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Today a man hit my car. I could tell by the look on his face he was expecting me to start screaming at him. There was a little tiny mark but nothing to get mad about. I could see his expression change for the best when I reacted the way I did. This made me think........... .... I am starting this thread in hopes that we can create a positive vibe. Not only virtually but in our every day to day life................... This thread is for, "A Good Deed Of The Day". It can be helping an elderly lady with her groceries or doing something special for someone with out them knowing. Just about anything that sends a good vibe for the day! So I will start.............. ************************************************************ I reacted kindly in a situation that typically someone would be angry in. By reacting this way, I brightened someone elses day!

If someone wants to work on his social skills, his flirting and comfort with women, by all means, engage a paid companion if that seems like a lower-risk way to proceed. In fact, I would not refuse such an opportunity out of hand. But don't imagine that it would be a real date. No one can date Samantha Evans. She doesn't know how to date and I'm not going to teach her. :icon_cool: If you'll forgive me for saying so myself, Samantha is an awesome companion. She is genuinely interested in you, whether you and she have anything in common or not. She has no need to think about where this relationship is going, whether you might think badly of her based on her career choices or even to be anxious that she might disappoint you in some unknown way. She's pretty sure that she is exactly the sort of woman you want to spend your time with and your money on, at least at the time. She's positive and up-beat. She can be challenging, but she won't top you unless she has an express agreement to do so, for which you may need to pay a premium. If you don't feel good about yourself, about her and about your time together, there's something terribly, terribly wrong. That would be extremely rare. Samantha loves doing what she does and I love being Samantha. If you were to date me, though, you'd get a whole 'nuther creature. I am all of who Samantha is, and more. If we were to date, I'm likely to ask you to do things for me, sometimes, like stop at the store on your way because I've run out of bell peppers or need some brandy. I might ask you to walk the dog for me while I finish dressing, because, unlike Samantha, I may not be 100% ready for you when you arrive: my real life sometimes interferes with my plans; Samantha doesn't have enough of a real life for that to happen. I may turn down sex. If it's our first date, that's guaranteed. Maybe the third, maybe not. If you were to date me, you'd get to know me, my problems, the things I worry about, the things I hope for, the outcomes I desire or fear. You'd get to know other people in my life, too, and what they really think about me. Like me, they'd be sizing you up to see if you'll fit in with my assorted friends and family. They'll tell me what they think and I'll listen, whether I agree with them or not. It's difficult enough as it is to get to meet Samantha, but her screening requirements are nowhere near as stringent as mine are for someone I would date. For example, I don't date married men. I don't tolerate subterfuge or dishonesty. I also won't keep it secret that I know you and that we're dating, even if you're famous, very wealthy or have no particular wealth at all. Samantha is measured, thoughtful and reflective. So am I, but I'm also very protective of myself. Samantha will not fall in love with you, but if we date, I might, and that's an enormous risk that I will not ever entertain lightly. It's true that Samantha does feel closer to some of her gentlemen friends than to others and that the boundary between her and me may become quite porous when we both feel particularly comfortable with someone. That's because I'm human, I have real feelings and neither Samantha nor I will see anyone who doesn't genuinely interest us. Even so, it takes longer to get to know me than her. Samantha and I are both real. I don't know how to be anything else and so she doesn't, either. But her reality is shallower, less complex than mine. Remember the old joke about which is more expensive, the sex you pay for or the sex you get for free? It's absolutely true. What you get for free always costs more, usually much, much more!

