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I am sure the Gentlemen on this board will be a good help to you. But here are a few thoughts.... Best to have a phone that you use only for the hobby. IE pre paid phone...Keep it somewhere like at work. Use this phone to make your bookings and confirmation. Always bring your own soap to your session. Whatever scent you use normally. This way you can shower and wash any other scents off of you. DONT STOP having sex with your SO, this is a dead give away. A separate play account may be good, if your SO likes to watch your account closely. Be mindful of what you can afford.. This is not a hobby for all. For some it can save a marriage, whereas it can relive some tensions from your sex life. Gives you fulfillment where you need it, allows you to do something special just for yourself. But if you are feeling real guilty and carry that around with you, she may pick up on that too. Women are great at reading your thoughts and actions...women's intuition. So be sure if you try it, then decide it is what you need, then be sure to play safe and smart. You probably have next to no chance of getting caught your first visit. But if you make it a hobby, then be sure your happy with it, and that it is helping you and not hindering you. Dont stop being a husband to your SO. Best luck, enjoy yourself, and play safe!

As a business owner myself, providing product in a specialty/niche market of my industry, I too am subject to the demands and schedules of my customers, while also being benchmarked against my competition, whether here, around the corner or around the globe. My ability to provide quality product and timely service is directly related to the volume of business I have at any one given time. If I accept an order and have difficulty or issues in filling it, or make mistakes, that will have a severe and obvious impact on whether or not the customer decides to give me repeat business. How busy I am may or may not be a factor in my ability to meet my customer's needs and expectations. If I take on the business knowing that I will have issues in performing as required then shame on me. But there are also times when I know that completing the project will be challenging for me, but either the customer or the nature of the work or the project itself has great interest or opportunity for me, so I take it on and know that I have to be at my absolute best in order to gain that client's trust and faith in my abilities and hopefully secure the majority of their work whenever they again require product or services in my area of expertise. I don't advertise much as I'm not a commodity item, and I have nothing to offer my client base unless or until there is a demand for my product. Does that mean that I'm a low or high volume producer?? In order to succeed in my industry I have to work on two things. Firstly, I have to educate my existing and potential customers as to the services and solutions that I can provide, updating them on anything new or changes to my offerings, thus creating demand, and secondly, I have to be prepared to service those clients when they come to me to satisfy the demand. The first generates the traffic, the second hopefully keeps them coming back. Sometimes I have a lot to communicate in order to try and create demand (thus posts or ads), at other times I am just busy enough looking after my existing work and upcoming orders. We all note how this "industry" is different than most, but is it really?? Yes, it is deeply personal and much more intimate, but still it all comes down to quality and service, working together and meeting or exceeding expectations. Those of us (client or provider) who can manage their time, their behaviour and their performance will usually find the right balance and achieve success. And, as a hobbiest here (and not the business owner above) let me ask the same original question but in a different light. Do the ladies here make assumptions about the type of client we might be by the number or frequency of our posts?? Does a higher post count, or more frequent participation in chat or shoutbox mean that the gentleman is a high volume hobbiest?? As a low count poster myself, does that mean that I see very few ladies or does that make me any more or less desirable as a client?? Does it really matter at all?? We all have our preferences and we all make choices that are influenced by our perceptions and our prejudices. The challenge, and indeed the opportunity, is in overcoming those and finding what we each seek with an open mind, respect and gratitude for what each of us both bring and offer with each and every encounter.

Sex is great in many forms some just like genital contact, wham bam, sort of like pse, others want gfe, cuddling, sensuality. passion. Others something in between it's all good, just different, not strange. But to give someone a hard time because they are providing snuggling sessions, is strange, why when body contact services are offered do some become so weird, protest and complain. As it was said we all need human contact in some form or another, especially sex, it's absolutely natural. So to those who object-your a bunch of old poops!!

Yes, I think clients are a vital part of the sex workers rights movement. Come out to events, be open about being a client (if you're able to). More clients need to speak up so that people will stop demonizing all of you as predators, rapists, and worse and recognize that just like sex workers, clients are as much a part of the community as anyone else and that any adult could potentially be a client or a sex worker (or both!). That being said, if you do decide to become a member of a sex workers' rights organization, and you go to meetings and events, you should be up front about being a client (where appropriate). Not all sex workers are out and open about it and will likely be concerned about their personal privacy staying that way. This means not revealing any real names you might learn or other private details, or making connections to women you may recognize on CERB.

