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joe64 contacted me yesterday with a text that read.... '3pm incall?' I was at the Dentist's and responded to him as soon as I had turned my cell back on. I explained myself and apologized for missing his text. But I also went on to tell him he would have to include more than what he did in his next text for an appointment. I sent him an example of an appropriate text here on cerb, and he responds by complaining that I didn't text him back right away and wasn't available when he wanted me. My next move is to ask him for a reference. He says he already sent me one. He didn't. Finally today he tells me 3 ladies he has seen but then berates me for not valuing him as a client and that I'm putting him through too much hassle. Ending his PM that he would be looking on BP for someone serious. I'll tell you right now joe64, it has less to do with your race, and a lot more to do with your approach. You want me to give my body to you and you think ' 3pm incall?' is sufficient as an introductory first text and that my asking for a reference is a hassle? I think you may have a couple of things to learn before you start worrying about your race. I know for myself, if you properly introduce yourself and conduct yourself respectfully towards me, race is not an issue. I believe that gentlemen come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

My Dad and I are very very close. Always have been. 3 days ago my dad was told he has a brain tumor. He and I discussed at great length yesterday....cancelled a little go for a drive getaway the two of us....for now....he is at peace about it, moving forward and will do what needs to be done. Soooo reason for my post. A very good friend of mine hadn't talked to his Dad for several years. Silly the reason why...IMO.....I called up my friend last night and told him about my Dad. I asked him...."So Mark. Do you want to get this news about your Dad someday, realizing he only may have a short time to live, knowing that you two aren't at peace? Forgiveness buddy forgiveness " He hung up on me. Mark's mother phoned me not long ago today crying and said "Thankyou....I don't know what you said to Mark but he is here and they are hugging...Thankyou Thankyou" Made my day :)

Very well said Soleil. Although I 99% of the time ignore texts, & the reason for it is because of their approach. U available, or where you located. Not a single hello or an introduction. Eventually what I see having happened here was him getting a lot of pm's wondering who this apparent racist SP is. You asking him to tell him a bit more about himself is far from being racist. He seems to be quite hung up on his race & unfortunately he thinks that the ladies will decline him an appointment due to it. That won't be the reason to decline the appointment, his attitude & how he treated you when you'd like to know a bit more about someone that you are providing your body & time to. Wow Joe is all I can say. The majority of the ladies I know would have ignored your text altogether, zero response. Soleil was nice & patient enough to respond then you play a blame game with her. She is a very sweet & kind hearted woman, who probably doesn't have a single racist bone in her body.

I think, in this case, only 2 opinions matter: Yours and the guy you are trying to be with. Sure, it would be nice to hear other people's views, but keep in mind their opinions ultimately mean nothing.

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ME!:D Long labia, a teeny pearl like clit!

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Since many of us deal with criticism on a daily basis, I found this authors idea for a disapproval matrix quite interesting.

As in everything, there are those people who mind and those who don't, those who give in relationships and those who are parasites. I think the big questions here are the ones you need to ask yourself. Do you want to continue as an SP in a relationship or not? What are you looking for in a partner and a relationship? Once you know the answer to these questions to make yourself happy, you simply look for partners who will blend with you into what you're looking for. If you want to be an SP yet you have someone completely monogamous or jealous, it will never work, don't delude yourself thinking it will. If you want a strong man who does not sponge off you, then don't allow him to and if you see the behavior send him packing. Life is all about choices and making life into what we want it to be. You either chose things that will do this or you don't, either way, you have a choice. Good luck!

This video is re-calibrating my own mental gyroscope. The Hubble Space Telescope points at an apparently empty area of space and discovers 10 billion galaxies. "Awesome" is over-used, but this time, it's accurate.

2 Great on the room Lee, I will take it, will send funds via email transfer. Now I was hoping to have the duo with you and OD, perhaps the other fellows can video for promo stuff. But here is the thing sweetie, you need to understand what interactive is. I want to see you and OD make out and stuff , 2 guys kissing is a super turn on for me, I'd like to see some oral as well, but hey I understand the gents get to make their rules. You know what makes you comfortable is what I want. Please though a little kissing, I am sure we can work it all out and of course when I recco you it will be a ladies recco, what goes on behind closed doors is private. :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin: Anyhow the money is sent and I sure hope that Andy fellow makes it, he has a bit of a treck!! Love to all you boys!

