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    Today I am packing up my summer cloths for my Vacay to Cuba:) Ahhh cant wait, toes in hot sand, drink in hand, the Cuban hospitality is the best!
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    Aubrey offered a Poly Party, Vanessa offered World Series and Grey Cup gatherings and we did not jump at the chance, I'm sure four or five of us could have a very nice Super Bowl afternoon with one of these lovely young women...let's show some interest.
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    You being from Montreal and probably french how about Lola L'amour?
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    You could also look around the site for other discussions on the subject... e.g. here, here and here.
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    I went to my first yoga class today and it was awesome.
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    If you're interested in an ongoing, contractual or retainer-type relationship, I think you've come to the right place. What you can expect from the arrangement will, frankly, depend on what you can afford to pay. Most of us are doing what we do in order to make a living. Some work part-time because their other line of work doesn't bring in enough income. It's rare to find someone who is really only working to pay for occasional luxuries. Please recognize that sexual monogamy is likely to be very expensive. Asking the woman to give up having an intimate, emotionally-engaged relationship with someone else is a big demand to make on a woman in her 20s. Since you're only wanting something that might last a year or two, presumably because you either don't want a permanent relationship or because you already have one and just want to supplement your needs and interests, the woman you find would still be giving up a disproportionate amount of time and opportunity in her own life. However, this might be acceptable to someone who's in grad school, for example, and determined to focus mostly on her studies or writing her dissertation. If you're imagining that someone who isn't already a paid companion is more likely to be infection-free, please do your homework. The notion that prostitutes who don't work on the streets are a source of disease is not only a blatant stereotype, it's simply false. You are far more likely to contract an infection from a sweet college girl who's only had a couple of boyfriends or from a lovely lady you've met in a bar or on a dating site than you would from one of us. That's because we know that every man, regardless of age, ethnicity or financial profile, whether he's a client or a genuine boyfriend, is a potential source of infection. We take steps to safeguard our health accordingly. In the end, the only person's health care anyone is responsible for is their own. Consider carefully exactly what kind of financial investment you're able to make. Can you, for example, pay for someone's rent? Or are you thinking more along the lines of her university tuition, per term (which would usually be somewhat less than rent)? Are you able to cover all of her living expenses, which would be about two to two and a half times her monthly rent? Or are you simply wanting to be sure that you have first-call on her time for a couple of hours every Tuesday but want to get a discount on her hourly rate? Any of these arrangements could work out well. Just make sure each of you is very clear about what to expect. How do you plan to pay your sugar baby? Cash is king, but you may prefer to arrange for regular electronic bank transfers. Some people provide reloadable credit cards. Arranging for an auto lease is not uncommon. Whatever plan you come up with, how do you expect to safeguard things on your side? Do you have a completely private bank account, for example, with no risk of anyone else knowing about your deposits and withdrawals? What I'm trying to say is: if you have a wife or partner, how will you ensure that she doesn't find out what you're doing? I ask because I'm dedicated to ensuring that women in this industry are safe; I can't encourage you to put someone's security at risk because you overlooked the possibility of being discovered by your intimate partner, employer or secretary. Think about the kind of woman you want to be with. I understand that you're interested in someone who's young and beautiful. That's not a problem. But surely you want someone you can actually enjoy, as a person. Someone with whom you may have interests in common. Someone for whom you can actually care, and who will also develop real affection and regard for you would be ideal because you both need a significant level of trust if this arrangement is going to work out well. However, if you want a situation in which there will be little to no emotional involvement, you may be better off with a roster of companions, seeing one on the first Wednesday of the month, another on the second Wednesday, and so on. Do know that we can become quite fond of monthly regulars, though. I have a couple of those whom I've seen for several years and for whom I care a great deal. Please also consider how long you want the arrangement to last and how either of you will end it. You might enter into something that's intended to last for six months, an academic year or a full calendar year, for example. Or you might want to keep things more open and simply guarantee that you will give at least one or two months' notice before ending your financial commitment so that your companion has a reasonable opportunity to make other arrangements. I hope you will be more relaxed about what you would require of her if or when she decides that the arrangement needs to change or come to an end. I think I can safely say that the great majority of women on this board are interested in quality engagements with kind, respectful and caring men who value us as individuals. The number of paid companions who genuinely want to see 10-15 or more clients per week is miniscule. We all value returning clients and those of us who have a number of ongoing, regular clients consider ourselves to be blessed. Sugar daddy arrangements and Mistress-type relationships can work very well if they're undertaken thoughtfully. I hope you find what you're looking for.
