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You are not over-reacting. There is enormous pressure on paid companions at every price point to provide bareback full service (BBFS). Many of us have been talking about this all fall and winter. We're concerned about the women who are being pressured into it for fear of having fewer clients. I think it began with the trend to pressure women into providing uncovered BJs. Many companions believe this isn't safe. Others are willing to take the risks, since HIV is not associated with it because the HIV virus is too fragile to live in a human throat. However, there is a new strain of gonorrhea that isn't curable and gonorrhea will live very happily in the throat, undetected, for months or more. Some companions offer bbbjs but not to completion, or they don't swallow. Everyone makes decisions based on her assessment of the risks, including the prevalence of particular infections in her city. But full service is a completely different matter. In Vancouver, it's available from a lot of street-based workers. My understanding is that it's an option in some of the Asian micro-brothels where the ladies have come in to work for a few months. I don't know why people think this is safe. It makes no sense to me. But I have had prospective clients offer me two or three times my hourly rate or more to accommodate them. I'm sure that they will eventually find someone who will agree to it. I work to support myself and my family. To take care of our lives. I won't put my life at risk!

Dude, seriously...just fucking do it. Who can you trust? Everyone. All the ladies who advertise here and have review threads are absolutely trustworthy as far as your needs are concerned. You're not giving them your bank account or SIN number or first born child for fucks sake. Shave your nuts, wash your ass, head to the ATM and have at it. Don't be a pussy.

Fear-mongering is NEVER helpful. While I don't want to get into a long discussion of the law, since several of us have done it extensively, many times, in other threads, I also don't want to leave some things hanging, here, because the misconceptions aren't tolerable and we never know when someone will read this thread later. So, I'll go through this quickly. We have a forum for legal questions, cases and decisions. The laws and their current status is explained in simple, clear language there. Read it! The likelihood that a client will be robbed if he sees an independent paid companion at her incall location is miniscule if he's seeing a well-recommended, reputable lady. If he's bargain-hunting on BP, CL and other free or cheap sites, he's taking risks. Buyer beware! Anytime something seems too good to be true, it probably is. Cut-rate prices can cost a lot. Paying a premium to a reputable paid companion will ensure your safety, security and confidentiality. Incalls are technically illegal, it's true, but it's also true that, until the Supreme Court of Canada makes its decisions about the prostitution laws, which will probably happen in 2015, no one is being charged with operating a bawdy house as long as she's working quietly, not creating a nuisance in the neighbourhood or disturbing the public. The police and judiciary are not entertaining bawdy house charges because there is a strong likelihood that the laws will be overturned. If someone were to be charged and/or convicted, the charges would probably be dropped and the convictions nullified by a change in the law. It's simply not worth the considerable time and expense. However, the bawdy house law is not about operating a permanent residence for the purpose of prostitution. It's about habitually engaging in prostitution anywhere, including a hotel room. "Habitual" means seeing several clients. It's perfectly okay for a prostitute or any woman to have sex with someone in her home or hotel room. If she's being paid for her time, seeing just one client is also okay. Problems arise when she sees several clients. It is absolutely legal to invite a prostitute to your home or hotel room and to pay her for her time, including sexual activities. In terms of safety, the safest thing for the SP is to operate a discrete incall location where she controls things like who may enter, what they may do when they're there and her access to emergency services if required. The next-safest thing is to engage in outcalls in reputable hotels--4 and 5-star hotels--where hotel security gives her a measure of protection. Women who do these outcalls are wise to check the room, the bathroom, the closets and the locks on doors to any adjoining rooms to ensure that no one else can arrive unexpectedly. Most independent ladies do not offer outcalls to private residences when they don't know the client because they are much less safe than a place the lady controls herself. At a strange house, she may not know where all the entrances and exits are and she may be surprised by other people arriving unexpectedly. Escort agencies frequently arrange outcalls to private homes, but they also provide drivers and they record the address to which the lady is going. Part of her security, then, is that she's not the only person who knows where she is: others are also looking out for her. Communicating in public is illegal. Cars are considered to be public places, which is why car dates are also illegal. There is nothing about these laws that is difficult to understand, nor are they full of loopholes. You cannot discuss exchanging sexual activities for money in a public place, period. You cannot engage in sex in a public place, either. Street-based sex workers are in compromising circumstances because they have to have these public discussions. But not only is it illegal for a sex worker to approach someone on the street or at an intersection and offer sex for money, it's also illegal for an ordinary person to approach someone on the street and offer to pay them for sex. Independent paid companions who work indoors are not a significant source of sexually-transmissible infection. We are sexual health experts. We know that the great majority of our clients have never been tested for any kind of sexually transmissible infection, yet they may be the unknowing source of these diseases which they may have contracted from girlfriends, wives and other partners with whom they have engaged in unprotected sexual activities. You can trust us to know what the risks are and to protect our own health as well as yours. The principal issue in this thread, from the outset, has been engaging with underage SPs. This is absolutely, completely illegal. There is no excuse for doing it under any circumstances. If you don't know the age of the SP you're seeing, that's a problem. Presuming that she's a legal adult may be foolish because the laws related to consent will not allow you to wriggle around and claim you didn't know this was an underage person or a child. Ask for identification if there's the slightest doubt about her age. If she's underage, you have a legal and moral obligation to report what's going on to the authorities and you can do so without fear of being prosecuted yourself as long as you did not engage in sexual acts with her.

