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I wasn't going to comment but I started thinking that SP might be reading this. So, to that lady I just want to say this, I'm sorry. I don't know how you feel right now but I would be embarrassed and insulted - even more so now that this thread has taken hold. If it is any consolation, this is the exception. Most men on here are sweet and understanding and kind (as you may know), I'm sorry that this experience wasnt a positive one. Nobody should ever treat a person in such an insulting manner. If you ever need to talk please know that there are so many of us that want to listen and help whenever we can.

How is this any different than a man doing DATY and the SP starting her period unexpectedly? Would you react the same way? She didn't know her period was starting (not all women have regular periods, FYI). This has happened before and honestly, no big deal. Mature men recognize that this is a fact of life and don't get all worked up about it and storm out and short a provider the money she's owed. I get the hygiene aspect, I do, but are you seriously trying to tell me this is worse than the cheese dick I've experienced where I had to literally swallow my own vomit to keep going? Let's be real here. One is a hygiene crisis and one is simply a fact of life. This seems to be an offense based on the fact that she didn't tell you she was ragging it. Sorry, none of your business. You're not owed a warning either. How an escort chooses to conduct her business is her business. Not all women can afford to take up to a week off of work. And I've sponged it tons of times in my six years of working. I'm sorry this happened to you, but in the grand scheme of things it's an anomaly.

I've been an escort for 10years and had the misfortune to start my period twice during a session..I've been extremely embarrassed but those 2 people were extremely understanding..while I can understand some men not been comfortable meeting an escort during her period and using sponge I can't help myself to think of a reverse situation where I had guys coming to an app knowing they would request pegging and remotely didn't bother to clean himself and had shit all over(this situation happened far more often you would think) A man walking in in my first years of escorting requesting rimming (which I no longer do because of this experience)going in shower to than me finding shit on his ass Never I embarrassed them but each time I have been disgusted Should I assume if it's only fair to notify the client of something that is happening monthly because we are women that men will notify me that I would be playing with shit..that I will taste pee when he expect a bbbj ...Walking in app knowingly know we will have intimate time? Is it because I get compensate for my time that a notification isn't happening on my end? If you feel it's only fair for you to know and decide I think it would be fair that same get disclose to me to help me decide if I want to book? We are humans on both end and some mishap can happen on both ends

I'm in total agreement with the last few posters, but would like to offer another point of view. I use a sponge during appointments, not because I am on my period, but because I have an IUD (and it has stopped my periods) and have found that some guests do not respect my boundaries when it comes to digits (deep, forceful ones are really not that pleasant at all), or that I've found when a gentleman is well-endowed or in a really good position to hit my cervix (or using really deep digits), that sometimes that force can trigger some bleeding. Also, vigorous digits, especially with someone who has not trimmed/filed their nails, can also cause tears in the vaginal tissue, which could also lead to bleeding. Just a thought. Point being: I think this should have been a discussion between you and the lady in question, not something made public, whether you intend to name her or not. As someone who has used sponges, I agree with previous posters that they do not just "fall out" from oral sex alone -- when tucked away properly, they are very very difficult to find sometimes, and often require some contortionist efforts to remove them.

After reading this thread for the last few days, I think most if not all the folks here (myself included) feel sorry for the SP in question. I have a feeling that the OP probably realizes that he could have been over reacting with what he said he did by the fact that he went back and edited out that particular para. When one encounters something unexpected like blood during a sex act, everyone could react differently including being shocked. I mentioned ( probably too hastily) in my earlier post (#7) that I was shocked too. But in actual fact, my cool head ;) prevailed in that I did not react hastily - I simply showed them ( the SPs) the stains. My experiences didn't involve sponge, by the way. The two ladies were actually more shocked and were very embarrassed. I comforted them, washed up and came back to continue the sessions (without certain activities obviously). I even posted recos to thank them for the overall very enjoyable sessions - without mentioning the incidents. My original donations stayed with them and I gave them a good tip as well. Reading the whole thread, I would say I've learned many new things. If I could summarise, these will be - many ladies have the need to work through their periods - a sponge could be used to prevent the flow and allow them to continue working - the consensus is that clients will like to be informed ahead of time - the time of month could sometimes arrive unexpectedly.. - and when it does, it should be handled with compassion since this is more like an accident and it is a natural biological process One last thing, to those who do not think we pay ladies to hang out, I am one of those who actually did and will continue to. I enjoy social times like going out for lunch, dinner, a stroll in the park, a bike ride and even skating and skiing.

