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I think Fortunateone explained it best. For any client to pick any sp based on the titles she or he places on themselves is silly, imo. I think many of us may be high and low volume depending on the day, time of year or needs. Show me a sp who claims to be low volume that'll refuse a number of clients in one day, especially if she's gone through a dry period for a long time and needs to make rent, bills, or extra money for something. Some who claim to never offer specials, at these times also will cave and do so, but, perhaps in a way that doesn't appear to be a special, but offer another 'option" or instead of hourly only appts, offer1/2 hour appointments. We all do what we have to do in times of need or slow times, and that's the business of the sp. So because of this I think it pointless to choose based on High, low, exclusive, or any other title. Choose based on personality, looks, posts, rapport, intelligence, or something else that is constant and really more important:)

I like the comment about the 'perceived' high volume being signaled with the 15-30 minute appointment options. It would probably surprise some to find out that some sps who have a 15 minute option may do it because they are low volume, as in really not very busy, and they need that as a way to attract at least a few clients at some point in the day. Maybe they don't have the luxury of waiting for that multiple hour client to appear, or rely on that kind of session. interesting tho, that it is possible to be someone with a one hour or two hour minimum and end up seeing more clients in a day than someone who only does half hour appointments. I say this only because i don't think there is a magic number as to what equals high versus low. There are some who might think things are super slow because they have 'only' seen 5 clients in a day, while others think they are rushed off their feet if they juggled their way to seeing 3. Personally i do think 5 is a lot, but even if I were to see 5 one day, that would be so unusual that I don't think anyone would call me high volume because that might have happened one day out of the month. The majority of days may be zero, one or maximum of two. The reality is, due to the zeros and ones, a low volume provider may be high volume from time to time, because we never know what tomorrow may not bring us.

For those who want to get really into this stuff, there's a useful infographic here and a good white paper here. h/t @ggreenwald, who has more than a passing interest in this stuff :)

Enjoy! Something to think about. Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more: 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short - enjoy it. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends WILL! 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what THEIR JOURNEY, is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye, but don't worry, God never blinks. 16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19.. It's never too late to be happy. But it's all up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. TODAY IS SPECIAL! 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. YOU MAKE YOUR OWN HAPPINESS! SO TRUE!! 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life. 28. Forgive 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. BELIEVE IN MIRACLES! I SURE DO!! I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPEN!! 34. ************* God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. **************** 35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it NOW! 36. Growing old beats the alternative of dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that YOU ARE LOVED!! 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need 42. The best is yet to come... 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift." *** LIFE IS CERTAINLY, THE GREATEST THING, APPRECIATE IT! *** Friends are the family that we choose.

Claire isn't an SP. MA only....but a damn good one!

Your point about honesty is interesting... I was in a relationship a couple of years ago in which my GF admitted that she was a former escort. Now, being liberal, I did not pass any judgement whatsoever while accepting and being completely at peace with her revelation. Then, in the spirit of keeping everything above board, I admitted to being a hobbyist, albeit only when I'm single. I thought if anyone would understand, it would be her. Well, imagine my surprise when she gave me the third degree and kept going on about how immoral, depraved, disgusting etc. etc. etc. my behavior was. If that isn't the pot calling the kettle black, I don't know what is!! It turned out to be a blessing in disguise, since it spelled the end of our relationship. Looking back, we really weren't compatible.

Very cool illusion (you may have to click to enlarge to see it)

I think you are over-thinking this, not once has someone brought me a gift, card or made a gesture of some sort and my immediate reaction was "he's doing it to curry favour" I simply assume they are doing it to be nice. We share an intimate moment with the people we meet, often they get to know us quite well and we get to know them. It's actually quite odd because in some instances I know ladies don't even know the names of their clients yet you know their bodies, you often know what their daily stresses are and you know a good deal about their dreams, goals and personal fantasies as well. There is intimacy in that and it's not at all unusual that someone will provide a token of appreciation for that relationship,or a gift to wish someone well when they have taken ill, it's normal to show concern for those around you. I would be surprised to think any lady automatically assumed you were trying to use that token to leverage her for more than she might usually offer. The only thing I will say is that for some companions flowers can be uncomfortable to receive simply because they are not always discreet, if she sees a number of men on any given day then a person walking into her room with a bouquet of flowers might be conspicuous. Take that into account and consider her personal situation, does she have a private entrance, would that be a concern for her? Personally I love having fresh flowers in my room, though I only host when travelling so they need to come with a vase, but not every lady does. Tea, a gift card for a pedicure, or even some nice candles might be easier to hide in a little bag if discretion matters. I am sure she'll appreciate it.

