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asking questions to find out if you are compatible is fine, but when they ask 'what's on the menu', 'what do you offer', puts me right off. Especially if they start the conversation with that. It doesn't take much to introduce yourself. As Victoria Phoenix states, it is how the conversation is initiated that is attractive. I do find it rude when I receive messages such as 1.)'how much', 2.)'what do I get for $xx', 3.)'available?'. 1. I don't know what you want or how long you would like entertainment. 2. my rates are available on my website (clearly visible in my ads everywhere), so why ask. 3. since you haven't specified which day, week, month or time, how in hell do I know? When someone asks for a menu, I ask them what are they specifically looking for, this way I can let them know if it is something I offer. I would much rather do that than try to text an entire plethora of activities. Some providers do state their activities in their websites, some of us do not. If you are looking for specifics, ask, chances are the answer could be yes, but if it isn't something offered, the answer will be a polite no. Having the courtesy ask in an introduction is welcomed, the one liners are not welcomed, specifically by me.

As a fetish provider, I have a fairly complete menu of activities I offer on my site, and I prefer to talk in detail about what the encounter will look like before booking. The only time I'm bothered by this sort of thing is when a potential client treats the booking process like foreplay or wank fodder, instead of being respectful and treating it as a negotiation.

I wonder if it was just an 'off-the-cuff' remark, basically saying 'don't worry about it. I do not view your many contacts and short notice for appts as a problem... because you are allowing me to have an income .. and it is much appreciated' without actually using this long-winded explanation as most girls will take the short way out instead of wasting your time trying to explain her feelings, and perhaps messing it up because she has trouble expressing herself in a proper way. Or, like me, she is lazy or gets frustrated trying to put all that into words. Sometimes the simplest answer is the right one. Trying to look beyond that and find some other meaning is only going to make a good thing more complicated. And perhaps create a mess. And messes (like spilled milk) are difficult to clean up. After you use a cloth to clean up the milk the rinsing required to get the milk out of the cloth is endless, and if not done thoroughly, can leave a sour smell behind.

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Whether it Be, texts, emails, or phone calls, proper étiquette, has Not died gentlemen! For example: Hello how are You? Or how about, If You could possibly find time to fit me into your schedule, I would love to get to know You better?,, In my opinion, these conversation starters, Along With many other suitable ones, are Much better then: Hey what's up? How Much for a BJ? I only have half the donation! Or whats on the Menu? I have learned, to use my delete button every single time-if I were to answer back, then I am the Time Waster! In my opinion, the beginning of the conversation, however it Is initiated, is what attracts You to the gentleman, or Not Passion Awaits Victoria xo

Right!! If I do not turn my phone off or turn my ringer off i would be awake all night long with calls and texts...I just do not understand it ...we post details for these gentlemen and they look right past it ... I am not available 24/7 I do love my sleep and have other things going on my life lol No respect ... Additional Comments: Hi what is your address? Ummm sorry I do not just randomly give out my address for you to just randomly drop by...I prefer you to call when in area yes so I can make sure I am not wasting my time and get a visual before doing so He got mad and said never mind I found someone else...right after I said to call when in location. ..lololol right!! (You can always tell when he is going to be a no show)

When I was dancer there were common 'rules' that we all lived by. I called it 'stripper etiquette'. Like when a girl leaves her towel (the one she sits on) on a chair when she was sitting with a customer to go take care of whatever, then it is in bad form for another girl to go over and try to talk to/hustle that customer. Does such etiquette exist in this industry? Of course there are always opportunists who ignore these 'understandings' but for the most part, does there seem to be across the board 'rules' that escorts/companions all seem to follow? Just wondering. Since this is more of an isolating career I don't know if girls have set up for themselves rules to live by or do they even bother because contact with others is very minimal to non-existent

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I think the answer is more complicated than a reductive binary allows. But come on, we all know the robots are going to take over the world. That is if we don't melt the ice caps and end up in Waterworld first.