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    Are you a fan of the art of masturbation? You love watching others masturbate? You are a man that masturbates? You are a woman that masturbates? Using toys during sex is fun for you? Do you like to masturbate your partner(s) during sex? If you answered "Yes" to any of these question you are welcome to join the new group called "Bators group" simply send a PM or reply to this thread to join. Happy masturbation to all. Notch Johnson
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    What this woman does for her clients and what she brings to their lives is very special. I think this is a beautiful showcase of the good sex workers do in the world. The Scarlet Road highlights a sex worker in Australia who specializes in a much overlooked demographic. Maybe this is old news or a re-post but I just came across it via reddit and I knew that the wonderful people of Cerb would (if they haven't already) appreciate it. Enjoy!
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    horny horny horny horny horny horny No one in sight. Don't want to masturbate I should be call NiMalika Falls right now
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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zQ36S3d1CaU
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    Count me in. I am a bator, just like the 99.5% of the population. But it is so much more fun when you share. :-) It's hot to watch and partake with a provider. Bate away all.
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    goe is a reputable firm !!
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    Finally I'm not going to Ottawa but damn that would have been nice
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    some time with a hot lady....hehehehehe
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    Ex-Madam Uses Her Sex Skills to Run 'Brothel' for Disabled For 20 years, Becky Adams was one of Britain's top madams, running an illegal escort agency and catering to the sexual needs of thousands of men. "Madam Becky," as she was called, was arrested several times but never charged. "But I got to the stage where I was so successful that, in the end, I was looking at going to prison," said Adams, 44. "I had to hide away from the police in France until it all died down." In 2009, she sold her business to one of the call girls, and in 2010 returned to her home in Buckinghamshire to write a memoir about her exploits that won the Brit Writers Award in 2012. Surprisingly, the book also won the Erotic Award, given by Outsiders, an organization that helps the disabled to lead full lives, including a sex life. So now, Adams, now the mother of two daughters, 23 and 17, and a grandmother, has turned a life of profit into one of persuasion. Today, she is a sexual activist -- still a madam, of sorts -- who uses her experience running a brothel to help the disabled satisfy their sexual desires. Adams has never had any moral qualms about her work, which has now become a calling. "You cannot stop a disabled person from having a normal life of having the same opportunities of an able-bodied person -- it's discrimination," Adams, 44, told ABCNews.com. "So I am a facilitator working on behalf of the person to find a sex worker -- and it's completely legal. To refuse to do it is a breach of human rights. I act as their voice and limbs." In Britain, exchanging money for sex is legal between two people, according to Adams. Only when a third party like a madam or a pimp is involved does it break the law. "I think the sex industry is like any other business," said Adams. "You have to do what you are good at." Adams, herself, claims she has never had sex with any of her clients. "I'm not good with physical contact," she said. "I am better at customer service and the front-of-the house sort of thing." So she is investing an estimated $100,000 in a fully staffed nonprofit facility for the disabled that will open in 2014. She envisions her unique "brothel" would serve those with both physical and intellectual disabilities, both men and women, gay or straight. "There are people who have literally spent their whole lives in institutions who have never had physical contact with anyone other than a nurse or doctor," she said. "They have never been held at night by another naked person. And a person who cannot use his arms can't relieve themselves. Literally, they have no way of sexual release, but they have all these sexual feelings." She envisions a sexual health center that would be handicapped-equipped with ramps and hoists. Transportation to and from would be provided, as well as amenities to help clients with their individual proclivities. "Remember, disabled people are the same as anyone else," said Adams. "If someone likes to cross-dress and they'd like to come along and put on a wig and dress and be a lady and sit in their wheelchair, they can do that. We'll have makeup and fingernails to put on to be a transvestite." But for now, she runs Para Doxies -- an old English word for prostitutes -- as a nonprofit, telephone-based service where volunteers help those with disabilities or their caregivers to find trusted sex workers. Adams gets about 12 requests a week and also provides advice from a legal team. She facilitates sex hook-ups for the disabled for free, and educating sex workers is part of her mission. But Adams has her critics, especially women's rights groups. ''This is soft focus street walking, it is like she's recruiting for an accountancy firm," said reporter Angela Epstein in a recent interview in ITV. "This is about young people selling their bodies for sex ... We are talking about sex with strangers and I find it depressing and bleak." Adams argues that she screens her sex workers and her disabled clients. "I find a lady and make sure to visit and interview her," she said. "It's my duty to disabled people to find out if she is happy to deal with a person with their issues." Many of those workers provide services on a volunteer basis or for free. Sex is next to impossible for those who are severely disabled, and they often live with their parents or caregivers. "How are they going to be private?" Adams asked. "They can't