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I post my true age, I am proud of being 40, love this era of my life. Besides I like posting my age, so that I can attract clients who are closer to my age group. Although I am 40, I feel much younger than that!

Not sure how much success you will have with your question... if a lady has chosen to misrepresent her age (btw not something unique to this industry) then it is doubtful that she would out herself here so that everyone knows she is doing so. In my humble opinion age is just a number we all need to just relax about it. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I have been hobbying off and on for a few years, and have met some fantastic ladies. I also tend to gravitate to "the one" like many others...(in my case it is more like "the three". I primarily see these same three ladies for multiple reasons. I believe that I have developed a cordial business relationship with these ladies that is very unique to this business, but its a business relationship nonetheless, and while I may not see them for some time due to scheduling conflicts, once in a while I will send them a quick message to ay I hope they are well...I genuinely do hope they are well. I also see these same ladies because I know what to expect. I have really enjoyed the time I have spent with these girls, much more than anyone else I have ever seen, and I honestly feel like they enjoyed the time we spent together also. I have spent time with other ladies and they are all special in their own way, I must confess I have my favorite, I'm sure that is a very common occurrence. As for relationships outside of the business...it would be as awkward for me as it would be for her I am sure. One of the wonderful benefits of this hobby is the discretion. We both get to have a great time, and then get to go back to the real world...NSA Personally I have some ground rules that I follow in the hobby, they work for me, take them for what you will... I travel for work...a lot...so I never see anyone in my home city. I realize that is an easy compromise for me as travelling is about 75% of my job. Not seeing anyone in my home city ensures that there is almost no chance of our social circles overlapping. I generally communicate a maximum of 48 hours before a visit, sometimes frequently (depending on the boundaries of the lady) in the days leading up to an appointment, some friendly banter, flirting, etc. adds to the excitement, but I never worry if the ladies I see don't get back to me (they have other clients who enjoy them as much as I do I am certain), and I don't reach out again until they respond...must respect the ladies time, what if (heaven forbid) I overdo it and she doesn't want to see me again...can't have that! I ALWAYS text or email the following day to say thank you, and let her know I had a wonderful time...end of communication. Long winded I know, but its always worked for me. Jobin, I know what you are feeling, I have felt it to, my feelings on it are this...changing the relationship in any way, including the changes you are talking about would result in just that, a change to the relationship...and I would want to change these relationships, they are each perfect in their own way!

As our little taste of winter continues I am sensing a touch of frustration from some of our Maritime and Atlantic ladies. So for Maraena, Midnight-Energies, Sophia, Meaghan MacLeod, Katherine, Cristycurves, Emily Rushton, Savannah Lane, Victoria, and anyone else anywhere that is ready for spring breezes here is your hug. Remember that this is a once every thirty years thing so you are all too young to remember the last time this happened. One day you will look back at this fondly. Embrace. :)

I have seen many ladies display their real age and say that they do look younger and they do, I have seen with my own eyes. One lady that still surprise me is Nicolette Vaughn, I thought for sure she was only 18 when I met her the first time.

It is really an addiction - https://saa-recovery.org/ A buddy of mine has this addiction, and there are both male and female who are addicted. Just this conversation has been towards just male clients. It's like any other addiction, gambling, alcohol, eating, etc. Yes, it's easy to be like, oh it's just sex, how can you have a problem... But it can. And that can be said for other things as well.

This doesn't directly answer the question, but I have a boy and girl and believe the biggest influence in their development was their order of birth. My daughter was first and as novice parents we treated her like china, breakable, so were always lavishing her with attention. When my son arrived we'd realized that babies are pretty robust, and we were far more relaxed. They have turned out as very nice young adults with quite different personalities.

I agree with LadyS, and looked specifically for a lady close to my age (not tooo close) where I felt I would have more in common. But I can see ladies adjusting their age to appeal to the age group of the clients they wish to attract. ps. LadyS, saw you album, I hope I could play poker just a bit better than you.

Kudo's to you, single dads aren't often acknowledged and should be congratulated for all they do. As should the single mom's, it certainly can't be easy doing it alone. But I think your son will be fine as you've given him the most important lesson/gift for becoming a well rounded human and that is love, unconditional love. I believe when someone is raised knowing they are truly loved then nothing can conquer them. It is what feeds the soul.

I certainly do! In fact I get disappointed when there is either very little or NO breast play involved.

