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I like Midnight-Massage because she always seems so upbeat and positive. I have certainly not been that way of late and she tends to calm me down and that's a pretty nice thing! I've also been fortunate enough to meet her a couple of times and that has been a privilege. She is supportive I know of so many members on this board!

I don't know the answer to this, but... I really, really hope not. It would be a very sad day if all ads were done to the same template and the only difference between ladies was the pics.

I personally like them. It doesn't particularly sexy to have a piece of latex sticking out of your genitalia...but eh it does have some advantages 1) for those that want to do duos and have the fantasy of not changing condoms between girls can do it since each sP can wear a female condom 2) it's really good for those that get soft with putting a condom on their penis since you don't have the feeling of being construct by it

I want those. Seriously.

Hmmm. MN2 cheers for the wrong hockey team, the wrong CFL team, DEFINATELY the wrong NFL team but you know what..... After all that I still like him. He is a remarkable fella and Cerb is lucky to have his upbeat presence here.

Not sure if this is the right section, if not please move it for me.... I am needing some legal advice pertaining to defamation of character and all that jazz that goes along with it. If there is anyone who is a member of the board who has legal expertise in this field I would greatly appreciate you contacting me, I will accept pm's for this matter for your privacy as well..... Thank you in advance and any help/advice is greatly appreciated. xoxo Emily

Does this include a random guy saying he read your website, how nice it was and then tries to negotiate an appt asking for $100 an hour? It's mentioned a few times on my site that I don't negotiate. lol. Some people don't read, they are just completely ignorant or they just want to push to see how far they can get. I ended the convo right then and there. Definitely par for the course in this business but it sucks when you think you are having a good conversation with someone and then they drop the bomb, "I don't mean to sound cheap but can you do xxx for the hour?" Game over..

I just had a quick preview at my new pictures from my photoshoot yesterday... Can you say awesome and awesome again?! I'm a very happy camper at the moment! :biggrin:

If you are a well known established lady with a reputation for being discreet, sure, I will share info if I really need to see you. A new member with two posts? No thanks. It's a choice between seeing someone I know and trust vs seeing someone I do not know anything about and who wants my info.

Well, I was very fortunate earlier this week that Victoria was stopping in my little town. I got in touch with her and the meeting was set. Upon arrival to her room, I was greeted with a great, warm hug and kiss by what can only be described as a goddess. Tall, fit, great curves and oh man, what a kisser. I felt at ease instantly and we had so much fun. Victoria has a couple of "ticklish" places and she giggles but says she loves the tickling feeling so I, of course, kept going back for more. :D. Then she took the reins, so to speak and practically made me melt. I won't get into the explicit details (it's not my style), but this lady has skills that are hard to match. We had such a wonderful time and the "oui, oui" and "ooo la la" during our intimate time was icing on the cake. Victoria is exquisite in every sense of the word. A remarkable beauty that I will make every effort to see again if she comes my way in the future. Thank you to this wonderful woman.

Today I had the opportunity to confront myself. I went to a local bakery on Elgin St. and purchased something for $2.95. Not a large amount, however, I believed I gave the owner a 20$ bill. Once back in my apartment, I'd realized that I gave him a ten. I went back to this gentlemans bakery and proceeded to explain what had happened. I apologized for MY MISTAKE, as I really thought I gave a $20. I gave the gentlemen his correct change, I actually thought about not going, as I was tired, feeling lazy etc., when I realized, hey, you'd not appreciate this in a reverse scenario. Hands down decision. Happy ending: the gentleman was happy for me wrestling with my conscious. It was a great, up lifting moment. Sometimes it pays not to be lazy, when you see the happy, enlightened face of honesty.

I want to mention, that when I renewed my yellow pages ad, they were very unaware of the new changes. So I filled them in on what I knew and suggested that they contact their legal reps for a consultation. I was an agency, but since this new Bill is our reality, I gone back to a solo business. They were grateful for the info I had shared with them and will be looking into what changes they also will need to make for other agencies. I was carful in my ad title, as I put the words " independent entertainer" which pleased their legal responsibilities for 3rd party advertisers.

http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/girl-next-doordynamic-encounter-24/1726374 She defiantly does not match the pictures posted in her add.

