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Yes, I've heard that this is a significant problem. And even if the money doesn't get withheld until after the shoot, anyone who doesn't go along with it is still likely to be labelled "hard to work with" and will find their opportunities drying up. There are some explicitly ethical porn producers, but... not enough. Back to front happens all the time. Again, I think it's safe enough when you've spent enough time sanitizing everything beforehand and you're dealing with a rectum that's clean enough to eat your dinner off. But people forget that, and then start to emulate what they see on screen... I'm not even a fan of pina colada, so I'll definitely steer clear of the hepatitis one....

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I'm not sure if this is over for the month yet but I loved seeing votes for @500 Pound Gorilla. The interview he provided was quite Brave (you know I love bravery!) and time with him is definitely worthwhile 💋 If it's too late for April considerate it a vote for May.

Oh man I enjoyed this thread. Things I agree with most would certainly be double-dipping is yucky and dangerous. A lot of what you see in porn like Phaedrus said does come with a lot of preparation. I am a fan of backdoor play from time to time and preparation for that is enough for me. I cannot imagine what they go through to prepare for some of the scenes I have watched. I do remember reading an article once about really hardcore scenes and some producers not signing the ladies cheques until after the performance was over, to encourage them to endure what they wanted on film. Horrible and when I read that I was quite happy I have never considered getting involved in that industry. I've always preferred to do my own thing. This way how weird I get is on me, not some dude with a pen. I know double dipping between ladies was mentioned but I'm not sure if I remember seeing from front to back. I'm not judging those who might be into something like that but I can certainly say the thought of it irks me. Ass to mouth is also a very hard limit of mine. I can go with it the hepatitis colada thank you! Some of the things mentioned were a little tame and with proper communication certainly enjoyable amongst certain personalities. I like to try new things and push it to the interesting side at times but don't go too far. Dominatrixes in porn are often very different from dominatrixes in real life. Every goddess has and sets her own style. A few times I've come across some confusion as I feel the client may have had a more porn based expectation in their mind. If this is the experience you seek, it is still valid but don't be afraid to admit that is all you know of it. It would be a shame to see anyone get themselves into a situation they're not sure how to talk their way out of 😸 More of these glorious and kinky conversations please!

My pleasure dear 🤗 @Ava Maria Love

Wow I am very Impressed ! Great interview @SamGaines, its obvious you know yourself and (your Clientele) and a good understanding of women. Thank you @Allie Zeon for your contirbution to this thread ,it really asked the questions I found myself asking in my mind . My only wish after seeing Sams website was that I could follow him on twitter , I hope a profile for there is in the works!,. I wish there more Highly Professional male escorts like Sam in Canada , specifically Vancouver .

Aw thank you , for your kind words , it would be my pleasure to meet and also to connect on twitter . I tried to come out east last summer , but could not enter , maybe next year ,since this summer seems too many lockdowns 😞 , Anything I can help you with regarding the westcoast just ask away .

Hi been looking for a woman who likes to be in charge of a man and are there any in the city the??

Kingston is on my radar for a visit as soon as it is safe to do so 💋

Here is a story for you. This happened with a lady that I was seeing regularly and will see her again as soon as Covid is over or we are all vaccinated. This was discussed between the both of us for a long time before it happened and it was very exciting to do. The plan was: She would wear and old bra or blouse at our meeting(unknown when) and I was to use a pocket knife that I carry with me all the time for work and is always very sharp, I was to cut open one or the other or both. One fine day when I showed up at our rendez vous I could see that she was wearing the secretary/librarian outfit, you know the see through blouse, pencil skirt etc... She approached me and said "today is your lucky day" and I couldn't take myself to take out my knife so while her eyes were closed I just took both hands and ripped that blouse open, buttons flying all over and her breasts liberated from that piece of clothing holding them captive. I was reluctant on posting this on here because some will say that it's dangerous to play with knifes etc...I just want to remind everyone that we have known each other for over 3 years before this and we built a trust in each other. I also want to point out that all fetishes require trust in the other person.

I am pretty sure Sassy Ashley is not Nadia. They are two different ladies.

Just seemed appropriate for this thread A Seinfeld "Rambling???" well sort of RG

Oh @Ava Maria Love you hit so many important things in this interview and thank you for taking the time to join and share with us! Toxicity is something I am not a fan of myself and why I prefer just to hide here in this little nook that is Lyla. It truly is a wonderful place. I'm thrilled to have what seems to be another sweetheart around! The views must be amazing on the west coast. You seem amazing and the type of mind I could get along with. If I am ever fortunate enough to make out that way I certainly hope we could have a drink sometime. Usually when I travel its East, but the West I do need to explore more. When it's safe to do so of course. Regretting I shutdown my Twitter. Have been considering getting it back up now that school is finished for the summer. If I do I hope you wouldn't mind if I send you a follow 💋

Watching the action in porn is like watching the Fast and Furious franchise. Looks exciting but I hope people aren't trying to drive like they do in the movies. (OK, there are idiots out there that do drive like that but they're IDIOTS!) As it was mentioned before, there is a lot of prep work and need to get specific camera angles involved as well as the desire to come up with unique positions to add variety to the films. Not necessarily practical or enjoyable.

And you never get judged or laughed at, although threads like these are an excuse to recycle Seinfeld memes. A Recycled Rambling...I Think 🤔 RG

She is a genuine kind beautiful lady with a warm and friendly personally that aim at pleasing you and make you happy. Definitely not a clock watcher. Had a super great time Saturday May 1st at 10h, thank you!

Masterbation is a form of Self Love and self care, I need to have more of both , its very easy to put ourselves last, and take care of ohers needs and not our own . Love this thread , Love yourselves Everybody!

