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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-vgtuC3Zg4&feature=endscreen if you see someone, anyone abusing, cruelly teasing an animal please stop them, educate them, make them understand it's wrong, and that having compassion is our most admirable quality as a human being, without it we are nothing, empty!

My Dad and I are very very close. Always have been. 3 days ago my dad was told he has a brain tumor. He and I discussed at great length yesterday....cancelled a little go for a drive getaway the two of us....for now....he is at peace about it, moving forward and will do what needs to be done. Soooo reason for my post. A very good friend of mine hadn't talked to his Dad for several years. Silly the reason why...IMO.....I called up my friend last night and told him about my Dad. I asked him...."So Mark. Do you want to get this news about your Dad someday, realizing he only may have a short time to live, knowing that you two aren't at peace? Forgiveness buddy forgiveness " He hung up on me. Mark's mother phoned me not long ago today crying and said "Thankyou....I don't know what you said to Mark but he is here and they are hugging...Thankyou Thankyou" Made my day :)

Hi Ladies Since the shoulder will not let me play this year, thought I would offer my services(for free). For the last four years I have been a one handicap, when younger I went to university of New Mexico on a golf scholarship, and was an assistant pro for four years teaching in southern Ontario. So if you are just starting out, or someone who wants to hone their game, let me know! There should be a league for the Ladies to have some fun!

My theory is if they cannot follow my instructions at the beginning, they will not follow my instructions when we are together. There are some things I will never provide, no matter how much money is involved. They will try to get me to do something I am not comfortable with, and it ends badly. If they can't respect my wishes on how to contact me, then I do not want to see them. End of story. Thanks for everyones input. Well said and very clear.

Let's not forget how humans also are cruel to their own kind! There are about 7 billion people on this planet and only about 500 million have what we would consider a high standard of living. So, if a human grows up not getting affection, or love then he/she will take out their frustrations and anger on others and animals.

Thank you Cristy for this link. It reminds us that there are so many animals out there that just need a break. I have an ugly cat here too. He looks like he is 100 years old, walks like he is 100 years old and is skin and bones. I took him to the vet for a consultation - not sure if euthanasia was needed, as I hate seeing cats suffer. Well it turns out, he is actually sorta healty. So I neutered him, treated him for parasites and fleas. They even went out of their way to clean him up, got rid of the burdocs that were so deep in his fur. Brushed him and sent him back to me. He was never a pushy cat, just patiently sat on my deck waiting for dinner. He now lives in my home and has adjusted well. I know he is not adoptable. I will never pass a cat on to someone I am not sure of his health issues. He might have thyroid problems, so one day when I have some extra cash, I will get some blood work done for him. For now, he is slowly gaining weight, his fur is much better. He loves being cuddled and brushed. I will always confront those that abuse animals. I have a neighbor that throws rocks at the cats around our place even though she has 3 cats herself. She knows I run a rescue. Her kids of course do the same thing. So, I started taking them with me when I went to feed the cats. They didn't understand why I was feeding so many cats. I explained to them these were stray cats that did not have a home. They didn't have anyone to feed them and take care of them. That they slept outside all the time, even in the winter and bad weather. They tried throwing rocks once while at my place and I told them in no uncertain terms that they were not allowed to treat the cats this way on my property. I even took it a step forward and explained that it upsets me when they do this to ANY cat or dog. I don't think they have ever had someone talk to them like an adult (of course in kids vocabulary) and explain this. Weather or not they ever get it, I think that by introducing them to a moral lesson that all animals deserve respect and it is their responsibility to threat animals the same way they want to be treated.

My advice is STAY AWAY, this lady and a few others have been pulling this pay in full via - transfer for weeks now in NB and NS. You send the money, they accept and then when you call for confirmation they tell you they never received the money. A deposit for an encounter with an established lady - sure 100%. for an unknown on CL and BP only i'd run and not look back. The fact she wants FULL payment in advance and not just a deposit screams scam. Ive toured for 3yrs, and ask for a deposit when needed, I would NEVER ask to be paid in full prior unless you were a chronic no show. Id be VERY careful with this one.

