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Not to mention that it would be hard to keep this thread going if there was no Barb's :). This has always been my favourite club in Ottawa, since I first came here. It's full of great memories for me, of amazing women and fun times, of dances in the cr with spectacular beauties (sometimes more than one at a time :)), of friends to meet up with and chat with, of being greeted by gangs of hotties in the days when I went there a lot; a good place to relax and admire and be well entertained. Thinking of the duos with Ariel and Scarlette, and Ariel and Claire Heavens, and Ariel and Bridgette, and just Ariel :); sexy Josée from Montreal; Mel, Jenny, Nicole, many many more. I don't want this to sound like a dirge, and I hope that the place will thrive and be around for years to come. But I am feeling sentimental tonight, for all the good times. At Barb's. Here's to it!

I don't want this to sound like a dirge, and I hope that the place will thrive and be around for years to come. But I am feeling sentimental tonight, for all the good times. At Barb's. Here's to it! ah , yes ! the Sunday night oil wrestling , the limo rides on Monday nights and the bucket of beers on Wednesday nights . in the early 90's living just around the corner from barb's , friends and I saying we will just go for a couple to start the night off and than next thing we know the lights are on . Hmmm , good times , if I remember correctly , had a couple drinks don't you know ...... lol

I love kissing but because I advertise primarily massage, the kissing activities are kept for those I have built a rapport with in my companionship services. I have noticed a trend where men I have met for massage tend to set boundaries with intimacy..many aren't that comfortable with those activities so I prefer to build a rapport with people first and then if it happens, it happens. But I do love kissing....

I know this has been covered, but without kissing, what's really the point of all the rest. For me, this hobby is about intimacy. I realize that this is precisely why some providers would prefer not to kiss, but for me it really is crucial. Without it, no matter how great everything else might be, I'll be disappointed with the session. It doesn't rule out a repeat, as I've found with some providers kissing gets better over time, but it definitely makes it less likely.

Finally got a chance to come in this weekend and try a couples nuru massage session with Rose. That was a lot of fun... my wife really enjoyed it. I'd done a solo nuru session with Rose before this -- she's such a cutie with a devious smile and, from the right angles, a truly perfect round butt. She's also quite personable, fun to talk to, and has some pretty ambitious plans of her own. Ran into Faye briefly on the way out, who has just a hint more of the girl next door look than you'd imagine from the pictures online (in addition to being pretty darn hot). The room had a bit more decor than a couple months ago.... the club seems to be coming together. I think Jessica is building something special with Brass. From what I can tell the girls seem to genuinely enjoy working there.

so he turned to lyla's chicks for attention! (sue me.. there's 8.... but read it.. it's grrreat! oh nooo I've got rhyming disease!)

I am excited first time coming there to just relax and not anything else .. :) getting self prepared for next year's milestone lol thanks again everyone .. couldn't think of anywhere i would rather be after these really really bad months xo

In Halifax, I would recomend Mariner & Mariner Counselling, they are a couple but you can see either one of them or both. I met with Anne for a few months for some sexual issues, this was about 15 years ago but she was very kind and helpful, made me feel very comfortable discussing my issues, nice lady. They are both university educated with advanced degrees and licensed. Still in the same spot on Spring Garden Rd http://www.mariner-mariner.ca/

How important are kissing, cuddles and hug's in your sessions. For me, it is very important for the full enjoyment of a woman. I love a woman that kiss and cuddle. It's nice to be welcomed with a nice hug and kiss when you first meet. It's nice to say good by with a nice and kiss. Kissing is important in any encounter with either SP or MA, it can make or break a session. Sex is good, but without kissing or cuddling in between, it's just not the same. Cuddling and talking after the deed has been done is a nice way to relax and get to know a person. It's nice to be held and I find it more intimate some times then the sex itself. It shows that the person trust's you allow you to cuddle with them. What's your opinion? Do you women like to kiss, cuddle and hug during the session with a new person? or only after a 2nd or 3rd session.