go out without a carer." When a disabled person is able to make contact with an escort, the experience may turn out to be humiliating. "She looks at him and is disgusted, and walks away or steals his money and runs off," said Adams. "And think about all those really amazing people who can't communicate," said Adams. "Our escort agency phones ring all day and night every 30 seconds. If someone calls up and cannot talk, you put the phone down when you hear heavy breathing and think it's a nuisance caller." The disabled often require an "enabler" -- a third person to help them with their physical needs. "It gets really complicated," she said. Services can include a "fluffer," a helper who sets the scene and assists with sexual logistics. One of her clients is a disabled woman with an able-bodied husband. "She likes us to get her in her lingerie and make her beautiful and set the scene so her husband doesn't have to take care of her tubes and lift her," said Adams. "We are kind of part of their sexual experience by holding things out of the way so he only has to be responsible for himself." Just recently, Adams heard from a wheelchair-bound soldier back from Afghanistan who is paralyzed below his neck and lives at home with his parents. Although he has no genital sensation, he wants a "lady who can kiss him all over and he can kiss all over," she said. "Think about the logistics of that. He is a big man, an ex-Marine, and he wants a petite lady. That means someone has to go with her to get the gentleman out of his chair into bed and position him. That's not her job. She is fulfilling a fantasy for him." It's not always "all about sex," according to Adams. A mothers' group for boys with autism has even requested her services. "The lads never interact normally with girls of their age and they wanted to pay for someone to spend time with their boys to kiss and cuddle them," said Adams. "That's not necessarily what you would imagine in a brothel. People think of chaps having a load of sex with a busty blond girl -- but it's far more than that. You are educating someone who has never had sex before." Such was the case with Alexander Freeman, a 25-year-old American filmmaker who was born with cerebral palsy and craves intimacy but has never had sexual intercourse. "It's not just the act, but to touch another person who feels you are attractive," Freeman said. "If we are denied our right to sensuality, we are denied being human." He, too, has become an advocate. Alexander Freeman co-produced a film, "The Last Taboo," about the sexual desires of the disabled. Freeman explores the unmet sexual needs of the disabled in a documentary he wrote, directed and produced, "The Last Taboo," which is now being submitted to film festivals. It tells the story of six people with various physical disabilities and an able-bodied partner who was in a relationship with one of them. These individuals share their perspectives on intimacy, relationships and what their experiences have taught them about themselves. Freeman, who lives in Brookline, Mass., said he'd had a relationship with a close friend in college that ended with no closure. "She saw that I had those desires and she made me feel good about myself," he said. "But afterwards, I had so many questions." So in 2011, his company, Outcast Productions, and a team of 30 made a documentary that asked viewers to rethink misconceptions about disability, identity, gender and sexuality. "I decided to make the film because disability is very much a taboo in this country and I think other countries as well," said Freeman. He credits editor Ryan Egan, as well as producers Anne Scotina, Andrew Christenson and Gabriella Iarrobino, for lending their skills to make the film a reality. "I think what she's doing is fantastic," he said of Adams' work. "Because face it, when you have a disability, there are certain things you can't do." Bethany Stevens, a disabled sexologist who teaches at the Center for Leadership in Disability at Georgia State University, applauded Adams' work "Sexuality is central to who we are even though, in our culture, it's everywhere," said Stevens. "We have a saturation of sexual content, but we don't have healthy conversations about what sex is. Then, you add on disabilities, which people don't want to talk about, anyway." Stevens was born with brittle bone disease and uses a wheelchair. "We trigger lot of discomfort and fear," she said. "When you bring the two together [sex and disability], see how stifling the conversation gets." Married to an able-bodied person, she has found that when they express affection in public, they are "socially erased." "Waiters pass us by and they think of us as siblings or one as a caregiver," she said. The discrimination is based in fear, the "slippery-ness" of being able-bodied, and how quickly a person's physical condition can change through birth, accidents or illness, she said. Research around the world shows that the disabled are often viewed as "not full people -- sort of suspended in childhood," said Stevens. "The majority of our culture sees us as non-sexual or desexualized, simply because we are not perceived as human." Adams had not given much thought to the disabled until the nonprofit Outsiders recognized her book. The group runs a sex and disability hotline and other health services to support the handicapped. "Oh, my God," she said. "I was ashamed and quite humbled. In all I had seen in my 20 years of work in the sex industry, I didn't realize how difficult it is for people with disabilities to have their sex needs met." She began learning more and joined the speaker circuit. As her passion to help the disabled grew, so did the controversy over her mission. "Since then, I am always in the tabloids, getting into trouble for something," said Adams, including a comment that she would have "no problem" with her teenage daughter going in to prostitution. "It's better than banking," she told the press. For now, Adams said, it's mostly the feminists and not the police who are her worst enemies. But a bordello of sorts for the disabled could change all that. "I am expecting a legal battle, but I am prepared to fight," she said. "I genuinely don't mind going to prison for this."
