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I have been increasingly concerned that the discussion in the massage section may lead to problems for the providers. Especially the places that do other salon services. Escorts control their phone and location. Massage parlors such as bw, to/eb, Nevada's all have specific licenses but when the place is catering to a whole other clientele for other services I really think we need to keep our conversation much more vague. Some providers are students and I really worry that too much publicity through this review board could have negative implications for them. We have been in my humble opinion too free to identify some locations Although we have to be members o be on here it is not difficult to join. Our identity is very protected but some providers of massage can be left exposed by these conversations I see a big difference in what we should discuss depending on how the provider advertises

Wondering how some men get away with how they treat women!

Conservatives gone in Alberta! Yes!! A historic day!

I think that would come down to the personal taste of the person seeing you. I would rather you wear what makes you feel the most attractive and sexy at the time. If it were up to the 2 options you described I prefer the professional look, always loved a girl with her hair up and glasses :) but that would go for any age just not just mature (I don't consider 30s-40s mature btw maybe because i'm in that age group :P). That being said if someone dressed younger it wouldn't bother me either. I don't think it's a deal breaker. My way of thinking is whatever you wear, it's all good as long as you feel attractive and sexy in it. One lovely lady I see regularly would always greet me in Lingerie, then on our last date she asked me if i wanted her to wear anything special and I told her whatever made her feel comfortable. She greeted me with Jeans and a nice blouse and I found she looked beautiful, it's what she felt best in at the time. Like Lady Sophia said, it will radiate and it does :)

I never came across such situation, but if this would happen to me, I would take a very grave facial expression and tell the abuser that I have AIDS and that I only have 2 months left to live, but that I am happy to know that soon he will be my partner in the afterlife.

One guy tried to do exactly that to me, but I caught him. It really freaked me out. The whole point of this thing is that it's supposed to be consensual. When I get one of these guys, I watch them VERY closely.

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People who mumble on the phone and can barely open the mouth.. You are not calling your friend buddy.. Turn off!

I find it peculiar that when spending precious time with txt, answering questions, looking at schedules to match up everything but then when I say you need to voice call me in order for me to put in my calendar....suddenly they drop off the planet! What was it that scared you? Having to speak with a voice rather then txt? Like are we not going to be face to face and will we not speak then? LOL... Also being told....xx$ for JUST that??? JUST for company and massage? YUP you got it:)

I remember once I was told by a man that women are like seafood, the fresher the better. Of course that was his own opinion. I certainly prefer mature men for myself, young men... I don't know, you guys are cute, but ... hmmm... just not as sophisticated emotionally. Aah, sorry, a little bit off the topic :tongue:

I agree as well but how do we control this? I know for myself I try to only answer through PM to other members that I normally share info with or has in the past helped me out, as soon as you post PM me if you need you are bombarded with PM's from members that have very few posts, its really a catch 22 but I know we need to find a better mousetrap to help protect these places.

I recently inquired about this -blocking certain members so I wouldn't receive PMs from them- and unfortunately, this function is not available. Even if they are on your ignore list, they can still send you a PM. "Member name is on your ignore list view message" will replace the subject title with their board handle under it. It would be nice if this function was available to prevent unwanted communication from reaching your PM inbox and not have to resort to Mod (if need be) to deal with some of the less than pleasant PMs.

Really interesting replies...made me think about what makes me feel sexy, actually. The lingerie I'm wearing in the photo definitely makes me feel that way. It looks a little dom, and I can definitely be that if the occasion calls for it. I do like power suit jackets with nothing underneath. THAT makes me feel sexy. I realized that the thongs have to go. I've never liked them. In fact, I haven't been wearing underwear at all for a little while...that, to me, is sexier than a thong. I've also been trying to find a pair of 50s style panties with ruffles on the bum...not much success so far, but I haven't done a thorough search on ebay. I like wearing glasses sometimes, because there's something erotic about taking them off before you get down to it...basically, I want to look like a cross between Courtney Love and Jackie O., if that makes sense.

As a woman who just reached 40, I agree with the above poster Heneryporter. I feel a women in her 40's is really prime age to show of our sophistication in a way I never could have pulled off in my late 20's or even early 30's. I love to wear my elegant one pieces, business suites, and when I feel young at heart a will do my cut of jeans and halters and heels too:) Wear what you feel sexy in, and it will radiate :)

Ya the ignore list only means YOU cant see them, not the other way around:( I tried it and turns out it only block me from seeing their posts, but they can see mine ( profile too) Sadly we did have this option but people were abusing it.

