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I like Midnight-Massage because she always seems so upbeat and positive. I have certainly not been that way of late and she tends to calm me down and that's a pretty nice thing! I've also been fortunate enough to meet her a couple of times and that has been a privilege. She is supportive I know of so many members on this board!

I don't know the answer to this, but... I really, really hope not. It would be a very sad day if all ads were done to the same template and the only difference between ladies was the pics.

I personally like them. It doesn't particularly sexy to have a piece of latex sticking out of your genitalia...but eh it does have some advantages 1) for those that want to do duos and have the fantasy of not changing condoms between girls can do it since each sP can wear a female condom 2) it's really good for those that get soft with putting a condom on their penis since you don't have the feeling of being construct by it

I want those. Seriously.

Hmmm. MN2 cheers for the wrong hockey team, the wrong CFL team, DEFINATELY the wrong NFL team but you know what..... After all that I still like him. He is a remarkable fella and Cerb is lucky to have his upbeat presence here.

Not sure if this is the right section, if not please move it for me.... I am needing some legal advice pertaining to defamation of character and all that jazz that goes along with it. If there is anyone who is a member of the board who has legal expertise in this field I would greatly appreciate you contacting me, I will accept pm's for this matter for your privacy as well..... Thank you in advance and any help/advice is greatly appreciated. xoxo Emily

Does this include a random guy saying he read your website, how nice it was and then tries to negotiate an appt asking for $100 an hour? It's mentioned a few times on my site that I don't negotiate. lol. Some people don't read, they are just completely ignorant or they just want to push to see how far they can get. I ended the convo right then and there. Definitely par for the course in this business but it sucks when you think you are having a good conversation with someone and then they drop the bomb, "I don't mean to sound cheap but can you do xxx for the hour?" Game over..

I just had a quick preview at my new pictures from my photoshoot yesterday... Can you say awesome and awesome again?! I'm a very happy camper at the moment! :biggrin:

If you are a well known established lady with a reputation for being discreet, sure, I will share info if I really need to see you. A new member with two posts? No thanks. It's a choice between seeing someone I know and trust vs seeing someone I do not know anything about and who wants my info.

http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/girl-next-doordynamic-encounter-24/1726374 She defiantly does not match the pictures posted in her add.

Russian Chicken... Salad... Rice... Stir Fry Vegetables.... all extremely good.

Someone has to be first !

Here is a funny, yet informative comic I came across a while back which explains female condoms very well for those who do not have experience with them. It also explains some of the pros and cons to consider. Providers aren't going to just automatically use them as the go-to safer sex method, but many will use them if specially requested. View the original here.

Check the Warsaw massage thread. That is Nan.

I like Gabriella for her passion, enthusiasm, humor and beauty. She has made me smile many a time.

I haven't contacted her yet since seeing her ads but it appears to be "Misty" as she was formerly known, based on pictures provided. This is just speculation though.

It seems to me that the lost art of reading is really true. I often receive messages that are so vague it takes two to three messages to find out what the person wants. For instance, I have on my ads to contact me either through PM or through my contact page on my website. I ask for a contact number so that I can call YOU. I do not see ANYONE without conversing with them first. What do I receive? "can you give me your phone number to call you?", or "do you have an email as I can only contact you that way." WTF? If you are contacting me through PM, or my contact page, asking me for an email or phone number, it's pretty obvious that you are able to convey what it is that you seek from me in a PM or the contact page! I took my email address and my phone number off my ads, due to the fact of endless text messages that were absolute garbage and endless emails that were just a game of email-tag. I also do not give out my address without a firm booking and have spoken with you first. This is not new, lots of providers ask for this. From what I have read in other threads, please gentlemen, read our ads, and observe how we wish to be contacted. Those instructions are there for a reason, they are our reasons, and the way in which we wish to conduct ourselves. As so many gentlemen have put in their two cents worth, I will quote what they have said: "read the ads and answer the ladies in the manner they have asked to be contacted in" I have a contact page, or PM through here. Pretty simple and basic. Hearing things like 'do you have private' messaging? PM through here IS private messaging! I am the only one that reads mine! For those gentlemen that do read instructions and have contacted me in the manner that I have asked, I do thank you for that. It is a pleasure to chat with someone that has actually taken the time to read.