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    Its not so bad , You have good and bad in anything . I did the pornstar weekend in Montreal a few years back , Left Friday am and flew back Sunday night , booked downtown and saw something like 7 or 8 ladies that weekend as well as had a few great meals. The $3 to $500 ladies werent all models and some of the $200 ones were , Met some great people and even had fun with a really bad bait and switch. If you play fair and treat all the girls with respect you will have some great experiences. Remember we are all just people and everyone puts their pants on , or takes them off one leg at a time. Try some realistic expectations first , usually the second or third time with an SP is more comfortable than the first . Read the recos , and make a plan , for $2000 in Halifax I can think of lots of ways to have a day that i wouldn't forget , we have a pretty great group of hot and sexy ladies to choose from !!!!!!!!
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    My twelve year old just asked if he could please go shovel my neighbors driveway. (an older lady and her daughter live there). Some days I'm just so proud to be a dad.
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    When the client goes to the washroom, I follow them and go into another room. I had one client recently go to the washroom and I went back in the bedroom for 2 seconds to collect any garbage and he popped his head out of the bathroom. Like he thought I was going to rifle through his things. I can understand to a degree because I have left clients in a bedroom and often wonder if they will start going through my things since I don't know them but I don't leave anything lying around that I would be worried about. There has to be a trust on both sides and until that is established, people will be wary of other people's actions. I get it and am not offended. When a client leaves the room, so do I because I don't want them to even think that in the first place.
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    I'm not sure about the rest of you but lately every time I have seen an SP I end up leaving the meeting with more knowledge than I went in with. In the past couple of years, I was given overviews of the following subjects: - Spanish plays from the 1300's - by-laws and their relationship to women's rights - french literature, specifically the mid to later 1800's - website design - bowling - generational differences in the office - english literature, specifically American writers of the 1930's to 1940's - star wars vs star trek - poetry - gardening techniques for increase yield of vegetables And these are the ones that I can remember off the top of my head. I must admit, I really wasn't expecting an added bonus of taking up this hobby would be my increase knowledge of various different subject matter. I'm actually being sought out for people's trivia teams now. Although, I have to talk about "this guy I knew from university" when people ask me where did I learn something. I would like to thank all the lovely SP's that I have met over the past few years, not only have you given me lovely memories, it also seems like you taught this old dog some new tricks. CERB - a fine establishment of higher learning ;-)
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    It goes both ways! I've learned about some of the following things: music recording Kantian philosophy accounting/tax info organic gardening euphoniums! And that is why I love this job! I love learning/hearing about new things, especially things it wouldn't occur to me to seek out otherwise.
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    If I may, you should look through the site and find ladies that interest you. Read their recco's and view their website(if they have one) Their profile page on cerb is also a wealth of information. Some ladies do have an age restriction and or may not be comfortable with seeing someone who is new to this or who is unable to provide a reference. Contact the ladies you are interested in by their preferred method of contact and go from whom you have the best chemistry with. Take your time and do your homework and you will have a rewarding encounter. Personal preference varies from one person to the next and asking other who you should see may leave you with a disappointing experience.
