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I will be organizing the next Ottawa social for both male and female CERB members in good standing on Thursday, February 7, 2013 in Ottawa. Since this is being organized by CERB members for other CERB members, please do not bother the MOD about this event. It will be held a centrally located venue in Ottawa. It will be in a reserved room of a public bar/restaurant. It will run from approximately 6:30 p.m. until closing time. There will be a variety of music played and dancing will be encouraged. There will be a limit of 60 spots available (ideally 30 gents/30 ladies), on a first-come, first-served basis to those members in good standing who have some presence on the board or in the hobby (if you have a low post count, but good rep, that's all we care about). There will be a cost for gents to attend and tickets will be available starting now. You will be able to pay by e-mail money transfer, postal money order or cash (in person). The price of the tickets will be $40. This is to cover drinks for the ladies, appetizers, door prizes and other expenses associated with organizing these events. There will be no cost to the ladies to attend, however you will have to confirm 3 days before the event that still intend on coming due to the fact we always sell out and end up with a waiting list. If you didn't get a chance last time, you will be given first priority. I am looking forward to seeing old friends and meeting new ones. This is a meet and greet social event in a public venue (no hanky panky :smile:) and as with past events, expect all attendees to behave accordingly. Remember, CERB members from all across Canada (and elsewhere) are welcome to attend. If you think you might like to join us, feel free to pm and let me know. Angela of Ottawa Your humble social organizer.

If you need to hide your belongings there is a BIG problem!

I specialize in retainer type exchanges and I always have. It has so many benefits for myself and the gentlemen that chose this option that I can't begin to list them. The emotional intimacy, connection, friendship and stability enhances my life in ways I never imagined in my 20's. The only issue I see with Sugar Baby/Daddy relationships is the difficult position it inevitably puts the Sugar Baby in financially. Young girls become dependent on the financial income very quickly and when the man withdraws (as he ALWAYS does at some point) she is usually left stranded financially trying to scramble to pay her bills. I've seen it so many times and I willingly warn young providers from becoming dependent on one client. There are square girls out there who seek out this type of relationship and if they are genuinely mature then they can make it work but often they do not have discipline to take advantage this type of relationship. If they know the game, they always come out with the long end of the stick and in my mind these girls are just prostitutes with a different business model. They end up costing far more than having an escort on retainer. Even some escorts mismanage the security of the "one, big client" and don't save up for when the ride is over. When the relationship with a square Sugar Baby comes to an end the potential for drama is huge. If emotions are involved, things can become very unstable. When the $ comes off the table, she will panic. Sugar Babies never understand the their true disposablility in the Sugar Daddy's life and when that realization hits, it hits hard. It's this hurt that will make her unstable in her reaction because it makes her feel used. Enter this situation at your own risk, I have yet to see one end with a shred of grace or dignity involved. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned... cat