You do not have to feel shallow over the fact that you prefer younger ladies at all. WE all have our turn on's and preferences with our sexuality. However, an older SP in er 30's may have the experience that will help guide you through your date, in a more relaxed and confident manner. BUT there are many younger SP's that also have these qualities. Most of my clients have been older men, even when I was a young SP. I just feel more comfortable with an older man. Young men just dont seem to have the mannerism and seem to have something to prove, while the mature man seems to really want to savor the moment with you more so. I have met with some young men that break that mold too though. I think at the end of the day, it boils down to.... Does the SP attract you? Is she well established with good reputation? Are you comfortable with interacting in conversation? Is she going to give you the kind of service you are looking for? If all of these are yes, then I say take the plunge! Then you will know for sure. It is the same on our end, although I typically will see older men, if a younger man contacts me, and seems to ave the kind of manners and etiquette that I look for in a date, then I will gladly book with him. It really all depends on how the person interacts with me on that initial contact. Then if he was a pleasure to spend time with I will book him again, if not then I simply decline his offer. BUT YOU DON'T have to feel ashamed or like there is anything wrong with what your preferences are as long as you are respectful to who ever your with.

Tough one... do I get a bacon sandwich after??? In this community and in this day and age, moral judgment in regard to consensual sexual conduct is frankly silly. You are a guy that doesn't want to suck cock? Okie dokie. You are a guy that wants to suck cock? Cool. You are a guy that wants to have his cock sucked by another guy? Good on ya. Bottom line. It doesn't matter. I think back to all those men and women in the truly homophobic era that had to live a lie. Men who married women and had kids who could NEVER be openly gay. Women who married men and had kids who could never be openly lesbian. It's fucking sad. In both cases they were men and women who had HETEROSEXUAL relationships but were in reality homosexual. How do you classify them? Do you need to classify them? In the end, it's all about the stigma. "oh, she's a lesbian." "you know, he's a fag." "she'll never leave the party alone, she swings both ways." Who the hell cares? A label is a way to categorize someone to whom you feel somehow superior. Whatever your sexual proclivity, it really has absolutely no bearing on your value to society.... unless you are into clown sex, then you are truly a frickin' weirdo. Seriously, your sexual appetite does not define you - it just opens avenues that others may not choose to travel... and putting a label on that avenue certainly does not make anyone a better person. Be safe, have fun and don't hurt anyone. That's my avenue.

