-c-36-really-bestow-dignity-and-human-rights-upon-an

It would be a very hard not enjoy this type of life style. I have been very blessed with the company I have met and appreciate you guys very much. I adore the industry. For me it is an absolute perfect fit. I love adventure, passion and discovering things about yourself that you didn't even know existed within you. It's exhilarating and exciting. I think of my self very lucky to have discovered it. I am going to be attending University but even once that is complete I do plan on continuing with this part of my life as well. Not forever, but for a while. It is not easy to walk away from this. You meet wonderful people, your constantly developing relationships and sometimes they evolve into true friendships. How could you just leave all that behind?

I blogged about this recently. I lovey job, most days. I think it is crazy to think that I never have bad days or I will love it forever. People evolve and change and that's great. I was a dancer for a few years and I had so much fun but, when I went back after starting my SPing, I found myself feeling...not so great about it. With the whole c36 fiasco it is so important that people come out to say this stuff. Yes we are happy but it isn't all rainbows and butterflies (no job is). That makes it, IMO, more respectable. Maybe that's just me. All that to say - I love this more than anything I've done. When that changes I'll be gone but I hope I leave on a high note after putting smiles on your faces like you've put on mine :)

it's on the second floor (back door) above a pizza place west side of merivale (1010?). Mila and angela (angie) share. both great but no walk-ins. Make appointment. I'm certainly returning.

After being on Cerb for over 3 years now. I've met many women from Cerb, of all sizes and races and ages. I've become on-line friends with many of them thou chat and PM's. I've also read most of the threads here and have come to the conclusion that the women that are the most successful and that I have had the best sessions with are women who truly love their work. I've learnt that some of these women started being an SP or MA due to personal circumstances. But have learnt that they actually enjoy doing this type of work and planned on doing it for as long as they can. These women enjoy giving and receiving pleasure and companionship. And as long as you are a gentleman and have good hygiene they welcome with you with open arms. And for the allocated time, they focus their attention on giving you companionship and pleasure. And if the chemistry is there and connection made. a friendship may be form where repeat encounters may occur with each one getting better and better as the comfort level and trust level form between two consenting adults. I have been lucky and have many encounters with kind loving women that I have continued contact with. Like any other job. If you truly love your work, and are good at it, success will come to you. This is a job where you can offer companionship and pleasure to men that are lonely or just lack the physical intimacy that humans need due to unfortunate circumstances. I am truly grateful to have met so many women that love their work and hope to meet many more. It really has changed my life. xoxoxox to all of you.

Aside from their beautiful eyes, soft lips and silky sooooooooft skin, I am a boob lover so breasts it is for me :)

The lovely Layla was at CMJ for quite awhile, but this sexy lioness cannot be tamed and she is on the prowl working successfully as an independent. The ladies of CMJ miss her but we are proud of her accomplishments in building her own business. PM me with your contact info and I will gladly pass it along to her. Thanks so much, Holly

The gorgeous weather continues so that's always a highlight. I got to a Dr appointment with a surgeon today that was six months in arriving and now I have a 4-8 week wait for an MRI. That's okay as I am a patient man and we determined that depending on what an MRI shows the cure can be worse than the disease. LOL I'm sitting outside with a nice cold Keith's Red and watching my hummingbirds. It's like an airport here! Love the little guys. Oh, and my lilies and day lilies and all the many perennials are starting to burst into bloom. I'm going to be away a good part of August so will miss a lot of my flowers. Feel free to stop in and pick a bouquet!

I have made a decadent pork wellington with homemade puff pastry, 12 year old chedder, spinach, and drizzled with a demi glace

Tonight...I Am Making Shake'N'Bake Chicken Breasts (Cuz I Love Breast! :b lol ) With Rice & Carrots. My Motorola/Tapatalk 2

Been thru this; fortunately province scheduled a driving test b/c of his age. he did not pass. I think olders need get out with their car just to enjoy the ride so I always encourage them to get out real early Sunday morning b/c its so peaceful and hardly anyone on the roads.

I know a serious subject, not minimizing it, but a little humour RG

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Wow What A Great Post/Read Someguy! I Am An Sp & I Got Into This Business Way Before My Child. I Got Into The Business Because I Love To Have Fun! I Love Meeting New People & I Love Exploring New Adventures! "I Absolutely Love All Aspects Of This Business & That Includes Giving & Reciving." When The Connection & Chemistry Is There It Just Makes For A Better Encounter/Experience Together. Xo Jody

Agree with Luckyme, Asian Passion/Sugarland and Moonbay/OttawaSweetheart are the asian agencies that provide consistent top notch asian SP in Ottawa.