Pretty much every day, I'll receive a few texts from numbers I've never seen before, just saying 'hi' or, 'hey'. I will never understand why these texts are sent. Most girls ignore them, to be honest. I occasionally will respond, saying 'Hello! If you'd like to see me, please introduce yourself and let me know what you're looking for, thanks!' other times I've said 'Hello! Who is this?', to get a response back with just a name. Like, Frank. Just Frank, nothing else. Not, Hello, this is Frank, wondering if you're available today?' I know sometimes a new client can be nervous with the first communciation. But please keep in mind, we are very happy to answer your questions, and if we accept texts (some girls state in their ads that they do not), then you are welcome to text us! But please, ask a question! Tell me what you're texting for. Because to just say 'Hi, then 'Frank', it's like pulling teeth. I'm not here to draw what you want out of you. You need to ask me, and then we can make an arrangement. I will admit, I sometimes can be a bit snarky in my responses to these texts. And i'm not a snarky person. But after the tenth 'Hey' or worse, 'hey babe', text I've received in a day, my patience may have hit it's limit. And I would hate for us not to get a chance to meet only because our texting didn't work out. Communication is key to a good encounter. Tell me who you are, and what it is you're looking for by contacting me. If you can't say more than a hello in a text, now how will we be able to talk in purrson silly!

Im wondering if Vanessa is indicating she has what we are looking for

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I think that the common thought and thread here is that whenever possible pleasure for "both" parties is paramount. So if as an SP or client, you feel it, enjoy it and show it. However, in reality there will be days where either party will not be at their best and that's ok. I'll be very blunt, if I'm involved with an SP and I sense that dispite my best efforts she's just not getting there on that day, at that time for whatever reason I'd just rather roll over, lay back, trace my fingers over her skin and chat. Trying to just carry on and power through for the sake of "finishing" is just embarrassing. Because I derive so much of my pleasure from the ladies pleasure I've learned that for me longer dates are my preference. That way I can have a sufficient amount of time to connect with the lady and allow the pleasure to build for both parties.

Way back in the day, I learned to hack DTV. Of course, I damned near got hooked on Jerry Springer. There was nothing like him on Canadian tv at the time. One commercial that came on every day at lunchtime was the Smart Beep commercial. Farkin' hilarious.

It's not that it's an unfair question, but that it's a very awkward one, Bushwacka. No one responsible is going to make generalizations about a particular group of companions. Those who might are likely to be biased and their opinions may have little factual basis. It's perfectly fine that you like Asian ladies. And it's also perfectly okay that you like anal sex. You'll need to contact Asian companions and ask them if this is something they do. There's really no other reliable way around it. Even when agencies claim that someone does or doesn't do something, they're not always correct. And I'm sure you don't want to expect something from someone only to find that she's feeling pressured into doing it when she may not want to! For something like this, which is a special activity that not everyone does or is comfortable promising, your best option is to ask the ladies you're interested in, yourself.

Well, as for why he did it, in his brother's words: Same as everybody else. And here's the case for him (probably) being back next season. Now, onwards to the glorious future when this sort of thing isn't remotely newsworthy!

Try the male masturbator head for the Hitachi Magic Wand, play with it alone or better yet slip in side it and then have your partner sit atop you cow girl style. It's made of win.

Not sure what other SPs reasons might be? There is however no shortage of men who treat women badly regardless of ethnicity. Cheers,

Can't say there's been any male-directed toys I've enjoyed. Well, unless you count a piece of fabric that was used to bind my hands to the bed-frame once. For a simple "toy" I've very fond memories of that one! But as nothing turns me on more than a turned-on woman, I'm most likely to get a thrill from a toy when it's one the lady has brought out to use on herself while we play. I knew one lady who had a collection of variously-sized buttplugs that she loved having used on her during intercourse. The fact that they were quite obviously her favourite toy by default made them mine.

My personal favorite is a little viberator bullet that can attach to a finger. Worn on the front of the finger the bullet is applied direct against the pussy/clit/anus but I always perfer to wear it on the back of the finger turning the finger into the viberator then the finger itself gets applied against the pussy/clit/anus. Vibes are great but nothing beats the sensation of skin on skin. Keeping it in batteries is a bitch though. The other is a viberating cock ring with a bullet on both the top and bottom side so she gets stimulation on both the clit and anus during intercourse.

Hi Everyone, We require a new council member (A lady) as we are currently short ONE of the ladies of our 14 member council. If you previously applied you do not need to contact me as your name is already posted but to be fair when the council and moderators vote on a new member I like to take a few days ahead of time and take any other names of volunteers. Council is not for everyone! It has had choices and requires a little effort and time but it helps the community a lot and helps the direction of cerb. You need a MINIMUM of 50 posts and must be a INDEPENDENT SP You must have ZERO infraction points lost in the last 6 months Thanks. And please PM Me if interested. Council members names are kept private to everyone outside of council. Some choose to reveal they are on council but this is ALWAYS a bad idea.