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This may not be important but isn't the word 'service' a noun as well as a verb? ;) Additional Comments: I also have just realized that entertaining the acronym users has a tendency to make a girl feel like she isn't competitive enough, or should add to her already extensive experience. Almost like a manipulation, which is common in this industry. So for us girls it is a constant struggle to be true to ourselves and reaffirm our own convictions. I think that is a part that is truly undesirable about a 'menu' listing. Additional Comments: I have always had a good time when 'blah' is involved ;) lol

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I kind of think this is one of those questions that is impossible to answer with a yes or a no... Of course technology is good it allows us to save lives (think ICD implanted Cardioverter Defibrillator or all the other amazing medical technology) and improve the quality of our lives but with all good things there is also the possibility of bad. Nuclear Technology can be used to power our city's and but it can also be used to make bombs that kill it's not the science or the technology that is the problem it is the choices we make in how to use that technology.... and frankly that comes down to human nature and contrary to all the daily indications about why I should not I still have a lot of faith in Human Nature... we may not always act as quickly as we should we do seem to ultimately steer ourselves away from destruction..lol or at least we are delaying it. In any case what really is the other option... are we gonna outlaw creative thinking and the invention of new ways of doing things... conclude that the way we do things now is the best and never look for improvements..of course not...it's not possible to stop the power of the human imagination so yes the world will continue to evolve and yep there will be risks. On a lighter note I could just say of course technology is a good thing and provide you with some amazing examples: The cordless Magic Wand - we all remember the dark ages when the cord on the magic wand restricted our activities in bed.. it only reached so far and you could not get that perfect angle unless you stopped and moved... now technology has saved us from that with cordless freedom. The Wee Vibe 4+ - Do you remember when you had to actually be in the same room to physically control the stimulation of a ladies tiddlewink... well with new technology like the Wee Vibe 4+ you can now be in a different room... different building... different city or even a different country and with your cell phone and your finger have your partners tiddlewink all wet with incredible ease in fact... she can be wearing it and at a business meeting when you use technology to reach out and touch her. Internet Porn - I really don't need to say more do I? The bottom line is our lives as Perverts (According to FORMER PM Harper) have been enriched by technology just imagine all the positive nonsex related benefits of technology. By the way love the thread Just my Opinion

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I wish more guys would respect cancellation or no show policies but they know there is no consequences other than no being rebooked ever. Even though text messages are a legal contract there is very few men who respect those terms. The ones who offer to are usually nice regulars and I usually refuse their compensation as I know they must have had a legit reason to not hold their date.

I personally don't think she meant anything by it....hell I use to wonder why all the post about bp girls too on here I thought it was for us Lyla ladies but it don't bother me none...I post on both anyways

Beauty is whatever gives joy. -Edna St. Vincent Millay There is something wonderful that happens when you meet someone for the first time, that nervous flutter in the stomach, how it slowly gives way to a few smiles, laughs and that first contact. It recaptures a feeling of youth, the uncertainty of self, the desire to connect with someone but not knowing exactly how to do so. I used to believe that this feeling would go away with experience, that it would become 'old hat', a routine, but now I realize that it will not. That feeling is my desire to genuinely connect with someone, the nervousness is because I care about who I spend my time with, and because I know that sometimes I can stumble, while other times it comes together with such a perfection that I know it was not my doing but rather us. It is unpredictable and addictive. Even the awkwardness of two people fumbling along has it's charms, at least to me... the conversations where we both start at once, "no you, please, no you", the moment where you both lean in for a kiss and turn your head the same direction bumping noses. These experiences are genuine, laughable, and while perhaps not the flawless date we all dream of, it is what brings me back to that fantastic little flutter again and again. I enjoy this connection, it has always made being a companion desirable. I love spending time with someone that can laugh, that enjoys a leisurely date. Someone that enjoys a night on the town with a leggy brunette on their arm, or perhaps a champagne breakfast in bed. Or maybe it's just the kind of morning where you nibble on a fruit plate, sip tea and bury ourselves under the duvet for a few hours, that's the thing, I'm easy and hopefully you are too! I am available in Toronto from Feb. 22-25, and will return March 6-12, 24-29 if you would like to arrange a date in that time please reach out to me at the email below. As always I am also happy to arrange a fly-me-to-you travel date, as well as offering my Conference Package to gents that are always on the go. Please visit my website for details. I look forward to meeting you soon! [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com A recent candid, posted on my Twitter @KyraGraves Availability outside Toronto: Washington, DC Feb. 26-27 Cincinnati, OH Feb. 29-March 1 Columbus, OH March 1 (evening) -2 Cleveland, OH March 3-4 Halifax, NS March 20-22

6 minutes of my life I will never get back. A very selfish woman in my opinion, and unable to see the forest for the trees.

Does the Keg need to justify its prices because McDonalds sells a Happy Meal for under $10 Just saying that's all RG

Dude ... you are gonna get eaten alive in this thread. Why does anyone in any trade charge more than anyone else?(hows that for a wordy question?) If the market will bear your prices... why not? Some girls really are THAT hawt and THAT good.... dudes will pay it.