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Well I enjoy it so much and give myself so much into it that after a busy day because I really totally give myself so entirely I just sleep like a baby!! Of course as sexy Cute0aza0Button puts it not all days R dreams days but when it is gentlemen provide us so much with their laughter, kisses and the nice time they spent and give us and just have us fly away real high that oh wow who wants to say no I don't like that job!!! Barbara xxxxooo

maybe check and/or post in this area rather than the general area.. good luck! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=122

I take short notice appts all the time.. usually 1/2 hr to an hr notice is fine.. I'm always showered etc..and it takes me mere minutes to put on my makeup and an outfit.. but that's me :)

I Allow Short Notice... I Just Prefer That If It Is Short Notice... An Hr Or 2 In Advance Would Be Nice...But Am Open. My Motorola/Tapatalk 2

Hi bigboi82, this question is a little tricky for me because if a new client asking me that, I would say I'm Indy but I wouldn't necessarily say I'm alone, I've had my share of bad experiences with new clients and sometimes its better for him to think (not you) that I have someone . All my regular clients know now who I am . All I'm saying that there might be some other girls who prefers not too give much details until you establish a little trust. I hope this helps.

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This might be perceived as a bit of a hard ass position but nonetheless, its something I feel strongly about. Most people can identify with the fact that airline pilots are required to have regular testing both health (annuallly and over 40 every 6 months) and professional skills (semi annually). I think that it is only fair to ask that individuals in charge of 3 tons pieces of steel hurtling down the highway at speeds of 110 kph with up to 8 people on board need some sort of mandatory and regular testing as well.

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This is never an easy discussion.... but unfortunately it is often a necessary one... one that has to be started out of love for the other person. I went through this with my father who due to illness and age slowly lost his independence. When it came to his license the final decision by the doctor while not welcome was I think somewhat welcome... dad knew intuitively he should not be driving but wanted to delay the loss of this tangible sign of loss of independence as long as he could. In dad's case it was mom who asked the doctor and yes he was mad and upset when he list his licence... but not nearly as upset as he would have been if his driving had resulted in harm to mom.. his grandchildren or anyone else. it's never easy when we as children have to start caring for our parents....thus reversal of roles is however part of life and your dad will love you for the care you show him.

I would like to vouch for both CMJ and Angel's Touch as well. Both agencies are very well managed and with five star accommodations. The ladies I have had the pleasure to meet were most welcoming and I would recommend them just for these qualities alone. If you take a look in the recommendations area, you will see both places and the MA's that work with them are actively and highly recommended. Choosing is now the challenge and based on your preferences. Have fun! :)

it is called Hy-Tech use canada411 to find the number as you need to make appointment. 612.

Agree they should be re-tested every year. But what they do, at least in Ontario is a joke. It's every two years, and a written test only. But a written test doesn't test reflexes, awareness and so on. My mother passes the written test but should have her licence pulled. She's run reds, stop signs, illegal left turns, she doesn't focus on the road but looks at the "scenery" like buildings around her and then the car drifts into oncoming traffic. I absolutely won't be in the same vehicle when she drives and keep expecting a phone call, "your mother has been in an accident..." Her doctor should have her licence yanked RG

They obviously have no idea what really happened in Germany that night. Sad they can be so ignorant.

At one time called herself Bella, elly, many other names. frequent name changes, or no name at all, are a deal breaker for most.

Hmmm, I don't know how to say this without upsetting anyone. I get that MJL wanted to take some sort of action. I commend you for stepping up to the plate and filling (what you thought) was a gap in the discussion. However, I have to say that the major issue with the happy hooker narratives is when the anti-sex workers employ these arguments, "If you are so happy with your job why aren't you out and proud as a sex worker?" Well there are a lot of reasons why, the main one, criminalization. As a sex worker, if you are charged with any prostitution related charges, then you will not be able to cross the border. If you are a mother and you are outed as a sex worker, you may potentially lose your children or access to your children. If you are a sex worker and are working other forms of employment, you could lose your other forms of employment. If you are a sex worker and a student, you could potentially damage your future career--yes some sex workers only do this part time and to help fund schooling. If you are a sex worker and you volunteer with certain organizations (or want to volunteer with certain organizations), sometimes those require background checks and/or a "clean" criminal record. Some sex workers are alienated from their family/friends and/or their personal/professional relationships are harmed and they are pushed further to isolation and alienation. Not everyone can be out and proud because of the risk of criminalization which contributes to stigmatization, alienation, and isolation especially for the most marginalized sex work populations. There are so many other things you could lose access to if you are out and proud as a sex worker like access to equitable health care, access to housing, access to safety and security, access to social supports--this isn't just about a few sex workers who can afford all the nice things in life, plus happiness and more. While I get that the intentions were good and that someone wanted to have their story heard, that could have been done in many ways that does not feed into these anti-sex work narratives. The antis and the government HAVE already said that if you are safe and it was criminal before, then what is the problem with sex work STILL being criminal, As quoted by Hillyer, "In the sex worker's letter...if these people are already willing to give their information during this illegal activity, I am not sure why they would not under this new legislation." The site says, "a happy hooker is a safe hooker" and if this all that is needed, then I am certain that the antis will also say, "well, you don't have to have your work decriminalized for your safety then" and they already HAVE made this argument plenty of times--they always argue, "this is for the victims!" and this is what the happy hooker site contributes to--these happy hooker/victim narratives. The site basically says that sex work doesn't need to be decriminalized and supports the intent of the Bill, which is "to protect the victims and if you aren't a victim, then you don't have to worry! The Bill doesn't worry about you!" You can be a proud sex worker/hooker/whatever but when we feed into these larger discourses, we run the risk of hurting the case for decriminalization which is access to rights not access to happiness. I hope, Jessica, you realize that nobody is attacking you personally. I also hope what I said was clear and if you have any questions/comments/concerns, please do not hesitate to contact me or reply here.

