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  1. 4 points
    lickachick was the same person as mjai420 This person is obviously trying very hard to run a smear campaign to make Brooklyn Styles look bad. They are asking you to PM them instead of posting nasty stuff in public about her (well that is just a way to try to circumvent our no negative comment policy and this is a great example of why we have this rule!) Thankfully our members are too smart for that and reported him and many are sticking up for her too. Awesome to see!! So... If you see a post asking you to PM them for info on Brooklyn (or anyone for that matter) just report it for me please. Obviously if it's about Brooklyn chances are it is this same obsessive person. If you see stuff like this and you know it is not true the best thing to do is do what you did here. Report it and post letting people know you recommend the lady. What a great community we have!
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    Hi there gentleman! For those of you that I have not had the pleasure of meeting yet, during this busy and at times stressful season. I would love the opportunity to spend 90 minutes with you at my regular hourly rate! Let's warm eachother up have a glass of wine or drink of your choice. Let's flirt and let me suduce you and get the juices flowing ;) For those I have not met. I am a Exotic passionate woman that definitely loves to satisfy and please and is no stranger to getting pleased! I have dark exotic features, curvy hips and beautiful smooth bronzed skin, an all natural mature Mexican sweetheart! My reputation is of a high sexual energy, naughtiness and being wildly passionate. I possess a natural ability to connect with you freely, putting you at ease and relaxed in order for us to explore a world of intimacy and ultimate pleasure! I am a confident, classy and intellectual woman who enjoys great conversation and companionship! Now I can't promise you won't get lost in my captivating eyes or that my smile and full kissable lips won't drive you wild. Or that I wont charm the pants off of you (literally ) ;) But I can promise you that you will have my undivided attention and you will leave feeling like we were reacquainted lovers from long ago! Your passionate and sensual encounter awaits you Xoxo http://www.sweetcaramelo.com Felina :* 204-293-7320 [email protected]
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    Hello everyone! Due to a cancellation, we now have a VIP ticket available either for sale to a member without a ticket or if someone that bought a regular ticket wishes to upgrade to VIP its only an extra 15 dollars for a limo ride from and back to dtown area! I would like to remind everyone that mistert and I do not take even a penny as profit for this nor have we done so since we been organising the socials starting back in Sep 2013. As a matter of fact, those that have met me in person to pay cash, know that I drive a truck which is not cheap on gas. With the number of trips I have to take I easily burn a tank of gas which comes out of my own pockets. Mistert also spends money as well. Therefore due to the fact we make zero profit from the socials, everyone has to understand that once we committed money towards the event we can not give it back to ppl cancelling at the last minute unless we take it out of our own pockets. To date we have paid for the limo and the entertainment. Deadline for tickets is tomorrow as we will have to confirm and pay for the food then. Next time someone can't seem to understand when we say sorry no refund, think about how you would feel if you were on the receiving end of the complaint and you had spent close to 100 dollars of your own pocket to organise an event to try and get community members together!!!
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    If you check the recommendations under Nova Scotia I did a recommendation for Maraena, I agree with Boomer1 Maraena is a special lady who is a delight to spend a couple of hours with.
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    Maraena is the one I would trust and I have seen her. Truro seems to be bursting out with many new companions but I've heard the you need to be very careful as always.
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    There will be thinning of the herd for sure and just like natural selection the strong on both sides of the game will adapt and survive and the weak won't. The end result might be better game over all. Peace MG
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    If your website is found to advertise ANY sexual services we must place your website URL on our CENSOR list as we can not knowingly advertise it. Anyone currently or previously offering any sexual services in exchange for money you need to stop that! (The government says so!!) We are actively reviewing websites advertised on lyla.com to ensure all websites comply with the new laws. If you are found to have any sexual references on your website that could be considered prostitution you will receive the following message and your site will be blocked. You can ask us to review it at a later date but we are busy so if you force us to block it instead of updating it and saving us all that work then we will take our time allowing it back! if you choose to comply and wish to promote your revised site here. It is in your best interest with this new law to stop offering any sexual services as it is now illegal for anyone to advertise such services.