Hi Everybody! I don't know if I'm too much of a newbie to start a thread, especially one on such a strong subject but it's one that I feel very strongly about: BBFS in the Hobby, I don't get how anyone can justify it. Browsing other boards that are, lets say, less politically correct than this one I see an increasing amount of talk around either more and more SPs offering BBFS ... one post even had a link to a BP ad near TO where the SP has it listed in her extras!! ... or johns asking for it, sometimes very aggressively according to some ladies. It seems prevalent enough that they even started a board dedicated to the pursuit of this dangerous activity!! (I won't promote it here) Unless I'm really behind the times and some new miracle cure as been invented for all STDs isn't this pretty much the most dangerous activity to experiment in? Also, being a DATY lover this "trend" is scaring the living crap out of me. Aside from the very obvious heath risks involved (HIV being at the top of the list), the thought of ... squeamish people turn away now! ... licking up someones sloppy seconds is totally disgusting!! ... call me a prude but I won't even snowball my own stuff! lol Levity aside I don't want to die, or be incapacitated, from this hobby because a few morons (male and female alike) want to play russian roulette with their sex lives. Now a few posters, again on other boards, have suggested starting screening new SPs when booking by asking if they provide the service as if you want it, the logic being they will then expose themselves more freely. Really not sure about this one, First I would need to play the creep (not my style), and second using this method might put me on the blacklist with the careful, reputable ones and ruin my rep. I mainly repeat with 2 lovely ladies I'm very comfortable with but I like to "explore new territory" once in a while so a screening method would help ease my mind. Any comment on the subject ... from both Service Providers and fellow hobbyists ... would be appreciated. Also, I'm very curious as to what the general consensus on the subject is? Am I overreacting here or is it as dangerous as I feel it is? Is it something that's more prevalent in other market/cities where competition is more fierce?

I blacklist clients who ask for this, as to me, it signals not only a disrespect for my health, but their own and potential partners as well.

I've been going to Aqua for many years now... and will keep on going for many to come. It's the MA who'll make the session memorable and not the Spa. IMHO

This thread caught my eye because of the word"discerning". A word I often use in my ads to describe the type of men I want to attract "men with discerning tastes". I understand the word to mean having good judgement, good taste, wanting better. Perhaps I'm wrong maybe when you seek a particular age group perhaps that makes you discerning as well,? Anyway to echo Miss Sophia- whatever your preference- there is someone for you, no need to feel anyway because your tastes are for a particular age bracket, so long as they aren't under 18. I attract as many younger guys as I do older gents-23-60's, I prefer to deal with over 35's-thats my preference, and that is fine. We all have preferences don't ever worry about expressing them, variety is what makes the business exciting, something for everyone:icon_biggrin:

watching my son's swearing in ceremony for Canada's military a little while ago

I am a Semi- new Saint Johner. I moved here 4 years ago from Halifax and I have had no regrets what so ever. I would never move back and that's saying a lot as I was born and raised in Halifax. I love it here, I feel safer here for myself and children. The people here are amazing and of course there are a few bad apples but isn't there everywhere?? I have never seen this town in my eyes as industrial, I live in the uptown are and think it is beautiful in the summer and winter. If you take the time to be involved in your surrounding there is even more beauty. As a SP here in Saint John I have good weeks and bad weeks as I am sure happens everywhere. I however do know it is disappointing when you visit a city and there is little business and it does come out of your pocket for the trip but that's a gamble in this business. I understand some trips people make are last minute but I'm sure if the effort is put to well planning and giving as much notice as possible and asking hobbyists to book ahead of your trip, that could give you a good idea if is worth your time and cost to travel (not saying all booked appointments will show but the gentlemen here on CERB are awesome). Also if one trips turns out to not be so worth it, don't let that stop you from going back as things could be very different your next visit.

Coming back to CERB after a wee respite and feeling the love. Sometimes you need to go away for a bit to realize just how good it feels at home.

Don't ever feel bad about what attracts you. Your decision to pursue younger woman is understandable. You do ask, do younger sp's see more clients? That really depends on their reputation, goals and traits. I know of many many mature sp's who work more clients then the younger ones, because they have more experience and knowledge of the industry. The one real difference I see is that the the mature ladies are more selective in the clients we do see. I don't want to see 10 guys a day for 15 minutes each. My preference is to see 1 quality friend versus the McDonalds mentality of mass. The younger sp might not understand that yet and will book every client that contacts her. I turn down more calls then I accept. Could not be bothered dealing with some clients who seem to view me as a commodity. Meaghan xoxo

Just bought this: Sorry if it's already in here somewhere. I'm very excited for it. It's going to be a long week waiting for it to arrive...