I would like to express my sympathies as well for the provider that went through as a first encounter. I hope this has not discouraged her as it's a rare this happens. It's all uphill from here if it's any consolation. I'm not going to comment further on what should be disclosed to the client as it's been well discussed. There's a crucial part to this situation that has bothered me that I am going to mention to protect ourselves financially. Once a client has decided to stay he no longer has access to the donation. It sounds like she was given a cancellation fee that is only acceptable if he left immediately. That was not the case. It's a good idea to tuck the donation away in a safe place to protect ourselves from this kind of situation. It can be done discreetly after introductions. Unfortunately, it takes situations like this to learn from them and we should always be prepared. Especially when meeting someone for the first time.

Bottom line, don't try to save money on hotels. Go with well respected names that you can count on no matter what. Choose one or two , become members there are they will never let you down . As a lady that travels I want my hotel to reflect part of who I am and the sort of experience we are going to have. Walking in to a small room that is dingy is a huge turn off and will not attract the type of gentlemen I wish to visit with.

Ya. Okay. The Devil on the left shoulder won the battle over the Angel (I gave her lemon gin) on the right shoulder . One more social for the prairie hic !! Mr. cash guy Loneskater. Brinks is on its way with 3500 pennies. "Armed and Dangerous" ..... I believe John Candy and Eugene Levy have things under control !! ;)

I'm in the same boat as piano, don't know what I would do but hope that I would react in the same manner that many if the ladies have treated me during our time together. I'm a middle age man with a little guy that most can DT without gagging and not one lady has ever laugh, stare or snicker when they see me naked (can't say that my high-school buddies treated me with the same level of respect during shower time after gym class). On top of that, I've had some crazy shit happen such as loosing the erection between positions, having to run and urinate (yes, I gave junior a shower before returning), getting too excited and shooting prematurely and even a condom break. None of the ladies have ever lost it or overreacted, in fact they just went with it. For me, it was embarrassing when these things happened but got over it quickly because of the ladies' reaction. As for the money, I will not take the money back without consent. As soon as I decide to stay, I've committed to taking up the agreed amount of time and that is what I need to pay for. Therefore the money belongs to the lady at that point and taking any of it back without consent is theft in my mind. PS I added the words 'without consent' because shit happens and she may decided to offer money back. I still wouldn't take the money back unless it was a long multi hour session but cut short dramatically by her.

I usually have at least 4 and up to 8 different kinds of condoms, in different sizes. Some brands Larges and XLs are different than others. Durex XL for example, on the packages say XXL, what's that about? I have had Lifestyles Snug Fit, Ultrasenstive, Large, XL, and Skyn, and Trojan Magnum, Magnum XL, and Magnum thin (or whatever they are), and Durex regular and XL, and one brand that I have to replace the Snug Fit I can't buy in stores, Amorex regular. it is also a bit thicker, so good for those who are a bit sensitive. At every appt, unless i really know the client, I will take out at least 3 types ready. the Amorex, one regular size, and one large size. If i know them, i may be taking out the Durex XL or magnum. :) The other thing that is the responsibility of the sp is lube. You should always have it, and always use it. it is helpful to put a drop or two inside the condom, and have wipes on hand to clean your hands Or the area, after putting on the condom, in case you need them. It is really helpful if you make sure the lube inside is a warming one, adds more sensation with condoms. you never have to feel obliged to use someone else's condoms. This is your biz and your safety and your health, you are always 1000% in charge and in control. You can be polite and say, thank you, I have my own. And just leave theirs untouched. They can take them away with them if they wish. You can throw them away if you wish. The main thing as a new sp is to remember that you decide what you do and don't do, you tell them, they don't tell you, and once you have said no, no is the answer no matter how many times they may ask. You are not obliged to do something or charge something just because another sp does it or charges less, or goes over time. Rule #1, learn to say no. Rule #2 learn a polite way of saying time's up, time to go. Rule #3 learn an assertive way of saying, if you don't like it, let me show you the door. Rule #4, saying thanks, no, I don't drink, as your best and easiest way to avoid having them give you date rape drugs.