Russian Chicken... Salad... Rice... Stir Fry Vegetables.... all extremely good.

Someone has to be first !

Here is a funny, yet informative comic I came across a while back which explains female condoms very well for those who do not have experience with them. It also explains some of the pros and cons to consider. Providers aren't going to just automatically use them as the go-to safer sex method, but many will use them if specially requested. View the original here.

don't learn the tricks of the trade , learn the trade . a flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it , it just blooms . we can only be what we give ourselves the power to be . it does not require many words to speak the truth . angels can fly because they take themselves lightly . it takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded .

I like Gabriella for her passion, enthusiasm, humor and beauty. She has made me smile many a time.

I haven't contacted her yet since seeing her ads but it appears to be "Misty" as she was formerly known, based on pictures provided. This is just speculation though.

I agree wholeheartedlly with that sentiment. I know that there are those out there who just want to make the LG happy and don't care about things like the nuances of the language. But I love, love, love reading a well written, intelligent, thought provoking ad. It can, for me, enhance the potential meeting and make it even a better experience. The prose can be sensuous, funny or whatever. Just don't give me some generic, run of the mill stuff. If a guy wants that just stick to BP and CL, imho. And ladies, it is unfortunate that some guys claim to read your ad or website and then still ask questions that are clearly stated as "no-nos" to ask. Like negotiating, bb or whatever it may be. This is why these forums are so important to keep going. Guys have to heed these words of advice and everybody will be happier in this hobby. A happy SP who hasn't been railed with asinine bullshit all day makes for a happy client (me, hopefully:biggrin:), when the encounter happens.

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The only time I've had to show ID is at hotels checking in, a credit card and a piece of ID. (I'm an outcall type of guy) But never to a companion But there was one time I showed my badge/ID (I used to be in LE) to a lady I was seeing...because she was interested. I showed her my medal too. I guess a new take on the old line "come up and see my etchings" LOL RG

I have, here is her website http://your-sweet-escape.escortfiles.com/gallery here is her cerb link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=41531 Additional Comments: Saw her a year or so ago...

Maddie has been around and from what I have heard, has a good reputation. Don't be so quick to judge someone for simply being a new member here.

Finishing my first week of school feeling really excited about this program :)

With Bill C36 looming over all our heads the need for clients to be extra vigilant in their screening process is going to increase. Similar to yourself I have a career and interests outside if this hobby and as a result I have always needed to be very careful about who I provided my personal information too. Given these two items mentioned above I see the likelihood of my sharing my personal information in the future with an SP I have never met or who I cannot verify as legitimate from my knowledge of the community or confirmation from other SP's who I have met and developed a level of trust to be increasingly remote. Just my opinion.

Rude people. Technology has created a ton of them! How did hello how are you become "cost?"

I have to say at the end of the day, guys ask to confirm things, regardless of what ladies put in your ad. This way you feel that everything was clear up front. Your ads are helpful, but don't expect that they will avoid questions that are in the ads. I am not saying don't put it in your ad, just don't expect that will avoid questions, some of the questions are ice breakers too.

EB is worth checking out once and a while.

My Backpage ad consists of an introductory line, followed by rates, availability and my website. Location is in the title of the post. It could not be more simple. Do I still have guys calling me outside my POSTED availability? Yup. Do I still have guys calling and asking my rates? Yup. Do I still have guys asking what area I'm in? Yup. As I said before, if you are actually serious about meeting me, you'll read the info. The rest are WOTS and I don't have time for that.

Let's watch what we say and not get one of the girls fired.

Katherine (aka Cathy hfxdom) is a Halifax provider who passes through here sometimes, and on her most recent stop I made my very first appointment with her. She is only my second such encounter, and it's going to be very, VERY difficult for anyone else to top her. She was sweet, kind, extremely patient with a nervous customer, and more than willing to accomodate my desires. She shows genuine enthusiasm for what she does, and gave me enormous pleasure. Her massage talents are amazing. Lads, she's also HOT. Fit and hot and very enthusiastic. I can't say enough about her. She has pages upon pages of recommendations over at the NS board for very good reason. Treat her well and make some appointments so she comes back to our city more often. She definitely is worth the time. There can't be many out there this awesome.