It's as dangerous as you think. It's a lot like a client saying to an SP, "hey, can I draw some of my blood with this needle and inject it into your veins during our session? Don't worry, I'm totally clean." It's a ridiculously stupid, reckless, and insulting thing to expect. I think there are two things going on here: a) the client may genuinely feel like sex with a condom just isn't the same and he really wants the full unprotected thing (and he's a complete idiot, ignorant or for some reason indifferent to the obvious risks to health and life for both involved) b) the client wants to prove he can force his will past the woman's sensible boundaries; essentially proving "my money puts me in charge and you will deny me nothing I want". Anyone looking for this is simply insane.

myself i wont touch anything under the age of twenty and if i feel that they are under 20 I ask for id.

Incall is illegal from my understanding. Canadian law considers that maintaining a permanant residence for the purpose of prostitution. Outcall is perfectly legal. Communicating in public about arranging a meet is not legal (I believe) including talking in a car so streetwalkers are an illegal practice. On the same subject the "car-dates" that sometimes get advertised on BP or CL are illegal for those same reasons and for the public indecency charge that goes along with them. Canadian law is difficult to navigate on this subject because the laws are outdated and filled with grey areas, loopholes and as a result they're a minefield for the unwary. My advice on the whole matter to a new hobbiest would be to stay here and pick from the CERB ladies. The women (and men) here are serious about the business, enjoy what they do, are FAR less likely to have drug, disease or drama complications and will definitely leave you feeling happy, satisfied and fulfilled. Other sources of hobbying might not have quite the track record for positivity that you can find here.

Okay... ummm... Fat Bastards BBM offers ... umm... duos too, yunno. Me, Phaedrus, Lee Richards and HFX Andy are all over that duo stuff like, ummm.... well things that go kinda uncomfortably together. It's like we... ummm... have rules though. We aren't really interactive. I mean we are in the same place together but we all have separate rooms. So if you wanna like do one of us and then run down the hall and do another of us, like, that'd be cool. We could even run three-os or even four-os if ya want, but that's quite a bit of running for you and Andy's room isn't on the same floor. You might wanna bring wet wipes and your own towel. Just sayin.'

So I decided to TOFTT and I was not disappointed, VIPOTG has a new girl Kaori in town and I decided to set up a date. Now to start this all off on my way over I did get notice that things were 10 min behind, not sure why but there was plenty of notice and it didn't inconvenience me so I didn't shit bricks over it. Once I arrived I was greeted by a short very pretty girl that as near as I can tell matched the photo. She was very kind and welcoming and was dressed in a tight strapless black dress, and I thought to myself, "I can't wait to get that off of her" Things started with the usual accompanied shower and I could tell right away that Kaori is an innocent personable girl, not jaded or mechanical in any way. She has a great body, perky breasts, great legs and a nice ass, a small tattoo on her lower back and another just below her waist line in front. After the shower we headed to the bedroom and she set to work kissing me all over and lightly touching her breasts all over me. There was no massage but I did not miss that one bit, in fact I prefer not having one at all so this worked out great. Before I knew it she was down between my legs looking up at me giving me a fantastic BBBJ and a surprisingly deep one at that. There was lots of eye contact and I could tell she was getting into it. Without missing a beat she reached over and had a condom in her mouth and was using it to put it on me, always impressive and enjoyable. She crawled up me and slid me inside her, and wow she was not only very ready but very tight, we started with her on top and she leaned back in my favorite position where she leans back and arches her back so I could get a great view of her perfect firm breasts bouncing as she rode me. She pulled me up so I was seated and she laid back, she really seemed to like this and she kept pulling me deeper and deeper, I am always worried with asian girls that I may be hurting them, I'm not saying I'm huge but I'm larger then average and asian girls are sometimes hard to read. So when I thought I may have been going too hard or too deep, I slowed and was about to ask if I was hurting her, but before I could ask she looked at me and with a smile and said "Don't stop, I'm about to cum!". Well that to me is like firing the starting pistol at a horse race, I was off! She started grinding her hips in sync with my thrusts and I could feel her get very wet and very tight as she grabbed me tightly and pulled me harder. Now after a short while I gave out, I guess I have to work on my cardio because I was exhausted. She said she needed some water and I did too, so we decided to take a short breather. As she stood up from the bed she nearly collapsed and she let out a little squeak as she braced herself, guess she was weak in the knees :icon_wink:. Once we had caught our breath she pulled the condom off and got me hard again with a continuation of her fantastic BBBJ and again put the condom on with her mouth. This time I wanted her from behind and she was happy to oblige, it didn't take very long to have her moaning again and she was reaching back to grab onto me again, gyrating her hips with my thrusts after a bit she got very wet and tight again guess I got the angle right again and that was enough for me I came and it felt the whole time like her insides were gripping me tighter and tighter. I flopped down on the bed next to her and she just stayed in the same position with her face on the pillow and her ass in the air, her eyes were closed and she had a big smile on her face. What makes a session for me the most enjoyable is when you know the girl enjoyed it too. There was some pillow talk after and her english isn't perfect but its good enough and she was a very personable and talkative girl. She was not a clock watcher with me and seemed to really enjoy what she does, she is very pretty and her body is fantastic. I would recommend this girl 100%, so far the best SP I have seen, the only thing I didn't like and this is something some people wouldn't even notice is the slight smell of smoke on her breath. I am not a smoker so I notice it right away but it wasn't obvious so it didn't hamper the experience. Treat this girl right and if we are lucky she will be back, and please don't treat her like a piece of meat, she knows what she likes and I felt she tried to make it enjoyable for both of us.