If you're interested in an ongoing, contractual or retainer-type relationship, I think you've come to the right place. What you can expect from the arrangement will, frankly, depend on what you can afford to pay. Most of us are doing what we do in order to make a living. Some work part-time because their other line of work doesn't bring in enough income. It's rare to find someone who is really only working to pay for occasional luxuries. Please recognize that sexual monogamy is likely to be very expensive. Asking the woman to give up having an intimate, emotionally-engaged relationship with someone else is a big demand to make on a woman in her 20s. Since you're only wanting something that might last a year or two, presumably because you either don't want a permanent relationship or because you already have one and just want to supplement your needs and interests, the woman you find would still be giving up a disproportionate amount of time and opportunity in her own life. However, this might be acceptable to someone who's in grad school, for example, and determined to focus mostly on her studies or writing her dissertation. If you're imagining that someone who isn't already a paid companion is more likely to be infection-free, please do your homework. The notion that prostitutes who don't work on the streets are a source of disease is not only a blatant stereotype, it's simply false. You are far more likely to contract an infection from a sweet college girl who's only had a couple of boyfriends or from a lovely lady you've met in a bar or on a dating site than you would from one of us. That's because we know that every man, regardless of age, ethnicity or financial profile, whether he's a client or a genuine boyfriend, is a potential source of infection. We take steps to safeguard our health accordingly. In the end, the only person's health care anyone is responsible for is their own. Consider carefully exactly what kind of financial investment you're able to make. Can you, for example, pay for someone's rent? Or are you thinking more along the lines of her university tuition, per term (which would usually be somewhat less than rent)? Are you able to cover all of her living expenses, which would be about two to two and a half times her monthly rent? Or are you simply wanting to be sure that you have first-call on her time for a couple of hours every Tuesday but want to get a discount on her hourly rate? Any of these arrangements could work out well. Just make sure each of you is very clear about what to expect. How do you plan to pay your sugar baby? Cash is king, but you may prefer to arrange for regular electronic bank transfers. Some people provide reloadable credit cards. Arranging for an auto lease is not uncommon. Whatever plan you come up with, how do you expect to safeguard things on your side? Do you have a completely private bank account, for example, with no risk of anyone else knowing about your deposits and withdrawals? What I'm trying to say is: if you have a wife or partner, how will you ensure that she doesn't find out what you're doing? I ask because I'm dedicated to ensuring that women in this industry are safe; I can't encourage you to put someone's security at risk because you overlooked the possibility of being discovered by your intimate partner, employer or secretary. Think about the kind of woman you want to be with. I understand that you're interested in someone who's young and beautiful. That's not a problem. But surely you want someone you can actually enjoy, as a person. Someone with whom you may have interests in common. Someone for whom you can actually care, and who will also develop real affection and regard for you would be ideal because you both need a significant level of trust if this arrangement is going to work out well. However, if you want a situation in which there will be little to no emotional involvement, you may be better off with a roster of companions, seeing one on the first Wednesday of the month, another on the second Wednesday, and so on. Do know that we can become quite fond of monthly regulars, though. I have a couple of those whom I've seen for several years and for whom I care a great deal. Please also consider how long you want the arrangement to last and how either of you will end it. You might enter into something that's intended to last for six months, an academic year or a full calendar year, for example. Or you might want to keep things more open and simply guarantee that you will give at least one or two months' notice before ending your financial commitment so that your companion has a reasonable opportunity to make other arrangements. I hope you will be more relaxed about what you would require of her if or when she decides that the arrangement needs to change or come to an end. I think I can safely say that the great majority of women on this board are interested in quality engagements with kind, respectful and caring men who value us as individuals. The number of paid companions who genuinely want to see 10-15 or more clients per week is miniscule. We all value returning clients and those of us who have a number of ongoing, regular clients consider ourselves to be blessed. Sugar daddy arrangements and Mistress-type relationships can work very well if they're undertaken thoughtfully. I hope you find what you're looking for.

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I very much agree that having to hide your belongings is a big problem. I always make sure I'm with my client for mutual reassurance. I now always ask my visitor if he has everything and to check again if in doubt. I had a guest once forget a personal item and arranging a time for him to come back and collect it was a bit stressful, not to mention indiscreet if a neighbor were to see, or if he knocked at the wrong time. It's equally important to remember to check your pockets, wrists, feet for both socks on, hat on head, scarf, etc. Winter is the worst season for forgetting these things. :) It's no longer a surprise to what has been asked to come back for.

If I may, you should look through the site and find ladies that interest you. Read their recco's and view their website(if they have one) Their profile page on cerb is also a wealth of information. Some ladies do have an age restriction and or may not be comfortable with seeing someone who is new to this or who is unable to provide a reference. Contact the ladies you are interested in by their preferred method of contact and go from whom you have the best chemistry with. Take your time and do your homework and you will have a rewarding encounter. Personal preference varies from one person to the next and asking other who you should see may leave you with a disappointing experience.