Actually Christine...I showed up early so I could clean your windows (some were my nose prints too) so I could get a discount ;) You have a nice front yard..... ha and.....on a serious not that is just common sense and reminders are good !! One must think of others and not just themselves.

I have done some reading on this thread and various threads today....Wowzers.....Kudo's to you ladies for dealing with all the BS, arrogance, ignorance and lack of sensibility that you do have to put up with from time to time !!! You all rock ! An expression that is not good for business.....but wouldn't we all like to say it on many occasions ?

Oh, good lord folks. If you're going to be early, drive by, note the time, and drive to the nearest Tim Horton's or whatever. Note the time. If you can do simple math, you should be able to figure out how long you are going to sit there with a coffee doing the 1000-yard stare like everyone else sitting there. At the appropriate time, get up and get going. Life is simple. Unless you complicate it.

alright, so im not an impostor! My name is Brooklyn and ive been dancing at Barbs for a year now, and when i first made the account (almost a year ago) i was unsure of the website so i chose a name i would likely not be recognized under (Bridge.. Brooklyn Bridge... Get it?!) I am in NO WAY trying to impersonate bridgette! alltho we are both redheads ;) also, if you notice, the post i made said, "thank you for the special mention" if you read averages post, it says "special mention to Brooklyn" anyways, sorry for the confusion!

I think it's pretty obvious from this board that people can keep sex and romance separated. IMO: if you choose to take part in this hobby, you should do it with open eyes. You are trading some money for someone's time and services. Some of the women (assuming you're interested in women) you will encounter are going to provide amazing sexual experiences. And some of them may not be people you could ever see yourself hanging out with outside of this particular transaction. Others may be people with whom you have a lot in common. You may find that there's a "simpatico" there. IMO the more you think about WHY you're seeking out this experience, the clearer you'll be about HAVING the experience, and the better able you will be to put your time with an SP or MA into the context of the rest of your life. I hope some of that makes sense.

Hi. I thought this would be a useful thread like http://www.redflagdeals.com/in/ottawa/deals/ where Cerb members could recommend a product or share a great deal with other members. Or to warn members of bad products such as infomercial products. I will start by recommending the vacuum cleaner The shark Navigator Lift away Vacuum cleaner at http://www.canadiantire.ca/AST/browse/3/HouseHome/Vacuums/UprightVacuums/PRD-0436670P/Shark+Navigator+Lift-Away+Vacuum.jsp?locale=en It is regular 199 and now on sale for 149. I had just vacuumed my house with my old one and had filled the canister, My old one was falling apart so I thought I'll get a new one. So I checked for the best deal going that day and it was this vacuum cleaner, It gets great ratings and Canadian tires has the best return policy. So I gave it a try. I vacuumed the same carpets an hour later with this vacuum cleaner and it filled the cannister completely with a fine dust. Scary at how much my old vacuum cleaner had miss. It seems well made and people say it is as strong as a Dyson, but 1/3 the price. This is a product that I highly recommend. Let's see what other products or deals, you Cerbite's can come share with us .

Hearing an unexpected knock at my door while I'm cooking dinner. And it's the hot single mom from downstairs. The one who always gives me "that" smile when we cross paths even though we've never shared words. She is with her kids and they are selling cookies. She looks surprised when I answer the door. I notice she's acting a little nervous and tripping over her words a little. "Is she actually flustered?" I ask myself. Surely not! But as the conversation continues it becomes apparent. She IS flustered! And blushing! Because of ME! I must admit I am now walking with a certain spring in my step which was not there before. I still got "it"!! :D

Great suggestion :D You would have better luck finding an SP who is skilled in massage, rather than trying to find a massage girl who offers SP services. There are many full service SPs who have worked in massage places that should be able to provide what you're looking for. I am one of them, and I can also think of Peachy, MiaBella, Brittany Jones, Taylor Monroe, and I'm sure there are many more.

