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Carrie Moon is a nominne for the following category: Favourite service provider/escort/massage worker @ the The Naked Truth Adult Entertainment Awards 2012 click here to read about it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=94529 Click here to visit her profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=15702 Congrats to you sexy lady !!!!!!! A very well deserved nomination!!! :)

I've been sitting here, reading some of the thought provoking threads regarding ettiquete, whether it be from an initial email, pm, initial meet and greet or an encounter. And one thing continually strikes me. In this service regarding intimacy, why is it some dont recognise the mind body connection? From the very first it begins with nothing more than a thought. Who is she? What does she look like? Will I find a gratifying experience? The excitment in a reply, the nervousness that comes with an initial encounter. Us ladies are no different. Our (my) hope is to seduce, enchant, charm, tease, entice and please you, not only your body but your mind as well. It shows. In the surroundings, the preparation, from the scent I'm wearing to the lingerie I've chosen. All to engage your senses. Sight, smell, sound, and then comes in the ability to have a thought provoking conversation. Now touch, once again, only a thought to begin with, I want to touch (her/him) here, or there. Ect you get the drift...lol I see no rush to reduce the pleasure that can be brought in an encounter from not taking the time to think about what will bring more pleasure. Even "that feels so good", is the mind only enhancing that pleasure. I may not kiss you during an encounter, but it wont stop me from hovering my mouth a half inch from yours asking you only to think about how much you want to.... We often want most what we cant have! lol Our minds are the biggest sex organ in our body. Why not utilize it to its fullest potential? Just my two cents :)

Well sweety, all that has been said here.....is THAT there are more members with more REP that would like to attend the social. It has nothing to do with you, or being blackballed!! Simply though, as we know little of you. So why would the organizer of the event choose a member that we know nothing on...over a member that has put duo diligence on there time here on the site?? So, take it with a grain of salt....and carry on. Participate....bulid rep...and see you at the next social!!! Be in the spirit of CERB community:)

I'm only guessing but I'll bet it's a good guess to imagine that the ladies spend an almost equal amount of time communicating and setting up an appointment as they do with the actual appointment. Just how long does it take to exchange 4 or 5 emails? Check references. When I see a lady for the first time for 3 or 4 hours, I wouldn't be surprised to learn she had spent just as much time communicating, checking references, getting ready and getting there. When we account for no shows and cancellations and most gentleman wanting shorter appointments, I'd say she'd be lucky to have spent as much time off the clock, behind the scenes as she does in my presence. We need to keep this in mind. They give so much and ask for so little in return.

Congratulations, Gabriella! Thoroughly well deserved! And for the record, I'm not RG's wife either. :)

Well said Jade. I agree completely. It's also one of the reasons that I prefer longer appoints with ladies that interest me/intrigue me here on the board. Looks are important, but they are a starting point. I find many different looks and body types attractive. I don't understand short (half hour or 45 minute appointments) at all, and 15 minute appoints are just beyond my comprehension. Precisely, as you say, because the mind-body connection is lost. To be frank, I don't need or want to get off so badly that the lady becomes an anonymous means to an end. Porthos

Congrats to Gabriella as well. This husband/wife thing is going to be one of those persistent belief like James Garner and Mariette Hartley in those 70s Kodak commercials, right? Where you have such chemistry that everyone just naturally believes you really are married? And you have to start wearing T-shirts that read "I'm not really Gabriella's husband" and "I'm not really Roaminguy's wife"?? :) (Also, I just *totally* dated myself. Ah, Kodak. It was fun while it lasted.)

This is a rather offensive comment. The organizing for this has been going on for months so there's been plenty of time to comment. Taloon finally quit as organizer after a lot of hard work because some people questioned his commitment as a relatively new and inexperienced member. It took MN2 to pick up the pieces and organize what I expect will be a great first event for Halifax. You must remember that this is not CERB sponsored, but a private affair held in a public venue. At this point it is at capacity and not accepting new participants. I believe that after all the hard work MN2 has every right to put some reasonable rules around it so as to have a discrete and successful event (he has had the benefits of seeing the way the Ottawa ones evolved). It's really important if you want to have more of them in the future that it's a success. Those new guys commenting here will have a chance in the future.

