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I have offered this advice privately to a few newbies and have been recently asked by an SP to offer the suggestions to the community at-large. Apparently, some of you need a refresher course... :roll: (I also expect that you are like me -- if you are considering meeting an escort who has no presence on CERB then you have done your proper homework to see if she's genuine or a scammer, and decided to go ahead.) Step 1. Be clear in what you are looking for (services, time). Be careful never to solicit. Example A applies if she has not stated her rates on her Backpage ad: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. If you are free for a HH incall at 2 p.m., please tell me your HH rate. Example B when her rates are already quoted: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. Can I book you for a HH incall at 2 p.m.? At this point, she will reply saying she doesn't do a service, she is only free at a time later on, or might not respond at all. Let's say she replies like this: Hi hunnie. CBJ only. I start at 3.30. HH 140, H is 200. Step 2. Make the booking and always prompt her to acknowledge by asking the question. Example: I'm OK with CBJ. 140 for HH is OK too. Please book me for 3:30 p.m. for HH. OK? Let's say she responds like this: OK hunnie. C u then. (At this point you have technically booked her in just 2 text messages! Good for you!) Step 3. Now, if you are within 1 hour of your booking, it is acceptable to ask for her location like this: Thanks for accepting my booking. What is your hotel or address? However, a lot of escorts do not like giving out their location if you have booked a few hours or a day in advance. Let her know that you will follow-up, like this: Thanks again, we are confirmed 3:30p.m. for HH. I will text you 1 hour before to ask for your location. Bye for now. (Later on you will text her like this: Hi, we have a booking for 3:30 p.m. Please tell me your hotel or address.) Once you arrive at her location, expect to text her again for her room number (if she's at a hotel), or for her buzzer number and suite number (if she's at an apartment). These same general rules work well if you choose to arrange your date over the phone. Escorts don't want to make conversation with you or answer a lot of questions. Be direct. Get booked. Get laid. Simple. Cheers!

I think with C36 it'll be dangerous to start talking/texting/emailing about money for services. Keep talk/texts/emails to money is for time and companionship, nothing about sex for money A rambling RG

Started with Barbs at 4:00 pm. A few ladies already there that early among them Paris (cute blonde), Brandy (cute blonde), Vanessa (fair skinned brunette), Joy (Tiny ebony), Sabrina (tiny ebony with dyed pink hair) and a couple of others. Had my late lunch or early Supper at 4:30 and a few dances with Ebony Joy (open minded for Barbs standard and she dances at Pigale evenings) and after I saw all the ladies on stage I decided to leave just after 5:00 pm. Unlike previous weekends Jenny (the cerb popular tall blonde) was absent today!!. My two favorites (Hazel (the very kissable cute short hair fair skinned brunette) and Nikki (the pretty faced fair skinned brunette) both reviewed in Barbs thread) were both absent as well!!. Asked the Barbs DJ about Hazel's working days. Will go back soon to see Hazel. Arrived at Playmates around 5:30 (too early for Playmates). Ashley (early starter, slim brunette) on stage) and a few ebony ladies walking around. Hayley (the high mileage tinny cute blonde) and Teasy (the fair skinned cute faced with dyed red hair) (both reviewed in Playmates thread) were absent today again!!!! The Blonde Kim (sexy kitty fair skinned blonde, a bit on over weight side) arrived just before 6:00 but it was time for me to head to another bar. Arrived at Taboo around 6:30 pm. About a dozen dancers (mostly ebony ladies) and half a dozen patrons. More patrons arriving after 6:30 but most don't stick around for long. No stage dance until 7:30 (no wonder arriving patrons leave soon after arrival). Layla (the high mileage very cute fair skinned young girl), Ginger (high mileage large framed natural red head) and Ruby (the very fair skinned, high mileage small boobs natural redhead), all reviewed in Taboo thread) were all absent today!!!!!. I stayed until 7:45 as I was waiting for Pigale to open. Sabrina The very cute faced fair skinned very passive/shy brunette, who is reviewed in Taboo thread) arrived at 7:30 but was taken by another patron soon after coming out of changing room so I decided to leave to Pigale. Arrived at Pigale just after 8:00 pm. About half a dozen young patrons sitting around the stage and another half a dozen at tables. However there was stage dances one after another even with low number of patrons (unlike the other strip bars). Soon after 8:30 patrons started coming in teams. by 9:00 the bar was crowded. Ladies walking around and approaching patrons for dances. I was approached half a dozen times myself but targeted a young lady with a very pretty face (I am very selective on looks). Her name was Mila (from Ottawa). Not very high mileage but tall brunette with very pretty face and slender sexy body. Small boobs though. Two dozen or so dancers (none with fake boobs though so this is a change from the past for Pigale) and about 50 or so patrons and more coming. The number of dancers and patrons were increasing exponentially after 9:30. Had a second Supper (late Supper) at Pigale. No comparison with Barbs. Much better food at barbs for sure. Just before 10:00 it was too crowded and I decided to leave. ET.