I agree wholeheartedlly with that sentiment. I know that there are those out there who just want to make the LG happy and don't care about things like the nuances of the language. But I love, love, love reading a well written, intelligent, thought provoking ad. It can, for me, enhance the potential meeting and make it even a better experience. The prose can be sensuous, funny or whatever. Just don't give me some generic, run of the mill stuff. If a guy wants that just stick to BP and CL, imho. And ladies, it is unfortunate that some guys claim to read your ad or website and then still ask questions that are clearly stated as "no-nos" to ask. Like negotiating, bb or whatever it may be. This is why these forums are so important to keep going. Guys have to heed these words of advice and everybody will be happier in this hobby. A happy SP who hasn't been railed with asinine bullshit all day makes for a happy client (me, hopefully:biggrin:), when the encounter happens.

I musta missed the "Lingo" section of the course ;) But I passed :))

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After he testified in the 2nd reading, the abolitionists created a hate website about Chris trying to debunk and undermine his research (which again, i have to say, he didn't just slap up some polls on review sites, it was more than one person research university approved supervised study) I say 'his' for simplicity sake. And MPs also tried to undermine the research, sneering at the findings and the method. Same people will accept Farley's socalled research about clients in Scotland. Self reporting or face to face interviews, clients are obviously going to be considered to answering the questions in ways to make themselves look 'better', according to these anti sex worker types. But to me, you can't then say one study about clients (with such bad methods that people doing the interviews quit rather than be associated with it) is acceptable simply because it gives the results you want, and the other, with so many more participants, isn't OK.

I have, here is her website http://your-sweet-escape.escortfiles.com/gallery here is her cerb link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=41531 Additional Comments: Saw her a year or so ago...

Maddie has been around and from what I have heard, has a good reputation. Don't be so quick to judge someone for simply being a new member here.

Finishing my first week of school feeling really excited about this program :)

With Bill C36 looming over all our heads the need for clients to be extra vigilant in their screening process is going to increase. Similar to yourself I have a career and interests outside if this hobby and as a result I have always needed to be very careful about who I provided my personal information too. Given these two items mentioned above I see the likelihood of my sharing my personal information in the future with an SP I have never met or who I cannot verify as legitimate from my knowledge of the community or confirmation from other SP's who I have met and developed a level of trust to be increasingly remote. Just my opinion.

I have to say at the end of the day, guys ask to confirm things, regardless of what ladies put in your ad. This way you feel that everything was clear up front. Your ads are helpful, but don't expect that they will avoid questions that are in the ads. I am not saying don't put it in your ad, just don't expect that will avoid questions, some of the questions are ice breakers too.

The same holds true of companions and prospective clients in this lifestyle. Yes, the client is ALWAYS right, but the companion decides who will be her clients. Just seemed appropriate for this thread RG :-)

EB is worth checking out once and a while.

My Backpage ad consists of an introductory line, followed by rates, availability and my website. Location is in the title of the post. It could not be more simple. Do I still have guys calling me outside my POSTED availability? Yup. Do I still have guys calling and asking my rates? Yup. Do I still have guys asking what area I'm in? Yup. As I said before, if you are actually serious about meeting me, you'll read the info. The rest are WOTS and I don't have time for that.

Let's watch what we say and not get one of the girls fired.

Katherine (aka Cathy hfxdom) is a Halifax provider who passes through here sometimes, and on her most recent stop I made my very first appointment with her. She is only my second such encounter, and it's going to be very, VERY difficult for anyone else to top her. She was sweet, kind, extremely patient with a nervous customer, and more than willing to accomodate my desires. She shows genuine enthusiasm for what she does, and gave me enormous pleasure. Her massage talents are amazing. Lads, she's also HOT. Fit and hot and very enthusiastic. I can't say enough about her. She has pages upon pages of recommendations over at the NS board for very good reason. Treat her well and make some appointments so she comes back to our city more often. She definitely is worth the time. There can't be many out there this awesome.

