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Here is something that happened recently... A gentleman sent a PM requesting information... the problem herr is that he has his profile set as PRIVATE.. not only we were not able to see any information about him.. BUT WE WERE NOT ABLE TO REPLY TO HIS REQUEST... why even bother sending a request for information when you don't allow people to contact you either...

I wish I had more time to post, to be honest. I have a variety of things that compete with my time, such as writing my thesis, my work as a research assistant, my yoga practice, etc. I find it really hard to find time to post on forums which is why I write in my blog more often. I know how important it is for people to get a general sense of who we are beyond what we write on our websites, etc. I hardly tour and sometimes I find it difficult to keep up with all the boards. I can only imagine how much time and energy it takes for those that tour multiple cities across Canada to keep up a board presence. I really (really) admire them a lot. This is completely unrelated, and I hope this isn't a hijack RG, but it reminds me of when people say that being an escort is 'easy money'. They're so foolish! There is so much involved in attracting the kinds of clients you like and will enjoy spending time with (blogs, website maintenance, photo shoots, screening, e-mailing, forum posting, etc). Anyway, while I definitely understand how fun it is to interact with ladies online, it's not so easy sometimes. A lot of people in the industry have blogs now too and I think that's a really good way to balance it all :)

When you visit my profile page I revisit yours, if you allow me. When I do I like to leave a note, a think you and you never know it may be the start of something;) However since I don't tour, yet anyways. I never know if it's a possibility as I DON"T know where you are from. WHY:( can't more of you gentlemen place your province at least on your page? I understand discretion but just a province isn't going to give anyone away, surely! Thank you:)

Another thread just posted recently, this one, http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=166665 got me to thinking (scary thought LOL). CERB is a great forum for the ladies to advertise and the guys to read and write recommendations (and look at photos too ;-) ) But for those members, ladies and gentlemen both, who limit their use of CERB to just advertising, reading (and maybe writing) recommendations but generally speaking not having a board presence it doesn't allow CERB members to get to know you, so to speak For a lady, when a gentleman contacts her, she can get an idea of who he is by the posts he makes. And whether he will be compatible with her for an encounter Likewise, I know for me, for most of my encounters, a large part of my decision as to whether I would contact a lady or not took place after I read her posts. Maybe not all of them, but some of them. It gave me an idea of whether we would be compatible. No one expects a Pulitzer Prize winning novel. But there are threads to share your thoughts. And your pretty much safe participating as long as you keep in mind the CERB mantra "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" Anyhow a rambling on a Saturday afternoon while for a change, it's snowing outside RG

Obviously I love posting here and it would be nice if more did. What better way to get to know a persons personality, likes and dislikes. However there are to many that want to keep their voices silent, who just like to lurk, come on here when they feel like playing and then leave with no trail. It would make me feel safer, possibly, more interested in meeting with a gent if he did have a stronger board presence. However it's not a deal breaker:)

Hey, it makes sense to me. I want to meet ladies to play with (actually, I want to meet specific ladies to play with) best case scenario I want for them to want to meet with me too for reasons beyond my $. If I post and contribute true to my personality then maybe that might just happen. Good chemistry makes for great encounters so for me its a no brainer. Just as an example, I personally enjoy Cristy's contributions to cerb and thought personality wise I'd like to spend some time with her. So when I was headed to Hali I messaged her for a date. She knew me from cerb and I assume felt more comfortable meeting me (she accepted the date request). As it happens personality wise we did enjoy each other and got so engrossed in chatting that we "almost" let the whole date pass with just chatting without even realizing it. It was great companionship beyond the physical, that's what I look for in a lady. Notice I said we "almost" let the date pass, the physical was great too! Yummy!