Just thought I'd post this in this thread for a bit of humour A 'heads up' for those men who may be regular Home Depot customers. This one caught me by surprise. Over the last month I became a victim of a clever scam while out shopping. Simply going out to get supplies has turned out to be quite traumatic. Don't be naive enough ti think it couldn't happen to you or your friends. Here's how the scam works: Two seriously good-looking 20-21 yr old girls come over to your car as you are packing your shopping into the trunk. They both start wiping your windshield with a rag and Windex, with their breasts almost falling out of their skimpy T-shirts. Its impossible not to look. When you thank them and offer them a tip, they say 'No' and and instead ask you for a ride to McDonald's. You agree and they get in to the back seat. On the way, they start undressing. Then one of them climbs over into the front seat and starts crawling all over you,while the other one steals your wallet. I had my wallet stolen December 4th, 9th, 10th, twice on the 15th, and again on the 17th, 20th, 24th &29th. Also January 1st & 4th. Twice on the 8th, again on the 16th, and 20th, two times yesterday and very likely again this upcoming weekend. So tell your friends to be careful. P.S. Wal Mart has wallets on sale for 2.99.

Although you do have a lot of valid ideas there.. being a sugar daddy doesn't mean the sugar baby will be all yours. In that case: - one is the comfort you get knowing that the other person would be available whenever you need (when you need is very board. I think its still an arrangement of time agreeable on both part.) Very doable with an SP. - you are less worried about stds and other aspects of SP business like bait and switch (you do not necessarily control her sex life outside the time you spent together. This means the risk of STD is just the same ... or more, given that reputable SP would check themselves more for such a thing - I might be naïve there.). - dangerous encounters (I do agree on the less dangerous encounter -- but if you are repeating with a lady you met before and clicked with. There is no risk there) Additional Comments: on the other note... I remember seeing a lot of Buzz around this website after the book... 50 Shades of Grey. :: http://www.seekingarrangement.com/ Have fun ;-)

If you request stockings and the lady wears them for you, perhaps you could add an extra $10 or $20 to her tip to help cover the cost of the stockings. As many of the ladies have stated, they are expensive and often can only be worn once. In my opinion it is definitely worth it. I love sexy stockings on a sexy woman.

1. Never feel any shame about what you like! You're not a freak, you're just a dude with preferences, like everyone else. 2. Ask before you book. Other than that, have fun :)

Well I'm new to this hobby, having seen my first SP just last week. I was made to feel comfortable and welcome as soon as I entered the room. I had a wonderful time and at no time did I have any concerns. I left my cell phone on the desk and my id was in my jacket pocket. I would like to think that clients would exercise due diligence when screening for prospective ladies, just as the ladies would when screening prospective clients. If I had any concerns about privacy, safety, etc., I would not pursue a date with that particular SP. In order for both parties to get the most enjoyment of the encounter, they need to feel comfortable with each. If the trust isn't there then the comfort level won't be either.

ummmm....that's nice ;) While I understand your preference, I dont really see the point in indicating so???? This thread is about bbw's, dont like em, no problem :) I just dont see the point of indicating so, it would be the same as posting a spinner thread-and a bbw lover indicated they were not his type...fine and dandy-but I would expect the bbw lover to keep it to himself. Since the thread is not a debate of whether we are attractive or not, and is more about who is attracted to us and who can recommend us-I just did not see the point of that ;)

Good Dog!!!! hahahaha

I understand that you want to find clients who can pay your rate regularly without complaining about the expense. That is the benefit of "upscale" clients. But what makes this job actually fulfilling and enjoyable are the clients that you click with. They can come from any walk of life. Whether they save up for a couple of months to see you, or throw away a few hundred dollars like a used facial tissue, you will derive your happiness from how they treat you. If you get enough HAPPY clients, your business will do well. Whether they are technically upscale or not. The advice to market yourself as best you can and to screen for clients that will click with you is the best advice you can get. Don't worry at all about upscale. Good clients are good clients. Leave their budgeting up to them. :) If they can pay your rate they are upscale enough for you.

Saw Chrissy pictures in paradise spa profile a while ago and was interested to see her as i love tall girls and she is quite tall(5'10''). I finally decided today to go see her at Paradise Spa. The place is clean and professional. Its also nice to have a shower in the same room. A couple of minutes after i got in the room, Chrissy came in. She was very gorgeous and very tall as mention in her post that she did lately. She has very long leg, blond hair and a very cute smile. She also have big tits which i really enjoy in my time with her. She begin to do a very sensual massage. She just knew how to relax me with her massage. Just the right pressure at all time. The ending was great, she is just a natural in sensual massage. I do recommend her for sure and hope to see her again soon. Chrissy thank you so much. xoxo

