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I am in a personal relationship and I assure you my service is not the least bit affected. Kissing? You will be kissed and loved from the moment you walk in my door until you leave. This is our special time together and if I were not prepared to give you my 100 percent I would not have my name offered to be of service and be your companion. A lot of the gentlemen I see are married and I do not feel in the least our time is affected by thier personal relationship. Why would this be true for a lady?

I personally find it in way any more difficult to be a companion whether I am involved with someone or not. I provide the experience I provide, because I am comfortable with what I offer, being involved with someone has no impact on that. My experience I provide will always be exactly what I have always offered. Do you possibly think that maybe your impression of the encounter was clouded by the fact that the companion in question revealed that she was not personally available? This business is still in some aspects a part of a fantasy and it has been mentioned before in a thread that when some gentlemen find out a particular companion they know well is married or involved, that it is a turn off or they are no longer into them. It goes back to the old saying of "it's best not to ask questions that one does not want to hear the answer too"

If my being involved in personal sexual relationships impacts my services, then I would say that it has a positive impact- aside from the hit that my availability can take, as Cat mentioned, I find that I learn a lot from my lovers- both about what I like, and about how to please them. Besides, having a really good lover turns me on. A lot. I go about my days bursting at the seams with sexual energy. For me, it's not a finite resource- if anything, the more I share, the more I gain.

He's been watching too much American TV. Prostitution is not now and has never been illegal in Canada. While I agree soliciting for the purpose in a "public place" is, several court cases has established a prescient that a web site is not a "public place" as it relates to this section of the Criminal Code. Emails, telephone calls and any other method of communication were there is a "reasonable expectation of privacy" also do not apply. I have noted that many ladies misinterpret the law in this regard in that they state on their web site they won't discuss anything on the phone, but as they have a "reasonable expectation of privacy" they are free to discuss anything on the phone they like.

I can understand clock watchers 'to a point', since many services here are based on time, but there comes a tipping point where watching a clock too much takes away from the quality of the time that is available. As for SP's who constantly check their phones or answer calls while with a client, I have a simple solution, I stop using their services. I know that younger people find it hard to put their phone down, we are so wired these days. But when your phone has already produced results in the sense you have a client with you, the time has come to put it down and carry on with business, not seek out your next potential client. My time is as important as an SP's time, and to see it being wasted during a meet with them answering a call, just indicates to me a lack of respect. There's no other job out there really where an employer would tolerate a staff member taking a call while that staff member was with a client. That is what voicemail and text messaging is for. This is no different.

Offputting?Sorry expressing how I interact with my clients and not understaning others interactions is offensive?I wasn't judging anyone,I DID SAY WHAT I DON"T OR CAN"T DO I CAN"T UNDERSTAND!!!THEREFORE COULDN"T DO. In order to be non judgemental do you have to conform?Only agree with the popular vote?I never make comments to win points but to express my feelings,never have I passed judgement on anyone,I find saying that offputting!

Cristy you started your initial post with "well i'm sure i'm going to get blasted for my opinion". Why, if you are stating your personal thoughts on any matter would you start your post like that, if you are not looking for someone to take offence to what you have written?

Christy's post about the movie "The Way you Were" got me thinking about famous Hollywood couples/pairings. Who were your favorites. My all time favorite screen couple: Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall ... "you do know how to whistle, don't you"

I always offer a BFE.....regardless of my relationship status :) Peace MG

Speaking for me, and only me, it's because I'm not in a relationship (by choice) that I seek the companionship of ladies in this lifestyle And when I see ladies, it doesn't matter to me if they are in a relationship or not. The ladies are doing this as their livelihood, they aren't cheating on their spouses. And any issue between them and their spouse is between them and their spouse only. As much as the ladies provide,(and I guess I'm blessed with the ladies I've seen) a good or great GFE, I know that it is because they are paid companions. It isn't a conventional date, they aren't my girlfriends, it is at the core, an SP/Client relationship. And nothing wrong with that. It saves complications, no strings and no drama If a lady had me thinking about her with feelings I would do nothing. If she truly has feelings for you, she'll let you know. If she doesn't, she is a great SP, but not your future wife LOL A rambling probably going nowhere RG

