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Hey all Cerbies, How I have been missing this wonderful place called Cerb. I have been getting PM and messages and emails from friends on here and it is heart warming to see how some people I have never met miss me on here. Hope everyone is doing well and that I will be returning to this place more frequently soon. For everyone that I have missed a birthday or a congrats this is my chance to do so for now, hope you all enjoy your summer, if it can get here. Hugs and kisses to all the ladies, NJ

A great big hug! Awesome way to break the ice! Besides...aren't all of those butterflies one of the great parts of meeting new people?

My initial thought to the question was 'of course she should be herself!'. But I don't think it's as simple as that. I think her online presence should be true to herself. I literally saw someone just because of a very different approach to how she advertised, and I liked that about her. I think that being someone else might attract people you wouldn't normally like to be with, even in a professional capacity (but I say this without any experience on the other side). But in person, it's a bit harder. In a different field that I work in, I have my own set of clients, some that I absolutely love, and some that I'm not that fond of. I do feel myself going through the motions (smiling, complimenting, etc) when my client is not someone I probably wouldn't get along with outside work, and to those clients, they deserve that version of me. It would be hypocritical for me to say that all SPs should only be themselves with a client, and not put on a show, because in the end of the day, this is a method of income, and to risk it for some idealized notion is not realistic in my opinion.

Am I the only one who feels that the general level of dialogue in the forums has degenerated over the last year or so? I mean, I know we're all adults here, and all here to discuss very adult things, but it seems as though there has been a slide towards coarser and more vulgar language, to the point of it being almost offensive. I'm definitely not some kind od shrinking violet, and I have no problem with a certain degree of vulgarity. My favorite authors are some of the most disgusting writers, in a strangely eloquent way (Warren Ellis). But frequently reading customers referring to dancers and SPs as "pussy," and reading more and more ads titled along the lines of "cum let me stroke your fat cock until you soak my tits and pussy like a cum canvas" make me wonder if this is really how we would want the industry represented to outsiders. Just a thought.

Well maybe I will go see her guys but I'm not permitted to write a recco so someone better move on this.... :biggrin:

I only really have one wish... to have back someone Iost 6 years ago... don't need anything else.

I have a lot of foot fetish clients. I really enjoy it. I find foot massages intensely pleasurable, and licking and sucking also feels very nice. The power dynamics can also be lots of psychological fun too.

First, let me say that everyboby can run their business as they see fit; each lady can represent themselves in the way she chooses and do what works for her. On the other hand, this might not be a popular opinion and has the potential to offend some (not my intention) and I will try to do my best to explain my feelings in the most eloquent way posssible--in English; I do feel like these types of very explicit ads only add to the stigma and many stereotypes this industry (and the ladies themselves) have to face on a day-to-day basis and does nothing to cast a positve light on SPs and simply reinforces what is already perceived as a negative. Take this with a grain of salt because this is just MY opinion and I'll say it again, to each their own.

I agree with Scribbles completely!! I have seen many pictures of girls, and then when I see them in person they don't look any thing like their photo's... Most of us girls get our pictures professionally done, and the photographer and the lady both focus on the best attributes; which is completely understandable but it can be a bit of a let down when the client comes in expecting what he saw in the pictures and the lady looks nothing like that.... That's why I always try to make sure that my pictures are a true glimpse of what I look like, I have small boobs but Im not afraid to show that in my pictures; that way no one is surprised when they come in to see me and see that my boobs are smaller...

I agree 100% about the Hug.... and not just a quick squeeze... a firm embrace where for that first few minutes our bodies connect and there is an instant feeling of being welcome..... it's one of my favorite moments of an encounter. Just my opinion

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A hug and a great kiss is always a good start, and end :) Nervousness is great for both, the anticipation of what is going to happen next is certainly a thrill for me, even when it's the 5th time that I have been together with the gentleman. You never really get to know someone totally even after many get-togethers, so for me, a kiss and a hug always is a great ice-breaker.

I agree with Jafo here, if we at least know which province you are in, it may help narrow down the parameters a little more. When you give a message to general discussion - all of Canada, no one knows where you are located, and may recommend someone to you that is across the country from you. Lots of ladies will have listed on their websites what their passions are, all you have to do is look into your local area to find ladies that enjoy what your passions are. happy hunting (oops, I have an 'unfriendly smiley on this, and it shouldn't be there and have no idea on how to remove it, my apologies)

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Actually that initial meeting with a new service provider and the inherent nervous awkwardness can heighten the experience in my opinion... for me it is not a negative. As for what to do... just power through.. when that do opens step in and hug that amazing lady who has welcome you in to her world... a long hug and a passionate kiss is all i usually need to settle in for the session. Just my opinion

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Busy morning at the office... just taking a minute to check some email and texts and surf CERB. Perhaps I am addicted and it us time for a change lololol

I've never been the shy, retiring type of bloke. I get excited when I see someone new. If I were to offer any piece of advise, it would be to let your excitement show. Assuming, you are seeing a lady of Cerb caliber, she will likely be sexy as hell, cute or down rite beautiful, classy and stylish. She may be dressed to the nines or naked as the day she was born. Let her know how good she looks, smells, feels, tastes etc. Show your appreciation by discretely getting the donation out of the way. If you haven't come straight from the shower, ask if you might take a moment to freshen up. This will help with the jitters and you will smell better too! Let your play date lead the conversation. After all, most service providers have experience calming nervous clients, so let them do what they do best. Over all remember you are here for a good time and you are about to make a fantastic memory. Enjoy it.

Two or longer. If I could afford more I'd take more. School girl or Naughty teacher?

Totally agree with you on that one :) When I read that, right away I laughed and thought about Chef Robert Irving (Restaurant impossible) and Chef Gordon Ramsay (Kitchen nightmares); both would strongly disagree with you and call you some sort of spicy and not-so-pretty names lol If you watch the shows, you'll know what I'm talking about and why I am laughing ;) I apologise for the highjack.

Its been a while since Ive posted on other forums, so Im going through and leaving little comments here and there.... Other then that Im listening to some relaxing tunes, having a smooth glass of white wine and enjoying Cinco De Mayo ;)

I wish there were those one could hire to give animal abusers their just deserved. I would also like a personal concierge for sp's. Delivery for anything at anytime That's all I can think of at the moment:)

I'm sure I'm not the only one that from day to day and even hour to hour can change my moods, desires and goals. I may start out the day in a buttoned up shirt and in a laid back attitude, being quiet and demure. Then later on I might want to turn it up a notch, feeling frisky and horny so I'll come here and verse those feelings openly if I want to attract someone in the same mood or just because I can. That's one of the nice things about cerb, our sexual lingo isn't censored we're free to express ourselves as we see fit. I think it would be a mistake for anyone to judge a person just because of their lingo on a sex site. People are complicated and layered and I think it is a beautiful thing to be as expressive as you feel. Explicit to risqué to demure and prim it's all allowed and enjoyable so long as there is some creativity involved, imo Crude doesn't =classless nor does posting pretty words=class:)

No line-up is required. In Toronto, Edmonton and Vancouver and other locations in Ottawa, either a girl will come out to say hi at the entrance or in many cases, you are put in a room and they come by individually to say hi. Don't get me wrong, I think that AT/Par has very nice facilities and I have met some wonderful ladies there but I think that they are costing themselves business. I am a prime example as I have not met a new lady there to see in a long time while other places see me a lot. I learned a long time ago for my personal preferences, never to trust a picture. And I am not going to select a girl and then insult her by saying sorry once she comes in the room. Just my style I guess. Anyways, a policy is a policy and that is fine. All I can tell you is that I spend a lot more in Toronto at individual locations than here at Par/AT yet I spend much more time here. If it is not desired to do this for everyone, then perhaps for regulars/long time clients whom it is known will actually spend money at the location. Just trying to help give some more business to the local spas.

Honestly, if you're looking to do something on your own make a list of your passions, hobbies and interests. Doesn't matter how big or small, write them all down. Once you have that list, see what you might be able to roll into a business. The important thing here is to be passionate and honest about what you love. Examples include people who love dogs and ended up owning a bunch of animal spas, daycare or grooming business. Someone who loves food could open a wagon, a restaurant, be a critic, be a buyer or offer food prep services to others. There are so many viable options but only one YOU. Good Luck!

There are plenty of pictures of the ladies on their web page and here on CERB. Nothing I would call "vague" also... I have never been disappointed when choosing a lady from pictures perused from either site.

It's tricky to know just how to answer this, since it depends so much on how you interpret the question, or which part you focus on. If we're talking about the physical interaction, then naturally the preference is for someone to be authentic and in the moment, rather than just obviously going through the motions. But expectations have to be realistic. I mean, if a lady is feeling tired or has a headache, does anyone what to be authentically told at the end of an encounter that she'd rather have had a nap than have spent time with you? Is a lady who hides that fact and ensures you leave feeling good about yourself being professional or being inauthentic? If we're talking more about her personality (or persona), then that depends too. Much like the open letter Regent recently penned to hobbyists, if you're racist, sexist, or homophobic, I'm much happier if you keep that part of yourself to yourself. But generally speaking, I think it's probably better to present yourself as who you truly are, if only because it's exhausting to pretend otherwise. There's enough variety out there that it seems to me like it would be simpler to be who you are, and so attract the people that you appeal to. It's worth pointing out that being authentic doesn't necessarily mean revealing all of yourself. We all have layers and we all act differently for different audiences. This isn't deception; it's life! It's possible that a person can present one side of themselves on Cerb or in the bedroom, and another side of themselves when alone or with friends, etc. That doesn't mean that how they choose to act here isn't authentic.

In my opinion authentic trumps artifice every time. However, there is a place for subtle fakery. What if the provider is not in the best mood? What if she or he is slightly irritable? Should the client be exposed to the genuine mental & emotional state of the moment when the expectation is for a drama-free-getaway-from-it-all romp? I think as a quality service provider, presenting yourself as a projection of the client's expectations would be as much a part of the pre-date preparation as doing hair & make-up. That is not to say that a provider completely sublimates their own personality to be a play thing for the client, but rather a provider would strive to present the best themself they can be, despite real life circumstances. As with all things, it boils down to a matter of degree. I would expect my play date to be happy to see me, but I would not want forced or faked physical responses. The quickest way to ensure I will never repeat is to fake it when we are intimate. My longest lasting relationships with providers have all been with genuinely authentic personalities. I think I'm a fair judge of authenticity, in fact I think most people know instinctively when something does not ring true. Repeat encounters reinforce realness, as consistency comes into play. Over time the real personality begins to show, just like in the Real World or Big Brother. It may take more than a few visits, but in time even the most gifted faker will give themselves away. But even with my acute sence of veracity, I can be fooled. In the end we all believe what we want to believe. And yes, I want to believe that an attractive woman half my age finds me sexy. It is just better if the attraction is real.

Trish can, also, be reached at [email protected] for email fans. Valerie

For me, without foreplay there really is no point in the main event. And indeed, foreplay can last as long as you want it to, while the main event is called a climax for a reason. The better the foreplay, the more enjoyable the climax.

I'd suggest engaging strangers or newcomers in the conversations is how you get more people engaged and interested. If they are just not interested you'll never know they are there.

I use the times of dressing to admire the person I'm with in ways I may not have had before that time. The bending to retrieve a sock, showing me the curve of a buttock, the lifting to put a sweater over his head revealing the lines of his sides, chest and back. The smile as his heads pops back into sight which then leads to the urge to kiss. The last few touches of bare skin before they are covered and disappear from sight. Bittersweet but beautiful.

Hmm, I'm not sure I like what you've said here. Advertisements ARE personal expression. Each woman in this industry is unique and our ads provide a first impression into that particular SWers style, as the type of clients they wish to see. If one woman's style of advertising is to be what some may call "crass" (who the hell came up with the rule book on what crass looks like anyway? It seems to be individual perception!) -- what if that IS her being who they are, writing what they feel, saying what they think, being themselves and not needing to fit in a mold? Fairly presumptuous to think otherwise. I am in desperate need of new ads as I'm bored with mine, however the last thing I will do is read through and judge others ads. To each their own!!!

I have noticed it esp in the ads.. but I think it comes from the influx of people who are used to posting on CL in the past and the general tone of that ad forum was more crass... To each their own. You attract what you like and what is like you :)

I don't view the jitters, nervousness, butterflies, whatever you want to call it as a negative, nor is it something I want to ever eliminate. I'm booking an encounter, to meet and have a date with a beautiful woman. So it's only natural to experience jitters, nervousness, butterflies, whatever. I get that for each and every encounter, even with ladies I know and have ongoing repeat encounters with. And strangely this building excitement isn't negative, it's part of the anticipated enjoyment of seeing a lady. The day it doesn't happen, the day my heart isn't pounding as the clock counts down to a lady's arrival, well that's the day to no longer see companions, because it's then become matter of fact instead of a special occasion. And seeing ladies for an encounter is a special occasion, worthy of pre date jitters. My two cents RG

I will give my opinion on this topic. I am one of the ladies who prefer not use explicit language in my advertising and in my posts because is not in my personality so I would be using what some like to read to attract readers and/or potential guests who would come see someone I'm not however I have always respected ladies who have a different approach than mine. There has been in the past one or two ads that I thought were a bit too explicit, or what you call vulgar and I admit to have made in my mind an idea of what the posters were like and with time through posts they started making that weren't ads, I realized that wording in ads didn't define the person they are, and definitely does not make them unclassy, there's also ladies who never use explicit language in their ads and even use the word classy in them and in my opinion (based on things I saw) they are not. Class is not in what you wear or the words one use in an ad or post but in how you (the real you) carry yourself so I don't think an ad defines if a lady is or isn't classy. As for the way some men refer to ladies here, I agree with you than some should be more respectful but is the same as with ladies, I have had a not so great almost encounter with a member here who in many of his threads comment how he is a gentleman and with me he didn't act like one which is why I think that words are just that and don't make us who we are. There was also a time with one of the most respected members here (don't think he is active anymore) was in the general chat room giving very intimate details of his time with a lady and using language that I wouldn't like to be used when talking about me so I asked to please stop referring to her like that and to take his conversation to a private chat, he told me that this is an adult forum and that I needed to grow up so I guess what I'm trying to say is that is not about the words used but the respect or lack of it behind them. Hope I am making sense :)

I saw mine in a post on Facebook and couldn't contain the laughter because there are quite a few interesting faces one could make during sex haha

I resemble a large unmade bed. Think I'll stick with Einstein.

My avatar and profile picture is "Mr. Bean". There was a time in my life when people would mistake me for him. :|

Possibly because it can be a PITA. :) This thread got me to wondering so I checked and all I had was a profile picture. It took me a few passes to get something up for an avatar and even then the system said the upload failed. But I see it when I check past posts. If you don't see a highway on this post let me know.

Nice, pretty, safe, and legit. Good experience and nice to have a visitor locally.

In China, men outnumber women. The trend should be towards rental girlfriends.