Have you considered some of the social dating sites? I can't speak from personal experience but I know a friend of mine was taking a nice lady on a dinner date almost every day of the week. Some of them were the addicted to sex types also :) Ultimately, after having met many nice ladies (and the occasional one with baggage), I lost track of how many but there didn't seem to be any shortage, he did end up marrying one of them and they have been living happily ever after. As far as engaging SPs in non-sexual social dates, I do it often. Most offer a "social" rate that is different (less) than their regular rate and I think this only fair as they need not charge the same level of danger pay for having a pleasant lunch or dinner date in a public restaurant as they do for meeting a complete stranger behind closed doors, but some do and that's fine also. Of course we both know they are promoting themselves (in the case of a lower social rate) by being social and looking for opportunities to offer their more customary services at the normal rate and nothing wrong with that. In fact I see everything right about it, because if I do ask the lady for a more private encounter then we both already know each other and there is a level of comfort and rapport already established so it always results in a better, more positive experience. But my purposes are quite different than yours. I want to avoid booking an awkward, lengthy encounter with a lady that I am for the most part incompatible with (and don't yet know it). Even more important, I want the lady to know who she will be spending this time with and ensure that she is comfortable with me. That crazy blind date nonsense and any nervousness associated with it of who is going to be opening the door (in-call) or who will be knocking on your door (out-call) is completely avoided in this manner and that is important to me. I should note that I don't do this looking for a lady I will never see again, I am always seeking one I will want to see again and again and develop a genuine "professional" NSA friendship. So can SPs be of help to you? I think so, if you find it affordable it is a date with a very pretty lady available on request and at your convenience and NSA too. Most ladies are far more special, kind, understanding, compassionate, intelligent than those you would meet anywhere else -- I guess if your ultimate goal is romance then there is a danger you will never find a regular gal that can measure up to the extra special ones you'll find here :) And if you find her irresistible after meeting her socially, then she won't have a headache when you see her privately (or if she does she will reschedule) :) And porthos makes an excellent point, it is a fantasy so she does have to understand what you want. I favor reality and never encourage a lady to laugh at my jokes if they aren't funny, but sure they so classy and more accommodating than reality. Additional comments: One thing I forgot to mention. All my life I couldn't make romance happen and find a new girlfriend when I wanted to but every time I gave up and stopped trying they quickly came out of no where and found me, odd but true.

Just wanted to congratulate WrinkledinTime for achieving over 100,000 reputation points. Clearly a well deserved and extraordinary milestone and a CERB first! Yes, it true -- If you go to the main page under Top 10 Stats and select reputations it shows an amazing 100,259 at the time of this writing. CERB members come and go, some are a staple and continue to participate. With WIT I have come to rely on his many posts for keeping me informed on news affecting this industry but all his posts are most insightful, helpful and appreciated. Please join me in congratulating him! Oh, and as a bit unusual (as anyone that really knows me knows I am), I call on lurkers that might not have posted before to join me. Make your first post here count by congratulating someone who truly deserves our praise, respect and admiration for his contributions to this wonderful community, I dare you! Maybe you have been reading his wonderful posts for years but are not the type to post here? Than I ask you to at least say "thanks" :) Sincerest congratulations WrinkledinTime, I am glad you are around and hope you will be here forever!

Well all I can say Carley, you have brighten my day by posting this thread :) it is so nice to hear from you. :) ***************************************************** This is a very true story , happened here in Ottawa a SP very recently checking in at a hotel using a prepaid Visa Card did not have enough to cover the additional 50 dollar security deposit. For what ever reason they would not accept cash,only a credit card. I drove downtown to help her out and put the 50 dollar security deposit on my Visa. She was for ever grateful and there was no extra play time for me, in fact I was to be at a dinner function,I just pushed the dinner to a later start time to help her out. It put a smile on my face, for helping out someone in need. We met the next morning as planned I had no higher expectations nor looking for a discount. I was told that I was a very sweet and caring man, and that my friends is how you establish a good rapport with women. *****************************************************************

I just want to say, for the record, that while I don't provide bbbj, I don't look down on those who do. As far as I'm concerned, it's a difference in options, that's all. I do offer Greek, at my discretion. Not all companions do. I don't think that I'm better than anyone else because of these differences nor do I think that anyone else needs to change what she does because of what I think is best for me. There are more risks in offering bbbj than cbj, it's true. At the same time, those risks are not enormous and with good care and testing I fully believe that a companion can manage things beautifully. In fact, I know that many absolutely fabulous companions do. They have my utmost respect. I've been working in this industry for a long time. I've never had an STI in my life. Perhaps I was simply lucky when I was younger and not working. Since I began to work, it could be that a combination of assiduously-applied safer sex rules and good luck have helped. I don't know. I can't know. What I'm certain of is that, given the number of men I've seen over time, the odds are that someone may have had an infection, whether he knew it or not. I accept that risk and work hard to limit my exposure both to bugs and to the need for any kind of antibiotic--I'm allergic to many such drugs. That sounds good, in some ways, Peachy, but I don't think it will happen and, if it does, I don't think it will make a difference. Most of us won't accept regulatory intrusion. Pertaining as they do only to the moment when the tests were conducted, we know that test results are worth the piece of paper upon which they're printed. The apparent assurance that test results prove us to be healthy may actually increase the pressure to perform uncovered acts. Moreover, most of us will not willingly endorse the false notions that independent paid companions are a source of sexually transmissible infection--we're not--or that we are responsible for the health choices made by any adult other than ourselves.