To a certain extent yes, but a vast majority seem to be convinced that it is illegal for them to do so, and they use the standard US clause of money spent is for time and companionship only deal. I can know established sps don't want to do a set menu of expected services, but the ones referred to are usually the ones who won't even admit sexual services are provided lol

Charlene, AKA Sophia Varoushka. I am the one who likes to fight for the underdog, sometimes that underdog might be our environment. I am also a Holistic Healer, Reflexology, Shiatsu, Juicer advocate. I strongly believe we have the power built with in our bodies to help heal and comfort illnesses. I also have LUPIS. I am a loving daughter, my Mother and Father are my best friends. I am also a loving sister. I am a dog owner and lover! I was a show groomer for 13 years. I was an exotic dancer for 10 years, ballerina and jazz between 13-17. A provincial Gymnast, on my way to national team but broke my both knees. I learned to survive in this crazy world much too young in life, left home from a very dysfunctional family at the tender age of 15! Was a drug addict,recovered and survived that too! I am for the first time really in love! I am proud of who I have become, as I had a very hard life, whereas many others would crumble into pieces, it has made me stronger:) I love being an SP, cause I truly love making people feel good about themselves!! Thanks for this thread, I feel good!

No he's leaving me Friday. :(

Good distinction Luxie. If we expect you to respect our time with you, then we should not abuse this privilege. If someone chose to book and pay for a 30 min appointment, then they should not even put you in a position of having to point out the time when it has passed. I suspect that this person was well aware of what time it was and was trying to take advantage of your good nature. Respect is a two way street gentlemen.

Marcus Aurelius. He was a Stoic (think western Buddhism), so on that alone I'd love to pick his brain. He was also an accomplished writer and leader. Posted via Mobile Device

I find it offputting in the respect that you come across as puritanical. Posted via Mobile Device

I have to respect what you are trying to say Cristy. Does that mean that if you have a personal relationship you will have to stop being an SP during that time? Sounds like it, and this may be the way in which you are "old fashioned" and that is you and you have every right to be who you are. Certainly, from the point of view of the client (at least this one), "real" is so very much appreciated. If you are going to be an actor and seduce me (because you think it is your job) and then not be "real", as Cristy says "by that I mean to actually get turned on", then I really have to appreciate Cristy's version of "real" because all I need is to realize it is acting and then I'll really wish you hadn't and wish we'd played monopoly when we ran out of things to talk about. Just give me one fake moan and I won't repeat :)

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I suppose I have a bizarre take on this but I think it does add insight to the subject matter in an odd way. When I am spending time with a lady in this setting, sex isn't the real reason, never the only reason and may not (sometimes has not) even occurred. I like the clarity of being able to be myself, it's liberating. Even with a spouse, are they in the mood? Are you imposing? It's expected here and SPs are shocked when our session is over and this hasn't happened. Sometimes I otherwise wouldn't but the SP thinks I am so cute and cuddly she seduces me, what fun! I find personal relationships, even with a spouse, can be a mixture of confusing signals. It's so liberating to spend time with a beautiful, intelligent, wonderful lady and not have to worry about anything as the boundaries or even lack of some boundaries (for those moments or rather hours in time) are so well defined with a "professional" companion. This is in contrast to a personal relationship which is completely different. It might only last 4 or 5 hours at a time but at least for that time I get to take a complete vacation from worrying about anything and just revel in the company of a wonderful lady and we are the only two people in the world for that time. So it is the very lack of a relationship combined with a purely "professional" friendship that makes this so special. Her personal relationships or mine don't have any impact whatsoever. They don't even enter the room.

Cristy, you used the term "old fashioned" as a complete term, in no part of your post did you call yourself partially old fashioned. I guess I cant see how you cant be "real" as you put it, with your encounters if your involved with someone. we are providing a service (a job or career choice it can be called as well) at the end of the day it is a business transaction with benefits (not meant to offend anyone) Its not a real date with emotions and love.

