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It's that time of year again: International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Today we honour those who have been taken from us and support those still with us. If you're looking to attend a Dec. 17 event in your area, check out the list of events posted here: http://www.december17.org/event-locations/

How do you spend Christmas eve? Do you go carolling visiting friends and family finish up your shopping cozy up to a fire and just relax at home go out to dinner We have a family gathering. Eating, drinking and catching up:) then everyone goes home and waits for Santa- yes I believe in Santa Claus:)

I'm not "seasoned social attendee" just a "rookie" therefore whatever dates works best for the majority, and especially for the individuals running it and those that like to attend from out of town,is my input. As for name tags, I have no issue with it, really doesn't bother me, last Thursday, I made the effort to shake hands and introduce myself to many of guests,gents and ladies that I could. It got very busy throughout the night, as more people arriving at different hours. However, I was on a mission, to see more ladies,chat more with the ladies than guys that evening :) no offence gents..LOL.

I sure hope your kidding. What single mom would choose to have a sex toy for herself over a real toy for her child? If you know of one then perhaps the child should be living elsewhere. Just saying.

I have experienced providing this type of encounter without knowing ahead of time twice. The gents are not members but had just returned home from being deployed overseas for six months and just wanted to talk and be held from what they endured and witnessed. It was very emotional and a huge eye opener for me. You read the papers and see the news but to be in the company of a soldier right after they return home, is nothing like what you read or see on the news. I don't openly offer this but when I'm asked I usually accept, everyone needs a warm embrace, someone to listen to them and possibly even a shoulder to cry on. I would never deny someone in need of that.

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And too frequently you may risk some people from out of town not being able to attend :) xoxo

I'm easy on the date. Really, you guys who are getting off your asses and running the show should do whatever's best for you. The rest of us can damn well fit in! I don't really like the idea of nametags, because discretion. And half the fun is finding out who mysterious people are :) And then finding out who was there but you missed, dammit!

If you can sing Oh Holy Night i will I will consider a reduced donation. However you need to be very good !! Love to all . Xo.

The Christmas Song (Chestnuts roasting by an open fire) ... esp. Nat King Cole's version. Porthos

Exactly my thoughts Vanessa. Msog is included with all my experiences, some gents can and some are just drained or unable to but the option is there. After pillow talk and cuddled time, if it's around 5-10 minutes prior to our time being up, then the gent may extend their time but I will not put that type of pressure on myself or the gent, although I have been able to succeed in doing so when the chemistry is just right and I feel like challenging myself all in good fun, sometimes I can and other times it's just not possible in the last 5-10 minutes . I prefer not to have that type of pressure on either of us. Where is the fun in that?:icon_biggrin:

As an older sp who does nor share a face pic, I truly enjoy the surprise and delight once I open the door :)

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Also...I am REALLY forward...but if it host at the same location is please possible to have for a better wine selection? Seriously, I am well aware I am consider a wine snob..but most of the time I can mange a decent white or red wine...but there was literally no choice. at all.

Thank you everyone for the sweet birthday wishes... It was a great night full of lots of dancing and champagne :) Kisses to all of you

we spend it at home ... some egg nog, a roaring fire, maybe a wee dram of something stronger. Carols playing, sometimes we watch an old Christmas movie. Always a classic ... Alastair Sim as Scrooge, or It's a Wonderful Life. Porthos

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I agree with loneskater.....In other words Trying for a cheap deal!!!!!.....And I must say that I learned a long time ago that cheaper isn't necessarily better Guys! Just say'in.........

I'd go with the March date. This last one was so well organized which leads to so much fun that it is worth the wait. As for name tags, two thoughts. I seem to remember from the first Social I attended that there were no name tags because of the "civilian" wait staff. Second thought... name tags make it too easy. Each of us who is curious about another of us should take their courage in their hands and go ask. At this most recent gathering, I was asked - which made me feel good that a stranger was interested enough to ask - and I asked - and I think that asking will lead to something interesting. :)

A very good time had by all! At least I got to use my mistletoe and enjoyed some lovely pecks on the cheeks from some very pretty ladies, however nobody took me up on the other spot where I had my mistletoe, maybe next year, I will keep trying. MisterT & Skates did a wonderful job. Thanks.

Im thinking March for me but it really doesn't matter. Whatever is best for you and loneskater. I do have a suggestion though. What are your thoughts on name tags for the gents? Their handles not actual names. Just an idea.

Maybe it is just because it is Christmas and I find myself more aware of the people around me but I think it really SUCKS that so many wonderful people struggle financially and have to deal emotionally with the stress and problems of being without in a world of plenty. I kinda think we can do better and encourage if us to make a positive impact in our community. Let's each reach out and make it a Merry Christmas for someone we don't know. Just my opinion.

oops ... I'm a little late ... had a rather sketchy drive home yesterday across the park ... there's tons of freakin snow here in central Ontario :D anyways ... please also accept my belated thanks for a fun evening! especially to those who's hard work went into organizing it.. great job! also thanks to the ladies who included me for dinner beforehand, an absolute pleasure to meet you all :) have a super holiday season everyone!! I'm going skiing!!