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    Some people were concerned cause our old banner said the word "ESCORT" and they assume that implies some sort of sexual reference. Let me clear the air on that word. The word "ESCORT" does not imply ANY prostitution services in ANY WAY are available!! This is why towns like Winnipeg, Calgary, Barrie, Windsor and others LICENSE escorts. They can LEGALLY LICENSE escorts and escort services but can NOT LICENSE anyone who is a courtesan/prostitute! You can be someones escort on a date to a movie, dinner, travel companion, etc... 100% legally and you can ADVERTISE this service anywhere you want! The new law DID NOT ban advertising as an ESCORT or allowing people to advertise ESCORT SERVICES. As long as no sexual services are included or solicited in the ad we can advertise that service. We can also advertise private dancers, stripclubs, massage spas that do not offer any extra menu items as well. We just can not allow anyone to advertise/solicit a SEXUAL SERVICE / PROSTITUTION ACT. Soliciting ESCORT services (Like any other legal business) is not a issue and it is not an issue for us to advertise such a service. So hosting the old cerb.ca banner is not an issue even with the word ESCORT on it as you can be an ESCORT and not have sex or do sexual things so that word is NOT one of the BANNED WORDS .... But... for those who are still not comfy with the word the new banner for lyla.com came in today. Here it is....
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    I decided to take a chance on Bianca. I normally don't use blind faith anymore but I have been pleasantly surprised in the past. I guess that's part of the excitement. Bianca is stunning. Her pictures are accurate with the only exception being that she does have some tattoos but they're subtle. She has an amazing set of legs and breasts. She used to dance and it shows.
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    Anything but a Lifesavers Christmas pack. This was worse than getting nothing when I was a kid, and I'm still scarred from receiving them. http://steelkaleidoscopes.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345160cc69e2017c3439de20970b-pi Sweet Jesus how do you post an F'n pic here!!! GRRRRRR
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    Good afternoon gentlemen, First I would like to greatly apologize to the CERB members for posting misleading photos on BP. My name is Nichole and I am a Quebecoise advertiser (Was on Escorts Canada but they removed my ad because I was using these photos on BP causing them to receive complaints). My description and pictures on Escorts Canada were always 100% real and truly me as I have verified with Escorts Canada. Some of the pictures on BP of costumes and fantasy pieces were not me and they have now all been ERASED. I WILL ONLY POST ACTUAL PHOTOS OF MYSELF ON ALL SITES GOING FORWARD. I will clearly state my services and restrictions so that there is no confusion. I will only be able to offer mild to moderate submissive services, no longer hardcore due to some traumatic injuries. I am apologizing and asking the members to give me another chance. I will work extremely hard to rebuild my reputation with this community. Thank you for this opportunity. Deepest apologies, Nichole :icon_cry:
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    Had a 1 hour session with Sophie this morning. I think maybe she's Korean. Her English is fairly good. She gave a good, firm massage and after that a nude HE. I think she's in her late 20's or early 30's (I find it hard to guess the age of Asian women sometimes). Average looks, slightly plump in a pleasant way. Nice skin - very smooth, soft, and white. Beautiful, fair sized breasts with erect, suckable nipples. Over all a good experience. Bonus points - they have a shower, parking in the rear, and a discreet rear entrance for us shy guys.
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    I once suggested to a gentleman that we share a bottle of a wine we both loved during our 10 o'clock appointment. He wrote back saying, "Really? Before lunch?" I hadn't seen that he said 10 AM and not PM! We laughed but that is SURE to turn off any hobbiest! Time for my wake-up bottle of wine, ha ha ha, it was pretty embarrassing.