I hate to sound like I'm beating a dead horse here. I've never seen Roxanne and have no particular ill will towards her. But I'm 99% certain that even without having met her that those pics are not her. Maybe they are close, but they are not her. How can I be so sure? Well, the first sign of trouble, without even searching anything is the watermark on one of the pictures; Bransilav | Josifovic photography. Now this doesn't immediately mean that its fake. A lot of girls will have professional photos done. But a simple Google image search will answer that question definitively for you right away. The first result in putting that image through the search engine is a video of the actual photo shoot. The model's name is Milica Vidosavljevic. Now I say 99% because, who knows, maybe Milica has retired from professional modeling to come jerk off guys in Moncton... but I doubt it. The other picture seems to have done the rounds in a bunch of dieting and thinness blogs and tumblr accounts (which are terrifying by the way). Again, I'd like to repeat. I have nothing against her, from what's been reported here she sounds rather attractive. I might have been interested in seeing her myself, but as soon as someone posts a fake photo I completely lose interest and I feel its important that any hobbyist who goes to see her understands what to expect (or rather what not to expect in this case). If anyone does see her in the future feel free to show her this and ask her to post real pics next time. If she starts posting real pictures she might start attracting a more informed clientele and I'd like to think that usually that's better for everyone involved.

I volunteer at a local animal shelter and won't go into some of the atrocities I have encountered. It is truly heart breaking to know that anyone could be so cruel and/or uncaring! Last year I found two baby bunnies desperately swimming for their lives in my pool. My neighbor said to let them drown. Instead I displaced my rats (into a ventilated cardboard box) so the bunnies could recover from their trauma in a comfy cage. His reaction was appalling to me! Thanks for sharing that video Christy!

I want to explain to you all how rate structure works at Miss Sophia V's, as I am a very different kind of agency and there may be confusion on rates. I have given the ladies the power to determine their own rates, as long as it does not go below what I have already in place. As I feel it is important that they choose their own rates that they are comfortable with. I would not want any lady to feel like they are being used, or not worth their value that they have set in thier own right. I do not run a sweatshop, lol.. also I feel that this makes a better compaion for you the hobbyiest, as if the lady was feeling like she was not getting her deserved rate, then she may feel the need to rush threw the session so that she can have more come to visit her to make up for the loss she may feel. So when you see another lady joining me, it is best to ask what HER rate is, as the other girl's rates or mine could be very different. I give each lady the courtesy to choose what service they prefer to take part in, massage or GFE and the rates they are comfortable with. Their rates in no way effect how much they donate to me. Hope this clears things up for you? As I said, I have a different kind of business model that many may not be accustomed to here. Any other questions, feel free to PM me:) Thanks!

Oh my sweetest Cristy I admire your love and compassion of all animals, I feel the same as you when it comes to their safety, but! I don't think I would be as patient to try to educate the abuser... I would personally show them the same pain they have caused a helpless animal.

I like my coffee strong with two sugar and lots of cream. I'm not particularly stuck on a special brand as long as it's strong. I like my tea with Georgiana Sweet!

I like my coffee like my women, hot and black.lol I enjoy my one medium cup of french vanilla a day, usually early in the morning. Night time I might take a sleepytime tea.

2 milks, one sugar. or if I get fancy at Starbucks...a tazo chai latte, skin milk, no water, no foam, extra hot

Strong and black... Peace MG

Should have learned the first time....Tried Sexy Japanese some time ago, was a bait and switch, gave them a second chance yesterday...THERE WONT BE A THIRD TIME....PHONEY PICS AGAIN...SILLY ME

My favorite for coffee is with a shot of Bailey's Caramel. SO delicious. When it comes to tea, I LOVE Stash teas and they have some amazing flavors like mint chocolate, Christmas Morning and Pumpkin Spice. When not stocked or fancy...triple triple!