Not picking anything here...just offering my take on this... I meet only with travelling ladies as per my location and preference unless I travel. Higher end? It would only be my opinion. It is my opinion however and experience as well that most ...not all.... ladies visit with a lower volume of clients on the road but extended hour visits. Whether it be by reputation, attraction, or repeat clients. But that is just my experience.

I know that our arrangment is as such that it is me that is here for you, an escape from your world to take you to a place of excitment and fantasy. Where you dont have to think. Where we can drown in a place of pleasure in togther. Or to seek comfort when your lonely, lost, stressed. I know that given our lives we cannot always be together when you want us to be. I understand that you have responsibilities that need to be attended to. Family, work. Please understand this for me as well. We live seperate lives. It is as it should be. I know this. I will always try to be here for you when you need me. Though its not always possible. I know it frustrates you sometimes when you are unable to reach me. Its frustrating for me as well. This double life we both lead sometimes makes meeting difficult. Be patient love, it will get better, easier. Sometimes I cannot share with you the reasons that keep me from you. That is also as it should be. In this illusion we've created unless we reach a level of trust. It does not allow me to tell you when Im hurting or sad or tired or ill. You do not come to see me for those things. You come to see me for my smile, the way my eyes light up when they search your face. You come to see me to feel my lips caress yours. To feel my hands exploring your body. To feel the gentleness of my touch. To share moments of time together to laugh, to love. To explore your dreams, your fanasies. I love being able to give that to you. To share that with you. I want to always give you the best of me. Anytime we speak. any time that we share that I am yours. If there is ever a time when I cannot give you the best of me. I will not. I do not want you to see me that way. I hope you understand. Do you realise how special it is what we share. The trust it takes in the other? The unspoken promises we've made without asking? To protect each other. To keep secrets in the moments we share. To keep each other safe. I know I trust you. I have to, to be able bring you to a place that even if its not mine. Its ours for that time. I trust you to be gentle with me and not cause me pain. You trust me to keep healthy and whole. It says alot about you, and about me to be able to do that. I's amazing xo I love that every time we see each other our connection grows, our trust grows. That the more we know each other. It just gets better and better. I dont know how to end this letter to you except to say. Until we meet or are able to meet again. I will be thinking about you. Always, Jade xoxo

Hi, I'm a bit new to this and don't know what to expect. Do escorts bring condoms?

Sorry Folks, I just couldn't wait. Carrie Moon was the one who first told me about CERB and encouraged me to sign up and I am forever grateful to her for that amongst other things. Congratulations, Carrie!!

I am taking an extended leave of absence from active contribution on CERB, so this will be my last post. I need to go in another direction and focus my energies elsewhere. For those i know well here, and have communicated with recently, i will remain in touch. A votre santé!

Why yes Meg...I just got mine a couple weeks ago.... It would look flattering if I was about to join the Hell's Angels. Now I gotta get a bike license again damnitt ;)

There was another thread Cleo Catra posted concerning this issue, another posted in that thread "you can't teach stupid". Really not much more can be said. Some people are aware of discreet protocol, others aren't or forget about it when they are thinking of their "main brain","little buddie"," mini me" or penis.

Hey Guys, I am working tonight till 9pm if you are unable to make it tonight, i am also working tomorrow Wed 9-4 and Thurs 9-4. For those who don't know me, I offer a very sensual massage and super hot body slides. I am also rated one of the top ma's in Ottawa !! Im tall (5'8 ) slim athletic body type, light brown hair and exotic dark brown eyes. I am personable, easy going and a lot of fun to be with Come see for yourself hehe Call the spa or msg me to book your appt xoxo Jordyn

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Yes, it is possible to keep sex and romance separated. The question is this - in your worldview, are these two things, sex and romance, very much entwined or are they two separate things? If they are very strongly linked, my prediction is that you will find you have issues as you hobby. You will have a fantastic sexual experience with someone who you find charming to be around and who seems very interested in you. If you are conditioned to see this as the beginning of a romance, this will be a problem. If you can keep a clear understanding that this was great sex with a wonderful person who sees you as a client, maybe as a friend eventually, but always as a client, you'll do fine. My suggestion is that this is something that needs to be sorted out before you jump into the deep end. Just keep in mind that you are looking at something that ultimately effects three people - you, your SO, and your provider. Welcome aboard and, if your decision is such, happy "pooning"! :)

During my 24 years in the Canadian Forces, we were strongly encouraged (okay, there was no real choice) to wear the poppy every year from the last Friday in October until November 11 as Bolt stated. The Canadian Forces follows the guidelines set out by the Royal Canadian Legion for the wearing of the poppy. Speaking as a retired military member, I would say military personnel have no issues wearing the poppy before/during Halloween and that it in no way takes away from the respect for veterans and those who gave their lives in battle.

