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You ask a worthy question zorobaby. These are the factors and experience that influence my decision when deciding to see a younger than 40 guest... 1. Unrealistic expectations of what the session will entail. Porn has skewed manys perceptions as to what is genuine sex and what is done strictly to feed a visual desire. For the younger set it seems to be about how many sog's they are going to get or they have a list of activities that need to be completed in order for them to feel they got their moneys worth. For me this approach is exhausting in the playroom, both mentally and physically and when they leave I often reflect that the money wasn't worth the energy spent for me. This trait is not exclusive to younger clients, just more prevalent. 2. Contact. Many younger men contact us with little to no respect shown for us as people. One line text and emails are an instant red flag as are the phone calls that start with "How much for a blow job?" without even introducing yourself. The civil niceties are seldom present and they do not have the awareness or understanding of what it takes to be a sex worker and that we are living, breathing human beings with feelings that need to be treated as such the same as everyone else. Their inherent attitudes of youth often mislable us as disposable or less than and that is unacceptable to us. 3. Money. If I had a nickle for every time I've heard "Is your pussy made of gold?" from a not yet grown man cub, I'd be rich. My prices aren't and never have been in the upper price range of this industry. I provide outstanding service and take pride and care in ensuring my guests are cared for above and beyond the industry norm but younger men don't understand the cost of doing business for us. Indulging in women is like any other hobby, it takes money and the younger they are the less saved pennies they have to spend on the intangibles unlike their older counterparts. All that said, I have some younger guests on my dance card who I absolutely adore. They are mature beyond their years and we are a good fit so it works. They contacted me with well articulated emails and engaged in an exchange with me that showed they were indeed the kind of client I enjoy. At that point, the age became a non issue. The younger providers often have personal reasons for staying away from their peers and that should be respected but most providers will make an exception if you approach them with the right attitude... cat

I agree with everything that has been said by these lovely ladies so far. I have had great experiences with a few select special younger gentlemen, and turned down countless older fellows for appointments because of one reason or another. Age is all in the head (and in the bed! ;)) But of course life experience is an asset, no matter what we're talking about. I just wanted to add that age is generally not even a piece of information that most ladies will ask you to provide when you are requesting an appointment. So unless you somehow out yourself by being immature, rude or disrespectful, or sound like you haven't hit puberty yet on the phone, then in actuality, age will not really even be an obstacle. I have even been surprised a few times, when I have corresponded with gentlemen to arrange an appointment, then when they showed up at my door, they were a lot younger than I had anticipated. But I had no idea because they wrote and spoke maturely and respectfully :) And that's all we ask!

Silence. Complete and utter silence. If only because it's so rare and precious...

This thread is hilarious! Some of the posts made me snort with laughter! It reminds me of the FML website. Seeing people drive around parking lots looking for the closest possible space to the entrance makes me think "wtf". If you have two functional legs and no disabilities, just park and walk! It's such a waste of time and gas.