Reika has been on my radar for a while and I was finally able to connect. Her BP ad says she is stunning, I have to admit I am stunned. I have been with a lot of beautiful Asian women and Reika is certainly at the top of the list. She is DDG and a smoking figure to match. She is a spinner with amazing curves. That all sounds great but her personality may be her best trait. A wonderful young lady who speaks perfect english, I would suspect she was born here. We had a great conversation before during and after. She is relatively new to massage but it was extremely sensual and that's what most of us go to CMJ for. I can't say enough about how highly I regard Reika, she is a treasure. She will be leaving for school in a few months and her availability will be limited so don't dawdle if you want to see her. Warning, she is addicting. Reika easily earns the slurp seal of approval.

I join the chorus to say that when kissing occurs it accentuates everything else that occurs physically as well as emotionally, as it feels so much more intimate. At the same time, it is for this very reason that some women may prefer not to kiss. And of course, kissing should not be expected as a given and the ���� rule applies as always as it is at the woman's discretion. I would clear it with the lady, if possible before we meet and if OK would start slowly to allow her to show her preferences as well. Found this quote below that raises some points why kissing may not always be accepted by all. One way or another there is always a reason. "Some escorts prefer to take kissing off of their services lists, because they have a partner or significant other who may feel uncomfortable with a stranger kissing his or her sweetheart. Kissing is deemed as one of the most intimate acts between two people, as it involves the mouth, tongue, breath and intense skin contact. Engaging in sexual ����������� is one thing, but kissing is something entirely different reserved strictly for intimate partners." (Skipthegames.com)

Never 1 and 2 are combined? I'm pretty sure I keep seeing an ad something about Eclectic Taste from Romance to Kink and more.. *shrug* *starts to disintegrate since realizing her existence was only in her head* Oh wait.. that's right. She doesn't say anything about sex because she doesn't sell that... so maybe that's what it is...ok I guess you are right. I'm teasing Mr. Monk as I'm sure you know my humor by now via twitter, but... really... Its hard to say "Never" with something that has millions if not billions of contributors worldwide. Kisses and hopefully no hard feelings. Meaning no disrespect, just trying to make you chuckle. You know me, always trying to make everyone laugh...often failing, but trying none-the-less. Kisses to you and anyone who reads this, Jessy xoxo xxx 438-274-3853

To add to that, most of the clients for male providers are likely to be men, not women. There still seems to be some level of embarrassment around that on the part of hobbyists, and that sets up a kind of feedback loop. Those who might have experience with male providers probably don't post about it here, so those who are looking for that sort of information will not be drawn here, which means there's no reason for male providers to post here, and so on. It's unfortunate, because there is no source of reliable information about male providers, at least as far as I know. There is a site containing listings for MTF transgender providers, but its accompanying forum containing recommendations is virtually unusable.

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Some lady's will not kiss... I usually ask. In Austria, the girls would not kiss... A recently gal in Nevada would not kiss... but another gal in Nevada a few years ago, kissed my socks off... lol... very passionate. I love kissing so basically if a lady doesn't kiss, or she only kisses very shallowly, I probably won't see her again. I've made exceptions... One lady would kiss minimally, but otherwise things were so good I saw her a few times. But the ones I come back to over and over again are the ones that kiss the best. The gal I've been seeing lately puts me in heaven the moment our lips meet.

Was there at noon to see the beautiful sexy Avah. She was a lot of fun. You can read about her in my recommendation. Jessica was there to welcome me. She looks as beautiful and sexy as ever. The club is coming together very nicely. The girls seem to be having fun working at the club and enjoying the work environment. Club is looking great as the finishing decorative touches are added to the rooms. With the great location. happy staff. I'm sure that the Brass Club will be a great success.

