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Here is something that happened recently... A gentleman sent a PM requesting information... the problem herr is that he has his profile set as PRIVATE.. not only we were not able to see any information about him.. BUT WE WERE NOT ABLE TO REPLY TO HIS REQUEST... why even bother sending a request for information when you don't allow people to contact you either...

I wish I had more time to post, to be honest. I have a variety of things that compete with my time, such as writing my thesis, my work as a research assistant, my yoga practice, etc. I find it really hard to find time to post on forums which is why I write in my blog more often. I know how important it is for people to get a general sense of who we are beyond what we write on our websites, etc. I hardly tour and sometimes I find it difficult to keep up with all the boards. I can only imagine how much time and energy it takes for those that tour multiple cities across Canada to keep up a board presence. I really (really) admire them a lot. This is completely unrelated, and I hope this isn't a hijack RG, but it reminds me of when people say that being an escort is 'easy money'. They're so foolish! There is so much involved in attracting the kinds of clients you like and will enjoy spending time with (blogs, website maintenance, photo shoots, screening, e-mailing, forum posting, etc). Anyway, while I definitely understand how fun it is to interact with ladies online, it's not so easy sometimes. A lot of people in the industry have blogs now too and I think that's a really good way to balance it all :)

When you visit my profile page I revisit yours, if you allow me. When I do I like to leave a note, a think you and you never know it may be the start of something;) However since I don't tour, yet anyways. I never know if it's a possibility as I DON"T know where you are from. WHY:( can't more of you gentlemen place your province at least on your page? I understand discretion but just a province isn't going to give anyone away, surely! Thank you:)

Another thread just posted recently, this one, http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=166665 got me to thinking (scary thought LOL). CERB is a great forum for the ladies to advertise and the guys to read and write recommendations (and look at photos too ;-) ) But for those members, ladies and gentlemen both, who limit their use of CERB to just advertising, reading (and maybe writing) recommendations but generally speaking not having a board presence it doesn't allow CERB members to get to know you, so to speak For a lady, when a gentleman contacts her, she can get an idea of who he is by the posts he makes. And whether he will be compatible with her for an encounter Likewise, I know for me, for most of my encounters, a large part of my decision as to whether I would contact a lady or not took place after I read her posts. Maybe not all of them, but some of them. It gave me an idea of whether we would be compatible. No one expects a Pulitzer Prize winning novel. But there are threads to share your thoughts. And your pretty much safe participating as long as you keep in mind the CERB mantra "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" Anyhow a rambling on a Saturday afternoon while for a change, it's snowing outside RG

Obviously I love posting here and it would be nice if more did. What better way to get to know a persons personality, likes and dislikes. However there are to many that want to keep their voices silent, who just like to lurk, come on here when they feel like playing and then leave with no trail. It would make me feel safer, possibly, more interested in meeting with a gent if he did have a stronger board presence. However it's not a deal breaker:)

Hey, it makes sense to me. I want to meet ladies to play with (actually, I want to meet specific ladies to play with) best case scenario I want for them to want to meet with me too for reasons beyond my $. If I post and contribute true to my personality then maybe that might just happen. Good chemistry makes for great encounters so for me its a no brainer. Just as an example, I personally enjoy Cristy's contributions to cerb and thought personality wise I'd like to spend some time with her. So when I was headed to Hali I messaged her for a date. She knew me from cerb and I assume felt more comfortable meeting me (she accepted the date request). As it happens personality wise we did enjoy each other and got so engrossed in chatting that we "almost" let the whole date pass with just chatting without even realizing it. It was great companionship beyond the physical, that's what I look for in a lady. Notice I said we "almost" let the date pass, the physical was great too! Yummy!

New bra & panties, as well as new PJs from Victoria Secret :) yay!

The most important, for me at least is her attitude. A positive attitude can make an encounter while a negative attitude can ruin an encounter Running a very close second is chemistry/connection. It is one of those intangibles, either the two of you will have it or you won't. And it's just one of those cases of if you don't have it, it's no one's fault, just some people click and some don't Looks are important, and yes, I take a look at a lady's photos. If there are certain photos that grab my eye then I'll look up the lady's profile and her posts. Her posts are a good indicator of if we will connect and if she has a positive attitude. Services, well I'm not menu driven to begin with, except I like longer encounters and a GFE. I like time spent getting to know one another, and I love kissing, hugging and cuddling. Since at my age I'm good for one time at plate LOL, well however the encounter unfolds is good, no need for a script. And what makes me see a lady a second, third or more times, if my first encounter was memorable, I'll contact you again Don't know if that answers your questions A rambling RG