I noticed this a lot when I tour. I always put my phone on silent upon going to sleep and would wake up to like 10-15 texts. Mostly "time wasters".

I think there's a big difference between special needs/special requests versus rude menu inquiry. SP's that clearly state they don't offer menu's and don't like being asked won't like the following inquiries: "Hey babe what's on your menu?" "Rates/restrictions?" "What do I get in a session with you?" "Hey baby do you x, cuz if not that's a deal breaker" "So is it safe to assume you offer x,y,z?" A better approach would be: "Hi Bailey, I was really intrigued by your pictures on your website and I was hoping to find out if my request would be appropriate and amenable to you. You see I am unable to do x, and while I enjoy the company of a woman, my fetish leans more to the Y side and I wanted to ask in advance if this is something you would be comfortable with." Or "Hi Janice Perhaps I have an unusual request for you, and I absolutely respect your preference for not being asked about your menu. The problem for me is that I have x limitation, and I have a particular fetish. I was wondering if I would be able to inquire if my fetish is something that you would be open to? It's in regards to z. Thank you" Generally Sp's are not heartless creatures, and we do understand some guys see ladies for alternative or limited interaction sessions. But it depends on how you approach them and come across. Making a simple polite request with a brief explanation as to why you are limited and looking for something you are unsure of them being comfortable with is different than just asking for a menu and likely ignoring them when they do bother to respond to you. Some ladies do not want to discuss a list of services because of the new law, and others don't want to list out services to be reduced to a menu card, because generally guys asking are really asking for WIDE OPEN MENUS and sometimes unsafe services, and regardless of what we respond they either don't reply or can push "well if you don't offer x then i'll go somewhere else" I'm pretty sure you're not acting like that, so just be honest and use a polite approach and describe what the issue is and what your fetish is as best you can. If however it's something like you can only "finish" in a certain way with a porn star type of act, then you may put off some providers in the end, but based on what you've said i'm not entirely sure what it is you are looking for.

I will speak for myself, as not everyone feels the same way. I wrote a blog once about feeling like a McDonalds drive thru. "I'd like a ... And ... And ... And ..." "Would you like to supersize your order?, drive to the first window please." The funny thing is, what they want is what I love, but I felt like I was being broken down into a sum of parts and not looking at the whole experience. So, when the laws changed, I decided to take control of how communication was done. It's not that I have an issue with LE, but I finally have the ability to determine what is and is not acceptable. Yes, I loose out on some invitations, but they are the ones I don't really want to meet. Personally, I would approach it with first asking if she would like to have a discussion about how you envision your encounter. That is completely different then someone texting me out of no where saying I want X, y, and z. It can be a bit of a shock when I'm expecting "hello, my name is ..., how are you doing", vs "I want X, y , z. So, if you open the communication first, ask if she is interested in a discussion, you will find that she might be open to the discussion. Good luck.

I went to see her yesturday, Awsome time with this beauty..Nice experience...and enjoyable time with this beauty!...she has a natural firm and soft body. 5 star :) Additional Comments: Hey guys, I got 30 private PM about this girl....WOW....so I wanted to put in a msg..that might help...and I will not get in trouble ok!... 1. service: everything you can imagine, she is pretty open if you ask, she is very OPEN :) 2. Body: OMG 10.....for sure! 3. Kissing lightly. 4. In short she is a very nice lady, and very sexy, and a smile that will bright up the dark side of the moon. :) 5. last thing if she ask you to give her a massage do it :) its worth it! Price: is Doorfee, plus after you donate after ;) if you catch my drift! Hope this helps guys SHE IS WORTH IT and legit!...thrust me this was my first experience with a MA...she has skills :) later!