And people have to understand that it is and always has been a possibility, bill C-36 or not.

I'm on Cerb, Terb, and Merb, and they all seem to be quite different, but each are useful in different ways. I was actually skeptical about joining Cerb for the longest time, since it seemed sort of like an exclusive club you need to be on the VIP list to get into. After joining on a whim, I realized how wrong I was, and how lovely and respectful everyone, both men and SP's are on here. I haven't really met many people from here..I think only one person? But from the ones I've chatted to, and just reading the threads and recommendations, everyone just seems to be very supportive of each other, which I find really beautiful, because that's so hard to find being in this business. Terb is..well, a whole other ballgame. It certainly has it's perks, since there are a lot of SP's trying to scam or rip people off, and it's good for the men to be able to share experiences such as that with each other, and I think that negative reviews can be a good thing as well, since if you take it as constructive criticism, it can help someone improve in areas where they may be lacking, such as communication, or overall friendliness, or rushing, etc. The only problem I've found with this board though(at least mainly in the Ottawa area I find), is that a large portion of men on there are malicious, nasty, and downright mean. I feel like I'm back in high school with all of the catty girls when reading through that board these days. And the thing is, there could very easily be men lying in their reviews, and yet the guys will pounce on anything negative as a reason to boycott an SP. I actually also know that some agencies will make deals with the men on here, that in exchange for a good review for a girl, the guys will get a discounted session, which isn't a very honest review in the end, since the SP may be very different than the men are painting them out to be. I've very rarely read anything on there that actually speaks as if the SP's are actual human beings worthy of respect. I do have to say though, it provides me my daily entertainment! Or is that wrong to say..? Merb seems to be the same as Terb, though not as exciting unfortunately! There does seem to be way more positive reviews than negative, but that could very well be because there's a lot of good SP's in Montreal? Hard to say.. All-in-all, each board serves a purpose and it's good in way to have that variety there. Posted via Mobile Device

I've looked at the other erb sites and will not participate on them. Too much fighting Imo. I love cerb because it's a place where providers and hobbyists can interact in a civilized and adult fashion. I have friends on this site.

To the OP: I think you got your point across succinctly. However, to add to it - it's to stress that if/when the lady accepts your booking request, that you follow her protocol to securing/confirming the appointment. For example, in my case, I do not finalize any bookings by text or email. The client MUST call me from an unblocked number I can call back if necessary. Part of my screening to hear the person's voice and chit chat a bit as intuition plays a big part in whether I want to see them. I give them a general idea of where I am located. Then I will ask that they confirm at least a half hour before the scheduled time so I know they are on their way. Then I will direct them to a designated place to park. When they get there, they need to call for the street address. I will be moving away from answering explicit requests by text or email as I do not want any text message or email trails out there. I have no problem discussing things by phone because it's doubtful LE is going to wiretap my phone. I think people need to relax a bit and wait and see how things are going to pan out with the new bill. In-calls were technically illegal and even agencies were offering them and the police have basically overlooked that for years unless there were problems. So why all of a sudden would they be listening in to two people's private conversations. I am not concerned that much will change. I am quite adept to change and have no problem adapting to whatever I need to do to keep myself and my clients safe.

