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Do people go asking how prevailant STD/STI's are in the conventional dating world? Or for married couples where one partner may be involved in an affair. Or for those who go to a bar for a one night stand Seeing escorts (sex for money) is not the cause of STD/STI's...sex, with no matter whom you see, puts a person at risk for STD/STI's Sorry, but there seems to be, even on this board, some who are focused on this lifestyle as a cause of STD/STI when all it is is sex for money. But people can have sex with multiple partners by dating, having affairs, one night stands etc...why not the same focus on them And why just focus on if the ladies in this community having STD/STI's, guess what, it takes two to tango...why not the same focus on the gentlemen in this community RG

This is actually true. If you google it there have been studies to compare sex workers and the general population, and the % rate is slightly lower in sex workers. Anyone half interested in this should be doing some research themselves, get tested then wait the standard month or two and get tested again. THEN go see sps if the desire is still there. I still find it very annoying if someone wants to do this, is paranoid about what they might catch, but doesn't check to find out if they have something that they might be spreading around

A recommendation can be done on a lady even if she is not a member and I'm sure you have her name but are short on posts, keep on contributing and start a recommendation thread for this lady you "totally recommend". Best advice I can give and I hope you told her about CERB!! Lexy

I had the pleasure meeting this very elegant,intelligent,gorgeous, young lady while she was here in Ottawa this week. I can say, there was a lot of foreplay,sweat,sex,oral and one very real, wild and sexy time! I thoroughly enjoyed taking my time exploring every inch of her body and pleasuring her to the fullest. Skylar is totally gorgeous, what amazing breasts, beautiful shaped bum and her beautiful smile, she is attractive,it was a wild ride and a time to remember for me. Thanks Skylar see you again ;)

Well it had to happen, chunks of my thick head of hair were falling out due to the chemo, (wish the fat on my tummy would do the same), so did the deed. Went down to the wood (versus going down on the wood!) with a #2 buzz cut. I've never felt the rush of the wind on my scalp before, a bit like having sex outside, pulling out, taking the condom off and having a cold breeze hit you!! Looks weird, feels weird, but at least I am still here to complain!! Hope all are having a great day. Hugs and kisses and lots of licks to all. tL

I simply cannot wait until tonight's special eviction - absolutely no idea what is going to happen (and that is a good thing!). Dan's game is undeniably superb. Everyone is watching his back and he's watching none of theirs. Have any of the other house guests even thought for one moment what kind of shot they have against him in the final two? Sure, he's already won the game in the past, but how could any jury member deny that he hasn't earned it again? Joe was the only one who had any suspicions of Dan, or at least didn't put his trust in him, and he got sent packing before any damage was done. I still laugh my head off each time they show Joe talking to Dan thinking he was Shane. Hilarious. I feel so sorry for Ian. In Dan he thinks he has probably the greatest and coolest friendship he's ever had in his whole life, and it is all a sham! Each time he and Dan do that Renegade's salute, I cringe for him. I have a sneaking suspicion that Shane is going to win this season. He's been very low key lately having done his work early and then floated along quietly after Britney was evicted. Anybody know why they haven't showed clips of the jury members entering the sequester house? My guess is there is wayyyy too much game action happening to put any kind of fluff into a program.

being told how big I am .... I know exactly what size my cock is ... and it's distinctly average! fake moans .... when you just touch someone and they're instantly moaning like they are about to have a double orgasm on the spot. I'd like to think I'm good ... but not that good. And the acting isn't that good either! Porthos

I think the OP had a perfectly valid question. He didn't focus just on the ladies - with a little careful reading, one will notice he included hobbyists in the equation too. I think Backrubman did justice to the OP's question. Well done!

I'm really very fortunate to have made a number of good friends through CERB, and I think I'm not unique. I know of a number of situations where client and provider have unselfishly helped one another under difficult situations. I'm a bit anxious today as I'm going in for eye surgery tomorrow, and had been told that I wouldn't be allowed to leave unless I had someone there to see that I got home safely. This is a bit difficult as I'm a widower and live alone, my kids have long since left the nest. When I mentioned it to one of the service providers here, she graciously agreed to accompany me. As luck would have it I've been able to find someone a little closer to home, but none the less it shows that this lady has a big heart. I think we should award a gold star now and then for good deeds. So, I'd like to give Angela of Ottawa a gold star for being there for me.