This is a recommendation board. Not a review board. General rule of thumb. If you have nothing nice to stay. Don't say it. :) Read the rules!!!

Haha I was half expecting to see a number of ladies chime in with something like "Sqeee, Twilight! I want to have Edwards cold, undead babies!". But I was pleasantly surprised at the responses. I have to hand it to mrrnice2 though, it can't be easy to admit to liking something that was obviously aimed at a very different audience. Props sir, for your honesty! As for my opinion... well I think that The Oatmeal said it best.

The professionals always insist on them being the supplier as they can't otherwise be sure that any you have were stored properly or heaven forbid tampered with (things we don't like to have to think about but do have to in this strange world of crazy people). However, most lady's have no problem with your preference as long as they are aware of it ahead of time and the box is clearly still sealed with a recent receipt from where you purchased them. Some will even pick up some to your preference if you let them know. Once in a while a lady may simply forget them and then is happy to use my supply.

Don't give up! I have been both the guy waiting patiently and the guy who is lucky enough to get a visit! My first attempt to meet my ATF was foiled by her having a long conversation with another customer. Come to think of it, it might have happened more than once. Now, after several visits, we have become friendly and can talk for a long time. I could see how it would be frustrating to others who might want to see her, but I appreciate the conversation and I -think- she does too. In some ways, it is like a coffee or lunch break with friends. Also, if the stage show was particularly energetic, the dancer may be cooling down or relaxing (I know not really an issue at this time of year, but...) Most dancers know the right time to ask the 'question' for hitting the CR. If a lady was concerned about the time spent with a prospective customer, she could easily work it into the conversation. As others have mentioned, the other guy could be a regular, a fairly valuable commodity in these tough times. So throw some smiles, applaud, send a drink, make a compliment when going for a smoke or to the washroom, whatever. I once had a dancer say I looked bored at my table. I learned from that. I have never looked bored in a strip club since!

The low volume/high volume discussion has been going on for as long as I can remember! I was asked about it regularly when I was young, running for an agency and still receive the odd inquiry about it today. I've never understood the preference but I respect the people that have it because I expect them to respect my preferences as well. Life is a cycle with busy times and slower times. This industry is far more susceptable to the ebbs and flow than most and professional providers realize that just because the requests are there today, they may not be there for many days ahead and we have an obligation to try and maximize those requests when they come in. In an ideal world, we would have our daily quotas in front of us and know that we will see the required number of guests each day to ensure our bills get paid but this isn't an ideal world. Days, even weeks go by with little work and the bills pile up. If there is demand, we must do our best to see as many clients as we can handle without compromising ourselves or our service. The bottom line is that when a provider declines an appointment due to volumn she is taking a substantial business risk. The client could go to another provider and decide not to return. Losing one regular for a $200/hr provider is an average loss of $2400 per year. The key for a provider is knowing herself well enough to realize when she's entering the red zone of slipping service or health risk. When I was young and foolish, I worked for an agency one summer where I booked on May 24 weekend and didn't book off until Labor Day. I never slept more than 3 hours at time but still only averaged 4 appointments per day for the whole summer. That's 1 call every 6hrs. I then slept for the entire month of September! It wiped me out physically, emotionally and mentally. I certainly wasn't a high volumn provider that summer but I had to invest the time to ensure I was available when the phone rang. There are very few independents who are revolving door, it can't be done effectively because we can't do the administration AND perform the services simultaneously. A provider may be able to effectively book a couple of days per week solid but that takes time, planning and last but not least; the demand needs to be there for it to all click. And all that is assuming she has the required phone, scheduling and preparations skills needed to be able to fill her calendar consistently and provide the services which imo is a rare mix. I see this concept of revolving door providers as a kind of industry myth that gets bantered around by people with "ideals" but little practical knowledge of the sex trade. When you actually look at the mechanics of the business, it's almost impossible to achieve even for well run agencies. For example, there are times when clients might pass each other in the hall of hotel incall but chances are high the provider waited hours for those two clients and it was simply coincidence the required appointment times were close. When I had my agency, it never failed that I would get multiple requests simultaneously and ensuring the guests received timely service was always my main concern because of the difficulties in logistics. For a very brief moment in time the demand would outstrip the supply. Then when the phones died down, everyone sat and waited. Again. Most of my girls averaged 2-3 appointments on a 10hr shift. If I hired enough providers to fulfill the temporary demand, the ratio dropped to 1 call per shift which isn't enough to keep quality providers under contract. The point of this little stream of consciousness babbling is that the assumptions are made without having an understanding of the nature of the industry. Perhaps with a little more understanding of the business the assumptions will decrease... cat