Absolutely ... I think I live here! I too log on first thing in the morning, while the coffee is brewing, and finish my day with CERB.

Just a quick reminder that we all might want to take a moment to observe the 68th anniversary of D-Day. In an age where the word freedom sometimes gets tossed around to describe wars of dubious moral distinction, the second World War was without a doubt a battle against Tyranny and Evil. We can never thank those who fought and died enough for their service or their sacrafice, but we can honour them by remembering.

I'm an animal lover. You didn't say what kind of small animal, but some people are very allergic to cats (not me) and I know some ladies do have cats, I wonder if they warn in-call clients ahead of time and if it ever creates any kind of issue for them? I really hate it when three or four cats all gather around and start watching me and the SP intently, I mean like staring at us for hours! Let's call it the "cat scan". Just kidding -- that never happens :) Of course any professional SP is going to ensure that their pet(s) don't get in the way or become a nuisance.

I made the suggestion in a pm to MrNice that he extend a personal invitation to Taloon and I know that he has. I would suggest that others might also do so as I think he hasn't been persuaded at this point.

I have two goddesses today, both of whom have been named in this thread a couple of times already, but who are so worthy of being named again. The first, is Ms. Gabriella Laurence. I had the pleasure of meeting Gabriella this week, and she epitomizes all the qualities of a goddess. Meeting this heavenly creature has been a highlight of my career in this hobby! The second lady I would like to nominate as today's goddess is the wonderful and always sparkling Sophia Varoushka. I have yet to meet Sophia, but plans are definitely in the works to remedy that situation. I always enjoy her posts, which never fail to make me smile and I enjoy the witty and flirty conversations we have. It's good to have things to look forward to, and meeting this wonderful goddess is high on my list.

I have just found this thread and I will give my 2 cents. You have dated this nice girl for awhile and now you broke up, since you must have went to the same restaurant, movie theater, pub, visit same friends etc. What you should do is change your usual habit so that you forget about her(you can keep the nice memories in your head when you are alone) Join a new gym, make new friends guys and girls and don't think about dating just yet and it will come naturally.

It also means is that if you use that same username (your email address) and password on any other sites (like Facebook) you should also change those passwords.

I have encountered many SPs with demographic barriers such as age and race. I am white and I have never seen an SP who refuses to see white clients. However I am young and look even younger than I am, so if an SP says she won't see younger clients, I respect her barrier and I don't bother contacting her. I believe in an SP's right to choose who she sees. I also believe in an agency's right to choose which SPs they have representing them. I think if you're an SP with barriers, it's best to be up front about them and save everybody some time and grief. If a client shows up for service only to be sent away for something that could've easily been checked when he set up the appointment, I can understand why he would be frustrated. Whenever I contact an SP, I ask the questions I want answered, then I ask her if she has anything she wants to know about me. I figure this is a good gracious way to prompt her to ask about anything such as age or race if it's an issue for her.

my advice...if a lady wants to kiss you, let her...however dont grab the back of her head cuz if she sees someone walking by therefore can't pull away....go for the softer more subtle side of kissing....perhaps if theres no one else in the CR you both might be able to get away with some passionate snogs....however always let the lady be in control as tongue wrapping generally is frowned upon.....but it can happen if the surrounding scenario is right. I personally love kissing during dances *with the right person*.....but I am always aware of glaring eyes from the other ladies.....so I keep it VERY discreet and if I am held down to someone lips generally the dance ends there.

