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I don't see how spending time with a fellow SP, who essentially could be viewed as a coworker , is at all comparable to hanging out with a client . It's not the same, and I don't see any form of double standard. That said, there ARE gatherings with SPs that include hobbiests. Ottawa holds a social four times a year, and Halifax does once or twice as well.

My lawyer comment was not a quote from you. It was an example. In any event you posted a question and I thought my comment was fair. I'm seeing way too many times recently when someone posts something, they get comments back, and then it turns into a great debate. I'm not here for those debates and was simply trying to offer my perspective and response. Sorry if I misunderstood your OP. I'll leave it for others to provide you their advice. Cub

The word "fantasy" in adult life. Makes me shudder Nowhere in my personal life, business life or my playtime hobby life do I have any time or desire for "fantasy" As far as this life often referred to as a fantasy....... for me it is real life. Nothing like meeting someone you really want to meet... drink some wine, chat, laugh, bond, get nekkid, make out, dfk, some good old pussy eating and cock sucking topped off with a slow passionate fuck or an old school good hard fucking. Now that's real no matter where I am and how it happens. Maybe we can be friends too ! I just don't ask you to marry me OR see me off the clock. If I wanted a "fantasy", I would take some shrooms, maybe a few extra, find Peter Pan and fly around the fucking world. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Sorry if I offended anyone.....But that's just me.

Like Cleo said there is no double standard .... there is no real comparison. Also like Cleo said there are socials. I have been to two and they are a blast :) If there is one in Hali again or maybe you can get involved in arranging one in St John's then even better. Unless an SP has retired and wants to be friends and hang out which I do have now........ I would never ever expect that to happen otherwise. They do like to hang out with me when I pay them tho.... maybe even have fun and be happy !! :) That's how we all should roll....I believe. Unlike my ex wife. I ended up paying her PLENTY to NOT hang out with me.....EVAR...AGAIN!!. She still wasn't happy damnitt ........... ;)

No "double standard" at all. SP's hanging out makes perfect sense to me, lots of common ground there, they can be social, compare notes, share experiences and even blow off some steam if need be. This is a pay for play game and being friendly is one thing, being friends is completely different and quite unrealistic. Peace MG

Just my take .... I get together with like minded ladies in the biz to network. I love some of my colleagues dearly, they have helped me infinitely in touring plans, avoiding bad dates, dodging drama, and sharing experiences. I don't get together with my colleagues to chat about parents, kids, my personal life or theirs. I don't visit their homes, and they don't visit mine. We meet for dinner and drinks... sometimes for hours... because they can relate like nobody else can. Although they all know what I do, I don't talk much about my sex work with my personal friends, so it's nice to have that connection. A date with a client is not at all the same thing, to me anyways.

SPs and MAs are professionals that provide a service which has a cost. For us the clients it is their time, intimacy, services and companionship that we buy. That isn't to say that an SP/MA and client would never meet socially or 'off the clock' but it's not nor should be their business model or our expectation. I think of it this way. I pay a lawyer for his/her advice. They get my $ and I get their advice. Would 2 lawyers meet socially? For sure. But should I expect a lawyer to meet with me, provide their advice and I don't pay? I just call it a 'social' meeting? No I'm not sure if I've explained it well but for me - I totally get it and have no problems with the relationships I have. Cub

Every MA is different.., every one has a different style as well.., and off course there is other factors such as chemistry can affect the entire session... Every MA also has different rate scales.. my opinion is if you are interested in an specific Service contact the lady (ies) that interest you and be straight forward with your questions so that you can get straight answers ;)

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/th%C3%A9r%C3%A8se-casgrain-feminist-icon-quietly-shunted-by-harper-government-1.2719588

That depends.....How hairy is your front side? ;-) Jk.

You explained it perfectly and I fully agree with what you said here, coworkers and clients are different kind of acquaintances, one can become personal, the other one like you said is not impossible but less likely. However in none of them is cool to expect a personal rapport to happen and even less cool to question why it hasn't/won't. Also, in this particular scenario mentioned by the OP, the fact that some ladies here hang out with each other doesn't mean they do it all the time or that all ladies do it.