I'm going to add to Cat's post as she pretty much summed up everything I was thinking. She made some very good points especially when she mentioned the niceties that potential clients practice and while they may seem subtle or considered just being polite, as service providers we take these types of things into consideration when deciding to meet someone. I know when texting with someone or talking to them on the phone very quickly if I want to meet them or not. When someone texts me as asks "How much for a blowjob?" without even so much as a "Hello" or the good ol "Wassup?"... I ask myself, what is this person going to be like in person? Secondly, many younger men seem focused on the laundry lists of questions and the MSOG part can almost be equated to going to an all you can eat buffet wanting to ensure their stomach is full to capacity while making sure they got their money's worth. I don't have a problem with MOSG as long as it happens within the amount of time the person books for. Many have approached in wanting MSOG without wanting to pay for the extra time. I don't think so... This may be acceptable in other service industries or products consumers buy but SPs are not products, we are human beings who "provide" a service. IMO, many younger men get so caught up in trying to get their rocks off (for a lack of better words) and at the same time almost seems like they have to prove a point with the MSOG. Many forget that this is an intimate service and that we are not machines. With many younger men, I have found myself being told what to do during an encounter almost like they want it to be scripted like how it is seen in porn movies and things don't flow naturally which makes me uneasy. I like to think i know what I'm doing and don't need to be reminded on how to perform a certain act. I'm not a blowup doll. Major turnoff! The lack of consideration many younger men ( not all) have shown to myself and others in this business is very common. Lastly, the word discount is often synonymous with younger men who endulge in this hobby. This is a luxury service that isn't a necessity but many tend to think it is and many think it's perfectly acceptable to negotiate with the provider which is another real turnoff. Having said all of this, I am not against seeing younger men as I used to be. In fact, I have many younger clients in their 20's and they have all been respectable and polite but I am choosy when it comes to meeting clients and it all starts with how they respond to me. This goes for clients of any age. SPs are offering a service and they are free to see who they want or don't want to see. I don't want to make it seem as though I'm making generalizations because I'm not but I'm not a new SP and I only speak from experience and often times hard knocks when seeing younger men.

I like the sound of rain but I still prefer the sound of thunder rumbling far away... and sweet silence, the moment when you think you are the only person left on earth

Short summary: the general feeling from the ladies is that age is, loosely, inversely correlated with douchebaggery. Of course, this is a gross generalization, and many exceptions will exist on both sides of it. But still some ladies seem to have decided that it's easier to just exclude a certain demographic because there's too much hassle for the good business they get from it. That's their choice, of course... and to be honest, I've never got the feeling it was carved in stone if someone who was younger than their usual clientele was prepared to act like a mature gentleman. So if you see an SP advertize that she usually only meets clients over a certain age, it's probably not an insurmountable obstacle, but remember to mind your manners lest you confirm her preconceptions of your generation :)

Not sure of the exact mechanics of it, but it seems that you have to have a certain number of posts on the board in order for it to become available. Keep posting, and it'll appear sooner rather than later :)

Hi there, and welcome to our community;) As a younger provider, I can say I prefer to see 35+ clients. I have no problem with younger gents closer to my age, but I find I click better and the chemistry is often more suitable with older gents. Age and looks is really irrelevant to me though in deciding whether or not I will enjoy a gent's company, the deciding criteria is someone who is respectful in all our correspondence, who I think I will be stimulated by intellectually and enjoy conversing with, and who shows a genuine interest in meeting with ME, as opposed to just the services I provide ;)

I love the sound of rain. I really enjoy taking a bath in the summer while it's raining and opening the window... No music, just the sound of rain. Those have been some of the most peaceful moments of my life. Phaedrus is right though, silence is beautiful too.

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Last week's highlight, actually, which continues a tad this week.... A good friend of mine referred me to a great mechanic who gave me an honest opinion about getting my car up to par to Ontario's standards (moving from Quebec ...). Turns out there is too much money to put in the car for me to either keep it (and plate it in Ontario) or sell it (its not worth much as it turns out). Plus, i can walk everywhere, including to work. So, this week, my rust-bucket, money-pit of a car is getting donated to the Kidney Foundation, where they will try to fix it and sell it, or trash it (and-or recycle the parts). For those interested, they arrange for the pick-up (they take care of trucks, cars or boats), and they issue a tax credit receipt regardless of what they do with it.

I think this thread was started just to get a reaction from people. No serious person would ask such an asinine question.

There is a section of the Criminal Code which deals with this.

I personally believe that you are on exactly the right track in wishing to communicate to some degree prior to meeting an SP. Your introductory email, or PM or text should be polite and serve as a brief personal introduction. Reading posts in the forums will give you a pretty good idea of how a particular SP thinks and I believe that you can get an appreciation for the person and make a somewhat informed opinion about whether the two of you will click. That "click" is important and can make a good experience become an amazing experience. Everyone is seeking the best experience possible and prior communication can make that first hello upon meeting become much easier and even more eagerly anticipated. At the same time I have read more than once about 'timewasters,' so there is indeed a fine line that you must walk. Follow the lead of the SP and if you don't get enough from her prior to meeting to give you that comfort level then it would be OK in my opinion to not make the date and even explain why. Good luck and enjoy your time on Cerb.

