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I was going to say something like this, For example, we see a picture that is obviously photo shopped. But there is no reason why we also must assume that the photo is not longer representative of the sp herself. That was the point i was trying to make. There is a style of photographs that are meant to attract a specific type of clientele, this is what i was referring to when i said professional photos tell a type of client that the sp is heavily invested in her reputation and her business, and for that type of clientele, it signals that she is the exact sort of escort he wants to see. This is not a client who is impresses by selfies, he is impressed by what professional photos & marketing tell him more about the escort. There are escorts who know who this clientele is, and you can see from their pro photos that this is their main target market. Some agencies are aware of this as well, so they have a tendency to use that same style of photography on all their escorts pages. it isn't misleading, it is doing exactly what it intends to do. i haven't met the sps who use this type of photography, so it isn't my place to decide that they are using photo shop to mislead. If i met face to face all of the escorts who have chosen this type of photography (as in that type of client) then maybe I could claim that i know it is all misleading to use retouching. This is a different market, it is not one that i make claims to try to access. However, I can recognize that the style works, and it is meant to draw in that kind of client. Also that these clients are comparing sites/photos/info from many different escorts or agencies, and all of those are using the same style photography. if the word 'elite' has meaning, this is where it would show up. Elite (wealthy, traveling, business class) clients seeking elite escorts (discreet, professional, attractive, mature, able to blend in social activities, and so on).

Victoria, I find this thread to be distasteful and not in the spirit of this site. I truly feel an apology is warranted. It's one thing to discuss bait and switch (which you have indicated to not be the case), but you are critiquing those that photo shop their pictures to "an extent of changing how they really look". It airs on the side of airing out dirty laundry. I can just see the pm's you must get saying "who are you talking about". Since you have read the sticky on airing out dirty laundry, you understand this is not ok. Especially after posting this: If you can't support others, don't complain about those YOU feel are doing something you don't agree with. Either support others or stay silent please. My civilian look is totally different then my business look. I'd hate to think that someone is going around saying I look nothing like my pictures. My pictures are 100% me. No retouching and no photoshop. I do crop them but that's it. I admire those that get professional pictures done and have no issue with them enhancing them. I've never lost business because of someone else's business practices. I do my thing and do very well. I would never post a critical post like this. If you know of someone who is blatantly posting pictures on THIS SITE that are not accurate, AND you have proof, post in bait and switch or notify mod. However insinuating otherwise is not cool.

Maybe you should take a gander over to the "REVIEW BOARDS" and read the kind and lovely comments from men who admit to never have seeing a certain companion yet tear her photos to shreds. It exists everywhere and the ones who have never met ladies are usually the worst with their comments. Not everything in this business is fairies and rainbows.

I've been here since may 2011 and my weight has fluctuated up and down 20 lbs or so and I have clients that keep coming and never mention anything. Most don't appear to notice. I will say though, I did lose a boyfriend over my decision to do my breast augmentation. He said he would leave if I changed them and he did. So I benefitted doubly when I did my boobs, lol. I went from a C to a D and lost an ass;) I think most men when they find someone they like are fine with some changes, most aren't that shallow. At least the ones I've met.

This is where I have an issue. This site is about positive issues. By "venting," it changes what this site is about. We are not allowed to vent. I'm sorry this issue bothers you, and you feel it's important to point out what others are doing (again this is your opinion not necessarily shared by others, and I still don't understand why you felt the need to vent about). Now, if you were talking about public figures (like Halle Berry making herself appear white in her recent pictures), that's an entirely different matter. However, to mention being 20 pounds heavier, buck teeth and such, sorry, it's not ok ON THIS SITE. Unless you have something positive to say...Please stay silent about these types of issues. Thank you for apologizing.

Today is the first day since I got a flu that I feel myself. Slept a whole night with no coughing and slept in my bed ( was on couch to stay upright) Also is now 6 days with no smoking:) Have no plans to start either! Yay, blessing in disguise:)

