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Good for Stlitz for leaving . This ought to never be tolerated. I have spoken with many gentlemen and when they showed up the lady was not even close to what he booked. If all men walked out eventually this problem would be erased. I have been told by most that they went through with the appointment to save a fight. There is nothing to fight about. If one misrepresents themselves they deserve nothing less that a fast turn around and out the door.

I don't think I have preferred client age, but I do have a preferred client attitude, lol I have met some 20 year olds with more respect and diligence than those of advanced years, and also some very distinguished gentlemen that are very childlike in responses. To each his own I guess.

Can't really add more! I also LOVE kissing as part of the building up but.. Bad breathe is a killing for me. Especialy smokers one... Please rinse your mouth and dont smoke right before appointment! I dont smoke so I dont have pleasure kissing a ashtray.. Lol

I won't kiss a man who has a rough beard, bad breath, or lesions in the buccal area. Or bad hygiene in general, which is not your case. As stated in your comment, chemistry plays a big part, and interpretation of the act is also a factor (one may kiss you on the couch for 10 mins before entering the main course, as another will kiss you all action long. There's also the whole BS bullshit. But all and all, don not take everything you read for granted. You may be mislead.

I am upfront on my website about what I offer and do not offer, and I remind my guests during our first session together. If at any point a gentleman is unclear about something, I find it very respectful when he asks me. I dislike the "I'll just go for it and see if she stops me" approach. Please, just ask. Communication is key to a wonderful experience together!

i have my ads set up in a way that works most of the time. It has to be enough information to attract the clientele you are actually looking for, the ones who do take the time to read an ad. I do not provide rates/services in an ad not just because it is not allowed on the majority of sites, but because my screening is to have people phone me. Not text, not message and not email. if they can't respect the ad enough to make the phone call, without texting/emailing with some lame excuses as to why not, then it is an easy pass. someone who doesn't comply with a simple condition of booking is a red flag for someone who won't comply with your conditions of behaviour on arrival and during sessions. someone who thinks they are 'too good' to do that is not a good client. on the topic of repeating information already provided there are a few reasons for that, which do include the fact some haven't read the ad. but some have, and the question is to confirm that what they read is correct, and not out of date. And to give you a chance to show them a bit about yourself. Any conversation regardless of how lame it is is about your marketing. relying on one type of marketing, just the contents of the ad? that's not always a complete picture. Part of your ad is how you communicate with the potential client.

Every provider is an individual with their own personality, ways of doing things and style. To me, this is what should come through in advertising. Along with that comes what the provider will and will not find acceptable, what they do or do not want and the quality of client they are hoping to gain. Some ladies are more tolerable of somethings while others are not. How a gentleman behaves towards a provider through one on one contact is reflective of his own personality. Some will read everything, think and digest then follow directions. Some want to streamline the process and others believe you are in business so you are there to provide time to them answering their questions and they do not have to put in effort. If there is an initial clash between what the provider requires and what the gentleman is willing to provide, that is a powerful screening tool. This is a case of wants/needs on both sides. If those can't be met or agreed on, then it is the wrong combination. Each side of the equation must determine what is suitable for them and neither should have to "adjust" for the other as there is someone for everyone. Determine what you want to do and do it and if someone wants more/less than you're willing to give, move on. We could all bend over backwards every day trying to please and would all end up frustrated.

I find the hair and eye combo dictate the turn on, but on hair colour alone, auburn rocks.

I have seen Alexxandria many times! She is one of the sexiest women on the planet! If you want to give yourself a fantastic Christmas present, find a way to go see Alexxandria for an amazing time! Beautiful, hot and sexy!

I enjoy kissing provided that the client has good mouth hygiene. I really dislike kissing someone after they have smoked and attempted to use gum before the meeting... Those clients, I really can't go through with the kissing. If they haven't asked when they booked an appointment about kissing I usually ask them when they arrive, "do you enjoy/like kissing?" usually they all say yes. I don't ask them if I know they're mouth hygiene is bad. I've told blank to someone after they wanted me to kiss them and I bluntly said, "Sorry, you have bad breath." This was near the end of the session. I like when clients tell me the details before a meeting of what they would like me to do or want. I've done this with role playing and it goes smoothly because I know what will be happening and there isn't this long discussion before we begin. I also enjoy the spontaneous times, not knowing about the client, I like the mystery. I've had experiences where they've booked and they just wanted the talk and kissing, so they directed me to kiss them after they said something or if I enjoyed what they talked about. I enjoy listening and talking.