Well reading, OK continuing to read the thread, I'm rethinking my opinion. It would be nice for a lady to mention if it was that time of the month to a client. And not prior to an encounter, for him to decide whether to show or not to show. But when the encounter begins, so he can decide if he would like to perform daty as part of the date. But that said, everyone's sexual health is their own business A lady isn't compelled to answer if she has a STD/STI A man isn't compelled to answer if he has a STD/STI So why should a lady be compelled to tell prior to an encounter if it's that time of the month. She shouldn't There are protections out there to reduce risk be it condoms, dental dams etc. If a man wishes to perform daty use a dental dam Now I did say it would be nice if she did tell, but she shouldn't feel forced to do so On a related note, just as a lady shouldn't be compelled to disclosed, neither should a man. I had an encounter with a lady in Ottawa a few years ago. Well in the course of grooming myself down there the day before the date, I cut (well nicked more accurately) myself shaving, at the base of my penis. Even with a condom, a risk of blood exchange, no matter how minute, could possibly happen. I could have said nothing and gone forward with a normal encounter. Or cancelled, denying the lady income for a period of time she set aside for me. Or number three, which is what I did, tell her, and have an encounter that did not include fs or bj, but that didn't mean we didn't have a fulfilling enjoyable encounter So what is my point of this. No one is required to reveal their sexual health to anyone else, it's their own business. Second, that said, it would be nice to disclose something that may be of concern to their partner. Not obliged to do so, but it would be nice. Third, if there is something of concern, that doesn't mean IMO cancelling the date...it just means the date unfolds differently than expected...and different doesn't mean worse, sometimes different can be equally enjoyable. Finally encounters are about two adults engaging in intimate activities. Part of that is an expectation that everyone is mature, and understands life happens, and can deal maturely with life happening when it throws you a curve. A lady having her period is not the end of the earth. It is a normal fact of life. And both SP/Client can adapt and have an enjoyable memorable encounter if that happens A long winded rambling RG

I didn'T want to comment but I am getting a bit work out about some of the response @Cat as much I enjoy you and your wit and intelligence, I have to disagree with you on the daty aspect. This is one of the reason why I don't only do camming or dancing. I LOVE being eat out and having orgasms. I do it for myself because I am greedy in my orgasms. I have actually refuse to repeat with some people in the past because except for penetrations, they refuse to touch my genitals. I need contact with my clitoris to orgasm...so yes for me it is important for me. About the periods...OP I am sorry this happen. I can imagine how surprising it was for both people As for people saying an SP should take a few days off each time...maybe. Now, this is me getting into my personal life, but roughly two years ago I change from taking Depo Provera (an injection in the butt each 3 months) to regular birth control as compare to DP (eeh DP lol) was screwing my hormones over too much. When switching I've spotted and bleed for almost 7 weeks straight. There is NO WAY in hell could I have taken this much time off in a row, I've use sponges, didn't tell anyone and as far as I am aware no noticed it. Nowadays I don't particuarly bleed much during my periods so I don't work during the most heavy flow day but still from time to time will see people in the 4-5 days that I am spotting. Why? Because I see an average e5 clients A WEEK. If I had to loose 25% of my income, for a maybe small drip of blood, I couldn't afford to keep myself debt free, pay for school and pay for my tattoos addiction. And I guess this is my 0 cents since 0.02$ is rounded down now

If someone is unhappy about something they bought at a store they sure don't grab money out of the till to compensate. Additional Comments: Too many guys think every encounter has to be perfect. But we all wear seatbelts, we all have house insurance, we accept things can go wrong in everyday life. Intimacy is no different, hey it wasn't perfect that time but you just carry on.

@ Dorinda, I agree, it wasn't nice at all ! Hi guys, I couldn't read this thread without adding my opinion. First off, I'm sorry about this incident, it must have been really awkward for both parties. This being said, I think it's important to discuss such matters so people are better prepared to deal with this type of situation. Personally, I do not like working during my period, I will most likely take off for few days.... The body needs to rest. For hygienic, health and physical reasons, I prefer to take some time off and rest when I have my periods. This being said, I think it's perfectly fine for a lady to choose to continue her work during her period and I think it's perfectly fine for a gent to be told so he can choose whether or not he wants to see a lady on her period. It's her body and it's also his comfort. Whatever decision you make comes with consequences and you must be prepared to face them. Also, let's face it, it does happen that we unexpectedly get our period right before or during an appointment, and guys please be understanding, there's no need to humiliate a lady & make her feel bad. I think there are mature ways to handle those situations. For me, key words are transparency, honesty & consideration for others. Let's be transparent, honest & considerate of others to avoid any awkward situation and this goes for both providers and gents !!! Thank you