Carrie, although Lisbeth provides good pointers, I would highly discourage you to use the method quoted above because A) a lot of potential clients will use this to circumvent your basic screening process B) will use it just to get a look at you and talk to you even though they have no intentions of booking C) in my personal opinion, in general, it's a total waste of time D) you will end up drinking a lot more coffee than your body can tolerate and/or that you care to ;) I could add a few more valid reasons but I'll leave it at that.

Also, as has been explained to these guys MANY times, what is LE hold on the sp? she can legally advertise, she can legally host incalls, so what exactly does he think can be held over her head as a potential threat in order to cooperate with LE to do this? This is a level of paranoia and fear mongering that has absolutely no place in this discussion or in the terms of the C36 itself This kind of paranoia is designed to create issues now for all the established sps as well as any new ones, imo, and completely pointless and without merit.

And what is interesting about this comment is that it is presumed and assumed that trash talking is not just permitted, but encouraged on all the other sites, even the ones promoted as most friendly lol. It should be noted that p/t/m erbs are all the same board admin/owner. If they are communicating amongst each other, that should not really be a big surprise, after all. p erb is simply t erb for out west. Same guy to be contacted if you want to send a message to the admin. This site is what it is due to moderation. no one is undoing the moderator/admin mandates, or permitting hostility. This kind of moderation goes a long way in explaining why certain types of people, who are active on all those other sites, show up here and either leave shortly after, or rarely participate. When you are an aggressive, trollish, baiting, lying, trash talking poster, you have no place on this site. And that is the number one reason you will find more sps participating on this site over any other, regardless of any amount of business they might get. I've seen a dozen of the sps who are very active members of cerb, never or rarely posting on even their own reviews on other sites. That alone tells a big story. Guys come here because if they post a good review, they get a thank you from other guys and from sps. They do the same post elsewhere, they get trashed and attacked. Not exactly hard to figure out the differences, or the reasons why this site tends to have more active members.

I don't think the risk of this behavior increases because of this new law. If you were dealing with reputable SP'S. Just my opinion

When making a booking and telling me you don't want FS so you should get a deal. Your paying for my time not what we do. It still takes the same amount of time to prepare. I'm not a menu girl. Please don't ask us how much for this or that. It doesn't sit well.

I've seen other hobbyists make reference to sps telling authorities who their clients are and really don't understand where this is coming from. Where is the logic of this? She makes no money from this, looses her clients and can't make new clients. Why would she do this? I sure as hell would never "help" the authorities get prosecutions under this law.

If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

well looks like im her 1st to give a reco for this hot little blonde :) Khloe & I exchanged PMs a few times over the weekend. She requested that I call the spa to book my time, and I did. I arrived a few minutes early, Khloe greeted me at the door in sexy lingerie. she looked stunning. she guided me to the room, I got undressed, and a few minutes later she arrives. we took a nice shower together to start, then it was on the table for the massage. we chatted about many different things, she is very polite, and friendly, and her massage skills are awesome. halfway through it was time for the flip. got some great bodyslides, and it seems the time flew by so quickly we were just about done. as I stated before, she is a hot little blonde, an ass that wont quit. I plan to see her again. thanks again Khloe :)

"Are you open now?" What am I? A convenience store? Lol. Some of the things I've been asked over the last few years, I just shake my head and can't help but to laugh now. This came from an SP friend of mine... Him: Are you available? Her: Yes Him: I dont want to pay. Fun is free Her: Would you like to go to work and not get paid by your boss because he thinks you enjoy your job soooo much? Him: No but having fun should still be free. Her: Well I guess you can't argue with stupid Regardless of whether or not someone enjoys their job or not, they are still entitled to be paid. While many SPs enjoy what they do, it is how they make their living. Never confuse her with enjoying her job that she would see a client off the clock because she enjoys it so much. We are also like everyone else. We have financial responsibilities, many women have children, etc. Some people attempt to confuse those lines where it is already apparent to begin with. Posted via Mobile Device

:biggrin:Can we take a number ??