I recenly saw a post wrote by a member about What type of food you need to avoid before a date and it made me think about what type of food might help increase your libido as a women or a men we all know that with the age (well for the women) the libido might be affected :-( but we also want to know how to give the BEST SEX EVER!!! So here's some type of food that i found on Internet and will help you increase your Libido : IF YOU HAVE SOME TIPS ABOUT HOW TO INCREASE YOUR LIBIDO I HOPE YOU'LL SHARE IT ON THIS THREAD!!! 1. Oysters :have long been suspected as a love drug. Cleopatra and Casanova had one thing in common, they loved oysters. Legend has it that Casanova ate dozens of oysters per day. The Venetian romancer once seduced a vestal virgin by seductively sliding an oyster from his mouth to hers. If that doesn't get you in the mood, I don't know what will! In fact, current research proves our suspicion. Oysters improves dopamine levels which boosts libido in men and women. Oysters are also high in zinc which is vital for testosterone production and healthy sperm 2. Watermelon : Some experts have called watermelon the new Viagra. Bhimu Patil, researcher and director of the Fruit and Vegetable Improvement Center at Texas A&M University, stated eating watermelon delivers Viagra-like effects on blood vessels throughout the body and may increase libido! This cool refreshing fruit contains citrulline amino acid. Citruline is good for the cardiovascular system and helps relax the blood vessels that increase sex drive.If you want to get in the mood, make this Watermelon Sorbet and share it with your partner. 3. Cocoa or Chocolate: All chocolate comes from cacao bean. In its processed form it is known as cocoa. The Aztecs referred to cacao as nourishment of the Gods. Modern day foodies know raw cacao in its pure unadulteratedform is a superfood. It has more antioxidants than green tea or red wine. It also contains a stimulating chemical known as phenylethlamine, that stimulates the sense of excitement and well being. The Journal of Sexual Medicine published a study that found, women who enjoyed a piece of chocolate every day had a more active sex life than those who didn't.( here's a recipe: http://www.organicauthority.com/organic-food-recipes/desserts/raw-cocoa-coconut-fudge-recipe.html) 4. Asparagus : Known for its suggestive shape, asparagus is high in a B vitamin known as folate that aids in increasing the production of histamine. Histamine is important for a healthy sex drive in men and women. The most delicious asparagus is just picked, it is so sweet! Grow your own or buy it fresh and organic at your local farmers market. 5. Avocados : A recent report stated organic Sicilian avocados are taking Europe by storm. Apparently the Europeans can't get enough of them. The ancient Aztec's nickname for avocado was "ahuacatl," or testicle because of the fruit's shapely form. The Catholic Spanish priests found avocados so sexy, the forbade them to their parishioners. 6. Maca : Is known by many as Peru's natural Viagra. Apparently this natural root has been known throughout Peru's history as a sex enhancing root passed down by the Inca. According to Discovery Health's medicine hunter Chris Kilam, the maca plant is used by the Peruvian culture to increase strength, stamina, energy, fertility and libido.( LADYS JUST A LITTLE SOMETHING FOR YOU, MACA MAKE YOUR BUMP BIGGER YEAH ) 7. Pumpkin Seeds : Like oysters, pumpkin seeds are high in zinc which is essential for healthy sperm production and preventing testosterone deficiency in men. They are also loaded with libido vitamins and minerals like vitamin B, E, C, D, K and minerals including calcium, potassium, niacin and phosphorous. Next time Halloween comes around, now you know what to do with those left over pumpkin seeds, roast those babies. 