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6 pointsLaw enforcement is NOT on a moral crusade here. They enforce it when they're told to. If and when, that is. And if they have the budget to do so. I've seen all the fear mongering "what ifs" and imo, people are scaring themselves for nothing. They are not going to be waiting outside your favorite local lady's apartment waiting to bust anyone. They would have a hell of a case trying to prove that. Stay away from the streets or ads on BP that look to good to be true. Someone is eventually going to take one for the team so ask here if anyone has seen a particular lady. Stick to ladies that you know have been around and are NOT LE. Just because some guys can't pick and choose who to call up at the last minute or ask the good old "Are you available now" and "Rates, services and location?" does not mean their hobbying lives are over forever. Do your research and you will most likely avoid the risk of receiving sub par service or bait and switch. It is your government that is only using this new law as a tool to win the next election. We are all just pawns in their game. Don't vote for them in the next election. It's as simple as that. I would like to re-visit this thread a year from now and see what has changed. Probably nothing.
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4 pointsIf your website is found to advertise ANY sexual services we must place your website URL on our CENSOR list as we can not knowingly advertise it. Anyone currently or previously offering any sexual services in exchange for money you need to stop that! (The government says so!!) We are actively reviewing websites advertised on lyla.com to ensure all websites comply with the new laws. If you are found to have any sexual references on your website that could be considered prostitution you will receive the following message and your site will be blocked. You can ask us to review it at a later date but we are busy so if you force us to block it instead of updating it and saving us all that work then we will take our time allowing it back! if you choose to comply and wish to promote your revised site here. It is in your best interest with this new law to stop offering any sexual services as it is now illegal for anyone to advertise such services.
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3 pointsI just donated and will forward the link to my friends and family. Thank you Emily :)
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3 pointsI can sometimes see the fakeness of "Hun" a mile away.c "Hi hun, R U available?" So fake and not to mention don't use letters to replace words. Ugh.. I don't call anyone "hun" unless they've been with me. Actually I don't even say "Hun". Sometimes I say "Thanks Honey" in passing but it's people I know and have spent time with. Never will I address them by that term unless I've met them. And I'm no one's "babe" and won't be again. That was reserved for my ex bf but he is long gone now. So please call me by my name until we have been together. Then I won't mind if you address me by a term of endearment. lol.
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2 pointsCLASSIFIED ADS - EDIT THEM OR LOOSE THEM! UPDATE BEFORE NOVEMBER 25th !! I noticed a LOT of classified ads still advertising things that are going to now be illegal. You either have to remove anything from the ads that is now illegal for us to advertise for you or we will need to delete your ad completely. If you previously offered prostitution related services you must remove such things (or hints of such things) from this site. I will NOT edit the ads (that would take too long) so I am going to go over them and start deleting any that DO NOT comply with the new laws. I will check to see if you have read this post and if you have and did not bother to update your classified ad you will get a infraction and possibly a suspension from the site. Leaving the classified up makes more work for me. I am very busy making sure the site conforms to all the new laws so it can continue on for you all. Please do your part. BY NOVEMBER 25th If you see a classified ad that is breaking the law PLEASE REPORT IT! I REMOVED THE "SERVICES" that you can NO LONGER ADVERTISE off the check list as well. You will see them as NA1 NA2 NA3 etc... those need to be UNCHECKED at this time (Till I can add some new ones to fill those spots) the system will not let me just delete them.
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2 pointsGot the chance tonight to reconnect with Christina tonight . I have not seen her in about six years but it felt very much like it was only yesterday. When she was in Halifax I was a regular of hers and tonight we picked right up where we left off and had an incredible encounter. She looked great , I felt she looked even more sexier than before and still as skilled as ever. Christina is such a sweet girl with a soft voice but don't let that fool you cause she knows how to please a man and enjoys herself too. I never discuss details of our encounter as YMMV but I can only speak for myself and say it was lots of fun. She's not a clock watcher and very open and I love how playful she is. Sex should be fun and with her it truly is. Let's treat her right and support her so she'll continue to return . I know I'll see her whenever I can. Thanks Christina for an awesome time :)-
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2 pointsI've been making a small donation at the end of each month to POWER for the past six or seven months and shall continue to do so. If everyone made that small donation then the funds that are going to be needed to make changes will start to become significant. In time, it will be organizations such as POWER or PIVOT that will bring change. Support them as you can. Out of curiosity, is there a difference between sending a donation directly to POWER or is it preferable to send it to the fund raising campaign?