Venus Envy is awesome! :) They are super sex worker positive too! Very supportive of sex worker rights and the sex industry in general. I think we should support them back. Also, another one I really like is Aren't We Naughty on Merivale road. Very modern store, with a huge selection and wide variety of amazing goodies! :)

Normally I wait a few days to do a recommendation to think how to present it the best way, since this lady is still in town thought I would do this tonight. The lady I wish to give lots of compliments to is Maxime Elite, I had pre booked a two hour visit when she first advertised coming to Charlottetown, feeling a little frisky recently and after I read some other other reviews I decided to book Maxime for two visits. My two visits are now over, I now have a smile on my face that will last for a long time. Maxime's pictures are very real she is a very attractive lady, blonde hair with an amazing body, probably the nicest bum I have ever had the privilege to admire in so many positions. As I said Maxime is a beautiful woman, the quality she possesses that rocked me most in my two visits was how delightful of a person she is, she has a very pretty face with a million dollar smile all thorough your visit with unbelievable energy. In my mind I am thinking how lucky we are to have these amazing ladies come visit here on this small Island. As usual for the activities that happened in her room a visit is the only way you will find out how this young sweet lady can entertain you, all I can say you will not be sorrow. Maxime you are an amazing, sexy, gorgeous and very charming Lady, thank you very much for giving the Magician some very MAGICIAL memories, look forward to meeting you when you visit again:) Magician

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It has happened.. today I received a text from a guy's wife. I do not know who this person is.. she didn't tell me and I didn't ask. I don't know if I actually saw him and all I know is they was a texting history between us. Obviously she found it and saw the texts. I NEVER put the address in a text message. Never! I know I am probably preaching to the choir here but I will say it anyways. After you have seen an SP, PLEASE delete the texting history from your phone. I do not need these kinds of problems and its one of the BIGGEST reasons why I keep a separate incall location apart from my own residence and do not give out my incall address by text. I have to tell each and every client this when they ask why I will not text the address which seems so convenient for them. Then it actually clicks. If this sensitive information gets into the wrong hands like it did today, it could have caused a lot of problems. When a client coming to see me and asks for the address via text, I do not know the person who is texting me and like the situation above, if it were to get into the wrong hands, it wouldn't be pretty. Secondly, a random texter is a stranger to me and I am aware of all the tricks someone will try to play if they want to remain a secret agent type. I am onto all of it. I am paranoid when it comes to my safety and have turned down many appts because I got a bad vibe or they didn't follow my protocol when following up on meeting in person. Needless to say I am very annoyed with this unknown person at the moment and their lack of discretion which has ruined my day. I do not need this b.s. or some angry wife telling me I have ruined someone's marriage. She got an earful from me and I told her that the fact that her husband is contacting ladies is something she should talk to him about. Trying to put the onus on the SP is just a way to blame someone and I'm not having any of it. Someone else's marriage is none of my business and it is not my concern. We are offering a service. I don't judge clients in regards to their marital status but people should be discrete about in their own actions. She did back down after I became snarky with her and I think she realized she shouldn't push it with me. I will not back down. I don't care if it's someone's wife attempting to harass me because it's not my problem. Even if I knew who this person was, I wouldn't admit it. I would never give up a client because I am discrete to a fault. Unfortunately this individual didn't do the same for me. It is the client's responsibility to get rid of any info or dealings he has had with an SP. The SP should not have to suffer as a result because a person was careless. I am very upset about this. Now I have to ramp up my protocol even more. I am experienced in dealing with these situations but they are few and far between. Thank-you to the gentlemen who do take the time to delete any contact with an SP and cover their tracks. Please delete texting and browsing history off computer or cell phone to avoid getting burnt! Also, think twice about asking for the address by text. Lastly, delete it off your GPS. It will save us all a lot of trouble in the end.