I have a theory about those who ask for this 'feature'. I don't think it's REALLY because they want to help the ladies screen or otherwise choose men. As has been pointed out, they already have ways to do that. Also, there are already things like P411 and such that have rating systems for clients. So OP, I'm about to cast aspersions on your motives. I hope you don't take it personally but what I think you and others who have lobbied for this in the past REALLY want is to know is what the ladies think of them. They want to know how they rank, are they actually good in bed, are they attractive, do they have something about them that makes them better than the other guys, etc. It's a competition thing. He who gets the most positive recos wins. Thing is though, think about the position it puts the ladies in. As soon as they write a reco for one client, other clients could potentially be put off. Maybe they don't want a reco written. Maybe they're jealous if one guy got a reco and they didn't. Besides, could a lady ever really write down a true opinion? Their position in the relationship is very different than yours. They will be sexy and intimate with all manner of men, some of whom they might never touch with a ten foot pole in 'real life'. Because they are professionals, they will give their best effort to make that man feel special and enjoy his time with her. Perhaps you're a great client. Maybe you rocked her world. Or maybe you're just ordinary and she faked it. Would you REALLY want to know? This is about fantasy, about believing what we want to believe. There's no room for truth here because, if truth be told, by definition most of us are pretty average. The business model depends on making you feel special. If the ladies were to suddenly develop a case of truthiness, we would probably be dismayed to find out just how forgettable many of us are.

today is my birthday and all 4 kids of mine forgot again. its not like they are young ones. 25. 23, 17 and 15. my 17 year old daughter who lives with me I let it slip it was my birthday so she said she was sorry and wished me a happy birthday from behind her bedroom door when I told her good night. at 9 tonight I got a facebook message from my 25 year old son to say happy birthday. I guess its nice he took the time to message. A phone call would have been nice. Not one of them did a darn thing to try to make my day special or show they care.

I agree the OP's post could have been worded better, but can we please avoid the subtle disparaging of street-based workers? The w*horearchy is really distasteful.

The idea has been brought up several time before here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126558 and here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=8728&highlight=reviewing+client Privacy, discretion and confidentiality were often brought up against. Addendum; References and it's alternatives (when offered for new clients to the business), is an option.

Isn't discretion the #1 or 1 A) reason a man seeks an SP or MA ?

I think it unfair for anyone to assume why the op suggested this. Only he knows his reasons. What some think is a good idea, others will not. There are as many good reasons for having a reco section for hobbyists as there are bad. The arguments about size, performance are mute since no one should be mentioning those things any way, we are getting paid to spend time with one another, after all. As far as jealousy for being up talked or excluded, if companions can handle that couldn't hobbyists? As far as what's written or even if one is written, there could be a rule that you have to be okayed by the hobbyist before doing so, but.... All these aren't viable anyway as the mod in an old post said writing these would be pushing the boundaries of the law. So next idea:)

I think there is something to the idea that some gentlemen would like a reco section for hobbyists because they'd like to know how they "rank", for lack of a better term, but they would probably be disappointed by the criteria most sp's would use to grade them as clients. Things like hygiene, willingness to submit to screening, not haggling on prices, not insisting on a menu, etc, would be much higher on their lists than say, prowess between the sheets. I don't want to pull back the curtain on the wizard of oz for anyone, but I don't think a hobbyist's skills are of much concern to the average sp. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they think it's a lovely bonus when you show some level of competency in bed, but it's hardly a dealbreaker if you're all thumbs. If recent board subjects are any indication, not sending a d**k pic puts you in elite company :p

I have had the displeasure of people misrepresenting themselves with their photography in the past, but it was a bait and switch, not an over photoshopped picture. As pro photographers get paid to make people look their best, I don't expect anyone to look exactly like they do in a staged photo in a controlled environment like a studio. Lighting plays a huge role in how you look in a picture, and a professional can emphasize a woman's best qualities in a way that a selfie will not, but I don't think that is necessarily misleading, it's just a photographer doing their job to the best of their abilities. There is one very beautiful woman who has commented on this thread with a wide variety of pro pictures, and while there may be some evidence of photoshopping here and there, I can say from experience that this woman does indeed look quite spectacular in person. I would be quite shocked if anyone felt mislead by her portfolio, and on a personal level, I think she looks much better in person ( with less make-up - another photography *trick* :p )

MM I am sorry you feel that way, the post was in no way to be disrespectful to anyone, it was simply an opinion on photo shop over kill, and my feelings on it, not to start disrespecting anyone on photos of any kind , which I previously posted, I'm not sure how this offended anyone, but if it did I apoligize, I don't feel it's airing out dirty laundry, when you simply have an opinion, but I am new to Lyla, so again I apologize if the thread did offend anyone