Honestly RG, it doesn't matter. I had asked the original question to perhaps get a sense of thinking on the matter. When you're dealing with people on a regular basis but in a way that really doesn't promote feedback (beyond the extremes it seems), questions such as these tend to get a little more of an overall opinion. Mind you, many times it's from those who are serious about their interactions and a small percentage of the overall population of this community but still good input. To answer your other question, and some may disagree, but high volume would be the number of individual people seen. To me, one person for multiple hours is still only one person. @Mambo35 You are correct. Discretion IS paramount and there are a lot of assumptions. In some ways, this was a question about challenging assumptions and if they do indeed have impact. Perhaps I initially used the wrong verbiage with "volume". It was more a question about whether gentlemen are willing to either wait or schedule to see a provider if booking is difficult (busy, booked, limited availability) or whether one gives up after a time or two. Connection seems to be important to the serious gentlemen so I would think the former. For those yet to meet, I might think the latter.

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+1 with respect to Malika. Beautiful, smart, and a fantastic service provider.

deepest condolences.

Staying in shape for me is about priorities and motivation. I try to eat healthy and I make time to exercise. When I feel the temptation to eat something naughty I remind myself how it feels when I am at my best physically. That usually motivates me to make good choices. There are so many other ways to find pleasure other than food :) Many of them even burn calories ;)

Luna West is just out of Kanata (carling ave between pinecrest and Bayshore)

I am at the office eating leftover pork chop, leftover fried spuds, pork and beans. That close Emma ? ;) My soup appetizer would have to be Campbells mushroom or tomato without milk ..... doh ohhhhhh FAIL

When I feel lazy I hit the hotel gym - otherwise I use the Insanity videos (best workout ever without weights) I just ordered T25 so I hope its as torturous....

I think it's sweet, thoughtful, and I say give them. I understand the reasons why some have said not to but, if it were me receiving them, you'd get a big hug and kiss;)

Malika Fantasy is now in Toronto.

Got a call from the surgeon today. I thought she was going to say that my surgery date was going to be 4 months away.... but to my surprise, she said "How does January 20th work for the gallbladder surgery?" I said, "well that is my birthday BUT... YES!!!" Sooooo... in less than a few weeks, I will be reacquainted with one of the true loves in my life. Bacon. I love you. I miss you. We'll be together soon, I promise.

So sweet, who doesn't like a guy holding a flower when you open the door, HOT! for me at least.

Flowers are a welcome treat... in the right circumstances. One thing you have to keep in mind is this: Do you know her well enough to give them? Flowers are a very visible gesture... and if given to someone who can display them appropriately, can brighten a day immensely. BUT... 1. Flowers in winter are problematic. They suffer greatly in the transport to and from the appointment. Cold weather is a bad time to give flowers. 2. Some providers just can't take them. If you lead a secret life, you can't accept overt gifts. Flowers have to be displayed or discarded... and if you can't display them, you have to throw them out or give them away. 3. Some flowers are very fragrant and there are people with issues with excessive fragrances. 4. Travelling providers aren't in town for long - and vases are too fragile for luggage and take up a lot of space. 5. Bacon sandwiches make better gifts. Alright, so do perfume, chocolates, wine, small pieces of jewellery, and a lovely financial tip - all of which can be appreciated and kept far more easily than flowers. Just a few thoughts from a hopeless romantic....

