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It's that time of year again: International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Today we honour those who have been taken from us and support those still with us. If you're looking to attend a Dec. 17 event in your area, check out the list of events posted here: http://www.december17.org/event-locations/

How do you spend Christmas eve? Do you go carolling visiting friends and family finish up your shopping cozy up to a fire and just relax at home go out to dinner We have a family gathering. Eating, drinking and catching up:) then everyone goes home and waits for Santa- yes I believe in Santa Claus:)

I'm not "seasoned social attendee" just a "rookie" therefore whatever dates works best for the majority, and especially for the individuals running it and those that like to attend from out of town,is my input. As for name tags, I have no issue with it, really doesn't bother me, last Thursday, I made the effort to shake hands and introduce myself to many of guests,gents and ladies that I could. It got very busy throughout the night, as more people arriving at different hours. However, I was on a mission, to see more ladies,chat more with the ladies than guys that evening :) no offence gents..LOL.

I sure hope your kidding. What single mom would choose to have a sex toy for herself over a real toy for her child? If you know of one then perhaps the child should be living elsewhere. Just saying.

I have experienced providing this type of encounter without knowing ahead of time twice. The gents are not members but had just returned home from being deployed overseas for six months and just wanted to talk and be held from what they endured and witnessed. It was very emotional and a huge eye opener for me. You read the papers and see the news but to be in the company of a soldier right after they return home, is nothing like what you read or see on the news. I don't openly offer this but when I'm asked I usually accept, everyone needs a warm embrace, someone to listen to them and possibly even a shoulder to cry on. I would never deny someone in need of that.

If I may help clear up the question earlier in this thread in regards to the definition of upscale. As an independent, there is no establishment to promote, book, or answer inquiries. The client should expect the same attention to detail, environment and cleanliness, that you would find at one of the elite spa's, but in a private setting and priced inclusively for these reasons. These threads are informative and it's never redundant to inform ourselves.

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And too frequently you may risk some people from out of town not being able to attend :) xoxo

I'm easy on the date. Really, you guys who are getting off your asses and running the show should do whatever's best for you. The rest of us can damn well fit in! I don't really like the idea of nametags, because discretion. And half the fun is finding out who mysterious people are :) And then finding out who was there but you missed, dammit!

If you can sing Oh Holy Night i will I will consider a reduced donation. However you need to be very good !! Love to all . Xo.

The Christmas Song (Chestnuts roasting by an open fire) ... esp. Nat King Cole's version. Porthos

Exactly my thoughts Vanessa. Msog is included with all my experiences, some gents can and some are just drained or unable to but the option is there. After pillow talk and cuddled time, if it's around 5-10 minutes prior to our time being up, then the gent may extend their time but I will not put that type of pressure on myself or the gent, although I have been able to succeed in doing so when the chemistry is just right and I feel like challenging myself all in good fun, sometimes I can and other times it's just not possible in the last 5-10 minutes . I prefer not to have that type of pressure on either of us. Where is the fun in that?:icon_biggrin:

As an older sp who does nor share a face pic, I truly enjoy the surprise and delight once I open the door :)

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Also...I am REALLY forward...but if it host at the same location is please possible to have for a better wine selection? Seriously, I am well aware I am consider a wine snob..but most of the time I can mange a decent white or red wine...but there was literally no choice. at all.

Thank you everyone for the sweet birthday wishes... It was a great night full of lots of dancing and champagne :) Kisses to all of you

we spend it at home ... some egg nog, a roaring fire, maybe a wee dram of something stronger. Carols playing, sometimes we watch an old Christmas movie. Always a classic ... Alastair Sim as Scrooge, or It's a Wonderful Life. Porthos

I run around visiting...sober.... Found this though:

I agree with loneskater.....In other words Trying for a cheap deal!!!!!.....And I must say that I learned a long time ago that cheaper isn't necessarily better Guys! Just say'in.........

I'd go with the March date. This last one was so well organized which leads to so much fun that it is worth the wait. As for name tags, two thoughts. I seem to remember from the first Social I attended that there were no name tags because of the "civilian" wait staff. Second thought... name tags make it too easy. Each of us who is curious about another of us should take their courage in their hands and go ask. At this most recent gathering, I was asked - which made me feel good that a stranger was interested enough to ask - and I asked - and I think that asking will lead to something interesting. :)

A very good time had by all! At least I got to use my mistletoe and enjoyed some lovely pecks on the cheeks from some very pretty ladies, however nobody took me up on the other spot where I had my mistletoe, maybe next year, I will keep trying. MisterT & Skates did a wonderful job. Thanks.

