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Here's a little graphic I made up years ago for situations just like this.

Cato! I owe you waaaaay more than a beer! The thing I most want to congratulate you for is not so much the quantity of your posts but on their quality and contribution to our Lyla/Cerb community. You are a star, a positive one, and a tremendous contributor. I'm (still) looking forward to connecting with you at Barb's!

Tonight at barbarella s untill 12 am Then monday to friday ! Please note i will be tryin pigale soon ! Many updates on my website too!

No debate after this :)

Hey Miss Pandora, I'm no expert here...very new in fact but if it's any help I can tell you what I would be looking for. The name is a bit irrelevant...if you're still offering domination keep it...if not, then you can change or keep it, I wouldn't stress over that. What I generally look for is a current ad somewhere...the reco section is nice to find a lady but I think there's just too many in there and some might not be taking new clients, some may have retired...it's just not a reliable way to find someone (it's good to validate once you've found someone you're interested in...). I suggest you list your ad on this site (ads section or schedule announcement section) or on the other popular ad site...The information I look for in an ad is: clear pictures, description (height, weight, etc), in or out, availabilities, LOCATION TYPE (this is huge for me, whether it's a hotel, private apartment, spa...) and if your willing to list, rates (this is helpful to accelerate the hobbyist's research). If there are any restrictions, list it and stick to it. When I see something like "safe only" I expect the lady to stick to it and I'm not offended by restrictions, it just reduces the possibility of getting a surprise once you show up. The more info you give the less back and forth texting is required and it saves everyone's time but I understand if there are somethings you prefer to not post publicly... If you offer something that is unique or hard to find...make sure you indicate that the option is available...that will definitely make you stand out vs other ads. so basically...as far as im concerned it's about visibility (the ads), level of information (details of your ad) and of course, recommendations (to make sure what's claimed in the ad is legit..) hope this helps...good luck with the change in service!

I think it was because Windsor had a bad rep in the past with bylaw before the laws changed and barely anyone offered incalls as a result. I've been told outcalls are popular there but this is why I never visited for this reason. I don't do late nights and outcalls. Unless incalls became more prevalent there, it may take a while before you see a change.

Went to see Licia today. This is one of those ads I was very skeptical about, but super glad that I went. Her rates is reasonable, and communication made me feel comfortable, she sounds very real. She did get pretty pissed when I had to delay our date, I feel it was very personal and cute in my eyes. Location is about 20 mins from downtown Halifax, in lakeside. Be patient with the front door, u only pull it after u see the message on the screen telling u to do so. I buzzed 3 times to get the hang of it and it was freezing... Apartment is nice, lots of her things, she has cats, we played in her bedroom, nice big bed, a mirror on the side, quite small but if the angle is right it can bring extra sensation. She is 5'1, petite little thing perfectly proportioned I thought she was 5'10 before she opened the door. Her breast is super nice perky and soft, super small waist, snow white skin, cute little feet, bouncy and perfectly shaped butt, and I did spend quite some time there. Ask her about the details Id say she is very accommodating. She is very into the entire play, very good at what she does, non rushed, she is one of those girls who understands man and what they want, and very attentive at that. I asked for a position that I thought most girls don't like but she made me feel like it's something she wants to do, when her big beautiful green eyes look into my eyes, those were the more and more rare moments that I feel living in the moment. I was very impressed. I couldn't wait to jump into the finale, so instead of her asking I asked for the condom. The few positions we tried, I was very content because of her perfect fun size, I'm a shorter person at 5'8 so she made me feel more complete being able to reach all of her when I feel it. She has silky soft hair felt great in my hands... it's just a beautiful scene whichever angle you look at her. Even though she does not advertise as a gfe but this is more gf than lots of my previous experiences, she touches and hugs, the entire experience was sensual and intimate. I told her I am sensitive so she was super gentle with that area lots of soft touches that felt sooo good, and that's just a gesture you can't help appreciating. Her face is pretty, late 20s I'd say, independent, and I'd definitely repeat and recommend anyone who is interested in seeing her. Ps, she likes it gentle. Be gentle and have a good time!