a FS SP.....

Not too sure what you are bartering here, by trying to make as if you have something of value from nothing. There is no profiteering from recommendations, so recommend away if you had a great experience. If you don't bang-n-tell, no point teasing the rest of us. That's what strip joints are for.

After several weeks of very bad visits with my Mother, today we had an absolutely wonderful visit. She was lucid, knew who I was, and was able to carry on a conversation ... until she got tired and fell asleep. But still, I left the nursing home on top of the world, rather than feeling totally depressed. I know she'll have good days and bad days. But there've been a lot of bad days lately. So hitting on a good day was simply wonderful. Porthos

In all likelihood, what I'm about to mention as a subject to avoid has already been addressed. However, reminders always serve a purpose, and some things bare repeating. I think it's incredibly important to avoid talking negatively about other providers when you're with someone. Although I'm fine with a patron speaking positively about other providers, I don't want details about your experience. It's none of my business. I recognize comparisons happen at times, but they shouldn't be vocalized during an encounter and I don't find it flattering to be compared to other ladies in the business. I much rather be judged by my own merits. I know it happens, and when you click with someone it's normal to want to share your experiences with them, but please keep in mind that this is an incredibly small industry. In all likelihood, you're talking about one of my friends. How awkward!

I too think sean Connery was the best...Daniel Craig has grown on me though. The fight scene in the train car in From Russia With Love was fantastic, and you can tell it was way ahead of its' time when you see that style reupped in "Bourne" films. Jill St John was hot......"Plenty O'Toole ...I think Coincidentally I installed the SKYFALL poster as my Avatar photo for now in the am of the day that Cristy posted this. Looking forward to next weeks' opening

Well like I said, you kinda want to have an encounter with her, but are kinda scared to have one with her too And I don't know whether the Admiral shows the courage and bravery of the Canadian navy, or makes our navy look foolhardy LOL RG

Since the Criminal Code is standard across the country, Sophia's phrase community "tolerance level" is a good non-legalistic way to look at this. To answer your question using that standard, Quebec would be the most sexually liberal/tolerant society in Canada. Maybe that's part of what makes them a "distinct society" :-) That extends to the erotic and sexual service industries as well. It's more "above ground" and accepted as part of urban life in Montreal for example than any where else in Canada. There are numerous strip clubs, massage parlours, sex aid shops and escorts conducting business in prominent downtown locations instead of in marginal low profile locations. The only other comparable area would be around Niagara Falls. I'm not sure from your comments whether you are equating lap dances and customers touching dancers with prostitution. Lap dances are certainly a very erotic service :-) but they aren't a "sexual service" (intercourse, masturbation, oral etc) and therefore they aren't considered prostitution. As Aubrey and Sophia point out, strip clubs are usually regulated by provincial liquor license regulations or municipal zoning/licensing bylaws and those standards do vary across the country. Here in Nova Scotia for example, no contact is allowed between a patron and dancer. In fact a minimum separation distance of 3 feet has to be maintained. Yet in many other provinces lap dances are obviously allowed. As for how much contact, well that's usually a case of your mileage may vary. I've heard some dancers describe many clients as grabbing and squeezing them "as if they had never seen a woman before." So since it's unpleasant, the dancer is obviously going to spend a lot of time removing the client's hands whereas if the next client is more respecful and has a gentler touch he or she may be allowed much more contact. I hope this helps.