Really if you do know of ladies who have had professional photographs done that are a clear misrepresentation of themselves, you should report it in the Warnings Section of the city they are in. Your post, at least to me implies all ladies who have professional photos done are misleading potential clients. Even ladies I saw and couldn't recommend, their photos were accurate. And to say I have been lucky, I have partaken in this lifestyle since July 2010. Not one lady's photo a misrepresentation of her I haven't been lucky, I do my research. A lady who misrepresents herself with photos needs to be reported in the Warnings Section, because fake or misrepresented photos are part of bait and switch My concern with a thread like this, it paints all ladies who use professional photos as misrepresenting themselves. And ladies who invest in themselves by having professional photos shouldn't be painted with the same brush as those who use what I'll call fake photos Your thread does a major disservice to many professional companions here on Lyla, especially the ones who invest in themselves by having professional photos done. A rambling over cup number two RG

. In reality yes we all provide a fantasy or an escape in what we do. However the reality is this business can be a VERY cruel one and the real truth is very visible on other boards which allow it. This site is a nice and friendly place where the cruel reality of negative reviews or comments do not exist. You would be surprised at how many new people wild believe a post from someone with a high post count (true or not). If we don't not the fact this BS goes on, it will only get worse and people need to be made aware of it.

Socks with sandals ,, seriously ??!! Lol

Tempted Monk, Read the links and you will understand the difference. If after reading the threads you are still unsure, let me know and I will gladly explain ;)

Ladies have their own screening methods And ladies should be the ones to decide if needs be, amongst each other, screening methods It's not for us clients to advocate how a lady screens, just support a lady when she asks a client for screening information from a prospective client Sometimes as part of screening, they look at a board member's posting history Hence why often a lady wants a prospective client to confirm his board handle by PM Also there is the Ladies' Only section on Lyla But who knows what is discussed on the SP Only section of Lyla (which is btw part of this board, just gentlemen not allowed) Just because us men don't see it on Lyla doesn't mean it isn't there And even though I'm not allowed, nor never will be allowed access, I don't feel excluded ;-) RG

You know, up until this point: I was willing to excuse what could potentially be poor choice in wording or a language barrier. If OP had simply asked, can anyone recommend a provider in the $xxx-$xxx range, this wouldn't be offensive. But then OP took it a step further: And further still: Something. Something. Some thing. Not a person, but a thing. And just to be sure, reiterated again: OP, even if my rates were somehow in your concept of a "cheap" price range (because yes, one person's affordable might be out of reach for another person), your post has successfully made my vagina completely retract back up into my body, where it is currently hanging out with my spleen and is never producing another drop of lubrication, ever.

I dunno. I'm interested to know too. I think I could refer a few guys her way. They're obviously not looking for me. Many years ago, I used to visit a town and see a few guys there. To be honest, it was a stressful trip for me. At some point, they informed me that they'd found someone who'd do the job for a lot less plus some groceries. They graciously offered me the chance to counter offer. I declined. It wasn't a whole year later when they were begging me to visit again, but by that time, my circumstances had changed, and it was no longer convenient. I don't blame people for trying to get a better deal, if that's what they want. And maybe people don't need the quality they don't want to pay for. Who's to say that's wrong? Each of us can only decide that for themselves. If someone would be happy with a lacklustre session for cheap dollars, sure. He probably won't like my rates. But I don't price for him. I price for the guy looking for a quality experience. To each his or her own.

Howdy ladies and gents. I guess I didn't do a good enough job promoting the return of the diary. I simply jumped on the thread that had 3,600 views stating that the diary was down, and changed the link in my signature along with a few discrete ads on CL. In the last few days I've received numerous PMs and emails from folks that didn't know about the new diary's return and new address. Guess I should give myself a failing grade on marketing the return of the cowboy's diary. It was down for a number of weeks due to some apparent issues with the terms of service, but after all the kind support and encouragement from the many readers here from cerb and other venues I decided to setup shop at a new home on the internet... if you haven't been there yet, check it out and bookmark http://www.cowboysdiary.info, be sure to tell your friends and family too. (ok maybe not your family) pardon me for this shameless plug :)

to decide on who to see next. There are so many new and beautiful women entering the business, both as SP's and MA's, that it is getting difficult to decide who to see :). I've met many new women lately and have been treated to fantastic experiences. I want to repeat with most of them, plus I like to repeat with many of the one's that I have already met in the last couple of years also. But there is only so much funds and time available. With bill-36 looming, it may be good to meet more new women now, so that if the bill is pass, you will have a larger list of women to choose from that you have already seen :) So many choices and so many wonderful women of Cerb. It is so hard to choose now. ? Decisions, Decisions :) What are you feelings on this ? I bet you thought I was going to be talking about something else. lol :)

This is my first ever recommendation ever on CERB. I have met Molly of CMJ twice already. I know I posted a thread on her , but not in the recomendation thread. Molly by far, is one of the sweetest and most romantic masseuse I have ever met :) And she really has such amazing body and lovely face. I'd suely vouch for her.