I'm a bit shy about asking or to pucker up and approach a kiss in the event of a refusal, it's a tough turn down to accept and I don't like the rejection. I always appreciate the lady to do the first move or I will only do it if I have read in her review that she loved kissing.

Hello Gentlemen of Ottawa, If you are seeking for a genuine , easy going High Class Companionship, with top-notch service who carry herself with elegance and charm. Well allow me to introduce myself. My name is kathy and It is my very first time touring ottawa.I am glad to say that i will be visiting you until the 28th of november . Come treat yourself to an experience that will awaken all your senses! I'm sensual,sexy and seductive with just the right amount of naughtiness to take all your stress away. I take pride in maintaining myself,features will impress you .I have an angel face that matches my beautiful personality. Its often say that i have a sweet kind soul and i'm positive you'll get the chance to notice it first hand. I love the company of a men who knows how to treat a Woman the way she deserves to be treated.I take pleasure in learning from others and engaging in intellectual conversations. I am a sincere listener. I don't smoke but can enjoy an occasional glass of wine with a respectful polished gentlemen. Hope we meet soon for a adventurous moment together ! As I am only visiting for a short time, pre-booking is always welcomed to ensure we will be able to spend time together. Text or call : 613-853-2165 Email: [email protected]

It wouldn't be a discussion about Star Wars if the Mighty Jabba didn't give his best wishes to the story. Hope the new flick returns respect to the empire. Ho Ho Ho Ho....

If all you posted was your contact number, you'd get slugs like me asking what your number is...despite the fact that we just dialed your number. The sad irony is that we're being earnestly stupid.

I'd imagine you'd still get all the questions, and all the tire-kicking, but the kind of client who likes to do some research before ever making contact would be unlikely to call. I'd almost certainly ignore it, unless I had a compelling reason not to (e.g. lots of recommendations, or something).

The ad with contact info only? It would be punishment for good clients who read the adds and websites. They don't deserve this. And it would change nothing for those who don't read anything and don't follow any rules. They need just phone number anyway. IMHO

Anyone who is scared away by this is not worth your time. Why? Perhaps they should educate themselves on the current laws instead of taking some obscure scam site's word for it. If a person is paranoid to begin with, they should not be partaking in this whatsoever and personally I don't have time for hand holding or guys who want to come into your apartment and wanting to check in other rooms to see if they have someone hiding in there. I hear of these stories and it's ridiculous! If I encountered that, they wouldn't make it past the front door and I would tell them to get out immediately. What is this? A search and seizure? As if! I can't stand secret agent/paranoid types and they shouldn't be doing this. We can only relieve their fears to a certain extent. The rest is up to them. If this happens again, let them know they that should read up the current legislature here in Canada instead of the b.s. crap they are looking at on a U.S. website, take some time to research the lady they wish to see, hang up and say goodbye. I wish people like this would take the time to understand the laws because we are NOT the USA for heaven's sakes! Then thank yourself that you didn't have to justify that you are not a cop, blah, blah, blah because you shouldn't have to. A client's part in all of this is to make sure they are making an informed choice. If they can't bother to do that, you shouldn't bother either.

I know of one reportedly underage sp who started out posting as 20 or 21, then as she got older, her ads showed a younger age. I agree tho that the underagers are probably going to use 18 or 19. When in doubt, ask for unrevealing ID, know your dates, see the photo and date of birth, you don't need to see their real name and address. And remember, LE can and has done underage sting ads, and if you show any interest in them getting back to you saying they are not 18, you need to report it. I would hope that anyone here would know better than to actually post the underage sp's ad. that's just asking for predators to seek her out, really bad idea. don't share it by pm either, please, just report it and make sure you do what you can to get that ad removed asap. I think by now you ALL should know what to avoid, the red flags in any ads, and if in doubt, ask.