Sending Sophia Hugs, Love and Healing! xo

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To dump on one of the best SP in the business is totally wrong! Soleil is kind, caring and is willing to drive 8 hours to see someone with a disability and you Joe are playing your race card. Your wrong as a person because you need to sell yourself as a gentleman with good manners. Most if not all SP expect good manners and behavior from the men they see so just lighten up. You do owe Soleil an apology!

I agree. I'm prone to tendonitis in my right arm and have had good results with avoiding heat and using ice. I use a frozen gel pack from the drugstore, with a tea towel wrapped around it--just one layer of towelling between the gel pack and my skin. My doctor and physio recommended 20 minutes on, 20 minutes off, and repeat. I usually do three repetitions because it's hard to find more time than that to sit still. I take ibuprofen every 8 hours, around the clock, to help reduce the inflammation. I don't use a brace because it doesn't seem to make a difference for me. But if you have carpal tunnel involvement, a brace may help you get relief.

I had tendonitis in my shoulder two years ago. I was given a prescription for an anti-inflammatory and physio exercises to do. It took about a month to start feeling better.

Was trying to track down one of my favorites and ran across this........ Any of you ladies try this ? as seen on TV ...

Mya: I think that you are going to find that the regulars on Cerb (the ones you see in chat and participating often on the site are more about intimate contact and connection with the SP than just simple gratification. You should never feel guilty for getting turned on and as others have said this very much enhances the Hobbyist experience.

Not to hijack the thread but Cristy brings up a very important point. Many of the gents posting here have indicated that the ladies pleasure is very important and I applaud that, however women ARE all "tuned" different. That's an important thing to realize when a client is putting all that pressure on himself to try to please the lady. Specifically when the end game is the lady having an orgasm. What works physically for one will not work for another. Some ladies a blessed with the ability to orgasm even at the slightest stimulation while others can take considerable time to get there. As we should be all aware achieving enjoyment through sexual contact is to a large degree a mental thing. As much as we clients would like to think that our sexual prowess is enough to compensate for our physical attributes and sex appeal and take a lady over the edge usually this is not the case. This is not to say that that the lady may not enjoy the time we spend sensually exploring her and allowing her to explore us. As much as I (and others here) would like to believe otherwise, I am not a sexy man or a lover extraordinaire. I'm a realist, with me if I don't take the time to connect with the SP on some type of emotional level first it's unlikely that I'm going to be able to make her orgasm from my physical attributes and abilities alone. (LOL, I realise that this comment may not result in SP's lining up to spend time with me) Personal story. My wife loves sex and is a sexual person, however in her younger years as much as I tried my wife took a long time to orgasm with a lot of foreplay (seriously like over an hour for sure). As someone who gained a lot of his own pleasure from her pleasure this was very frustrating for me and resulted in feelings of inadequacy. As a result I seriously studied everything I could get my hands on regarding sexual arousal and techniques to try to make myself better. However dispite the fact that she was eager, the speed at which I could make her orgasm never improved. So as a result, a love making session would often take a couple of hours. (Jump forward a few years) we have a baby. The first time we had sex after that she had multiple orgasms in like less than five minutes however my techniques had not changed. Ever since she is very orgasmic and gets there with very little stimulation at all even just rubbing her mons and holding her against me tight cam make her cum. We don't know what happened but something changed. My feelings of inadequacy vanished and I felt like a stud. Enter SP's, and I'm back to having to work at it again. Moral of story, every lady is different and might even change over time in her ability to orgasm so don't focus on the destination focus on the journey. Orgasms (male or female) are great but fleeting, connection on an emotional level tends to last and hang with you and IMHO is the most important. Have fun everyone and never suppress your enjoyment of each other.

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To echo Tracies comments I will also say that a lot of my pleasure is derived just by turning the man on and watching him get off. Orgasms are great, I strive for them with each client but because of how I'm tuned sometimes, well a lot off times, the whole session would have to be spent on me to get that to happen. So if you are turned on be assured I will be as well, orgasm or not, it's just plain hot watching a man get hard and cumming, just yummy!!

I would hope that the lovely lady I am enjoying company with is also enjoying, but I suppose its not always the case. It would be more pleasurable if the lady was enjoying herself, makes the myself (I'm sure most men) feel better, about the whole encounter, I have returned to those ladies who I feel had a genuine good time often, than those who might not have. But its all about chemistry sometimes.

I can NOT recommend

One more.