I've debated starting this thread for months. Firstly when I left cerb last September, and more recently when I rejoined. I've heard some very, very outlandish rumours about why I left cerb, and retired from escorting last September. Which is why I chose to put this thread in the 'escort discussion' area. I've heard these rumours from people who heard them from people I've never met. And people who definitely should not be sharing my personal information. Especially personal information that isn't even true. So, I've finally decided to make it public. Here's the big reason I retired from escorting last year: I lost a friend. And two months later I lost another. And a few months after that, I lost another. Escorting is a business that requires a very, very large part of your emotions to be there. Massage does as well, but not to the same level. And I haven't been able to provide the connection escorting has required for quite a few months now. I did not retire because I was robbed. I was NOT robbed by a client or anyone to do with the business. I did get robbed, and shared that information with some SPs in private, and it is very sad that this information was not kept in private because it had nothing to do with work. I did not retire because my business was lacking, or because I couldn't afford a work apartment. I left because I wanted, when I went home at the end of the day, to be able to focus on my friends, and my life. Nothing scandalous. And it makes me very sad that I've continued to hear gossip and rumours about me and my life in the months since I made the change. We all share parts of ourselves with each other on a daily basis, both on this site, and in the work that we do. But here's a note to people to think that they have the right to pry, and butt in to the personal business of people who just want to be left alone: it hurts, it creates lies, and you're not helping anyone. I've grown tired of people telling me why they heard I've left, and I'm saddened that people think my life is something to be gossiped about. We all can get very personal in our discussions on this site, and in our sessions: but here's a tip that should be taken to heart by everyone: if it was told to you in private, that makes it private. Don't spread rumours about people, and don't break confidences. You're better than that. Everyone is. I am not posting this for anyone to offer condolences on the loss of my friends. I'm not posting this for people to offer sympathy or anger in any way, or to post stories about rumours they've heard. I simply decided that, after so many months of STILL being asked why I left, and still hearing rumours about my reasons, that I would share this. That's all. Thanks.

Congratulations Gabriella on achieving the 100,000 rep point mark Very well done Dear, and well deserved Your loving husband RG PS...we really aren't married everyone, but her rep point marks are real and deserved

Different ladies have different booking preferences. In my line of work nearly all of my dealings with people are through e-mail. I rarely use the phone. so I'm much more comfortable making contact that way. I don't think i've ever booked a lady where initial contact was by phone. But again, like some of the other men who've commented, I usually book well in advance. A phone call for an appointment three months in the future probably won't work. I certainly see that for same day bookings phone would be the way to go. My schedule is frequently complicated, so spur of the moment appointments are difficult/impossible. Generally a week away is a pretty immediate booking for me. Porthos

Maybe it's a little like Walkabout Creek in the movie Crocodile Dundee were you live: Sue Charlton: People go to a psychiatrist to talk about their problems. She just needed to unload them. You know, bring them out in the open. Michael J. "Crocodile" Dundee: Hasn't she got any mates? Sue Charlton: You're right. I guess we could all use more mates. I suppose you don't have any shrinks at Walkabout Creek. Michael J. "Crocodile" Dundee: No back there if you got a problem you tell Wally. And he tells everyone in town, brings it out in the open, no more problem.

Congratulations Gabriella! Very well deserved! Your contributions are part of what make this board so fun to be a part of, and your ads are phenomenal!