My answer is based solely on myself and I can't answer for others. I prefer mature company +40. Im not saying a 25 year old can't be mature, but the connection is different in the past experiences I have had. Someone older than myself is someone I tend to mesh better with, from experience I have found that I have few issues visiting with mature company (they follow the rules, read websites, don't haggle and well they don't stalk me in my hotel lobby- yes that has happened) as well screening is NEVER an issue. My experience with younger clients 98% of the time is usually not something I want to repeat, the lack or respect to this professional and me is one of the big reasons as well as the fact that they seem to not follow instructions well and feel that it is ok to want to date me or take me for coffee off the clock. The fact that initial contact in my experience from a younger gentleman usually starts with "I'm super good looking you should see me for free" or can i have a student discount and r u free now - is enough indication to why I don't wish to see the younger generation - they are also the one who seem to hold the entitlement card and feel because they have money I should see them (and they wont allow me to screen them). I will say in the new younger clients I have clicked with, they had 2 references and were rare from the norm Every lady is different and every lady has different boundaries and rules, for me I'm at a point in my career where chemistry is better than anything and without it there is no date. - regardless of age. We all have our reasons for who we wish to spend time with and why and to be honest its really no one else concern except for the lady who has put her policies in place and they should just be respected.

Once, a long time ago on here, somebody asked me if I was the "official cerb greeter." I thought this was funny, but I kind of liked the idea, and I do try to make it a point to say hello to as many of our new members as I can, especially our new female members. I hope it makes them feel welcome, and you just might strike up a new friendship. You never know. So yesterday I notice a new name on the board. Virginia Snow. She's just joined, and she's on, looking around, so I drop by her page to say hello. She responds right away, and we chat a bit by pm. She has a sense of humour, and she seems interesting. She asks about the social groups and I see she joins some of them. I think I'm going to like her. This morning I woke up feeling very stiff and in need of attention, and thought a massage might help. Somehow I awoke with the thought of this newbie in my mind. Virginia..I wonder..I text her. What will happen? To my surprise, she gets back to me a few minutes later, and she has some time. She will take care of my stiffness for me. OK, it's a date, and at the appointed time I'm there. The door opens. My jaw drops. Virginia greets me with a smile and a hug. She is a stunner, and a spinner, and a blonde, and all the things that I like. A hot hot youthful body, a beautiful face, and one of the best bums on the planet (I've already posted her in the thread). She takes my hand and leads me inside, and undresses me and herself, and takes care of me. Very well. By the end of the session my stiffness had completely disappeared, and I was floating/am still floating, happy that I had made that initial contact yesterday, and happier still that I sent that text this morning. It was well worthwhile! So once again welcome, Virginia, from the unofficial greeter. Thanks for greeting me back and for seeing me today. More please!

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Kissing is important to me and if its not par par par engagement I will be disappointed but certainly respect the ladies right to choose about this just like anything else that might happen in the session. As has been said by many of the ladies previous responses communications is always important if your not sure about the boundaries then it's always better to ask either in the communications before the meeting or during it. I have found that if you are seeing established reputable ladies and you have done your homework... read their ads and website and reviews you should have a pretty good comfort level with what to expect.... but when in doubt ask. In specific in regards to kissing if it has not been discussed I will normally assume it is ok and will take the first step when I meet the lady my embracing her and lean in for a kiss... while I would of course love her to reciprocate if she deflects by having me kiss her cheek or says sorry i don't kiss that's fine. I have to say that in my experience over the years there have not been many instances where kissing was not allowed and I guess that reflects my ensuring my hygiene is appropriate and that my research has ensured I am with a lady who is a good match. Did I mention Kissing is important lololol

We can cozy up together and make our own fire! Available today December 18 til 10 Pm with short notice provided I don't have anything else planned. Saturday December 19 - 10 am -10 pm Sunday December 20 - 10am - 9 pm Monday December 21 - Thursday December 24 - 9 am -10 pm Peruse my new pictures by clicking here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=4180 If this is your first time meeting me, please call directly. If we have met before, text is fine. No private messages for booking please as I'm not always here to answer them. Care to know more? Read on... Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be 30+. Thank-you

613-237-6735 home 819-930-4158 cell text Sweet sexy french and fun to be with. 3 specials 1/2 h 1 h 1 h Royal Treat Chantal Love to make you happy 1 -2-3 times

Happy Friday Everyone, I am happy to say, that I will be available this weekend. Located at a downtown hotel, from Saturday morning (NOON) right thru til Monday afternoon. I can be reached at 613-701-7776. Look forward to having some playtime xoxoxo

I notice that RG keeps referring to it as a lifestyle. Thats the term I like to use. Hobbying has always seemed weird to me but I can see it as a tongue in cheek wink wink term for something you do for distraction or enjoyment.