I agree kissing is very important but you must respect the ladies wishes. For me kissing is a deciding factor for repeat visits. Kissing = Passion!

i think the barbarella s champagne room need a revamp, i mean have you been to the nuden or pigale, there is no comparison. The lighting is way too bright, the dj booth attached to the champagne room is a big turn off for the customers. The costs woud be so minimal to make a big change, few couches and chairs, close that dj booth, add some curtains for intimacy , plants. It was a great club long time ago, now the ladies are seeking more comfort when they work

There was a different site that asked for photo verification holding a piece of paper with a specific thing written on it along with your SP name... what I did was I held the paper in front of my face and I wore the same outfit I had on in some of my pix. I sent it to them along with a msg saying I am not willing to show my face and I'm certainly not willing to send a pic of my drivers license. I also offer to send more pix of me wearing other things I have on in pix... They accepted it. It wasn't eros as I find them to be a rip off..Im sorry Id have to check my records to see which site it was. I'm with you, I would never do that as even if the site never uses it against you, a hacker can! To each their own but I feel its better safe than sorry. Good luck hon.

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Been getting PM's from members who feel the same way and were asking me to recommend who are the great kissers. It seems like the older gentlemen like to kiss and cuddle and just hold a woman. Just as much as having sex if not more. Kissing is a very intimate experience and it is nice to cuddle afterwards.

Hi Gentleman I am available this week for dates at my Nepean location.I only see a few gentleman so it is best to schedule in advance if at all possible I can be reached at [email protected] or 6137008577 http://www.alexgrenyait.ca

I agree. I once impulsively offered to massage a wonderful and beautiful lady who was giving me a massage and she graciously accepted. I still think of that session as my best massage experience ever. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I just basically stopped caring. Que sera, sera. When you focus on what you don`t have and the present conditions, you will get more of what you don`t want. Don`t try and fight and control your present conditions. It won`t work. Yes, this is easier said than done and I`ve had my fair share of shitty days being negative but if you trust enough to give up the control and have faith that you will get your appointments, you will. When I stopped focusing on wanting the phone to ring more and went off and took my mind off of it, is when you will get what you want. Don`t expect how you will make money or where it will be coming from or from whoever, just know that you will. I study the law of attraction in depth every single day and it`s amazing what transpires daily when you have faith and a positive attitude. It takes practice to give up control to the universe but it works all the time. The biggest key to receive more financial abundance is being grateful for what you already have. The universe will surprise you in a good way. I have a ritual of manifesting good clients that I practice every morning for a half hour. It also helps with attracting good clients instead of time wasters. Negativity equals time wasters. If you think you can`t, you won`t. The vibe you put out is the vibe you will attract back. This also applies when you are worried about money. You are the creator of your own reality. This I have definitely learned. My life has been blessed in many ways as a result in the last year and not specifically on a financial level but what I have learned has helped my business as well. For everything I have, I am grateful.

I recently saw my first 'no kissing' companion and I have to say, while it didn't COMPLETELY ruin the experience, I'll definitely be avoiding that situation in the future. I was actually surprised by how much it bothered me. I guess I had taken it for granted in the past and hadn't thought about it too much. It wasn't something that was discussed up front so I had no way of knowing. I just found it awkward and uncomfortable. Apparently I'm a really kissy guy because I constantly found myself just instinctively going in to kiss and then having her turn away. It was a kind of rejection and it made me feel bad, first of all just because I like to kiss (obviously) but worse, it made me feel like I was being a pest or trying to get her to do something she wasn't comfortable with. It truly was just habitual and instinctive so I kept having to catch myself which really put a damper on the whole thing. It's a shame because otherwise, I really liked her and if it weren't for that, I'd see her again in a heartbeat. All I know is that now it's one more thing on my list of questions to ask before meeting someone new.

I read about this in the Metro newspaper today: https://www.cuddlery.ca/ This is a professional cuddlers firm, offering snuggling and cuddling services. They emphasize that their services are non-sexual and that both participants are clothed (no nudity). I love snuggles 'n cuddles, but I must admit, there's something I find funny about this. It almost sounds like a Saturday Night Live sketch or something. The wholesomeness of it is both humorous and sweet at the same time. Discuss.