Good evening ladies and gents! While I have been a service provider for a little while now, I am quite new to the escort-related section of the internet. A little about me: Outside of this world I am a belly dancer and pole dancer, and I dabble a little in theatrics and performing. My dream is to become a burlesque showgirl! Anyway, I look forward to meeting you all and networking with you :) xoxo Venus Reign

I prefer a landing strip, but a light dusting is fine by me

Congratulations and thank you for all of your contributions!!! Cheers, :chug: :chug: :chug: :chug:

Such members as Cato make Lyla the special place, very different from other escort sites. Congratulations! And hope to see you here long time ahead! :-)

Anyone have any experience? http://backpage.com.halifax.listcrawler.com/post/20440430/

I was watching you getting close:) Congratulations, no small feat with everything else going on in this world. Thanks for your interest, camaraderie and bringing a bit of fun into our day.

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Congrats Cato on reaching this milestone, keep them coming my friend !

Actually the very first time I saw your name I thought, Great! I found myself a mistress (lover). Then when I read your ad I discovered a whole new world I had not considered. Which was intimidating. Another story for another time. Why would you want to change your name on Lyla.com? Since"Mistress" has more than one meaning, like, "secret lover". Which is kind of more fitting. (From an older gentlemans point of view). "He has a mistress (lover)." or "She is a kept woman - a mistress." The word or term "mistress" is interchangeable - "dominatrix" or "lover". Depending on how the individual interprets the word. Just my two cents of ramblings. Cheers,

I am not sure a completely new name is the way to go, especially if your current name already has a positive rep associated with it. One website with 2 distinct webpages is all you need. That way some clients have option to have both? I got one would not be scared off

Yes congrats Cato! Much deserved and many more to come... Cheers.

Hi Lyla, It's been a while since I've been active on here but I came to announce an exciting re-launch happening in a few weeks (mid March 2017) along with some new photos that I've posted on the imagery page of my website! I hope you enjoy! For more, follow me on Twitter www.alexandra-sky.com

As a bisexual woman, I'm personally attracted to the full bush on other women. Especially those who have dark colored hair! I am indifferent about my own style. I keep shaved/bald as it seems to be the most popular among clients. For men I like the look of hair, but for practicality reasons I suppose shaved is more convenient. This is assuming everyone keeps good hygiene, of course!!

I had a big disappointment a few weeks ago (of a very different nature). She made up for it the next week and I actually think I know what happened.

Yeah.. Run away from this one as fast as you can.

This may be said in jest so sorry if I misread, but in case it isn't: It is unlikely a provider will physically be unable to eat if you cancel, but you have to understand YOU are providing the income. She's not paid hourly. There's no business to pay her. As well, you just ruined a chunk of her time that she can now no longer use for appointments unless maybe she miraculously gets a last minute call... but that's rare, so assume what you did was rip away her income for that day and then make it difficult to make back that money. As well... providers charge high rates as this is a luxury service. It does not mean she's getting 10+ guys a day and a freaking millionaire. It could mean she's getting maybe one a day and living off essentially minimum wage. Who knows, and who cares... but the point is if you cancel, yes, you are hurting her financially... in more ways than just your missing payment. Sadly too many gents do not understand this and throw hissy fits when asked for cancellation fees- sometimes shit happens and girls will let it slide but empathy should be felt if a girl asks for a cancellation fee. Many business make you pay them, so I find it odd the entitlement felt ESPECIALLY in this business. :/ And thanks to all the gents that do understand this conundrum and either cancel with enough time for the girl to replace your appointment, or pay a fee if it's too last minute. Y'all make the world go round. :)