Hello! My name is Bridgette and I am an exotic dancer at Barbarella's. Come and get cozy with me! With my long auburn hair hiding us from the rest of the world, we can share a sensual escape of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. You only two more chances to catch me at 340 Queen Street on a Tuesday for a mid-week escape: tomorrow, March 24th and next week, April 7th. I'll be around from noon until about 6pm. You can also find me at Barb's on: Saturday, April 11th from 2-7pm Friday, April 17th from 12-6pm Saturday, April 18th from 2-7pm *As of April 17th, I'll regularly be in on Friday afternoons from noon until about 6pm. XO

You may get more responses if you copy and paste her Bp link under your question. It saves people from logging onto back page and doing a search. I haven't seen her my self tho

If men notice they really don't say to much which is wonderful and a sure sigh its not all about a certain look. I have done extreme changes like go form blond hair to green hair, although that was noticed it didn't seem to matter either. I thank my good regular guests who accept my weight, hair and boobies. :icon_smile::icon_smile:

If this is being thought of because a client would like to know how he rates in comparison to other clients, my question is this. Who cares. The lady's other clients are likely not even known to him, or at the most, known only as a board handle and vice versa. If that is the case, that someone is concerned about other clients, kinda comes across as a tad insecure A good client wouldn't want to be part of this "recommendation" pool, because he wouldn't want to put a lady he's seen in the unenviable position of ranking her clients And a recommendation from a client about a lady is not the same as a reference from a lady about a client. Although I'll grant you, while it may appear analogous, they are not the same. And yes, it has been brought up and discussed before. But more importantly, not accepted. That in itself should be an indicator that it isn't going to be accepted now And since now clients pay a companion only for time and companionship what criteria are men rated on. Is the lady going to say he played a good game of checkers LOL. Any discussion, by lady or gentleman discussing a paid sexual encounter now (thanks to MacKay and the CPC) is verboten. We only see companions for time and companionship At the end of the day the only thing that matters (besides the lady and myself having had a wonderful escape) is that she was happy with me as a client and I was happy with her as a companion. Being put in some recommendation pool won't change that An after lunch rambling RG

Unbroken amazing movie based on a true story. It runs 2 hrs 15 mins... If what happened to him in real life, most people could not survive one tenth of what he went thru.. An Olympic Athlete who at the start of his young life was on the wrong track. His older brother put him back on the right track. To become that Olympic Athlete who set a World record and then had to fight in WWII, in Japan. He only passed in 2014.. in his ninety's. Definitely a Movie to watch.. For those who watch it I hope you enjoy.. I did..

Hi darling, Let me chase the snow flurries and the rain this week and bring a smile on your cheeks! Never will a relaxation time be so good love! So let me capture U in my sexy net and let me ensure U will just want one thing and it's to be back chéri ! And look at my schedule here under and my sexy a bunny for a twenty special! Easter will have never been so good babe!! I am pretty with mid long flamboyant curly red hair, sexy green doe eyes, natural 38D and curvy as suggest my pics. Sexy week of March 30th to April 5th From Monday to Wednesday to Thursday available from 9 am to 4 pm possibility of working later on Thursday check my profile later for I will keep it updated. Friday, good Friday, available from 9 am to 5 pm. Saturday off so far and Sunday, Easter day, from 10 am to 2 pm. And from Thursday to Sunday with a hump, a skip and a jump, come over and bring any type of bunny or chocolate treat and get 20$ off your companionship rate! Beginners welcome! To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Thanks darling! Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !

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has anyone seen this sp? http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/all-naral-viab-cam/2392635

Fake pics, unfortunately :(

I have always been a big fan of documentaries. Just recently I watched one called Black Fish, which was about the whales used in Marine land and Sea world. It was actually quite shocking. I had no idea how many whale trainers have been attacked in such performances... and it shows how inconsiderate the parks were about whale behavior. I also have watched a number of documentaries on sex work and trafficking. Most are so cliché and do not give a well rounded view of the hobby. Very over generalized. The best one I have seen was produced by a former sex worker. It's called - American Courtesan. Both of these documentaries can be found on Netflicks. Anyone else have any good recommendations???