I like Roaming Guy cause I wish he had a boat. I picture him in his fishing outfit, looking for a boat to go out in...He always has something interesting to say! Thanks RG

Far be it for me to prick anyone's balloon, so to speak, gentlemen. Please read my tone of utmost respect and affection: When you were 18, 20 or 22, you were never even half as good in bed as you are now. Sure, back then, you could have four, five, six or more orgasms a day or night. Your problem wasn't how to get hard enough, it was how to calm down, particularly in public. You may have imagined yourself as a force of nature: you could go on and on and on without stopping. If the women you knew weren't able to climax as quickly as you did, it was a shame. Every orgasm you had was an eruptive triumph. You had them so easily and so frequently that fast and easy seemed the best way to go. Frankly, you were an exhausting, not very satisfying partner. A lot of the women your age were learning to fake orgasms so that they wouldn't feel inadequate, or so that they could say "that's enough." The ones who didn't fake it may have seemed "frigid" or that they just didn't like sex very much. And maybe they didn't if sex was going to be so much work for so little return for them. I was very lucky. In my early 20s, I discovered men who were in their 40s. For years after that they were the only men I slept with. They could have a couple of orgasms a night and they had enormous self-control. They would take their time. They'd learned about seduction and sensuality. They often seemed able to reach inside me, metaphorically and physically, until in the same, bright moment, something deep in my being shimmered, opened wide, melted and shattered, over and over again. Those men have become better and better lovers as time has passed. Good sex often takes longer, but it's also more powerful and more meaningful, too. One orgasm. Sometimes two. On rare occasions, when well-rested and with the stars in proper alignment, there might be three in a long night. But the number of climaxes isn't the issue. What matters now is the feeling of completeness, the depth of engagement. A lot of that happens with cuddling, slow caresses, extended foreplay and exquisite games, textures and sensations that bring us closer together and make things last longer. I prefer to entertain gentlemen over the age of 50 or 55. It's unusual for me to see someone under 40. I refuse to meet anyone in their 20s. Younger men may be fine human beings but most haven't yet taken time to know themselves, their own or women's bodies. Sex becomes predictable and, frankly, I bore easily. So this is in praise of older men. With or without Viagra, no matter how predictably their bodies behave, while their sexual peak is long past, their prime endures.

Around the world in sixty days. After visiting New Zealand, Australia and the Emirates I arrived home this afternoon and it's going to be good sleeping in my own bed tonight.