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    Thanks MOD for acting so quickly on this. I was going to post something to remind people that when you get info like this, look closely at the profile. If it appears that the person has ONLY made enough post to write something like this, then disappears with no other post then that is a good sign of a smear campaign against the lady. Ask yourself, " does this person have any rep at all?" Look at the members who posted with a positive comment, have they been on our board for while? If so, then chances are they would not bother with writing a positive comment if it wasn't earned. And a long term member with tons of rep and points would never behave like this, they simply would not return to the provider. Hope this the end of this disturbing situation. Thankfully we have good people here and a MOD who is very pro-active!
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    I just wanted to say how refreshing it is to see local sp going out of her way to offer a little customer appreciation... anyone who is successfull in sales knows how important it is to keep care of your regular customers. while at the same time creating new ones.
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    I am a pretty good cook and baker so say after December 15th I usually have a small bag of fudge to give as I kiss goodbye. Yummy and easy to hide.
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    She's one of the best but she's gone Friday
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    Any time I have a question relating to CMJ, I just give them a call and ask! They are always very helpful and if one of your favs is on leave or not available I'm sure they would offer suggestions for alternates.
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    But do make sure they know it is a gift/treat - wouldn't want us starting to expect it - after all there is no reason we hobbyists shouldn't be providing the "Non-Denominational Mid-Winter Holiday Present..." Missing you in Ottawa, Kate!
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    Hello Gentlemen: I will be visiting Orleans tomorrow. I am a Mature Comfortable Companion who is attentive and attuned . I am playful and bring a warmth and deep understanding to those lives that i touch.. An opportunity to explore and be fulfilled Please visit my website.. maturejen.com You may contact me either through text or calling 613-979-32*72
  23. 1 point
    None of the above; without telling them in advance (only when they are there) give them an extra 15 minutes which might be a glass of wine or other non-alcoholic beverage.
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    All you need with one MA. a non rushed session, hot shower, our body together and so much more ;) come live your moment, the one that will take you away from your daily routine xoxoxo available until 11pm. 613-820-8887 A bientot Lany
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    I've been to a spa only once. I prefer indies for the following reason. Privacy - Walking into the spa from an open street was a bit unnerving. Nothing wrong with it, and while it faced a road, it was quite empty and I'm certain no one noticed me going in or leaving. I wouldn't say it's a deal killer, but it is a factor. Also, I did pass by another client on my way out. It didn't bother me too much, but I would have preferred not to have that happen. Experience - I just prefer the more personal touch of seeing an indy. With an indy, I can get a sense of who she is right from her website. A bonus if she is active here. When I send out a message, I will be getting in touch with her. By the time I meet her, there is an initial understanding of each other. With a spa, I literally did not know anything about the person coming in (my experience was perhaps a bit more extreme, but in normal circumstances, I'd just know some brief physical details which doesn't mean much). There are some other instances where I would like to get in touch with the person directly, just to inform her about some interests, and get her feedback. It's a bit awkward to do so when contacting the spa. Not to say there are no upsides to a spa. With the spa, I was able to walk right in with a short notice. That isn't as easy with an indy. The person I normally see has a very different schedule then I. It once took two months to set something up with her because of it. Additionally, a spa can sometimes provide more facilities (not always) which is nice. In short, while I would not completely rule out a spa, I'm much more inclined to see an indy.
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    Many people have mentioned that I have a strong resemblance to Channing Tatum. And by resemblance, we share many similar features, like two arms, legs, eyes, eye brows. Line up ladies! But on a more serious note, it is a bit disappointing to see that there is almost nothing out there for women. For whatever reason the there is no demand for this sort of service, I do hope that it has nothing to do with cultural norms being different for men and women (or that it is moving away from that).
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    Maybe have a couple of gift cards from Starbucks, Tim Hortons, etc. At some point, as them if they have a preference. Tada, you have the right one to give them! Something small, $5 would be more then enough. At this point, the unexpected kind gesture is what's really valuable. You never know, some people are into that.