I agree Emily ... these are some of the same issues that was raised in the thread about cheating husbands, although from a slightly different perspective. It's about separating out concepts of sex, from concepts of love. Sex is about ... well, sex. A physical act of intense pleasure. And all of the things that go along with that are important. Sex without kissing (for me at least), just isn't the same. Kissing someone during sex, however, is different than kissing someone you love. That is because the act is imbued with the emotion when you kiss your partner. A physical act, becomes an expression of an emotion. I fully realize that it can be very difficult to separate those two things out, and this may just be rationalization on my part. But hey, at the end of the day rationalization is how we get through life! Porthos

Nice one, with the '7', Gena! :b How about some uplifting trance - I had to go this route! 7 Skies - Sushi (Original Mix)

When I am in a relationship the service level does not suffer but my availability certainly does. It is difficult to book an appointment knowing I am disappointing someone I care about by cancelling plans with them. But once the door opens...it's SHOWTIME! In for a penny, in for a pound... cat

Wasn't sure whether to put this here, or in jokes... it amused me anyway.

Myrna Loy and William Powell of the Thin Man movies. All told they made 14 films together. That's gotta be some sort of record.

Where's Sigmund Freud when you need him? He would've been an awesome CERB member.

What a way to fight a traffic ticket and win at the same time! http://now.msn.com/now/0413-physics-paper-ticket.aspx

When I was 16 and first got my driver's license I got a ticket for doing 76 in a 50. Of course I wasn't (Radar Russ) as we used to call him in this small town was asleep and the radar woke him up and by the time he came to, I was the car he saw coming. So I hired the most colourful lawyer and he made a mockery of the whole thing in Court for at least an hour of Monty Python style entertainment (really has a reputation for the dramatic flare and he has only gotten worse, or better with age), it was worth every penny of the $300 it costs me to fight a $76.50 ticket as he turned the Court room into a circus :) and won easily. He really earned every penny of his $300 as he called a witness I didn't even know he had who testified he was a taxi driver that passed by Radar Russ several times as day, every day and always laughed because he was sleeping. But in the end, after all that, he dropped the bomb, wrong charge "Speeding in a Business District" and a Business District being defined as having 50% business frontage and Radar Russ had already authenticated the pictures of the forest of trees beside the road as the correct area. Since then, I have fought four tickets I didn't deserve over the years myself and smoked them (won) every time. Sometimes these things are hard to win, even if you should. I remember once I met up with a friend of mine in the Court room and when I told him why I was there, he said, "impossible, you gonna loose, very hard to fight that" and I said well you just stick around and watch, I did my homework. I also paid the fine twice over the years as I was speeding :) Hmmm, maybe if I was as cute and sexy as Cristy or Nicolette Vaughn.... :)

As a woman I just flash major cleavage or cry when caught speeding. lol. Worked both times. Haven't had a speeding ticket since 2002 where I got 4 of them in 2 months when travelling across Ontario and various cities in the U.S. Twice I got them knocked down in Canada and had to deal with Pointts. There was probably a warrant out in upstate NY for me because I didn't pay that one. lol.. I also had to go to traffic school where they give you a lecture on not speeding and the dangers. I lost a lot of demerit points and high car insurance rates for about 2 years. Needless to say as I am more mature now and not trying to get everywhere so quickly, I don't speed excessively. I did do a rolling stop in my neighborhood development at 2 am last year but again because of the blond hair, cleavage and that charming way I have, he let me go.;)

Peachy's post made me think of one of the pictures in her own album. In my view I think this is one of the hottest and sexiest pictures in her albums, and one of my favorites on the board. But certainly not overly revealing: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=4637&pictureid=29704 Porthos

If I may provide an alternative point of view. I still go to church and to me personally if someone shows up in a jeans and T-Shirt I have no problem with it. To me it's not so much what someone is wearing in church but how they behave. I get annoyed when people are yacking away in the middle of a service or let their kids run screaming up and down the isles. I could care less if a person is wearing shorts or a suit as long as their respectful during the service, although I do realize there is a certain irony to this. I've always felt that you should behave respectful in a church/mosque/synagogue as even if you don't believe the same thing, faith or beliefs can be an important thing to people and you should treat their beliefs and place of worship with respect. Now I definitely agree though that at certain formal occasions like funerals, weddings, and other such events that you should suit up. But as for church it's not a stickler for me :)

this was a tough one, as a few people I thought of were already chosen. My choice would be Betty Paige, she symbolized the fantasy for men and her photographs absolutely ooze sex appeal