Winnipeg Wolsely Area Times February 19th till 25 I'm truly mature lady.delivering a symphony of luxury and sensual delight to discriminating professional gentlemen both younger and older I'm a woman of 43 years of age. I stand 5' 3" with a voluptuous body And Spectacular 36 Hs, 100% Natural Breast I have long Chestnut hair and my eyes are beautiful shades of Sky Blue I have the maturity of experience, coupled with my confidence in my feminine skills that make's me truly a oh.la.la experience Mornings are my favorite, YES I will get up as early 5am Just book the evening before GIFT AMOUNTS IN CALLS First time Callers Book via phone calls ONLY 2Hour : $500 Hour : $300 Half Hour : $200 PREBOOK BEFORE THE 18th $50 off Please have a pre-counted donation ready upon arrival in an unsealed, discrete envelope. Do not make me feel uncomfortable by making me ask for it. Please note "menu items" are NOT listed Because I don't have one , it's ���� . Sorry gentlemen I try to accommodate your wishes and to exceed your expectations. But if a "menu" is what your looking for and it extremely important to u I may not be the lady for you I do entertain men of all races, size and height, however I do discriminate the ones that are negative, arrogant and disrespectful. So if we haven't met before please contact for more info if needed, because your discretion is as important to me as mine is. Seen before clients can text me 416 700-6695 Sorry No blocked calls , No apps ,No texting [email protected]

I'm always a little nervous. Hoping I live up to your expections.

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I agree with Sophia here in NOT promoting lades that are clearly not a part of this group. If someone wants a recommendation of someone who is strictly on BP and not on Lyla, then it is up to that person to find out for themselves. I, for one, would gladly pay a monthly fee to be part of a group where we can have these open discussions. Why should this site support those that don't want to be a part of this? I've been contacted in the past about other girls having a listing here, and they 'can't be bothered'. But they will pay to have their ads on BP. I have ads on BP and several other sites, but I get more feedback and a better quality of gentlemen from here. There are too many rip-off artists on BP, at least here on Lyla, we are protected from this sort of thing. Things have changed from the threads that I have been reading from before I joined this. It seems that the governments 'wandering eye' has taken a lot of people out of the game. This is entertainment, and as such we should be free to choose to offer this. This is a great site, I've looked at others and still am here. Keep up the good work Lyla, I love it here.

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I was looking for something to do in Thunder Bay, and I was looking at this ad. She is really pretty:) Anyone have any experience with her or anything to share? http://thunderbay.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/to-all-thunder-bay-men-24-7-in-and-out-calls-807-252-2272/54695152

That she did, honey color and fun to play with !

I like to call it a hat trick.

I'm a new member and just wanted to introduce myself. This appears to be a respectful place and I've enjoyed reading the many contributions.

Congratulation Emily J on reaching 2000 post, you are a hot and sexy young lady, I can't wait to see more of your post.

Whoohoo. Love you and your posts. Congratulations!!

For me, it has been staying true to myself. Trying new things, knowing that this industry is constantly changing and embracing change and the things I like. I myself am never judgemental and open-minded and adapt well to change and new experiences, I can't say I don't enjoy something if I've never tried it at least once. I revise my business plan, goals, experiences I provide and marketing every few months to see what works and what doesn't and I learn and grow as a companion by doing so. I have lots of fun and enjoy truly being a companion and the experiences I have and the wonderful people I get to meet. I take being a companion very seriously and love that I never have the same repetitive experiences daily, while exploring my sexuality, sharing apart of me with amazing people and enjoying what I have to offer. Being a companion has been the best career choice I have made thus far and I'm happy and proud of my choice and my decision to be a long term companion. I have left numerous times for University and when I became a Mother but I somehow always come back and love it more each time. This business allows me freedoms to enjoy life as well as run my other more vanilla business, I'm not wasting the degree and certifications this business has afforded me to attain and the life I enjoy.

Great topic Summer, thank you for starting it, I've learned so much! How do I find out what really pleases a lady and what she actually likes or dislikes? (In person, not on the phone/email) Things like to be stroked here, touched there, don't whisper the word "bongo" in my left ear. I've tried various ways of asking and I'm often told "Whatever you like". I'm a giver and take direction well - what I really like/get off on is to please a lady! My perfect encounter is leaving knowing that she was pleased. Also, how do I find out what I'm doing right, and more importantly, wrong?: faster, slower, harder, softer, more to the left, ow! you're knee is on my long hair, the left one needs some attention too, etc.