8. Celery : You wouldn't normally think of celery as a libido inducing food, but according to Judy Gaman, Dr. Walter Gaman and Dr. Mark Anderson, authors of the book "Stay Young: Ten Proven Steps to Ultimate Health," eating celery actually increases the pheromone levels in a man's sweat, making them more attractive to women. But make sure that celery is organic! Non-Organic Celery is Packed with 67 Pesticides. You don't want those toxic chemicals. 9. Chilies : The stuff that makes chilies hot, capsaicin, can actually rev up your libido. Have you ever noticed a natural high when eating chilies? Capsaicin promotes the release of chemicals that can raise your heart rate and trigger the release of endorphins that give you a natural high, which pumps that libido. 10. Figs : Legend has it figs were one of Cleopatra's favorite foods. According to Dr. Nalini Chilkov, L.Ac., O.M.D, figs have been prized as a sensual food for their resemblance of the female sex organs. The ancient Greeks valued figs more precious than gold and many cultures associated figs with fertility. 11. Garlic : ( I know i said that Garlic was bad to eat before or during the date but whatever it seems that it work so... up to you to add garlic in your recipes ) Eating raw garlic may make your partner turn the other way in bed, but it can certainly stir up your sexual desire. The heat in garlic is what stirs up your libido. Garlic contains allicin, which is thought to increase blood flow to sexual organs. This trick doesn't work overnight however, apparently you need to consume it for about a month to reap its rewards. If you can't stand the raw garlic go for the capsules found at your local natural food market. 12. Truffles : Probably due to its rarity and musky aroma, it has long been considered to arouse the palate and the body. To sustain masculinity, an ancient lover in lore was said to have gorged himself to death on Alba truffles during the wedding feast. 13. Almonds : Almonds are a great source of the essential mineral zinc, which is associated with maintenance of the libido and sexual desire. The effects of the mineral, however, take days or weeks. 14. Arugula : Arugula,the salad green, has been used as stimulant to sexual intercourse for nearly 2,000 years. It works because of what it stops, not what it starts. When you eat arugula, radicchio, or bitter salad greens, the bitter taste triggers a reflex that stimulates secretion of stomach acid. That's not a good thing if you have gastroesophageal disease, but it's a great thing if you need for your digestive processes not to interfere with making love. 15. Strawberries : Strawberries dipped in chocolate are typically a gift of men to women, but it's the men who turned on--by the color. Seeing the color red stimulates sexual desire in men. 16. Bananas : Bananas contain the bromelain enzyme, which is believed to increase libido and reverse impotence in men. Additionally, they are good sources of potassium and B vitamins like riboflavin, which increase the body's overall energy levels. 17. Eggs : Although not the most sensual of foods, eggs are high in vitamins B6 and B5. These help balance hormone levels and fight stress, two things that are crucial to a healthy libido. Eggs are also a symbol of fertility and rebirth. Some people will eat raw chicken eggs just prior to sex to increase libido and maximize energy levels. But all bird and fish eggs contain B6 and B5. 18. Liver : A good source of glutamine -- a cellular fuel for your immune system -- liver may indeed increase a slowed-down libido. Granted, it's not the sexiest of foods, but if you add it to your basic diet, your body -- and your lady -- will thank you for it. 19. Fish : Most fish (particularly mackerel and salmon) contain large amounts of Omega-3 fatty acids, which enhance the nervous system and boost circulation. And, as we know, a huge part of healthy sex for both men and women is increasing blood flow. 20. Nutmeg : Long used in Indian medicine to boost libido, at least one animal study has shown an extract of nutmeg to have the same effect on mating behavior as Viagra. Sprinkle some on your cappuccino.