I give great massages. I'll give free demonstrations at your convenience.

How about terms like Date for both Ladies and Gentlemen Also can be used to describe what happened..as in I had a date And for the men, how about Gentleman And for the ladies well how about, Ladies, Companions Conveys a much more positive image of this lifestyle doesn't it RG

Same to you, fortunateone! I'd also like to take this opportunity to wish all of you a joyous and peaceful holiday season. :) May 2016 bring you health, happiness and prosperity!

>>> HAPPY HOLIDAYS !! Best wishes to all over the holiday season and for 2016. anyone have any favourite holiday movies?

Black jockey briefs - in keeping with the limited sunlight on these short days of the year

It's not the hair that makes the woman, it's the woman that make's the hair. Any colour is fine with me as long as it suits the woman.

with... of course ;) PVC/leather ....or satin... as far as lingerie or.......? ;) (yes... I am online window-shopping again......)

....entirely 'cougar-clad' <grin>

To Christy Valentine, A very interesting twist! A very motivated amateur! And a couple of very good offers! Something to consider...

I am totally and discretely available. Just send me a pm and I'll willingly fulfill every need.... Seek and you shall find!

I am also interested in seeing the new Star Wars (and the new Star Trek later this summer) but I plan to wait until the end of January when things die down a bit. I am excited for it, but not excited enough to deal with throngs of people in a relatively small space.

I recently saw Cadence at Kendra's Red House for a body slide massage. I have seen many other massage attendants in the city but I can tell you that Cadence has been the best by far. She is absolutely stunning and has a great personality. It made it easy to chat with her and helped me relax even more. She provides a outstanding massage, the best one I've gotten in the City, and her skills are fantastic. If you would like more information please feel free to contact me.

I will never ever understand it.....I post hours of availability (they still call/text all hours of the night) I post Safe Dates Only(they still ask for unsafe dates) I post several pics(they ask to see a pic) lololol Pretty soon all I am going to put is my phone number

last minute Christmas shopping! This works especially well at this time of the year, lol If the wife wants to come with you, tell her it would spoil the surprise if she were to see where you are shopping. (of course, you have to have a small token of affection hidden away at your work place/vehicle/home so that a 'surprise' can actually be made.) This also works at Valentine's Day.

Here's a little film clip I think that Dog lovers would appreciate :)

I'll agree with Bushman, I have seen her a couple of times and will see her again. Her ad and pictures are accurate, great personality and fun to be with.

Yes, but in a hot tub. Does that count?? "sexless for an extended period of time": Isn't that the definition of marriage?? :) Have you ever been in a play (other than a school production)?

Sexy,Classy,Sophisticated, Naughty, Hot, Fun! I am available Mon to Fri 11:00 am to 7:00 pm Pre booked appointments are often necessary. I am open minded to a variety of safe experiences.. 506-588-0397

the ad needs to be reported directly to backpage. [email protected]

The ad needs to be reported for underage.

Obviously everyone is different , that's why there are so many various types of girls available as well as CLIENTS. I can't say I have a preference for age as much as maturity and respect and cleanliness. Numbers bore me. People excite me. Giddy up! Virginia Snow As pure as New York :-) 613-909-3123

Actually, dancers don't need to have their Smart Serve to work in a club, so in the absence of a formal amateur night, any interested lady could simply get hired and work one shift, treating it as an "unofficial" amateur night and then never work again -- unless, of course, it turns out she likes it!

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

CL ads for "last night in town" from today, "Saturday night let's play" from Sept 5 are scams. People show up and after the lady leaves the room a very tall aboriginal guy comes in the room threatening the person and some people have been physically hurt from this lady and man pair. Her pix are in her ad but old pix. This is 3rd time since spring of 2014 they have done this. Be aware. Some pix are ripped from Facebook from other people's accounts.