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I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

@Rob369 as Emma said, you can always engage in some conversations with the person you're interested in prior to meeting to determine if they are open to what you're looking for. This is also a great time for post reading as well, especially the ones involving topics that are more affectionate or sensual in nature ie: kissing, touch, cuddling, playfulness etc. This will give you a deeper understanding of the person you wish to see. Websites, blogs etc. are also great indicators. It may take a little effort but your pleasure is worth it for finding someone who can give you what you want and need! When it comes to a partner wanting to indulge in the hobby, I have to say it would depend on the circumstances. Trust is definitely needed as is communication. If they are interested in pursuing this because they are not feeling loved or valued, than that is something that needs to be dealt with and not ignored because it can lead to many issues. If it is simply a matter of variety, interest or treat, as long as there has been open communication about things, then certainly. Indulging together can also be a great experience to deepen the relationship and keep the fires burning. I have had clients bring me a thoughtful gift or write just to say they were thinking of me. It's the simple things that mean the most to me. I am myself in what I do so anything genuine makes me smile. I care about people and it's nice to have that returned.

I love that this topic has opened such a great discussion. One thing I wonder, as some ladies (to be frank, as myself) have been in the business for a while, and to be honest, don't get as many reviews as I once did. I think this is due to avoid redundancy. I don't think this is because my service has declined, but more the idea that - "oh yeah, we know her, so no need to review anymore." I think this is true for some other local ladies with good reviews but because they are not "new" that clientele maybe figures that a review is not needed. If a newbie were come to the board and base their decision on "local and reviewed well" then there could be a fair amount of ladies that would be overlooked as their reviews aren't up to the minute. By no means am I implying anybody should review me or others to try to "bump us up." I am just making and observation. The idea of TOFTT is important too because a new lady shouldn't be denied clientele on the sheer fact she is new, but I do agree that the lady's fee should reflect her "starter" status (for lack of a better word) and once established a good reputation, adopt the standard/fair fee. just my two cents PS one more point - just because a lady is local doesn't always mean that your privacy is compromised. It just takes a bit of research to know that there are ladies that value their discretion as much as yours :)

Things that make me Happy: See senior couples walking in the park holding hands (lets me know we all have that chance to grow old with someone) Listening to my son try and teach me to count to 10 in French on FaceTime - he's 5 and when I don't get it he hangs up on me :) The sun shining - even on an awful winter day and the feeling of being loved - nothing beats that!

I'm local to Winnipeg and mostly see regular clientele here, some for 5+ years. I also travel to Regina/Saskatoon almost monthly (weather permitting), and have the same kind of clientele there. Mostly repeat customers, some for years. I think for me, the choice has been mostly about finding a connection, and true sexual fun. I'm a lover when you need me. Sensual Porscha

I don't know if my opinion matters. For me as a touring gentleman locally is from Ottawa, Ont in the east to London, Ont in the west. Seeing a companion has nothing to do with local versus visiting however. It has to do with whoever interests me, and second, if I can tour to the city (or cities) she is in to see her. To me touring ladies aren't a threat to local ladies nor should local ladies be considered a threat to touring ladies. Each lady just needs to present and market herself, as the saying goes there is someone for everyone. Instead of worrying about what another lady does, just advertise yourself, and who you are. Maybe a gentleman wants to see that other lady, whether she is touring or local, but also, by the same token, some other gentleman wants to meet you. And seeing a companion at least for me, is based on my interest in meeting her first and foremost. Not on whether she is a local versus visiting companion A rambling which I hope makes sense RG

Making my mom happy... she's suffering from Alzeimer and I went to her place and gave her a bath...yes she's at that level now...although she was reluctant at first I managed to convince her and she thanked me many times...the look of releif on my dad's face...that made my day :) BJ