I love sex as much as the next man, but sometimes there is nothing more sensual than just making out with a passionate woman. For me, spending an hour with a woman, showering together, making out on the couch then moving to the bed would be fantastic. Finally, switch from the lips on her face to spending the last half hour just orally pleasuring the lips between her thighs would be the ultimate. Pleasuring a woman and making her moan is like music to my ears. The only thing is many SP's prefer not to kiss at all. Anyone know which SP's in the Ottawa area enjoy being totally the centre of attention? Don't hesitate to PM me directly.

I was going to echo what Cleo said, a better question would be who DOESN'T enjoy this :) Making out gets me wet pretty much instantly.

The sound of thunder, the rolling waves in the ocean ( even better when it's with classical music) and a kitten's meow.

A baby laughing !! it will put a smile on you face every time no matter how you might feel.

We obviously haven't met! Couch time foreplay is one of my favorite parts of a visit. When that goes well, the rest of the playdate is fireworks.. cat

In answer to your questions Madison, there are few cerbies from Timmins on here (I know of 5, but there may be more) Like any city one wishes to travel too, that is small in size (if you are seeking a few quality dates and not looking to be a revolving door) then it is perfect. Keep in mind in a smaller city people are extra paranoid about discretion and last minute cancellations are usually more than the ones that show up for the encounter. The amount of gents that show interest out weighs the amount that show up, but that being said in any business you need to spend money to make money and it is a lovely city to chill in.

Ive got to agree with Angela, I love the sound of a thunderstorm, or being from the country, the sound of a guitar playing is very relaxing to me :$

Rain and thunder claps!

I love the combination of the sound of the wind along with the low hum of a motorcycle engine while on the highway. As much as there is noise there, there is also a calming peace from the rhythmic steady sound, yet the lack of voices and chaos. I do some of my best thinking this way. Those who don't ride would likely not understand this as peaceful sounds, but there is a certain meditative quality to it.

Im ready to ROCK your world. My name is Crystal, one of my biggest pleasures in life is to please, so why not treat yourself and allow this sexy young babe take care of you. I offer amazing, non-rushed service that will have your mouth-watering. Soapy hot showers, a massage that will take away all your tensions, body slides you cant deny, i love to tease and to please. I can be an angel, or i can be your little devil. So what do you have to lose? your going to be coming back for more, and i cant wait to see you smile. Come play with me. :dncdick:

Crickets.... I joke ;) Just like Nathalie, I love to lay back and relax while listening to the sound of the rain.

Let me guess....you were talking to this fella ?? ;)

Plain stupidity that make you wonder if some people are from the same planet you are from or if they only forgot to put on their thinking cap before getting out of bed... That's why I never take mine off lol

The voice of a sexy lady saying my name while we are making love!

Nope. This is the perfect opportunity for you relax and spend time with a lady you want to be with that attracts you, in the age preference you want to experience. SP willing of course. Just enjoy Zorotime :) There are some amazing Cerb ladies out there waiting to meet you.

Laws Of Survival ---------------- If you're calling the day of - good luck. If you book 48 hours in advance, you're lucky to consumate the deal with 50% of the girls you talk to. If you book with Zoe, Kayla or Soleil, you can take it to the bank. They will be there and are awesome.