Nothing better than a dildo and a vibrator, those who have met me know how much I love mine:)

All the hotels in downtown Halifax are more than fine to come into, but I personally would avoid staying at the Westin. It is high traffic for SP's and on some occasions hotel security stops ladies and or their guests. Any hotel in which lots of Sp's work from is a red flag to stay away. There are way nicer and much more discreet hotels to stay in, and if you need any info please feel free to email me, for the privacy of myself and others I wont list hotels on a public board.

I actually will not see friends. If I know them outside of the business, and they find out I am an sp, and then try to book time with me, I politely decline them. I explain that I would rather keep their friendship and to me it's just too weird to see someone I know socially. Business and friendship in my opinion do not mix.

Here's a hug for anyone who needs it!

HUGS to everybody!!!! Cuz that's the way I roll....

I am definitely a fan of the cum shot...in fact, if you read some of my recent ads, I talk about how I want someone to come and explode all over me As long as it doesn't get into my eyes or my hair, lol, I love when it explodes all over me! It's so sexy to watch a man's face as he cums, and to see the results on my skin. MMMMMM.

Good point Cristy. Every lady is unique and beautiful in her own way. Ladies shouldn't worry that some other lady is competition for her. JMHO but there isn't an ideal perfect woman, just women each of whom are unique and can offer something special to the clients they see A rambling from a guy who has been blessed to see a few ladies ;-) and each lady and the encounter provided was special and unique And I hope it came out right RG

This topic is a sensitive one for me. As a teen I was extremely over weight and got picked on really bad in highschool, "walking meat locker, ogre, etc....". These names affected me sooooo badly I became anorexic for a long time. My body image ran my life, I was soooo obsessed with being skinny I went down to a very unhealthy weight. The thing is once someone becomes anorexic there is no cure, it stays with you for life. Everyday I worry about what I eat, and what I look like. When I look in the mirror, I do not see what everyone else does, I see a huge whale who is disgusting. I have had people tell me how beautiful I am but it is hard to believe. The last couple of years I have been battling cancer, and the side effects of the treatments I have been getting is weight gain. I am once again unhappy with my weight. It does not matter how little I eat or how much I work out the weight has been taken out of my control. So to anyone out there who has been struggling with a weight control disease (anorexia/bulimua), you are not alone. To anyone who puts people down for their weight/body image, shame on you! My best friend is a male who is extremely under weight, his whole life he has been picked on and teased for being too small. People have advised him he isn't eating enough, etc.... This is not funny for him, he has tried to gain weight and no matter what he tries he is just a small man. I always tell him he is perfect just the way he is, but like me he has been teased and tortured for sooooo long he no longer believes he is ok. Sorry I had to chime in on this issue as it is very close to my heart, as I see people everyday suffering because of someone else's ideal on how people should look.

For me, this is what I have experienced. I am a very attractive woman who is always dressed very nicely and also groomed the same. In my 9-5 career-I am someone with a very strong work ethic. I always go the extra mile-always obtain top notch references, have strong experience in a variety of sectors, plus I also have the maturity that ensures that I am there for the long haul, looking to establish a solid career by being dependable and efficient. IMHO, I would think thats what an exec would want for his assisant. Many times , for the past few years-I have obtained many ineterviews for jobs-that excuse my arrogance, but were perfect for me, my skills and personality too. However, once I arrive to the interview-there would be a pool of us ladies, waiting to be interviewed, and once the interviewer opens the door to call in the candidates-they start to give us the total look over from head to toe. You see many of these interviews, consisted of men who were basically only interested in having an assistant who fit their idea of hot. Forget the skills, attitude or experience. I personally feel that I have lost out on quite a few jobs due to my appearance-but at the sametime, they did me a favour because I would have a hard time working for people like that. Whenever I go to a bar-probably cause people are drinking-and just plain stupid-I always get at least one insult, regarding my appearance-because some loser in the bar thinks its so important for me to know that I am not his type-meanwhile the person who is spewing stupid shit is usually someone who I would not even touch with a ten foot pole-so whatevs... Within this business-I have been shunned a little bit-and I dont mean cause certain men wont see me due to my size. I am not referring to this -I am not trying to change anyones mind about what they like ;) What I mean about that is that there are quite a few guys who I see on occassion and regularly that would NEVER let other hobbiests know that they see me and like me too. Yes there are plenty of ladies who fit the bbw image on this site and other sites too, but very very few individuals will fess up to liking us. I realize the return visits are imperative for my business, but I gotta say nothing stings more than when you see one of the guys that you spend time with always make it a point to rec the ladies who are no more than 130 lbs, but never you...ouchy -wouchy ;) But hey-I deal :boobies:....could be alot worse ;) I really love the way I look-and do not have any desire to be what is usually considered hot. I love my giant breasts-my tummy, heavy bottom and thick thighs and will not change that for ANYBODY...that is what is most important!