There are municipal, provincial and federal laws, both civil and criminal. Regardless of the law, there is ultimately the decision by law enforcement on whether to pursue something. Simply having something being legal does not mean that it will be permitted. Sophia used an apt term and that being tolerance. It is sad to say but in PEI it could be a bigger issue than elsewhere. Another example that saddens me is that abortion is legal in Canada but no woman can access one in PEI. So there are laws and legalities but then there is the reality of the community or province choosing to ignore them.

October 26,2012 will be a birthday fondly remembered . Having fantasized about meeting both Nathalie and Gia for the past couple of months had became reality for myself, picture these two beautiful lovers opening the door dressed in very sexy lingerie for me to unwrap. Having met Gia a couple of times and meeting Nathalie as well once before I knew that these two ladies would show myself a great time to celebrate. We started with Nathalie, being the sweetheart that she is, welcoming myself, and laying a deep sensual kiss, and then Gia as well, what a way to say "Hello"! I brought some mimosa for the celebration,the mimosa was poured, the toast was made, and then the fun began. The sexy scantly lingerie was slowly removed, where three bodies engaged in some very sensual foreplay to start, slowly undressing and teasing one another. It was beautiful to watch two women, enjoy their love for each other with passion, lust and with moans of great pleasure. The two hour appointment was a slow enjoyable encounter, with Gia and Nathalie, bringing out some toys to play with, vibrators,strap on and something very special for me (Thanks Nathalie that was quite invigorating and very pleasurable). Heighten climaxes were reached by all three throughout our time together, to hear women moan,shout, with pleasure was music to my ears, to have my hair pulled, and some bum spankings was all in super great fun, of course the laughter and smiles will be embedded in my memory for a long time. I don't think I could asked for a better Birthday present on a beautiful fall day, it was warm outside and the temperature inside was nearly another 20 plus degrees, it was "HOT" in more ways than one. The sweat pouring off my head, and off ladies bodies was a sign that the lust,love, arching backs with shakes and quivers,many wet spots ;) AND WITH moans of pure pleasure IT was a most enjoyable two hours. When our time was close to ending, I received a four handed massage, and it felt so erotic, I had to simply repay the gesture and massaged these two beautiful ladies too, well just look above at the photo, who in their right mind would not want to cease the moment of caressing those sexy bums? The ladies being total sweethearts, helped me to the shower, Nathalie soaped me down and Gia rinsed me off :) I could of stayed much longer, but knowing our time was done, I was completely and utterly tuckered out and fully satisfied with love from these two gorgeous women. I will leave you readers with this photo, these two women when smiling and touching and making love together with their man is a duo that you would want to meet. Thank-you Nathalie and Gia, you certainly made my day, and my week-end as the date was completely what I had visioned. Also like to thank you both for the lovely cupcakes lit up with candles, it was truly an amazing touch that you both did for me, I appreciated that very much, you both showed me your beautiful personalities of two ladies that admire their clients with class. Thanks Again, Pete xox

Another doctor who companion: Martha Jones

CATWOMAN. The Michelle Pfeiffer version

I think the easiest way is like i did 4 month ago. Wake up a morning and just quit. trow your pack in the garbage and just quit. Easy like this. Everything you want in life you can do it. U just need to really want it ! xoxox

ohhhh.... and if you look carefully at the next one, you may notice that not only is she biting her lip, but there is the briefest glimpse at her bare breasts.

And then there's that inviting little eyebrow raise at the end! Whew! For anyone who didn't see Haywire, it's a Steven Sonderbergh film and so not your usual Hollywood fare. An action flick for sure, but in Sonderbegh's unique style. Apparently, having seen Carano in her MMA fights (she has serious mixed martial arts skills) he recruited her and, despite her limited acting experience, basically built the film around her. I thought she had great screen presence and turned in a very credible job for her first major movie role. She also kicked butt! And looked incredibly sexy in a little black dress!!!