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I think it is not so much the age as it is the experience in the industry. The real young (teenagers) do not have as much experience as a SP who has been in the industry for a few years. I don't necessarily go for the SP's that are in their lower 20's rarely in their teens (I don't remember the last teen if at all). If they are in their lower 20's I prefer to see SP's that have been in the industry for a significant period of time. Those are girls that have seen all kinds of clients and are used to the variety. There is nothing worse than to see your SP cringe at first glance where you know they are thinking " I can't believe I have to have sex with this guy". That kind of look to me is the ultimate contraceptive. I suppose this has to do with the maturity of the SP. If the SP has a few years under their belt, I have a sense that they are comfortable in the industry. If they are comfortable in the industry, I feel they have the attitude that age, race, appearance etc. does not matter to them. They appear to embrace the job no matter who the client is because they have seen it before and they know what to expect. If my age does not appear to be an issue to the SP, then I expect that the session will go well regardless of their age. The chances of booking an SP that has a comfortable attitude are greater for SP's that are just a bit older and are comfortable in the industry.

Age is but a number! Younger, older or somewhere in between, each experience is unique and brings with it excitement, joy and pleasure. To limit oneself is sad but it is a choice to be made come what may.

No need to add the just kidding, The Littlest Hobo is awesome -- Lassie has nothing on that doggie! :) I've got the theme song stuck in my head just remembering! ...maybe tomorrow, I'll wanna settle down...

Just for Laughs and Just for Laughs Gags is one of the funniest shows on TV anywhere IMHO.

If you enjoy Dexter, you might try one of the books. I'm not usually into audiobooks, but my tomatoes are coming ripe and I figured I'd download something to keep my brain engaged during the coming hours of mindless tomato processing and canning. I went with "Double Dexter." I downloaded it from my library. It's a slightly different story than the TV series. Rita is still alive, and they have a baby girl named Lily. Deb also has a baby, apparently! So if you enjoy Dexter and want more, check out your local library. You may need to apply for a library card if you don't have one, but it's all free and they have excellent interfaces for most smart phones.

A one word answer for you... scam!

Well, for me, I won't see guys younger then 18 and guys no older then 100. These are hard and set rules, and I won't sway from them. Maturity is what matters to me. Age means nothing. (However, I still id guys if they appear under the age of 21 - just to make sure).

I genuinely feel that I have an obligation to share with people about the industry as I know it and have sat in Regents shoes on many occasions. I consider it a very personal PSA Coles Notes that I willingly hand out for free. What I have learned is that I don't need to change their POV, all I need to do is put a face on it that challenges their beliefs. Meeting sex workers that don't fit the stereotype makes people reconsider what they believe to be true about the sex trade. It makes them question what they think are facts. I never take an activist stance, I'm very easy going in my delivery; avoiding the hard line presentation so they have nothing to push back against. Having them repeat their mistaken views verbally simply entrains it deeper. Instead I bring a light hearted tone to the conversation, smiling when I deliver the truths of my story. I've worked in every aspect of this industry save SWing and would do so again in a heart beat. I don't glamourize it but I also bring to light the good that I see. When they start pointing into dark corners, I simply parallel the facts with other lines of work equally as perilous and that sheds a certain inarguable light on things. Remember, you don't need to "win" the war. You just need to show them there actually isn't a war going on, simply a life as we chose it. Changing a belief starts with one seed taking root and growing. Not as quickly as we might like, it may be buried deep and take a long time to break the surface which requires patience on our part with liberal amounts of sunshine and water. Most often, they will supply the sunshine; they will reflect back on the conversation time and time again, every time allowing your essence to influence their perceptions just a little more. All you have to do is water it. Just don't over or under water, both will kill the seed before it can take root and flourish... cat

I don't watch a lot of TV but have fond memories of The Littlest Hobo and The Forest Rangers. J/K Actually Republic of Doyle as mentioned is good but haven't watched all of them. I find the CDN Pickers awful because of those 2 guys. Something about them I don't like but I do like the American version. Go figure. SCTV was a classic and watch it when I see that it's on.