Well said Sophia. I don't think that there is anything personal about the way this was decided, and I don't think any hard feelings were intended by anyone involved. We are simply talking about an informal get together among friends, (virtual or otherwise) in a venue with very limited capacity. We are also talking about people who need discretion, so there is a need for certainty that all those who are attending are people that are trusted and proven members of the community. Trust is built over time. We are dealing with an aspect of our lives where unfortunately, we often have to assume the worst in people until proven otherwise. It sucks but it's necessary. If there were no method of screening at all in place, few would likely want to attend. Be patient. Be active in the community. There will be other events. ;-)

I will help you out because it's plain as day. I responded to Desbarres that I replied to him and had answered his question and it was not my responsibility to check his rep or anything in regards to the Social, the second time I simply quoted and posted the link for Katrine Cannon and for anyone else who wanted the proper new thread for themselves to read. I see no problem with that, the information is there for whomever wants to read it.. Originally I received a PM out of the blue from Desbarres and was asked if something was still going on. I responded and inserted the proper thread link. I was simply responding to a PM and here to let him know that I replied to him. I'm not sure why I was contacted but knew where to direct him, so I did just that. The post stating that the Social is Full was June 8th. I responded to Desbarres June 7th and to this thread again with just the link June 9th for those who were looking for info here as the Social was full and quite capable of going to the proper thread and reading on their own the information from the organizers. If someone asks for information and if I can help I will point them in the correct direction, which was the link to the proper thread with the info. I will and did. johnsutterjr I have no clue why you brought me in to this as the timeline is very clear and all the information/link that I supplied was as I received and read it. Everyone is entitled to an opinion but to single me out for trying to be helpful and just posting/sending a link for anyone to go and read for themselves and answering a question to the best of my knowledge and ability at the time on June 7th. All I can say is WOW!! Bringing money up is totally inappropriate and uncalled for but I can tell you something that's very honest and to the point, for every new plasticy $100 and $50 dollar bills you have saved up, there are plenty of gentlemen that just have it or have also saved up too. Your cash flow is so irrelevant and has nothing to with what is being discussed in this thread and is of no concern of mine. I did find how you slipped that in insulting and disrespectful. The Social has nothing to do with the money you may have to flash around and last I checked you were not attending. I don't even see the point in bringing up money in this discussion, when the Social has nothing to do with that or what you may have in your wallet. That is my opinion that I am entitled to it. The main reason and to my understanding is that all attendees want to feel comfortable, safety and discretion is a priority for all and just not the gentlemen. The people attending contribute and take pride in maintaining everyone's safety, privacy and discretion and have formed and earned a certain level of trust and respect amongst each other. This is my interpretation and in my own words, so please don't get those twisted. It's a very sad day when being helpful by answering a question and sending/posting a link gets scrutinized and insulting comments regarding money gets thrown out there. I will take this opportunity to ask you johnsutterjr politely to leave me out of any further posts/discussion you add/make to this thread. My point was made, clarified by the timeline of event and is crystal clear. Thank you Have a lovely day johnsutterjr and I hope tomorrow is even better, Lexy

Wow, there seems to have been a lot of drama around this social. It's impossible to have any kind of social (family, work, personal) and not have any drama I suppose, we're all human. I just hope it's all set aside and forgotten about and those who do attend make it a great evening. Go, have fun, have lots of laughs.

Time to acknowledge some dancers, I think, to add to this wonderful list of cerb goddesses. I'd like to nominate Ariel3 as my goddess of the day. She hasn't posted any pictures yet, unfortunately, but she has garnered lots of enthusiastic praise in the Barb's thread, and in her own threads at Barb's and Barefax. Not to forget her memorable duos with Scarlett and Jenny, :) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=56271 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=72599 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=60300 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=90687 And then there's this one: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=56241

Before any encounter, especially the first one, I try to establish a rapport and, by revealing some of myself, a basis for granting that initial trust which I believe is important for you to accept me as a client. Some ladies may find that offputting -- most of you likekly get far more pm's, emails and phone calls than you have time for -- but the service you provide is an intimate one, and intimacy requires trust. I can give you a recommendation from another SP, and that might put your mind at ease. But it doesn't help establish a connection between us. Now, there are those in this business who want nothing to do with intimacy -- providers and clients. Fine for them I guess. But not for me. And judging by your post, not for you either. Hopefully we can meet someday!