I would like to express my sympathies as well for the provider that went through as a first encounter. I hope this has not discouraged her as it's a rare this happens. It's all uphill from here if it's any consolation. I'm not going to comment further on what should be disclosed to the client as it's been well discussed. There's a crucial part to this situation that has bothered me that I am going to mention to protect ourselves financially. Once a client has decided to stay he no longer has access to the donation. It sounds like she was given a cancellation fee that is only acceptable if he left immediately. That was not the case. It's a good idea to tuck the donation away in a safe place to protect ourselves from this kind of situation. It can be done discreetly after introductions. Unfortunately, it takes situations like this to learn from them and we should always be prepared. Especially when meeting someone for the first time.

I'm in total agreement with the last few posters, but would like to offer another point of view. I use a sponge during appointments, not because I am on my period, but because I have an IUD (and it has stopped my periods) and have found that some guests do not respect my boundaries when it comes to digits (deep, forceful ones are really not that pleasant at all), or that I've found when a gentleman is well-endowed or in a really good position to hit my cervix (or using really deep digits), that sometimes that force can trigger some bleeding. Also, vigorous digits, especially with someone who has not trimmed/filed their nails, can also cause tears in the vaginal tissue, which could also lead to bleeding. Just a thought. Point being: I think this should have been a discussion between you and the lady in question, not something made public, whether you intend to name her or not. As someone who has used sponges, I agree with previous posters that they do not just "fall out" from oral sex alone -- when tucked away properly, they are very very difficult to find sometimes, and often require some contortionist efforts to remove them.

I've been an escort for 10years and had the misfortune to start my period twice during a session..I've been extremely embarrassed but those 2 people were extremely understanding..while I can understand some men not been comfortable meeting an escort during her period and using sponge I can't help myself to think of a reverse situation where I had guys coming to an app knowing they would request pegging and remotely didn't bother to clean himself and had shit all over(this situation happened far more often you would think) A man walking in in my first years of escorting requesting rimming (which I no longer do because of this experience)going in shower to than me finding shit on his ass Never I embarrassed them but each time I have been disgusted Should I assume if it's only fair to notify the client of something that is happening monthly because we are women that men will notify me that I would be playing with shit..that I will taste pee when he expect a bbbj ...Walking in app knowingly know we will have intimate time? Is it because I get compensate for my time that a notification isn't happening on my end? If you feel it's only fair for you to know and decide I think it would be fair that same get disclose to me to help me decide if I want to book? We are humans on both end and some mishap can happen on both ends

I'm in the same boat as piano, don't know what I would do but hope that I would react in the same manner that many if the ladies have treated me during our time together. I'm a middle age man with a little guy that most can DT without gagging and not one lady has ever laugh, stare or snicker when they see me naked (can't say that my high-school buddies treated me with the same level of respect during shower time after gym class). On top of that, I've had some crazy shit happen such as loosing the erection between positions, having to run and urinate (yes, I gave junior a shower before returning), getting too excited and shooting prematurely and even a condom break. None of the ladies have ever lost it or overreacted, in fact they just went with it. For me, it was embarrassing when these things happened but got over it quickly because of the ladies' reaction. As for the money, I will not take the money back without consent. As soon as I decide to stay, I've committed to taking up the agreed amount of time and that is what I need to pay for. Therefore the money belongs to the lady at that point and taking any of it back without consent is theft in my mind. PS I added the words 'without consent' because shit happens and she may decided to offer money back. I still wouldn't take the money back unless it was a long multi hour session but cut short dramatically by her.

The 4th post in this thread quoted the entire original post. So if someone has come to this discussion late and wonders what Jessica is talking about, go there. On topic, my take is Life Happens. If you play at this for a long time, something like the OP's experience is bound to happen. Oh, and you'll get farted on mid-DATY. Have a chuckle at the absurdity of life and move on. And leave the donation.