There used to be this travel show that was produced in Canada. I would watch it years before I immigrated here. That and Due South. A lot of the programs on Discovery are Canadian produced. And from my understanding, same with a lot of the shows on HG TV. But even though it's not TV, there are some absolutely amazing radio shows. Under the Influence, Vinyl Cafe, and the Debaters. Some of the finest examples of quality entertainment. And it's completely Canadian!

Being at home... <3 <3 <3

Actually CERB makes me happy because it made me realize there's nothing at all wrong with this hobby and the people in it. It's simply a lifestyle choice and anybody who wants to judge us for it can go to hell.

There is a really good Network Show called Rookie Blue. Not too sure if any of the cast is canadian but the show is shot in Toronto and currently in its 4th season.

My favorite is Canadian Pickers. Not only am I a big fan of antiques but the personalities of Scott and Sheldon (the pickers) is fit for TV. Somehow, I don't see myself doing TV... I don't feel charismatic in front of a camera.

There is nothing inherently wrong with either the sps or the clients who use bp, just as there is nothing guaranteed right about either the sps or the clients who only use cerb. Savvy folks on both sides of the equation will use both, the sps have to make a living, and the clients have to have either a varied selection, or at least the illusion of selection lol. What usually baffles me are the ones, on both sides, who seem to forget that there are many of us, on both sides, who do use both, along with many other advertising options. We can't all be wrong. For me, usually the better clients come from my bp ads, less likely to ask for discounts, or half hour sessions for that matter. I'd be an idiot not to use it, if that is the result i get from it. * wow, just noticed how old this thread is lol

I agree with the first part, but not entirely with the second. You're right, any age cutoff will be somewhat arbitrary. It's the same thing about, say, the voting age, the drinking age, the driving age, or when you become criminally liable as an adult. Do some people cross those milestones at different points in their lives? Absolutely. Sticking with those numbers rigidly guarantees you'll be wrong some of the time. On the other hand, the reason those numbers get chosen for voting, drinking, etc. is because there's an expectation that, most of the time, that age roughly corresponds to a certain readiness. This evidence can itself be completely objective, even if it means there are lots of people younger than X who really are ready for Y. It's not about certainty, it's about probability. And that's why my own number of 21 works for me. I'm pretty sure that if I ever started considering younger companions of 18 or 19, that in the vast majority of cases I'd decide not to proceed once I got to know her and got a sense of her maturity level.* On the other hand, I think there would be significantly fewer such cases after 21 and almost none after 25. Picking 21, widely considered the age of "okay, now you're a complete adult and totally responsible" for other purposes, means that's the point where I'm personally comfortable with the probabilities as I understand them. (* And furthermore, there might very well be times when I'd miss a cue, choose to proceed, but find out afterward that I was wrong, which would be absolutely devastating. It's just not worth the risk to me.) At the same time, I don't judge others for choosing a lower, legal number for themselves if they're comfortable with it. After 18, it's a strictly a personal decision.

While I don't totally disagree with most of the comments posted. I do not believe that maturity or age is a factor in all this. The most determining factor is, what is your criteria. Just like some will choose a brunette over a blond, or prefer an exotic looking partner, it's a matter of personal preferences. Age might or might not be a factor to some, or might be very important to others. Two immature individual in a relationship probably won't last long but you can't live their life for them. We all have to make choices eventually and learn from them for better or for worse. I know for me, it is a factor. I don't have an upper limit but I do have a minimum. My logic behind it might seem irrational to some. But it is one those things where someone else's opinion shouldn't matter. As long as both adults are consenting, it's not my place to interfere. If the opinion of others is important to you, I would recommend you re-evaluate what it is you're looking for.

