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Here is something that happened recently... A gentleman sent a PM requesting information... the problem herr is that he has his profile set as PRIVATE.. not only we were not able to see any information about him.. BUT WE WERE NOT ABLE TO REPLY TO HIS REQUEST... why even bother sending a request for information when you don't allow people to contact you either...

I wish I had more time to post, to be honest. I have a variety of things that compete with my time, such as writing my thesis, my work as a research assistant, my yoga practice, etc. I find it really hard to find time to post on forums which is why I write in my blog more often. I know how important it is for people to get a general sense of who we are beyond what we write on our websites, etc. I hardly tour and sometimes I find it difficult to keep up with all the boards. I can only imagine how much time and energy it takes for those that tour multiple cities across Canada to keep up a board presence. I really (really) admire them a lot. This is completely unrelated, and I hope this isn't a hijack RG, but it reminds me of when people say that being an escort is 'easy money'. They're so foolish! There is so much involved in attracting the kinds of clients you like and will enjoy spending time with (blogs, website maintenance, photo shoots, screening, e-mailing, forum posting, etc). Anyway, while I definitely understand how fun it is to interact with ladies online, it's not so easy sometimes. A lot of people in the industry have blogs now too and I think that's a really good way to balance it all :)

When you visit my profile page I revisit yours, if you allow me. When I do I like to leave a note, a think you and you never know it may be the start of something;) However since I don't tour, yet anyways. I never know if it's a possibility as I DON"T know where you are from. WHY:( can't more of you gentlemen place your province at least on your page? I understand discretion but just a province isn't going to give anyone away, surely! Thank you:)

Another thread just posted recently, this one, http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=166665 got me to thinking (scary thought LOL). CERB is a great forum for the ladies to advertise and the guys to read and write recommendations (and look at photos too ;-) ) But for those members, ladies and gentlemen both, who limit their use of CERB to just advertising, reading (and maybe writing) recommendations but generally speaking not having a board presence it doesn't allow CERB members to get to know you, so to speak For a lady, when a gentleman contacts her, she can get an idea of who he is by the posts he makes. And whether he will be compatible with her for an encounter Likewise, I know for me, for most of my encounters, a large part of my decision as to whether I would contact a lady or not took place after I read her posts. Maybe not all of them, but some of them. It gave me an idea of whether we would be compatible. No one expects a Pulitzer Prize winning novel. But there are threads to share your thoughts. And your pretty much safe participating as long as you keep in mind the CERB mantra "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" Anyhow a rambling on a Saturday afternoon while for a change, it's snowing outside RG

Obviously I love posting here and it would be nice if more did. What better way to get to know a persons personality, likes and dislikes. However there are to many that want to keep their voices silent, who just like to lurk, come on here when they feel like playing and then leave with no trail. It would make me feel safer, possibly, more interested in meeting with a gent if he did have a stronger board presence. However it's not a deal breaker:)

Hey, it makes sense to me. I want to meet ladies to play with (actually, I want to meet specific ladies to play with) best case scenario I want for them to want to meet with me too for reasons beyond my $. If I post and contribute true to my personality then maybe that might just happen. Good chemistry makes for great encounters so for me its a no brainer. Just as an example, I personally enjoy Cristy's contributions to cerb and thought personality wise I'd like to spend some time with her. So when I was headed to Hali I messaged her for a date. She knew me from cerb and I assume felt more comfortable meeting me (she accepted the date request). As it happens personality wise we did enjoy each other and got so engrossed in chatting that we "almost" let the whole date pass with just chatting without even realizing it. It was great companionship beyond the physical, that's what I look for in a lady. Notice I said we "almost" let the date pass, the physical was great too! Yummy!

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The most important, for me at least is her attitude. A positive attitude can make an encounter while a negative attitude can ruin an encounter Running a very close second is chemistry/connection. It is one of those intangibles, either the two of you will have it or you won't. And it's just one of those cases of if you don't have it, it's no one's fault, just some people click and some don't Looks are important, and yes, I take a look at a lady's photos. If there are certain photos that grab my eye then I'll look up the lady's profile and her posts. Her posts are a good indicator of if we will connect and if she has a positive attitude. Services, well I'm not menu driven to begin with, except I like longer encounters and a GFE. I like time spent getting to know one another, and I love kissing, hugging and cuddling. Since at my age I'm good for one time at plate LOL, well however the encounter unfolds is good, no need for a script. And what makes me see a lady a second, third or more times, if my first encounter was memorable, I'll contact you again Don't know if that answers your questions A rambling RG