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The most important, for me at least is her attitude. A positive attitude can make an encounter while a negative attitude can ruin an encounter Running a very close second is chemistry/connection. It is one of those intangibles, either the two of you will have it or you won't. And it's just one of those cases of if you don't have it, it's no one's fault, just some people click and some don't Looks are important, and yes, I take a look at a lady's photos. If there are certain photos that grab my eye then I'll look up the lady's profile and her posts. Her posts are a good indicator of if we will connect and if she has a positive attitude. Services, well I'm not menu driven to begin with, except I like longer encounters and a GFE. I like time spent getting to know one another, and I love kissing, hugging and cuddling. Since at my age I'm good for one time at plate LOL, well however the encounter unfolds is good, no need for a script. And what makes me see a lady a second, third or more times, if my first encounter was memorable, I'll contact you again Don't know if that answers your questions A rambling RG

For me personally I think my confidence is dependent on what aspect of my life I an involved in at the time. In my professional role at work I think most people who know me would say I have a huge amount of confidence which is why I excel in the leadership role I have. In my Community Role I am often engaged in leading community initiatives so I feel a great deal if confidence. In my personal life... my family life... i used to be a very confident Dad and Husband... however I have had a lot happen in my personal life in recent years that has dramatically impacted my personal self image and confidence.... so my confidence in this are is lacking. I'm hoping that will change but who knows. Just my opinion

I might just be an optimist, but I think it's important to keep in mind that many people may not know the workings of things. I mean, you can set your Facebook profile to private but it doesn't prevent replies. I imagine the unlucky fellow is making the same assumption here. I also suspect in many cases what seems obvious to some of us just simply doesn't occur to others, especially new folk or those that don't spend a lot of time interacting on the board. How many people do you suppose when they were newly signing up figured "oh private profile, yeah that seems fine" and then never gave it a second thought. Or they come just to casually look around and it simply never occurs to them that they may be causing difficulties or missing out by not providing basic information for those visiting them. I've benefited so much from my time on Cerb that I have a much better idea of what the ladies find useful to know, and hope I've gained a better sense of how you run your profession. I think this has helped me tweak my profile and made be more comfortable sharing some information. But I think it's easy to forget how paranoid and unsure most of us were starting out. Patience is probably always going to be needed, but threads like these can be a good thing because they educate people on the benefits (and etiquette) of being at least somewhat open.

Perhaps this thread will prompt some into including their location on their profile now and also cause some to realize if you are going to visit profiles allow those you visit the same courtesy:)

I agree, Cristy. What also bothers me is that some can and will read your profile page and yet they do not allow others to see theirs. :(

Absolutely it's the attitude/personality, no competition. I do look for a physical attraction and there's no denying that will help get me in the door, but how enjoyable the time is and how strong and great the memory of the meeting comes down to personality. If the person is quiet, bored, or distracted it doesn't matter the looks. I mean, if looks were all that mattered then I might as well just be gazing at a picture! But someone who is enthusiastic, confident, comfortable, playful, easy to talk to, engaging...that's what really makes for sparks and memories.

I also look for her personality/attitude which I learn through her posts and threads. If she has caught my interest through her writings then I will look at her profile, pictures and web site to learn more about her. I tend not to look at reviews. They usually kill the fantasy for me. Yes looks are important to me. Not the way you might think. I prefer a modest, conservatively dressed woman. As for menu, services and special skills. I think they make things mechanical and script like. What makes me coming back for more is really good chemistry.

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I too wish my mom was like Michaella's. Wouldn't it be nice if all parent s were that non-judgemental and accepting:) But like many I hide what I do from family and some friends, my closest friends know. Doing so does cause some discord in my life.As it's never easy to lie to loved ones, but when you know you'll be judged and probably rejected, what other choice does one have? Some may say if someone doesn't like what I do then they don't belong in my life, but that can be easier said than done. We all have choices to make and although I choose to lead a double life I'd also come clean if I were questioned, only then and accept the consequences. I do envy those who can live openly and proudly doing this, someday maybe:)

The most important thing to me would be attitude. I will admit that I will look at pictures if available, but that is secondary. Reading her posts, and checking reviews gives me a better sense of who I'm meeting. Chemistry brings me back!