I had a fantastic time :) Great conversation, found out a lot of similar information about surrounding areas and people haha and it made for a great relaxation session. Truly had a splendid time :) Perfect Gentlemen , and do hope I get to see you again! xoxoxoxo Aubrey

people that do not respect my privacy. Yes I do have profile on other social medias website. Do not go and comment on all of my pictures calling me Malika. My personal life. fuck off.

Imagine a hot blonde that you might be lucky to see on a particularly good night at a bar, sipping a martini and sending out unmistakeable sexual vibes. The one you want to take home with you, and strip out of her tight black dress, and devour? That was the fantasy that hit me as I first laid eyes on Skylar. A striking blonde with a fit, athletic body, in a short black dress that accentuated her firm round bum and perfect breasts. The dress didn't stay on long; that body had to be seen and worshipped. The full breasts, the defined abs, the lovely long legs, and that bum, so inviting. Intense. Kissing, fondling, licking, and then consummating in a feverish passion, her beautifully-muscled body bathed in sweat from her exertions and her pleasures, and mine fired with desire for this beauty and what she did for me. So intense that we broke the bed! That was a first for me. This meeting had had a long run-up, ever since Skylar first came on the board. We began corresponding, and I was very excited at the thought of finally meeting her. The experience was more than I had hoped for. I want more!! Skylar, please come back often, and stay long.

I have to admit that I'm not far in the book yet. I'm only about 70 pages in and haven't had an opportunity to read in a few days (because of grad school). I have a couple of minutes before I head off to class and wanted to take this opportunity to write a little something... I agree Peachy, these jobs are often thankless. I have a feeling people like Jules would be 'better' fathers if they had more institutional support. Addiction is a mental illness, and harm reduction is a frameowrk that isn't accessible very much around Canada. For example, Vancouver is the only city with a safe-injection site (InSite). Baby would also be better served if there was more funding for the services she's accessed so far throughout the book. I have a lot of friends that are social workers (and I've thought of becoming one myself) and it's a seriously underpaid and overworked type of employment. It's emotionally draining and incredibly difficult on the spirit. Bob, I agree with you as well. Her environment is decresing her chances of a 'good' future. But sometimes I struggle with that too. How are we defining 'good', how are we defining 'bad'? Also, I honestly think this comment and Peachy's go hand in hand... if Jules had more institutional support it would be easier for both of them. It's suggested on and off throughout the book so far that he's been to rehab, and has his own social worker... also, he was incredibly young when he had Baby. It really sucks there was no one there to help him out and teach him how to be a 'good' dad (however we decide to define that). She's really mature for her age, that's for sure. I was really shocked in the moment where her 'friend' talks to her about how they've made money, and how smallBaby seems in that moment. She's mature, but still very 'innocent' and about to be introduced to a very different life, I think (again, I'm only on page 70). Alright. I'm off to class now... those are some of my thoughts for now.

Must be something wrong with me... lol and I'm probably in the minority here but I have never done this. It's usually people I know. Doesn't stop me from thinking celebrities are hot but as a woman, I've never taken it to that level. I once sat across from Ben Affleck in first class on a 4 hour flight but still none of those thoughts. Must of been because he was with Jennifer Garner! lol.

I predict this thread is going to become another bit of the endless rehash of covered vs. bare services.