We are creatures that crave touch for me its all about that moment ,when you walk through my door at that moment I am your gf and I want and need the touching, kissing and feeling wanted and needed and making someone feel the same in return. Some days I wonder what happened to good old fashion foreplay that's the real ingredient that makes the magic happen. A deep sensual kiss that starts at your lips but you feel it in all the warm places it should be felt. And after the build up that you ride to a shivery end its nice to land in a warm embrace and just snuggle till your heart beat slow back down heh.

I have to agree with everyone kissing ,cuddling is what makes everything happen !! I have had only one bad experience with no kissing, cuddling. I thought to myself WTF. I come showered teeth brushed no bad breath etc..then I shower when I get there. I'm like Mr.Clean. I just wanted to leave. That was only once. So now if I PM a Lady I ask the ??? up front if the answer is No then I don't Go. The other 99.99% everything is amazing with the Ladies MA or SP. That is what makes everything happen. The best was a Lady I see on a regular bases one she sat on my lap I was totally inside. All we did for like 20 mins in that position was kiss and cuddle. After the session we looked at each other she said we definitely have to do that again. We did.. Kissing and cuddling makes for a HOT time.

For me Kissing takes it all to the next level, being with a great kisser is what I look for in my encounters it just makes the whole experience better, getting kissed back makes me feel the lady I am with is enjoying my company as much as I am enjoying hers. I know for sure if there is no kisses there is no next time, I have being fortunate the sexy ladies that have visited Charlottetown this summer were great kissers, I want to repeat with each and everyone of them. With cuddling what is better than have a naked woman wrapped around your arms after enjoying each others company,that's what makes being it even more special.:)

This month I have been busy. Been lucky and have met many girls that enjoy kissing. This truly makes the session fun for me. Since I have posted this thread, I've had many cerb members ask me which girls like to kiss. Like me, without the kissing it's just not the same. I know for some girls Kissing is ymmv and intimate for them. And it depends on hygiene also. Just wanted to hear more feedback on how important kissing and cuddling is to you during your sessions :)

So far in 2014, I've met many new women and have repeated with some my favourite girls. Two of the new girls did not kiss, still enjoyed my massage and ending, but it's the same without kissing and cuddling. But with some of the other girls that I have seen several times, the sessions get better and better. Lot's of passionate kissing and cuddles and hugs. It makes the session more intimate. And nothing is better then a passionate kiss and hug good bye. Makes me already looking to seeing her again :) For some girls kissing is more intimate then sex, which I can understand. But to me and many others on the board, the kissing and cuddling is more important then the sex.

Recently met a New MA, that enjoyed kissing and cuddling a lot. She even initiated a lot of the kissing herself. This was a very enjoyable session. This extra kissing and cuddling made all the difference in making this a great session and created chemistry and connection between us. Kissing and cuddling does make a difference in the session. I find it greatly enhances the experience :)

Recently had a massage with a new MA. She was beautiful and massage was good and the finish was awesome. But she did not kiss, I'm not sure if that is part of her service or not. Even through I did enjoy myself and probably will see her again. The lack of kissing and cuddling did make a difference in the overall experience.

Intimacy is critical to a great experience ... so kissing, cuddling, and hugging are vital. I could enjoy an encounter that didn't involve sex, if the kissing and cuddling is present, but I don't enjoy a session that involves sex, but is lacking those other things. So choice of playmate is very important. Porthos

Kissing, cuddling, hugging, to me that's what makes an encounter have real intimacy, and that's what I enjoy. Sex is enjoyable, but without intimacy, and speaking for me, pretty empty without intimacy. Sex alone and again, speaking only for me, is more about release, but sex with intimacy (including kissing, cuddling, hugging) that adds a connection you make with a lady. So very important to have kissing, cuddling, hugging, it creates a connection between you and the lady, and my memorable encounters have had that connection A early morning rambling RG

I can't imagine a session with no kissing or cuddling...