Thanks everyone, I did go ahead with my first appointment on Friday and had a good time. It takes quite the leap to get over that initial shock... :)

I travel a fair bit and have used all these boards depending on where I am but I've never really thought about the differences. I live in TO but I do find that I'm on cerb more often just to check in see what's what. I use the other boards to get info but I come to Cerb to just for fun.

It's YMMV of course, but try some of the girls at Angels Touch/Paradise. I could recommend SabrinaR, but she's not everybody's body type.

Just goes to show, one mans fantasy is another mans nightmare. :P Just kidding! Hope your fantasy comes true someday!

MASSIVE difference. I have use all of them because I tour the country from time to time. Cerb is really friendly and SP are really accepted. But it is a recommendation not a review board which could make a difference Terb: Brutal as hell. I have to use it because I am base in Toronto and that's where I get the most of my business. People are mean like no tomorrow Merb: Not as bad as terb, but a lot of cheap people. Bitching in French and English. Perb: friendliest of the t/m/p board. Caerf: the most friendly board out there, not as active as terb, but guys seriously thanks each other for the reviews and community seem good. Business wise it doesn't seem to give me a lot of hit on my website, but heck it's free for indy SP to advertise hope this help!

I don't have a lot of experience with the other sites, but it seems to me that the main difference is that cerb is a recommendation board, not a review board. Negative comments are not welcome here. This makes for an environment that is much more welcoming to the sps themselves. Keeping the bashing away means we can have more open and meaningful discussions. Nobody wants to hang around in a crowd where there is constant bickering, or where they are getting bad mouthed by someone with an axe to grind. Just my thoughts on the subject.

Sorry if this has been posted already, I did a quick scan and didn't see it. Police released the suspects image as they believe there may be other victims out there. Ladies please take a look. http://toronto.ctvnews.ca/arrest-made-in-death-of-sex-trade-worker-1.2056524

Well said Angela! Took the words out of my mouth:) I can also reiterate, that perhaps you are asking too many questions of a personal nature with her? I too, get very uncomfortable with that, and it could cause a small wedge between us. Keep conversation fun and lively, with humor and yes some serious chats is intriguing as well. But if you begin to dive into her personal relationship questions, such as " well doesn't he mind that you do this? Or " how to hide it from your kids?" well it would defiantly a loss of romance and adventure for the lady. One element many men miss, is that most ladies, when preparing for our date we switch into out alter ego. Much like an actor would. I call it " Sophiafied" lol...So by getting into deep personal questions, I loose my alter ego and get into my "me" mode and then I find it difficult to jump back into the sexy, seductive creature that I created for "Sophia" It is not a lie of who we are, but a more pronounced version of our sexy side. Another aspect to be an escort, is that for the most part we are givers by nature. This means, we much rather you spill your stress and worries on us if you need to talk about things in your life that are upsetting for you. Often lending an ear and shoulder if needed. I have had many of my dear clients unload their worries on me. Some heartbroken and shed a tear. But as a professional, I would never do this to a client. Never would I unload my inner most vulnerabilities. Because, we are here for YOU, you are the center of our attention and focus during our time together. So why do we all that? Well for my ownself, I truly love my work, and although "Sophia" is an alter ego, she is still another version of who the real me is. So in staying true to my real self being a giver it is not just a façade. I have a friend, the poor guy is so sweet and nice but always becomes the "friend or just like a brother" from most ladies he meets. But you see, when he meets ladies he wants to dive into their ways of thinking. Becoming like a confidant to them, helping them threw issues.....then before you know it, he missed the mark on when to make the move on them, and now is viewed" oh your just like a brother to me". So as you can see it also can happen in the "real world" too. But in our professional mutually beneficial escort relations, it can happen much more quickly to loose that moment. And that's when you begin to feel like your being "used" or vis versa. There certainly times, even with a good provider that chemistry just doesn't seem to be there. Not much can be done about that but try to enjoy the time and move on. And certainly there are providers that will make you feel like just a wallet rather then a man, that is a live and learn scenario. Maybe think of it this way, when you book time with a lady, think of it as your "man's spa day". It is just a retreat for you to treat yourself. Nothing more then a way to relax and have that human contact.