Anecdotal stories aren't going to change another person's mind. Get it or don't get it, that is your choice or it would be mandated. However, do some critical reading, and be aware of the reasons behind vaccinations: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herd_immunity (I am not saying that wikipedia is a good example, but this is a good explanation of herd immunity ;) ) Also, this is fun: http://www.historyofvaccines.org/ Now for my anecdote: of my coworkers, those who got the vaccine and got the flu had a much milder illness, whereas those who didn't were off sick for quite some time with more severe symptoms.

It goes both ways! I've learned about some of the following things: music recording Kantian philosophy accounting/tax info organic gardening euphoniums! And that is why I love this job! I love learning/hearing about new things, especially things it wouldn't occur to me to seek out otherwise.

I'm not sure about the rest of you but lately every time I have seen an SP I end up leaving the meeting with more knowledge than I went in with. In the past couple of years, I was given overviews of the following subjects: - Spanish plays from the 1300's - by-laws and their relationship to women's rights - french literature, specifically the mid to later 1800's - website design - bowling - generational differences in the office - english literature, specifically American writers of the 1930's to 1940's - star wars vs star trek - poetry - gardening techniques for increase yield of vegetables And these are the ones that I can remember off the top of my head. I must admit, I really wasn't expecting an added bonus of taking up this hobby would be my increase knowledge of various different subject matter. I'm actually being sought out for people's trivia teams now. Although, I have to talk about "this guy I knew from university" when people ask me where did I learn something. I would like to thank all the lovely SP's that I have met over the past few years, not only have you given me lovely memories, it also seems like you taught this old dog some new tricks. CERB - a fine establishment of higher learning ;-)

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Lol well i haven't called, but i did have the pleasure of meeting jade recently. She is a mature gorgeous lady, very intelligent, and has quite the sexual appetite.... Rare yes, i don`t give a recommendation easily, but miss jade is as rare as they get, lol

as a person who wears glasses... i dont get how you forget those lol, i understand after some encounters the world is a bit fuzzy... but not that fuzzy lol

A wallet is one of the few things that has never been left behind at my location. But just about everything else has. I've even had guys get out to the car without their prescription glasses. (Actually, this happens surprisingly often.) I've learned to ask people to put their watches, cell phones, sun glasses, prescription glasses, whatever in their shoes. No way will they be able to get out the door without them if they're in their shoes.

Shepard's Pie. Green salad. Fresh pineapple. Gotta love that pineapple.

Dropped a case of beer and one broke :(

Yes, jerome11, she is, but advertising in the FS section these days. For example, here: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=118778 Best to PM her. Have fun! toine

Or, how about, dare I say it, Vanessa and I together? (with her blessing of course!) That'd be A LOT of boob.

i always bring my wallet and cell phone with me to a session and have never really worried about it, even when i'm taking a shower and even less when i'm joined in the shower ;) i would rather have the items on me than in my car, for my piece of mind anyway...more chance of the car getting stolen. And for the women i've seen, i have trust in them to not do such things and always have good vibes from them :) They respect me and i respect them.

I wear them to most not all of my appointments.I feel sexier with them on and feel they enhance my legs. As Cat says stockings are expensive and usually can only be worn once because of picks ect. if you want them to look good. So if you do love them and it is what you require of a girl request she wear them or bring a sexy pair with you for her to where. We all love gifts! But they are like anything - they are not made for everyone . They flatter some and not others just as different styles of underwear do. Some of us look good in boyshorts, some thongs, ect, ect.:icon_biggrin:

An interesting question! When I arrived in Canada, I had worn stockings every day I worked for the length of my career. After 6 months here I stopped because my clients didn't seem to notice or care and the investment is enormous. I was spending about $50/week on them and it had no return it seemed so why invest over $2000 a year on it? I still have a drawer full of them and happily accomodate a guest that requests I wear stocking but I don't wear them on a daily basis. If my guests gave me any indication that they like stockings then I wear them every time we play. I did have a guest who loved them and he would bring me a gift card to the hosiery store on a regular basis. He never left a pair intact that could be reworn so it was a good thing he was aware of the costs involved and offset it by the gift card. That kind of consideration goes a long way to ensuring your provider is willing to accomodate special requests. Back in the day I paid for the clothing, toy and special requests out of my own pocket and it ran approx $1200-1500/month. I have a fairly extensive collection of everything now but if someone has a specific request I recommend they bring it with them or advance funds via E.M.T. and I will shop for their request before the playdate. Sometimes I have invested days (literally 20 or more hours) searching for something very specific and that time is not compensated for so bringing your fancy with you is very much appreciated. Perhaps a visit to your local hosiery store is in order. You can pick out the color you like in a size C which should be wearable for just about everyone and take it with you. Your provider will accomodate and put them on with a smile I'm sure... cat

I love wearing heels. Stockings it's not something that do a lot for me, but I have absolutely no problem with it. I have really muscular legs so sadly nylons aren't make for my body that much and they give me the impression I have chubby legs As you told in your post earlier...you migrated towards the pictures of ladies wearing stocking...because it sell well. If someone ask me the particular request of wearing stockings I will do it, but it,s not something I will do on my own whim. The reason being that these things are really expensive and each time I wear some with a client I get a run in them and well they are useless now. So each time I wear some I am investing x amount of $ in them...and these things are expensive sometime at the end of the day!