This is not a business like any other. A woman, yes, even an SP is free to choose who she wants to be intimate with. Denial of sexual services because of age is not a Human Rights violation. Forcing a woman to see someone she doesn't wish to see would be tantamount to sexual assault And anyone who would even consider doing such a thing IMO has no respect for women. SP or not, a lady is free to choose who she wants to be intimate with RG

Got a nice little message from a friend I haven't spoken to for ages. Her message popped up just at the right time... it gave me a smile!

http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/beverley-mclachlin-chief-justice-deserves-apology-from-pm-international-jurists-say-1.2718342

Your asked for feedback, and started a thread which is going to elicit honest discussion and comments about the themes many of us providing sexual services experience with men seeking our services. Those themes inevitably result in generalizations to achieve a very particular task, which in this case was to unpack the various reasons why some SPs choose not to see men under a certain age. I don't see any disrespect happening here. And, if you truly feel that you exude respect and maturity, consider taking the advice graciously given here about how to tactfully approach service providers in seeking their company. Good luck! Anna

Had a sleepover last weekend. As part of the weekend we went out to a very nice steakhouse, prime rib took up the whole plate. Veggies served never got eaten, too stuffed with beef :icon_smile: So answer here, no vegan, not even vegetarian But you can care about animals, without being vegetarian or vegan...I have a rescued feral cat that proves that. But if you want to start a social group for vegans and vegetarians, start one up, there may be others who want to join RG

Last week, I watched that one too, about the Hospice Program at Angola Prison in Louisiana. It was very well done. Watched the original 1969 True Grit movie with John Wayne and Glen Campbell. I prefer the 2010 remake with Jeff Bridges and Matt Damon. The original was too "sanitized", lol.

Happy Birthday.

Happy Birthday Malika.... May your day be amazing....

I agree with RG. I don't see how there can be any suggestion of a double standard. And the "friend" thing is something that rarely works, if ever. At some point, no matter how hard you try to deny it, there will be something that changes the dynamic. We can't help it. It just is what it is. Myself, I really like the ladies I meet in this hobby. I mean that truly. Even when I've just met them in our first encounter, there is a true connection there. However, I would never, ever suggest any type of relationship outside of this "professional" one. It is simply that I have too much respect for the ladies and our arrangement (for lack of a better term) and would never want something that would risk changing that almost perfect situation. As for the ladies being friends, that is, to me a very good thing for them whenever possible. It gives them somebody that can honestly understand the issues that arise in the profession and they can help each other face these issues and be better for it. By their being better off and happy, it makes our experiences as clients all that much better.

There is NO DOUBLE STANDARD. A SP/Client Relationship is not like conventional relationships. The client compensates the lady for her time. A good client understands this and does not push the boundaries to get free time. Even in cases where a client becomes friends with an SP, he still compensates the lady for her time. As for SP's being friends with other SP's, there is no financial arrangement to their relationship to begin with so there is no problem in them being friends. On the other hand, a client claiming to want to be "friends" with an SP may just try to usurp the conventional SP/Client relationship so he can receive services from the lady without compensating the lady for her time. His claim of friendship may be a very hollow claim RG

Happy birthday Tracie and thank you for all your contributions to CERB and for one of the best massages I have ever had!!

Short, medium, and longer. - Tonight's roast chicken on the BBQ and a bottle of white wine. - Having home renovations completed. - Ok I'll say it; that smell of Fall air, leaves changing and the first snowfall. What are you anticipating?

Some sps have a social rate for clients. So money is still exchanged for these times. If you ask the guys if they get this time for free they will tell you otherwise.

My very best wishes to you, Malika. I hope you have a fantastic day with friends, and that the coming year be filled with plenty of travel to discover new cities and countries. Best, toine

Happy Birthday to Midnite-Massage! Hope you have the best birthday ever :) xoxox

Happy Birthday Malika!! Hope you have the best one yet :)

Happy birthday, Malika, ou plutôt Joyeux anniversaire ! Et une très belle journée pour toi

Happy birthday Tracie.... Hope it's a fantastic one!