I totally agree. I have seen Serena many times over the last 10 years and she has never disappointed

The one and only Sensational Serena is the companion with the infamous billboard (she also has ads on Leolist and her own independent website). Not only is Serena very smart and wonderful to talk to, she also has a down-to-earth personality and a terrific sense of humor. Of course, she is a natural beauty, too -- with the most enchanting green eyes that I have ever seen. I love that Serena speaks her mind and doesn't pretend to be anything she isn't. She sees past my disability and treats me with dignity and respect. I have seen her several times already and they have always been some of the most pleasant experiences I've had and I will definitely see her again the next chance that I get.

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Well....I'm not a golfer but I would play a game with her and watch how she plays it any day...rain or shine !

I never said that you "should" buy them....all I said is that I recommend them. I also said that if you do and "could" share the pictures on here. The only reason I said this is to help the ladies to promote themselves on here. I can find plenty of the pictures online myself as you can all see how many I post on many threads.

Ciara for sure. I’ve been there.

I spent the most fabulous weekend with Sam Gaines He fulfilled every fantasy a woman could haveHe was very caring, loving and sensitive to my needs. He truly made me happy and I felt a peace within that I had not felt for some time.For the time we were together it was very real for me and very real that I was loved.A weekend like that makes you wish for a weekend like that again and again. Till we meet again Sam... soon.Thank you so much for the experience of a lifetime.JJXox

Oh, gawd... where to start? Double-dipping? Yes, they do it in porn and it's probably safe enough... but you don't get the see the hours of decidedly unsexy cleaning that goes into making sure you can do that without getting infections all over the place. Choking? From what I've read, this is becoming a huge problem. There's an entire generation of men that have grown up believing that grabbing someone's throat while you fuck her is an entirely normal thing to do. Fingering? If you go at someone's ladybits the way they normally do in porn, you're going to hurt her. This is why an increasing number of providers just don't allow it at all. Spit? If the number of "spit is not lube" posts I see on Twitter is anything to go by, this is another big one. And honestly, all the rough sex you see in porn. Hopefully that was all negotiated beforehand, but we keep reading horror stories about people who go beyond what was agreed on shoots. And even when that doesn't happen, it doesn't help with the people who get the idea that you can just start the slapping/jackhammering/whatever else without talking about it first. And on a less serious note: a lot of the positions in porn look really uncomfortable to me. But I guess they're driven by the need to let a camera in to see what's going on, which isn't a concern for most of us.

THANK YOU @lydiahardwood for giving me a voice , and a warm welcome your site . and thank you to @NotchJohnson @StephanieMystique @500 Pound Gorilla @Allie Zeon for taking the time to read and share yout thoughts . it is nice to be a member of a community like this one here on Lyla , where I am able to share my opinions , without having to fear personal attack .

Probably aisle 6 and 9 too.

Someone's in for a splash zone extravaganza!

Wanna fly to Ottawa with me?

Excellent and noted 😽 Do they call Ottawa the city fun forgot because most of the fun people in Ottawa are travelling? Covid has me a bit more stationary these days but I need my ass on the East Coast again soon! I appreciate your response Sam 💋

Yes, I am based in Ottawa :p I travel all over but base myself there.

Hi Allie :) Yes I am doing this full time. You are right in that it is more challenging in that regard. The market is actually very small.

Yes I do also give coaching to men who want to develop themselves in this way.

Hi everyone :) This is Sam here. Thanks for taking the time to comment and share your thoughts. I also want to say thanks to Lydia for taking the time to interview me. I will try to make sure to answer each question you guys have. Also if you have any other questions you want to ask me directly and discreetly, you can always contact me through my website www.samgaines.com or via email at [email protected]

it's funny, i;m usually not impressed of what female escort writes on her bio but guy like you probably like it. As a matter of fact, i usually don't read her bio because the bio is written to attract male clienteles in general. There is difference between us on the opposite spectrum for sure. C'est la vie:)

You are blunt Sharpe. Realistically I would agree with you but remember Sam's target market is women who are lonely, betrayed, unsure or women who want to be treated like a woman. O yes, we love being protected, loved and hugged...no matter how successful and independent we are. I cried a lot due to loneliness before I became an escort eventhough people think I was strong and successful and independent

Agreed. If I were his client I would recommend to my friends. Not too sure, how many women can be like me though

Networking and reputation? I think discretion is pretty important and the clients might not tell their personal experience to others. There is no review board for straight male escort either. I just look at Sam's website. Articulately written and he seems to be very patient and capable of soothing and convincing his clients. There is no Price set on his website although he mentions multiple hours booking is recommended. I look at his gallery: fit, muscular with a nice masculine jaw as well as being a gentleman. I'm intrigued too 😜 Is Sam a member of Lyla? I have more personal questions lol

Technically, everybody can be an escort but only very few can make it as a fulfilling career. Being male escort is very challenging since most women can get laid pretty easily compared to men. This is rather personal question to Sam:. Are you doing this full time?

I think Shrek is quite sexy 😗

Thank you for this interview @lydiahardwood and thank you for the honesty and strength of your metal Sam Gaines. I can relate to some of the rudeness you have to deal with. As a Bi MtF CD Escort I deal with rude comments as well but they just make me more determined to carry on and never return the rude comments. I often counsel men with their nervousness about trying someone like me for the first time. I have been very successful doing that and have made many friends and help them with other disappointments in their life. Keep up the good work Sam and continue being very personable and understanding. You are right when you say it feels great to see the smiles on their faces when the find they can trust you. I am lucky to see that with the men I have counseled, pleasured and shown something they hadn't experienced before. It is my pleasure to give them a Great Experience without any attitude and never rush our sessions.

Wow...I'm blown away with Sam's answers, care to share your website to the rest of us? Thanks ☺️