Leaderboard

I don't think you're the reason, specifically (you didn't even mention it to the shop), but if it is a recurring issue then management will take action. This is a business, so anything or anyone who messes with that won't last. EVEN I am not that powerful. [emoji12] Plus, being a waitron at a peeler bar may not be the zenith of a server's aspirations. Maybe she just moved on. It may be coincidence. It may be deliberate. Don't put too much thought into it. You're being kindly informed that there are different servers on staff, so if that had kept you away you should come back. That's great service to the community if you ask me. Any dancer who keeps me updated on the affairs at my favourite clubs has my gratitude. Dudes, too. I just find it more genuinely informative when I get the info straight from the people who spend the most time there. They REALLY know what's going on.

Elle Mapherson: Still looking good! https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/32/39/a1/3239a12e55e1137573fbb6222de67330.jpg Have to leave link. Won't let me put up the pic!?!

Drop Dead Gorgeous. Girl Next Door. There's a thread in the General All Canada section called 'help with abbreviations'. There will be a test. Once you pass, you can begin posting with the rest of us cool cats. Here's a few more from an old avatar I made years ago.

When your bank teller is the Hottest (or possibly Second Hottest---sorry, Ariel!) Girl on the Planet. Incredibly nice, too! Still smiling.

I'm fairly certain you can post on Lyla if a girl robbed you. Lyla just stops the spread of rumours from angry clients who didn't get the BBBJ they tried to force- which IMO makes it a great site, as it doesn't allow clients to try to exploit us via fake reviews. So ya- I think there's a section for posting names of legitimately dangerous girls. I can find it in a moment, hard to bounce between tabs on mobile. Also- sorry this happened to you. You're not an idiot. Anyone can get scammed :(

Some incorrect or misleading information being given here... The laws have changed in that it is LEGAL to SELL our services, but ILLEGAL to PURCHASE our services. Remember, time and companionship only guys. Any explicit questions about what will or will not occur can get you in hot water. It USED to be a issue of in vs out. Now it is about specification of services. Also at issue is about proximity to schools, daycare, churches etc, however I have not seen any real evidence that LE are pursuing this. They are mainly going after exploited or under aged providers and handlers. Keep it safe and only purchase time with providers that are clearly of age. Keep the details out of the conversation if you want to be safe - whether at your place or hers. Xo

just to keep you updated , there was a few staff changes at the club maybe the lady who did this got fired, i don t know the details, but we have 2 new gorgeous waitresses

It really is all a subjective thing. I've been doing this now for a few years and have a rate point that is considered different. I have been judged a number of times on this for a number of different reasons entirely based on my rate. I've also had to stand up for myself when the conversation turned to lower rate = lower class or substandard service. As has been said, ladies charge the rate they want for a variety of personal reasons one of which is sometimes because they can. It's their business and their right. I DO believe that it shouldn't be a judgment point in the bigger scheme of research. If a lady is established, has recommendations, social media or website, interactions and favorable communications, why judge based on the most subjective of points. A rate should simply be "do I wish to pay that or not" and that takes in both high and lower points. Protect yourself and enjoy your pleasures. Don't over complicate.

Fascinating discussion. I agree that the price is dependent on looks, age, services provided and all with overlay of the personal preference of the SP. But I also want the ladies to know that I am happy to pay a premium for a clean location and ease of arranging the date. There have been/are a lady or two that I have paid $300+/hour and a large part of why is because they answered my text or email in a timely manner and had either a nice private residence or upscale hotel room.

I understand that people say this out of anger and frustration, But, (and it's a big one, lol..) There are plenty of working ladies all over this country who go above and beyond for clients. A lady doesn't have to be "well-reviewed" to have put some effort into her website, Twitter, ads, etc.. She just has to care about her clients and her business. A lot of us are proud of the reputation we've built/are building for our working names & businesses. The best way to encourage such attitudes is to give your business to those putting in the effort. (You might also want to review these ladies on another site where you can post negative information. I personally feel that if there's someone out there actually robbing clients, people should know who so they can avoid them.) Guys, you do have to be careful.. you are legally disadvantaged. And taking risks are definitely not needed to keep the industry going, if anything they hurt more than they help as they are likely to end badly and totally turn good potential clients off of Service Providers altogether. You are free to take any risks you like obviously, but they're totally not needed- Promise! ;) With a little research and thought put in, seeing a SP can be a really rewarding experience.. It's sad that it has to be put that way, but at the moment it's our reality. And Taffer.. You are not an idiot. You were trying to be a decent person and some seriously shitty person took advantage of that.. I'm really sorry that happened to you. That sort of behaviour is not only unprofessional and disgusting, it's also an insult to professional ladies everywhere. I hope these incidents didn't sully your perception of us as I'm sure there are ladies out there who would noticeably value and appreciate your patronage. xx