After reading many threads and posts I feel I can receive some honest, sound, and candid advice. As an younger individual completely new to this hobby I am unsure of how to breach an issue of mine. My performance is closer to a sprint then to a marathon. That being said my recovery time is quite quick an offers the chance of several repeats. Personally, I can really enjoy myself as much as my company is. I just don't want the sp to feel burdened or bothered by MSOG. Someone who can be casual, relaxed, or invites a sense of play in between playing. I'm am certainly not opposed to a longer time ie 2-3 hrs to have fun and get to know one another. Please, any thoughts or comments would be greatly welcomed.

some relationships work out, some don't. My only advice toward any of this is to spare her the details- nothing positive will come out of that. I speak strictly from my own experience. It's brutal when the other half knows the gritty details and you try and work things out. It's a constant throne! good luck.

Congrats on your 7k milestone!

Congrats buddy... now let's go get beer.

7000 is a lot of posts. I'm trying to get to five. Lol. You and Emily or hot.

Any of them. Just specify that is what you want. I am sure they will be happy to oblige.

Well done Nicolette. You are a very sexy and beautiful lady and a very good friend. Thank you! xoxo

Nicki, you're a champ, always something interesting to add, keep it going.

Thank Paedrus for all of your wonderful contributions. xoxo

Wow, you talk even more than I do ! Congrats on this milestone and thank you for all your contributions to this site:)

Congrats Phaedrus on reaching 4000 posts!! Look forward to many more.

Congrats Nicolette on reaching 7000 posts!

Congrats on reaching 7000 posts Nicolette....

Congrats on reaching 4000 posts Phaedrus....

Congrats on reaching 4000 posts!!!

I agree with Lee. This is the game we play here & it has its' consequences. Sorry to be the guy who rips the bandage off, but I believe your relationship has run it's course. Will you ever be able to earn her trust? Answer: Nope. Not a chance in hell. Oh wait - Maybe - if you agree to intense psychotherapy, sexual addiction counselling, couples group therapy, etc. IMO you intuitively already have the answers to your situation. "I am not sure what will happen but she says if I want to stay I have to tell her everything." Do you like to do daily confessionals? Answer: Only if you continually want to be the guilty party. You will never pass any test, so why try? You are who you are. Never apologize for that. Do you want to risk being the subject of revenge conversations amongst the ladies at parties, weddings & other gatherings? Answer: It will happen whether you like it or not and you will perpetually be the moral bad guy and she will consistently be the virginal walking wounded. Word gets around OP & you are the dessert d'jour. My suggestion - don't allow yourselves to be caricatures of who you really are. Do yourself & friend a favour & part on amicable terms. Do it sooner than later. Brutal, I know - but it will end badly otherwise.

congrats Nicolette on the 7000 posts great job well done

well done on 4000 great and wonderful posts. I look forward to the many more to come , and reading your take on things. :) TC

Congratulations, Nicolette! Well done!

congrats Nikki on 7000 wonderful posts. you are a valued member here on cerb, keep' em coming

Yes, conditioner does help make it softer. In response to RG's initial post about the length of time it takes to come in, it varies from person to person and whether there are patches like some of the others have mentioned. Two and a half weeks should be more than enough time in my opinion. Additional hair length will help cover patchy areas. It depends on the look you are looking for or if you want a big pile of hair to help keep your face warmer in the cold. Makes for an interesting look when you come in from outside with icicles hanging off your beard (lol).

Now wait just a moment...are some of you implying that high vs low volume isn't about how much noise a lady makes in bed???

Well, first so sorry that you are faced with this, especially a sensitive time like the Holidays:( The only thing I can suggest is to delicately explain how you were feeling at the time, that you needed to have some room to play, is a mistake once but if a hobby then you need to look closer into how "not to be caught" . Not sure what "tell her everything" consists of. But would say to keep it low key, and be sure you show her that YOU LOVE HER, and only her. This is a lesson learned. I hope you find peace with this one, Best of luck!

Hmm.. All the men that are on my friends list, in no particular order and one at a time;)

I dont understand why someone would even try to get business with a pic they do not own? Why mislead someone who is clearly going to see what you look like later? It bums me out that every client that call me has to ask if my pics are real because of fake people posting fake pics. What really angers me is having my pics stolen.

And a lady advertising her availability as (hypothetically speaking here) 10am to 10pm Monday to Saturday doesn't mean she is seeing clients 12 hours a day 6 days a week, just that those are her hours of availability, that's all. RG

the last time I was at pig als I was given the the best private dance of my life, I think that was before the security protocol bs