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HI: she will be travelling in NS soon...book asap..you won't regret it...trust me!!!...she will book fast.mmmm please no pm's...seen her once & wished I had booked previously with her when she had ad's posted..she's like the energizer bunny!!!

I am a fan of dry as they can lead to opportunity and safety 💋 The automated systems very well could become better with time, but that also very much depends on who is responsible for their tweaking. It is however very hard to compete with free. No matter what kind of SCR grips the wheel. I am a bit of a dreamer still 😉

The problem is that moderation becomes impossible at the scale of the big social media platforms. Automated systems don't work that well and getting humans to do it costs far too much money. Maybe if it were a paid service... but who's going to pay for these things now that we're all accustomed to having them for free (or at least, for a non-obvious price)? I'm glad someone likes the section 230 stuff... it's important, but rather dry for most folks' taste!

Ashley is in town (complying with Atlantic bubble, so no worries). She is amazing. Very easy to talk to and we hit it right away with our common interest in gaming. Very skilled and lovely personality. We had a good time together and looking forward to meeting her again. Don't miss out.

I have never considered it a fetishist but I have a compulsion to preform oral on a lady... I know... I know who doesn't lol. It blows my mind to see the effect just a tongue, lips and a few well placed fingers can have on a woman. I love to watch and listen to how the lady reacts ... that initial touch of the tongue... the feel of her hand on the back of my head.... the way you feel her body tense up.... her reaction to two well placed fingers that bend and extend....noticing how her breathing changes.... watching for her lower back to arch .... hearing that little gasp of air just before we are both rewarded. If that was a whole session I would be happy. Just my Opinion

What do you do when you fall in love with your SP? I mean, I was not expecting this! Does anyone else have this experience?

She’s most definitely real. I saw her in SJ many years ago as well and the experience was great. Not partaking on he hobby ATM, but I contacted her to say hello and can assure you, it’s really her and those pictures are all her.

Remember when we could go anywhere, at any time without having to wear a mask?

Hello friends! I’m touring to Halifax and I can’t wait to see you! Please don’t worry, I am quarantining already. I am available for in person dates from Jan 29 to Feb 7, and available for sext or video dates now! Pre-bookings and longer dates are being prioritized, so schedule a date while you still can! Follow me on Twitter - @junestarr18 - there are more pictures there 😉

Even though chances were slim that she would feel the same way, I think it was brave of you to try. I’m glad she responded to you with compassion. It brings to mind @waterrat’s interview and his valuable insights on the topic.

Thanks for the input! I have had an open discussion with her. She was very sweet about the whole thing. Looks like this happens frequently for her so she was not shocked when I confessed how I feel but clearly asserted her policy of keeping professional life separate from personal. Pardon me if this was the wrong forum. I was simply hoping my fellows on lyla had experienced the same and could advise me. She suggested a dating site if I want a partner lol. Win some, loose some.

I have a thing for public sex. The risk of being caught is very exciting!

I believe a love relationship survives long term if both people are mature thinking people who are very compatible regardless of what their occupations are or have been. Do they fight fair and really listen to each other. Many ladies in the sex trade have fallen in love with their clients and worked out an arrangement with them that works for both of them. Those who marry and leave the business just don't report back to the public as a rule so gathering reliable stats on how well they work out is impossible and not really a yardstick to use anyway. If they didn't work out well, it likely has more to do with the characters and personalities of the people than it did with working in the sex trade. Leaving the sex trade would remove much possible conflict clearly, but it depends on what kind of love relationship the couple wants and needs for themselves that is the real bottom line. If you define love as "strong liking" as opposed to the more "forsaking all others" kind of devotion, a couple can still be in love long term and be happy if they have maturity no matter what they do for a living in my opinion. .

Try it you will enjoy... trust me.

Well I notice you said "when YOU fall in love" so the question I have is...is it mutual? If it's not.... remember you went into this as a business relationship so you don't have the right to decide it is something different now. If it's mutual then you need to be talking to her and not us. Just my Opinion.

Well, if you're in love. then I suggest living together, getting married, have an open relationship.... whatever turns your crank and both parties agree to and find fulfilling. Of course any of these options will be more expensive than the current situation. This is the voice of experience here.... to quote my dear friend Zorba the Greek: "Am I not a man? And is not a man stupid? I'm a man, so I'm married. Wife, children, house--everything. The full catastrophe."