She was very very thankful as a potential client had made the suggestion to stay there and she was totally unfamiliar with local "business friendly choices " . I did provide more suitable options which she took advantage of and she was able to change early enough not to lose a deposit. the original place is 40 years old rents by the week and month-well you get the picture !

That summer seems to be going away faster than usual :(

You could bring a magnum of champagne instead ;)

I have very sensitive skin and although a day or twos shadow looks really hot especially on a dark skinned man its an ouchy for me. Beards AOK but if you want passionate loving and kissing freshly shaven or a nicely maintained beard makes your mileage go far.

Beards are definitely the prevalent style these days. I go back and forth between being clean-shaven and sporting a closely trimmed beard, and have since university actually. Eventually I get bored of one look or the other. Actually, I'm most likely to be clean-shaven if I'm booking an encounter soon, as am a somewhat eager fan of DATY and DATO and don't want to ruin the experience if a lady's skin is too sensitive for a beard. I think how fashionable beards are goes in cycles. I suspect you'll find in a few years they won't be as common again. There's actually a theory about it called "negative frequency". The idea is that the opposite sex will often find appealing a trait that is less usual. So in the case of facial hair if everyone is clean-shaven, a person with a beard may actually garner more attention...which leads to more and more people having beards until it is actually the clean-shaven face that is rare and so stands out more and so is attractive. I'm sure if you Google "negative frequency beards" you'll find a bunch of results if that's the type of thing you're curious about.

I keep all sizes on hand up to XL. I also have latex-free condoms and the female condom on hand. However, it is a good idea for the gent who is larger (or smaller than average) to bring a few of his own on the off-chance that I've run out and haven't had a chance to re-stock my supplies. Because smaller or larger than average gents are not the norm, I keep fewer of those sizes on hand because I hate having to throw out large numbers of expired condoms. Which means I can also run out of them quicker should I have a spate of large dudes call me. Again though, most escorts (I think) would prefer to supply their own condoms to ensure that they're stored properly and that someone hasn't tampered with them. In which case, it might be a better idea to for the gent to ask beforehand if the provider has a specific condom brand on hand.

I haven't heard that term since grade 5 sex education. Except the school nurse called it the curse.

I read this thread very late last night and I wanted to reply with a clear mind...I guess you have a right to be disgusted...everybody reacts differently to that situation... There is something though that bothers me and really ticked me off here is that you took the donation and left 40$! Thats what bothers me the most...I'm sure there will be lots of different opinions on this issue but if you decide to leave because you are disgusted with the situation, the donation should stay there...yes maybe she should have been upfront about it but, for me, its not a reason to take the donation and barely leave Pocket change... Personally i do work with sponges ( for what I have left of period lol) and there is no way you could ever tell coz they are really deep in there. But yes I started my period many times during sessions...that i could not predict... Just my opinion... BJ

Hi have a thing for Indian (South Asian) girls... so without further adooo.. Part 1 Zara at CMJ. Wonderful experience. She is mixed race - South and East Asian - Zara has awesome features and does still appear, at least to me, to be of Indian heritage... thereby taking me back to my youth and my old backpacking days! : ) Amazingly, Zara has turned me into a bit of breast-man lately. Give me a spank-able ass any day and I'll spend 24 hour there.. but for whatever reason Zara's boobs had me mesmerized and I had LOTS and LOTS of fun playing with her front, back and behind. Looking forward to her return from vacation!