For me personally I think my confidence is dependent on what aspect of my life I an involved in at the time. In my professional role at work I think most people who know me would say I have a huge amount of confidence which is why I excel in the leadership role I have. In my Community Role I am often engaged in leading community initiatives so I feel a great deal if confidence. In my personal life... my family life... i used to be a very confident Dad and Husband... however I have had a lot happen in my personal life in recent years that has dramatically impacted my personal self image and confidence.... so my confidence in this are is lacking. I'm hoping that will change but who knows. Just my opinion

I might just be an optimist, but I think it's important to keep in mind that many people may not know the workings of things. I mean, you can set your Facebook profile to private but it doesn't prevent replies. I imagine the unlucky fellow is making the same assumption here. I also suspect in many cases what seems obvious to some of us just simply doesn't occur to others, especially new folk or those that don't spend a lot of time interacting on the board. How many people do you suppose when they were newly signing up figured "oh private profile, yeah that seems fine" and then never gave it a second thought. Or they come just to casually look around and it simply never occurs to them that they may be causing difficulties or missing out by not providing basic information for those visiting them. I've benefited so much from my time on Cerb that I have a much better idea of what the ladies find useful to know, and hope I've gained a better sense of how you run your profession. I think this has helped me tweak my profile and made be more comfortable sharing some information. But I think it's easy to forget how paranoid and unsure most of us were starting out. Patience is probably always going to be needed, but threads like these can be a good thing because they educate people on the benefits (and etiquette) of being at least somewhat open.

Perhaps this thread will prompt some into including their location on their profile now and also cause some to realize if you are going to visit profiles allow those you visit the same courtesy:)

I agree, Cristy. What also bothers me is that some can and will read your profile page and yet they do not allow others to see theirs. :(

Absolutely it's the attitude/personality, no competition. I do look for a physical attraction and there's no denying that will help get me in the door, but how enjoyable the time is and how strong and great the memory of the meeting comes down to personality. If the person is quiet, bored, or distracted it doesn't matter the looks. I mean, if looks were all that mattered then I might as well just be gazing at a picture! But someone who is enthusiastic, confident, comfortable, playful, easy to talk to, engaging...that's what really makes for sparks and memories.

I also look for her personality/attitude which I learn through her posts and threads. If she has caught my interest through her writings then I will look at her profile, pictures and web site to learn more about her. I tend not to look at reviews. They usually kill the fantasy for me. Yes looks are important to me. Not the way you might think. I prefer a modest, conservatively dressed woman. As for menu, services and special skills. I think they make things mechanical and script like. What makes me coming back for more is really good chemistry.

Magic vines. Worth watching... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJIx4fRuOmE

I too wish my mom was like Michaella's. Wouldn't it be nice if all parent s were that non-judgemental and accepting:) But like many I hide what I do from family and some friends, my closest friends know. Doing so does cause some discord in my life.As it's never easy to lie to loved ones, but when you know you'll be judged and probably rejected, what other choice does one have? Some may say if someone doesn't like what I do then they don't belong in my life, but that can be easier said than done. We all have choices to make and although I choose to lead a double life I'd also come clean if I were questioned, only then and accept the consequences. I do envy those who can live openly and proudly doing this, someday maybe:)

The most important thing to me would be attitude. I will admit that I will look at pictures if available, but that is secondary. Reading her posts, and checking reviews gives me a better sense of who I'm meeting. Chemistry brings me back!

Very interesting thread. I believe that hobbyists and providers have this thing in common, we have that side of our life that not all people know about... (I mean not everybody can't openly talk about the way they live their sexuality if you know what I mean). From my experience, it's not always easy managing 2 lives, especially when you know you can tell others because of the consequences that comes with it. In another hand, people don't always need to know lol. As of matter of fact, everybody has secrets anyways and most people lead a "double life in a way or another". As long as one's happy with the choices he/she made and it's not harming anybody than I think it's fine. @ Michaella, I wish I had a family that was open minded and understanding like your Mom. You are lucky and I'm happy for you. :)

Wow that's a large font.....just sayin Additional Comments: I love CG and reverse CG and have never been refused this posn. One lady I know likes it best cuz she can control the action better and ease it in at her own speed.

I just want to clarify something here.. I work out of a Spa, and I decide what hours to work every week... I just set up my schedule to go around the rest of my life... as I am sure is the case for all the ladies... no matter wether they work out of a spa or not... I have made exceptions on my schedule and taken appointments out of the hours I have already stablished for the week,, as long as they dont interfere with other aspects of my life... remember many of us.. independents or SPA attendents have other responsibilities... for some is School, for others is other FT or PT jobs.. and even beyond that FAMILY... And I know fro a fact that I am not the only one at the Spas I work from that accomodate to take appointments even on NON-SPA SCHEDULE HOURS...

This guy should get a recommendation. Wouldn't that be funny? He has saved a lot of us many times. One small example is the Arabic massage girl who looks hot on BP and says a Must see. I was going to go until her pic showed up on his site. The guy is great...and good for all the terrific genuine MPs and SPs all of us love in Ottawa.