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Skip them and go for Felina instead. She offers a massage session for you to get familiar with her, and let me tell you, that her massage will leave ALL your muscles relieved of pressure.

Why oh why do some keep asking for details in this day and age? The laws have changed. Asking in a public way things like who gives more then a happy ending, is not going to go over well. For those that don't think things through, sometimes others see and read this site so they can gather Intel. Stop asking publicly WHO gives extras. It's not cool or helpful for those who are in this industry. PLEASE.

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I think the best way to get "rid of bad apples" is to just focus on your own business and promoting the visions you want in the industry - be the change you want to see in the world.... wasting time and energy on others is pointless - "the bad seeds" as you call them.... they always self destruct anyways. Cheers

I will choose my thoughts and words very carefully as I too can relate to this situation. Whether it is done online and even via email or PM's, we either always see/read it or get told about what slanderous things are being written or said. It is very hard not to respond online or contact that person. We are human and the first thing when someone attacks us is to defend ourselves. What I have learned is you can't have a civil conversation with someone of that mentality and it's like communicating with a rock. It does make you question their motives and want to ask why but truthfully in my experience it's useless to even bother. You have a wonderful community of friends, fellow companions who also understand and have dealt with being the target of simply put a mean spirited person. You know who you can confide in and that you have a safe place to vent, there is no denying that these things are hurtful and upsetting. Don't ever let someone try to break your spirit and that is what I feel the motive in my situation among other distasteful things was and currently is based on. You are an amazing, beautiful, kind person and keep your head held high, do not give anyone that type of power over you and shake it off. Easier said, I know but this is beneath you. The best thing you can do is ignore and contact the sites where this slander and harassment is being posted to have it removed. This is cyber bullying and a crime. All my love!! xoxo

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Was feeling under the weather last night so did not see the Flames game but was delighted to see they had won. I am hoping that the HABS can do the same tonight and get both remaining Canadian teams back in the hunt for the Cup.

I may be travelling and on the road but I have the jersey with me. Yup Canadiens need this one tonight. Let's go Habs.

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Just ask the SP you want to see not to put make up on! Some girls might not wear make up(or a lot of it) in their private lives but may put on a little more for sessions because they think that's what the guy wants. I'm sure if you request no make up that can easily be done! lol

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Getting a young guy can be good because they're extremely enthusiastic, but older men are generally more sensual. And let's face it - they're WAY better at oral! I definitely prefer older men too. To take it a bit further, I think I'd rather have sex with myself at this age than when I was in my 20s. Once I hit 35, I kind of came into my own sexually - the rumors are true.

To me when I book with a mature woman I like seeing her in normal, casual clothes but with sexy lingerie under it that I can remove myself and have a chance to feel her entire body from her neck to her toes. I will remember for a long time when I have met the gorgeous Zoe D in a hotel in Ottawa, she had a beautiful evening dress with sheer material around her cleavage and we both removed each others clothing very sexually and slowly. Needless to say when she was around my belt and zipper area I was already at attention and it needed to come out and see what was going on.

As a society, we'd like to think we have advanced and matured over the centuries. Indeed, we have technology.. technology that makes better things.. but are things really better in the end? Mental illness is still an illneess that doesn't get sufficient priority or recognition. We have Bell's Let's Talk Day (God bless Clara Hughes!), we have Daniel Alfredsson endorsing and supporting the Royal Ottawa. But so much more needs to be done.. at a grassroots level, by ordinary citizens like us. We have high-profile sufferers like Robin Williams. We have too many stories of our soldiers returning home with various forms of PTSD and high rates of suicide. We have stories of first-responders who succome to the grind of their daily work. We have folks from all walks of life who are suffering. Rare are stories where folks saught help and were helped in a timely manner. So I guess one question I do have... how do we ('we' as in society) push this ahead? If someone breaks a bone, they go to the hospital and get a cast, and people are more than happy to sign the cast. If someone needs surgery, it's normal, it's done, no questions, no stigma, no "shame", and people visit the hospital with flowers, cards and homebaked goodies. Everyone has challenges and personal demons to deal with. We are taught from an early age to be independent, not to rely on others, be strong, do not show weakness. Well, mental illness is NOT a weakness, just as other maladies that affect our bodies are not weaknesses. The suffering in silence needs to end. Society needs to recognize, unconditionally, that mental illness is real and that too many of us cannot get the help we need. Whether an illness involves flesh and bone, or grey matter, it should be considered an illness, and be treated as such. CM

I totally agree and I thank you for bringing this up.