Im thinking March for me but it really doesn't matter. Whatever is best for you and loneskater. I do have a suggestion though. What are your thoughts on name tags for the gents? Their handles not actual names. Just an idea.

Maybe it is just because it is Christmas and I find myself more aware of the people around me but I think it really SUCKS that so many wonderful people struggle financially and have to deal emotionally with the stress and problems of being without in a world of plenty. I kinda think we can do better and encourage if us to make a positive impact in our community. Let's each reach out and make it a Merry Christmas for someone we don't know. Just my opinion.

oops ... I'm a little late ... had a rather sketchy drive home yesterday across the park ... there's tons of freakin snow here in central Ontario :D anyways ... please also accept my belated thanks for a fun evening! especially to those who's hard work went into organizing it.. great job! also thanks to the ladies who included me for dinner beforehand, an absolute pleasure to meet you all :) have a super holiday season everyone!! I'm going skiing!!

There are no deal breakers in this business. Be you and only show what you are comfortable showing, no matter what your clients want. Find your style, comfort zone and you'll then attract those whom you are meant to attract. Best of luck and enjoy your shoot:)

I answered "no", but... y'know what? My real, slightly odd answer is: no, I wouldn't pay to cuddle with someone I hadn't already seen for a GFE visit. but under the right circumstances, I can see myself paying for a cuddle session with someone I *had* seen for a GFE encounter. The only way I can make sense of this feeling on my part is: if it's someone I hadn't seen before, the comfortable intimacy of the cuddle (if we were able to build that) would eventually fall prey to me wondering "wow, can't we take this further... man, I wonder what it would be like to... mm, I wonder what she looks like when..." but if it's someone I'd already seen and with whom I'd already been, you know, uh, fully intimate, then some of that curiosity would be satisfied. Plus, we'd already have some kind of physical and intimate bond to build upon and make the lighter connection of the cuddle feel more meaningful and reassuring. Yup, I think it's entirely possible that once I'd established a little-r relationship with an SP, that on some occasions I'd like to just "hang out, close up" with her and talk and caress a bit. That could totally work.

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Congratulations, Brad!

I saw Arianna when she was in St. John's a week or so ago. The pic's are 100 percent real. I thought she was too good to be true but went anyway. IMO she was beautiful, pretty face, great personality and next to Gia Sweet the nicest all natural body I've ever experienced. Her GFE was great, kissing and the experience was very sensual. I had a great time with her and can highly recommend.

Christmas Eve for us us all about Family...we eat together... go to church together... it is all family. it is one of the best days of the year.

I had to resurrect this thread as I got a fantastic Christmas surprise today. Stopped in at the Barefax and there was our elusive Ariel! She looked as amazing as usual. I didn't know she switched up clubs, but it was a bit of a homecoming. I first fell for Ariel at the Barefax. We had a blast even on totally dead Sunday nights... Since then she has become my ATF and has to be one of the most popular dancers in town. I don't know her schedule but rest assured she was in fine form today. Merry Christmas to me :)

Seriously? Who does that? Definitely not someone I would see again... lol Where did the cuddle time go? Oh, and to stay OT, MSOG is neither here nor there with me. I'm always happy with 1 SOG if that happens and as previously noted, I've happily left after NoSOG.

Well done Brad.. looking forward to the next 500 post/pics.. :-) Cheers!!

Good stuff! I enjoy your posts, hope to see many more! xoxo

Congratulations Brad on this milestone. Thank you for your contributions! xoxo

February would be good for Valentines but either one is good for Kimmie and I.

Congratulations Brad on this cerb milestone. Thank you for being one of cerbs most polite, sincere, unbiased and friendly cerb gents:) Keep posting;)

March would probably be best for you and Loneskater since it takes a lot of planning and work, but either or work for me! The last one was so fun, already looking forward to the next :boobies:

Happy Bday Tianna.. wishing you a great day!

happy birthday

You and only you can decide how much and what you decide to show online. Remember, your choices today can and do show up years from now. I asked the very same question once, and still feel strongly for myself that showing my face online or by sending by email is not in My comfort zone. The ones who truly want to see me, know that they can see my face once they meet me. The ones who do not want to see me unless they see my face picture, well, it hasn't made a difference to me. They can sit and wonder what they are missing out on. If you want to show your face, that's ok, go ahead. However, if you do not want to show your face, don't ever let ANYONE try to get you to do anything you are not comfortable with. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143451&highlight=showing+face+pics xoxo

Cristy is right , the right clients will always find you . Your comfort level is most important and the right client will never push you . When I started out I did not show my face , now I am ok with that so I do . I believe there are ladies that post no pics at all , it's all about the energy field and the law of attraction . I think ( most ) clients visit more for connection and not so much on " the look" anyway .