Dinner last night at Raymond's with a great friend :)

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I don't think it's a companion's job to diagnose or warn anyone about sex addiction. Again, the bar doesn't refuse repeat business. I also don't think it's reasonable to expect a potential addict to responsibly seek help, spontaneously. The human capacity to rationalize and justify things that don't line up with your view of yourself is pretty astounding. More than likely, an addict would just think they are a responsible, consenting adult pursuing natural urges. Therein lies the problem with all this talk about personal responsibility and consenting adults. I just think it would be interesting to see whether a logically assumed higher rate of sex addiction among male clients was in fact true or not. After all, a certain Justice Minister proclaimed male clients to all be deviant perverts with impulse control issues, right? It would be interesting to see if there's any kind of actual support for that claim.

Just about to leave work and head home... more snow here today so here's hoping a generous neighbor has already been out and cleaned out my driveway. Well having hope is a good thing right? Additional comments: Well hoping paid off driveway was all clear... I have great neighbors. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Gassed up today...gas prices mostly around 98, 99 cents I got it at 96.2 at one station RG

...post ads here every day on which I am available. :biggrin: I'm generally available Monday to Friday - 11:00am to 9:00pm. Saturdays with 24+ hours notice. Unavailable Sundays (unless otherwise specified). But you'll only see me post an ad here once or twice a week, or less. Feel free to contact me via e-mail anytime, even when I don't post! (Worst case scenario is that I'm busy and we can connect another time.) Pre-booked appointments are always preferred, but same-day appointments are welcome too! If you want a same-day encounter, please contact me before 5:00pm. I look forward to hearing from you! Visit my website for lots of photos and all the info you want & need to know! SweetEmilyJ.wordpress.com

I can assure you that she is legit. In fact, she is very well reviewed in several forums including Lyla. Regarding your question about being a first timer. Im sure any well reviewed SP is the right one as long as, you clearly communicate what you are looking for while contating her, in order to avoid disappointment in the future. Also, the best advice I could give you that is going to tremendously improve your experience with any SP is to be respecful, and have an impecable personal higyne. You'll be surprise how far those two things can take you! Good luck! ;)

Thank you Mr.Nice for being so thoughtful. So big hugs for you:)

Hahaha! This song is so fKed up but I love it! Bahawahaha! Good song for the great sound system in my vehicle. I'm an Albatraoz -Aronchupa

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I struggle with this all the time, I'm a single father to a 3 year old boy (his mother took off when he was 6 months old). I'm doing the best I can trying to teach him things that only a mother could. It's hard to put into words what exactly I'm doing it's more like little things everyday with a greater purpose. I hope that I can give a decent moral compass and the confidence he needs to succeed. I want him to be independent, respectful and driven. >Above all else he will be better, smarter and, stronger then me in the ways that really matter. He will always be loved and given every opportunity available to him.< Those two sentences are my parenting mantra. Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: When my son was two and a half I had to learn how to paint toenails blue and pink because our swimming instructor had her toenails painted, "Paint my piggies Daddy." Currently they are green and purple. Until recently my son's favorite toy was a stroller to push his stuffed animals around, it was a great way to go shopping with because he would pretend it was a cart and help pick out the groceries. Posted via Mobile Device

always copy and paste the link in the address bar of the girl your talking about.

Harper will win yet again but he will be resigning as PM not long after.

The creepy thing is when you learn about how a behavioural addiction can actually alter the brain and gene expression... As Conquistador said, women can be sex addicts as well. I would venture a guess (and it really is a guess) that it's more commonly men because testosterone plays a pretty big role in sex drive, both for men as well as women. Ir stands to reason men, having more testosterone, would be more prone to issues.

Yep thats what that is.... As a Gab's fan.... Huh I mean an Habs fan, I'm kinda fed up of watching them tailing her behind.... Huh trailing behind, I mean !!!! Damn that bumpy jersey is distracting ;)

I was just curious. Wasn't tryjng to attack. What I see, though, is a couple of assumptions: 1) that a sex addict, definitively, would seek sexual services daily, and 2) that they wouldn't be able to affors to do so, so they wouldn't be clients in this industry. I'd probably argue that, 1) really depends how far the addiction has progressed, as well as whether commercial sex is the only outlet that the individual used to get their "fix," which is unlikely. As for 2), well, the person could be wealthy enough to support their habit, but it's irrelevant; there are plenty of drug addicts with a habit that far outpaces their finances. Why does whether a label could be used as an excuse make any difference on whether a disorder actually exists? There seems to be a lot of moralizing on both sides of this discussion, from the OP to the respondents. *If* it is accepted that sex addiction exists, it would be ridiculous to claim that the sex industry is solely at fault, just as it's ridiculous to claim that because we say we aren't addicts that addiction isn't part of the demographic in the indutry.