Luv massage porn. First I really enjoy both giving and receiving a massage. The touch can be so sensual and relaxing at the same time. That is an amazing feeling. In porn it's also great to watch. What I like about some of the massage porn is the sometimes erotic and natural way that an intimate massage can extend and lead to sex. This is way more erotic than some of the traditional porn where it's rip off the clothes and lets get at it. The slow and sensual arousal which takes you from one stage of intimacy to the next is....well I need to catch my breath. Cub

A Picture is worth a thousand words :-) ahahaha Pic of my booty! I would also recommend Robyn from Angels Touch or even better :-) Me and her as a Duo on you ! xoxox

I'm fairly new here, and rarely post but I have been following this thread. I am not sure I agree with the consensus advice that's being given here. I will comment on two topics. The original question as to whether this is a good method to cope with loneliness, and the concept that this is a good training ground to learn to be with women. In my opinion I think the answer to both is no. If you are a person who feels very alone, and most of us have been there, seeing a lady under these false circumstances will likely make you feel worse in the end. There are two outcomes when you are going for that reason. You will either have a visit that doesn't meet your hopes and you will be left feeling more empty than before, or if you do fall into the fantasy you will find it difficult to cope without it and go through something similar to withdrawal. I really question the concept that this is a good training ground to learn to be with women. Learning is about trial and error, falling down and getting back up. Does a kid who can't sing improve by their mother telling them they are a star? It's the same concept, there is no learning to seduce a woman when her job is to tell you that you are sexy, and funny and the most charming man on the planet. It just feeds an illusion that will make you disappointed in the end. I have been down both roads, and believe that the best way to take advantage of this hobby is to enjoy the physical aspects of it as an escape, but avoid it if you emotionally need it. This is a business where a lady can offer you the opportunity to explore your sexuality, but its not a safe place to feed your emotional health. You will feel the high of the drug when you are with the lady, but the low afterwards can be difficult. This is just my opinion, the other side of the coin. No offense to the other contributors, but it read to me like a lady trying to seduce you to visit, and a guy trying to sell you on how awesome this drug is for him. If you are questioning it, and the people who know you question it for you, then maybe this isn't for you. Think hard and make sure you are prepared for all of the things it might bring up in you. Best of luck in whatever you decide. DeepStrut

Unfortunately we seem to think if loneliness as some kind of dreaded illness.... everyone can be lonely from time to time.... it not a lack of friends or people who care about you... you can be lonely even if you are in a great committed relationship with someone you love.... loneliness is for most of us a temporary state if bring where for that time we are craving a connection with others... that might be a sexual connection or an emotional connection. Let's not paint everyone who says they are lonely as damaged..... we all get lonely. Just my opinion

I spent a lot of time "doing the drill". Trying to find meaningful work to satisfy the mind, body and soul as well as meet obligations. Mostly that turned into a huge stress factor because, while I was good at it, I didn't "love" it. I always thought it would be cool to be a sex worker in some capacity but was too focused on the "normal" stuff to think much about it. I have friends in the industry who always said I'd be good at it. So, when I hit a crossroads a bit ago I said why not. Let's try something I love where I get to play by my rules. It's taken me awhile to establish myself for a variety of reasons but here I am, loving what I do, loving the people I meet and being true to myself even if that means I do things differently. For anyone who has ever took a look at my blog or read one of my stories or read something I wrote that I was passionate about, I think my love and need for all things sensual and sexual becomes very clear. I love to please, to entice, to pleasure and satisfy. I also love to explore. There is a whole lotta love for me in doing what I do and I thank everyone who has allowed me to do it *rawr*

In addition to those listed here are a few more that are reasonably priced, clean and sp friendly with regard to easy and discrete access, access to some after 12 midnight may require buzzing to get in but otherwise for daytime and evening play they're great. The chateau is rather pricey and rarely offers deals so any provider working from there may charge more to cover there additional costs. Chimo on St Laurent Albert at Bay Suites Radison Queen & Bay National Queen & Bay Extended Stay Cooper & Cartier Holiday Inn Cooper & Cartier Marriot Queen & Kent Indigo Laurier & Metcalfe These are outside the downtown core but also sp friendly and reasonably priced. Hilton Lac Lemay Ramada Casino Chateau Cartier Keep in mind though that Ottawa is a tourist destination so pricing and availability can be costly and difficult around certain festivals over the summer period.

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Of course they're going to say that. Fear mongering sells papers. And yes, it's always wise to be careful whether you're seeing an SP or someone in your personal life. In my humble opinion, you are at higher risk of contracting something from someone you pick up in a bar than from a reputable SP. I say this because I have heard of more "civilian" acquaintances who have contracted STDs over the past few years because they neglected to practice safe sex than SPs I know who get tested on a regular basis. My conclusions may not necessarily be scientific but they are true.