I think some people in this thread are conflating the notion of touch-ups like ER mentioned vs. massive photoshop changes of boob size, waist size, eye color, etc. One is certainly fine, the other, kind of sketchy. I don't think anyone is accusing people who have professional, lightly touched-up photos of misrepresenting themselves.

As someone who invests 110% in their business and marketing I feel I need to say something. Yes, I use professional photos on my website and ads, yes they are photoshopped to make me look my best(there is no harm in evening my tan or whitening my teeth). NO I have never been walked out on and I frequently get told I look better in person than my photos. I don't lie about using photoshop and I have no issue with it all all, I've been upfront on numerous occasions about being glammed up in my pics. I also tweet a lot of selfies (which are untouched), however i would never use them in my advertising. If one is going to be professional and treat this as business you need to invest in it. Once you have a professional shoot (in a studio or hotel, with hair and makeup) you don't go back. There is nothing better than being made to feel beautiful for an afternoon and have others make you feel your best. Your photos speak louder than your ads and they are usually the FIRST thing potential clients look at. I mean there are ladies who have pics with piles of laundry in the background or a full garbage can (you'd never get pics like that from a professional) I don't judge ladies who can't be bothered to take professional photos, but I don't think those of use who do should be judged either. Don't knock it till you try it.

Taking a beautiful woman to Aruba with me for a week might make me happy. But I'd need someone to look after my dog while I'm gone. Any takers for either? LOL (joking)

As I said in another thread, some will want pro photos some will want selfies and so on. No matter what a person provides someone will comment to the quality, sound, site etc, of what is provided and suggest doing something different or better. I've given up listening to what others say or want because everybody has different wants and expects different things, no one can please them all and I'm happy with what I have. I have been approached by numerous gents wanting to take pro photos but I still stick with my selfies. If I'm judged on their quality, oh well. I have an iphone 4 that's what I use for my photo's and they seem to bring in my required amount of clientele and no one who has seen me has voiced any disappointment so why fix what works. To those who may turn away because of my photo's, oh well. I'm obviously not into the latest technology gadgets . I put my money into my dogs and other animal causes.

Dear OP, Dear Ladies, and Dear Gentlemen, We have read another thread lately with a sensitive topic that took a bitter way very quickly. I am talking about the one when "if a gentleman does not feel attracted to a lady when he arrives at her door, and wants to leave, what should he do?". The OP of this past thread had not worded his question this way. It seems to me that the way this new thread started shows a similar issue. Although I am extremely tempted to respond to the OP here by using some deep ironic humor, I will keep myself from doing that. Allow me to be articulate here to bring my view about all this: a-There is a huge problem regarding the way some threads have been started by some "gentlemen" lately. This problem is called COMMUNICATION. There is always a way to phrase such things differently, and in a respectful manner. Which leads to point b. b- RESPECT is what this website is all about. This is what makes it different from other boards. This is why we feel that we are a community - and I believe that we are - even if sometimes we disagree. And I believe that we all take this core principle at heart. Which leads me to point c. c- I think that some new members - and the OP is a new one - do not seem to get what Lyla is about. They should read about all Lyla's rules before starting to post here. Because our first value is "CONSIDERATION". The choice on this board is to consider the ladies, no to "trash comment" them. Which leads me to point d. d- Even if it is true that sometimes by paying less (see the wording? Instead of saying "cheap" which is degrading I use "paying less") we still can receive a good service, there is always a way to ask for things, or express a point of view in an ELEGANT MANNER. Because.... e- We ladies are not pieces of meat. We are HUMAN BEINGS. We deserve your respect, whatever your requests or budget are when you seek a service for a relaxing moment. The point e leads back to point a, COMMUNICATION. I am starting to have no patience with people who cannot properly communicate with others, with respect, with consideration. And I shall add here that English is my second language. If I manage to do it, others can too? Is that too much to ask, consideration and respectful communication?