I think this may have been mentioned before, but nothing turns me off more then when the guy can clearly tell I'm enjoying myself and stops to say "you should be paying me for this!" or when they're leaving, "I'm going to see you again, but I get a discount next time!". Well thanks for killing the mood, jeez :P Also, when they send a message at about 5 or 6 in the morning, and since I'm very much not awake at that time, by the time I'm up a few hours later I've received a bunch of "???", "hello?", "did I do something wrong?". Posted via Mobile Device

Crackerz, book Emily J or Rebecca. Or if some other girl, make it clear when texting her exactly what you want. In my experience, the vast majority will tell you right away what they are willing to do, and most follow-up unless you are not clean or have some sign of a disease (which sounds extremely unlikely in your case)

I had the great opportunity to see this lovely lady today. I have heard of her before, and of how popular she was in Toronto. But only after I saw her today with my own eyes and had experienced first hand her exemplary service level that I truly could not understand why she still does not have a single recommendation here in Ottawa. The ever-helpful phone girl Candise was right - "this is why big names don't usually want to come to Ottawa", she said. Mona has a lovely face - the type and features that I really like. She has a wondefully-looking and nicely-proportioned lovely body with silky long hair. To say that she's a model-like is not too far-fetched. She appeared reserved and quiet at first as this was our first meeting ( her English is also limited). But, these reservation and quietness soon would disappear as we progressed further into our session. To prepare for our SF2, she neatly folded my clothing and underwear and put them nicely on a chair. The shower was thorough in that she cleaned each and every inch of my body - the most thorough I had ever experienced with a SP. Having read her ad., I had an idea what she was planning to do to me when we got back to the bedroom. :icon_wink: But, I had a different idea! To her surprise, I motioned her to lie down on the bed instead where I started to give her an erotic massage. Now.. the little moans began as I moved my hands slowly up and down her lovely body and stopping only briefly at the erogenous zones. The moans got louder and the twitching of her body and the arching of her back started as I began to put my lips, tongue and fingers to use. To see how much she enjoyed what I was doing to her almost put me over the edge. After pleasing her for a while, she was eager to return the favour. Her oral skills were also exceptionally good.... I will stop here - suffice to say that I had an extremely enjoyable time with this lovely lady. I was left with such weak knees that I had a hard time walking downstairs to the parking lot! :biggrin: But...I left with a big smile on my face too! I will definitely try to see her again before she leaves Ottawa.

Sometimes maybe we don't mention it but what would you find more discreet? Parking in a driveway or visitor parking or parking down the street and walking up to a house/apartment? If you park in a designated area, it looks like you belong! It looks like you are visiting and if (and I mean IF) someone approached you (highly unlikely) you could say you are visiting a friend. In my opinion, you are more likely to stand out and risk such questions if you are acting suspicious, which odd parking habits illicit! Think!!!

Also, the risk of being arrested for public solitation. I would never meet a potential client in public. If they are not comfortable giving you the information you ask, move on. The gems are there. Don't let anyone push you to break you rules because they are uncomfortable.

I was going to say... I actually am completely nervous to answer any email with these abbreviations.... In fact this kind of email I may answer to, but I know it won't go anywhere since there is absolutely no information as to who this gent is at all.. danger!!

Great post and review !!

Here is the link http://ottawa.en.craigslist.ca/ths/4717358040.html or refer to the thread New Nepean Girl?

Thank you! I am on Caerf but I do not post there so much. But I am really enjoying CERB! and I have to agree with you about TERB.. wow do I ever get awful emails from horrible guys on that site and the forums are very difficult to participate as a provider because it seems like just a bunch of college jocks bromancing about the poon they are probably not really getting.

I used urbandictionary.com to figure out all these acronyms but I have to admit I really dislike using them and with this new bill passing in December, I really hope everyone stops using them.