I am a straight forward person and I like those who I deal with to be the same. No one has to be crude but tip toeing through the tulips about questions, do's and don'ts is silly. Just ask! Most of us can tell when a question is being asked out of sincerity and for learnedness and when one is being used for perversion or a guy just being a pig. Having knowledge of both parties boundaries, likes and dislikes, do's and don'ts will only imo lead to a more successful and enjoyable time and I think very helpful. There can still be mystery after all, especially with a new client , his looks, characteristics, smell, abilities are all going to be things to look forward to and unknown until you meet, even with a known client a session can be like you've never met-new again. They are what we- client and sp- make them after all;) Additional Comments: Tell your friend fear not. Did you know that sometimes an sp can feel intimidated and not good enough as well. We too are human;) but also very caring and I'll speak for myself - I'd rather have you walk away feeling better as a man because I made you feel better mentally about yourself rather than you walking away thinking damn she gave great head! I know what it's like to feel insecure, uncomfortable and unsure. Pleasuring someone is easy making someone feel confident, secure and comfortable takes genuine care and concern. All clients should know their comfort in all aspects is the goal of an sp. We aren't here to judge we want to get to know YOU and make you feel glad you came;)

This is a great question! For me, the answer has nothing to do with anything remotely "sexual". Conversation, conversation, conversation!!! Before and after :) I absolutely love the conversation before, and consider it the greatest of foreplay. I also absolutely love the cuddling at first quiet, and then relaxed conversation afterwards. In regards to the "in between" conversation time ;)... I appreciate when a gentleman is genuine. Enjoys himself, immerses himself in the moments with me. :)

I love discussing desires, wants and needs prior. It gives me an idea of the gentleman and what he enjoys. Just because I know things beforehand doesn't mean that our date is scripted in ANY way but it's much easier to follow the flow of desire if I know that you might enjoy this or that and you're giving indications of wanting that as opposed to stopping in the middle to ask and then determine boundaries. I have discussed some things ahead of time only to have desire lead in a completely different direction during. Knowledge is simply a basis on which to build mutual exploration!

Great thread, great question, great answers! It is, in a word...terrific. ;) I'm curious how ladies feel if a potential client mentions their particular turn-ons and sexual preferences ahead of a first encounter (assuming it's not in an overly crass way, of course). Is that kind of information ahead of time helpful in terms of preparing for a better encounter and knowing if there's likely to be chemistry? Or is it presumptuous and off-putting? Or put it another way: if a potential client is interested in knowing if you enjoy/offer a given activity, is there a "best" way to ask?

Some of my most valued friendships are with other providers. Partly it is due to the stigma of being a sex worker -- very few of my civilian friends know what I do, so it has been invaluable to have those friendships where I can vent about frustrating situations and ask for opinions from others in the industry. And, it's not a secret that I offer duos with one of my best friends. It makes the chemistry that much better, that we connect on a level where we are comfortable with each other (and, lesbihonest ;) I think she's hot) and I think it shows in our sessions together.

What would you say to a guy that would love to visit an SP but feels very intimidated and don't think he is good enough! (lol....And of course I am asking for a friend!! ) ;)

It is a very fine line and one that must always be re-defined and re-established. For myself personally, I prefer to get to know my clients on a deeper level. I encourage conversation and sharing prior to appointments and continued communication after the fact. For me, this deeper connection improves the time we spend together for me as much as for them. As humans, we have emotions. And I have learned over the years that human connection and emotions are something that I require. I have also learned not to let emotions control me. I feel what I feel, but I always keep things in perspective. This is just what works for me :)

Oh ya taking a shower with the lady can be so much fun! It's great foreplay even after play. So guys its easy to remember "the wetter the better" think I may have used someone catch phrase but its a good one. Hehe and true in several ways haha