I think you should ask in your interview what the ladies limitations are before you hire them. This would save you the headache. I have no issues with race,religion,etc but I do with age..I won't see anyone under 25...that's my choice. These are just some of the issues you need to be aware of before hiring a lady. just my 2 cents

Exactly my point. Kissing, digits, and daty do not involve my interaction with semen, so the risk of catching an std from those three are minimal to none, there has never been a reported case of women catching HIV from DATY, ever. There are, however, reported cases of women, and photos if anyone cares to google, of women with std's from bbbj. This is proven medical fact. The disease is in the semen. No semen, no HIV. Very simple. My point was this, very simply, if you will put an unprotected member into one hole in your body, why is it any different in another? Your body is all connected, one unit. You mouth and your cookie aren't separate, the all belong to one organism, you. That's like saying, "oh ill inject heroin into my arm, but not into my foot." It's all connected, so I'm just trying to understand the reasoning/logic behind this thought process, of why one orifice is "safe" but another is not. I used to get mad about girls who did bbbj when i first started, I used to blame them when clients would call me, book an appointment, we're all set to go, and then they ask " oh btw, you do do bbbj right?" My response, as many can attest to, is always "as my health and safety, as well as the health and safety of my clients is my #1 priority, I do not engage in any unprotected services." and some would cancel on me. I do not hide that I'm a safe gfe, it's on my website in black and white. Some really respect me because of this. I had more than a few they tell me they're terrified of bringing something home, and I'm one of the few they can truly relax with, my business practices put their mind at ease. Some don't care either way. Others cancel on me. Why do I say all this? Because my perception has changed over the last my few years in my time in this industry. I realized getting mad at the ladies who do BBBJ is irrelevant, it will not change the fact that ladies will still offer it, and men will still ask for it. If you want to take risks like that, that your perogative. Just as I no longer get upset at the ladies who BBFS. There was at time when bbbj was taboo, someone told me they got in trouble working for an agency for a letting a guy cum on her chest. Now, fast forward 10 years, BBBJ is now the norm. In the U.S. SAFE GFE is norm, as well as Australia. Why did it change here? Because the ladies offer it, quite simply. If ladies didn't offer it, then no one could buy it. I remember one lady said "Back in the 90's, no guys had problem cumming with a condom on." Somewhere along the line, someone started offering, more guys asked for it, more ladies offered it. Us safe gfe's are few and far between, I am one of the last of a dying breed. So I wonder, why should BBFS be any different? Now, someone offers it, so now it's being purchased.I don't understand how can you get upset at guys for asking for BBFS when BBBJ's are the norm. It's just a natural progression. I think the logic is "if she does it unprotected in one orifice, she might let me in another." Dangerous logic, but logic none the less. For the sp, the risk factors for both are pretty high, you are the receiver of ejaculatory fluids, no matter which orrifice you get it in.The roads may be different, but they all lead to the same place. Being angry is pointless. I'm not knocking anyone's business practice, like i stated it's your body your choice. I honestly don't care what another lady does, its her life she can with it as she pleases. My point is, you can't get mad at guys asking for BBFS or ladies providing it anymore than us SAFE GFE's can get mad at ladies for providing BBBJ's. If we want to change guys asking for BBFS, the only way to do so is to stop the ladies that offer it, much like the only way to stop people from asking for bBBJ's is to stop offering them.Good luck with that. The ladies in countries like Cambodia do BBFS, so people ask for it and it's rampant. However, in countries like australia where SAFE GFE is the norm, unprotected services are frowned upon, and the ladies that do offer it (much like the ladies who offer BBFS here) are shunned. Whats the difference? The ladies in Cambodia are willing to do BBFS, the ladies in Australia are not. So really at the end of the day, what is asked of us by our client base is a direct reflection of what we are willing to offer. So we cannot get mad a them, the guys asking or the sp's that provide. We as sp's are the ones to blame.