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2 pointsI came across this today and got a kick out of it, so I thought I'd share it :) We can all become professional cuddlers http://www.thesnuggery.org/index.html One of my advocate friends from the states told me they did an investigation into one of these places, because the DA's office couldn't believe that men would just pay for cuddling. smh. goes to show how much they really don't know about our industry.
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2 pointsYeah... enforced monogamy is the product of a society in which people are viewed as property, and relationships are contracts for that property's disposition. And yup, religion was the moral institution for the longest time and enforced the principle of monogamy with the careful logic of all religious edicts: "because I say so". Now that those kind of external moral guardians are fading away, we're each left to decide for ourselves how we want to live our personal, romantic, and sexual lives. Monogamy is now just one of many choices available. BUT... I think most people would agree that to be ethically poly, you need to be open with your partner; everyone has to be on the same page in order to participate equally as a consenting adult. I'm thrilled to bits that people are exploring this freedom to find what works for them. But at the same time, monogamous relationships are still entirely cool for a lot of perfectly healthy and liberal-minded people. And such voluntary monogamy can be a source of enormous strength when the relationship is healthy, functional, and satisfying. It's all about how particular people are wired up, and what they need and expect from their relationships. We're human beings, and enormously diverse. So those needs, and what it takes to meet them, are naturally all over the map.
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2 pointsIndiegogo does take a percentage of POWER's earnings, but if it weren't for this campaign we probably wouldn't achieve our fundraising goal so I'm thinking it's win-win (win for POWER for raising $10,000 and win for Indiegogo for making 4% of our earnings). As Em J said it's to raise awareness about POWER too and hopefully recruit new members. We have A LOT of work ahead of us. Just an FYI, we will be releasing new perks every week! Some of those perks include dinner with the POWER board of directors, toys, massages from Holistic Roots (RMT only), etc.
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2 pointsHi there, I'm Dorinda, a thirty something, adventurous-minded, super friendly lady offering company to gentlemen looking for something special. Some of my favourite things include: getting up early, bubble baths, giving and receiving massages, fashion, cats and dogs, going for walks, working out, skiing, gardening, alt rock, NFL football, watching the news, cozying up with a good book by the fire and delicious food (cooking and ordering it). From current events to pop culture, you will find me to be up to date on a variety of subjects and an excellent conversationalist (I can also be a great listener too!). Allow yourself to be spellbound by me....deep and beautiful brown eyes, high cheek bones and a soft warm countenance; all accentuate my perfect complexion. I'm blessed with a slim and petite frame and spectacular curves which I love to show off in fun, revealing attire! Silky soft, tanned skin graces my shapely behind, flat and firm tummy, and toned legs! Whether it be dinner and the ballet, lounging by the pool, or perhaps something more private, I will be your perfect partner for any occasion. To arrange some special time just for you, please contact me via website at http://www.pembrokeplaymate.com I'll be available downtown Ottawa November 24th - December 2nd. Hope to be hearing from you soon! Warmly, Dorinda
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2 pointsIndiegogo does take a percentage of donations -- 4% if the goal is reached, 9% if it is not.
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2 pointsThank you for your ongoing support mrnice! :) The campaign was made directly by POWER in an effort to boost attention and create a surge in contributions. The campaign donations will go directly to POWER. As you already know, you can donate at anytime through the POWER website, but when you make a donation through the campaign before Dec 20, you will get a "perk" as a thank you. Perks range from a "shout-out" from POWER on Twitter for a $5 donation, to t-shirts, tanks, hoodies, books, gift certificates to Venus-Envy, etc. The Indiegogo structure helps to maximize contributions and donating through the campaign will help raise public awareness around POWER. It makes donating into a kind of social experience and when people see that other people are donating to a cause, and watch the public tally grow, they may be more likely to donate themselves. To help reach the $10,000 goal set for this campaign, donations must be made through the Indiegogo page rather than the POWER website.