For me personally I think my confidence is dependent on what aspect of my life I an involved in at the time. In my professional role at work I think most people who know me would say I have a huge amount of confidence which is why I excel in the leadership role I have. In my Community Role I am often engaged in leading community initiatives so I feel a great deal if confidence. In my personal life... my family life... i used to be a very confident Dad and Husband... however I have had a lot happen in my personal life in recent years that has dramatically impacted my personal self image and confidence.... so my confidence in this are is lacking. I'm hoping that will change but who knows. Just my opinion

I might just be an optimist, but I think it's important to keep in mind that many people may not know the workings of things. I mean, you can set your Facebook profile to private but it doesn't prevent replies. I imagine the unlucky fellow is making the same assumption here. I also suspect in many cases what seems obvious to some of us just simply doesn't occur to others, especially new folk or those that don't spend a lot of time interacting on the board. How many people do you suppose when they were newly signing up figured "oh private profile, yeah that seems fine" and then never gave it a second thought. Or they come just to casually look around and it simply never occurs to them that they may be causing difficulties or missing out by not providing basic information for those visiting them. I've benefited so much from my time on Cerb that I have a much better idea of what the ladies find useful to know, and hope I've gained a better sense of how you run your profession. I think this has helped me tweak my profile and made be more comfortable sharing some information. But I think it's easy to forget how paranoid and unsure most of us were starting out. Patience is probably always going to be needed, but threads like these can be a good thing because they educate people on the benefits (and etiquette) of being at least somewhat open.

Perhaps this thread will prompt some into including their location on their profile now and also cause some to realize if you are going to visit profiles allow those you visit the same courtesy:)

I agree, Cristy. What also bothers me is that some can and will read your profile page and yet they do not allow others to see theirs. :(

Absolutely it's the attitude/personality, no competition. I do look for a physical attraction and there's no denying that will help get me in the door, but how enjoyable the time is and how strong and great the memory of the meeting comes down to personality. If the person is quiet, bored, or distracted it doesn't matter the looks. I mean, if looks were all that mattered then I might as well just be gazing at a picture! But someone who is enthusiastic, confident, comfortable, playful, easy to talk to, engaging...that's what really makes for sparks and memories.

I also look for her personality/attitude which I learn through her posts and threads. If she has caught my interest through her writings then I will look at her profile, pictures and web site to learn more about her. I tend not to look at reviews. They usually kill the fantasy for me. Yes looks are important to me. Not the way you might think. I prefer a modest, conservatively dressed woman. As for menu, services and special skills. I think they make things mechanical and script like. What makes me coming back for more is really good chemistry.

Magic vines. Worth watching... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJIx4fRuOmE

I too wish my mom was like Michaella's. Wouldn't it be nice if all parent s were that non-judgemental and accepting:) But like many I hide what I do from family and some friends, my closest friends know. Doing so does cause some discord in my life.As it's never easy to lie to loved ones, but when you know you'll be judged and probably rejected, what other choice does one have? Some may say if someone doesn't like what I do then they don't belong in my life, but that can be easier said than done. We all have choices to make and although I choose to lead a double life I'd also come clean if I were questioned, only then and accept the consequences. I do envy those who can live openly and proudly doing this, someday maybe:)

The most important thing to me would be attitude. I will admit that I will look at pictures if available, but that is secondary. Reading her posts, and checking reviews gives me a better sense of who I'm meeting. Chemistry brings me back!

Very interesting thread. I believe that hobbyists and providers have this thing in common, we have that side of our life that not all people know about... (I mean not everybody can't openly talk about the way they live their sexuality if you know what I mean). From my experience, it's not always easy managing 2 lives, especially when you know you can tell others because of the consequences that comes with it. In another hand, people don't always need to know lol. As of matter of fact, everybody has secrets anyways and most people lead a "double life in a way or another". As long as one's happy with the choices he/she made and it's not harming anybody than I think it's fine. @ Michaella, I wish I had a family that was open minded and understanding like your Mom. You are lucky and I'm happy for you. :)

Wow that's a large font.....just sayin Additional Comments: I love CG and reverse CG and have never been refused this posn. One lady I know likes it best cuz she can control the action better and ease it in at her own speed.