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    A new piece of luggage because Porter smashed my expensive piece of hard shell. It was only 6 months old. :icon_cry:
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    I specialize in retainer type exchanges and I always have. It has so many benefits for myself and the gentlemen that chose this option that I can't begin to list them. The emotional intimacy, connection, friendship and stability enhances my life in ways I never imagined in my 20's. The only issue I see with Sugar Baby/Daddy relationships is the difficult position it inevitably puts the Sugar Baby in financially. Young girls become dependent on the financial income very quickly and when the man withdraws (as he ALWAYS does at some point) she is usually left stranded financially trying to scramble to pay her bills. I've seen it so many times and I willingly warn young providers from becoming dependent on one client. There are square girls out there who seek out this type of relationship and if they are genuinely mature then they can make it work but often they do not have discipline to take advantage this type of relationship. If they know the game, they always come out with the long end of the stick and in my mind these girls are just prostitutes with a different business model. They end up costing far more than having an escort on retainer. Even some escorts mismanage the security of the "one, big client" and don't save up for when the ride is over. When the relationship with a square Sugar Baby comes to an end the potential for drama is huge. If emotions are involved, things can become very unstable. When the $ comes off the table, she will panic. Sugar Babies never understand the their true disposablility in the Sugar Daddy's life and when that realization hits, it hits hard. It's this hurt that will make her unstable in her reaction because it makes her feel used. Enter this situation at your own risk, I have yet to see one end with a shred of grace or dignity involved. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned... cat
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    It all depends on what you're willing to pay. Most ladies here are here to work and get paid by the hour with no strings attached. Finding a woman on another site geared towards sugar daddies may be more to your benefit if you're looking to just "support" her and help pay for her education, bills here and there, shopping, etc. I have been in 2 of these types of arrangements in my 20's and was completely exclusive to them for at least a year without escorting and even travelled with one of these gentleman. However, it didn't come cheap and wasn't just one of those types of things where they just took me shopping. I was already an SP making copious amounts of money and being exclusive to one person takes time and energy. And I made sure it was worth my while if I took the time away from the escorting business to do this which was a weekly stipend given to me. It had its advantages and disadvantages but at the end of the day I wanted to be my own woman and not have someone take care of my wants, needs and whims. I realized I didn't want to be "taken care of". Sometimes these things can work against you whether you're the one giving or receiving. It's great if that's what you're into but be prepared as it does have its challenges. If I were you and you're looking for something more casual, I would peruse online dating sites or put up an ad for it on those sites. What do you have to lose? That way, you can screen the ladies and pick and choose based on their response.
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    Congratulations Angela, but no worrries. Your secret is safe with me.
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    ummmm....that's nice ;) While I understand your preference, I dont really see the point in indicating so???? This thread is about bbw's, dont like em, no problem :) I just dont see the point of indicating so, it would be the same as posting a spinner thread-and a bbw lover indicated they were not his type...fine and dandy-but I would expect the bbw lover to keep it to himself. Since the thread is not a debate of whether we are attractive or not, and is more about who is attracted to us and who can recommend us-I just did not see the point of that ;)
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    Thank you so much for posting this documentary, Shawn! I'm quite certain I've seen it before, but at the time I wasn't an escort and it was really nice to watch it again not only with my experiences as an escort, but also my experience as an escort with clients who have (dis)abilities. At 13:42, when the client being interviewed mentions that "tonight is very important" and he has the most wonderful smile on his face I couldn't help but tear up... Sex and disability is something most people don't think about seriously. In fact, it's often brushed off as something 'impossible' and/or 'unknowable'. People with visibile/invisible (dis)abilities are often believed to be 'asexual' and not in need of love and intimacy. This is especially the case with people who have invisible disabilities (autism, down syndrome, etc)... If people with (dis)abilities are sexual, it is considered perverse, wrong, 'abnormal'... it's really sad. I love when one of the women in the documentary states that "everyone has a right to sexual expression, including those with (dis)abilities". Very true! When I screen new patrons I almost always ask whether they have any mobility issues I should know about, and/or other (dis)abilities I should be aware of. If there are, I often research the best way to ensure we both have a good time. A book that has been really helpful for me is called "The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability" by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette. It was referred to me by my friend, Tgirl-Kay. It's really good and I would encourage anyone interested in having pleasurable sex with someone with a visible and/or invisible (dis)ability to read it!