Nope, not at all, as the replies in the thread show. This is a symptom of a bigger social change. There was a time when some institutions were "bigger than" the individuals that belonged to them, and so people deferred to the expectations of the institution when conducting themselves -- like choosing what to wear. Church was the very top example of this; in a place meant for contemplation of Who We Are and Why We're Here, you dressed to show that for that couple of hours, things weren't all about YOU. That attitude has mostly vanished. Across the board, the individual comes first and institutions second. It sounds like church is now a venue for social networking (well, it's always been that too), but people are dressed to satisfy themselves and express their own priorities (sexuality? pointed indifference?), not those the church they're attending. Most of the time I'm in favour of this change. It's good to move power and choice away from institutions and over to individuals. We don't need to get into the flaws of strict obedience to an exalted religion. Deposing marriage from its throne has also been a big stride forward; now people can leave marriages that are broken, when not so long ago you just stayed because the concept of preserving that institution trumped the needs of the individuals within it. The church squandered the respect people had given it through corruption and creeping irrelevance. So have greedy governments, corrupt and violent police working in thrall to the state, news organizations serving advertisers and demagogues instead of readers and viewers... you name it. Each of those exalted institutions has thrown itself on its own sword through corruption or failure to grow and adapt. But... my concern is that there's nothing to replace them. Nothing that tells us to stop and think about what we belong to, and that there are some things more important than our individual, isolated desires. I don't want the church to come back, but I wouldn't mind if everyone took a couple of hours each Saturday or Sunday morning to meet their neighbours and remember we're not each the center of the universe. Having lost that so entirely makes each of us weaker, and easy prey for those organized and efficient institutions that remain. Which mostly means money-making cabals, exhorting us to buy laundry detergent or a flashy new car. I'm not sure where the answer is. But the symptoms of the problem are everywhere. No, Roamingguy, it's not just you.

I'll go with Howard Hughes. From the little I know an interesting/successful businessman and somewhat a unique character.

Best door prize ...EVER... I am thinking of going. Won't know for sure until the date draws nearer but its a good possibility. The rented yacht is a great idea, especially if there's no charge to return it extra dirty :p

Sometimes 'slow and steady' wins the race :) This thread reminds me of the saying.. that you can tell how a man has sex by the way he eats, they way he dances and the way he drives.. I don't think it's true though. In my case I don't judge personality through sex style by fast and furious vs slow and gentle.. I judge by selfish vs attentive.

I think the answer is yes, but I'll be damned if I know what it means!

Read this recommendation from WrinkledinTime for Gabreilla Laurence. Cheers and have fun.

I wouldn't want any gentleman to feel that he's not allowed to ask questions about what the lady offers and what her restrictions are. If you've checked out her website--where such things are frequently described--and still have questions, by all means, ask for the information. I can't imagine why any of us would consider polite inquiries to be a waste of time. Compatibility makes for a good rendez-vous, after all! Time-wasters are not trying to determine whether the lady is right for them. Most are more turned on by the fantasies they have while making contact than by actually meeting us. Their inquiries are not so much about trying to figure out whether we're compatible as they are about material for their own, private, solo pleasure, for free. Some of the time-wasting things I've experienced from men I've not met have included: Peppering me with long lists of questions about minutiae. I once had someone send me a list of 75 questions to which he wanted me to respond on a sliding scale of 1-5, from "absolutely not" to "our meeting would be a failure if we don't." This wasn't a BDSM scene negotiation: the questions were about "vanilla" activities. Demanding information about what went on in my recent meetings with other clients. Expecting me to provide a list of clothing and lingerie options from which he would decide what I would wear and, if I didn't have something that he thought he would like, also expecting me to go shopping to acquire whatever he thought would be suitable. At my own expense, of course. Sending highly explicit pornographic scene descriptions to which I was expected to respond, giving exact details about how closely my responses to the activities would or would not match those of the woman in the scene. Asking for advice about problems they're having at home or at work. Pointed questions about my sexual fantasies. Trying to turn phone conversations into phone sex, which is not something I offer. Describing encounters they claim to have had with other companions in the city, whom they name, and expecting me to offer opinions about those ladies and their alleged actions. Repeatedly making appointments a week or two in advance and then cancelling the morning of, or one or two hours before, the meeting. (I know that unexpected things happen to everyone. But if short-notice cancellations happen twice in a row, I may not agree to meet with a prospective client a third time without a non-refundable payment in advance.) The most common time-wasters, though, are the fellows who want to exchange e-mail daily or even several times a day about unimportant things like the weather, what kind of music I listen to, what I'm reading, what I cooked for dinner last night, and so on. These men tend to sulk or chide if their expectations aren't met to their satisfaction. I'm quite happy to exchange e-mail, sometimes two or three times a week, before meeting, particularly if the man is from out of town, but my notes will be fairly brief, warm, cheerful and rarely include much info about my personal, private life. I've received many other, similar time-wasting requests. I'm sure that most of the companions on this board could easily come up with quick lists, too. I'm happy to answer serious questions. I know how important it can be to find someone who provides experiences that he hasn't been able to have at home or elsewhere. If the man seems to be nervous or anxious, I usually suggest we have a strictly social meeting, first, like lunch in a restaurant. My social rates are lower than my private rates and I'm happy to get to know someone while relaxing over a meal without the expectation that we'll have private intimacy afterward. These social meetings aren't a waste of time, at all. I enjoy them!

Peachy, I find that people who try to highlight their education or test people tend to miss the point about education. If someone needs to rely on a degree or some lettering behind their name to prove something, they're probably lacking in some department. What is learned in university these days tends to assist in your ability to grasp new information and use it, not teach you the definitive answer to all of lifes questions. This can also be learned through life experience, and can be learned better that way my most pepople. People who rely on a degree miss this point and think it makes them smart...and sadly the opposite it usually true for these types. Unfortunately, where I work is very degree oriented and people whose IQ wouldn't break the century mark strut around with dual masters or PhDs like a peacock tail while denigrating those without. I have a university education and prefer the company of those who have learned life lessons, not necessarily stats 101; they're more intelligent and actually know things through experience. Be proud of your life experience, you're better for it. Additional Comments: I am, however, horrified at my typos:D

My name is Katherine, I have a huge extended family all over the world, some I have not met yet. I am a Reiki Master and Teacher and I strongly believe in the body's ability to heal itself through many natural methods. I believe there are no chance meetings that each time we meet or talk to someone there is a huge lesson to be learned. If we are able to slow our minds down and become more aware of ourselfes and out surroundings it is much easier to grasp the meaning of life and the lessons we are being presented with. I believe we live hundreds of life times and with each life we reach a higher level of understandning and consciousness. I believe in the power of my own mind and I am confident there is nothing I can't manifest . I am a spiritualist, healer, witch and friend to all I meet.

If you seek a pro-domme, the chance that she offer some FS are really low. There is a couple of pro-dommes in the region, but they do not advertise online...or not a lot. They prefer a more select clientèle that will not ask for sex... On the other hand,a "common" dungeon, that is own by one person or a small group of people...normally have a St-Andrew cross, spanking bench,smothering box, sometime a cage Normal toys are floggers, paddles, crops, ropes, gags,CBT implements, nipple play things...Most men that seek pro-domme do it without the knowledge of the SO, so the Domme cannot leave lasting marks...The things that I stated here normally don't leave some for long (depending on how hard you hit) But for the more specialize or more "heavy" duty...canes, single tails, violet wand, TENS units, dragon tongues, anal toys...

I use Lavender Oil (aroma therapy) a few drops on my pillow usually does the trick. I get this at the Bulk Barn. I also use a device that produces white noise to drown out noise from the neighbours. I got this many years ago and have not seen them in stores since then. I also like to use Sleepy Time Tea. This is available at most grocery stores. Cheers, Jafo

A few other options are 1) tart cherry juice (4 oz drink twice daily or just one in the evening) 2) valerian.. natures wonderful relaxing 'valerian' 3) a combo herbal with hops, chamomile, valerian, scullcap (scutellaria), lemonbalm or a few others 4) be sure to not have caffeine after noon! 5) make sure all lights are off and all electronic equipment is off.. even a clock with l.e.d. lighting can trick your mind into believing it's daylight outside so cover it up. 6) be sure the temperature in the room is cool enough for sleeping I personally love having lemonbalm, green tea and lavender soaps in my room and when I walk in I immediately feel like I'm in a spa and want to relax.

I don't things have changed much actually.. Summer said she made more money working independently considering you have to compete with sooo many other girls in the line-ups who all offer different rates! Giving half your money to the owners and then paying on top of that for rental of your room, supplies.. etc etc.. not all it's cracked up to me. I really had wanted to work in one but never was able to get a work permit/visa for the US. Now I'm glad I didn't :)