This is a fine line. Just my opinion...but if the relationship as a whole is strained and is not working....and if you have done everything to correct it without success.....then why not just end it? I can't see how cheating fixes anything (and yes, seeing SP's behind your S/O's back is cheating). It just compounds an already bad situation. Now...if the emotional relationship itself is still healthy....if there is still love and caring and fulfilment there....and if the only thing missing is the physical aspect of the relationship (be it for medical reasons, psychological reasons, etc)....then I would say that yes, seeing SP's is totally acceptable....provided that your SO is aware of it and is comfortable with it. Lastly...if you're single....or if you're in an "open", honest and non-monogamous relationship. Then hey, why the hell not?! Dive in and have fun! :D Not trying to be judgmental to anyone's own situation. These are just my own views based on my comfort level. Dishonesty of any sort makes me feel guilty...whether its related to escorts or not. But at the end of the day, when it comes to sex between two consenting adults, the only one who can decide if you should feel guilty or not is you.

Whoa, that's a lot of assumptions there. This isn't going to be a one-size-fits-all answer, as sure, some 19 year olds may lack the maturity to make such a decision, but there are also plenty of folks in their 20s, 30s, 40s, etc who may just as equally be unable or unprepared to enter into sex work. That is not our call to make, or our judgement to pass, so long as the person in question is of legal age and legally able to consent. Coersion can also happen at any age.

I am in no way passing judgement on the next person because I do believe we all have that right to live and do as we please...No one can make our decisions for us and in no way are we better than the next because we choose to do something that another person doesn't BUT in my opinion and this is for myself only I choose not to interact with gentlemen 18-25 I prefer the older gentlemen for their passion and the respect they give me as an sp provider...yes I am have seen younger than 30 and.a few were very mature and the time we spent was enjoyable...but me being a mature lady I prefer the same...we have a better connection and so much more to talk about...the sex is great either way but the older gentlemen have much more life experience xo Please No disrespect towards the younger gents just my opinion

Since you asked I'll chime in:)I feel if you are a man or woman over 20 you shouldn't be bothering with Teens, sp's or not. 18-19 is a teenager and still a child, imo. I don't care how mature they are. I had this conversation with a gent not long ago who was 60 or so and he asked what I thought of a man his age looking at an 18yr old and I said well that would make you a perv, that's my opinion! Its just not right in my mind for anyone of such a mature age to want to mingle with someone so young. Why? for many reasons, but I think I would ask the man or woman why they'd want to be with someone so young and I won't accept the excuse of youth is beauty because physically many men and women are beautiful right up into their senior years. Perhaps its a lack of maturity on the older persons side, or as I said before just a perversion I don't know but in my mind its not acceptable or right. Its different if a 60+ man goes after a 30+ woman or vice versa the maturity and life experience is there on both sides . Just how I see it.

Am I happy? Such a simple question. Hard to answer if I'm being honest with myself. It's just that for me happiness is not a state of mind, or even an outlook on life. Happiness is not a glass half full or a filter through which I view the world. For me happiness is a series of moments in a stream of reality. I'm not trying to say that sometimes I'm happy while other times I'm not. But rather I have periods of happy and periods of darkness and shadow. Happy can surprise me. Occasionally I catch myself in a moment of introspection and find happiness in the mundane. A nice sunny morning when nothing hurts or cuddling with my wife of 30 years make me happy. Meeting new friends and feeling good make me happy. But am I happy? At the moment, not so much. I have to get up for work in less than five hours, my neck is stiff and sore like it usually is and I have to pee, which I will do two or three more times before the alarm drags me from the bed in the dark of the morning. I can honestly say that I strive to be happy. I take pleasure from the little things. A good sneeze, a good shit, a good sleep are all sources of happiness. Sex makes me happy. Good sex even more. Great sex can leave me happy for days. Lately, I've been very happy. Sure there are things that bring me down: the aforementioned ache in my neck, insecurities, stress, a bad taco. But I try not to take these things personally. I try to leave the dark stuff on the side of the road and focus on those surprising things that bring light and happiness into my day. In general I have more happy moments than not. And I'll continue to strive to keep it that way.