I have known Sasha May for some time now, but have been negligent in sharing this little gem. Call me selfish, but spend some time with her, and you will understand why I have kinda kept her to myself in a way. She is a low volume provider, and "gives her all" during her appointments. My schedule is often difficult to predict, but she has always been open to adjusting to me when possible. Her preferences are primarily for daytime availability. Her rates are within the norm, given the services and level of intimacy she provides. She takes excellent care of herself, and her clients needs. IMO, her body is stunning, and her skills are to die for. She is all natural, which is my personal preference. Those of you who enjoy a good treasure hunt, she is definitely worth th effort to seek out. She's not hard to find, just sitting there in plain sight, if you know where to look. I repeat with her as often can, and will continue to do so. Happy hunting, gents.

This British lady is everything I wanted in one. Bookings is easy, her text messages might fool u into thinking she is cold and has an attitude, which I did, but when I finally saw her today, I found her to be a very friendly and sincere lady. The way she threw her heels on the floor made me feel like being in a movie, seductive and natural. Speaking of which she definitely has a movie star character, gorgeous face, and the smile. She also threw her panties later which was another sexy move. Her body is smooth, soft, and in great shape, a few delicate tattoos. I'm a feet guy and she definitely has a pair of cute and sexy feet, it's hard to find a perfect pair of feet like that. I can't emphasize enough on how natural our time was, she meant everything she did and I enjoyed everything she did. Soft tongue, soft lips, with a side of willingness, dangerous combination. The rest can be summed up in: ultimate gfe. I'm always cautious about the time cuz I don't want stay longer than the set time. When we are done I said "I wish we didn't go over time", she said no way with a big smile, but then we saw it was literally right on time. I don't think anything speaks louder of "no clock watching" than that, she enjoys the time with you, which honestly is the reason why we do this and ultimately that's the hardest thing to get. Hugs and goodbyes, until next time, Charlotte Quinn.

Hey BH, most will tell you to do some research. Use Tineye or Google image search on pictures in ads (you can typically right click a picture and select image search). You can also try searching the number and see what results come up. But as you know nothing is certain. Happily, there's a number of wonderful ladies active here on Lyla or that have been mentioned in the recommendation section, so if you want to be especially safe there are certainly some people to reach out to. As you say you're new to the area, my own advise would be to start there. Read through the recommendations and advertisements section and I'm sure you'll find someone(s) you've chemistry with. As for your idea in particular, while it hasn't been posted to in a while there was a popular thread "Hidden gems" where people would post of reputable ladies that advertise just on backpage. You might want to take a peek or even revive that thread yourself. :) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=204937&highlight=hidden+gems

Welcome boys;) To your fantasy getaway... I perform a sensual nude adult body to body massage.. Come experience my handy work ;) ~Fetish Friendly ~Body Slides ~Reverse Massage ~Duo's Available ~Showers for two..or three ~Intimacy ~Touching ~Hot Tub I'm 28 years old standing at 5" 4' with a shoe size of 7½ I have long natural strawberry blond hair with real 34DDs, striking deep blue eyes with an inviting smile and touch, silky smooth porcelain skin and an hour glass figure that just loves to slip and slide all over you! ;) I'm friendly, flirty, frisky, fun, sweet, playful, sinfully seductive, very sensual with an all about you attitude! ~Clean, safe, upscale establishment ~Several gorgeous rooms to choose from ~ATM on site ~Free Parking Come see if what they say about redheads are true.. Allow me the pleasure of taking care of you! ***Available*** Friday 2-11pm Saturday 9am-11pm Sunday 10-4pm **More photos available on my profile! Just a click away!** Please text only to 613-702-4335 For inquiries or to book your session See you soon boys ;) Beckie XooX

Hey Fellow Sex Workers, POWER is hosting a sexy clothing swap this Wednesday 7:30-9:30pm in the downtown area. Bring clothes you'd like to give, and go home with new sexy work clothes. Please PM me for the location. All sex workers are welcomed! Megan

Come home Melanie! The drought here is terrible...