Some may think my statement harsh but if you know you are dealing with a 16 yr old you deserve prosecution, thats a child. In my opinion 18 is to young, but thats just me. I know in Canada you are considered an adult at 18 but that is still a teenager, so is 19 . It is alot to expect teens to deal with adults in their 30's,40's, 50's and beyond. Although I realize everyone matures differently I can only think back when I was a teen and I know I wasn't an exception to how immature and unprepared they can be.

I think the ladies who last longer in this business are people who are sexually comfortable with themselves and while it's a lucrative business, I'm a firm believer in the fact that if you don't like what you're doing for a living then don't do it. I don't do anything I don't want to do and yes, while --some-- do it for the cash, they are usually in and out of this business fairly quickly. I treat this like a business but at the same rate, many ladies provide good service and are not revolving door when it comes to seeing clients. As for women enjoying sex with less partners, then please explain why married men come to see us? Some wives simply no longer enjoy having sex so that puts that theory right out the window. For the record, I'm not judging married men for doing that as that's what we are here for. In fact, I believe SPs do in fact save many marriages.

Has it occurred to you that some people who have many partners may do so because they enjoy the sex?

Yup ... you are back with a vengeance !! You were indeed missed ! Time to put the signs back up !

Both Madison and Berlin are wonderful choices!

Thank you for your input both of you are lovely ladies. I do find all the same things you have mentioned with younger groups, the higher expectations etc, and not just girls as SP, but in general. After much thought I think my tastes are more youthful appearance and that type. I've really not had much attraction to ladies who are typical drop dead gorgeous types in magazines and the like. I do love all woman and enjoy all woman but I have a real weak spot for Red heads it seems.

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Labels never work. We are attracted to those who attact us. Sex and chemistry are truly physical. Emotions are a whole different ballgame. Sometimes we do something we regret, other times we regret what we didn't do. The moment people stop labelling sexual practices as our identity of who we are, we will be a much better society. Meaghan xoxo

Drive a truck all my life and no one calls me a trucker. But suck one little cock...

The thing is, while we get requests for lots of make-up from time to time, most of the time, we simply can't get away with wearing that much make-up on the job. Make-up like that doesn't look as good from a couple inches away as it does from ten feet or more away. And there's no amount of translucent powder that could fix it in place through some festivities. It's just not practical!

I agree totally, especially about the incall location. I accepted an appointment at an SP's incall location once and I tend to avoid doing that overall. Aside from the problems people have reported, like getting robbed when they show up, it also puts the SP on that legally shaky ground of being accused of opperating a bawdy house. I prefer to host even if I pay a higher premium. It not only protects me, but it protects the SP too and as a responsible hobbiest, I feel it's the least I can do for the ladies I see.

I was away in New Zealand for the Valentines social and when I got back today and saw you were planning one in May I put it down in my calendar right away, count om me being there for this one.

very well said Samantha !!!

Well was able to take some time off work this afternoon. Went to Barbs mainly to see Kitty and celebrate this first day of spring. Well unfortunately Kitty was not there. Unfortunately I don't think I would be able to make it to Barbs anything soon to see her. To make it worse none of the usual Barbs stars were there either (maybe they left work to celebrate spring too:)). A rare not so exciting day for Barbs today in terms of quality even quantity. I counted 10 customers during free buffet time and down to a few when I left at 2:30. Now back to work for me to make up for lost time. Btw, there was a sexy young tall cute ebony lady there for those who love ebony ladies. I think her name was Cherry or something.

I can relate as well Sophia. This business will always come with negotiators or with price comparisons. It's such a complete turn off that gets deleted immediately from my email. Rather than responding, I throw them in my my junk mail to feel so much better. lol. I've received a few that are either humorous or annoying. There's many variations to the bargainer. My personal favorite is XYZ gave me this rate, and if you can match it I will promise to become your regular. My question is why aren't you XYZ's regular then? I find in my experience, a repeat client will pay my rate and repeat without telling me before we have met, and does not negotiate in introductions. There's so many variables to the bargaining that it's not worth a second thought. There's plenty of gentleman that make up for these few unsavory participants. The rest may continue on in their merry search for the almighty and bargain basement HJ.... ;)