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    Dear gentlemen, My name is Tia Phoenixx, an International companion with solid reputation, having hundreds of positive reviews from all around the world. I am 28, 173cm/62kg, 36D-26-36, friendly and open minded. CORNWALL: NOV.26 AFTERNOON TO NOV.27 MORNING OTTAWA: NOV.27 AFTERNOON TO NOV.29 MORNING TORONTO: STARTING ON NOV.29 AFTERNOON for more info of me: youtube, reviews, and facebook link, etc, simply search for my name on the internet. phone: 647-524-0515
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    On Monday I stopped by ALO west to purchase a ticket to the Christmas social and was welcomed at the door by the absolutely gorgeous Theresa. I explained that I was simply dropping by in the hopes of acquiring a social ticket.... she was unfamiliar with the process (completely understandable) and suggested I may have to visit the VIP location for ALO to acquire a ticket. She sent me off with a 'good luck getting a ticket, don't delay and hope to see you at the social!' and the warmest of smiles. I hadn't gotten far down the road when my brain started to function again (temporary loss of blood supply), told me to visit the bank and return to ALO west to book a rendezvous right away. I did. My smaller brain was also screaming the same demand. To my great good fortune Theresa was available and I was able to have a one hour rendezvous with her. She has gorgeous long black hair, long legs that don't stop till they hit the ground (it's a long trip), the smoothest sweetest chocolate skin and a tight little bum and exquisite itty bitties. She definitely has the spinner physique with a long and sensuous body. The massage and time together were most enjoyable but it was that laid back attitude, positive helpful outlook and complete lack of pressure or pushiness that had me driving my car back to visit with her within minutes of having first met her. I will certainly be returning for many visits! If she is one of the ALO ladies attending the upcoming social I can guarantee she will be turning heads and redirecting blood flow. ....Actually she doesn't need the social to be able to do this but we should all hope she is there! waterat p.s. I did get my social ticket through mistert who is a true cerb (lyla?) gentleman and a scholar.
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    Hello! I will be visiting Ottawa from December 2th till the morning of Friday the 5th and I will be at the social on Thursday evening! I will be available to host at a private and discreet hotel close to the city hall. My name is Malika (Ma-lee-kah) Fantasy. I am a youthful French woman who is reluctantly 26 years old. I'm 5ft6 with a body with tight curves and an ass that defies gravity (32B-28-39) that I main by regular yoga, running and rauchy cowgirl style. My skin is cover of beautiful body art, but please do not let them distract you, they only compliment my personality. I'm down-to-earth and care-free. I have an easy laugh and an even more easier smile. Wanderlust is my middle name. Have a passport, will travel, let's talk about it ! I'm an unique blend of wit, French charm and passion. You can say that I am versatile, from a quick coffee break during your lunch time to a weekend long escape to New York , or simply an hour or two in private, I am a chameleon. I get along best with those who are looking for an uncomplicated encounter, wish to create an open and honest communication and love to please as much as being please. I've always dance to the beat of my drums. Want to join me for a dance? We can write our own stories. I have no preference in term of terms of race, age, abilities and body size of the individuals I spend time with. Schedule: Thursday December 4th 8am-11am Friday December 5th 8am-1pm Donations 150/30 minutes 250/hour 350/1.5hours 450/2hours 650/3 hours For longer appointments please visit my website Contact: [email protected] When contacting me please included the following: -Your name and cellphone number -A little bit about yourself and what you are looking for -In what city you would like to see me and what time and for how long -Where you saw my ad -(Not required but always appreciated) a reference from another companion or a form of verification or by phone/text at 416-799-5981. No block numbers will be answer or please feel free to use my booking form. http://www.malika-fantasy.com
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    I'd like to be informed too when Channing Tatum's double is found, thanks ;-) All the comments in this thread are true, according to me, but it seems that one point has not been mentionned yet: a lot of women - not all of them - would feel insulted to pay for sex. They would feel that if they had to pay for sex, it would mean that they are not desirable/attractive. And not feeling attractive for a woman is a big deal. It is a cultural thing again, linked to how we are taught since our childhood how to live/explore/enjoy our sexuality - or I should say to NOT live/explore/enjoy it. For us on this forum, this point might seem exaggerated - you tell me what you think - but I can tell you that I have heard this before many times - in humorous conversations between women, but still... I can understand this concept, because I am a woman. It is indeed very cultural. There is a lot lot more to do to say to women that they should explore their sexuality and that it is important. Gentlemen often say that their wife/partner is not into sex anymore, or that she never has been. Of course, this is not the only reason why a gentleman comes to us. Again, I am not talking about all women, but about a lot of women. And women deal with a lot of body image issues, which is a huge problem in our society, so this does not help at all... Many many moral and cultural taboos to get rid of!