This is really the only one of the "erb" boards that I am active on. I do have an account on the perb boards but even though I am in BC, that board is really more about the Vancouver/ Victoria/ Kelowna areas and there isn't any advertising or reviews for my neck of the woods. A little bit in central BC but not much otherwise so I find that I am more active in the Alberta boards (CAF). That is where most of the touring SPs are for my area so that is who I converse with more. I'm not as active here as I am there but I do like the positive attitude and mutual respect that this community offers. I like the people here and it seems that my meager contributions are appreciated. It's not a versus thing, I just find something I like and stick with it.

Oh my goodness, the difference is huge. I tried with merb because I'm in Montreal but the hostility is palpable- between the men and the ladies, and between the men themselves. I never felt like a human being on there. It is very graphic and cold. Cerb is simply this: warmth in my heart. It is so lovely and encouraging and we treat each other with humanity and respect. I have to say that the men on cerb are some of the best men I've ever met, even outside the business. These are men I wish existed more in the real world :) Yay cerb! Thank you for bringing heart, happiness and fun to this industry.

CERB isn't just a board, it's a community CERB isn't a boy's club, Ladies can come here and they feel safe. Here, we, ladies and gents alike are all opposite sides of the same coin, not us versus them RG

I'm a perpetual loner so I do not have issues with emotional intimacy, that and I have a really short attention span lol, so I can't offer any advice regarding that. But get over the idea that you are 'using' the provider. In any mutually beneficial arrangement, whether it be a SP encounter (with her in full control of her affairs) or a real world business deal, each side uses the other. As far as I'm concerned it's a "win-win" situation and the word 'use' really doesn't apply. Now if a lady has been forcibly coerced into this world and is being abused and exploited by a pimp or human traffickers, then yes, in that case you are using her, but in the CERB world I think such situations are few and far in between.

I'm pretty sure if I tried that scenario I'd find myself making a rather quick and miraculous recovery! After all, there's been a lot of scams and snake oils throughout history that claim to cure everything, but in my experience nothing can make ya feel better regardless of what ails you quite like boobies! :)

Yes, it will become law, but the thinking and hoping is down to two things: how the courts will interpret the stupidly vague legislation, and LE's attitude to actually enforcing it. Neither of these is really knowable in advance. I don't see why. What's been criminalized is paying for sexual services, and that's not something that happens without payment. Just arranging a meeting? I don't see why that won't still be legal. As others have said, if you don't discuss particular services then nothing illegal has happened. How much of an impact this will have will vary between clients. The ones that are happy to meet someone they think they'll like and let the encounter evolve will be able to operate pretty much as they do now; the ones who are anxious to ensure that particular services are available are going to have a much harder time of it. As for sending emails or PMs now: any conversation you have now, or at any time before C36 becomes law, is just as legal as it was last week, or last month, or last year. The pre-Bedford laws are still in place for now. Nothing in C36 is retrospective, so it can't be used to prosecute anything anyone did before the day it becomes law. PM/email away! I actually think this is a very good idea: the more you can build a list of contacts and expectations and relations now, the better off you'll be later. Why would that change? A change in the law doesn't affect who the ladies are. They'll still be the same people. This is absolutely true. And I'd add: LE are answerable to the community in which they operate, and to some extent their priorities will reflect the concerns of that community. And most of the community doesn't know that the independent SP discreetly working in an apartment downtown, or the clients that see her, exist... and so LE gain little from taking action against her or her clients. The more visible sections of the industry - street workers and their clients in particular - are far more likely to be targeted. Although it should be noted that Alan Young, when testifying before the Senate last month, described C36 as "legalized entrapment". That one will go to the judges, I think. But it's fair to say that new entrants to the business will have a far harder time establishing themselves in a post-C36 world than they did beforehand, unless they can find a well-established provider to publicly vouch for them.