The saying is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and true as that may be, there is more to be said. A beautiful mind...a beautiful body...they are often a matched pair, and when tied into a person with a deep and caring soul, well, there's a combination that's hard to beat. Visiting a strip club, you're going to encounter the bodies....but rarely the minds. Here, well, the minds are here, and quite regularly the bodies also! MS

I would consider going to the valley, but I would ask for deposits first. Being that some girls have been there before with no success, and having excuses such as 'someone might see my car', or 'someone might see me go in/leave the place', it seems that reliable and reputable providers might steer clear of there. If you are afraid that someone might see you/your car, then park where its not seen and walk a fair distance if you have to. Also, walk like you have a purpose going somewhere. There is nothing more noticeable than a guy trying to sneak around, it is so obvious it's not funny. Walk with confidence and look like you belong. I really dislike when I'm asked to go somewhere then have a bunch of no-shows. Like Katherine said, I don't want to sit around wasting money. It costs us to travel, to have a place to entertain you, so it seems fair that if you ask us to come there and you book with us, at least show up!

I have met these girls, the pictures are real, recent and accurate...they are freaking fabulous french and super fun! Oceanna has the cutest petite feet that I have ever seen if you like feet plus she lots of energy, enthusiasm, likes variety and is polite about expressing her limits.

Aside from advertising, I just manifest the clients in my mind. I send out the intention, go about my day and allow it to come to me. Then the manifestation can happen. I also do a lot of meditating every morning before I get out of bed. I mediate nice clients coming to me and do not allow the time wasters or jerks to come into any of my thought processes now. If I'm waking up in a shitty mood, the universe will bring me the match to that so I'm aware now of how to deal with emotions whether I feel anger or frustration coming on. Creating a belief is very powerful. Stress, fear and resistance won't allow the clients to come. Tell yourself everyday what you're going to do and it will happen. Any self doubt will take you out of the positive alignment that would make the business come. Appreciation for what I already have or something simple as nature or their pets will bring a person financial abundance. I'm very much into Law of Attraction and metaphysics. And it works every single time whether you ask for it or not! As for traditional methods of doing business, I rely solely on my intuition. I also speak to the person and within 20 seconds I know. I will not book an appt by text or email. Email is a waste of time to me. I like to get straight to the point so I can hear the voice. That's all that matters to me and I feel them out sort of like a hound dog. lol. I'm highly intuitive aside from my experience in this business so it serves me well. I could be speaking to the nicest sounding person and a red flag could go up with the questions they are asking or their tone of voice and I will get that NO! NO! NO! in my head. I excuse myself, tell them I'm booked/not available and hang up the phone. I pick up on a person's vibes so much that sometimes I have to do more meditation to get rid of that energy. I have also found advertising the night before to be very effective. If a prospective client wants to meet, chances are they will be looking at those ads in the late evening or early in the morning so they can plan their day.

Probably said before...when a client contacts you and doesn't know your name...

Hello everyone , I hope I am posting in the proper spot . As several ladies have done I have amended my friend list . My list is already small and exclusive so my job is not huge . I hope not to offend anyone but if we have had no contact for a year we may not again . Love and good vibrations to all , Katherine

Well, to be blunt, they are there because of the exchange that you do. But then, so are you. You wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the exchange, in other words this is a mutually beneficial arrangement. There is nothing wrong with mutually beneficial arrangements between consenting adults. Most sps do this because they are people who are able to be morally open minded. They wouldn't last long if they are judgmental, or if they were self judgmental for their choices. Many clients are also morally openminded, and non judgmental. It is possible to share time with people that are friendly, fun and seemingly intimate, but are really only sharing conversation in a nonthreatening environment. This is a good thing, and will benefit you in your everyday life. Take and enjoy the experiences, and the sharing, and don't try to put a label on it. I assure you that the majority of sps do not feel taken advantage of in these mutually beneficial arrangements, they will only feel that way if something changes in the agreed upon exchange.

No question that I found it much more difficult and part of it was being around for a long time and sort of been there and done that. My criteria has become much more stringent and that reduced options as well. I also do believe there has been an impact in regard to Bill-36. On one hand it may help to weed out poor clients and poor providers but good ones on both sides will be weed themselves out as well. Peace MG

I had one (bad) experience with handcuffs. They weren't the play kind with the pink fuzz, these did not come off without a key. The key got lost amongst the blankets and we couldn't find it for 4 hours! Needless to say I started panicking and calling locksmiths, etc. Ended up deciding to just go to bed with them on, and we were gonna figure it out in the morning (BTW, this was with a BF at the time, not a client/SP thing) ... as we got into the bed, moved some blankets aside and VOILA! the key! (PHEW!!!) Needless to say, it will be a while until I decide to try that again, IF EVER!