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2 pointsAs a French I could call a gentleman ''mon chéri'' or ''mon poussin'' and he would probably like it! But I hate to use any term - any of those already mentionned - as it is not who I am to use little names. It sounds fake to me so I always call a gentleman by the name he gives me. But I have to say that I have no problem being called a goddess... ;-)
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2 pointsFrom my understanding we are legally allowed to tell clients this but if you spoke to a lawyer they would tell you if you mentioned that you offer x, y and z services then you are inferring something that would be illegal for the client to participate in because he would be paying you. Peter Mackay intentionally did this because he is an idiot and has the power to do so. You're right Gabriella, it is definitely contradictory. Getting a court to determine if something was considered explicit would be very broad.. Correct me if I'm wrong here but last time I read the bill it didn't define what "s services" actually were. Potential clients will have to read between the lines now and I'm sure some who do have an understanding of the new laws will be grateful that there will be SPs who will not have an explicit discussion with them for their safety. It's time to start using phrases that are not explicit. It's the only way around it. I've already made up a few of my own that get the point across that don't imply anything explicit. Gents, you will now have to read between the lines.
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2 pointsLocated in Hunt Club until late tonight. 140 - HH 180 - 45min 240 - Hour 340 - 1.5 Hour Text me directly 613. 255. 5904 Xo 5'7 140LBS BLONDE HAIR GREEN EYES 36C 613. 255. 5904 TEXT
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2 pointsPart of my story (as most of my struggles now are not my own): I spent about about 8 years being physically, psychologically and sexually abused by members of my immediate and extended family. Somehow, and I do not know how, at 12 I managed to summon the inner strength to put an end to it. Although I did not tell anyone about what was happening to me (although I'm positive there were many adults that knew and did nothing) nor seek help for many years, the abuse affected me physically and emotionally well into adulthood and has definitely shaped the person I am today. Although I am now successful, educated, liberal, open-minded, caring and forgiving, there is no room or tolerance in my life for anything bad happening to children (even in movies I have to walk away) or the adults that cause these bad things. Over thirty years later I'd like to say I've learned a few things. One is that what you name something, what you call it, matters. Maybe only on a subconscious level but often on a visceral in your face level. My opinion only, but "sexual abuse of a minor" is far too vague and low impact to correctly describe what happens to these children and the impact it has on them. Let's call it what it really is RAPING CHILDREN! A harsh term but more accurate. I am aware that for some abuse is a cycle, they were abused so they abuse. For most it is not. Most are so affected by what happened to them that even the thought of causing that much pain to another can make them sick. The difference could be whether or not they get help, or their own inner strength or moral compass, or the nurturing they received in their lives apart from the abuse. Or it may be simply that it is not called rape so they don't make the connection to what they are doing and what it really is and the effects it will have. I may be totally wrong but if it even stops one abuser and saves one child... My journey continues.
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1 pointOn the spur of the moment I went to Paradis Spa and saw Sylvia Star. I had seen her website and her pictures. I had always wanted to see her but my schedule and hers never seemed to mesh. Well tonight the stars aligned and I managed to finally meet her. First thing I will say is that her pictures do not do her justice. This lady is 1,000 times more beautiful in person. And that was just the first impression. As always I shall leave the private details private but suffice to say she is incredibly beautiful, has a soft touch and is just one incredibly and oh so sexy lovely lady. She is one lady I hope to see again very soon. Only next time I will spend a lot more time with her.
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1 pointAfter what I like to call my 'forced transition', I am no longer an S-court. Thanks Overlord Harper! So I'm digging around for new job descriptions and found the following: 'Sausage Wallet'- from the Elizabethan era. and 'Lady of Ultimate Accessibility' from a polite member of the Yukon RCMP to describe the ladies of the Klondike's Red Light District, circa 1899. Any others? Love, Sausage Wallet Silver.