U just might be with another man's woman when U meet your lady if she has seen another gentleman before U and that she was then the center of his universe and she was just HIS woman at the time!!! Who knows right darling?! Just let her be your other man's woman if she is willing to babe!!! Barbara xxoo

I am in an online poly-triad marriage with Roamingguy and Gabriella Laurence. Emily Rushton often seem to be in the mix... Does that count as being married? (most of this silliness happen over Twitter)

I don't think anyone would publicly admit that because it may ruin the fantasy for some. I've had guys try to ask indirectly that why' a nice woman like me is still single. If that's their way of finding out if I have a boyfriend or something more serious, they will disappointed. Mr Right hasn't reached his full manifestation just yet. ;

Good evening everyone! I know that for most what I am about to write is a no brainer, however it seems that at most previous socials, we had to take some ppl aside and explain how to behave at these events. So hopefully this will be clear enough. 1. Respect: Appropriate language is to be used when addressing other members. We have many wonderful ladies attending and they are to be addressed as such! 2. What is inside a lady's pants, dress or in their chest area belongs to the lady not the gentlemen's hands. If you can't control ur hands, buy 2 drinks at once to make sure they are busy. Anyone improperly behaving will be asked to leave immediately. As for dress code, there are none per say. Its an individual choice as long as you do wear clothes that cover's most of your body and that they are clean. Lets all make sure everyone can enjoy a wonderful evening! Alexxandria and loneskater!

That is Rayna, one of the many great ladies working at ALO. Here is a link to their schedule which is usually updated on Sunday's. You can see where and when she is working! http://www.lunamassagespa.com/mainschedule.htm

Thanks for all the replies. I think there was a misunderstanding of my question, and that might have been my fault for not wording it clearly, so I'll make a more concrete comparison to alcoholism: Let's say I'm an alcoholic, have never heard the term alcoholic before, know I have a problem, want help, am too ashamed to admit to anyone close to me that I need help, have never heard of Alcoholics Anonymous, and cannot even imagine that help exists and so seeking help has never crossed my mind, me thinking that my own will power alone is all the help I will get. Now let's suppose the alcoholic beverage industry decided to label its products with a quick sentence saying that if you need help to quit drinking, just contact AA, and provides the AA website. This would hardly be accusing each buyer of being an alcoholic, nor would it be claiming to psychoanalyse the customer or provide professional medical help. Rather it would merely be informing me that if I fall in that category, that help does exist and showing me where I can find it, but offer no help beyond just pointing the finger in the right direction. Considering STD risks in this industry, it would seem to make sense that BP and other such websites inform clients with compulsive behaviours that help exists, and just point the finger in the right direction, since some might have never heard of sex therapy or support groups for compulsive sexual behaviour, let alone imagine the possibility of its existence. We see similar labels on cigarette packages and bar walls concerning drinking during pregnancy and I believe lottery tickets too, and food products will often include allergy warnings and all include a list of ingredients. Toys will often include warning labels too. The advertizing of many products and services is highly regulated for reasons of public safety. So I guess my question is whether websites such as backpage should be equally regulated with the same public motives in mind. I guess another way of looking at it is that if we hope for this industry to ever become legally 'normalized' and like any other industry, then the best way to garner public support for it would be to convince the public that it accepts its social responsibilities just like the food, toy, alcohol, cigarette, gambling, and every other industry. After all, if it insists on a 'social exemption' in one area, then it's natural that this can only turn the general public against it.

Sex addiction is like any other addiction. It is up to the individual involved to seek and utilize help available. There are many forums, services and directives already in place but they must be sought out. In regards to escort ads, not everyone who asks for bb is a sex addict. Some are those who want what they want or are testing or pushing limits. Some just have no regard for much of anything. I do not believe an escort should be responsible for the health and safety of anyone except themselves. This is why there is screening in place and why most blacklist those asking for certain services or behaving in certain ways. If an escort were to take it upon themselves to provide information to someone or to classify someone as an addict because they asked, they are actually opening themselves up to potential legal action. It is like if you work in a casino or a bar, you cannot accuse someone of being an addict or assume they are or communicate this is any way. IF the person comes to you claiming this, then you are free to talk about it. Without that crucial step, you are only permitted to have resources and information available or you may be open to civil actions. Things may have changed but this is what I was taught and trained on. Can escorts be aware and have knowledge, certainly but it is not up to them to make the decision. Independents also do not have the time and resources to commit to such a grand scheme personally. By supporting some of the industry outreaches and programs in place, they are adding necessary resources to the cause. Again, it comes down to the individual to stand up and seek help. Addicts are addicts in the sense that there is something amiss in regards to something. Every individual has varying degrees and levels to which they act, react and escalate. You cannot assume someone is an addict because they displays certain behaviors or react/act in certain ways. Yes, there are signs but not all signs lead to an addiction. Those working in ANY industry where there is potential for addiction should have knowledge but they cannot be made responsible for more than what they have control over (IE: cut off limits, spending limits, limiting behaviors when they get to certain levels, providing resource information etc.). Can we, as individuals care? Yes, to a point, after that it's on the person. If the person acts in a way that steps outside certain societal boundaries, then they can act in a way the reduces the negative impact.

