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Yes, I've heard that this is a significant problem. And even if the money doesn't get withheld until after the shoot, anyone who doesn't go along with it is still likely to be labelled "hard to work with" and will find their opportunities drying up. There are some explicitly ethical porn producers, but... not enough. Back to front happens all the time. Again, I think it's safe enough when you've spent enough time sanitizing everything beforehand and you're dealing with a rectum that's clean enough to eat your dinner off. But people forget that, and then start to emulate what they see on screen... I'm not even a fan of pina colada, so I'll definitely steer clear of the hepatitis one....

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I'm not sure if this is over for the month yet but I loved seeing votes for @500 Pound Gorilla. The interview he provided was quite Brave (you know I love bravery!) and time with him is definitely worthwhile 💋 If it's too late for April considerate it a vote for May.

Oh man I enjoyed this thread. Things I agree with most would certainly be double-dipping is yucky and dangerous. A lot of what you see in porn like Phaedrus said does come with a lot of preparation. I am a fan of backdoor play from time to time and preparation for that is enough for me. I cannot imagine what they go through to prepare for some of the scenes I have watched. I do remember reading an article once about really hardcore scenes and some producers not signing the ladies cheques until after the performance was over, to encourage them to endure what they wanted on film. Horrible and when I read that I was quite happy I have never considered getting involved in that industry. I've always preferred to do my own thing. This way how weird I get is on me, not some dude with a pen. I know double dipping between ladies was mentioned but I'm not sure if I remember seeing from front to back. I'm not judging those who might be into something like that but I can certainly say the thought of it irks me. Ass to mouth is also a very hard limit of mine. I can go with it the hepatitis colada thank you! Some of the things mentioned were a little tame and with proper communication certainly enjoyable amongst certain personalities. I like to try new things and push it to the interesting side at times but don't go too far. Dominatrixes in porn are often very different from dominatrixes in real life. Every goddess has and sets her own style. A few times I've come across some confusion as I feel the client may have had a more porn based expectation in their mind. If this is the experience you seek, it is still valid but don't be afraid to admit that is all you know of it. It would be a shame to see anyone get themselves into a situation they're not sure how to talk their way out of 😸 More of these glorious and kinky conversations please!

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Wow I am very Impressed ! Great interview @SamGaines, its obvious you know yourself and (your Clientele) and a good understanding of women. Thank you @Allie Zeon for your contirbution to this thread ,it really asked the questions I found myself asking in my mind . My only wish after seeing Sams website was that I could follow him on twitter , I hope a profile for there is in the works!,. I wish there more Highly Professional male escorts like Sam in Canada , specifically Vancouver .

Aw thank you , for your kind words , it would be my pleasure to meet and also to connect on twitter . I tried to come out east last summer , but could not enter , maybe next year ,since this summer seems too many lockdowns 😞 , Anything I can help you with regarding the westcoast just ask away .

Kingston is on my radar for a visit as soon as it is safe to do so 💋

Hi been looking for a woman who likes to be in charge of a man and are there any in the city the??

If you want I can inquire about them with my wife...innocently of course...and tell you which one the are. I know that she got them from Amazon....they might be called the Tik Tok leggin's.

I am pretty sure Sassy Ashley is not Nadia. They are two different ladies.

Just seemed appropriate for this thread A Seinfeld "Rambling???" well sort of RG

https://i.imgur.com/NSuidfP.mp4

The articulation in your writing is impressive and this was an amazing interview. Taking the time to make sure others were aware that your views may not reflect everyone else's experience really stood out 👏 You are incredibly aware and truly a gem!

Degrading dirty talk/abuse unless its requested (to each their own) Double dipping.. no... just no... Choking...I understand where @NotchJohnson is coming from but definitely must be with an experienced person Urinating (though that may be a turn on for someone..) Random Anal inserts... stay safe. Oral Gagging... again approval and experience matters with everything Rough Sex.. time and place for it but as @lydiahardwood mentioned, knowing my partner can walk decently normal the next day lol Also agree for the future, clear consent would help the next generations learn better then to cross unwanted boundaries, but so should parents be having these chats. Spontaneous bondage... I have had a new-ish fling tell me to lay down for a massage only to find her tying my wrists together... though her agenda was to rub ice over my body and I enjoyed it, we were not at a stage I expected it. I was glad it was only ice and only my arms, if it were whips or wax I may have went into defense mode lol @Allie Zeon what is your take on this all?

thank you , you are too kind ! I am really new here , and would have a very hard time deciding between @EmilyRushton, and @MsManda amazing ladys !

Watching the action in porn is like watching the Fast and Furious franchise. Looks exciting but I hope people aren't trying to drive like they do in the movies. (OK, there are idiots out there that do drive like that but they're IDIOTS!) As it was mentioned before, there is a lot of prep work and need to get specific camera angles involved as well as the desire to come up with unique positions to add variety to the films. Not necessarily practical or enjoyable.

And you never get judged or laughed at, although threads like these are an excuse to recycle Seinfeld memes. A Recycled Rambling...I Think 🤔 RG

She is a genuine kind beautiful lady with a warm and friendly personally that aim at pleasing you and make you happy. Definitely not a clock watcher. Had a super great time Saturday May 1st at 10h, thank you!

Very impressive to see such wisdom from such a young lady! Well done @Clara Fonseca @lydiahardwood Great topic , I am always learning so much on your site!