Hi everyone, I was wondering what was for you the most important aspects when you go for an SP (may apply to an MA as well ;). Is it your first impression? Her looks ? Service? Attitude? Menu? Special skills? Also, what would make you want to come back again? I'd love to know what you think guys :)

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"It's been said before but I'm saying it again!" Now, you have to remember cristycurves, we're man!! ;) (Just kidding) I have to agree that only having your province should not affect in anyway your identity!

Attitude is top of the list follow by looks. Nothing worse than seeing a hot looking lady that doesn't want to be there. I've had ladies that did not match my taste on looks but a great attitude made for a great session. The jackpot is when I find both, I've only come across a handful of ladies with both and they are on my repeat list.

For me it is the personal connection. If I feel there is chemistry and that we connect with each other then the visit is going to be a success. Though being as beautiful as Eva Pearl doesn't hurt either. ;-)

I like to see people's POV, tells a lot about them. I like a site that has new posts and that many are worth visiting multiple times. I used to have a really hard time finding things on this site, because i always used the main page, rather than New Posts. Since then, i only click New Posts first, and then might revisit a particular section after i see what i missed since my last visit lol. Anyone can look at the post count and notice i always have something to say about random stuff. :)

i agree 100 % , a reco is just a helpful bit of advice , its different strokes for different folks, what im attracted to might not be what your attracted to and vice versa , chemistry, attraction all what cristy said is right on the button.... on a positive note i had an awesome time with a gorgeous young lady last night .. yes thats why i cant stop smiling !!

I've always liked how optical illusions look so I find this really cool... The following link shows examples of how simply placing two white lines between gif images can make it 3d without glasses. The effect is pretty impressive I'd say: http://www.wikitree.us/story/2052 What do you think?

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You could try Luscious Lilly in the Westboro area. Typically, indies are more flexible about the services they offer, since they make their own rules in their own place. As for being cheaper? Not necessarily, they still have to pay for their own rent and other overhead. The only real difference is that they don't break down the fee into a door fee and a tip fee, it's all just included together in one fee.

Haven't been around much lately....but very nice thread Tracie. You have very much become a person..... a staple that does her best to hold this CERB place together here and keep it a happy place in times of need. Cause you care !! and you have a big heart. Kudo's babes !!! xoxo

nice for sure i will take a apointment for the next morning.

In relation to this, is when a client wants an outcall to a hotel. Just recently, someone wanted to see me at a 5 star hotel that requires a key card to get on the floor. He was texting me - I asked him to call me from his room to verify he was actually a guest at the hotel. He replied that his room did not have a phone in it. I knew this was a lie, as this hotel has phones in all of the rooms. I then said, well, give me your room number and name, and I'll call you. He then replied "I'll get someone who's not so complicated". No problem I replied. Good luck in finding anyone who will come to this hotel with no verification. There are those that like to make fake bookings - I have no idea if this person was even in town, if this was a child or an adult, or if this was a male or a female. I can't get this information from a text message. Needless to say, he didn't want to give me his information - I didn't want him to meet Ms. Kitty. End of conversation with him.

I hope the conservatives will go for the legal framework they have in Newzeeland, where prostitution is licensed and brothels are regulated and have safety and health standards. My fear is the current government will continue its dogmatic crime and punishment model pushing prostitution into the dark corners of society making it dangerous for the people working in the industry and those who frequent them.

Only my opinion but I would much rather meet with a lady that has a strict screening policy than a lady that will accept any man because of the $$.... Mutual respect should be at the forefront, cleanliness and safety, of course. I have to agree that it is scary to tell someone, you do not know, who you are, what you do and what you would like!! It could be very damaging if this had to some out....After all, we would all like to remain anonymous, but the reality is, there is the potential for a lady to meet a numbnut and that should not even be a possibility... Screening is and should be accepted by all!! No exception. If you do not like it, maybe you should stroll down a bar and have some fun!! Just saying....... :)

Recommendations IMHO are not the end all in selecting a lady to see. Yes a tool, but just one of many But some companions are just starting out, so they may not have any recommendations yet. Ladies just new to this lifestyle would never get started because if the advice given to guys is don't see a lady unless she has a reco. Recos come from seeing clients, even the VERY first one Also a great companion may not have any recos, not because she is not a good companion, but because a client, after having a great encounter, doesn't write about it in the recommendation threads, for whatever reason. Doesn't mean she is a bad companion, just that her client didn't write a recommendation when one was deserved Finally, especially in the case of ladies who tour regularly, but even those who occasionally tour, if there are no recommendations in your city, take a look at the recommendation threads for other cities. She may be recommended in other cities. I have had great encounters with some ladies who at the time had no recommendations (they do now ;-) ) But if I followed the logic of don't see a lady who has no recommendations, well the loss would have been mine A rambling RG

I adopted Andy two and a half years ago. I don't know what I would do without him. He is a great conversationalist. He always has something to talk about. He is also a great cuddler.... I love him so much.