I ve had bad and good moments in life... One thing I did learn is that the more I tried to fill up the glass the worse it was because you never get content with what you achieve... Maybe try to stop thinking so much how to get the glass full.. And just take one day at a time.. Pay less attention to the negative events and embrace the positive ones and make the best out of them! The glass will be filled!!! A few ywars ago I went through a really hard time... Even spent time at the hospital for depression... I think it was the best time for me.. Away from everything and everyone... Had time to think about just myself... Now I feel great, I am happy, may not have a" perfect" life..n but really, who does?? Or what is Perfect?? We all face problems, desicions, sadness, joy... We have to learn to accept with the good and the bad... And remember it can always be worse! Yes your mood reflects with the people around you.. I am a believer of that, it even reflects in things that can happen to you during the day... Think positive. And positive things will happen... Smile even when you don't feel like it.. Smile at everyone even if you don't know them... When you least expected you will feel always like a million bucks! And people around you will feel it.., specially your family and loved ones!

Well, you've got the link for the next social already. One other thing: Quite a few ladies have a social rate for this kind of thing (although it may be more aimed at going out than staying in), and if someone you'd like to see doesn't have a published social rate, you can always ask her if she does. If you're looking to hang out off the clock... if she asks to hang out with you, then that's great, and you'll probably have an awesome time. But if you ask her, then bear in mind that in her eyes you've probably just become yet another cheap-ass guy looking for free stuff, and she's probably got enough of those already. Once you get to know someone well it may be different, and close relationships do arise between SPs and clients... but if you try and force it then it almost certainly won't happen. I hate to be a downer on this, but it's probably wise to set your expectations realistically.

Further to Emily's post.... I hate a scripted encounter no matter the time frame! Lets just have fun and whatever happens within the allotted time frame is all good!

This is where I disagree, when a man books a GFE encounter he is booking the entire package (conversation, cuddles, intimacy and much more) No where did I say SOG was limited to one, however more than once in an hour is highly unlikely if someone wants a GFE experience that is unrushed. Telling someone MSOG's possible time permitting is not selling an act, its being honest that is just may not happen in the short time booked. No where does that statement say its not available, however like YMMV it is stating that it may or may not happen. And yes I do sell time, not a service and what happens during our agreed paid time commitment will happen as the date takes its course (its not a build your own menu for this amount of $$$$, its for time and companionship)

Ladies and gents, its now official !! The Ottawa September Social will be held Thursday, September 19th, so mark your calendar!! There will be 60 spots available (30 gents and 30 ladies) for members in good standing. Gents, tickets will be made available soon, at a cost of $35, which will cover snacks, drinks for the ladies and door prizes. I will keep everyone up to date via this thread as things progress. As it's an event organized by CERB members for members, you can contact myself, Loneskater or Spud271 directly should you have questions. Cheers!! MisterT

Lovetheladies' post gave me an idea: Why don't I have a duo with Bridgette and Ariel? So I did. Awesome women doing awesome things to each other, and once in a while to me :) A very hot erotic session with two beauties!!

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J is for jamming it all the way in!

I've been there many times as well. Sad to see Janet quit while on one of the episodes. Those tall statues were awesome, if you remember seeing the cowboy, Bruce Lee, etc. I recommend Arctic Air, great views of the north (Yellowknife I think it is), awesome insight into that community and the northern way of life as well. Rookie Blue and The Listener are based in Toronto, not Toronto pretending to be a US city. Motive and Continuum make Vancouver a major part of their shows. And of course, Real Housewives of Vancouver. :) There are a lot of excellent Canadian based TV shows, I think.

You have definitely made an impact since joining CERB, sharing both thoughts and wit with the community. You support the lovely ladies here and treat people with respect. I do think you and *M* should perhaps get a room to make a game plan about lady protection though. Looking forward to many more posts.