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    Thankya everyone for the birthday wishes and potential spankings ;) Giddy up, Roar and Muah! Smile Hard and Stay Sexxxy ;) XoXoXo
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    Just a heads up also. I noticed your username has a "Lexy" in it. HRM already has a Lexy. Picking a Unique name will help your branding and create less confusion in the future.
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    Oh my!!! If our answers offend you.............. Then for your own safety please reconsider your choice to become an "upscale woman" in the sex trade. Not a single statement was directed to be cruel. You asked a question, and it was answered truthfully. This is not a community of street walkers and drug addicts hun. Welcome to a connected network of the best of the best!! We are more then willing to be supportive of a long time member or a new comer to the industry. This is not a "game" and "thank you for playing" may get you killed if you ever decide to take in calls. Many of us here choose this work and enjoy it. Plz do not ask us for help and then spit in our kindness. If you wanted to find that "pretty woman" story, well, it's the genuine joy of being with that person that makes that fairy tale even possible. "Upscale" this and "upscale" that will not get you anywhere close to what your looking for. I appreciate that you find the work we do appealing. Here's a taste of my work day. - 2-4 hrs of web design (editing pictures, writing code, creating text docs for advertisements) - 3hrs sporadically throughout the day answering e-mails and returning phone calls for bookings on advance dates - actual bookings So after 5-7hrs of unpaid work marketing, I am hoping that the bookings I do make are fun, exciting, safe, and profitable. Sorry if I am coming off strong, but I agree......... .........A good client is one you can't wait to see again, someone who understands that it is passion for pay, and someone who contacted you because they respect themselves and they want a lady who can do the same. The real high class is valued in love and kindness, not money and position.
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    The same thing happened to me once, and one of our bartenders said we have two different sizes of wine glasses, so sometimes it looks like you have less because you have the larger glass. It's pretty silly since it leads to people feeling like they're getting ripped off, so I just thought I'd pass that on so you (or anyone else who has experienced that) don't feel like you were. It'd certainly make more sense if they just used one glass for red and one for white, but what can you do!
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    OMG, this thread is sooooo cute!! :D Some of you have met my little buddy already... :) Here is a puppy pic of him:
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    i just got another puppy now i have 3 dogs lol all golden retrievers
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    I agree with many comments in this thread. I worked at a sex shop for a while and I had women in their late twenties coming in and talking about how they had never had an orgasm and I was always surprised! I also think that men project their own ideas of what an orgasm is onto the women they have sex with. Our orgasms are very different. For a man the orgasm is usually the end of sex and for women it is the beginning. Once our motor is running we can go all night! So, spending an hour with a man is not really long enough to get well into the home stretch. I know that after the client leaves I still have very strong yearnings in my pussy! When a client repeats it is easier to get into the session. There is an anticipation, I call it "pussy recognition factor". My pussy already knows and remembers the cock she has been introduced to and she begins to think about him before he arrives. This helps the atmosphere ignite. I began exploring 'self' at 14 and was having multiple orgasms very shortly after my first. I was so excited to one day finally share this experience with a man. I was pretty disappointed when my first daty happened. I felt nothing. I remember looking down in puzzlement trying to understand why I could not feel his tongue on my clit. It was supposed to be the very best thing I could experience and I had fantasized while stimulating myself with my fingers, never imagining that a tongue would feel quite different. I have since learned that a tongue needs to be stiff and strong and not soft and weak. It also needs to make gentle, but strongly pressured contact with the clitoris, and for me, to rub it slowly like stroking the lip of a wine glass to produce sound: firm and slow. When a man announces that his sole intention is to make a woman orgasm it really puts the performance pressure on. Previously, someone mentioned the ego boost that a woman's orgasm gives to a man. I would rather he allowed me to pleasure him and through this create my own heat, and, then I can relax and the climax will come naturally. Also, one last thing, really! Even if a woman does not orgasm the act of sex itself feels great. Sometimes I will masturbate but not orgasm. It doesn't always have to happen. But, men are by nature performance oriented and they like to have the 'finish' and the physical signs of this finish. This is why squirting has become the rage. Men feel they can finally see physical evidence of an orgasm and avoid being cheated by a faked climax. LOL. Sex: it's all good.
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    First, I think your comment was rude, and reflects ignorance... I did have some beautiful and passionated moment with clients, especially with the older ones, but also with people I had absolutly nothing in common... I have clients that have me cuming to a point I had to ask to give me a break! Posted via Mobile Device
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