I just want to clarify something here.. I work out of a Spa, and I decide what hours to work every week... I just set up my schedule to go around the rest of my life... as I am sure is the case for all the ladies... no matter wether they work out of a spa or not... I have made exceptions on my schedule and taken appointments out of the hours I have already stablished for the week,, as long as they dont interfere with other aspects of my life... remember many of us.. independents or SPA attendents have other responsibilities... for some is School, for others is other FT or PT jobs.. and even beyond that FAMILY... And I know fro a fact that I am not the only one at the Spas I work from that accomodate to take appointments even on NON-SPA SCHEDULE HOURS...

This guy should get a recommendation. Wouldn't that be funny? He has saved a lot of us many times. One small example is the Arabic massage girl who looks hot on BP and says a Must see. I was going to go until her pic showed up on his site. The guy is great...and good for all the terrific genuine MPs and SPs all of us love in Ottawa.

In some ways, a post that some readers will consider negative is to me a good thing. I do not want to see the type of person who thinks that haggling or showing up short of the correct donation is OK, so if I am posting (a rant) on that sort of topic, or similar ones, and it does not win me them as fans, that's good lol. I still tho can appreciate other people's comments on a variety of topics. Sometimes also the rep point button with a short comment tells us about their POV even without commiting to a post. The same with Thanks, all comments and Thanks are always appreciated, whether they are coming to me or others, because I can see what someone else agrees with.

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I can certainly appreciate your POV Nathalie and other things happen in our lives that do take precedent over CERB (hard to believe LOL). But I know in your case, I can get a sense of the type of companion and person you are...even though we only know each other through posts (ok and PM's too ;-) ) But that is because you do have a board presence, you have contributed. And when you post, you have something to say. But if all your posts, hypothetically speaking here, were just ads, I know for myself it would be hard to know the type of person you are. Is that making sense? Likewise, guys who's only posts are "have you seen this lady" and maybe the odd recommendation, but for the most part are consumers of CERB, not contributors, its hard for the CERB community, and ladies in particular to know the guy, when the guy wants to book an encounter. Board presence just allows the CERB community to know one another, something very useful for amongst other things, when a lady and gentleman are booking an encounter. Anyhow a morning rambling RG

"It's been said before but I'm saying it again!" Now, you have to remember cristycurves, we're man!! ;) (Just kidding) I have to agree that only having your province should not affect in anyway your identity!

it has always been winter for me , winter sports are my favorite , winter Olympics are my favorite , and there is nothing like going outside first thing in the morning and taking a deep breath that chills you beyond the bones , listening to all the sap in the trees crack and the houses settling to wake a guy up in the morning .

For me it is the personal connection. If I feel there is chemistry and that we connect with each other then the visit is going to be a success. Though being as beautiful as Eva Pearl doesn't hurt either. ;-)

Christy, if you haven't already tried the sourdough from the Italian Market on Young Street, I would highly recommend! They have some of the best bread in the city!

Still, some bread!!

TIFFANY! She makes you really comfortable and has A+ experience in that field,trust me i heard happy sounds coming from someone wifey last time lol ;)

agree that many indy's might even have it tougher because they have to pay rent and overhead and not have the benefit of sharing that overhead as they are the only attendant. I have had awesome experiences in both spas and with indy providers (sp and ma).

Your above post was posted in the recommendation area. We DO NOT reward ladies who bait and switch people with fake photos with recommendations. Your recommendation has been merged into this discussion thread and your live account of her photos being fake has allowed us to move the thread into the warnings area for bait and switch to warn others that her photos are indeed fake. Good service or not this is NOT acceptable so please do not support these ladies who do this.

You could try Luscious Lilly in the Westboro area. Typically, indies are more flexible about the services they offer, since they make their own rules in their own place. As for being cheaper? Not necessarily, they still have to pay for their own rent and other overhead. The only real difference is that they don't break down the fee into a door fee and a tip fee, it's all just included together in one fee.

Don't think you need to spend 3000 on a plasma, maybe 1200 or so. Panasonic usually makes really good ones, well they really developed the technology. If you watch a lot of sports or action movies then plasma would be better than an lcd or led. I think my next hdtv would be a plasma...have lcd at the moment.