Realnicehat is bang on: it's a considerable difference owning cats vs. dogs. I've had both (though the cat belonged to my girlfriend at the time). Cats are solitary creatures, and dogs are pack animals: so if you have a dog, prepare to provide the PE, or Pack Experience. A LOT. Your dog wants to be with you, and to DO things with you. A LOT. Cats are mostly okay if you feed them and they'll let you know if they want to cuddle for a bit now and then. Your dog will become depressed if you don't walk him/her, play with him/her, and make him/her feel loved and part of something. On the other hand... that's just true of any worthwhile relationship, so love your dog and make him/her an active, ongoing, frequent part of your life and you'll get all of that back in spades. It's the only really unconditional love. Incidentally I have two dogs -- siblings from the same litter so they've known each other from the womb onward. Much as I love my dogs and doing things with them, they provide each other with a kind of peer companionship I can't give them. They love to sniff things together, bark at things together, and lick each other's ears, and at least one of those things I'm not much inclined to do. I'm definitely NOT suggesting getting two dogs now -- it's a double handful. I already had one rescue dog from midlife to heartbreaking finish, and only took on two in this second round of dog ownership after a pause of many years. That said, for those who feel up to it, I can report that I think it does wonders for both of my dogs to have each other in addition to me.

I think an important piece is being forgotten here, better may be about performance for some but not for everyone so to have a general answer on this is impossible, some prefer younger ladies so for those they are better, others prefer older ladies so for them they are better, some do not care about age and base their preferences in other factors and I know there are gentlemen here who like both. Also, we all have a definition of old/ young so as I said, IMO there's no real answer to this question and I don't get why was it asked as what matters here should be someone's own preference/opinions.

Btw... When are we considered "old" ?!?:icon_confused:

I've been trying to get these two together for a long time. They're both scorching hot, they're both fun to be with, and they're both, well, adorable. I was sure they'd get along, and that we'd have fun together. We did. :) "Not a dance, but an experience." That was how Claire summed up our CR adventure afterwards. It was Claire's very first time ever at a strip club, so even if I wasn't her first massage client (as I had hoped to be that memorable day we met last year), at least I could introduce her to something new. And I was very happy to introduce her to Ariel, who was looking especially fetching in a black net outfit over a leopard bikini. Ariel joined us at our table for a brief get-to-know-each-other chat before I invited her to the CR. Once we were in there, the temperature seemed to increase notably, and Claire got so hot that she had to remove her own shirt just to cool down :). So here I was, in heaven so to speak, with these two angels surrounding me, breasts everywhere, Ariel writhing and arousing, and Claire joining in enthusiastically in the fun. Definite chemistry between these two, connecting even better than I had hoped for. And I wasn't left out for a moment (well, maybe for a moment, but it was fine) :) A great session, with two outstanding women. And I hope for a repeat... "Clariel". Does that work?? :)

I would definately say you get special treatment Cato. Mmmmm mmmm very special!!!

Epic it was, my friend. :) http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=100901

But Cato.....Claire Heavens' link at the top of the very page I'm viewing says "incalls only". Guess she made an exception (understandably) for you and Barb's. Must have been.....what is the word I'm looking for here?....oh yes.... .....epic!

I totally agree with this. I'm genuinely not trying to ruffle any SP feathers with what I'm about to say, but I think questions about business should be kept in the SP-only section. Why? Because these men are not here to help our business! Reminding them that we are 'working' or are not busy are not the ways to change that. We are part of a fantasy for them, and reminding them of the business aspect ruins that in many ways. I've heard from many hobbiests that they've been messaged on chat or PM, by girls saying things like 'I've just had a cancellation so I'm all alone, come visit me!', or 'I've been alone all day, waiting for someone, want to come over'. These attempts at receving a visitor have NOT been successful, and I can see why - this is just tacky. Our ads, photos, and reviews are what are here to entice these gentlemen, but if they do not make the choice to contact you, sorry, no matter how busy or not busy you are, you shouldn't be making the choice to contact them. The choice to see or not see a lady is up to the hobbiest - it's a big part of why they choose SPs instead of going to a bar! Slow business sucks, I've encountered this in many jobs in my life, but it's something everyone has to deal with. Also - every hobbiest knows that you should NEVER ask a lady 'how's business', 'how many clients have you seen today?' and the like. So I don't see why we should be asking them why business is slow. It's the opposite side of the same coin. I'm in no way trying to single anyone out, especially not the OP here, just giving my two cents. And I'm sure things WILL be getting better for everyone soon, as MOD points out above it's a busy time of year for family men!!