Well reading, OK continuing to read the thread, I'm rethinking my opinion. It would be nice for a lady to mention if it was that time of the month to a client. And not prior to an encounter, for him to decide whether to show or not to show. But when the encounter begins, so he can decide if he would like to perform daty as part of the date. But that said, everyone's sexual health is their own business A lady isn't compelled to answer if she has a STD/STI A man isn't compelled to answer if he has a STD/STI So why should a lady be compelled to tell prior to an encounter if it's that time of the month. She shouldn't There are protections out there to reduce risk be it condoms, dental dams etc. If a man wishes to perform daty use a dental dam Now I did say it would be nice if she did tell, but she shouldn't feel forced to do so On a related note, just as a lady shouldn't be compelled to disclosed, neither should a man. I had an encounter with a lady in Ottawa a few years ago. Well in the course of grooming myself down there the day before the date, I cut (well nicked more accurately) myself shaving, at the base of my penis. Even with a condom, a risk of blood exchange, no matter how minute, could possibly happen. I could have said nothing and gone forward with a normal encounter. Or cancelled, denying the lady income for a period of time she set aside for me. Or number three, which is what I did, tell her, and have an encounter that did not include fs or bj, but that didn't mean we didn't have a fulfilling enjoyable encounter So what is my point of this. No one is required to reveal their sexual health to anyone else, it's their own business. Second, that said, it would be nice to disclose something that may be of concern to their partner. Not obliged to do so, but it would be nice. Third, if there is something of concern, that doesn't mean IMO cancelling the date...it just means the date unfolds differently than expected...and different doesn't mean worse, sometimes different can be equally enjoyable. Finally encounters are about two adults engaging in intimate activities. Part of that is an expectation that everyone is mature, and understands life happens, and can deal maturely with life happening when it throws you a curve. A lady having her period is not the end of the earth. It is a normal fact of life. And both SP/Client can adapt and have an enjoyable memorable encounter if that happens A long winded rambling RG

I didn'T want to comment but I am getting a bit work out about some of the response @Cat as much I enjoy you and your wit and intelligence, I have to disagree with you on the daty aspect. This is one of the reason why I don't only do camming or dancing. I LOVE being eat out and having orgasms. I do it for myself because I am greedy in my orgasms. I have actually refuse to repeat with some people in the past because except for penetrations, they refuse to touch my genitals. I need contact with my clitoris to orgasm...so yes for me it is important for me. About the periods...OP I am sorry this happen. I can imagine how surprising it was for both people As for people saying an SP should take a few days off each time...maybe. Now, this is me getting into my personal life, but roughly two years ago I change from taking Depo Provera (an injection in the butt each 3 months) to regular birth control as compare to DP (eeh DP lol) was screwing my hormones over too much. When switching I've spotted and bleed for almost 7 weeks straight. There is NO WAY in hell could I have taken this much time off in a row, I've use sponges, didn't tell anyone and as far as I am aware no noticed it. Nowadays I don't particuarly bleed much during my periods so I don't work during the most heavy flow day but still from time to time will see people in the 4-5 days that I am spotting. Why? Because I see an average e5 clients A WEEK. If I had to loose 25% of my income, for a maybe small drip of blood, I couldn't afford to keep myself debt free, pay for school and pay for my tattoos addiction. And I guess this is my 0 cents since 0.02$ is rounded down now

I don't see it as secrecy, simply what the buyers market here has dictated. Canadian clients expect bb daty and many take convincing to actually use a dental dam. Here in Ottawa I have only had one client request the use of a dam before we've met in the last decade. I can't speak for other providers but that indicates to me that it just isn't that genuine a concern for most hobbyists. Unless of course it goes wrong as this thread has indicated. I'm going to clarify something that seems to have escaped some. How often does a provider insist a client go down on her? Think about it. Daty is performed for the client, not the provider during a first, second or even a third apptointment. I have yet to meet a provider that says "My guys have to go down on me." Most of the providers in my circle would prefer not to have guys perform daty until there is some connection and trust. In my experience, a woman has to be able to relax in order to enjoy it which seldom happens at the onset of this dynamic and I also believe it should only happen at her request. I consider daty a consumer driven service when it's listed on a menu and often an appointment will hinge on whether or not it's provided; many men decline when they are told it's safe service only. If there was genuine risk management going on, clients would realize the chance of menses and the dam would be requested regardless of whether or not a provider admits to being on her cycle or not. To me this is a case of having your cake and eating it too. From a practical standpoint I simply don't see it going both ways. If you want unprotected daty, then you assume the worst possible risk is present and accept it or you use protection. Until there are legislated health and safety practices in place (which most of the industry seems resistant to according to the bbbj thread), the fact remains that a man never knows what is happening in his providers reproductive organs and the onus is on him if he wants to perform orally. If daty is that important to him, he should insist that precautions are used or accept the consequences of his decision if the results are less than he desired. Anything else is simply abdicating responsibility... cat