Without kissing and cuddling it is more of a cold experience. The intimacy is what a lot of us crave not just the act! Kissing and cuddling is about intimacy to me and makes me feel like the sp cares and wants to spend time with me instead of just doing the act and waiting for the next client.

No hugs? WTF No cuddling? Ditto No Kissing? Deal breaker. Did too much of that stuff with pros in Europe years ago before GFE. Now I would rather take care of myself if those are off limits.

I'm glad to see that Kissing and cuddling is important to many of the people here. It add's to the true GFE session. Nothing better to end the session just kissing and cuddling and holding each other. It's just something that some of us need to comfort us and make us happy. I've been very lucky and have met many woman who like to kiss and cuddle. I would find it very unsatisfying to have FS with no kissing :(. But I've been lucky so far :) and have had many great experiences, and each new experience seems to be better then the last :)

I love, Love, LOVE kissing cuddling and snuggle time with my guests! It gives each of us time to chat, snuggle and just run our hands all over each others bodies. Lots of heated passionate kisses before and sweet little pecks and smooches after while in each others arms is a perfect encounter for me! As an MA I find it very important to offer a very intimate and personalized in the moment encounter, finding my way there through kissing, and cuddling is all part of the fun :) Kisses! XoX

Just adding to the consensus here. I'm thrilled when kissing and cuddling take place, and it can make an already stupendous encounter stupendoser (I'm declaring that a word!). But I also respect and understand that it isn't always offered, even with GFE.

I like to take things slow and kiss 'n cuddle lots both before and after.

Agree with all the above, and after reading these posts boy what I would give right now for that kind of encounter. The intimacy, soft touch, tease is what I would be craving also. Otherwise as others have said, why bother going out. Being greeted at the door with a soft kiss and hug, lots more kissing and caressing leading up to the boiling point, with cuddling and more kissing after would be what I envision. So do you ask if this gfe is available up front, I know ymmv applies too but would it include cuddling, dfk, daty, etc. Most ladies prefer to communicate by text, but would it be better to ask these questions by phone as a follow up. Think it would also be nice to hear each other's voice before an encounter? Posted via Mobile Device

I am basically a GFE kinna guy there fore Cuddling and DFK must always be an option when I book a SP

Cuddling, kissing and hugging, for me is the whole reason for me seeing these lovely ladies. That sort of intimacy, is so therapeutic for me. Happy ending or getting off is secondary. Even if its only for a moment or its temporary, but when engaged in theses activities it provides me a sense of love, which for me is one of my needs I require. For someone who has been diagnosed with depression this is something I found clear my mind and keep me happy even if its for a moment. Reminding me and giving me hope when I'm really down that I can still feel good, and these sad feelings will eventual pass. Oh and on a side note this gets me off. Sex for me is just as much psychological as it is physical I have to feel the intimacy. Kinda why pse ain't for me cause I'll pass out from exhaustion before I orgasm.

Kissing is something that turns me on no end and is connected to just about every part of my body. When done right, I crave more...passion, intensity. There is also something terribly erotic about the slipping and sliding of tongues that makes me envision the sliding of cock or wet lips, both above and below. Love that connection during as well although sometimes the passion sweeps you up and mouths are busy making other noises recognizable throughout the ages. It's different on this side of the fence because to me, it's more about your pleasure and sharing in that then getting what I want. I get what I like/want from what you are prepared to share/give. If you are a kisser/hugger/cuddler, then the visual of the "touchdown dance" ensues because I love those aspects. If you're not, I'm still going to enjoy just within the boundaries. I'm very oral and very hands on, that's my nature. Flesh under my lips and hands is like fresh air in my lungs. Breathing is just a little shallower without but still good.