Very interesting thread. I believe that hobbyists and providers have this thing in common, we have that side of our life that not all people know about... (I mean not everybody can't openly talk about the way they live their sexuality if you know what I mean). From my experience, it's not always easy managing 2 lives, especially when you know you can tell others because of the consequences that comes with it. In another hand, people don't always need to know lol. As of matter of fact, everybody has secrets anyways and most people lead a "double life in a way or another". As long as one's happy with the choices he/she made and it's not harming anybody than I think it's fine. @ Michaella, I wish I had a family that was open minded and understanding like your Mom. You are lucky and I'm happy for you. :)

Wow that's a large font.....just sayin Additional Comments: I love CG and reverse CG and have never been refused this posn. One lady I know likes it best cuz she can control the action better and ease it in at her own speed.

I just want to clarify something here.. I work out of a Spa, and I decide what hours to work every week... I just set up my schedule to go around the rest of my life... as I am sure is the case for all the ladies... no matter wether they work out of a spa or not... I have made exceptions on my schedule and taken appointments out of the hours I have already stablished for the week,, as long as they dont interfere with other aspects of my life... remember many of us.. independents or SPA attendents have other responsibilities... for some is School, for others is other FT or PT jobs.. and even beyond that FAMILY... And I know fro a fact that I am not the only one at the Spas I work from that accomodate to take appointments even on NON-SPA SCHEDULE HOURS...

This guy should get a recommendation. Wouldn't that be funny? He has saved a lot of us many times. One small example is the Arabic massage girl who looks hot on BP and says a Must see. I was going to go until her pic showed up on his site. The guy is great...and good for all the terrific genuine MPs and SPs all of us love in Ottawa.

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

Their sister Maxime finished 12th in the same event. Imagine They swept the podium. :icon_eek:

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Smalltown Ontario, Cristy :-) RG

The business has always existed and it always will, whether it is out in the open, or a little "dark secret". Some people have a hard time accepting that, but they don't have to participate. It's a reality, maybe moreso now than ever, so the government should just "grow a pair" and legitimize it. I think that is in everyone's best interest

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Watched it live earlier today. BRAVO Z to all of them. Great to see them win for themselves and for Canada. More to come:)

From I saw in picture, it looked like the door was made of cardboard.

I prefer to not leave a trail....just a big, ugly, stinky, green, smiley-ass smear. I love stains. The messier, the better. But I'm a slug. What else can I do? Cristy - Allow me to take your quote totally out of context. That's my thing. I love making stuff up. I also love to pull your zipper ripper sexy leg. Dang- c'mon over and beat me up sweetie. Raaawwrrr! Ahem, sorry. I think I got distracted. Back to the original thread....

I'm a big fan of fresh baked bread. Picked up a French loaf from the grocery store one day that was still warm. pretty awesome. I got a bread machine for Xmas, awesome.

Still remember I was visiting a friend of mine at her mother's place when she received such a call from someone heavily accented who referred to viruses on her "com-poot-her". She's a fiesty Irish lady in her 70s who told him "This is the last time I'm going to tell you bastards, stop calling me, I don't own a f**cken computer". I never laughed so hard in my life. Apparently they never called back. *** Also had a friend who said the guy who called him said he was from "Windows" and they had detected viruses on his computer that had to be cleaned. He played along with them feigning hard of hearing or something, insisting he wasn't interested in having his windows cleaned; that he was quite capable of washing them himself. The guy finally hung up out of frustration.