I like that!!!! Tell ya what, if you tell me where you bought it, I will give you the lingerie and keep the pretty blonde lady that it was wrapping!!! Cuz you already have a pretty blonde lady that yours was wrapping and you are a pretty blonde lady that will need lingerie and frankly the lingerie is great but I have no need for it but I am interested in the lady that it came wrapped around and she will need a friend because she was callously sold as part of a package deal with fancy underwear and she will be crying and in need of a shoulder to cry on, and I will get to keep her and I will name her something pretty like Violet or Daisy or Rose cuz those are the names of flowers and flowers are pretty and she is a pretty lady that needs a pretty name and she can sleep with me and call me Puppy or Cuddly puppy or something like that and we will fall in love and get married and have babies named Rex and Lisa. Sooooooo... whaddya think?

I like Lee because he's funny as hell too. Not to mention a much respected member of this community RG

While there are 2 sides to every story, I think you may only be hearing 1. It is great to understand you wish to back an SP whom you think highly for. We are all responsible for the reactions from our actions and maybe you need to ask Aubrey what she did, as you don't get removed from the board for just any little thing. Obviously there is more to this story than she is letting on to you, so before you snap on the mod and get a vacation yourself, maybe you need to do some research.

Well I see the other Fatter Bastards are keeping you up to date on what is shaking during the winter months. It is true that Brother Lee was able to attend a meeting a week ago at the FB BBM head office in the village of Ottawa. This was good because it has no bathroom windows for Old Dog to blow out but strange....I believe it has a toilet out of an airplane in it ???? oh well..... Anywhooooooo....... As OD, Phaedrus and I were standing there looking around at boobies with our orange reading glasses on thinking that they didn't actually notice us staring ...... we reluctantly decided we should have an annual meeting. So Phaedrus being all suave and debonair with his accent and the fact he was about 2 feet taller than me persuaded me to be the secretary and read the minutes from last meeting.... allrighty then...I looked at OD in disapproval and he growled...allrighty then ! Good thing I took the Evelyn Woodhead Speed Reading course awhile back Also FYI ...... I took a typing speed test recently online and I did well..... I could type 1 words per minute with only 1 mistake :) Took me a week to get this report done but here it is. So Minutes from last meeting taken by Andy .... my guess is he had his secretary with him last year cause his minutes were hard to read.... I managed though to read between the b...... lines ! Attendence.... Can't remember ...boobs.....and I was drunk Old business Bigger beer fridge needed Need more toilet seats for the horseshoe game Need more duct tape for Sissy's birth control protection Need more dynamite for our fishing derby this year Turns out Bud Light didn't sponsor Redneck Olympics Apparently tequila makes OD's pants fall down...no more ! BEER & PEE BREAK ! Treasurer's Report Tobacco can - #1 - $5 Tobacco can - #2 $50 in IOU's Investments - Jason Spezza rookie card -undetermined New Business Need more beer for larger beer fridge We now need more toilet seats for the outhouses so we discussed bathroom renovations...... Overbudget so why discuss new business anymore ?? BEER & PEE BREAK ! Sickness & Distress Old Dog has blue balls ... motion passed to get him a sexy blow up doll named Allotta .....extra heavy skin and durable so it doesn't blow up when he pricks it.... Meeting adjourned at ........... hmmm guess I was too drunk to see the clock ! We then retired to the lounging area with our drool bibs on for an evening of fellowship and friendship with the lovely guests in attendance. It was low key and playful.... Thanks to our gracious host and greeter at the door.....

Happy Birthday to You. Hope you had a great day. And hope you have a better week ahead for you :)

I too am surprised to see this thread yet again. Like all cities in the Maritime except HRM, Saint John is not a metropolis. It is an industrial city. Its population is eclectic with a variety of income levels. The economy is what it is, not as strong as it could be but coming along. Like any city there are some who can't afford to play no matter what the economy. I have been on Cerb over 4 years. I have tons of fun. All of it has been in SJ. I always plan ahead and book well in advance I have never been a no-show and only once had to cancel unavoidably. Like any market of any service in any city, the market is only so big. There is a saturation point. This week and weekend I quickly counted 4 CERB visiting ladies advertising they are in SJ. There are also the local ladies.. Is it really so hard to figure? Who needs to do more planning?