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I answered "no", but... y'know what? My real, slightly odd answer is: no, I wouldn't pay to cuddle with someone I hadn't already seen for a GFE visit. but under the right circumstances, I can see myself paying for a cuddle session with someone I *had* seen for a GFE encounter. The only way I can make sense of this feeling on my part is: if it's someone I hadn't seen before, the comfortable intimacy of the cuddle (if we were able to build that) would eventually fall prey to me wondering "wow, can't we take this further... man, I wonder what it would be like to... mm, I wonder what she looks like when..." but if it's someone I'd already seen and with whom I'd already been, you know, uh, fully intimate, then some of that curiosity would be satisfied. Plus, we'd already have some kind of physical and intimate bond to build upon and make the lighter connection of the cuddle feel more meaningful and reassuring. Yup, I think it's entirely possible that once I'd established a little-r relationship with an SP, that on some occasions I'd like to just "hang out, close up" with her and talk and caress a bit. That could totally work.

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I love cerb socials so the sooner, the better! I vote for February. My only concern is that we might burn out the organizers if we have them too frequently.

We are getting off our asses for it, yes, but we do not just do it for what's best for both of us, but rather what's best for the rest of you. We are just mere facilitators after all. But i do know and appreciate what you mean ...

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I think this thread is great - and I am so glad there are many people who get it and see the entire picture. Its about more then the moment, or thrill of getting a lady to break house rules, or encouraging a staff member to do whatever it takes to retain the client. One bad apple spoils the bunch as they say...

Pretty much the same as you Cristy....but also always attend Church for Evening Mass....it can be quite calming and gives one a chance to reflect upon the reason for the season.

Congrats on your 500 posts Brad! Continue on sir, always enjoy reading your input.

I'll chime in again here after spending some thought after reading EmilyJ's latest Blogasm entry http://www.blogasms.xxx/war-on-christmas/ As I said on Twitter, I don't believe all traditions are anti-progressive. Some traditions should be kept, maintained and added however, these are more personal traditions and are related to people's beliefs, families, love and caring. As Emily J pointed out, some traditions such as traditional marriage, rights for women and of course sex workers, should be changed to reflect the times. Why am I stating this in the Christmas thread? Because of the War of Christmas that is being spoken of. I do believe it is government, political and media hype that stirs us to cast a critical eye, be judgmental and pick up the gauntlet. I grew up hearing Merry Christmas in stores, from neighbors etc. This was back before there was such a melting pot. I did experience the change where working in the public sector we were directed by corporate to say "Happy Holidays" so no one would be offended. Just like the slew of other political correct stuff you're supposed to do or say so that others don't get offended. So many things that just happened and are now "norm". I would rather police myself and my reactions then have someone tell me what I can and cannot do. As many have said, I take greetings and acknowledgements this time of year in the spirit they are given. After examining my thoughts today, I realized that part of my upset was caused by the lack of tradition in school concerts. I completely agree with Brad that other religions, beliefs or non beliefs should not be forced to do something which is not comfortable for them in order to participate. So honestly, my upset in personal because I miss the days of traditional songs where everyone knew the words and sung along. A little more thinking shows a completely different state of "PEOPLE". It's the technology state and it's more about cell phones, video and the latest gadgets to capture the whole ordeal. So after all this rambling, my upset is completely personal because of the shift overall. It is up to each individual to make the holiday whatever they chose to make it. Be upset or not, be happy or not. It's all a choice. Peace on earth, goodwill towards men. A traditional statement but one that shouldn't be abandoned because it is as meaningful now as then. Live and let live. Be tolerant and treat others as you wish to be treated. If politicians or governments step in to take that away, stand up and be heard. My apologies is this is rather disjointed, still thinking but wanted to throw a different perspective out there that yes, maybe it IS all in our heads and we need to step back and re-examine our thinking.

Good show, CERBite Brad! Carry on!!

Congratulations Brad on achieving this milestone Looking forward to your next 500 contributions RG

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I wanted to add my voice to everyone else's and say Thank you very much to MisterT and Loneskater for all of the hard work they put into making the socials such a success and a wonderful evening. As always it was great to catch up with everyone and to meet new people. Also I wanted to thank ALO very much for the door prize.

IMKrissy - but she is an MA. Link to her profile: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=20634

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This is NOT a recommendation thread. This is in the general discussion for massage section. Ladies are WELCOME to post here and join the conversations as long as they are not advertising in here (unsolicited) meaning if someone asks for someone who speaks Russian the ladies can say "I speak Russian" some would consider that an advertisement so I just like to clarify that when this is questioned. Harsh comments are not appreciated, everyone's questions should be addressed with respect as we have lots of newbies and lots of veterans here. Let's keep cerb a inviting friendly place.

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