In relation to this, is when a client wants an outcall to a hotel. Just recently, someone wanted to see me at a 5 star hotel that requires a key card to get on the floor. He was texting me - I asked him to call me from his room to verify he was actually a guest at the hotel. He replied that his room did not have a phone in it. I knew this was a lie, as this hotel has phones in all of the rooms. I then said, well, give me your room number and name, and I'll call you. He then replied "I'll get someone who's not so complicated". No problem I replied. Good luck in finding anyone who will come to this hotel with no verification. There are those that like to make fake bookings - I have no idea if this person was even in town, if this was a child or an adult, or if this was a male or a female. I can't get this information from a text message. Needless to say, he didn't want to give me his information - I didn't want him to meet Ms. Kitty. End of conversation with him.

My latest amusement with these guys is to interrupt them and ask the if their family is proud of them. "Does your father proudly tell his friends that his son steals money? Is your mother comforted in her heart that she raised a son who brings shame upon the family name?" Right around there is when they hang up. I recognize these guys are just doing their job but I also know that there are legitimate calls centres in India and Bangladesh where they could perform honourable work. So move along, guys. Nothing to see here.

Only my opinion but I would much rather meet with a lady that has a strict screening policy than a lady that will accept any man because of the $$.... Mutual respect should be at the forefront, cleanliness and safety, of course. I have to agree that it is scary to tell someone, you do not know, who you are, what you do and what you would like!! It could be very damaging if this had to some out....After all, we would all like to remain anonymous, but the reality is, there is the potential for a lady to meet a numbnut and that should not even be a possibility... Screening is and should be accepted by all!! No exception. If you do not like it, maybe you should stroll down a bar and have some fun!! Just saying....... :)

Recommendations IMHO are not the end all in selecting a lady to see. Yes a tool, but just one of many But some companions are just starting out, so they may not have any recommendations yet. Ladies just new to this lifestyle would never get started because if the advice given to guys is don't see a lady unless she has a reco. Recos come from seeing clients, even the VERY first one Also a great companion may not have any recos, not because she is not a good companion, but because a client, after having a great encounter, doesn't write about it in the recommendation threads, for whatever reason. Doesn't mean she is a bad companion, just that her client didn't write a recommendation when one was deserved Finally, especially in the case of ladies who tour regularly, but even those who occasionally tour, if there are no recommendations in your city, take a look at the recommendation threads for other cities. She may be recommended in other cities. I have had great encounters with some ladies who at the time had no recommendations (they do now ;-) ) But if I followed the logic of don't see a lady who has no recommendations, well the loss would have been mine A rambling RG

Couldn't agree with you more. While I admire those who are actually talented and appear openly confident, I tend to like and respect those who are talented but who keep a low profile. Perhaps I can identify more with the latter. In the business world however, it is the first type that advances farther in life.

I don't think assumptions about his motivations are necessary. His inquiry isn't that off base as I have had young female providers ask me the very same question because they couldn't understand how I could command double what they asked and book more calls than they did. It's comes from the naive view that great sex is only for the young by the young and is a belief held until one day you look in the mirror and you're not young anymore but still sexual! Let's allow him the opportunity to grow a little bit in the awareness that great sex is ageless and starts in the brain, not the body... cat

Btw... When are we considered "old" ?!?:icon_confused:

I've been trying to get these two together for a long time. They're both scorching hot, they're both fun to be with, and they're both, well, adorable. I was sure they'd get along, and that we'd have fun together. We did. :) "Not a dance, but an experience." That was how Claire summed up our CR adventure afterwards. It was Claire's very first time ever at a strip club, so even if I wasn't her first massage client (as I had hoped to be that memorable day we met last year), at least I could introduce her to something new. And I was very happy to introduce her to Ariel, who was looking especially fetching in a black net outfit over a leopard bikini. Ariel joined us at our table for a brief get-to-know-each-other chat before I invited her to the CR. Once we were in there, the temperature seemed to increase notably, and Claire got so hot that she had to remove her own shirt just to cool down :). So here I was, in heaven so to speak, with these two angels surrounding me, breasts everywhere, Ariel writhing and arousing, and Claire joining in enthusiastically in the fun. Definite chemistry between these two, connecting even better than I had hoped for. And I wasn't left out for a moment (well, maybe for a moment, but it was fine) :) A great session, with two outstanding women. And I hope for a repeat... "Clariel". Does that work?? :)

I would definately say you get special treatment Cato. Mmmmm mmmm very special!!!

Epic it was, my friend. :) http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=100901

Ariel-Claire Heavens duo at Barb's, beyond awesome! :) Report to follow....