Haven't been around much lately....but very nice thread Tracie. You have very much become a person..... a staple that does her best to hold this CERB place together here and keep it a happy place in times of need. Cause you care !! and you have a big heart. Kudo's babes !!! xoxo

I know the very first time (and keep in mind I was still a relative newbie to this lifestyle) a certain lady;-) required verification/screening information including a reference and it was somewhat scary for me. OMG she'll know my real name. My stereotype of this lifestyle was it was about anonymous sexual encounters, so imagine this lady wanting my personal information. But I gave it, including my name and verifiable reference. And the result, our very first encounter, was a great encounter, and, well I think a large part of it being a great encounter was even before we met in person, a wall got broken down and there was some level of trust between the two of us, a trust which has grown...if that makes sense Privacy must be respected. But it is a balancing act between a lady's safety and well being versus a man's privacy, well IMHO a lady's safety and well being trump a man's privacy every time. I have found, after seeing a few ladies who require verification, that the information provided is treated with the utmost respect and confidentiality. You can trust the ladies with your personal information. If you don't want to provide your personal information then don't see ladies who require screening information. Me, I'm glad back in my newbie days I overcame my fear of providing verification information. If I had declined she would have declined seeing me, and I know the loss would have been all mine A rambling RG

nice for sure i will take a apointment for the next morning.

Perhaps she has bad knees or lower stamina.... Why not ask if that could be a part of your session, hopefully your fantasy can come true!

This whole business of guys not wanting to give real information to someone they want to get naked with reminds me of a discussion I had last week. In general, providers and clients are engaged in a variant dance of Mutual Assured Destruction. [mutual assured destruction n. Severe, unavoidable reciprocal damage that superpowers are likely to inflict on each other or their allies in a nuclear war, conceived as the heart of a doctrine of nuclear deterrence.] Neither party particularly wants to be "outed" by the other and is highly unlikely to do so because of the "severe, unavoidable reciprocal damage" that would result. So gents, relax. Provide the requested information truthfully and enjoy the results.

I adopted Andy two and a half years ago. I don't know what I would do without him. He is a great conversationalist. He always has something to talk about. He is also a great cuddler.... I love him so much.

Im not sure what is considered older? Age does not matter nor does how long a sp has been in business. If she truly enjoys what she does , you will truly enjoy what she does .HOWEVER We all know what science says when it comes to a women and when she is at her prime (: ......just sayin Amber in her prime

Owning a farm and having kids.........it's been a ride, for sure. New calves that need names and attention- especially preemies. Litters of kittens every time I turned around and being torn between showing them to my kids or praying the kids didn't find them. Accident-prone foals. Baby birds......omfg......my kids would find them, bring them to me, we'd work out a mothering routine for them, and then my kids would disappear to grampies house for a few days.....grrrr. Friggin' things were usually too young when they were found and they would usually die just before my kids got home, but the kids just moved on to the next adventure without a "thanks for trying, dad"! Dogs....love 'em. I grew up with Border Collies and my current girl is now 15 and showing it. Loves the indoors in the wintertime (like me) and, when the time comes, my wife will have to take her to the vet because I cannot. I'll bury her on the farm in a special spot and cry when nobody's watching. My wife has a useless furball that she loves and spoils (okay, I kinda like her, too) that is a Lhasa Apso- Schitzu cross.....sorta like a cat. Oh, btw......cat lovers......you don't own cats- they own you! LOL .

Meh...none of the ladies here are even close to being old, IMO!! ;)

Bait and switch is such a pain in the arse, and then what gets me is do the ladies pulling this expect people to pay for someone they didn't pick ? and then you have thsi whole awkward moment where ( and hopefully this is an outcall to their residence or hotel ) but the scene it could cause you at your home/ neighborhood... i dunno , just bothers me, thanks for the tips. Tinyeye is very important cause if you find that pic being used as the pic for an add or many adds all over the country/world then chances are you're not getting what is advertised.... tinyeye has saved me many a horrible encounter... good luck to you all out there play safe and thanks again for the creator of this thread, tips like this and a little diligence can greatly minimize your risk !