This one looks like it would be interesting for men. Soloflesh http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLV1R_j_gvk Of course for us ladies, dildos and vibrators are always fun. Never a fan of strap ons though. I always thought that if mens penis' were on their hand, it would work so much better. They could lick us and fuck us at the same time. Paradise. I did send out my SO once to get a new charger for my fav vibrator. I had burned it out, and wanted a new one. So, off my SO went to the walmart to get one. Mind you my SO was very shy, and finally got up enough nerve to ask for someone to help find one. The clerk asked what the charger was for, and after being asked repeatedly, stated it was for a vibrator. The clerk was shocked, but the old guy standing behind said without missing a beat, "try Canadian Tire".

Just stumbled across a fantastic blogpost from Down Under. Guys.... you should read this. And thanks to Lara for writing it, and giving her kind permission for me to share it.

I'm so getting this kit:

My best friend's wife, a 4 time cancer survivor, received the news today that the cancer has re-appeared. 4-6 months is what she can expect. My devastation is exceeded only by theirs.

To dump on one of the best SP in the business is totally wrong! Soleil is kind, caring and is willing to drive 8 hours to see someone with a disability and you Joe are playing your race card. Your wrong as a person because you need to sell yourself as a gentleman with good manners. Most if not all SP expect good manners and behavior from the men they see so just lighten up. You do owe Soleil an apology!

Not to hijack the thread but Cristy brings up a very important point. Many of the gents posting here have indicated that the ladies pleasure is very important and I applaud that, however women ARE all "tuned" different. That's an important thing to realize when a client is putting all that pressure on himself to try to please the lady. Specifically when the end game is the lady having an orgasm. What works physically for one will not work for another. Some ladies a blessed with the ability to orgasm even at the slightest stimulation while others can take considerable time to get there. As we should be all aware achieving enjoyment through sexual contact is to a large degree a mental thing. As much as we clients would like to think that our sexual prowess is enough to compensate for our physical attributes and sex appeal and take a lady over the edge usually this is not the case. This is not to say that that the lady may not enjoy the time we spend sensually exploring her and allowing her to explore us. As much as I (and others here) would like to believe otherwise, I am not a sexy man or a lover extraordinaire. I'm a realist, with me if I don't take the time to connect with the SP on some type of emotional level first it's unlikely that I'm going to be able to make her orgasm from my physical attributes and abilities alone. (LOL, I realise that this comment may not result in SP's lining up to spend time with me) Personal story. My wife loves sex and is a sexual person, however in her younger years as much as I tried my wife took a long time to orgasm with a lot of foreplay (seriously like over an hour for sure). As someone who gained a lot of his own pleasure from her pleasure this was very frustrating for me and resulted in feelings of inadequacy. As a result I seriously studied everything I could get my hands on regarding sexual arousal and techniques to try to make myself better. However dispite the fact that she was eager, the speed at which I could make her orgasm never improved. So as a result, a love making session would often take a couple of hours. (Jump forward a few years) we have a baby. The first time we had sex after that she had multiple orgasms in like less than five minutes however my techniques had not changed. Ever since she is very orgasmic and gets there with very little stimulation at all even just rubbing her mons and holding her against me tight cam make her cum. We don't know what happened but something changed. My feelings of inadequacy vanished and I felt like a stud. Enter SP's, and I'm back to having to work at it again. Moral of story, every lady is different and might even change over time in her ability to orgasm so don't focus on the destination focus on the journey. Orgasms (male or female) are great but fleeting, connection on an emotional level tends to last and hang with you and IMHO is the most important. Have fun everyone and never suppress your enjoyment of each other.

I think, in this case, only 2 opinions matter: Yours and the guy you are trying to be with. Sure, it would be nice to hear other people's views, but keep in mind their opinions ultimately mean nothing.