I just look at the pictures :) And what Porthos said who has the time... Peace MG

I can barely keep up with posts in the regular sections of the board ... I'm afraid that while I'm a member of several social groups, right now I rarely have the time to visit them. People have to judge where to put their time and energies. Porthos

How can you not focus on that lifestyle? I mean I'm not trying to insult anyone but there is a question of how often do you put yourself at risk and lets face it, an SP puts herself at risk every time she sees a client. Do people not realize that there are a few STD's that a condom won't keep you safe from? All it takes is a little skin on skin contact and you could get herpes. I'm just trying to ask a simple question, are they prevalent in this community enough for there to be a real worry or are they a lot more uncommon.

found myself with extra time when visiting wpg yesterday and decided to treat myself checked some ads on e/c and made a call- a short time later i,m at her hotel and First comments after I drop her donation of 3 browns----why you not bring me a gift "baby" everyone brings me a gift ! I need something extra ! should have left then but continued on and after we were unclothed and starting to get to know each other she informs me that her kitty is rather tender and would i mind russian only, when i tried to discuss that she should maybe have not taken the appt she got angry stated that she needed the money and that she was providing a service and that i,d get off anyways -there was no way this was going to get resolved so i simply left- sans any refund-this from an advertised supposably high class travelling girl -should have done some research or stayed away from anyone new ! learned my lesson

Snowman....if the feeling is mutual, and SHE wants it and broached the topic (very important) then why the hell not. There are Blue Moon's on occasions. Don't go looking for it as it appears you understand....but if things happen and happiness is staring you in the face, you can be at peace with how this type of a relationship works.......then be happy. Together ! I would and maybe I will when my life becomes 100 times less crazy and hectic. Over time and some trials and tribulations I have learned to embrace the unexpected and rare opportunities that can pop up out of nowhere and change your life for the better. Don' be a bull FYI.... I have experience with them on the farm and they don't play nice ... expecially a horny bull ;) I had to run like a bull fighter several times !!! Seriously .... do I look like a cow?? haha Clearly by the posts here on this thread and others there are many opinions as to how hobbyists and ladies as well see and approach this profession/hobby. A business deal or transaction with a happy ending, a fantasy, an enjoyable and happy lifestyle, or just companionship and sometimes friendships. Everyone must remember that when you post on threads like this....it is entirely just your opinion or experience. Okay have a great day peeps.... I am horny and off to find a cow ;) damn all I can see is sheep :( I am allergic to cotton I think......

Geez after Meg's post I forgot there is just something about Ann Margaret RG

What exactly are you asking? Or are you testing out your question marks?

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Jealousy and contempt with those you know is such an ugly thing. I often wish some people would get a life and stop nosing around in another person's business. They are not a hobbyist and heaven forbid, they could never be an SP!

Big Penis Slut .... opps ... first thing that came to mind ... lol ... but don't quote me ;-)

I love the CFL, but I love the NFL as well. As you say, good football is good football! The CFL and maybe the NFL this year as well appears to have parity, and as the say, on any given Sunday one never knows who will come out on top. I am a serious Alouettes fan and if we look West, sorry Emily, but you can't help but go for Saskatchewan, the team with the best fans in the league. Now when Atlantic Canada gets its team, and surely that has to happen, I will be a season ticket holder. Hey, maybe Emily would go to a game with me. She is an Atlantic Canadian now. :) For the time being, Go Als Go.

When I grew up, they told me I could be anything....so I became a rope-obsess girl, tattoos junkie, sensations lover,traveller addict and boobies manic. And I have absolutely no regrets.

Considering the number of his posts (3) and his joined date, he could be on a pretty steep learning curve; so we should and could excuse him? ;-)

It seems bragadocious to talk about obtaining the real names of SP's. I have 3 real names you have 2. What's the point?

Stoya's been on my list lately.

Maybe brave to confess, but discovering the lady's real name. Really, if she wanted you to know her real name she would have told you. If she didn't want you to know, you should have respected her and her privacy. I'm sure guys would be upset if a lady breached their privacy. When a guy sees a lady in this lifestyle, he is allowed to see what she is comfortable letting him see. It doesn't entitle him into all areas of her life, nor to snoop into it. What was done a major breach. I really don't know what was hoped to be gained by knowing her real name. That to me is a major breech, not just of privacy, but of trust RG

I haven't masturbated to, but I have fantasized about sexing up Colin Farrell, I think he is so sexy. I also love James Gandolfini- the sopranno's boss, John Travolta-as his character in get shorty,and Jason Statham.