Pout. Due to personal reasons I could not attend. Another Social and another success from what I see! I know how hard folks work to put these together and kudos go to our coordinators from what Im reading! I am truly looking forward to the next one. My new dress is still hanging there looking lonely and wanting to be worn. I am glad that everyone had a wonderful time. To connect with people that you only read is a special thing and, I think, rather unique to O-Town. I love the CERB community and will make a special effort to come to the next one to meet old friends and make new ones.

Another fantastic evening, thank you so much to loneskater and mistert for bringing us all together again. Looking forward to the next!

From Lucious Lacey's album:

My post is not intended to insult you either and I can understand why anyone would want to save money BUT we are talking about a very sensitive subject and a business unlike any and a business that from one to another NO one can compare, nor should they want to. So to say because one charges $$ the other should and because it costs $$ in one city it should here. It sounds like you are the type who picks are a girl based more on her rates than any other criteria, so this posts leads me to believe. Which I find sad as many ladies that charge beyond the rate which you think is "fair" are made to feel as though, as you said, they are charging to much. Your last sentence I find well I'll just say funny!! If I charge less I'll get more business? NO! Back when I first dabbled in this business, back when the rate was 1/2 of what I now charge, I was told I had one of the best bodies out there, by men and women, and my service was very good as well. Back then men were still complaining and surmising as to how we should go about getting more business etc. So my point is-no matter what a lady has, no matter the quality of her service, no matter her location, or year, there will be someone complaining about how, where, when or why we should charge what we do, see this amount of clients, do things this way or that way, and it's always said by someone who isn't in the business, by a man, by someone who doesn't get that many of us are giving you a piece of ourselves, a very personal, honed, proudly offered, experience, well taken care of piece of ourselves. This " piece" isn't to be taken lightly nor should it's cost or value as it goes well beyond the dollar and it is and always will be incomparable, well at least to those who seek out a lady for more than just her hourly rate;)

I have a bit of a different view. Hopefully the fine ladies of cerb will not take this the wrong way but as someone that travels a lot I find the price for types of services offered in Halifax to be quite high compared to other areas of the country. Montreal is a fine example, rates are considerably less with wonderful service. The traveling hobbyist knows this and will not hobby as much in the Maritimes. The average one hour rate in Montreal is $180. Even the GTA area has rates from $160 to $250 for a "complete" experience.Locally there is a similar situation with a few ladies and recently Natasha was in Halifax and due to her rate level I was more inclined to visit her and more often. I hate bringing up rates because every provider has their reasons to set their rates. I guess my point is their may be a happy medium involved when it comes to rates. I'm more likely to hobby more if I know I can see someone more often. Ex:$200 per hour instead of $300. I can see someone three times a month instead of twice. If I am running a business does $180-$200 an hour for six hours a day make more sense than $300-$350 an hour for two hours a day ? Does this make any sense to my fellow hobbyists? It is just a thought and certainly not intended to suggest anyone is worth any less. Just thought I would throw it out there for discussion.

One other factor you have to look at here in addition to the smaller population, less disposable income and still a number of traveling ladies is that the more people who get into this line of work are drawing from the same pool as they are now. For those who seek variety it's great....for awhile. However, if someone is in this to sustain themselves it may become a case of not enough disposable income to go around and they move on to bigger and better. If it's all college students (as were mentioned), great however if it's not and all you have is a constant stream of new faces and new skills, then many of the pleasures that others in the hobby enjoy would be gone. It's a balancing act for sure and quite honestly there ARE a LOT of people involved in this industry, they're just not on CERB which means that you have to take your chances and hope for the best. If you do meet someone good, encourage them to CERB so we can grow the NS section and make it the place people want to be. Variety is there to be had it just comes at a price. Some have paid it and won, some have not been so lucky. As for traveling ladies...as has been said, many have visited and have had dates canceled, postponed or been messed with in some way. One established lady was treated so badly on a recent trip she was contemplating not coming back. No one likes deposits, many don't like to book ahead but it is those things that will get more traveling ladies here. You can't control what anyone else does, but you can control what you do. How bad to do want it and what will you do to get it? This is a two way street. Would you want to be left holding the bill after someone screwed you over? Neither would she. There is also a steady stream of ladies from away agencies so it seems there is generally quite a bit of variety coming and going from the province. Okay, random ramblings on a rather trying day.