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1 pointI have to disagree to a certain extent. Yes, naturally we are not monogamous creatures, so open relationships would seem to be a better option for most people, and they've been increasingly popular these days. But by saying that monogamy isn't humanly possible, or that we're in denile by thinking it is, is ignoring all of the many, many couples throughout the years, and ones who are even living now, that are in happy relationships with just each other, and are perfectly content that way. Many of the married men or one's in relationships that come to see us, have reasons why they do. But not everyone cheats, and not everyone would be happy in an open relationship. Every person is different, and their wants and needs are all different too, so while monogamy may not be for a large number of people, neither are open relationships. Personally I'm very much a monogamous person, I would never be able to do an open relationship, which is pretty contradictory of me, I know :P Then again, as you mentioned, if I were married, I would much prefer if my partner needed to explore other options, that he do so through escorts, where the boundaries are usually pretty clear between both people, rather than starting up a relationship with another women he could potentially move on to(I get jealous like that :P) Posted via Mobile Device
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1 pointWell Hello There Boys!! I'm Back & Better Than Ever! I've been dreaming about you & our time together & can't wait to fulfill all my fantasies... I'll have you quivering with pure delight by the end of our time together... Your Complete Satisfaction Is My Goal. Remember: I am Fetish Friendly as well so I can't wait to hear all about your dreams too! If we have not had the pleasure of meeting before... I'm a 26 year old Scottish/Irish Doll with Long Natural Red Hair, Real 34DDs, Soft Porcelain Skin (that you'll just have to touch), Pin Up Girl Curves (same), Deep Blue Eyes & A Captivating Smile! I'm friendly, flirty, frisky, & fun....playful & sinfully seductive....so watch out! Allow Me the Pleasure of Spending Time With You.... Exclusively At Vibe: Tuesday! From 4pm Until 10pm! Wednesday OFF Thursday from 6pm-10pm Friday from 10am-4pm & Saturday from 12pm-8pm Sunday OFF After All...You Deserve The Best...Come & Get It With Me This Week at Vibe! Please call 613 680 8059 for your pleasure reservation! You can view my Cerb Profile Here & My Recommendation Thread HERE & And a little Discussion Thread Here!
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1 pointGentlemen, Allow me to introduce myself. Im Rebecca, the cute girl next door you have dream about, once in your life. Im 25 years old, french Canadian from Montréal with an adorable accent. I stand 5'4 with curvy build, long dark hair and nice handful of perky tits. My juicy pink lipz will amaze you in more than one way. My warm and friendly personality will put you at ease just with a smile by opening the door. 120 kisses for 30min together 180 kisses for 60min together 300 kisses for 90min together 360 kisses for 120min together For a tease... Take a look at what others have to say about me.. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=40938 Located in the SOUTHEND by the airport... 613-315-6354 Xoxox
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1 pointBonjour :) I am available all day today until 9 pm at Angel's touch for your pleasure . come enjoy a sensual session with me to start your week in beauty ! For booking : 613-274-7073 Or pm me for more info. Xoxo big french kiss ! Lany
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1 pointDecember 6 is also the same date for white ribbon day - national day of rememberence and action on violence against women. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Day_of_Remembrance_and_Action_on_Violence_Against_Women Quite fitting that they would roll out this barbaric law on this tragic anniversary. Thank you to Genevieu for pointing this out.
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1 pointI have never understood why other clients on here say they want so much information. I prefer to be somewhat in the dark then create a huge trail of evidence. just pay for companionship and nothing more. You may be disappointed if nothing more happens but you will be more disappointed if you end up arrested with a slew of texts that prove you were soliciting sexual services. learn to read between the lines and choose the smaller risk of not getting what you desire compared to the bigger risks. for a while I am going to keep to sp that I have seen before. I know where the best companionship is. Actually after an extremely hot session that would rival my best porn type fantasies I had the thought 'this girl is so nice and sweet I think next time i'll just cuddle with her for the whole hour'. I must be getting old. Lol
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1 pointTrue friendship is give and take ( not one sided) accepting all their flaws and quirks along with their bullshit once in a while but there are limits and true friends will respect them. I have two good friends. The rest are conditional and some are fair weather types. I keep to myself a lot so I'm not much of a socializing type person and I don't believe in social media.