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Liquidators - OLN Network. Show is based in Vancouver BC

Cristy, thanks for that personal post. Fears? Although, not the same as yours I only have two real fears and quite superficial when put in the context of what you're referring to. I have a fear of heights and a when diving I have a fear when approaching a steep drop off of what's down there to come up from the blackness. But they are more irrational type fears. In truth I fear very little, I generally don't care about others thoughts on what I do and try to just live for myself. That gives me a lot of liberation to explore all kinds of things. Although, I'm "educated" I actually hate organized education and the notion that there is only "one way" to be educated and contribute to society. The most intelligent and well rounded man I've ever known was my grandfather and he completed grade 8 then went to work to help support his family. It was a different era when people had different priorities like just trying to survive. However, because my grandfather left school and went to work to contribute to his family his youngest brother was given the flexibility to continue schooling "supported" and actually went on to receive his PhD from Harvard. As to be expected he did develop an air of superiority about him (I guess due to the circles he moved in) however humble his beginnings. Of the two men, my grandfather was clearly far more brilliant than his brother and a voracious reader. He read everything he could get his hands on and digested every bit of it additionally he could almost recite every bit of it back to you verbatim. I guess he actually had a photographic memory it turns out. Very little "formal" schooling but he was every bit as worldly as his brother the Harvard grad. I can remember as a teenager listening to my grandfather and his brother discuss/debate world issues. My grandfather with his "rural twang" and his brother with all his proper diction and pronunciation I was astounded at how my grandfather not only held his ground in the face of superior "education" but bested it often. My grandfather was a true gentleman, worked hard and gave back to his community in what ever way he could. He was very well respected even revered and though he's long gone people still talk of him as though he was a legend of sorts. If I could choose to emulate anyone in my life it would be him. He lived true to himself and became a man others could only dream of. Just a simple fisherman and farmer! Cristy, live your own life true to only yourself. In the end when you look back on it all you'll only be answering to yourself and nobody else. Never, let anyone hold you back especially yourself.

Well me personally I now use CERB exclusively. I saw a few ladies from other sites (CL, er*s Canada, site that rhymes with CERB etc) and all those encounters were bad encounters. Not saying all the ladies you see from those sites are bad, just the bad encounters I had were when I strayed off the reserve so to speak My encounters with the ladies from CERB have been good, so why go elsewhere? RG

Ms. Penelope Davis ..... I share your fear of Dentists - in fact recently went to see one after a 20 year absence. I need a little work (remarkably less than I expected), however to even clean my teeth (due to the debilitating fear) they need to gas me or I simply can't do it. I wish I had inspiring wisdom for you - All I have is I feel your fear. Thoughts are with you!

Most definitely a HUGE hug to Penelope. I'm the same way with anything more than a cleaning. Be strong beautiful, think happy thoughts to distract yourself....teddy bear??

I agree. I find that myself and my sisters have guilt issues. I often find that I am guilted into doing things for family members that I really don't want to do. Sometimes I will say no but when I do, that guilt of NOT doing it is there. This has carried over into relationships of mine where I'm always trying to make sure people are happy. I'm not a doormat where I will do anything for anyone...no way because there is that feisty, fery side of me as well. However, there is always some sort ofpeople pleaser quality and frankly I'm sick of it. I know exactly where it comes from and often times it's hard to not feel that way and I just have to turn it off. I come from a family where everyone took care of one another and while it's a good quality to have, often times people exploit that or use it to their advantage. As for parents, I've stopped trying to get their approval a long time ago. I am doing what I wish to do. They don't have to live my life or pay my mortgages on properties or my bills and I'm in control. I've been quite independent from a young age and moved out when I was 19. What I've realized is that parents are human beings as well and WILL make mistakes in raising their children. Whatever expectations they had are not the expectations I have of myself. I have come to accept them for who they are are, faults and all. This has made my relationship with them much better. I'm the person in my family that does whatever I please while everyone else wishes they could do it but don't. And this doesn't apply to anything in specific in my life. I'm more of the rebel and had the balls to do things. Now I am their "go to" person when shit hits the fan and it gets quite tiring. I'm just living my life as I see fit.