Not all risks are equal, to be sure! As the mother of a teenage son, I worry about the uninformed risks teenagers take far too often. HIV transmission through oral sex is extremely rare to virtually unlikely, but gonorrhea is very easy to catch. I heard on the CBC's Sunday morning program last weekend that the risk of gonorrhea transmission is 1:2. That's one chance in every two encounters. This is higher than the risk of cold and flu viruses from casual contact. Everyone is very worried about HIV/AIDS, and for good reason. I'm just as concerned about other STIs that are often undetected and therefore untreated for a long time.

Having spent most of my adult life in smaller towns, and mostly my hometown I get a kick out of some of the things that roll of the rumormill. I have a good friend who goes to the coffee shop daily so he keeps me up to speed on the talk of the town and particularly what I am doing and who I am doing ;) If they only knew what I was doing and how much fun I am having these days :eek:

And suddenly... this is inevitable :)

Congrats Gabby on 100,000 ! Well done and very deserving ! To Celebrate I bought you a one carrot ring :) and 99,999 extra carrots ;)

Email auto-replies are really good for this. If any email sent to you gets an auto-response saying that you won't be replying until next Tuesday, it saves people wondering what's up; it also means that anyone looking for a meeting in the near future can simply either move on or adjust their expectations accordingly. Glad things are back on track! FWIW I don't think resending after a few days is at all unreasonable...

Before I contact the ladies, I always scan past posts/schedules/ads for any information which may answer my questions. I do tend to follow-up, after on average 3 days. When I do, I make sure to be polite and diplomatic. I'm fully aware that they get a lot of messages, texts, and PMs; they also have other stuff to do, no problem with that at all. So, I really appreciate when the ladies offer an option to book in advance. This allows us to get know each other, talk about a potential encounter, with enough time in advance to compensate for the delays in answering.

Well here I was thinking this would be a thread on Fleetwood Mac :p I try and ignore rumours to the best of my ability in my personal life but I will admit an addiction to tmz. Posted via Mobile Device

"hotness" has nothing at all to do with age :)

Well I broke down and emailed her again this morning. She got back to me in short order and said that she just took a few days away from the computer. I guess next time I'll try to have a bit more patience! :p I'm glad to say that things seem to be coming along nicely!! I don't think I scared her off.

Ah, anticipation. 'Tis a wonderful thing. But who am I anticipating meeting right now? Well, truth be told... no one, because I have no plans at present. I was anticipating meeting someone yesterday, even though (especially because?) I'd met her before... but I have now, and so I'm not any more. And so now the process begins again. Who would I like to see next? A MA, or would FS hit the spot this time? Or maybe an evening in the kid-in-a-candy-store environment of a SC, picking and choosing whatever delights take my fancy at the time? Should I meet someone new, or reconnect with someone I've seen before? The anticipation is always there; it's always different, depending on which whims I choose to satisfy this time around, but it's always sweet... But for now... just the anticipation of the choice is fun. I could choose anything... and having chosen, that bubble bursts, to be replaced by the anticipation of the delights to come. Whether it be the pleasure of seeing a friend again and the happy memories of our last meeting, or the pure anticipation of finally putting a face to a name that I already know. I still don't know what to do. But I know I'm going to enjoy it.

Well there are magazines which we might be cover material for LOL Seriously, Phaedrus is right, we aren't the cover of Gentleman's Quarterly But we are gentlemen and treat the ladies with respect. That's what's important. The ladies are professional paid companions, and we their clients. As long as that is remembered, and that this isn't a dating site, you'll do fine RG

Well, there are many ladies I hope to see over the next year. The lovely Sophia V is definitely at the top of the list. Other ladies I'm looking forward to meeting, in no particular order: Lonna Lux ... I saw her a few years ago. A wonderful lady. I totally agree with you RG; Megforfun; Peachy (definitely want to help her try out some of her new "themes") Amelia Middleton .. Would love to find myself in the State of Amelia Kaelyn Kroft .... So pretty Ms. Emily Marie ... Gorgeous body, and thankfully my travel plans for the next year have me going to Victoria Julie Wilde .... Incredible lady that I want to get to know Keissy Heneissy ... Missed her in St. john's. And new to CERB, IndianNevaeh ... Incredible body. My real problem is that Everytime I log onto Cerb, there are new ladies that fill me with anticipation. Porthos

Two very very fine courtesans that I would love to have the pleasure to meat - pun intended - are the sexy Gabriella Laurence and the sexy Sophia Varouska. You are both so damn Hottttt !