Very well said Soleil. Although I 99% of the time ignore texts, & the reason for it is because of their approach. U available, or where you located. Not a single hello or an introduction. Eventually what I see having happened here was him getting a lot of pm's wondering who this apparent racist SP is. You asking him to tell him a bit more about himself is far from being racist. He seems to be quite hung up on his race & unfortunately he thinks that the ladies will decline him an appointment due to it. That won't be the reason to decline the appointment, his attitude & how he treated you when you'd like to know a bit more about someone that you are providing your body & time to. Wow Joe is all I can say. The majority of the ladies I know would have ignored your text altogether, zero response. Soleil was nice & patient enough to respond then you play a blame game with her. She is a very sweet & kind hearted woman, who probably doesn't have a single racist bone in her body.

Empty, several antidepressants are notorious for making orgasms more difficult to achieve. For people who have trouble with premature ejaculation, this can be a good thing because it helps them regain control over their response. But for others, like you, who find that orgasms are simply impossible, there are alternative medications that may not have the same side effect. Did you discuss this problem with your doctor? I recognize that some men feel very uncomfortable talking about sex and their erectile function with their doctor, but I want to assure all of you that your doctor hears about these problems several times a day, or more. Your doctor should not be unkind, harsh or judgmental with you if you talk about a sexual matter. If he or she is, they're the problem, not you. Find another doctor! Problems with sexual function are not trivial in the least. Our culture is puritanical and encourages us to feel that we shouldn't want sex very much, that there's something to be ashamed of when we we want it, and that there's something virtuous about not having sex. These are moral judgments, though, not medical ones. If you're having sexual function difficulties, you may be having vascular or neurological problems. The veins, arteries and nerve endings in our genitals are very fine and very sensitive, especially in comparison to those in, say, our arms or legs. When they aren't functioning properly, that can be one of the early signs of a growing, significant health problem such as heart disease, diabetes or circulatory disease. If the problem is due to a drug side effect, it's still serious because it may lead to a general deadening of sensation if it goes on for very long. It is unfortunately true that what we don't use we may lose! If you find that you've enjoyed sex for a long time but you don't enjoy it or want it now, please also consider that as a sign of a significant change. Men, in particular, should feel a need to have ejaculations regularly, all their lives. It's a biological requirement for the production of healthy sperm. Please take your body seriously. Pay attention to significant changes. Don't diagnose yourself--"I'm getting older," or "this always happens after menopause"--because the chances are that you're wrong! It is normal for human beings to have healthy, satisfying sex for our entire lives, including in our 80s and 90s.

Beauty is certainly complicated, misunderstood and always criticized. It's funny how we are all trained somehow by our outward appearence as to how we perceive the world, others, how we cope with emotions, acceptance, how we judge-if we judge.Good looking people will realize their looks will open doors, average looking people will soon realize they have to be charming, witty, intelligent to open doors and those with intelligence will realize they can open their own doors. Our looks can be a blessing, a curse, certainly they are our first impression and sometimes the last. Lucky are those who have it all, looks, personality, intelligence and wit. But really what is more important? Well I suppose that depends on you. If you go to a bar the best looking girl will be the success there, in university, intelligence would be the important trait as well as personality. Although I'm sure looks will get some extra credits. If you walk into a crowded restuarant without a reservation, looks my win there as well and get you in. Walk into an upscale clothing store, looks will win out there as well. Applying for a new job, yes your credintials, experience will be the importan factors, lets hope, but depending on whos hiring, looks may win out there too. Yes our veneers are fleeting and short lived but certainly important to many. We are trained early on that anything "pretty" is better, nicer, the thing to be. It takes time, living, before most of us realize the shallowness of that. That personality, character and wit go alot further and are far more entertaining than just a glossy exterior.As someone who has never been attracted to goodlooks I still realize their importance and strengths. Lets face it we live in a shallow world, most are seeking beauty in one way or another. They either want it or to be around it so it is nice to see threads like this reminding us that there are some who see beyond it and do realize there is more to a person than their outer shell, especially here.