Thank you so much for posting this documentary, Shawn! I'm quite certain I've seen it before, but at the time I wasn't an escort and it was really nice to watch it again not only with my experiences as an escort, but also my experience as an escort with clients who have (dis)abilities. At 13:42, when the client being interviewed mentions that "tonight is very important" and he has the most wonderful smile on his face I couldn't help but tear up... Sex and disability is something most people don't think about seriously. In fact, it's often brushed off as something 'impossible' and/or 'unknowable'. People with visibile/invisible (dis)abilities are often believed to be 'asexual' and not in need of love and intimacy. This is especially the case with people who have invisible disabilities (autism, down syndrome, etc)... If people with (dis)abilities are sexual, it is considered perverse, wrong, 'abnormal'... it's really sad. I love when one of the women in the documentary states that "everyone has a right to sexual expression, including those with (dis)abilities". Very true! When I screen new patrons I almost always ask whether they have any mobility issues I should know about, and/or other (dis)abilities I should be aware of. If there are, I often research the best way to ensure we both have a good time. A book that has been really helpful for me is called "The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability" by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette. It was referred to me by my friend, Tgirl-Kay. It's really good and I would encourage anyone interested in having pleasurable sex with someone with a visible and/or invisible (dis)ability to read it!

Leigha Lane was a great encounter, also Katherine and Karena and "loads" of fun ! I have also seen Bobbi (who is currently retired ?) I have also seen Emily and can be PM'd for any details. Would like to see Ms Manda & can't wait to see Ferrari ! Just need to get the right timing.

I though it would be neat to see some of the good things out there. Just a reminder that there are good people around you even if u don't thinks. So hurry people share your good deed that someone's done to you or that you've done. Let show that the world is full of nice kind people. So the other day I was feeling kinda down (suffer from depression) and somebody I just met was able to take the time listen to my problems without prejudice or judgement. All I wanted to do was get it out and she listen like a true friend without benefitting at all from it. I won't name any names but she knows who she is so thanks. So she did her good deed. Anybody else have some to share!

Welcome hun, I suggest you read through the new to this section and read all the rules of the site. Cerb is a great place to be, advertise and speak openly about this profession.:icon_biggrin: Also the internet can give you alot of tips about service providers, do your research, and be fair to yourself. Decide on the type of clientele you wish to attract and design your services and advertising with them in mind and with what you are comfortable doing. Base your rates on your incured costs, time involved in each session and what you are offering and what you think all the formentioned are worth. you are you, different and unique as we all are so basing your services and rates on what others are doing may be a guideline but shouldn't be your model. I hope this helps.

Please do not send a link to a cerb profile to le before contacting me about it first. We do not want that attention here, we will suspend the questionable account and remove any ads when someone has concearn of underage. And give her a chance to prove her age to us. ... Remember the government stepped in with c.l. For ads on the site for underage girls. We dont want that bad publicity and you all know i take a pro-active approach to this here to help stop this. I dont want any bad media or unwanted attention with issues like that and i am sure none of you want that either ....so.... Please always let me know fisrt so that no one outside our community finds a member here with an active account who is under 18. That would potentially lead to cerb shutting down and having problms like c.l.

There's been a fair amount of discussion in this thread regarding the obligations a client has in determining an sp's age. The Criminal Code indicates that a client must take "all reasonable steps" to confirm that the sp is of legal age. So what are considered "reasonable steps"? The test the Court would take is what steps would a "reasonable person" take in the circumstances to determine the sp's age? In a trial, these factors would include: 1. How well does the client know the sp; 2. Physical appearance of the sp; 3. Age and appearance of the people with the sp; 4. Age difference between the client and the sp; 5. Demeanour or behaviour of the sp; 6. The time and location of the alleged sexual assault; and 7. Any other relevant times or places the client and sp were in contact. The less familiar the client and sp are with each other, the more steps the client is required to take to determine her age. In addition, the bigger the age difference between the client and sp, the greater the expectation that the client would make more inquiries. In other words, just because she showed you a fake id, that's not enough! That's not a winning defence! Like it or not, the burden is on the adult, not the teenager! So that's the law, but why else would you go the extra mile to determine the age of the sp? Here's my top 5 reasons: 1. You're a decent and good man! 2. You don't want to let a teenager make life altering decisions for you! 3. There are literally thousands of wonderful, gorgeous, sexy, skilled legal sp's in the country that you can meet! 4. You don't want you and your family dragged through a court case as an accused sex offender and place your fate in the hands of a legal process that you don't understand and have no influence over. And finally, the scared shitless reason... 5. You don't want to risk being convicted, becoming a registered sex offender, losing your family and every friend you've ever had and going to prison as a sex offender, where you will be abused by your fellow inmates or isolated for your own protection for the duration of your sentence!!!!