Saw Jayne's ad on BP and one word came to mind - hawt! (search BP for Jay or Jayne to find her). We exchanged a couple of texts but our schedule didn't match. However I really wanted to see her so asked for her to contact me the next time she was in town. Last week she contacted me and we setup a time for this week. She was very professional and courteous to deal with. I tried to find other reviews on her but couldn't find anything but as my offspring says - YOLO so I went ahead and saw her. I was quite glad I did. When I first saw her I thought she was even prettier in person. She has long dark her dyed a very slight red, deep brown eyes, a very pretty face and a very petite body. She was a bit shy at first but as the action progressed she got a lot less shy. She is practically the definition of a spinner as we switched from CG to mish with me just lifting her up and swinging her onto her back. Oral was great - on her she was clean and responsive and on my she had great technique. Overall I was deeply satisfied. She says she comes here almost every week but only needs to advertise once as the one ad generates a ton of calls. I can also believe that she has lots of repeats. I know I plan on it.

Feel a bit award posting this but I think it's the best way to go. Never tried "speaking greek" but I am curious (no more no less). This service is not offered by every provider (or listed when it is). Looking for recommendations please. Thank you

How when calling a company they ask you to type in your number to access your account and then when an agent finally answers his first question is 'Can I please have your phone number?'

Would you please make sure, next time, that you give them the right address. My neighbor is sure pissed off at me after they dumped all those pennies in her swimming pool! Guess what I am doing the next few days!

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Would it be rude or impolite when someone new is visiting your town and they mention their hotel choice and you know it's somewhat low class to tell them so ? I know as a travelling businessman I'd like to know if my choice was a poor one. In this case I asked if they had stayed there previously and were familiar with the hotel or not and didn't get a reply, in a second email I mentioned she is a ten potentially staying in a two star at best that most like me would not have a " reason " to be seen in or around. It may be that she cannot change or is travelling and has not been able to check her mail or maybe I offended her I,m not sure. The one thing I am sure about is that there are substantially better choices for the same or similar price - so speak up or shut up ?

me too me too please :) lol

Sadly will have to miss again. September is looking like a gong show for me!!! I may be away most of the month.

And the hits just keep on a'coming! Having just put my mother to rest, my oldest brother revealed he has throat cancer. Aggressive treatment begins soon. I told him he is required to get better. I have a strict quota of one funeral a year and this year's been taken. Fingers crossed....

Mini me magnum...lol

Maybe I should bring a Magnum along, it's for pleasure seekers after all http://www.magnumicecream.ca/Home.aspx Oh sorry it's not that type of Magnum is it LOL :-) Sorry, couldn't resist RG

I am pretty much a repeat type of pest.....so if I bring a Magnum... I would get LOL.....really ?? LOL ... ;)

I too have a vaginal intolerance to latex, so supplying my own works well for me. Lifestyle brand SKYN are latex free and come in regular and large. I always have both. It's just what works for me!!!

Poor Lee Richards, he is harassed constantly. Surprised he talks to us at all. I appreciate his good nature as all ladies do here I am sure. Thank you Lee for your patience!

A big thank you to the gentlemen who have PMed and emailed the information I was looking for :) In case anyone is looking for the same information in the future, I will post the best 3 charters that offer the service: Kings County Municipal Airport-Waterville, Annapolis Valley A small 4 seater is available: http://www.flygfc.com/sight_seeing.asp From the airport The smallest plane is a 5 seater: http://www.maritimeair.com/navajo.php The smallest plane is an 8 seater http://www.palcharters.com/aircraft.asp?ID=37 Time to see if they fly to the Chignecto area and the Advocate Harbour on the Bay...

I grew a beard in the last year and everybody says I look better with it.

Rosie in Gatineau offers this and omg she is one super super nice lady. well worth the extra distance driving. I always ask a SP if she has greek on the menu and some do and some do not. Some charge extra and those that do not like doing it want to charge a lot extra.