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

The perceived quality of any date, longer or shorter, seems more to depend on knowing what you want and selecting the right sort of companion for that date. There are many ladies that enjoy shorter encounters, they find the 30min. option ideal as they prefer a more physical encounter and there is no shortage of clients that also seek that out. Then there are ladies that are uncomfortable in shorter time frames, have min. 1hr (or longer) dates because they like to go a little slower, ease into the date if you will. There are a number of clients that seek out this sort of companionship as well. A 1hr date can be entirely physical or it can be a little slower, where you have a little conversation and some time to sip wine or lie back and relax together. In that situation you really just need to know your companion, know what type of date she prefers as it will flow best when you are both on the same page. Figure out what you find most appealing, whether you prefer a date with more of a mental connection or something that is more of a raw physical encounter then seek out a lady that has similar tastes. If you connect with someone with a similar interest then it will be a quality date. :)

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When you run across people whether you know them or not that truly love and care for each other. I have a special affinity towards seeing elderly couple that cherish each other.

I would not. Those of us who are partnered or married depend on the support we get from our SO. Many times they help us book tickets, rooms and keep the home running while we are away. They also support us financially, if we have a bad week their paycheck is in the bank, guaranteed. This allows us not to fret about seeing X number of people and saves a lot of stress. In return for all this if my SO wanted to see someone else that is a treat he totally deserves.

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A movie on VOD...Saving Private Ryan Watching it on my new tv...WOW!!!...how I managed with that old huge tube tv I don't know RG

Home means comfort over style. Sweat pants trump slacks. Baggy tee shirts complete the ensemble. Dinner is often eaten in front of the television right from the coffee table. All manner of bodily sound effects are in play. Burps and farts break the silence with disturbing regularity. I guess my classiest move is the drive by fart. My SO & I will be on the love seat and I need to get up for some reason. As I exit the area I leave something for her to remember me. Drive by. :pete:

CMJ is totally right, massage industry is not what It used to be, everyday full service spas come into the business and all the magic of the sensual massage goes to other level. I think solution is for those spas to become agencies, and stop calling themselves massage parlors.

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I think you need to bear in mind that: Not all local ladies are established There are "new" local ladies popping up all the time who come and go or stick around and eventually become established or otherwise. Not all visiting ladies are new - there are established providers who tour. Those with recos/reviews are probably a better gamble than some new visiting lady no one has ever heard about. Whatever you choose, the bottom line is if it sounds too good to be true, or appears sketchy, it probably is.

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In theory, MOD's definition is warm and fuzzy and what it should be... BUT - (sorry MOD, I doubt you have been an MA) reality is totally different. I have been asked many times as of lately what GFE really means - sadly, some have totally ruined and misrepresented this term - implied and guaranteed DFK, DATY, being fingered, FS and basically everything BUT a relaxing sensual massage. Call me prudish but there has been a change in what is expected in the massage rooms of Ottawa over the last few years. CMJ defines GFE as a "genuinely fabulous experience, girl friend experience" Just like, in REAL life, you don't connect with everyone and wouldn't want just any pretty girl or handsome guy to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Also in real life, would you want your GF, GFE-ing it up with 5-10 different guys a day? DFK, DATY - lets not forget that now that SP's like to work in some MP's, and the fact that some MP's actively promote and encourage SP services (Blow Jobs and Full Service) in their "massage parlours", your risk for catching all kinds of STD's and STI's (both of the mouth/throat & genitalia area) have dramatically increased. Being selective and genuine is crucial not only for your health but for the longevity of the MASSAGE industry. The lines are being blurred and its very sad. I dont think that GFE guarantees DFK either.... I highly doubt you would play tonsil hockey with someone who has seriously bad gingivitis. Don't I feel sorry for the lady who feels that she can't give a great experience without having to DFK gingivitis boy. I am sorry but man this annoys me... and its a very dangerous road. Call me old fashioned but I am used to the days when GFE was a term that belonged to high end selective courtesans. As MOD said, it implies sensuality - well for me, sensual massage implies that imperatively. Things evolve and change, and I am not against that - however when you take an SP original term and try and apply it to a MA world - you get alot of confusion and blurred lines. Theory and reality are two different things. I hear my staff tell me everyday... and in my opinion, GFE "girlfriend experience" should have stayed an SP term .... hence why CMJ has had to re-define it to appropriately fit into the massage realm. Genuinely Fabulous Experience

I totally agree Ice4fun...and a true gent would never ask this! The one thing that stood out for me was that a client offered me a massage at the beginning of the appt (1h) and it lasted for 30 min :icon_biggrin:...omfg it was amazing! I felt like a queen!! And a client in NY brought me a BD gift before our second appt :), that was a very sweet thought!!!

Glad to hear that you had a good experience with her. Unfortunately, many have not had the same experience, and the shortfalls have been noted in other forums, were she interested in checking. You might want to give us a few details of your session, explaining how it was a positive experience. And, since it is your first post here, you could give us a frame of reference by comparing her to other SP's you may have visited. Maybe a little about the area she works out of, were facilities provided, fresh towels, easy parking. Its not the clients job to give advice or teach an SP. But if she'd like a little constructive criticism, she could work on her presentation on the internet. Declaring oneself as a student and then posting an ad with such horrible spelling and grammar, well, it does not bode well for a professional encounter. That and using current pictures (the very nice, professional ones she uses along with the phone camera shots are quite old, nice, but old, and saying they were taken yesterday whe we've seen them for years, well) would go a long way to enhancing her reputation. There, I've started the ball rolling, my two cents worth of free advice, as the quoted poster requested.

Saw Avah last night. For some reason I've never heard of her before but she's quite popular and busy at paradise. Formerly from ALO and AAA. Booked my usual 45 min at $65 door fee. Looks: I would say she's got this Amy Winehouse/Kim Kardashian thing going: black thick hair, dark makeup, some tats, kicking body, natural D's, not spinner not fat, just perfect. Awesome ass. Session was pretty awesome. Firm BS, using all her weight on me that felt great. Then she does this thing where she turns over so her back is contacting my back and she slides everywhere with butt rubbing on my back. Nice. Then I flip and she's front to me and flips again so her back is facing me. When I look in the mirror it looks and feels like RCG. Tons of oil, holy shit. Throughout the whole thing I'm actually thinking "I hope I don't slip inside her!" Lol. OK guys, I will say only this: her menu is extensive. PM me if you don't understand what that means. I left satisfied. Damage was on par with what I'd expect. Repeat: sure. However, I'm not sure if I'd repeat every time with her. I'd have to be in the mood for her energy level. Her attitude was amazing, and she's not shy at all. Closest thing I've ever had to what I'd call PSE in a MP setting :). If you're in the mood for a bad girl, go see Avah.

There will be a sex-worker only social from 7:30 p.m. - 9:30 p.m. on Wednesday March 5th. It is open to sex-workers from any sector of the industry including erotic massage, escorts, cam workers, erotic dancers, people who offer BDSM services, phone workers, agency workers, and independents, etc. It is also open to any person of any gender and sexual orientation. There will be vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free snacks available. Please feel free to drop by for 15 minutes and then leave, or stay for the entirety of the two hours. Please PM me for the location (same location as usual). Again, this is for workers only. Thanks, Nat xox

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John Caines hosts a very popular call in radio show dealing with home renovations. I would like to start a thread where cerbies could ask for suggestions and give advice regarding renos, car maintenance, electronics gardening, etc.... Let's share our hidden knowledge and abilities :) This is the "how to" thread (how to anything....scrapbooking, stainglassing, photography etc....) so share what you are knowledgeable and passionate about and ask questions about what you want to learn!

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Getting a text from my daughter to see if I'm available for a Skype session. She'll have the baby on for a visit, and he's now able to sit up and starting to recognize whats going on, on the laptop. It's such a treat watching him develop, just seven months old.

haha too funny...just read it too...and all I could think of was remembering kissing Savannah at the last social and massaging Nathalie's shoulder during a girls get together...hmmm nice memories :D

Whatever,

If the lady has booked a particular date and time for an individual already, even two minutes before me, and I was the regular, I respect the premise of first come first serve. If there is any benefit to being a regular, one shouldn't be bumping a lady's scheduled encounters. As a regular, or even a new client, one thing, first and foremost is to still remember and respect that this is the lady's livelihood, and you expecting her to bump or cancel a scheduled encounter may lead to her lose that encounter for good, which equals to loss of income for her. A gentleman, especially a regular would not want to see a lady lose any income. A rambling RG Additional Comments: I had to cancel last minute once on a lady I see regularly, she got paid in full plus tip by me. While I cancelled last minute due to illness, and it wasn't my fault I got sick, but it wasn't the lady's fault at all...but why should she be at a loss because I was sick. She got compensated in full because she would otherwise be at a loss income wise because she set aside a time and date for me, a time and date I wasn't going to make. And she didn't need to ask me for a cancellation fee, I just had to find out how to get the money to her (email money transfer) A rambling RG

I agree with what has been said. I have met lots of beautiful ladies that do not smile, their eyes are cold with no expression and because of that, I found them less beautiful. Beauty is not just physical...I'd say that it's a state of mind... Beauty, like grace, sensuality & charisma are very important, but they fade relative to the light that emanates from an individual...Real beauty comes from the inside, a woman whose smile is open and whose expression is glad has a kind of beauty no matter what she wears. And I believe it.

Congratulations on 2000 post.... can't wait for next 2000.

I can't speak for every guy but personally, I have no interest in toys at all. You ladies already have the best playthings built in :)

I noticed they have an ad on BP now and because of that I was able to run the posted pics. through Google. For some reason the VIP site wouldn't let me right click on the pics. to obtain the URL...mmm wonder why??? Anyway the pics. of "Jade and Jordon" are actually Tess Lyndon and Susan Snow and they are taken from a site called Nasty Porn Pics. That should be enough info. on the VIP agency. Link to the BP ad: http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/vip-escorts-is-proud-to-offer-its-ultimate-duo-in-charlottetown-pei-19/1654057

You know...that's kinda one of my fantasy. Hope it will happen one day!

1. Do you think that purchasing sexual services from an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: Consensual commercial sexual services/activities between consenting adult service providers and clients should not be a criminal offence. Government has no legitimate role in criminalizing consenting adult sexual activity regardless of whether it is a commercial or non commercial transaction. Criminal law should focus on violence, threats of violence, extortion, withholding of passports/visas, illegal confinement and underage commercial sexual activity. Broadly these acts would fall under the headings of underage prostitution, human trafficking, pimping and assault. I do not support the Nordic model in which one partner (the client) in the service transaction is criminalized. While such laws have been passed elsewhere, I do not believe the Canadian constitution allows for such inequitable rights or criminal laws. I can't think of any other example in Canada where one person can be doing something legal while simultaneously another participant is deemed to be engaged in a criminal act. Any violent acts or threats etc by a client should be prosecuted just as they would be in the case of any two individuals where such harmful behaviour occurred. 2. Do you think that selling sexual services by an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I do not think that consenting adults selling sexual services should be criminalized. I think everyone recognizes that sex work can never be successfully "abolished". It has and always will exist. Criminalizing homosexual sex and anal sex in the past for example was a misguided attempt to eliminate them. The desire for sex, intimacy, human contact and variety is too deep to stamp out these desires. These desires cannot always be met by accepted social convention. Sex workers (women, men and transgendered) fulfil a need and niche in the commercial market. The next question is will prohibition through criminalization of service providers make citizens in general safer and more specifically will it make sex workers safer? The Supreme Court acknowledged that providing sexual services has unique risks. The social stigma associated with providing sexual services creates a social climate which increases the risks to service providers. Criminalization only increases the stigma and the resulting risks. While much of the Supreme Court's reasoning was based upon the fact that adult prostitution is currently legal, criminalizing it will not eliminate sex work nor will it eliminate or even reduce the risks to sex workers. Criminalization will continue to keep sex work in the shadow. Sex workers who have the means and skills will continue to work using online marketing. Even nordic countries acknowledge they've made no dent in this market. Outside sex workers will be forced even further into the shadows, unsafe locations, be further alienated from law enforcement and have even less opportunity to screen clients. The Nordic model assumes that sex work is exploitation of women by men. Obviously the largest portion of the market for sexual services is male heterosexual clients and female sex workers. The Nordic model however fails to acknowledge the diversity of sex workers and their clients (male sex workers for males, women for women, women for male/female couples, men for male/female couples, transgender workers for males etc.) How can a law be adopted which supposedly targets the exploitation of women by men, yet simultaneously sweeps in many other citizens? Finally, I've met many sex workers and they do not fit the stereotype of exploited or downtrodden women. Many have university degrees, have other small businesses (accounting, design etc) and like many people have made conscious choices about how they want to make their income and how long they want to do this work. Some women, while very intelligent, have not been able to get jobs that pay living wages for a variety of reasons (education, no work experience and a mid life divorce etc.). While sex work was not their first choice of work, they are comfortable doing this work. They will continue do it if it is entirely criminalized (just as many aspects of their work are already criminalized). Will criminalization of their work in its entirety make their lives better? I recognize that some sex workers are in exploitive conditions. These people deserve protection under our criminal laws, just as any citizen does. Existing laws related to assault, extortion etc should be used for their protection and strengthened if necessary to achieve successful prosecution of exploitive pimps or clients. 3. If you support allowing the sale or purchase of sexual services, what limitations should there be, if any, on where or how this can be conducted? Please explain. Comment: The federal government does not need to be involved in specifying where sex work can or cannot occur. This is a zoning and licensing issue for Municipalities. Specifying where sex work can occur is certainly not an issue for criminal law. Municipalities currently have sufficient enabling powers to specify acceptable locations, exterior appearance, signage, concentration and separation distances form other sensitive uses etc. These decisions need to be unique for each community. No community should be given the power to ban any aspect of sex work if it remains legal and if the laws related to indoor sex work are liberalized. Public solicitation, usually on public streets remains problematic. It has social and legal issues similar to panhandling. Outdoor sex workers however should not be forced into unsafe locations which increase their potential risks. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I'm answering this question, not on the basis of the assumptions implied by the phrase "prostitution of an adult", which suggests exploitation. My answer is for sex workers who are exercising free will and are making their own choices on how they want to work (independent or agency). Sex workers should be able to pay for accommodations, booking/phone services, personal assistants, marketing services, online services, legal advice, financial advice, drivers, security, clothing, sex toys, restaurants etc. Sex workers should also be able to hire agencies that manage many of these logistics on their behalf. Certainly anyone who is living with a sex worker (partner, children, friends, parents etc) should not be criminally penalized because they receive some financial benefit. Sex workers should be able to financially contribute their earnings to their families and friends just as any other wage earner in Canada can. Anyone who forces a sex worker to involuntarily "hand over" their earnings should be held criminally accountable for any for threats, extortion, intimidation, violence etc which have been used. 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? Comment: The Supreme Court's decision was very well reasoned, particularly in the face of an issue which has much social stigma attached to it. What stood out regarding their decision and written opinion was that it was based upon factual information and not morality. Any Federal response should also be based upon the factual information which we currently know about sex work and should avoid imposing morality upon citizens. There are many things which are considered immoral by a portion of the population (premarital sex, divorce, abortion, interethnic marriage, interfaith marriage, gay marriage, consumption of alcohol, cutting your hair, revealing clothing, working on the sabbath, using mechanical equipment etc. Canada is a secular society and should adopt laws which have a secular basis. What is a secular basis? Minimizing actual harm to our citizens and giving citizens autonomy to live their lives based upon values which may be unpopular or uncommon, provided they do not harm others. Many opponents of sex workers and their clients build straw man arguments. The sex work industry is characterized as being dominated by sex trafficking and exploitation of underage girls. These are certainly harmful behaviours, but there is no factual evidence or peer reviewed studies to support the view that these behaviours are representative of the industry. Fear mongering and decisions based upon fear mongering and inaccurate information will not result in sound law. Criminalizing clients or both clients and sex workers will only draw law enforcement attention away from harmful exploitation. Law enforcement will target easy arrests and never get to the hard undercover work required to crack down on the small proportion of trafficking and underage exploitation. The image of men and women involved in the sex work industry (as clients and providers) presented by abolitionists/prohibitionists is not representative of the majority of clients and workers in my experience. Most are ordinary people with diverse, common and ordinary backgrounds. While those participating in the sex industry will disagree with abolitionists/prohibitionists that sex work is inherently harmful, we all agree that we can find some common ground, which should be the basis for criminal law. Criminal law should continue to focus on exploitation through violence or coercion of adults and any exploitation of underage children or youth.

Because not everyone is smart enough to do their homework on CERB before picking up the phone. ;)

You laugh but..... This happened to me today. I don't have a parking spot for visitors, but as I was waiting for my 1:30, at 1:25 someone i had not seen for a while, but had seen regularly calls. He never used to call from a cel phone, and it took us both a while to figure out he was calling me, and that I did know him. That out of the way, I say well I won't be available to set anything up until after 2pm regardless, meaning call me after 2pm to set up something for not at least 15-20 min after that. And that is when he tells me that he is literally at my building (i can't see the front door, but that's ok he isn't at the front door, he is on the intersection that I can see from my window :shock: Anyway it all worked out, but it is kind of unnerving to get a phone call and find out you are right outside. (I had another regular who would also do this even tho he knew he was headed here before he got here, didn't call until he parked outside, even tho he knew it was morning and i may still be getting ready, and would need the usual 15 normal prep time)

I may be wrong.... God knows I have been in the past, but I think the benefits for the client of a regular ongoing relationship with a service provider tends to just naturally happen, it not as calculated as a 1.5 for 1 lol more a relaxed atmosphere and a real connection with the lady... if she wants to run over the time.... or invite you to stay longer wonderful... i know this is a business arrangement but geez I don't want it to feel like one. Just my opinion

My two cents... If you have already been seeing her regularly and paying full price, why would she want to take less from you for more work/time for her? Regular income is lovely. But this entire concept can be a VERY slippery slope. You suggesting the "discount" is insulting. I agree with RG in the sense that you could approach this woman and suggest that you'd like to pay an amount monthly for set weekly times. But honestly that removes any "flexibility" for her, and in busy times, she may lose business. It cannot be up to you to define the rules. This is HER business, and if she wants to offer a reduced rate for such an arrangement, or offer more time "off the clock" so to speak, that has to be HER decision. Not yours. Remember - yes, this is a business relationship - but we are human beings - who spend A LOT of money to be part of this industry, and we are not the dollarama or a pawn shop. We aren't a bargain to be haggled over. Be very careful... And be mindful that you do not put her in a position where she feels taken advantage of. I understand and appreciate your desire to want to offer her a bit of stability... But less pay from you means more pay from someone else to pay bills and put food on the table :) Just my opinion!

THANK YOU MOD! I dont know what is it so hard for some guys to understand that the GFE term describes a feeling.., the way how a massage session can be very intimate yet NOT NECESSARILY means that they will Get the so called "Extras" ... that the term GFE has nothing to do with An Specific Service... Is An Experience As a whole! THANK YOU AGAIN :)

Can you perhaps clarify "just massage provider"? There is a wealth of registered massage therapists in this city. However, being here I assume you are not looking for "just massage" but you are looking for a massage with either a HE? I'm sure any one of the lovely ladies in the area who offer massage would be quite happy to provide whatever you are looking for equivalent to other areas. Both Katherine and Lilly are trained and as far as I'm aware have a separate massage area with a table. Gina Hunter is another when she is in town. So it's basically whoever might strike your fancy, check out their website or ask them for whatever service you require. I know there are also a few threads on Asian massage only providers as well as those who provide extras. I have all the confidence that you will find what you're looking for.

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