Pm the mod if it's harassment or something else inappropriate. I'm sure the mod would want to know because if someone is misbehaving or acting inappropriately they may to others as well. Best of luck.

I would prefer the second outfit over the first The schoolgirl look, to me that's a woman trying to dress like a girl, doesn't appeal to me. The second outfit can be very becoming and sexy...and yes, men do make passes at women who wear glasses. ;-) But most important for me is no matter what the lady chooses to wear, she is comfortable. I've even had encounters with one lady who wore sweats...and made it work. She did it to be low key. Walking through a hotel lobby no one would suspect she is a professional companion Anyhow, a rambling RG

Go to the other user's profile, and look at the menu bar just under their name. You'll see an option called "User lists". Click this, and you'll get three options, one of which is "ignore user". That means you won't see their posts and they can't PM you (I think), but I'm not sure what it means for their ability to see your profile/posts.

Damn!! All of them curves in those pants! Ooh cristy ;)

No replies from the ladies but I suppose it's possible this has been answered before in another thread. I'd do a search if I were you. From my experience, the ladies you will meet are, quite simply, women. Sometimes they have Os, sometimes they don't. It depends on their mood, their attraction to you, your skill as a lover and so on. I've had many encounters where both sides have had 'release' but I've had just as many where it was more one sided. I think that the normal rules apply. Take your time, foreplay, read her body language and look for clues to what feels good. When in doubt, ask. I almost always ask ladies about favorite positions and what works best for them. Again, they're human. One gets off doggy style, another likes to grind in cowgirl. Some can get there via oral, some not so much. And some simply enjoy it without ever hitting the O at all but that doesn't mean she didn't have a good time. Treat a woman like a woman and things will happen as they do.

They always show in those documentary's the bad side, those who are desperate and other negative aspects of the business. For those who are in it with drug problems and other issues it certainly becomes a vicious circle. The negativities society puts on them for being sex workers often gives them cause to self medicate more and cause more internal harm. It's a shame people wouldn't wake up to the fact that sex isn't taboo, the devil or something that needs to be sacred. Every body has it at some point in their life and those who don't are wishing they would! Yes many could use help with housing and other ways to improve their personal or work lives. But thanks to our government who likes to keep their heads up their asses, real help will never come.

Ask any man who's been divorced; it's all commercial sex: pay by the hour or pay by the marriage.

Last thing I bought was a few sexy summer sundresses... I love the feeling of wearing cute summer dresses with no panties underneath ;) Bring on the nice weather! ;)

Momentum for sure is with Tampa, with their top scorers contributing and the power play working plus Bishop playing well they are looking like a team that could win the Cup. Yzerman has built a stronger team than we seen last year. We as in the Habs have to play a lot smarter in Tampa if we expect to win plus as I mentioned before where has our goal scorers gone, shooting from the perimeter is not going to get goals against Bishop. Our other Canadian team Calgary has its back to the wall also at least they are going home to their own rink hopefully they can turn it around also.

Thank you for all of your input on this topic I do appreciate it This individual is not a Lyla member This has been happening on another site And I do agree with not entertaining the situation and just laying low on it for now I am one for positive vibes and making positive connections and for us as women being there for each other and empowering each other especially in this industry

I would suggest you take the high road and not discuss it (ie names etc) publically on Lyla. If you see a post on Lyla use the Report Abuse icon so Mod can deal with the post If on other boards, the site likely has a similar mechanism to report offensive posts. But giving public attention to the comments actually works counterproductively, it gives life to this person's trash talk Now if the talk falls in the realm of libel, contact a lawyer...but again, keep it between you, the lawyer and the writer of the libelous material. If obsessive writings, as in stalking, contact the police It can be frustrating but should be kept off the board Good Luck RG

The last time I outed myself to a doctor he asked me how I protect myself from sexually transmitted infections. I was shocked. Hurr durr, I dunno, the same as any other sexually active member of society? You're the doctor here, shouldn't you know the answer?

Marylin Monroe (when she was alive) :) & Scarlett Johanssen

Asked while she was trying to put the cork back into a bottle of Port "Is it in?" Which of course was immediately naturally followed by "That's what she said" :)

RG's right. This is not the place to post a bad experience. However, Cowboy's Diary is a fantastic resource in Ottawa for reporting bait&siwtch, ripoffs, etc.

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