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    Sometimes times its good to be bad... I'm Hailey, the enthusiastic MA who wants to make your day! make this good girl go bad, im tons of fun and so much more...sexy,sassy and sweet..come see for yourself 5'0 fit gymnasts body (plus the skills to match) dark hair,blue eyes and tasteful tattoos..for you to discover;) I want to share an amazing encounter with you, and now is your chance this week im offering a reduced rate for a sensual,stimulating massage with a twist that will drive you wild.. Give into temptation.... Hailey xoxo your own little piece of heaven Available exclusively at Paradise spa! *$10 off in room rate only (exclusively with Hailey) does not affect door fees. Affective Nov 26,27 and 29th *during scheduled hours* Feel free to pm for details*
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    I'd also like to extend a hearty welcome to Tori and Charlotte and any others who might pass by here for the first time. There's an immense amount of information to be found here, alone in the 'New to this? ...' forum, you just need to browse a little. Enjoy chatting with new mates or discussing issues in the friendly and supportive community forums. I'm not aware of a similar board that is so positive where respect towards each other is the rule and civility the norm. By all means, find the things and activities that interest you the most. Joining in is optional, but it makes it more fun. ;) There's something here for everyone! FR
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    A warm welcome to you ladies :) Bianca
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    Greetings Gentleman, Are you seeking a fun and sexy escapade which captures the true essence of sensory relaxation? My feel is unique in it's ability to sooth your aches and assist you in rewinding from the day. I seek to read your body language and take pleasure in directing my attentions to your individual desires. I'm warm in personality with silky soft skin and a fit slim body. I'm the picture of femininity, but with plenty of energy that will leave you feeling renewed from the hectic pace of your day. My schedule: Wed-Friday: 9am-6pm. I'm privately located in a discreet location in the west end. My recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=43994&highlight=sensual+erin Please feel free to introduce yourself by pm or email at [email protected] for the rest of my details. Yours, Erin
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    Welcome Tori and Kate, and welcome to any new members of Lyla.com aka Cerb.
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    Awesome thanks!
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    Carnal [kahr-nl] adjective 1. pertaining to or characterized by the flesh or the body, its passions and appetites; sensual carnal pleasures. 2. not spiritual; merely human; temporal; worldly: a man of secular, rather carnal, leanings. Cuddle [kuhd-l] verb 1. to hold close in an affectionate manner; hug tenderly; fondle. 2. to lie close and snug; nestle. noun 3.act of cuddling; hug; embrace. www.SweetEmilyJ.com
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    Ah I'm one of those lasses who has a hard time finishing - even by my own hand. So for me it's not something that has happened often, but it has happened on occasion. I always try to reassure my gentlemen that it's absolutely me and not them and that I very much enjoy the journey even if I never reach my destination.... but I think many feek I'm just trying to placate them. But oh when it does happen, it's ever so satisfying :D (BTW, gents: do not read that as a challenge. It has more to do with my frame of mind than with anything external.)