Waking up at 4 am from a deep sleep hearing noise downstairs and thinking there is an intruder in my house. Armed with a baseball bat that is kept under the bed, I snuck down seeing a shadow in the dark, flick the lights on yelling only to see that it's my sister who was stumbling from drinking too much and came from the bar downtown in a cab!!. She didn't want to pay the full fare by going all the way out to her place. She recently moved out and still had a key to get in!!! She almost got whacked with a bat!!

I'm an advocate of the flu shot, but everyone gets to make their own choice. I'd just throw this into the mix: the flu shot doesn't try to make you clean, it actually makes you dirty on purpose.(1) It contains the actual virus (or parts thereof) in order to make your body stronger, not weaker. The virus you get in the shot is dead, so your body gets to learn what it looks like without the virus trying to kill you. And then your body will react faster next time you're exposed. It's the same process that would happen in nature if you simply were exposed to the living virus; your body learns its shape and you overcome it, left stronger for next time. But it's controlled. As Jesse Pinkman would say: Yeah science! (1) And now some community-targeted advocacy: C'mon -- who on this board can turn down a chance to get dirty on purpose!?!? And I mean that deep-down, it-runs-in-your-veins kind of dirty that's worth paying some money for. And you get the shot from a nurse. Who's making you dirty! So she must be a naughty nurse! Etc. etc.

I am a non believer in it, the one year I had it I ended up with pneumonia not once but twice. I will never get it again and am against it. We never had vaccines for the flu or pneumonia when we were kids and we were fine, you need some germs to build your immune system and the flu shot to me is just like a light cover, it wont prevent anything, just prolong the inevitable of eventually getting sick. PLus has anyone ever thought of what the long term effects maybe - every drug or immune altering thing has a long term effect. Why put anything else into your body when in this day and age we take in more than we did 20 years ago. Get your rest, drink water, eat healthy, wash your hands and for gads sake cover your mouth when you cough. I say use at your own risk.

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I've lived in Kingston for over 20 years and I love it. It's not a big city but has lots of great restaurants, live music and live theatre. We have a nice waterfront and lots of lakes and conservation areas nearby as well. Housing is relatively cheap and the unemployment rate is fairly low. And if you want a little more excitement, Ottawa and Toronto aren't far away.

If there's someone who interests you but doesn't seem to offer the things you're looking for, consider asking anyway. There are many reasons for not advertising some activities, including creating a perception that the we only engage in kinky play, that we're happy to do something frequently or several times a day or a week, or that those activities are always available without making arrangements ahead of time. You should always feel free to change your mind once things get underway, too. Don't feel that, because you'd expected to do something, you're required to do it! Needs and desires shift and change depending on comfort level, mood and other things. Changing your mind the first time doesn't mean you shouldn't try again another time. However, if your companion has agreed to do something, or that she'll try to do it, she should be willing to fulfill the agreement. If she's not able to accommodate your request for some reason--perhaps she was spanked yesterday and is worried that any more of that today will cause bruising, for example--she should let you know before the meeting begins.

Thank you beautiful lady! It's very nice to see someone familiar on this lovely board. Hugs to you Victoria xoxox Carissa

I see the same SP, and I'm not concerned about theft with her. I bring my wallet with me, and it stays in the pocket for the entire time. One time it slipped out and fell behind the dresser. She seemed to be more concerned about it being lost then I was. So in a nutshell, for the first time, definitely, be careful of your belongings just as you would with any interaction with someone new. If you're comfortable with them, treat them as such.