For me, age is just a number and the greater factor is the person in question. I have seen (and have been) a very mature 18 year old due to the circumstances in my upbringing. I have also known people in their 40'2, 50's and up who have the maturity level of a fig leaf (yes, I'm sure you can figure the joke on THAT one). As long as both parties are of the age of consent and find something enticing and pleasurable about the other, I say enjoy it. Everyone has their own specific comfort levels and this is what should be the deciding factor. Do what you're comfortable with and what makes you feel good and if someone doesn't like it, it's on them. While I do agree that 18/19 while being the age of consent is quite young to determine whether being an SP is a positive move for them or not as some can be lured by the money, I don't believe we have the right to determine who can and who cannot handle it. Once we are adults of any age, our life path is on us to direct and the choices we make whether for positive or negative are on us. What we may think may not be the reality of a situation as we're seeing it through our own blinders and biases. We can offer advice (if it's asked for) and support those and share experience but we cannot make decisions for others. We would not want it done to us so the same is true for others.

I think the only opinion that matters on this is your own. Men are in this hobby for a multitude of reasons, and one of them is fantasy - if their fantasy includes being with a hot younger girl, as long as she's 18, who am I to judge? I personally do not like seeing clients who are 18-19. I have actually declined in the past, as my kid sister is around that age, and my nephew - so it makes me feel strange. I have friends with kids around that age. BUT, again, just because it makes me feel strange, I think nothing of women who do see those clients. They deserve to get their rocks off just as much as the next guy!

When I got into this, the only understanding of the SP world was what I saw through Law & Order. Which is to say, I had a very poor understanding. It was sheer curiosity that I stumbled upon an MA's website. I knew things like body rub parlours existed and licensed by the city, so I figured it would be much more difficult to run trafficking operations in those organizations. But something resonated with seeking independents, and I've stuck with indys since the beginning. So when I contacted the first girl in this industry, she was very active on Cerb, and I spent hours reading her comments. I didn't want to stalk her or anything of that sort, it was just to confirm in my mind that this is an independent woman, who is doing this on her own accord, not forced by a pimp. Since then, like I said above, I've stuck with independents. I've also gone with people who have an active presence here or on different boards. Have comments that in some way impressed me intellectually. In person, they are natural extensions of their online persona, which gives me a bit of peace of mind that a pimp isn't faking all of it in the background. Other things matter, like the incall location. As a business owner myself, I try to work on the tiny details that may go unnoticed, but adds to the overall experience. I've seen the same sense of attention in this industry. An absolutely tidy incall, bottle of refrigerated water at hand, etc. I think someone who was in this for her own reasons and not forced in by someone else has a much greater drive to go the extra mile. The ads also play a role determining my comfort with seeking an SP out. If it's a short "here's my #, lets fuck", I never call. There are ladies who take the time making intelligent, and interesting ads. I feel that it adds another layer of professionalism and provides more proof they are in this without being coerced. Finally, the last, and probably the biggest thing would be when I see her, I'd like to think that if I feel there is a sense that somethings amiss, I wouldn't go through with it and figure out what to do next if I felt it was trafficking. Maybe it's a bit of an overkill, and I've passed over meeting some great people this way, but I rather err on the side of caution. With aspects of this industry being in the legal grey area, and politicians will continue to believe that sex is evil, it's the best that I could come up with.

YES!! I am happy (very), as I choose to be :D No one shot at me yesterday or dropped a bomb on my head last night, so everything else is sooo superficial. Whoop-t-doo, my Timmies lid isn't perfect - oh, the humanity!! LOL (Not like someone lied to me about being pregnant and then lied about matters of the heart and then lied about lying before stealing from me all after saying they were different and didn't lie like other people (as they did; which is probably the first sign someone is a liar), but I digress, as there is A LOT worse going on in the world than failed gold-digging parasites whom only disgrace themselves, their children and their family for their own selfish immature greed which they will never live down thanks to the interwebs. Why throw stones living in a glass house? Just another psycho-path loser. Dime a dozen, but still nothing to be un-happy about ;) ) Superficiality makes me laugh, thus I never stop getting the best medicine :) Being helpful to others and not self-centered nor pretentious keeps it simple too ;) Greed breeds mean deeds, and thus not happiness imo, individually or collectively - think aboot it! hehe ...and Don't Worry - Beeeeeeee HAP-PY!! :) [:boobies: BOOBS!! :boobeyes:...and if you aren't happy atm - think of boobies!! How could one Not smile thinking of boobies? :D Boobs Rule! hehe]

Congrats Halifaxman58 for your first milestone.