CERB is a tough place to defend this, in the context of working as an escort, but outside of my work I do not like to be sexualised by strangers wherever I go. Even if you don't understand it I think it's pretty clear that women do not find random bum-related comments complimentary, so no man should expect to be thanked for a comment that he knows will not be appreciated. I will say thank you for compliments on my dress, but not my ass. That's just telling men that I like it when they objectify my. I understand it, because I view women sexually as well. But I don't thrust my sexuality at them while they are shopping for lettuce. I don't want to single out poor boomer, but I want to address the idea that women dressed in a sexy manner are fishing for these "compliments". It really opens a can of worms. Should every man she passes tell her what he thinks of her body? If it is okay to say your ass is spectacular is it also okay to say, "Wow, I would love to fuck you"? Where do we draw the line? How many men get to talk about her ass or tits in the grocery store before she's allowed to stop thanking them? If it is not acceptable for every man should say "great ass" who gets to be the exception? Should she wear jogging pants if she doesn't want men commenting on her body? (Btw, this doesn't work.) How sexy is sexy enough to warrant being objectified publicly by strangers? I am an escort, I am far from a prude, and I HATE getting these kinds of comments from men when I'm going about my day. Nuances make a huge difference, and there is a not-so-subtle nuance between smiling and making lewd comments about a woman's body. It is very easy to smile and say nothing, and that is always recommended. Women have said again and again, for decades (probably centuries) -- with near perfect unanimity -- that we do not like these comments. I think you can take us at our word that we're not fishing for them, no matter what we're wearing. I hope that didn't come across as too negative.

I swear, I spend more time on this site than anywhere else on the web!

Hey I have been thinking about expanding my horizons and visiting Montreal for a week or so in July and was wondering if anyone knew of any good upscale massage parlors I could check out....any feed back would be appreciated xoxoxxo Additional Comments: awwwwwwwww that may happen darlin...I have been doing alot of thinking about traveling and working in other cities...im open to any suggestions xo

Okay, I admit, I spend quite a bit of time on here, many would say too much, but sometimes if nothing else going on this is my first choice of place to see what is going on. Addicted, sure in some way....can I live without of it, of course, but why would I. There are many interesting people and a good chance to chat to some friends I have met. I am staying, addicted or not...lol

It frightens me too... I often wonder what such individuals are thinking, displaying such wanton disregard for themselves and others. I agree with you; If I was an SP, I'd much rather lose a client than lose my health!

I wonder why?... I feel that Taloon should be given a lot of credit for getting the ball rolling on the initial foray into organizing a meet and greet, as well as his dedication, enthusiasm and hard work in trying to make it happen. We'd love to have him, and I for one hope we see him there!

I love animals cats and dogs they are my friends, but I went to an incall one time and the smallest little puppy peed near my shoes at the door and I stepped in it before putting them on. I never told the lady but I was not impressed. This does not mean I do not want to see animals at your place Cindy, as long as I don't step on pee or poo we are just fine.

Are Taloon and Lana Lane attending as well?

That was very nice of you ... so I held the door for a little old lady :-)

I would just point out to anyone that if the sp puts a phone # in the ad, she has to expect that the guy did read the ad, and probably did view the site if there is one, but there is no reason to assume the guy is looking at the ad when he calls. Most of the people I deal with I would say pick a phone call only sp because they are not next to the computer/ad site when they do have a chance to call. They are often driving from point A to point B. I can't imagine they would be able to remember all the details of the ads like rates/services, etc, so am happy to provide them. I will ask what ad they saw because some ads have pics, some do not. If I know they know what I look like, age, etc, then I am ready to just focus on rates. There is no doubt in my mind that providing customer service on the phone call increases my calls and shows over someone who is abrupt on the phone, won't tell the caller anything, and/or tells them go look at the ad and hangs up on them lol. It is legal to discuss these things, I don't see any real need to be coy about what is offered or not, or any reason why a client should not be able to be given the info. I would rather he hear it from me than rely on his memory about what he thinks he saw in my ad, only to show up and he had really remembered the ad by someone who offers completely different kinds of things than I do. Communication is the key to successful sessions, imo. If that means I spend 30 seconds on the phone running thru rates/services so be it. I do cut calls short when it seems like the person wants everything repeated (three times) and/or specific details that go beyond the basic info.

Gabriella is definitely a lovely, voluptuous, witty, and funny lady that knows how to please. From the moment I knew she was coming to visit St. John's, I knew I had to see her. Her photos and ads are completely accurate, and her writing is very representative of her personality; artistic, erotic and yet very classy, infused throughout with sensuality and playfulness. I visited her in her incall location, which was a spotless, spacious and a very well-appointed suite. Once she had buzzed me up and I walked through the door, a warm smile and several long embraces and longing kisses greeted me. Yes, I was a little nervous at first, but nothing out of the ordinary, and although I lost that edge in the first moments in her company, I think she loved to tease me and spur me on. (I was quite o.k. with that.) The afternoon encounter was entirely unrushed and the ambience very serene, and Gabriella's manner and attention to detail was absolutely exemplary. She had taken the trouble to place tea lights all over the bedroom and in other places throughout, which added to the enchanting atmosphere. She showed me all the rooms and the facilities were second to none. We got comfortable on the sofa and chatted a little while, and in the meantime she brewed some tea for us to enjoy. She offered that I take a shower first, after which we took proceedings into the bedroom. This extended visit then began with me taking my time exploring all of Gabriella's charms, and while luxuriating in her exotic beauty with all my senses, I was turned on by her enthusiasm and her easy-going attitude, and our passions flared inexorably to a heightened ecstasy. After changing up things multiple times, and in the fog of lingering pleasures, I almost lost complete track of time. In the end we actually ended up pretty much on track, but it seemed to me to have been much longer. I prefer not to disclose the details of our encounter for discretion's sake, but suffice it to say that my expectations were not only met but exceeded. You don't know how close I was to booking her again on her last day for a 7:30 a.m. rendezvous before she was to leave again for Montreal. I am definitely planning on repeating with CERB's not-so-well-kept secret, if the opportunity presents itself. Thank-you so very much, Gabriella, for the lovely time in your exotic presence, your alluring charm, wit, and joie de vivre! FR

But on the flip side.....the sunnier it is early morns, for me, I tend to wake up even earlier, with and energetic pounce in my step! So if fliped side, then perhaps, it is easier to get out the door??...hehehe Or I can learn how to controll the weather?? LMAO...JK

Likely no. Linkedln is a social site (think Facebook) geared towards 'professional'. A great site for posting your resume, business networking and recommending co-workers etc.

Folks No amount of money, should make someone compromise their safety standards, especially for a perceived 'Competitive advantage' the reality is, partaking in very risky behaviour such as BBFS may eventually result in someone contracting an undesired infection or disease. That in itself will put the person out of business, thereby permanently negating any perceived advantage one may believe they have by providing the customer the 'extra service' It's your life, your body, the risks are very well documented in providing BBFS, especially to a total stranger, and a polite no and thank you will suffice. If not, who cares what that person thinks ??? You are protecting yourself, and that is all that matters....... we all want to live to the next day and enjoy a safe and protected hobby. My 2 cents......$US this time.... ;-) SNK

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I am not sure but it may also have a bit to do with location. If you are located downtown, you may attract the commuter crowd during the weekdays but may experience a different type of client on the weekend. Not only that but I would imagine the population downtown on the weekend is substantially less than during the week. Being a family guy, I do find it easier during the week rather than the weekend.

I agree with Porthos's caution. SPs are generally paid to provide a fantasy, and the best SPs are ones who can make a man feel instantly comfortable around her, so she's probably not the best indication of what a real first date or normal social exchange would be like. Also, I don't believe there's any magic key to understanding women other than listening to them. You should probably think about how you would want your ideal relationship to work. Then think about what kind of woman would be needed to be the other half of that type of relationship. Then listen to the women you meet and see if they match with what you're looking for, but be open to the idea that you actually be just as happy with something else.

I've had the privilege of visiting Juno beach a couple of summers ago. Wow, what an operation!!

One thing I would suggest, though, is that practice is always just that: practice. Make sure your paid companion knows what you are looking for. Otherwise you are in danger of her trying to fulfill your fantasy ... That your jokes, small talk, flirtations, are dead on the money, and she may therefore act like they are! RG's point, though, that SPs are real people is well taken. Some, you may find no trouble carrying on a sparkling conversation, whereas others you might find it difficult to find anything to talk about. In this respect, it could be very much like a real date. My advice, join a recreational sports league, a running club, an environmental group, take a general interest night class. Whatever it is that is of interest. Start going to Church. Get a dog and go to the dog park!! Even if you hone your skills with a SP, at some point you still need to meet women. And I shutter to even suggest it, but I actually do know several people that have found their life mate through online dating sites like e-harmony. Porthos

As an introvert I absolutely loved this article as to be honest I could totally relate to it and the situations it presented. I've always been more for smaller more intimate gatherings as I've never been one for small talk really but absolutely love getting into a deep conversation about a topic I'm passionate about. I do enjoy talking about my thoughts and feelings. And in those smaller gatherings it's just easier to to get into a deep meaningful conversation. And I can totally relate to needing time to myself to recharge after going to a large gathering. To be honest I value my time to myself as much as I value time with my family and friends. It's not that I don't enjoy spending time with them I just enjoy having that time to myself to reflect or just recharge my batteries. Alone time also gives me a chance to let the idiot out in me and do stuff like rock out to my music full blast or watch some really bad movies that I may not get to watch otherwise, lol.