This is a really interesting topic. Fundamentally, "YMMV" means "the provider reserves the right to use her discretion about the exact services she provides". Going into an appointment, assuming advertisement on one side and research on the other, both parties know the transaction is pretty much going to include services "X" unless something goes dramatically wrong. But if she feels inclined during the appointment, some ladies might also provide "Y"; but that's entirely her choice, and a client doesn't get to complain if Y isn't offered. When Y happens, it's not because the client paid for Y; it's solely because the lady chose to offer it at her own discretion. Y is never bought by a client; it's something that's earned. What moves an encounter from X to X+Y? Sometimes it's just about hygiene and mechanics -- right size, that kind of stuff. But also it's about the same simple but not always common stuff that makes it work in conventional relationships. In my experience: are you trustworthy? Are you giving and considerate? (1) Have you given your partner reason to believe she can let down her defenses a little and engage with you a little more? And ultimately... is the chemistry and mood there? Also, as a client: have you engaged your partner in more ways that was strictly "required" of you -- in other words, have you shown the same extra consideration for her that she'd be showing you if she bestowed Y? (1) Hee hee... I'm suddenly reminded of the Boy Scout Law from my youth. It's been a few decades but: A scout is... honest and trustworthy, kind and cheerful, considerate and clean, and wise in the use of his resources. Yes, that's right. The first rule of good intimacy is: follow the Boy Scout Law. If you thought being a Boy Scout was just about helping women across the street... well, you were wrong.

Imagine if Jessica and Emily ...2 gorgeous blondes with the supreme combination of their 2 different qualities..the sexy, slow, sensuous burn, and the high energy, tease. That would be a dream.

I am so happy beautiful Berlin is discussing this issue! I wish some of you knew this: The female body it is made for multiple orgasmic experiences thus if you care to make us come and have an eletric session with you. All you have to do is ask us: How do you prefer? Where and how can i pleasure your body, breasts, thights? How can i perform date on you, to arouse you? We are in the age of the Godess, thus most sexually confident female knows what she likes and dislikes in bed. Some of you even get mad at me when i try to give you tips on my sexual likes and dislikes. And some of you are all about been generous and sensual according to my personal sexual preferences in order to make the best of our encounter and the result it is hot sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Some guy even told me it is "natural to penetrate a lady hard". I would say the word natural it is a dangerous word to use in sexuality and aesthetics. It is natural to allow gas to flow freely, should i fart on your face during sex because it is natural? No right? I prefer gentle and slow sex, but once i am more warm up i will ask for more action. I think desire and lust should lead in bed, not the strength of your male hips. I would prefer that you touch my arms, my legs and my back and my waist and my back before you touch any sexual part of my body, and please be gentle and please warm up your hands before touching us. The beauty is: Some of you already aim to please, but you are rare and you know who you are;). When you penetrate us hard without any care to increase our pleasure we just want to make you come asap, because it hurts.

I totally agree with this. I'm genuinely not trying to ruffle any SP feathers with what I'm about to say, but I think questions about business should be kept in the SP-only section. Why? Because these men are not here to help our business! Reminding them that we are 'working' or are not busy are not the ways to change that. We are part of a fantasy for them, and reminding them of the business aspect ruins that in many ways. I've heard from many hobbiests that they've been messaged on chat or PM, by girls saying things like 'I've just had a cancellation so I'm all alone, come visit me!', or 'I've been alone all day, waiting for someone, want to come over'. These attempts at receving a visitor have NOT been successful, and I can see why - this is just tacky. Our ads, photos, and reviews are what are here to entice these gentlemen, but if they do not make the choice to contact you, sorry, no matter how busy or not busy you are, you shouldn't be making the choice to contact them. The choice to see or not see a lady is up to the hobbiest - it's a big part of why they choose SPs instead of going to a bar! Slow business sucks, I've encountered this in many jobs in my life, but it's something everyone has to deal with. Also - every hobbiest knows that you should NEVER ask a lady 'how's business', 'how many clients have you seen today?' and the like. So I don't see why we should be asking them why business is slow. It's the opposite side of the same coin. I'm in no way trying to single anyone out, especially not the OP here, just giving my two cents. And I'm sure things WILL be getting better for everyone soon, as MOD points out above it's a busy time of year for family men!!