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1 pointYour going to find that with a lot of the features of the site. Migrating the site and all its components to lyla.com was (and still is) a HUGE undertaking. The chatroom for instance is still not back and the https:// is still not working. I did manage to get the classifieds all working again (New URL's to those so dont use old bookmarks) I also got the albums back working correctly (some of you may be missing a photo or two or maybe an album or more... I did my best but you all use a LOT of photos and the migration did have some hiccups) I am still getting bug reports from users and working on those as they come in. Also... A BIG Thank you to everyone who is flagging BAD ads and discussions and who are helping report bugs.
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1 pointYou absolutely cannot go wrong with Lucy, the owner of Unicorn spa. She is one of the most beautiful women in the business, friendly, kind, funny and looks 20 years younger than her actual age. However, do not expect any extras, period. She is registered and strictly legitimate. Still, her massage is still somewhat sensual (probably because you cannot believe how beautiful she is). On top of that, she is one hell of an accomplished acupuncturist.
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1 pointThe Bill has people scared and nervous and afraid because it greatly changes the risks associated with the hobby. I think it is pretty safe to state that up till now most Hobbiests knew they were engaged in illegal activities but they assumed that unless they were hiring street workers then the majority of the risk was actually the workers and that indoor work was not even on the radar of LE. Until we have operated under the new law for awhile and we get a comfort level for how the law will be enforced by LE and the courts there will continue to be fear mongering. In the interim i would just remind everyone that under the old laws the activities of this hobby were illegal and we did not see ladies outing people.... so if we could trust ladies then why not now? Just my Opinion
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1 pointI personally dislike terms of endearment - giving or receiving - before we have met and shared some time together. It feels forced otherwise. But if me and a gent have a lovely time, eventually a few sweet words will be spoken; usually the old standbys like "hun" and "sweetie". I have been known to occasionally call gentlemen beasts or brutes. But that's a title ya gotta earn! ;)
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1 pointVisiting : November 25th 2pm-midnight November 26th 8am -noon (please note that early morning sessions requires prebooking) Im the kind of girl that sparks a flame in your mind. I bother your consciousness until you HAVE to see me again .Im tall (5ft11 (6ft1 with heels), smart and absolutely delectable. My body is an ultimate treat for your eyes: i might have the longest legs that you have ever seen with a toned body that i maintain with my regular Yoga sessions. Oh! And i forgot natural 34D breast that you won't forget ;) I am open to many different types of play & am able to adapt to my partner. Please visit my website for further informations: http://www.chrystalelitecompanion.com ( I DO APPRECIATE THAT YOU VISIT MY WEBSITE BEFORE INQUIRING) Email: [email protected] 604-966-1110
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1 pointAlmost nothing pisses me of more than drivers who ignore school buses stopped with lights flashing and picking up/letting off children. Now in a few buses in Saskatchewan and Manitoba they are installing cameras. So far in about 4 weeks they have caught a huge number of offenders. Bet your boots cameras will be in all across Canada very soon. Couldn't be happier.
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1 pointFriendship and CERB is actually something I have spent a considerable amount of time considering and there have been other threads asking for opinions on if a client and a CERB lady could be real friends. To be honest I have found this whole topic to be very challenging.... I have always felt that of course it is possible for a client and a lady to be both friends and maintain a business relationship. After all I maintain a balance that is similar with many of my friends (yes I know I am not intimate with them) but some friends are co-workers or people who report to me at work, some are business colleagues... in all of these cases I am able to separate the business or work aspects from the friendship elements with no major issues so why should this be any different. But I think I am starting to realize it just may be. Now don't get me wrong I still think there can be a friendship I just think it is a lot harder than I thought but you know nothing in life is easy that is worthwhile and the friendships I have developed as a result of my involvement in the industry have been very worthwhile to me. I have also come to learn that you can only offer your friendship you can't make someone be your friend and you can't impose your idea of what friendship should look like on others. All you control is your actions and how you treat the people you consider your friends some people will take advantage of the friendship you offer... some will disappoint you and treat you badly but that's no different than real life. If you open yourself up to friendship even with all its inherent risks then you open yourself up to the possibility of amazing connections with amazing people... for me it has been worth the effort I hope it has been for them as well. The 10 points listed by the OP all ring true to me. Just my Opinion
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1 pointI have two ;) One option is to find someone who catches your eye and ask if she has one, or if she would able to indulge you if you brought a swimsuit along for her.