It's actually a perfectly level playing field... clients can use an App and yes that might mean that some ladies will not accept booking requests but likewise a lady can use an App and some clients will not book with them. That said let's be realistic... for the client your exposure is only to the ladies you choose to make your number available too... so you totally control who has access to your number... if you do your research and stick to booking established ladies or ladies that can be verified that risk can be effectively managed so it is minimal... of course if you are less cautious you might increase your risk the choice is yours. In the case of a lady she is putting her number or email out to the world... she does not control who gets it and runs a huge risk that the person will harass her or bully her or try to out her so it's kind of reasonable that some ladies would use an app that is a cheap and easy way to have a number that they can use publicly and when their is a problem quickly discard. In reality the lady has to do what she needs to do to protect herself and I am ok with that. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Went for a walk to enjoy this bright mild sunny Spring day. Says it's +3 out but feels a lot milder Then back home and having comfort food for lunch...grilled cheese sandwich. One with a sliced tomato and the other one with a onion slice...have to make sure veggies are part of my lunch, oh wait a tomato is really a fruit RG

Tis always a work in progress....... Be kids.... Be respectful... Be happy.... Laugh and love... Don't pick fights....where do they get you ? Play safe....... etc..... Kids will grow up with great big eyes loving, idolizing and wanting to BE their Mom and/or Dad...... So at the end of the day.......... Just let them be kids........... But BE the adult that you want your kids to be when they grow up :) The attitude, speak, beliefs, mutual respect, theeeeeeee Atmosphere they grow up in is crucial. Just my opinion

Or, raise them to be people and teach them they can be and do anything and to respect other people. Gender roles are outdated and dangerous, not to mention a complete social construction.

I love breast play especially when someone sucks on my nipples. But play as you describe it, grabbing and squeezing doesn't sound enticing. Breasts are sensitive, at least mine are. They love attention but nothing harsh or rough.

Both. Raise your daughters to be like your sons and raise your sons to be like your daughters, if done conventionally, then girls are sure to be independent, strong, take charge people and your sons will be sensitive, giving and not afraid of their emotions. The most important trait I feel you can instill in your children is confidence and that they can accomplish what ever they put their minds to, also to be kind, accepting and understanding of others. Instill that and you'll have self sufficient, happy successful adults, I hope:)

Just raise them to be good people to think and care about others as much as they think about themselves ensure they have the necessities of life and that they get a good education ... and most of all make sure that they know for every moment of their lives that they have your unconditional love... that you love them through good and bad... that even when you are mad at them you love them... in life we never know how long we will have the ones we love with us so never miss an opportunity to show them your love. As for raising them like a son or like a daughter... it's not in my opinion a material consideration. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

When I'm bored completely beyond belief, I like to: 1. Stand facing a wall - a few paces away 2. Rest my head against the wall 3. Let my arms dangle or maybe swing a little 4. Moan out loud "I'm sooo bored!"

I disagree... one can be happily married and still go hobbying... I love my wife, I see service providers because the sexual needs of my wife and I do not mesh, but otherwise I am quite happy with her... we get along as good friends... no plans on leaving her what so ever...

I am a fellow traveller on his journey and trying to do no harm or as little as possible. I do strive to live in the moment more and be more generous, kind and forgiving. An imperfect human for sure, learning lessons and making mistakes and learning more lessons but that's ok with me, I figure we're all kind of a life-long works in progress and hopefully I'll never be quite done. Peace MG

I am cristy,thats what I want to be called,I am a daughter,sister,aunt,of a very ,very disfunctionall family.Probably not the greatest friend,as I am to much of a loner.I have a background in banking,realestate,esthetics,now loving the life of an sp.Still searching for my "reason for being".I am an animal lover,advocate for dogs,lover of men,movies,food.I hate exercise,smoking,mean people.I love to walk my dog,other dogs,play board games,surf the web,help anyone if they need it,but will no longer take shit from anyone,anywhere.Not into travel,reading,dislike cooking,love dining out,not to fussy about shopping but love stylish clothes,sexy shoes. I wish more people would recycle,not be so judgemental,kinder to animals and I am very glad I am part of the cerb community:icon_mrgreen:.I think that about sums it up,I look forward to reading about you,thanks lee for the thread.

Dude, you've been with multiple women already today? You're my hero.

I send you the biggest hug ever Lexy. I hope it is exactly what you need. Love to you. xoxo