If someone is unhappy about something they bought at a store they sure don't grab money out of the till to compensate. Additional Comments: Too many guys think every encounter has to be perfect. But we all wear seatbelts, we all have house insurance, we accept things can go wrong in everyday life. Intimacy is no different, hey it wasn't perfect that time but you just carry on.

@ Dorinda, I agree, it wasn't nice at all ! Hi guys, I couldn't read this thread without adding my opinion. First off, I'm sorry about this incident, it must have been really awkward for both parties. This being said, I think it's important to discuss such matters so people are better prepared to deal with this type of situation. Personally, I do not like working during my period, I will most likely take off for few days.... The body needs to rest. For hygienic, health and physical reasons, I prefer to take some time off and rest when I have my periods. This being said, I think it's perfectly fine for a lady to choose to continue her work during her period and I think it's perfectly fine for a gent to be told so he can choose whether or not he wants to see a lady on her period. It's her body and it's also his comfort. Whatever decision you make comes with consequences and you must be prepared to face them. Also, let's face it, it does happen that we unexpectedly get our period right before or during an appointment, and guys please be understanding, there's no need to humiliate a lady & make her feel bad. I think there are mature ways to handle those situations. For me, key words are transparency, honesty & consideration for others. Let's be transparent, honest & considerate of others to avoid any awkward situation and this goes for both providers and gents !!! Thank you

When the money is given to the Provider it becomes Her money. When it is taken back after the fact it is considered stealing. Humiliated and robbed. Wow.

If you actually thought it through, you would see that is a tremendous ask. If risk aversion is your goal, you don't perform unprotected daty I'm to assume? As we have had the oral sex "risk" discussion ad nauseum here and the resounding response from most hobbyists is that they will make their own decisions regarding safe oral sex all the while the actual weight of the risk is carried by the SP. Now the shoe is on the other foot the tone and response is decidedly different. With a bbbj, the risk is carried by the provider and I genuinely believe most who provide it only so so because of the negative financial impact if one doesn't offer it. We already share the most intimate parts of ourselves with our clients, now it's expected we disclose our menstrual cycles as well? Perhaps we should keep photos of our enemas discharges so greek freaks can be assured we prepared to their satisfaction? This is why I have never offered a menu or consent to see clients who demand one. I agree to nothing in advance which leaves me with the option of guiding the session to ensure I only engage in activities I know to be safe with my guests. Not all ladies have that luxury with their client base. Given the feast and famine nature of the business, there are many who can't afford to lose 20-25% of her yearly income. I'd like to see what men would do if they had to take a 25% a year pay hit for a bodily function. Especially when it never coincides with the other things we have to take time off for; like being out of work for a urinary track infection or yeast infection. Which btw is also an almost monthly occurrence for many of us due to our work and we physically can't work thru it. Or any of the other things like the flu and cold epidemics we are exposed to daily that "real" jobs have paid, legislated sick days for which we are not entitled to. The reality is that sex workers have been using sponges for as long as sex workers and sponges have been around. My stance on this is safe play saves. Until you know and trust someone, use barrier protection for all acts that may exchange body fluids. It isn't rocket science, just a piece of rubber and if you don't want to use one, then be prepared for the unexpected...