How do you manage...simple, you have to keep your emotional head on straight. Don't confuse the sexual intimacy found in an encounter with love. This lifestyle is about no strings attached companionship. Yes there are ladies I've come to like and consider friends (with benefits :-) ) But at no time do I kid myself that it is love, nor am I looking for that one special woman. Likely, any feelings you have are one way. Enjoy this lifestyle for what it is, but don't go reading more into it than there is. It is poly amorous by nature. And for the ladies, it is their livelihood. It is their profession, one which requires a very special gift dealing intimately with men. But they have their emotional head on straight. If they didn't, they'd run the risk of emotional involvement with their clients. Enjoy this lifestyle for what it is. Don't read more into it though or you are setting yourself up to be hurt My two cents RG

For me, it's mostly attitude, manners, hygiene and respect that determine YMMV rather than physical attributes or someone trying to tip me to do something I'm not comfortable with.

"Try and stay hard for me hunny", as she answered her cell and started a conversation.

I use to feel insecure about my size. I never considered myself a "BBW" and I dont know if I ever will be considering myself that in my head. I just consider myself normal, I eat healthy and live a healthy lifestyle; I just happen not to be a size 2. I don't plan on ever starving myself just to be skinny as that wouldn't be "me". I come from a family of "bigger" people and Im the smallest of them; Im happy with myself being a "normal" size, my normal size. I know I felt 100% happy with myself when I was in my photoshoot with my agent and my photographer, I have never felt as pretty or gorgeous as I did that day, the smile on my face proved I was having a great time and enjoying the pics that came. That was a first because I never liked taking my picture before. It made me realize that you have to surround yourself with the type of people who make you feel good about yourself.

Yes bareback questions are a turn off-and so is asking for things I cleary do NOT do... But for me, lately this has been a bit of a problem... Some of my clients are aware I have a child, but for the love of God, why the hell does someone want to ask me about my child while we are in the process of touching one another?????? It has happened a couple of times now, and I choose to no longer see these guys. I find it disturbing, and I also find it disturbing that I need to indicate this to some....

You know you are old when you can remember watching the Beatles the first time they appeared on Ed Sullivan, and enduring your older sister's and cousin's hysterical shrieks. Dad said,"Do they actually call that music?".

You're making me blush! (I didn't think that was still possible haha, wow). I had such an incredible afternoon, I just wish we'd had more time... there will definitely be a return visit for me. There was that first time for me as well today, for which I thank you! By the way, I managed to fix the bed (mostly), no harm done! Cheers to you my dear ;)

Wow it's great to see this thread, that's for sure! I love the list you posted cat. I laughed at a lot of them, but I'm curious about the business, so there were a few that I might have actually brought up as small talk. hahaha You saved me. :) There's a reference to my post where I mention that I already asked an SP a few questions that weren't taken as well as I'd hoped. The questions that I asked were worded more kindly than this, but basically were: 1. Do you have a substance habit? 2. Do you have a pimp? I know that these questions are pretty brutal and that I should've known better. I just want my donations to go towards giving someone a great happy life, not towards funding habits that are at a destructive level of abuse. It's against everything I've been raised to represent as a human being. I don't ever want to go home wondering if I just helped ruin a life, it's not worth any fun that we could possibly have together. I thought the SP might like the fact that I care about others, but I didn't take the time to look at it from her POV. In the end they were selfish and stereotypical questions and I was trying to easy my own conscience without considering someone elses feelings. Please keep in mind that this was before I came to realize that there was a gigantic difference between the fine members of CERB, and the crazy women who try to wave me down when I drive around the city at night. A week or two ago I even had one obviously high woman on Merivale Rd almost rip me off of my motorcycle as I was slowing down for a turn. Her skeleton body with her huge spaced out eyes and toothless mouth was like something out of a horror movie. You could tell she was desperate for cash for the next hit and looked like a zombie that was desperate for brains. I throttled out of there as fast as I could. If I had NOS I would've used it! hahaha I'm so thankful for this website, it's members, and all of the great professional SPs out there keeping it classy! Vanguard

the Notorious B.I.G.-Big Poppa