A perfect topic fir an early morning..., is a very simple and every day question but we all have a different taste.... How do you like your coffee or what do you put in it! And fir those that dont drink coffee how about your tea? I ll start! Lets say i am going through a timmis drive thru I will take Large coffee with 1/4 French Vainilla... Even at home i put french vainilla cream on my coffee and a hint of cinamon... Now you know if u ever come and visit and want to bring coffee lol

Did you know you can create a link to a specific part of a YouTube video? All you have to do is advance to the part of the video you want the link to go to, right click, and select "copy video URL at current time".

I would have to agree with capslock. Amber Wyld is a great choice. She has some amazing skills. Some others that stick out for me are MsManda and Serina Saint. All three are excellent choices IMHO.

Ok then between you and I we have a plan, you educate all animal abusers to become more respectful and caring to all animals and I will take care of the ones that laugh at your efforts..

If people only knew how we mistreat animals in so many ways. Medical research, food industry, cosmetic industry, killing of rhinos for their horns, sharks for their fins, seals for fur and so on. My friends often says Im a cynic. So be it. humans are terrible to animals and their environment. My hope is with education and the internet which we didn't have when I was growing up, people will learn to care more for people, animals and the earth. There is a great line in Jurassic Park by Jeff Goldbloom. "Your scientists were so caught up in the fact the could, they never stopped to consider if they should" (may not be exact lol)

About 20 yrs. ago I had a friend who was complaining that she couldn't stop her daughter from dragging their dog around by his hind leg...so I asked permission to try something that might work. When I got the OK I grabbed the girl by her leg & proceeded to drag her around...after some time I asked the little girl how she liked it & of course she didn't...she never did it to the dog again. Moral of the story... Do on to others as you would like done on to you...including animals!!!! Thanks Cristy...hope I get to meet you some day!

Every morning I grind my beans (not that columbian stuff, but some less acidic indonesian beans) and make a pot which I drink black. On the rare occasions I feel like having flavored coffee, I like to put in a shot of Tripple Sec.

Have A great one!! Big Birthday Hugs and Kisses, Lexy

I like coffee and tea, but I don't get the reason why tims is so revered, I don't find it that good. However it is convenient so when I do get one it's a small, with milk and 1/2 a sugar. My tea is usually green or another herbal choice. :)

Not very creative with my drinks. Coffee (gotta be Timmies, nothing else) - large, 3 creams, 2 sugars. Tea (only at home - never at a restaurant, they never make it right). Black tea only (no flavoured teas), 2 tea bags, left to sit until it is strong. a hint of sugar and milk. Better get my tea, it has been steeping for 15 minutes now.

A quiet dinner for two... Not a fan of crowdy places.... Romain letuce or Iceberg letuce (I am running out of things to compare lol)

Did you know that the IBM company back in the seventies didn't think there was a market for computers in homes?

:-D The company in Montreal... do you mean Moxy Maus? I wear their socks all the time! (It's hard to find actual --socks-- that aren't borring when you're a gal with sizeable feet -- I'm SO glad they exist!) I also love the stuff I can get from Sock Dreams - FINALLY actual socks that come up well over my knees. :-D I'll post a pick of me in my black and purple stripes, when I have a chance to take one. ;-) - Tess.

Why does it always feel so much better when someone does it for you, than when you do it yourself?? :) One of the great existential questions!! :)

I do believe i'll invest in an attack gnome, while still relying on my .357 magnum revolver for protection.

I believe it is time to add and revisit this thread. It is packed full of great information and with all the new members joining, I think it's a great idea to revive this thread.