Add me to list that says the vagina, could spend hours exploring it with my tongue. But first have to say I also like the inner thighs

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you Malika! Best wishes for a great day and year ahead. MN2

A very Happy Birthday to you, Malika!

A very Happy Birthday to you! Wishing you a great day and a fun year ahead. And thanks again for all you do here!

Happy Birthday Mailka! Wish you an amazing day! :)

Happy Birthday Midnight-Massage.... I hope your birthday is the best ever.

Happy Birthday Tracie Enjoy your special day RG

Happy Birthday! Wishing you a year full of happiness. xox

Happy Birthday Malika... enjoy the day

Three years and three weeks have passed since I first saw Malika. And my most recent recommendation of this lovely spirit was posted three months ago. The third three? There were three distinct phases to the most enjoyable physical portion of our time together. Not one to go into extended descriptions, let it suffice to say Malika's oral skills remain amongst the best. Getting her to swear whilst you return the favour is a badge of honour. She will take you to heavenly places in many positions. Before, during, and after one has the chance to chat, sip wine and explore the world with a witty, most charming person. When Malika visits Ottawa, if you are reading these comments and wondering if you should see her, my recommendation is yes. Oh, two important details: Malika wears an impressive amount of art. And she is seriously allergic to shell fish. Wait to have the king crab and lobster until after the session!

Hello Cooperuke, Unfortunately, I am not too comfortable revealing the 4-5 star hotels I see gentlemen at but what you could do is visit this link and call the hotels to see if they require a key card for the elevators (that's what I do when I travel). Some of them have already been mentioned in this thread as requiring a key card so it will cut down the list a little and won't take you as long. Have fun with your date! Gabby xox

Super sunny and hot day in Halifax.... Breakfast with Sierra... Gay Pride Parade.... and People holding STOP Harper signs....(hate to admit but that MADE me smile)

Hmm, and you want those people to possibly rule something in your favour (for a change) in the future?

Harper saying someone else acted inappropriately? "Pot calling the kettle black". Odds of apology: Googleplex to one.

Happy Birthday!!!

This is a board to recommend escorts whether they be here or anywhere. I think some of the issue comes from those who try to make this a great community by communicating, sharing etc. Also through inviting others they meet or see to join. In some ways, it's a safer place because there is more sharing of information and those here seem more serious because they are putting time and effort into their presence here. Some on BP are fly by night or short term. There is more of a risk because someone has to see them first. CERB may only allow positive comments so some reading between the lines is required IE: if you had a bad experience you wouldn't post a good reco. I would like to see more use of the B&S or warning sections and more reco's for those perhaps not on CERB. This way more people benefit from information without having to dig too much. There are a core of gents who prefer BP over CERB and would love to see more sharing outside the PM. I know there are those who don't like to post a reco or whatever, to me it seems in their best interest when it's someone outside CERB because it encourages more sharing among members seeing others which keeps everyone safe and also may encourage more quality SP's both here and in other places. We all give and take as we find fitting for ourselves, however in some ways, we should also have a bigger focus on the industry because it is what we do that keeps it vibrant and strong even when others try to slap it down.

I'm with Il Re on this one. Those who know me, know this to be true. I have a serious oral addiction. But, I have one addition to my list. The junction where the top of the leg meets the curve of the butt. That place where a bubble butt joins the back thigh....oooooh maaaaan, that's the good stuff.

I haven't explored this avenue enough to have an opinion. Once I explore every part a few dozen more times, I'll let you know. Breasts and lips are leading at this point in time though. So delightfully delicious!

I saw Angelina on a regular basis a couple years ago, and I agree she is top notch. Every session was a bit different, and one never knew exactly what was going to happen next.....and being a regular also had many benefits :) .....had some amazing times with her :) :)

I say they are bi curious or bi sexual at most provided they still sleep with women.

I think your question confuses the act or action and a typing of the person. So yes a man may engage in a homosexual act and still not"be" a homosexual. Of course, another answer might be " who cares?"