This recommendation is a bit overdue. I had the pleasure of meeting Lexy during my last trip to Halifax. I texted her and she quickly replied. We set a time to meet later that evening. She greeted me at the door of her apartment wearing a sexy little black outfit. Lexy is a petite girl but with a nice curvy figure, and naturaly dark skin. She has a beautifull smile and sexy dark eyes. She invited me in and gave me a big hug. She offered me a Corona which I graciously acceped as It was a pretty hot day. Lexy is generous with her time. We sat and got aquainted for awhile before the time really started. This really impressed me. Time well spent to. This lady is much more than a pretty face. She is educated and intelligent and a great conversationalist. Having ties to Newfoundland made me feel even more at ease with her. Turns out we even have a common aquaintence! Well when our bottles were empty it was time to get busy. Lexy is a fantastic kisser. Full of passion with no holding back. I won't share every intimite detail here but I can tell you the hour required plenty of stamina. Lexys oral skills are awesome. Deepthroat is her specialty. Many posititions were enjoyed, and the hour flew by. We finished with a nice big facial which she seemed to enjoy as much as me..well almost.lol. Lexy is fun and friendly, openminded and sexy as all get out. I can honestly say There wasn't one uncomfortable second during the entire encounter. Treat her well guys. she is a true gem. We would be very fortunate to have her make regular visits to the island Cheers...Murdock

I offer BBBJ and in 15 years have never caught anything. I rinse with full strength listerine after every blow job and do not allow CIM. Perhaps I am taking a risk, but since BBBJ is at my discretion, if anything looks or smells funky down there, I don't chance it. Also, there are gents who prefer CBJ, and I always ask first which they prefer. I never assume all guys want BBBJ, because many don't. The one thing I do not permit is digits because you can contract low grade (fungal etc.) infections from dirty hands and not everyone washes their hands properly. I know one lady who insists her clients use latex gloves if they want to finger her and I understand her logic totally. No offense to any ladies who only offer CBJ or those any who have posted on this thread, but I have had my fair share of judgment being passed on me by other ladies because I do offer BBBJ and I think it's a bit hypocritical. I believe if you're going to call yourself totally safe, then you would also not allow kissing, digits or DATY without a dental dam and I do know ladies who only offer CBJ who do allow some or all of those things. I believe we need to respect each others limits with judgment or or criticism. Just as many cannot understand why I offer BBBJ, I have cannot fathom anyone offerring BBFS, but there are those who do and I do not believe they are comparable.

I have two nominations actually. The first one is Peachy who has been nominated already by Piano. My second nomination goes to Annika Reilly, an angelic beauty with the sweetest smile and the most beautiful body I have ever encountered - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92826 and here is what folks think about her - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34238&highlight=annika

My CERB Goddess Of The Day today is a lady I have yet to meet. She impresses me with her common sense posts, and positive contributions to CERB in general. Not to mention she is very beautiful and sexy. And that is a lady from down east, Lexy Grace Here is Lexy's Profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=29136 What some gentlemen have to say about Lexy http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=L&t=21511 A photo or two RG

I do believe it is always best to survey the situation around you BEFORE you poop ;) heh heh

Lots of people dress to impress and I think generally people like to be noticed. Now it is a whole other matter about someone coming up and making a comment, especially if it is directed to a single body part. In life, compliments are something that people find very satisfying and is often the greatest form of flattery. So, you would probably be okay saying, "I love your outfit", but not okay to say "great ass", even though you may be thinking the same thing. We don't get into too much trouble what goes on in our mind, but sure can when we open our mouths.

May I offer a suggestion regarding your decision making? Up there at the far right end of the CERB Menu bar - click on My Notes. I use that to keep track of info bits that eventually go into the final decision process. Good luck and happy .. well... whatever.