Good to know, and happy you had a positive experience! And yes, fake pic's does not necessarily mean bad service. HOWEVER, most of time fake photo's are an indication or a red flag that this person could be dishonest in other ways as well. Many of our beloved hobbyist have been fooled and put in harm's way and so we tend to be extra cautious when it comes to dishonesty. It is simply wrong no matter the reason to use fake pic's( especially when is stolen pic's) and I hope for her reputation sake that she learns the importance honesty and sincerity.

in reaction to the original post where any girl with a camera and lingerie and an internet connection thinks she can be an SP, I also hear a lot of girls say things like "hmmm I could do that, I love sex" to me thats sorta like saying "I like pizza, i think I have what it takes to open a Pizzeria" just beacuse you are comfortable serving or consuming what you're selling doesnt mean you have the slightest clue on what it takes to run that business, advertise that business, and help it flourish. And I like to remind clients that the "sex part" is only about 10% of what our job entails. you could be great in bed, but have terrible business skills, poor people skills and an unwillingness to learn from your or others' mistakes that in the end could ruin your business.

The difficulty with unwritten rules, as they say, is that they are unwritten. It takes a little while for newcomers to become aware of the norms, and that's through no fault of their own. That IS a reason, however, that conversations like this one are so useful. Otherwise, I echo FredSmith's observation. You can easily buy a phone for well under $100 and for another $100 buy enough minutes on a prepaid card to last a long time. With the added plus that you never have to give any identifying information to anyone, you will have guaranteed that you will get no texts or calls on a phone that will ever be accessible to anyone else. It's worth it simply for never having to have wonder again whether this is or isn't a good moment to text, whether you should or shouldn't send your number, and so on.

This thread highlights why I'm not a big fan of texting. First of all, a text isn't conducive to a proper introduction or "get-to-know each other" exchange. In a moment of weakness some weeks ago, I exchanged texts with a lady. We weren't able to connect, but a few weeks later, on a weekend, I got a random text, including a picture, to see if I was interested/available. Thankfully I saw it right away and was able to delete it, but it could have lead to big problems! So I think it's safe to say that I'll be sticking to PMs, email and phone calls now!

I mean, I think it comes down to different strokes for different folks, really (pun definitely intended). I also prefer a longer session, but lots of people are looking for a quick lunch break or some stress relief, and if everyone involved in that encounter is happy with it, then I don't see it as a problem at all. Plus, i definitely see the allure of a quickie sometimes, and the fantasy of meeting someone sneakily between meetings or appointments for a quick and intense session of great sex seems really hot...

I started this thread and have read some very interesting comments. If I needed a shower I would never go see any lady here without one first. That would be disrepectful. I also would never negotiate with any lady here and have added money to the fees when it was extra special to me. The 15 minute thing does 2 things for me. 1. it is that fantasy streak out of work, get relaxed and streak back in, trying not to get caught. I find that hot as hell. 2. It allows me to meet a new person and get a quick reference for me and them. Can I connect with this person later and for a longer period, etc. As far as taking a long time, the fantasy has me going before I arrive and it takes 5 minutes for me to complete. I am not long winded so to speak. A woman with any skill could have me off in 30 seconds. I find the whole time, I am trying to control the urge to release.

RG, you're not an average client. Most of the men who see companions are married. As for retired men, they're often very forthcoming about who they are. I appreciate your concern for discretion. It's valid enough. I'm sure you can find a companion who will be happy to see you. However, I'll say again, as I have many times before, regardless of the client's concerns about his privacy, he is never at as great a risk as the paid companion. We are always the ones who are in danger not only of being identified, but of being injured or worse. The greatest risk is to the companion, always. Men who can't appreciate this simple fact, or who consider themselves to be more important or valuable than the women they want to meet simply do not make good clients, regardless of how nice they are or how much money they have. We know that, the moment there's any problem at all--a fire, an earthquake, the bomb squad needs to clear the hotel, etc.--that client will have not a moment's care for the companion and may even act to further compromise or endanger her if he thinks it will help him cover his tracks. If a companion wants certain information from a prospective client, she has every right to try to get it. If she succeeds, good for her. If she finds that she can't get what she needs, she may have to reconsider her screening strategy. By and large, however, there are many, many men who are more than willing to do all we ask so that we can have peace of mind and know that we are safe.