Since the OP is asking about ladies in Ottawa south, I will suggest he look at recos for these providers: Leigh Munroe Raven Rain (sometimes available in south end) Sexxxy Rebecca Chanel Reign Victoria Banks (when she advertises south end) Sassie'sWorld (Manotick) Trishthedish (Riverside south) And finally any touring ladies who stipulate they are staying near the airport, e.g. Bianca Jaguar. If you feel you really cannot go through with seeing someone, probably best not to book until you can commit. Most ladies are patient and understanding when it comes to first timers. I don't mean to jump on you, but I suppose since the OP has expressed that he is new and a bit nervous that you are trying to be helpful. I think you need to be mindful that it is important you make it clear that what you are suggesting comes from the way you conduct your business, and not a representation of all SPs. Each lady has her own set of screening requirements and it's best for the client to consult the lady to find out what is needed to see her. For example, not all ladies require references but those that do many will ask for other verifying information. But to say that proof of identification is a must is misleading. I am not even sure what you mean by that. But I know it is not a generally accepted practice for most SPs to do this. The ones that do, will make that clear on their ads/web-sites or when contacted. I am just pointing this out because the OP has expressed he is nervous. Probably best to suggest links to topics for newbies where various members from the community have contributed so that he gets a balanced approach.

And another PM sent RG

PM sent Cheers and Happy Snowballing

I don't know how I missed this thread. I've been lucky enough to have lived most of my fantasies to date. However there are always new fantasies to replace those realized. Lately I've been toying with this scenario. A ten day winter vacation to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica with a special service provider, one who is submissive in private and is eager to please. We would swim and sun during the day, flirt with other couples and have amazing mind blowing sex for ten days. All while enjoying everything Jamaica has to offer. My fantasy also involves swinging and having me direct my companion to service any willing man or woman we meet at the resort. This way I get to enjoy my dominant personality, my favourite pastimes and my favourite special lady.

From the sexy album of Skylar Heart:

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Common adult industry sex terms, abbreviations, codes, codewords, terminology, acronyms, lingo, and glossary. What does this mean, what is the definition of, as defined in the dictionary, and what do the letters stand for: AAMP = Apartment Asian Massage Parlor. Based in a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront. ABC = american born chinese ABJ = american born japanese Agency = a company that manages calls, bookings, and advertising for a group of escorts. AMP = Asian Massage Parlor analingus = licking anus Asian = analingus Asian Cowgirl = girl on top, squatting ASP = Adult Service Provider, or alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup ATF = all time favorite ATM = ass to mouth = penis, toy, finger goes from ass to mouth. attempts = trying to orgasm Aunt Flo = menstruation, period B&S = bait and switch = person who shows up is a different one than advertised babyback = petite, young, attractive Asian balloons = breast implants BB = bareback = without condom BJ = blowjob = oral sex = fellatio BBBJ = bare back blow job = BJ without condom BBBJTC = bare back blow job to completion (in mouth) BBBJTCIM = bare back blow job to completion in mouth BBBJTCNQNS = bare back blow job to completion, no quit, no spit BBBJTCWS = bare back blow job to completion with swallow BBBJWF = bare back blow job with facial BBFS = bare back sex BBW = big beautiful woman BCD = behind closed doors BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism. BF = boy friend BFE = boy friend experience birdwatching = BBBJTCWS BLS = ball licking and sucking Blue Jay = blow job blue pill = Viagra BSB = bus stop babe butter face = everything looks good, but her face BTW = by the way cash and dash = ROB who takes your money and runs CBJ = covered blow job = BJ with condom CC Rider = full service provider costing $200 or less CD = cross dresser CDS = covered doggy style CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you CH = Crazy Horse, SF Strip Club CIM = cum in mouth CL = craigslist.org CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse. Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you cover = condom cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers cups of coffee = releases = orgasms DATO = dining at the o = analingus DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus Dodge = streetwalker stroll: Mission Blvd, between A St and 14th St, in Hayward, CA Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees donation = payment Doubles = A threesome with two girls and you DDE = doesn't do extras (PS only) DDG = drop dead gorgeous DFK = deep french kissing, open mouth with tongue DIY = do it yourself (masturbation) DP = double penetration, two guys on one girl DT = deep throat, entire length of penis taken in mouth ECR = el camino real EOM = end of message. No text in message body. escort = a temporary companion for hire facial = cumming on partner's face FBSM = full body sensual massage fire and ice = a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice FIV = finger in vagina FKK = Frei K?rper Kultur. German brothel / nudist club. FOB = fresh off the boat. Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US. FOV = finger outside vagina French = BJ French Kiss = Kissing with tongue insertion FS = full service = BJ + Sex Get Brain = blow job Get Comfortable = get completely naked GFE = girlfriend experience. Typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG GG = Golden Gypsy. defunct, famous Berkeley massage parlor GND = girl next door Greek = anal sex, back door GS = golden shower = urination play GSM = g-spot massage happy ending = A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage hardwood floors = clean shaven kitty Hat = condom HDH = high dollar hottie HJ = hand job = a manual / hand release HH = half hour HM = high mileage HME = honeymoon experience, lapdog heaven HWP = height and weight proportionate hooker = prostitute IMHO = in my humble opinion interpreter = condom Italian = penis rubbing between butt cheeks ISO = in search of kitty = vagina Lapdog = person who worships providers to excess. LDL = low dollar looker (opposite of HDH) LE = ellie = law enforcement LK = light kissing, closed mouth LOS = land of smiles = Thailand mamasan = female manager of a massage parlor MBOT = Mitchell Brothers O'Farrell Theatre, SF Strip Club MBR = multiple bell ringing = MSOG MILF = mom I'd like to f-ck Mish = missionary position, or the SF Mission District Missionary = man on top, girl on back mohawk = thin rectangular strip of pubic hair MP = massage parlor MP = multiple pops = multiple releases MSC = Market Street Cinema, SF Strip Club MSOG = multiple shots on goal = multiple releases NCT = New Century Theatre, SF Strip Club non-pro = not a professional provider NP = no problem NSA = no strings attached OWO = oral without condom OWOTC = oral without condom to completion papasan = male manager of a massage parlor party hat = condom PIV = penis in vagina PL = Pathetic Loser PO = phone operator (for making appointments) PS = private show (Dance) PSE = Porn Star Experience PV = private viewing (Dance) RA = relaxation assistant raincoat = condom RB = myredbook.com rimming = analingus RMP = Russian Massage Parlor ROB = Rip Off Bitch Reverse cowgirl = RCG = girl on top facing away Reverse massage = you massage her Roman shower = vomit play RPG = role playing games Russian = penis rubbing between breasts = Pearl Necklace = titty fuck SC = Strip Club self-service = you masturbate SF = San Francisco shill = an insider posing as a satisfied customer SO = significant other SOG = shot on goal = one release SOMF = sat on my face south of the border = gential region southern france = BBBJ SP = Service Provider SPA = streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA spanish = ATM = ass to mouth spinner = very petite, thin girl STD = sexually transmitted disease stroll = path frequented by street walkers SW = street walker TAMP = Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor teabag = man squats and dips balls in partner's mouth TG = transgender TGTBT = too good to be true Tina = crystal meth TJ = Tijuana TL = Tenderloin district, San Francisco. between Van Ness Ave, Post St, Taylor St, and Golden Gate Ave TLD = topless lap dance tossing salad = analingus Troll = rude and hideous PL Trolling = Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum TOFTT = Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider. TS = transexual TUMA = tongue up my ass TV = transvestite UTF = Untranslated French = BBBJ UTR = under the radar WTF = What the fuck? (I'm rather surprised by this) XOXO = Kisses & Hugs YMMV = Your mileage may vary. Your service level could be different than reported by others. Applies to everyone, some more so than others. 1/2 and 1/2 = half and half = oral sex + full service 411 = seeking information 420 = 4:20 = marijuana 69 = two people giving each other oral sex at the same time $ = $100 $$ = $200 $$$ = $300 $$$.5 = $350 (get it?) incall = You go to her place, or a place she designates. outcall = She comes to your place, home, hotel room. two call system = For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number.