Sorry @Jackrlx9691 I prefer the first statement that you said about joining them, I did this before and for them it was time for me to do it. I waited about 15 minutes to join because it was so sensual and they seemed to have fun, I didn't want to ruin that for them but when I did they took off my clothes real fast and I thought they were going to eat me alive. Luckily I'm still around to tell the story and would love to live it again. I do understand your point of view of just watching because women are so soft with each other and they love touching each other softly and firmly with lots of kissing of body parts, it's like they want to compare their own body to the partner that they are with. You understand what I mean?

Ashley's fantastic, as are all the French Ladies. Let's keep 'em coming!

The latest YFL, Ashley, is in town. She’s attractive, skilled, and very easy to talk with. Booking was effortless. Location is a very nice downtown hotel. Her English is great. Enjoy, BD

I was in similar (maybe ??) situation in the past but I consider it differently. Of course, we all come to escort world to satisfy our dream or fantasy, something what is not present in our real life. And why should one regret if something like this happened? Over the years, I had several regular Ladies for different reasons. But with that one it was very simple - I just could not see the other Ladies. I thought about her being with the other woman and such a date did not have any sense. This made her not just regular but exclusive one. I always waited for our next date and I missed talking to her, I missed her smile, the feel of her body when I hug her, taste of her kiss, her laughing eyes, her silky hair... I have forgotten long time ago that I can feel something like this. And I will be always grateful to this woman for that wonderful year when I felt really alive again.

I think some things were left out by the OP here. He said he helped her out financially to stop working. Did he expect her to stop working? A lot about this situation is not clear. I think one has to keep in mind that no matter how one may feel about an SP and they are paying to see her, they cannot be upset about the nature and circumstances of the relationship between client and SP. Unless the SP blatantly leads him on and taking things to another level and still expecting some sort of compensation, then that is outside of the regular SP -client relationship. No one can blame an SP for a client having feelings and then getting upset that he has to pay her for her time. It doesn’t work that way. I know feelings can sometimes get ahead of reality but we all have to remember why we are here and how a client has met an SP. Escort ads aren’t dating sites. We are here to provide an experience with no strings attached. Bottom line.. don’t cross into uncharted waters. It can be a rough aftermath. Just enjoy the experience for however long it lasts.

Keep in mind that the reason why you go and see all the wonderful ladies that help you realize that fantasy that you want, you let yourself be vulnerable and if you enjoyed her company you will want to return for more. The chances that she will quit this profession is small and will you have this in the back of your head for the length of time you 2 will share together? After a days work when you come home from a tough day you will need someone to vent to, someone neutral about their feelings, will you do the same with her? Take a look at the big picture for now and see if you fit in it.

Greenteal and DrLove made very good points. I have also met some wonderful ladies that I have seen many times and fantasized about what it might have been like to meet them outside of this hobby. And that's where I always stop. I met them in an environment where we are expected to keep the boundaries in mind, especially after many wonderful sessions. It has happened where feelings are mutual and a genuine relationship has developed, but I believe these instances to be very rare. Maybe you are lucky and have been able to find one of these special relationships. My one caution to you would be to consider that if you do express a desire to move beyond the client-SP relationship you may risk scaring her off. Or are you better off continuing within the confines of your current relationship where you have met someone you can feel comfortable with during the time you spend together? In the end, whatever you choose to do will be right for you but be aware there could be unanticipated consequences. Good luck!

Thanks for sharing... I don’t presume to know the specifics of your situation, although I can certainly understand why you feel the way you do. When you’re with someone that you feel you really connect with, the emotions and feelings you experience are real. However, and I want to say this gently, try not to forget the context of your interaction. In other words, you likely met this woman in a business capacity. Now, that’s not to say genuine feelings cannot develop- they certainly can. In my experience, I’ve come to know some incredible women over the years, some of whom I consider friends - however, I don’t lose sight of the broader picture. I enjoy the time we have when we’re together, but I never expect anything more than that. In all my years in this industry, I’ve only heard of a few instances where a real relationship has developed. I’m not saying this to be harsh; On the contrary, I wouldn’t want to see you get hurt. If you feel that broaching the subject with her may assuage some of your trepidations, you can certainly discuss how you feel. However, be prepared that she may not feel the same way. Another suggestion may be to try and find a genuine, reciprocal connection by exploring real life dating etc.. That may be one way to fill the void. You may also want to consider talking to a therapist to try to get at the root cause of what’s missing in your life and how you’re feeling. Trust me, there’s no shame in that. I once went through a bad break up with a woman I’d been dating, and it helped me see things clearer. Again, these are simply some ideas and options.... not saying what you should or shouldn’t do. Please accept my fondest wishes that everything works out for you!