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    Yeah... enforced monogamy is the product of a society in which people are viewed as property, and relationships are contracts for that property's disposition. And yup, religion was the moral institution for the longest time and enforced the principle of monogamy with the careful logic of all religious edicts: "because I say so". Now that those kind of external moral guardians are fading away, we're each left to decide for ourselves how we want to live our personal, romantic, and sexual lives. Monogamy is now just one of many choices available. BUT... I think most people would agree that to be ethically poly, you need to be open with your partner; everyone has to be on the same page in order to participate equally as a consenting adult. I'm thrilled to bits that people are exploring this freedom to find what works for them. But at the same time, monogamous relationships are still entirely cool for a lot of perfectly healthy and liberal-minded people. And such voluntary monogamy can be a source of enormous strength when the relationship is healthy, functional, and satisfying. It's all about how particular people are wired up, and what they need and expect from their relationships. We're human beings, and enormously diverse. So those needs, and what it takes to meet them, are naturally all over the map.
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    Maya at Angel's Touch is from that part of the world, I believe. She may not be quite what you're looking for as she's an MA, and you posted this in the escort section, but... there you go, for what it's worth :)
  43. 1 point
    I have never understood why other clients on here say they want so much information. I prefer to be somewhat in the dark then create a huge trail of evidence. just pay for companionship and nothing more. You may be disappointed if nothing more happens but you will be more disappointed if you end up arrested with a slew of texts that prove you were soliciting sexual services. learn to read between the lines and choose the smaller risk of not getting what you desire compared to the bigger risks. for a while I am going to keep to sp that I have seen before. I know where the best companionship is. Actually after an extremely hot session that would rival my best porn type fantasies I had the thought 'this girl is so nice and sweet I think next time i'll just cuddle with her for the whole hour'. I must be getting old. Lol
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    Had a lady acquaintance who was about to lose her home today that she shares with her children. She was behind in her rent and the sheriff was coming to evict them today. I emt'ed her the money so that her and her kids have a home. I look at this as helping the kids because no kid should be homeless especially with Christmas coming. Next step will be being Honey Man Santa :)
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    It's as simple as this. You are now technically paying for time and companionship ONLY. It's best to call a lady by phone so no trail of email or texts. Do not ask explicit questions and especially where money is concerned. This will now be illegal on your end. The ladies are legally allowed to tell you what they offer but you CANNOT ask. Some ladies may not discuss anything explicit out of discretion for their customers because they want to protect the gentlemen they may be seeing. Stay away from anyone you cannot find legit intel on. Law enforcement will likely use BP site as a ruse to get guys to visit and the lady in the picture will be in her twenties, look perfect and anytime to visit will be perfect with them at a hotel or motel. In other words, if it sounds too easy and convenient, run the other way! And stay away from the street. This is who they go after first. Additional Comments: The business has changed and people want everything NOW! I remember when clients used to actually research ladies which is why it was called "the hobby". I don't know what to call it now in some cases. This also has a lot to do with technology. Everything is instant gratification for some. I was told to "screw that" the other day when I pointed someone in the direction of my website after already answering their most important question which was rates.. They can take the time to peruse adult classified ads but suddenly have a problem when being asked to actually taking a few minutes to read my website. These are not the customers I seek in my choice of target market. It will take some time but when people such as the above example truly realize the consequences of their potential actions, they will change how they conduct themselves when contacting a lady. It won't happen overnight. Some will give this up altogether but when I first started in this line of work, people were very hesitant in asking and often apologized for not wanting to come across as crude or rude. I often used code phrases that were not considered explicit with the phrases sounding like I was about to go on an actual date. I have also changed my website accordingly. A few gentlemen I have met in the last few weeks and months do not really quite know what's going on and I have given them a quick run down. They were very surprised and I let them know not to ask explicit things when contacting a lady. As members here, most of us who read this site on a regular or daily basis know exactly what's going on. Anywhere else, most are not up to date with exactly what is about to happen. Some haven't even heard about it. One customer at a time.