I've been an escort for 10years and had the misfortune to start my period twice during a session..I've been extremely embarrassed but those 2 people were extremely understanding..while I can understand some men not been comfortable meeting an escort during her period and using sponge I can't help myself to think of a reverse situation where I had guys coming to an app knowing they would request pegging and remotely didn't bother to clean himself and had shit all over(this situation happened far more often you would think) A man walking in in my first years of escorting requesting rimming (which I no longer do because of this experience)going in shower to than me finding shit on his ass Never I embarrassed them but each time I have been disgusted Should I assume if it's only fair to notify the client of something that is happening monthly because we are women that men will notify me that I would be playing with shit..that I will taste pee when he expect a bbbj ...Walking in app knowingly know we will have intimate time? Is it because I get compensate for my time that a notification isn't happening on my end? If you feel it's only fair for you to know and decide I think it would be fair that same get disclose to me to help me decide if I want to book? We are humans on both end and some mishap can happen on both ends

The 4th post in this thread quoted the entire original post. So if someone has come to this discussion late and wonders what Jessica is talking about, go there. On topic, my take is Life Happens. If you play at this for a long time, something like the OP's experience is bound to happen. Oh, and you'll get farted on mid-DATY. Have a chuckle at the absurdity of life and move on. And leave the donation.

Airing out dirt laundry is not allowed but discussion on this topic is permitted. If the name of the lady is not released (private or public) then we will allow this discussion to continue.... If the ladies name is released i will issue infractions and possibly suspension/bans

Billboard top 100 for 2012, at chart position 69: Paradise

Hot Child in the City - Nick Gilder www.youtube.com/watch?v=El6iQ2_dvlc

spent an hour with Heaven, it wasn't enough, it went by far too fast. This little lady is cute, friendly, with a attitude and service level beyond her years. Her body is fine, especially her bum, couldn't keep my hands off it. The girl can kiss, lots of dfk, all her services and rates are on her ad here and her website. Greek is ymmv, but her services are all inclusive. Great bbbj, the fs was quite fine, doggie, with that view of her bum, yummy Everything about Heaven is what you expect from a sp, the fact that she is so personable and good looking with a spinner type body is just a welcomed bonus It was a full hour of action and fun, she's always smiling, she's delicious, you just want to devour her in every sense. Heaven's a repeat and vfm for sure

2014 seems to be the year of the Magician, I posted some of my fanatsies in an earlier post where one was to experience the company of two sexy ladies who I felt would rock my world giving me something to remember for a long time. My fantasy became reality about a week ago when Katherine and Sophia decided to entertain PEI gents with the possibility of having a threesome here in Charlottetown. Katherine teased us with first with a post and the next day Sophia announced the good news, with the privilege of visiting both ladies over the past year I felt they would be perfect couple to have some sexual fun with so I booked a hour and a half immediately. I had always wondered would the ladies entertain me as much as I hoped to entertain them, wow I could not have written a better script to describe how my time was with these two ladies from getting a dual massage to pleasing one lady while getting pleased myself at the same time. In another post I also mentioned the journey of getting to the finish was just as important to me as the finish itself, I think Katherine and Sophia must of read this post because they each took me on a trip where I was so happy to succumb to their pleasures. Note first time also for the Magician for msog in a hour and a half thanks ladies. For the details in how this all happened you will have to hope these two sexy ladies decide to work together again so you will get to experience it yourself. Sophia, Katherine thank you both again for an experience of a lifetime, It's being ten days and I am still smiling:) Magician

Well gentlemen, I had the pleasure of meeting Katherine for the first time at her luxurious suite during her recent visit to Saint John, and I assure you, it was the beginning of a long term association with this beautiful, exciting, and classy lady. She made me feel comfortable right from the start as she greeted me with a lingering kiss from those soft, luscious lips, then changed from attractive Capri's into a super sexy, yet tasteful black dress with matching nylons. Your imaginations, and your libidos, can take it from there. I spent several hours with Cathy and was treated to stimulating ,intelligent conversation in her beautiful surroundings, to an incredibly relaxing massage (she brings her own table, and she is licenced), to lingering slow sensuality, and to unbridled passion like you will not believe. Her skin is satin, her figure terrific, and her body soft yet firm, reponsive to your touch and to your every impulse. She loves to kiss and she finishes just as strong. Gents, you really need to see this special lady. Remember to treat her well, as she deserves nothing less.

I agree, fisting can be very erotic.