When I started escorting in 1995, outcalls were the norm. Just to add to what Samantha Evans already said, it's best to only go to private residences or hotels where you can verify your client. What I mean by that is that you do not accept appointments based on a cell phone only. You need them to provide a landline number to ensure they are really where they are. It's hard to imagine, but it does happen, where "Joe" from Winnipeg is visiting Ottawa and wants an outcall and calls you from his cell and wants you to meet him at his hotel at 10:00 pm. That's nice except, how do you really know "Joe" is in your city. Hotel: Tell the client you need his name, the hotel address and phone number and room number. Tell him that in order to confirm the booking, you need to call the hotel and and ask for that person and make sure he is really in that room. If he balks at this for "privacy reasons", assure him that you are only using this information to verify and that he is paying for discretion. If he tries to circumvent your booking procedure, then don't bother. If he can't honour your wishes before the appointment, then don't expect him to do so in the bedroom. If he says he'll be checking in later, tell him you cannot be on your way until he verifies he is in the room. It's also best to let the client know when you are on your way and to adhere to a timely schedule. The minimum requirement for an out-call in Ottawa is usually one hour. If he's booking for hours later, it's good to call, because I have called clients back to tell them I'm on my way and they don't answer. I never set foot out the door until I know they are in their room and expecting me. Also NEVER agree to meet a client in a public place, e.g. the lobby or a restaurant. If he wants to take you out, then insist that you must meet him at his hotel room (or home) in order to meet and take care of business so to speak so that you are doing this in private. Residences: This is tricky because many people these days only have a cell phone, but in order to have some measure of security, you should insist on them giving you their landline telephone number and have them call you from it. You can consult sites like canada.411 to verify their name and address. If they don't have a landline telephone, you risk being given a fake address. Which is why these days, I do very few outcalls to private residences. The only exception I make is if the client tells me he is within a 10 minute drive from me and then I will take the chance and most often (9 times out of 10 the booking is legit, but the first time you take a driver to call and the guy doesn't answer or the address is fake and you have to fork over $40 or more, believe me, you won't do it again). Whatever happens, don't allow yourself to be manipulated. No exceptions. When we start cutting corners is when safety is compromised. I may not know "everything" but I have learned over the years that when I have deviated from this, that's when I have had problems. It's not worth risking your time and safety by letting someone dictate to you how it's going to be because they can't meet your requirements.

There is a time and a place for paying those kind of compliments and costco is just not one of them. You did well to resist the urge. Smiles from strangers are appreciated by most women, I believe. But lewd remarks from strangers walking up to you out of nowhere are generally not popular. It is pretty objectifying. You probably wouldn't make a girl feel complimented, but rather dehumanised. Appreciate her quietly -- we all look and there's nothing wrong with that. But don't walk up to a woman and make any remarks about her body. How is she supposed to respond to a comment like that? She knows, and she's probably happy you enjoy how she looks. But she doesn't want to hear your opinion of her ass while she's going about her day.

I only use phone as a booking method since I find email a bit too anonymous. When someone calls me, I'm more than happy to give them info and whether we like or not, potential clients are consumers and are looking to find the most suitable SP for them. I don't really see it as tire kicking except when negotiations come into play which is a complete turn off. When someone calls me, I can tell amost immediately if I am going to enjoy their company or not. It's all in the tone of their voice, the questions they ask and how they respond to me. The best thing to do is be polite when you call. Many SPs may start a friendly dialogue with you and you can gain insight as to whether or not they're sincere. If they sound too business like and looking to get you off the phone right away, then that is a clue. If people are rude to me or want to start negotiating, I will end the phone call almost immediately. I know there is an awkward moment where you've received all necessary information and you feel as though you have to make a decision right then and then don't feel you have to be pressured into this. A good SP will not force you to make an immediate decision. When I take the time to talk to someone, the potential client remembers this and will see it as a good sign that the SP is friendly and nice and that it will be a good encounter if they met. Thank the SP and tell them you have some things to handle and you may call them back. SPs know people call around and inquire as one guy who called me was calling my friend the next minute and we happened to be together at her place.lol. The three of us laughed about it when he was speaking to her.

I have had three requests for this today. Well bareback anal, like its any difference. Maybe people think i'm new and gullible