Well filling in for the vacant Old Dog this afternoon and putting on the Grande Pubba hat of the FB BBM lodge for a second..... I would like to offer up the Lodge facilities free for you to comsomme your marriage Being that it is in December you can use our island resort ! I will rent a coleman stove so you lovebirds can cook your soup ;) I guess I will need to vote Andy and Phaedrus off the island first ...... Oh ya back to the topic at hand..... Anticipation and yearning to meet ! Katherine .... my dear friend from afar ... when we finally meet it may not be a hug but a tackle ;) clothes flying and stuff like that hahaha Malika ..... my Frenchie suicide girl next door Friend from not quite as far ... she may tie me up but I don't care .... how can you not luv Malika :) Meg Meg Meg.... my sexy friend from Orleans....with any luck she may wrap those HOT legs around me and not let go.... please do ! Angela....she makes fun of me lots but I still luv her ... a great lady....a classic rocker chick with sweet sixteen titties and if I talk nicely maybe she will let me peep at them. :boobeyes: SOON Sara .... she is just plain awesome.... I anticipate much fun, many laughs, and moans and stuff ... and I will definately be increasing my disability and perhaps life insurance before we meet. Gabriella .... my sexy Quebecois friend.... Deep French Kiss you say....OK .. lol Great lady, sharp as a tack, fun, funny, hot and freakin frisky ! My cup of tea ;) Amelia M. ... she luvs me ! She just doesn't know that yet .... soooo Yellowknife is too long distance so I think she is moving to Brandon (she doesn't know that either)... we will get married and raise Ptarmigans together. Personality, wit and sense of humor that amazes me .... Yummy bummy too mmmm hmmmm Cleo.... she rocks.... Wonderful gal, rockin personality and dead shexy ! For me an example of how you become drawn to someone...and when she took a break I missed her. Sooo therefore I must meet her. Well thats a start ! It appears I will need to free up MORE time for the fun and happy times in life :D

I've made contact with an SP for the first time. Waiting for her to get back to me to finalize out date! Very excited and very nervous!!

I respectfully dissent from the majority position. However despicable the alleged actions are, we are talking about minors. And they are not bordeline adults aged 17, but 15 year old. Minors are not considered adults in Canadian society, for good reasons. For example, they cannot vote because they are generally considered not to have attained the required intellectual maturity. If their alleged actions are proven in a court of law, they deserve to be punished. But they also deserve an opportunity to rehabilitate, and juvenile courts and detention centres will provide a better opportunity to do that. The victims and society would likely not be well served by their being judged and sentenced as adults. For one thing, it would have no deterrence impact on other immature kids tempted to act in a similar fashion as, again, they would likely not have the cognitive capacity to integrate such facts in their choice of action. Best, toine

I don't think there has been a case involving threats like this one, but definitely there have been charges against a 14 year old a year or so ago out in Chilliwack, BC. She was doing ads for herself, then started also booking appts for her equally young friend. Charged her with living off the avails I think. I was surprised they actually charged someone that young tho. http://www.chilliwacktimes.com/news/Shocked+that+teen+girl+charged/3871151/story.html The detractors are always 'shocked' that there isn't some male adult behind this kind of thing. I find it a bit offensive that they assume no teen girl is capable of doing this on their own volition. A lot of teen girls want/need money for a lot of things.