To be honest, I think it's up to whoever's traveling (you for incalls; the SP for outcalls) to make damn sure you know where you're going and how long it's going to take to get there, and to make sure you have enough time. Okay, traffic disasters happen, and you can't prepare for everything... but cancelling at the last minute really isn't fair and is probably a good way to annoy people, on either side. We've all been late because the traffic was crap and we hit every single red light on the way, but it's not good to make a habit of it. I keep a book in the car, that I'm reading in five- or ten-minute chunks when I have a few minutes to kill because I got there a bit early. I find that much better than getting horribly stressed because I'm going to be late.

you forgot to mention the gigantic thumbs up icon on the button! how will he ever find it with a man's idea of directions, sheeesh!

I for one do not judge a client on his age, it's not something I ask about prior to meeting. I think everything cat already said pretty well sums up how SPs can be either thrown off or intrigued by the gentleman's approach in contacting us... 50yr old men can be jerks too.

Standing in line waiting to refill a prescription at a St Laurent pharmacy:) The lady ahead of me begins to ask the pharmacist for a refill -pharmacist explains, this prespcription is at carling location, will have to call over there-will not be ready for an hour or so. Lady says ok, then asks, well can I pick it up at Rideau , much more convenient location. Pharmacist, then says ok, to pick it up at Rideau, you must go into Rideau, and ask them for the transfer from carling-lady then says well I will be going to carling tomorrow so-could I pick it up from there tomorrow.....at this point, the pharmacist was puzzled...also it was very busy and the line up was looooong. I then say, hoping to speed things along..lol: Mam, would you like to pick up your prescription from here , Rideau or Carling? She really turned around and looked at me like I was crazy... The pharamacist is there to fill a prescription, not decide the best place for pick up to suit your personal itinerary...

7 mile beach in Negril Jamaica.

great post roomy !!!!!!

If you use hotel rooms as incall locations, your best bet is to use only four- and five-star hotels. They will safeguard your privacy and, by extension, that of your visitors. Frivolous complaints are not looked upon favourably by the management. So, if someone were to go to, say, the Fairmont Hotel Vancouver and say that Samantha Evans is a prostitute and is using a room on the 8th floor to entertain clients, the hotel would look at the register and discover that Samantha Evans is not registered there. Has never been registered there, in fact. No one could produce an ad where she's purported to say that she's entertaining this evening at that establishment because she would never publish such a thing in an ad of her own. If someone were to produce a post from one of the other -erb boards where some helpful person noted that she's working at that particular hotel, it's still meaningless and the hotel isn't going to investigate unless there's a bigger problem. If Samantha or her guests are causing a disturbance, making a lot of noise late at night or something like that, the hotel will be concerned. They will call the room or go to the door and say that there's a complaint about noise, or whatever. People stay in hotels all the time. People take hotel rooms in the cities where they live, too. They use them to meet illicit lovers, which is perfectly legal. It's also legal to entertain a guest in a hotel room. The difficulty is when a lady entertains a sequence of male guests and that information becomes known to the hotel management. The hotel is entitled to ask anyone to leave, for any reason. Innkeeper's Acts are provincial legislation. They basically outline the terms under which an Innkeeper can ask someone to leave the premises, and those terms generally cover as wide a range as possible. It would never be a smart thing to argue with a hotel manager who asks you to leave. Seriously, though, a client is not going to report a prostitute to the hotel management because they would be implicated in anything that happens after that: anonymous complaints don't get very far. A trouble-maker may report someone to the police, but they will also have to give their personal information to the police when they do that. Then the police will have to decide whether they want to take action. If they do, they basically take a room across the hall or next door to the working lady and keep track of the traffic going in and coming out of her room. They may attempt to interview some of her guests, most of whom will not be willing to cooperate because of their own fears of exposure. It's a long, drawn-out and expensive thing for the police to be involved in and it's likely to upset other hotel guests on the same floor, so the large, 4- and 5-star hotels don't encourage it. But if you go to a No-Tell Motel... all bets are off! Your privacy and your visitors' privacy are not as secure.

Some girls offers "video taping" with an extra in their services.. So why taping some without their approbation?