Masterbation is a form of Self Love and self care, I need to have more of both , its very easy to put ourselves last, and take care of ohers needs and not our own . Love this thread , Love yourselves Everybody!

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Well....I'm not a golfer but I would play a game with her and watch how she plays it any day...rain or shine !

I never said that you "should" buy them....all I said is that I recommend them. I also said that if you do and "could" share the pictures on here. The only reason I said this is to help the ladies to promote themselves on here. I can find plenty of the pictures online myself as you can all see how many I post on many threads.

Ciara for sure. I’ve been there.

Oh, gawd... where to start? Double-dipping? Yes, they do it in porn and it's probably safe enough... but you don't get the see the hours of decidedly unsexy cleaning that goes into making sure you can do that without getting infections all over the place. Choking? From what I've read, this is becoming a huge problem. There's an entire generation of men that have grown up believing that grabbing someone's throat while you fuck her is an entirely normal thing to do. Fingering? If you go at someone's ladybits the way they normally do in porn, you're going to hurt her. This is why an increasing number of providers just don't allow it at all. Spit? If the number of "spit is not lube" posts I see on Twitter is anything to go by, this is another big one. And honestly, all the rough sex you see in porn. Hopefully that was all negotiated beforehand, but we keep reading horror stories about people who go beyond what was agreed on shoots. And even when that doesn't happen, it doesn't help with the people who get the idea that you can just start the slapping/jackhammering/whatever else without talking about it first. And on a less serious note: a lot of the positions in porn look really uncomfortable to me. But I guess they're driven by the need to let a camera in to see what's going on, which isn't a concern for most of us.

Name calling....I was doing doggy style with a sexy 20's girl and she turned around and said "how do you like your daughter's ass this way...Daddy !", lost my erection right away. I don't have a daughter only a son but having that image in my head was just an instant turn off. I can imagine the same with a lady if she was called "bitch", "whore", "slut" etc... she might be into it but this should be discussed between both parties before it happens.

THANK YOU @lydiahardwood for giving me a voice , and a warm welcome your site . and thank you to @NotchJohnson @StephanieMystique @500 Pound Gorilla @Allie Zeon for taking the time to read and share yout thoughts . it is nice to be a member of a community like this one here on Lyla , where I am able to share my opinions , without having to fear personal attack .

I'd like to nominate @500 Pound Gorilla, ha also had a great interview and his a great member of Lyla as well !

I have a meeting scheduled with Sam early March. I have talked and FaceTimed with him and he is what he says he is. I am a widow and can usually find someone for just sex but what Sam offers is an intimate experience of being loved and to be loving. Also a friend and companion. Thanks for posting this interview. jj

@SamGaines you are the only straight male escort whom I know that can make it as full time career. Bravo to you dear. Obviously, the girls like you here simply because you are articulate and know how to treat us right. Yes, some of your comments are over the top but we like that too lol. We are selling part of the fantasy as a companion, something that is lacking or missing in our day-to-day life and you fill this niche perfectly 👍 Btw, you already answer my questions through your replies

Hey its my pleasure ;) Being that my market is very small, fortunately I don't get flooded with enquiries :p I can usually figure out very quickly if somebody is a scammer or not. I don't know exactly what it's like for a female escort but I can only guess they have to spend a lot of time filtering.

Probably aisle 6 and 9 too.

Someone's in for a splash zone extravaganza!

Excellent and noted 😽 Do they call Ottawa the city fun forgot because most of the fun people in Ottawa are travelling? Covid has me a bit more stationary these days but I need my ass on the East Coast again soon! I appreciate your response Sam 💋

Yes, I am based in Ottawa :p I travel all over but base myself there.

it's funny, i;m usually not impressed of what female escort writes on her bio but guy like you probably like it. As a matter of fact, i usually don't read her bio because the bio is written to attract male clienteles in general. There is difference between us on the opposite spectrum for sure. C'est la vie:)

He is a good marketer, probably a good businessman too. check this last quote of him: "I am very passionate about what I do and I think if done right it can really help people. I am here to give women what they need from a man. I just use my profession as an unconventional way to do it 😉" It;s almost exactly what i expressed on my interview with Lydia. Being an escort, either as a male, female, non binary, trans, gay or lesbian or anything in between (crossdresser) if we do it properly we really do make people happier and energized. Again, Sam has confirmed it on his interview. He is a smartie:)

I AM A FAN OF SAM! Do we have one of these humans in Ottawa? Thrilled to see that there are men providing for ladies as well and genuine connection is at the top of this lady's list. I believe that's why I adore worship so much. Men like Sam truly are precious 💋 Going give this another read but must bring my toy with me this time...

Networking and reputation? I think discretion is pretty important and the clients might not tell their personal experience to others. There is no review board for straight male escort either. I just look at Sam's website. Articulately written and he seems to be very patient and capable of soothing and convincing his clients. There is no Price set on his website although he mentions multiple hours booking is recommended. I look at his gallery: fit, muscular with a nice masculine jaw as well as being a gentleman. I'm intrigued too 😜 Is Sam a member of Lyla? I have more personal questions lol

Technically, everybody can be an escort but only very few can make it as a fulfilling career. Being male escort is very challenging since most women can get laid pretty easily compared to men. This is rather personal question to Sam:. Are you doing this full time?

I think Shrek is quite sexy 😗

Wow...I'm blown away with Sam's answers, care to share your website to the rest of us? Thanks ☺️

Guy's a modern day Casanova. I wonder if he gives advice to regular joes, when it comes to attracting and being intimate with women.