  46. 1 point
    I had to smile reading this and thinking of one touring lady who dressed down for a breakfast date and still looked like a goddess. We walked into the restaurant and guy's jaws were dropping...one of the best days ever.
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    If you ever get the chance to meet up with these 2 fine ladies don't miss it. They are absolutely amazing and will make sure you leave with a big smiel on your face. I've been with 2 girls before but Emma and Katherine have raised the bar on what a threesome should be. Will be a repeat if they ever meet again in Saint John.
  48. 1 point
    She actually has her own website, but cant link it yet because she needs to get her CERB link button first.
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    Since you mention pursuing a relationship, it sounds like you are interested in maybe dating this woman, and that she's not a sex worker (or at least you're not meeting her as a sex worker, and maybe you don't know what she does for a living)? So, my comments are based on that assumption - my apologies if it's incorrect, though this should be mostly relevant either way. First, I think it's really important to remember that trans women are women. They may have different bits than you're used to on women, but that doesn't make them any less real women. Like having sex with cis women (cis means not trans), sex with trans women is going to be a unique encounter each time - sex is a dynamic that's created by two people together. It's okay to feel unsure - the important thing is to communicate a lot. Ask her how she likes to be touched and what language she likes when talking about her body. Some trans people have a lot of dysphoria that can be triggered by certain words or being touched in certain ways, so just use your words. If she has a penis, it may or may not get hard. A lot of trans women who have been on estrogen for a while don't get erections any more, without the aid of Viagra or other meds. She also may or may not ejaculate still. She may be a top or a bottom or versatile - definitely something to talk about. Roles may not be quite as easy to assume as they would be with a cis woman. A lot of straight sex between two cis people often defaults to penis in vagina sex without a lot of discussion. You should expect to talk a little bit more about what kinds of sex you two will have, and maybe you'll need to have a broader idea of what counts as sex, beyond putting your cock in a hole (or maybe you won't.) I think it's also really important to think about the experiences trans women have. Like all women, there's a real risk of violence at the hands of men, but in addition to male violence against women, they also have to content with transphobic violence. Recognize that she's taking a big risk with her safety by meeting a stranger off the internet, honour any safety measures she decides to take and be extremely respectful of her boundaries. Trans women are murdered all the time simply because people are uncomfortable with their attraction to them or because people can't see them as human beings. Call her by the name she gives you and use the pronouns she uses for herself (most likely she & her). I'd recommend reading this guide and checking out some other resources, so that when you meet, you can just focus on being your best self: http://www.autostraddle.com/getting-with-girls-like-us-a-radical-guide-to-dating-trans-women-for-cis-women-160269/ Be awesome, be kind and be okay with not knowing everything (but be willing to listen and learn!) Absolutely. Trans women are women, and no matter what she has between her legs now, or in the future, doesn't change that. Dating or having sex with a trans person doesn't change your sexual orientation in any way - if you're a straight guy who's attracted to women, and you find a trans woman hot, well hey, you just met another woman that you find attractive. :)
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    I had to remove a thread tonight and I am very upset that people are posting crap like this. Some idiot PM'd one of the members claiming that one of the local girls has aids. The member posted this along with other nonsense. Why he felt it was necessary to start a thread like this I will never know but I am done with people trying to slander other peoples reputations. If your too stupid to realize a PM or POST like this is just slanderous and made by either a jealous competitor, ex-boyfriend or drunken idiot trying to cause a problems then let me help you out by telling you first hand that you should just delete the PM and report the user name to me so we can get rid of the trolls! If you feel the need to accuse someone of such a thing publicly do it elsewhere as I don't care to slander anyone on this site and as long as I am moderator of this site I will NOT tolerate it from anyone else here! I will shut down the board before I allow that to happen so if you enjoy the site please respect this policy and rule.
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