I think for the most part I am a happy guy. I am not one to hold grudges against people, and I am quick to forgive. I've been through difficult times in my life same as everyone else, and lived through them. I have enough to eat, a roof over my head, I really don't want for anything, after finding this great site. I have people I can call friends, I am making new friends here and in my day to day life out in the world, I have people who love me, so I would say life is presently good to me, and I am a very lucky happy guy.

Happiness always begins and ends within ourselves. We can't be truly happy if all we do is play to everyone else and be what everyone else believes we should be. We all have to be in situations that might not be optimal or deal with things we would rather not but it's how we deal with those situations that determines which way we go. One of my favorite sayings is "how someone treats you in their karma, how you react is yours". This simply means if someone/something is flinging stuff at you, you have the choice to make the situation worse by adding to it, reacting it kind or letting it get to you or being kind, ignoring or walking away. If the home situation isn't good and is constantly draining your good energy, you have every right to take care of yourself and find those things/people who restore your positive energy. You cannot change what doesn't wish to be changed so you change yourself instead. If seeing your desired SP gives you pleasure and is a positive thing for you that then allows you to deal with the rest more effectively and positively, then it is a need more than a want. We all soemtimes get into situations we either can't or don't want to change but we can make it better for ourselves and for others. As for being happy, there is so much in my life I do love and yet, there are things I would like to change. I focus on everything to be grateful about and try to change the rest as I can. Practicing the act of gratefulness positively impacts things I find and gives a different perspective on even the not so great. When you change yourself, you attract more to you or what you're sending out which then gives you more to be grateful about. One step at a time, one day at a time.

I am very sorry to hear of your bad experience.... But I do agree that your first channel to resolution is to approach the owner or the MA herself. That is the only way that the issue may be resolved. Airing out your frustrations here will do nothing to rectify the situation, and without knowing the who when why how it can cast an unprofessional light on a spa that may have nothing to do with the situation, or coworkers of a spa that do not practice such bad manners. I am saddened that your though of an MA experience is now jaded when there are wonderful professionals that take time to ensure your experience is nothing short of a mind-blowing exceptionally incredible time!! As Pistol Pete said time is money, and a clients time should never be wasted!! Best of luck that ALL future rendezvous are nothing less then the best!! Kisses XoX

Well, if you dont contact the owner to help prevent this from happening to others then I am not sure what the purpose of this post was. As it stands now you are casting aspersions over a large segment of the Mas, and only one has been bad to you. Dont get me wrong, as I am on your side re the original complaint, but do think you should register your complaint vs just vent on here. There is also the other board where you can be quite a bit more detailed if you choose.

I have seen a few of a girls at EB/TO, and all I can say is that even though I always leave there "released" there only a few capable of having me crave for more. Shayla is one of them, she is petite, young, stunningly beautiful. The rules at EB do restrict what we are and are not allowed to do, but suffice it to say that this young lady even within those rules gives you an amazing time! From the moment she walks in and you see her face, her gentle laugh when she's with you, her sensual touch all over you, and when she helps you release it's, it's, it's . . . absolutely amazing! I have seen her a few times, and it's really nice to have a safe environment with this kind of prize to go to. All I can add is if she ever goes indy, I sure hope I find out about it!! Cause, I'd be at the front of the line. She did say she has a friend that is an indy, I hope she reads this and passes it on to her. This is one of those reviews that I struggle to write cause now she will get so busy, I will have a harder time getting to see her, but at the same time, she is SOOOOOOOO worth it.:motion::motion::motion: