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I'm sorry but this is about the craziest suggestion I've ever heard! You think test results should be posted online? My real name isn't Jessica (right?) ... how will you know when you find MY test results? Or should I post my test results along with my given name address and health card number and indicate that these are the test results for Miss Jessica Lee ... ? I don't know how that would improve branding and marketability. I do know about stalking .... or maybe I misunderstood...?

In my humble opinion, there is nothing more sexy than a mature woman who is confident in who she is. That combined with with sense of humor or wit is an unbeatable combination!

Sometimes I think I am in the porn industry...LMAO just kidding...I get tested every 3 months, and I posted my last check on my profile page from April. I would not ask an SP/MA for a test result EVER, as I never EVER had an issue in my years with ANY of the ladies over my time. What does that tell you? Providers are much more vigilant about their safety and health then most guys would be. My thoughts, and by the way...you ladies frigging rock!

Well that sucks !! Brought back a memory from my days in Edmonton. Although I didn't have scheduled times and there were a few machines....I had a load in washer and a load in the dryer. I went down to do my thing and the load from the washer was sitting in a sudsy heap on a table and my clothes from the dryer were heaped beside it nowhere near dry. Fine then. I took my wet clothes up to my apartment. I went to neighbors and got two ripe shitty diapers. Threw one in their washer and one in their dryer. Then said fuck it and went to Cook County Saloon with friends and drank beer :) and that's my laundry story.........

a turnoff for me is arriving and find that the SP or MA is either high as a kite, or drunk as a skunk. might just be me, but I don't find it professional to be doing that when your providing a service.

This site ONLY allows positive comments in public posts. If you do not have anything positive to say about a SP (or anything for that matter) when someone asks please simply say nothing at all. You can PM them if you wish with PRIVATE INFO but do not post publicly. You CAN NOT POST comments like I do not recommend Info on other site don't do it! stay away not worth it etc... etc.... etc......... That is NOT what this site is for. YES we know some of you would like it to be and YES we know some of you feel it is your god given right to post whatever you want on our members only board but the truth is... our house our rules and we DO NOT want it here. If you must read negative comments or if you must post negative comments then please do so on OTHER websites... or start your own. Do not PM me after I give you a warning or infraction telling me how I should run the site either (This is especially annoying with new members) yes of course mr. 1 post guy you can tell me how we should run the site you are so helpful! (NOT!) If you don't like our rules... start your own website and let us enjoy this one.

I find these kinds of threads about BBBJ really irritating. Not because conversation about shared intimacies and health matters shouldn't be had, but because of how talk about sucking dick quickly shifts into the 'politic of the ick' (a term coined by sexologist Carol Queen). I will speak for myself. I love making out, I love having my pussy licked, I love sucking cock, alot of the time BBBJs and CIM (oh yeah baby), and, yet I do not identify as a PSE at all. Not a meaningful term to me. I'm GFE all the way. I do not make clients wear a dental dam to give me oral, and I do not put saran on my face when playing tonsil hockey. There are plenty of service providers, including popular and highly reviewed SPs who do not do BBBJ (understandable, and a very personal decision), but the idea of being concerned over providers 'being compelled' to provide BBBJs, and then omitting the way we normalize and by and large broadly accept DFK and DATY as meaningful and commonly provided services inherent to the work, (providing GFE), is problematic. Assessing the risks, negotiating the fun to be had, and getting regular health checks including throat swabs is a must. Let's not turn all SPs into victims of risky clients, and let's focus on empowering workers to enjoy working conditions where they can refuse work they deem unsafe....not to mention increasing access to non-stigmatizing STI health screening, and ongoing education. Signed, Cum lover

I used to have a regular client I accompanied to strip clubs and other fun places, I would be most pleased to do it again as part of a longer social plus date.

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'The Dog Stars' by Peter Heller I second the recommendation for 'Tuesdays with Morrie'. The ENTIRE outlander series is amazing!!! I wanna read it all again!!!! I am currently reading 'Mockingbird', a story about a young girl with Autism learning to cope with her brothers death. I love reading. Keep the recommendations coming!!!!

I drove out of my driveway afterwards to run some errands and the two kids (aged between 9-12) are on their front yard waving goodbye to me. So I drove around the block and came back. They were walking across the street. When they saw me coming they pretended they were just walking down the road. This morning I wake up and their two cats are sleeping on my upholstered patio furniture on my deck. So I think today I will just walk into their house, crack open a beer, put my feet up and start changing TV channels. Think they will get the hint?? LoL on a serious note ... I have drafted a letter and I think I will try that route first. It's polite and simply explains the liability issue and that the quiet, private enjoyment of my own yard is being compromised. I've also got a live trap for the cats, which I will return to them when caught. Once. After that they can pick them up at the humane society. I feel like super bitch. But I've had enough.

Not to mention just the basic Privacy issues. Is EVERYONE (client and provider alike) supposed to post their STI STD tests. Where posted? A website...??? Now possibly big brother will have access to private medical information (yes STD/STI testing is medical) I don't know about you, but the only ones I want knowing my medical history is my doctor(s) lab personal and any other medical professionals. And would public posting of STD/STI tests be the thin edge of the wedge that all health records become public. Not to mention that with test results posted publically then it publically outs EVERYONE involved in this lifestyle, ladies and gentlemen alike...under their real name But my medical history is mine to see, not for the whole SP/Client community to see. A rambling over my first cup of coffee...geez is being a caffeineaholic a medical problem to be publically posted too...Tim Horton's may keep an eye on the list too LOL RG

Don't insult an SP by requesting this. If you feel there is too much risk for you to go see an SP, don't go see one. Anyone can get an STI, not just a service provider and this is a great way to never hear from an SP again. There is always risk and the only risk free way is abstaining from sexual activities and intercourse all together. Don't expect an SP to clear your mind where STDS are concerned. You are responsible for your own sexual health as is everyone else.

But you are still trying to explain in the context of consent, or in the context of being willing or not willing. When something is legislated or regulated for the good of the public health, it isn't a question of being willing or unwilling to risk health and safety. So "ladies' are not the ones telling people what to do or not do. The whole point of this exercise is to describe what is already happening in a country that has decriminalized the same laws we had, and regulated it at the governmental level. It isn't like sp X is coming along and wagging a finger at sp Y and calling her dirty or whatever, which is what all this sounds like. It is simply one thing that actually could happen should the industry be regulated. Just as it already happens at brothels in Nevada, and so on. In other words, don't shoot the messenger, it's the law: https://www.healthed.govt.nz/resource/health-and-safety-information-sex-workers I am not sure about why this even should be hashed out so much: it's a health and safety issue. I don't think anyone is misinformed about the std transmission information, and the reality that bbbjs or any uncovered services come with higher risks? That's what is confusing to me, that we seem to be debating at the personal choice level, when the examples given take the choice away. If you knew 100% that every time you drove your car you had a 100% risk of permanent physical injury just because you chose not to wear a seat belt, would you then follow the law that requires using the seatbelt, or would you simply continue to not use it and run the risk of a fine? Even if you drove your car 100 times and you didn't get in an accident, and you never got stopped by LE to check if you were complying? It is a high risk activity, and that is all they need to know about it. Just as hard hats and steel toed boots are required for workers in construction, for their health and safety, so are barriers (which include dams and condoms) required for the health and safety of sex workers. It's a regulation because sex workers deal with the public in a commercial transaction setting, therefore, just like food servers, they are subject to increased or higher levels of regulations for the protection of the worker and the public. It's really a common sense issue and quite logical. It doesn't deal with emotions or feelings or desires, just common sense. A + B = C. If A is done without B, then there is no C. Just like if bjs are done with condoms, risk exposure is minimized, i.e. no C. It isn't about choice, just as I mention before, if the government is regulating an industry, it regulates it period, whether we personally agree with it or not. And hard hats and steel toed boots are also, not a morality regulation. It has been determined that due to the specific risks 'inherent' in the construction industry, those safety features decrease the workers risk. And, since oral sex without barriers is proven higher risk, therefore a health and safety regulation as laid out by the NZ OHS folks, regulate that high risk activity by requiring safety equipment. I have a hard time believing that any sp who is well educated about stds, risk factors, etc, doesn't know that bbbjs are higher risk. For me, I appreciate that they don't deny it is higher risk but they simply have chosen to accept the risk. Which again, is not the same thing as saying Canada is going to regulate anything at the OHS level. The whole point of this is someone saying that they can't, when in fact, they certainly can take the choice away from the clients and the sps, and the employers, as they have in NZ. Vancouver area is interesting because agencies are not as popular as some other cities. So even if an sp is actually an employee, so to speak, the manager will probably post 10000% independent in many of their sp ads. A micro is a 'mini' but illegal brothel. almost always run by an older woman or young man, usually Chinese, and staffed by Asian sps who are brought in from Asia on tourist or student visas. They usually live/work out of the apartment or house that is set up with various rooms. Some of the managers have more than one location, so an sp may be moved around from one to the other, based on how many they need at each location. The services are expansive, and the rates are low, even lower than low, like 140/hour nowadays, tho the typical micro offers a 45 minute rate, which always used to be 140, but now is typically 100-120. Even tho the rates are low, the sp herself usually gets more for each session here than she would in China. The sps are typically older like 30 plus, which is not an ideal age to be working in China. Ads also typically say the age is low 20s, and the pics are always 90% fake. At just about every way you look at a micro, it is highly illegal, from being a bawdy house, to living off the avails, to working without a proper work visa, and probably unregistered tenants in the location. And the managers do get charged with the expected criminal charges that come along with running a micro.

Clearly not their parents! I suggest blaming the education system and voting in Tim Hudak. He wouldn't stand for this bullshit!!

Next step is to speak to the parents. They are the ones that need to be spoken to.

Turn offs? Not many. At my age, I am always pleasantly surprised that a woman will not throw up when we are naked in the same room. These are more general observations than anything else. If there is any advice I can pass along, these would be a few things that I would suggest: 1. Time: Hobbyists are consistently reminded that they are not compensating a provider for a specific service, they are compensating her for her time. Keeping that in mind, the idea of "shoot and scoot" just doesn't fly. A two hour appointment should last two hours unless the hobbyist leaves early at HIS discretion, unless of course he has been a total dickhead. If he has been a dickhead, you have the right to kill him and dissolve his body in the bathtub. 2. Punctuality: These days, everybody has time pressures. As much frustration as it is for a provider when a client is late, it is equally as frustrating when a provider shows up late. Life happens. We all make mistakes. We all get delayed. Just remember, when things start on time, everyone is a lot more relaxed and happy. 3. Social Media Interaction: This is a biggie for me. Whether you are writing here on CERB, on Twitter or on a subscribed Blog, your words are a window into your provider personna. The most beautiful person becomes ugly if they express themselves in a hateful manner. It cuts both ways. Some providers use what we say here as a screening tool - they don't want to deal with assholes and misogynists. Keeping that in mind, we won't see you if you have shown that you don't respect us. We won't see you if you are mean spirited. We won't see you if you twist our words against us. Food for thought. 4. Live rabid monkeys: Don't have them in your incall. They are intimidating. 5. Divided Attention: Everybody has a life. Sometimes we have stuff on our minds that we can't shake. The mark of a true professional in ANY line of work is to put that stuff on a mental shelf and get through the day. It's especially true here, where intimacy is so much harder to achieve when a provider's mind is obviously elsewhere. 6. Unnecessary commentary: Eeeeek. This is a tough one. Have you ever been in an intimate moment that has an undertone of soft and romantic when all of a sudden the badly delivered porn movie dialogue starts? I'm getting the shivers of discomfort just thinking about it. Ohhhhh... and please. Don't speak if your mouth is full... mid BJ commentary is kind of a boner killer. 7. Turkey Bacon: Only if every pig on the planet has died of a horrific flesh eating disease will turkey bacon be acceptable. 8: Outside communication: Turn off your cell phone. Do it. Now. Unless you have a friend or family member that is dying, your attention is with me. I've ended two encounters early because the provider was constantly checking her messages. In virtually EVERY other business, that kind of behaviour would merit discipline or termination. It's a disservice to your professionalism if you can't give me our time. The person on the other end of the line is NOT paying you now. I am. 9: Talking badly about other providers: This is tough. It's a very competitive business. Like many other hobbyists, I don't necessarily provide reviews or recommendations for the majority of providers with whom I have spent my time. Keeping that in mind, you have no idea of the nature of my relationship with nearly any other provider. I may absolutely adore a provider that you have just torn a verbal strip from... and that really doesn't help your cause. 10: Just another client: The biggest mistake any provider can make is to treat a client like "just another client." I have chosen you because you represent something desirable. I have brought my hard earned cash with me because I think you are special. I sought you out because I think you are going to be wonderful to and with me. Treat me like more than a donation envelope. Act as if you want to be with me. Make me feel like you want ME. The best providers (and we have so many great ones) know that the encounter is so much more than an intermingling of moistened body parts. They understand that the fantasy is passion and desire. If you want hobbyists to respect the fact that you are so much more than just a series of desirable body parts, treat HIM like more than a penis with an envelope. Jeebus. I was on a roll there.

I saw Miss Leesha (luxeroyal) yesterday for a nuru massage and all I have to say is wow! I don't want to get into the details but she provides a great experience and environment. She is gorgeous and is very sweet, welcoming and friendly. If you go see her, treat her well because she is special!

The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

This scenario excites me BIG TIME! I've been to strip-clubs a few times, I would probably go more often if I didn't have to be accompanied by a man. The few times I have gone, I really enjoyed myself in the CR. One time the dancer bought my drinks all night. Awesome! I'm game!

So, I'm just trying to find out the situation for people - maybe this will be a useful tool for some of the ladies who have interest in coming up to Yellowknife and maybe a means of shedding light for past ladies who have come up. I recently got to spend time with Nikki Quinn & Lacy Lovelle. Only in the past while has it seemed like Yellowknife has gained a little interest in the eyes of the ladies. I can honestly say that I keep an open eye for ladies who plan to come up here. After spending time with Nikki and Lacy and getting to know their feel on Yellowknife, the consensus was that a lot of people book, but cancel.. or no-show. I can tell that there's interest in ladies coming up here by the number of views on certain threads.. so what's the deal guys? Yellowknife is a pretty small place, but if you're smart about it (albeit, if the lady's location is private) then you can work out times with the ladies that could best suit your comfortable time frame. I know for me, I was pretty nervous for my recent encounters. But the ladies were more than willing to wait a couple extra minutes to make sure the coast was clear. On top of that, they were very understanding. I guess the point is, for guys - why the cancels? Why the no-shows? If you're worried about the credibility of the ladies, CERB and many other sites have people who give great reviews on the girl. If you're worried about the location, how would you prefer it? Would in-calls be more preferable? How about times of day and maybe specific hotels? Let's get some input because I'm sure the ladies would love any information or insight that would be helpful in them keeping a worth-while schedule. If the ladies keep coming up here in hopes of returning, we have to give them a reason to return... otherwise.. no ladies. It's simple. And ladies, if you have any questions or input, feel free to ask away!

I agree. Woman I believe are more accepting towards the flaws aging can bring, and look past them for the more important characteristics, men not so much. I think it is expected of us as well. It was always accepted to see an older man, sometimes much older with a younger woman, vice versa, not so much. However I don't think it's a trend. I think we are subliminally taught to believe that men become more ruggedly handsome with time and that woman just become old and haggard. Hopefully that will change soon, judging a book by it's cover, age and not it's content is so shallow and boring you'd think more would realize, but again, in society, sex=youth and that's what sells:)

Bear traps. They'll fix the problem soon enough.

Ahhhh I am older, MUCH calmer and wiser now MN2. :) Now I would think more clearly and put both shitty diapers in the dryer !!! cause all I did was give them one freshly washed ....now clean diaper ! and looking back I probably would now nonchalantly run a pair of their undies & a brassiere up the nearest flagpole. ;)

Yea for sure I can always ask, but I like having a discussion on here about it as well. I love to hear others ideas, opinions and advice! Thanks Luckyme!

^^thats not nice!!!

Getting caught up on emails and relaxing in the sun....A perfect Sunday to be home....

I'd forgotten about that... I never got a chance to ride though...that was back in the 'no touching' days...I remember a girl got really mad at me for touching her ankles during a lapdance once....that was a big no-no back then..

If you see a hot 20 something tanning on your dock dont fret its me come join me hehehe ;) no but really thats crazy, when I was younger we had a cottage one time we went there were people camping in tents and everything right on our lawn lmao! some people have no sense.

It would be good to record them, if you did plan to speak with the parents.

I'd be totally pissed like you. Easy to go overboard. I've got a similar problem with annoyance trespass & pilferage. Almost like a game of cat & mouse here. Consult with a lawyer. If applicable, draft a notarized letter advising the parents of potential liabilities such as reparations for property damage, trespassing, surveillance etc & send it registered mail. Install surveillance devices to track trespassing patterns. Install signage & advise police of your problems. The parents sound like real morons. Good luck!

Sorry can't help myself..... who here has not wanted to play on your dock. :)

they are also attracted to dark clothing, especially if you wear them next to someone wearing white

When I met my first CERB lady (actually my third encounter) and not only my first good encounter, it was a GREAT ENCOUNTER!!! but I felt as if I should But that would leave the lady too long in the hotel corridor. So in my heart I am greeting the ladies like this even though I invite them into my hotel room and to the couch. And those ladies well they make old me feel like my younger self (going back to last century now LOL) And all the ladies I've seen in this lifestyle...well I thought I knew what was meant by a 10 But I was wrong...the ladies on CERB, well they don't deserve a 10, that would mean they lost points. These ladies are so much more than 10's to me, and if they were running down a beach, well Bo Derek would be left in their dust :-) CERB has introduced me to a community of like minded people, but especially kind caring affectionate ladies who value the gentlemen they see as more than just clients. Cliché as it sounds, and I said it before, but a brightness entered my life, because of the ladies of CERB Thank You RG

the coloured one b/c the blond hair contrasts with bright red lipstick and then the black clothing with gold trim and the hint of red inside.

I love that answer! Yes, these are the things that are sexy. I would add attitude and personality are everything to me. A young person can have what is considered "perfect" looks, body, smile and everything going on physically but if they don't have the personality and attitude that matches, there is zero sex appeal. As for me, when I was younger, I never considered myself sexy even though some women told me I was. Now that I'm older however, I have a completely different attitude and outlook. I'm in great shape for a mid 50's guy, relative good looks but it's all attitude and attention to making the person I'm with happy and satisfied. I've learned how to be patient and take the time to find those little things that turn a woman on. I find that if I give her great pleasure, the experience is far more pleasurable for me. Age, body image and all the other media driven crap might sell advertising but it means nothing in face to face intimate encounters.

I'm a huge fan!!!

It's already been said, but I have to repeat it, "how are you hun?". If SP's could drop the word "hun" from their vocabulary altogether the world would be a better place :)

It doesn't bore me, in fact it amuses me. Sorry if I assumed that everyone here was a consenting adult capable of making up their own mind. If someone coerces you into doing a BBBJ physically or with threats then it is a different issue. But if you feel the need to compete and can't stick to your guns, then I have little sympathy. Again, if someone works for an agency that has a no-BBBJ policy then that is a house rule. I have no argument with that, but I do when people start using this forum to complain against people who ask for, or offer that service. What if some provider was offering "safe' Greek as an option for no additional charge, and you feel that your chocolate starfish is exit and only and won't consider it, would you get on here and lobby and complain like so many are doing here about BJ's? Again, bottom line, and something you didn't address in your response was that if a provider offers BBBJ they are not putting you at risk if all your offer is CBJ. You can try and make up all sorts of reasons why that is not true, but they would be false. You can pretend it is not about competition, but most of us know it is.

I enjoy Greek, I am evening going to add it back to my menu. First time I did it I was pretty shocked on the entry feeling then once it got going it was magically enjoyable. For me it's about glass butt plugs, even steel butt plugs, and maybe a vibrator and lots and lots of lube thanks H2O. You can never have to much lube. that is the big thing since that area doesn't lubricate on it's own even though it might seem like it is. Now I did a quick search and was able to find some of my old videos around. and this one is pretty much one of my best Anal scenes I've done. http://tinyurl.com/RDGvid As for my experience in it I always stop counting when I've done something more then 3 times :)

I've been into Greek for the past 27 years and I've been lucky enough that my first time was wonderful! And it was with a black gentleman and yes I do confirm black males have big, thick attributes! And listen to this without lube!! Simply because he just had me ready so well and so wanting it it was just like a letter in a mailbox!! As a matter of fact if the gentleman knows how to be gentle, takes his time and the lady just relax well it will be fun time ahead! Now, basically, i can't live without Greek and I have even been providing guidance as well on how to get in without hurting me and if potentially the gentleman wants to try it with his SO. Honestly it can be huge fun but indeed no pressure should be put on the partner if she doesn't want to try it or fear it. Barbara xxxxooo

That would be a valid argument except: all sps are not at liberty to decide for themselves what services to provide or not provide. Some are employees, many in fact, and they are and will be marketed and advertised as to offer popular services. There are some who do not wish to provide bbbjs, but due to pressure of the business, do so for the sake of their business. The pressure of what others provide, and provide cheaper, drives what they provide. Plus the reality is, that in the work place, and if sps want to be taken seriously as a business, businesses get regulated for worker health and safety. It is what it is. If the std clinic is telling you to cover up for the bjs, and the cdc is telling you, and random news articles are telling you, then it doesn't take much to figure out that the Worker safety board is also going to be saying the same thing. :) They may also say that employees have to get tested weekly, or that the employer is required to provide free weekly testing. Whether sps are able to police this for themselves for their own services is irrelevant to this discussion, of worker safety health policies. Sps are not always providing services in ways that are in their own best interest, health wise. Just as drivers aren't always driving in ways that are in their best interests: speeding, undue care and attention, and not wearing seatbelts. They have a license, they took training, it doesn't mean they won't break the law, but in the interest of the public, there are still laws against speeding, undue care and no seatbelts.

Mmmmmm Greek! Bring on my toga! I love it and have for a very long time. For me, it's about a good lube and guiding the initial approach. Of course, it's also about being relaxed. If you're not relaxed, it is definitely much more difficult to accomplish and not as pleasurable. If it's something that you've had bad experiences with (as a woman), my recommendation is toys, varying sizes. Learn your own body and reactions and then you'll be much more open and comfortable with the exploration of a partner. There are times I crave it and times that a little tease and penetration with fingers makes everything else feel so much better and more intense. It is a very intense pleasurable experience and I indulge whenever I can. Like anything else, it's a personal thing. Love it, hate it, tolerate it, feelings about it are as individual as people. I do believe that there are many people who would probably love it but their experiences haven't been good because of having a partner ignorant of what they're doing. I also whole heartedly believe that men should at least solo sample this as well. The ass has so many amazing nerve endings that not exploring it because of whatever per-conceived notion they have about it, is a shame. In closing....I love me some butt!

Thanks for all the lovely birthday wishes I started off my 50th birthday with a bang... a threesome! And then breakfast in port credit on a patio. Champs convention in Toronto with my brothers and then back to my new home with family for dinner. Lovely sunny day

How beautiful, and there can't be any better advice. You surpass yourself with every post. Men should be lined around the block for you and women should follow your lead, once again I bow to your eloquence and thank you for contributing. This post has helped me and made me realize something new-thank you

Well, speaking strictly from a local lady perspective Savannah Lane and Ava Lynn are the only local ladies who have advertised PSE services. Both are fantastic ladies in their own way and depending on your physical preferences I believe either can provide an experience that you'll enjoy. Both, make it feel very real and non-mechanical. That said there are also options from some of the traveling ladies that visit that I think you'd enjoy as well. If you're looking for any other info let me know.

Carrie, I am quoting you but my comment is not directed at you ;) We all draw the line somewhere, and as you stated, that line varies from person to person. To each their own. I am not going to debate the rights and wrongs of BBBJs (or DATY or kissing) and risk levels but I will say this: As an independent human being, I do not want nor need the government telling me what I can and cannot do in the privacy of a bedroom, as a companion with a patron or as a grown woman in her private life. Whether or not I receive money when sharing intimate time with someone is no one else's business but mine. I value my rights and freedom of choice. (I hope my post makes sense)

Age is not an issue. . On the contrary is great to spend time with an articulate and mature gentleman. ..

Congrats! :) January 17 will be 2 years smoke free for me, and I know for sure that I will never smoke again. I prepared mentally for several weeks and then just went completely cold turkey. For a while, I replaced the physical habit with a piece of fruit, which worked well, and was obviously a healthy tradeoff. Everyone has their own methods that they say for work for them, and if they actually do work, that is great.. everyone is different, and if it works, great! However, I am of the belief that all nicotine replacement therapies, prescription drugs, "cutting down" methods, e-cigarettes, etc just prolong the pain and madness more than necessary (or exactly as PassionVitto said, replacing one bad habit with another). Just end it. Be a non-smoker. Nicotine is physically out of your body within 72 hours; after that it's just the mental battle. I just constantly reminded myself that I was stronger than the addiction. One thing that really helped me was The Canadian Cancer Society's Smokers Helpline Online. There is lots of great info there, and it's all personalized and interactive. The best resource I found there was the online forum. It's like CERB, except for people quitting smoking. It tracks your progress in a variety of ways, and can be very motivational and helpful to talk to others in the same situation, share experiences, tips and ideas, push each other, etc. I also read a few books which I found helpful. Reading a few chapters everyday, early on in my quitting journey, kept me on track, and made me want to stay a non-smoker, and not have to start all over again (remember - 72 hours is key). Alan Carr - Easy Way to Stop Smoking Joel Spitzer - Never Take Another Puff I knew I would *feel* better physically after quitting, but what I didn't expect, and the best thing that happened, was the amazing feeling of freedom I felt. It was so good to know I wasn't tied down to the addiction anymore, and I didn't have to constantly find a place to smoke, go out in the cold, find a store to buy them, spend my hard earned money on this bullshit that was contributing to my early death, and be a slave to these disgusting multi-million dollar death corporations anymore.

I tried many ways but in the end there was only one real way, have to have a very good reason, then it's cold turkey. For me it was bringing my son home from the maternity ward. Take one after you commit and you are a smoker again.