I kind of miss it... I'm wondering if anyone would like to see me dance again? I'm thinking friday afternoon/evening at the Nuden as they don't require girls to schedule 3 days. What do you think? you can always text at 613 415 55 * 33

I am not going to comment on the main issue at hand but I will address the following: Nobody wants to pay "any of us" just to "hang out"? lol Actually, just so you know, and speaking from experience, the so-called legal loophole you are talking about is called GFE companionship which many ladies offer, myself included; many gentlemen like to partake in experiences that involve a whole lot more than just a list of acronyms with sex acts while spending time with a lady. Some even schedule social dates that don't even included any intimacy. Imagine that ;)

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Ha !!!!!! Well what didn't fall out of my head in the shower 20 some years ago now gets Mach III'd I use really dull scissors around the bits n pieces and I still have HAIRY CHEST LIKE ANIMAL !! :) Chicks either dig it .... or dig in and run like hell !!! ;)

Much of this industry revolves around the revelation of things that are generally considered private, from the revealing photos and self-descriptions posted my many (if not most) providers, to the very detailed reviews and recommendations posted by their clients, to the questions and answers about what may or may not take place during an encounter. This doesn't strike me as being any worse than a lot of other stuff that's just accepted as part of the way the business operates. But then, I'm a guy and nobody's paying much attention to my body on a daily basis, so I may simply not understand... Fair enough. And when it works well and the client is none the wiser... no harm, no foul. But there's a chance that things might not go so smoothly, and in this case having been up-front about it would probably have been the better option. It's up to each individual lady to decide for herself what the chances are of things slipping, and what the consequences might be, and therefore whether or not to disclose things in advance. Perhaps guys who feel very strongly about this should mention it when booking so that they can delay until next week if need be, but that opens the door to a whole other pile of awkward... Three things on this. The first is to simply note that there are some folks out there who don't deal with blood at all well, irrespective of its origin. Second, there's the health angle. No encounter is risk-free from this point of view, and we all make our own decisions about what level of risk we are or are not prepared to accept... but I don't think most of us consider blood-exposure when doing so. Saliva, sweat, semen, vaginal mucus? Yes, all the time. But urine and feces and blood are not things that most of us would expect to encounter unless something had been explicitly arranged. And of those, blood is by far the most efficient at transferring pathogens. It opens up a whole load of new things to worry about, including many things that aren't usually considered STIs. It doesn't strike me as unreasonable to be unhappy if a health-risk that you hadn't expected is suddenly thrown at you, no matter what sex you are or which side of the client-provider relationship you're on. Finally, to quote the OP: "I felt something touch my lip I moved back to find a bloody spunge slipping out of the ladies vagina." I've never had anything remotely like that happen to me, and I can't honestly say I'd react gracefully if it did. Reactions to this sort of thing are likely to be immediate, visceral, and not the result of some well-thought-out reasoning. It's not clear to me that calling the OP immature is either reasonable or helpful.

Well said Miss Lane. I'd say also that the SP disclosing the fact in advance would probably be best, to allow the client to make an informed choice to receive the service, which could alleviate any potential self-consciousness on the part of the SP to provide her time and service. Consent is everything.

Ok -- there are a few things that jumped out at me as I read this thread, both the OP post and the comments. 1. A woman needs to disclose when it's that time of the month? That seems awfully private, and extreme. 2. Women in this industry REGULARLY, and SUCCESSFULLY, work through their period with things such as sponges or soft cups. It happens ALL the time. 3. How mortified this poor woman must have felt by the completely immature way you reacted. Clearly the sponge became dislodged. And you know what? Menstruation is a fact of life. She didn't know that happened, or mean for it to. She's likely worked through her period COUNTLESS times with no issue. 4. Asking women to not work during their period is ridiculous. 5. Taking the donation and insulting her further by leaving $40?!!?!! It was an unfortunate incident that wasn't planned. It was dealt with poorly by you, and that poor woman wasn't given a chance to correct the situation -- and then ALSO had to lose out on her pay for that booking? Complete and utter disrespect. SO much wrong with this!!!!!!

You sure it wasn't Daisy? :-) Daisy is a recent recruit, and very welcome she is too. What a smile! Additional Comments: I don't think Maude has been at Barb's for a very long time, and I don't think you could describe Maude without mentioning boobs and amazing athleticism. I'm confident it was Ava.

I've seen her several times. If you're a boob lover then you'll definitely want to pay her a visit. They're amazing. She has a really cute French accent too. Pics are hers.

It's Sindy. Formally Sin Cindy. Yes, I am in Toronto now.