Got the chance tonight to reconnect with Christina tonight . I have not seen her in about six years but it felt very much like it was only yesterday. When she was in Halifax I was a regular of hers and tonight we picked right up where we left off and had an incredible encounter. She looked great , I felt she looked even more sexier than before and still as skilled as ever. Christina is such a sweet girl with a soft voice but don't let that fool you cause she knows how to please a man and enjoys herself too. I never discuss details of our encounter as YMMV but I can only speak for myself and say it was lots of fun. She's not a clock watcher and very open and I love how playful she is. Sex should be fun and with her it truly is. Let's treat her right and support her so she'll continue to return . I know I'll see her whenever I can. Thanks Christina for an awesome time :)-

I've seen Khloexoxo a few times already recently, and wanted to treat myself to a duo with another hot woman of Vibe that I've have my eye on, and that was Skylar Heart. I arrived on time for my 1 hour appointment, Khloe greeted me at the door in a new sexy outfit that she recently bought. she looked stunning as always. She led me to the room, I got ready, and a few minutes later, they both arrived. Skylar had a very nice outfit on as well, I had never met her before until now. she was shorter than I thought, but still very cute, and she has an ass that is out of this world. both of them actually, have great bodies on them. started off with a shower for 3, chatted about a lot of things, got to know each other, then on to the table. I've had a duo before, and wanted to do it again. Both of them were doing a great job giving me a massage, it was amazing for sure. we were all getting along great, having a few laughs, and touching each other throughout the whole session. cant really go into to much details after that, but once again it was fantastic. thanks again to both Skylar & Khloe for an amazing time :)

Have To Admit & Agree With Some Of The Other Wonderful Ladies! The "Are You Available Now?", Rates?, Location? & When They Ask All Sorts Of Questions With No Intent To Book. It Just Makes It Annoying/Awkward..Do Your Research...Darn It. That Is Why Most Of Us Ladies Have A Profile Or Website..With Info. Xo J.W.

*are you available now? NOW is never good *asking my fees after you have book *laziness I have a menu on my website..Visit my website stop asking me to just tell you *the ones that want to know which hotels I'm staying without an app because they need to be discrete If I tell anyone it won't be private and discrete anymore *the ones that inquire for an app but avoid to answer my simple questions such as your name and cell *the one that text me every single visit and each time tell me they don't have access to computer to check my website ..I mean every single time *the ones that feel THAT comfortable to go to the bathroom doing number2 with the door open and strike me a conversation *a tornado in my bathroom There a thing call curtain please close it and refrain from using 3towels for 1h app * bitting my nipples after I told you I'm not into pain I think that is all :)

Someone even attempts to touch my throat or face, they are so done! And no, I am not into BDSM unless a guy wants to be bitchslapped for even attempting to go there!

"Busy day?" Please don't ask me that. I know it may be a light chit chat innocent question but I don't reveal my business. I'm not a high volume provider so that answers the question already. Can you do half hour for $80? NO!!! I just need oral for $60. Hell to the no!! My rates are non negotiable. I am a professional in my business. Please don`t insult me with this b.s.

Guys who book to just cancel, seems to be a game some like to play. What they feel they accomplish doing this is beyond me, however, I do keep a bad date list and know that guys that do this have the character flaw, not I:)

Guys who hem and haw over text deciding if they want to see you making up endless excuses because they are new and nervous. It's understandable with newbies and I'm great with first timers in person but only to a certain extent via text before you realize they are truly waffling yet want to have an entire conversation about it. When you don't answer back they try to guilt trip you saying they think they've scared you off. Sorry I don't have time to text back and forth all day waiting for someone to make a decision. The person either wants to come or they don't. I'm not one for hand holding unless you want to hold my hand in person. -) LOL. Another one.. I can find it humorous now but certainly not at the time. "Hello Nicki?" 2 minutes later..."??" 1 minute later..."Nicki? Are you there?" 2 minutes later.."Hello?" 1 minute later.."Helloooooo?" 30 seconds later...Nicki wanting to throw the phone in the toilet. I enjoy what I do but damn that's aggravating! lol. I get one of these at least once a week and that's being conservative. Hehe.

I dislike being put between a rock and a hard place. If I ask you questions or for info and you answer me yet ignore my direct questions then I have to choose between wasting my time on someone who I feel didn't respect me enough to answer my questions and then repeat them...sometimes more than twice or I ignore them and risk being spoken of negatively behind the scenes. I don't like being put in that position.

lol, me too. I don't know how many times i've just said, oh, sorry, not available the minute i hear that kind of thing. Also they say it in what i call 'sexy voice', so it really grates on the nerves. This is not a dating site, I snap, from time to time, you don't have to sexy voice me to impress me. it creeps me out, and makes me question why they are calling in the first place lol. I'd advise not using sexy voice and not calling any sp sweetie, hun, babe, and/or babeeee

Another thing I hate and I get often is when they don't take the time to read my post! I always put my hours I am available and they still call in the middle of the night even though I put only until 10 pm and when they call from blocked calls smh Like please take the time to read what we post it would be ever appreciated