From the Client's Perceptive, Ladies, your running a business and clearly, there is a demand for your services. Please consider me as one of many examples. I do enjoy the services you provide however your services are not limited to pant's off to pant's on. Granted, that's the fun part. I appreciate the following skills, 1.The ability to schedule, don't throw an ad on the last page and wait for my call. You'll be too busy with the drunken sailor. 2. The ability to pick a quality location / hotel. I can blend in an upscale lobby in business attire but I can't stand outside knocking on your door looking over my shoulder. 3. The ability to keep me informed of your travel schedule. When our schedules meet up, It's great to know in advance and allows me to book in advance and gives me something to look forward to. 4. The ability to know your strengths. One example may be that most SP's are not great photographers. An i phone and a mirror is not considered a professional photo shoot. Post a professional photo and the quality of calls will come. 5. Work your regular clients. Trust is not something initially purchased however is something I will gladly pay for again and again. I pay for it in dollars, time and miles to see one of my regular SP's. Well, that's it from my perceptive. Anyone providing these skills gets my attention and my dollars. Speaking of which, thanks to a quality provider sending me an email two weeks ago, including a professional photo, advising me that she will be in town at a quality hotel.....I had the most wonderful lunch date today. Just my thoughts.

zxc456, pay careful heed to what Cat says. I would never work from a room in a motel because their security systems are negligible at best. My visitors and I deserve the far greater privacy and safety which are guaranteed in the finest hotels. As for blackmail, the men I entertain are not fools. I always know and have verified my guests' identities and they always know that their privacy is sacrosanct as long as I'm safe. In our shadowy world, we look out for each other and will go to great lengths to help one another be safe. No one keeps secrets as well as we do, provided that those who need secrecy are honest. But the questions you ask and the ways that you frame them are so unlike anything I've been asked by dozens of young women who were considering joining our profession that I'm finding it difficult to believe that you're one of them.

I have had the honor of an encounter with the lovely Miss Sophia and I will say if all you are looking for is a HJ, go buy yourself a magazine and give yourself one. If you want to be pampered and treated royally and made to feel wonderful, give Miss Sophia what she asks for and enjoy the experience. She has the looks, body and moves you will want more of, she is experienced, knowledgeable and very good at what she does, you will leave happy, satisfied and relaxed - in more ways than one. (in fact, it's damn near time I saw her again!) remember, it's the journey not just the destination. I know some people who will tie you up, blindfold you and give you pleasures beyond belief, all the while you are thinking you are getting the best BJ or ride of your life, and they use nothing more than their hands. there is nothing any more erotic than ones own imagination, step out of the tiny box you are living in and experience life's offerings! namaste

I have said this all before too!! What sucks is that most get upset with you when trying to explain that their remark is out of line! LOL...I cant understand what would make someone in this trade/hobby to go bareback??? Like you are not worried yourself?? hahah

I have had some experience with those that dont seem to understand that each woman is unique and what works with one wont work with another. Anyone who goes at the same breakneck speed and does not change their tempo or position will wear the kitty out. I find that after I have had several orgasms, and the big O, kitty is not interested in anymore penetration. She dries up and no amount of lube will make it enjoyable anymore, and actually hurts. After this happens, its game over for a few days till kitty is recovered. I understand wanting to get your moneys worth. You work hard for your money and want to make sure that at the end of the session, you are fully satisfied. Just remember the kitty is not meant for extended penetration. The porns make it look like this is how it is supposed to be, but in reality, my best O's have been with everything else, then some penetration - maybe the maximum of 15 minutes of penetration. And remember, who needs a 12 inch cock when we have a 6 inch pussy? I still remember a client who would pound away for 55 minutes. No foreplay, just a jack hammer while I grit my teeth. Needless to say, I would not book him after a couple of sessions and no amount of explanation would get him to understand that all he needed was a hole in the wall. After you have had great lovemaking, its kinda hard to go with this type of mentality that we are just an object for their pleasure and that they paid for 60 minutes to fuck me.

I am available for duos with Evelyne Lemay http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=39297 Vanessa Vale http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=28848 A male partner (no male-male interaction)