Airing out dirt laundry is not allowed but discussion on this topic is permitted. If the name of the lady is not released (private or public) then we will allow this discussion to continue.... If the ladies name is released i will issue infractions and possibly suspension/bans

Ok -- there are a few things that jumped out at me as I read this thread, both the OP post and the comments. 1. A woman needs to disclose when it's that time of the month? That seems awfully private, and extreme. 2. Women in this industry REGULARLY, and SUCCESSFULLY, work through their period with things such as sponges or soft cups. It happens ALL the time. 3. How mortified this poor woman must have felt by the completely immature way you reacted. Clearly the sponge became dislodged. And you know what? Menstruation is a fact of life. She didn't know that happened, or mean for it to. She's likely worked through her period COUNTLESS times with no issue. 4. Asking women to not work during their period is ridiculous. 5. Taking the donation and insulting her further by leaving $40?!!?!! It was an unfortunate incident that wasn't planned. It was dealt with poorly by you, and that poor woman wasn't given a chance to correct the situation -- and then ALSO had to lose out on her pay for that booking? Complete and utter disrespect. SO much wrong with this!!!!!!

I read this thread very late last night and I wanted to reply with a clear mind...I guess you have a right to be disgusted...everybody reacts differently to that situation... There is something though that bothers me and really ticked me off here is that you took the donation and left 40$! Thats what bothers me the most...I'm sure there will be lots of different opinions on this issue but if you decide to leave because you are disgusted with the situation, the donation should stay there...yes maybe she should have been upfront about it but, for me, its not a reason to take the donation and barely leave Pocket change... Personally i do work with sponges ( for what I have left of period lol) and there is no way you could ever tell coz they are really deep in there. But yes I started my period many times during sessions...that i could not predict... Just my opinion... BJ

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Eddie Money Take Me Home Tonight Billy Joel She's Always A Woman Chicago No Tell Lover Just some more RG

spent an hour with Heaven, it wasn't enough, it went by far too fast. This little lady is cute, friendly, with a attitude and service level beyond her years. Her body is fine, especially her bum, couldn't keep my hands off it. The girl can kiss, lots of dfk, all her services and rates are on her ad here and her website. Greek is ymmv, but her services are all inclusive. Great bbbj, the fs was quite fine, doggie, with that view of her bum, yummy Everything about Heaven is what you expect from a sp, the fact that she is so personable and good looking with a spinner type body is just a welcomed bonus It was a full hour of action and fun, she's always smiling, she's delicious, you just want to devour her in every sense. Heaven's a repeat and vfm for sure

2014 seems to be the year of the Magician, I posted some of my fanatsies in an earlier post where one was to experience the company of two sexy ladies who I felt would rock my world giving me something to remember for a long time. My fantasy became reality about a week ago when Katherine and Sophia decided to entertain PEI gents with the possibility of having a threesome here in Charlottetown. Katherine teased us with first with a post and the next day Sophia announced the good news, with the privilege of visiting both ladies over the past year I felt they would be perfect couple to have some sexual fun with so I booked a hour and a half immediately. I had always wondered would the ladies entertain me as much as I hoped to entertain them, wow I could not have written a better script to describe how my time was with these two ladies from getting a dual massage to pleasing one lady while getting pleased myself at the same time. In another post I also mentioned the journey of getting to the finish was just as important to me as the finish itself, I think Katherine and Sophia must of read this post because they each took me on a trip where I was so happy to succumb to their pleasures. Note first time also for the Magician for msog in a hour and a half thanks ladies. For the details in how this all happened you will have to hope these two sexy ladies decide to work together again so you will get to experience it yourself. Sophia, Katherine thank you both again for an experience of a lifetime, It's being ten days and I am still smiling:) Magician

Well gentlemen, I had the pleasure of meeting Katherine for the first time at her luxurious suite during her recent visit to Saint John, and I assure you, it was the beginning of a long term association with this beautiful, exciting, and classy lady. She made me feel comfortable right from the start as she greeted me with a lingering kiss from those soft, luscious lips, then changed from attractive Capri's into a super sexy, yet tasteful black dress with matching nylons. Your imaginations, and your libidos, can take it from there. I spent several hours with Cathy and was treated to stimulating ,intelligent conversation in her beautiful surroundings, to an incredibly relaxing massage (she brings her own table, and she is licenced), to lingering slow sensuality, and to unbridled passion like you will not believe. Her skin is satin, her figure terrific, and her body soft yet firm, reponsive to your touch and to your every impulse. She loves to kiss and she finishes just as strong. Gents, you really need to see this special lady. Remember to treat her well, as she deserves nothing less.

I agree, fisting can be very erotic.