Wow, you just don't want to let this go, do you? Since you've never attended a social before, perhaps as someone who has organized 6 of them in Ottawa I can enlighten you a bit as to our experience which the Halifax folks haven wisely taken into consideration. We had new members or those who never posted (and apparently had never seen anyone on cerb) show up at our socials to simply lurk and that kept others who were more active on the board and the community away. A lot of work goes into organizing these events and if it's not attended by members who are actually "hobbiests" and "sps", then there is no incentive for these members to take time out of their busy schedules to meet with people who simply want to gawk or cash in on free drinks (yes we had ladies posing as SPs who did this also). I am not in any way implying that all new members or even older members with no posts are necessarily lurkers only, but seeing how there is limited room, of course more seasoned members should be allowed first dibs. I don't see any reason for posting what you did except to try and stir the pot which is totally unnecessary and not in the spirit of the board. As Boomer reminds us, this is not a CERB-sponsored party. It is organized by cerb members for other cerb members at the discretion of the organizers. Simply having a cerb handle does not equal entitlement.

I got my bathing suits out and I checked them twice, waiting on the weather to see if i'll be naughty or nice.

I would like to nominate Tgirl Nikki as my CERB goddess of the day. The Executive Director of Sex Professionals of Canada (SPOC), and advocate for the decriminalization of prostitution via Bedford. v. Canada, I admire her beauty, poise, and obviously, her politics!

Ummm.... I do believe that as a true hockey fan MrNice....and you being the current General Manager of the team.... you would at least hold off....be firm and trade me for at least TWO of those beautiful ladies you mentioned !! Let's hope you aren't suffering from :boobeyes: Boobeyes :boobies: at the trade deadline big guy ;) Oh well if I show up that day and you don't have room for me....I will just go to the beach.... sunburn really badly and roll in on a trolly at the party as a Manitoba Lobster :D heh heh Dip me in hot butter I don't care lol I would be on holidays ! Woo Hoo !

I have to tell you all. Ive read and reread this thread many times. Absorbing everyones input, thoughts and equally valued opinions. Each of which I am truly grateful for. As each one is thought provoking, in a very positive way. Sophia reminded me what a great service we provide. It is a really good feeling to see the smile on someones face when he feels hes been cherished if only for a short time, our hope is that the smile remains long after. Carrie reminded me that people that love me, respect me, will also love me enough to respect my choices even when they dont agree with them. Wrinkledintime reminded me that one our greatest gifts is an open mind. Backrubman reminded me to believe in myself and why I do what I do. Piano reminded me that no matter what service industry your in? You are almost always going to have to listen to someone complain. And truth be told...I'd much rather it be a friend...than a client! lol DukeSSk thank you for your promise to show each lady your respect. We may be an SP but we still have emotions. Respect goes a long way. Gentleman11 reminded me that each day I will learn something new, about someone or something. Erotilix thank you for valuing and recognising our side. Loopie...you made me LOL literally! thank you for reminding me that some people are just assholes, I'm not going to change them! .still chuckle when I read it :icon_lol: Mrnice2 Thank you for reminding me to remain true to myself and to be grateful for an incredible gift. Your insight is...incredible. Samantha thank you for reminding me for reminding me that whatever fears, judgements she has, are truly about herself and not me. Nicholette thank you for the reminder that it is what I think of me, ultimately, that matters. MrGreen thank you for reminding me to let go. I wouldnt normally thank each person personally, but I wanted each of you to know that with your thoughts, your voice, it impacts. Even the smallest word of encouragement and support goes incredibly far. More than the gifts of something I've gained from each of you, you've also given me a glimpse of each of your personalities Each unique. Which is truly what this thread is about. Individuality and choices, respecting each one, having an open mind and being willing to learn from someone else. So thank you for taking the time to encourage, support, teach and share a bit of yourselves as well. CERB and its members are truly remarkable Sincerly, Jade xoxo

If we're going to start asking questions like that, this thread clearly requires a contribution from Philosoraptor.

If you're doing incalls.. Daytime hrs of availability are a necessity.. but I would suggest you put yourself way more centrally located than Kanata.. Could you try Britannia area? I used to do very well in Pinecrest/Carling area. Good luck with where-ever you end up.

And how has this discussion gotten this far without mentioning SaraMQ? Famous in her own right and occasional partner-in-crime with Malika. If I were dying this afternoon and needed one last shot before I went, Sara would get a call. :)