Well said! It's also one of the reasons why I prefer to entertain from my own incall location... no risks of hidden cameras anywhere!

If you are farther away, I would do what some of my faraway regs do, they call the day before to assure that I am actually available the day and time they hope to be able to make a visit. nothing is written in stone, tho, as they may not be able to get here anyway, which is fine. Then closer to the time on the day, they do their confirmation call. Simplifies things. I don't think I would take for granted someone's website calendar. 6 is a lot, which might be why we are asking a few questions and making a few suggestions. Besides confirming schedule the day before (and keep in mind if some of these sps did not hear from anyone the day before, maybe they decided to take the whole day off? But they wouldn't have, had you checked in with them the day before. Of any of the 6, besides leaving a message, did you make a 2nd or 3rd call, speced out within a reasonable time frame? Sometimes someone has called me, left a message but no call back number, and their number to call back either doesn't show or doesn't work. Calling back until you reach them doesn't have to mean as shown every 5 minutes for an hour, but I don't mind someone calling within reason until they reach me. I always return calls within a reasonable time period, but I do know some sps who won't. I don't think it is a good business practise to ignore messages, if they want to ignore messages they should just disable the voicemail feature, or at the very least put that in their own message. Hi, you've reached Lady X, don't leave a message I won't return it, just keep calling until you reach me, OR, call back after 2pm. I play with my message all the time, either I'm available, not available, call back in 20 minutes, call back in 5 minutes, or call back after 5pm, whatever the circumstances. Most frustrating to me is someone who calls, does not leave a message and does not call back within the time I suggest in my voice mail. It's like they say to themselves I tried, and failed, moving on. One phone call no message is not trying at all lol. And that's probably why you see those sps who return calls 15 minutes later, if everyone just left a message and messages were listened to and returned, it would run a lot smoother.

Legal or not, it's totally unethical!

I dont know if its illegal but... its very disrespectful!

It means what I've put in bold and italics.

Look I'm I my sixties and I haven't found my age to be a barrier. In fact, I think you'll find your age to be an asset as I think many women prefer a little grey. WE aren't as rushed and are a little more considerate and attentive to our partners. I think it was one of the presidential debates where Regan demolished his opponent by commenting that he wouldn't hold his age against him. Good luck, just have fun and enjoy the opportunity.

I'd be careful about that one & how you go about communicating. If it's through email introduce yourself & let them know what your looking for in services & personality. But don't email constant as many girls will start to think your just wasting time & want to only chat. You can always call & ask if they have some time to talk. Once again talking to a person gets a better feel of a person's personality. Some girls won't discuss services over the phone, so be sure to read their ads & their website if they have one. Lots of time just from reading an ad or website you'll find the do's & don'ts about how they prefer to communicate with a potential new client. Your not wrong for wanting some communication before hand. A responsible provider should also know who she is allowing into her incall location. It's easy to turn down a client just from his approach & if at all there's a sense of we are not going to hit it off. I myself know I'd rather say no to an appointment then go through an hour with someone I feel no connection with.

I love to play with myself when I'm with a man. Nothing gets me hotter than having a stiff cock next to me. I love to play with my vibrator while the man is jerking off in front of me. Nothing yummier than mutual masturbation.

On top of what Mmad said that she'll be back, alternatives are kelly on cambridge.

I was wondering if anyone would have any suggestions as to who would be a good choice for this kind of fetish? More specically teasing, edging, humiliation, worshiping, using the sub a a sex slave, etc. I have been searching a long time and have not found any sp's advertising for this. I realize a lot of sp's are able to do this but I need an sp with a somewhat naturally dominant personality to her as this makes it all the more real. Thanks for the info in advance and if any sp would like more detail pm me.

I have tried it before and liked it but it is not something that I look forward to in a date unless the lady wants me to perform it, which I have been told I'm good at too. So ladies if you want it from me please go ahead and ask"I want you to eat my f....n ass" and I will gladly do it.