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1 pointI'm grateful for a lot, some of which are: my health my friends my dogs some of my neighbours, lol my inner strength my independence my abilities some clients;) and this thread for giving me cause to be grateful:) Thank you I guess I'm pretty lucky;)
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1 pointToday I'm grateful that I have my two dogs, who are awesome and loving and playful and full of life and happiness. My own life is enormously bigger and better for their companionship. I'm especially grateful because I know our time together is limited by their too-brief lifespan. From time to time I remind myself "this doesn't last forever." And so I'm also grateful to my first dog since, quite a while ago now, that was the very last of many things she helped me understand.
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1 pointI am grateful I found the Cerb site and for the Cerb ladies that do visit Charlottetown, life was becoming very mundane for me, the last year has being quite a rememberable one, thanks:)
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1 pointThis is a very sad topic. I've heard so many stories about children being abused and it really breaks my heart and upsets me. I was very blessed to never had suffered from any kind of abuse and not only that, I grew up surrounded by loving people but not having experienced it does not mean that I do not know how it can ruin a kid's life. I really wish I could do more to fight child abuse and I also wish it wouldn't exist, but it does and maybe one day I will be able to contribute against it for now all I can do is ask all of you reading this who have kids, to love them, be kind to them and also to always trust them more than you would trust anyone else and have great communication with them, many kids abused by people who aren't their parents never say anything because the parents do not hear them for the little things and do not have communication with them always being busy so make time to talk to your kids, show them that you believe what they tell you and keep in mind that if turns out to not be true it doesn't mean the kid lied, they have a different perspective than us, in other words, always take your kid's side, it can make a huge difference.
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1 pointI was raised by my biological mother and my biological father was not in the picture. I experienced child abuse (physical and psychological), sexual abuse, and witnessed domestic violence as a child. That stuff stays with you for ever. Maybe not on a concious level but it is always there in the subconcious mind. Even if you get help to deal with it. I got help when I was 15 and it helped for a few years. After leaving home at 15. I had a few good mentors to help steer me into adulthood. If it was not for them I do not know how I would have turned out. I am sure now that those early life experiences interfeared with my ability to have lasting meaningful relationships. I have always dealt with depression through out my entire adult life. A few years ago I was also diagnosed with adult Asperger's. About ten years ago I learned that I have a younger half sister and two older half brothers. (same biological mother). I thank god that they did not have to go through the things I did growing up.
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1 pointI have always thought that "open minded" meant non-judgmental. So, you could be open in asking about something a little off the conventional, "vanilla" sexual map. It didn't guarantee she'd say yes, but it does mean she wouldn't give you a hard time about the request. Lots of guys have quirks and fetishes and offbeat interests they might be yearning to pursue but nervous to ask about. To me, open-minded means "don't be afraid to ask". I *don't* think open-minded means "willing to renegotiate my stated boundaries", or secretly open to doing something unsafe.
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1 pointNot much experience but very hot. In my limited experience, it was G-spot induced
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1 pointWhen I first started, it was through an agency. There was a gentleman who called regularly & when we were asked to call him to try & book, it was stressed that we only use his name. He was a travelling businessman who met new people all the time & hated anonymous platitudes. He felt them terribly impersonal no matter what the industry & only ever called us by name too. Super guy, great manners. Since then, I only ever address a gentleman by his name in any & all communications & make an effort to use it often. Of course, I have been known to scream out " Holy Christ " or " Sweet Jesus " mid happiness. But that I can't stifle & so far, no one seems to mind .:wink: Sandi
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