She is from out of province and lives her now. She has rebranded herself 2 or 3 times while here so far.

Alright, maybe 10/1 for real ladies on bp was a "slight" exxageration, in my area it's probably more like 3-5/1. I live in NS, at any given time there are ~5-10 sps advertising on Lyla. There are also ~5 sps in the area with permanent websites. Then there are 20-30 ads on bp and in my experience at least 75% are legit. Most of the 25% that aren't can often be ruled out with some research and caution. If I lived in Toronto, I wouldn't feel the need to ever visit backpage. Perhaps I was wrong to suggest its a matter of supply and demand, it's more a matter of the variety of the supply. Most of us men enjoy the added bonus of variety in this hobby, it's just the way we are wired. If I wanted a long term girlfriend, there are much more affordable alternatives. Additional Comments: I don't doubt you for a minute on this. Most of us have been on the internet long enough to know that there are a lot of disrespectful people lurking out there. Your right that we are not on the receiving end in this case, but it's not as though I haven't witnessed how sketchy online communities treat women. Men generally have to deal with threats of violence online, women have to deal with that and a heaping of sexual harassment online. I sympathize, and I understand your disinclination toward back page.

My schedule for the week of Monday June 5 to Saturday June 10. Text or call 902.456.2898, email kyliejane0505 at gmail dot com. Mon.....June 5 off Tues... June 6 Incall 1pm to 12am in Halifax Wend.. June 7 evening outcall only Thurs.. June 8 off Fri...... June 9 Incall 1pm to 1am in Halifax Sat......June 10 off Do you want someone who will give you an amazing, sensual and erotic time, someone who takes pride in themselves, makes sure she stays in great shape, dresses to your needs, then you need me Kylie Jane. I take great pride in pleasing you, meeting your wants and needs, bringing your fantasies to life. I bring a great attitude and atmosphere, i will set the mood just right for you. Let's have a great week. Kylie xo

Thanks. P.S. No man-bun.

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm

There are more easy to find, cheap deals, girls who have no idea what they're doing, and most definitely, fake and scams on backpage.. but there most certainly are NOT more real ladies.. I mean, there is if you want to do absolutely no research- but we can't help how little work men want to put in. (There are 265 ads in the Ottawa classifieds sections here.. if you think there are thousands of real escorts in Ottawa- I'd take another look at the actual demand. It's only high enough to hold so many girls.. that's why that 265 doesn't change much. You look at TERB ads in TO and you'll see the difference population and demand make.) If you guys want to put in absolutely no effort, then yes.. there's more on backpage, but it's also where all the people wanting to scam you guys go. (Especially since the attitude on BP is escorts are dirty and worthless.) So if she's on BP and nowhere else, I'm not entirely sure what else you guys expect. If they're hiding from the rest of the industry on BP, the attitude typically is to see and make as much money from as many suckers as possible and then change names and numbers or move on- not exactly the type of attitude that makes for positive experiences.

I've seen her a few times. It was a while back. I found the main problem was her location at the time was in a part of town I didn't really like and it was quite untidy and (in my opinion) too dirty. It was probably the main reason I stopped seeing her. Her body shape is as her pictures would suggest and she was friendly, I just wanted boob play and oral and she was agreeable to that. I had no complaints about the services provided.

Just to be clear you can't go wrong with either Porscha or Felina. Why even bother to choose? See one, then the other. :)

Where the hits are can tell you something sometimes. If the hits are mostly in the southern States and all of sudden are in your area, that's likely a red flag. Me being in Ottawa, if the hits are mostly between Montreal and Winnipeg (maybe even Alberta cause some like to go there), that's not really a concern to me. If you really have the time, pop open those "caches" when doing research, if any dates overlap don't do it. Potentially fakes. I currently sometimes see an SP who, prior to just a few months ago, only used fake pics for confidentiality reasons but she is beautiful that when she opened the door punters would not want to leave even though they realized the pics were fake. Note, such is not always the case with SPs who use fake pics. I TOFTT more than half my visits and have met some who use a phone app in different cities to keep phone costs down(gives them local numbers). I have also met those who don't use such a phone app but change their name in different cities, that way when they get a text like, "Hi Lisa..." or "Hi Brandy..." they know which city that punter might be texting from(that's not where that SP currently is). If the name they receive on text doesn't match the current one they are using why reply for cost of it and the time saved. Obviously a well established escort wouldn't change her name because it is known. Also, not all SPs are well established but that doesn't make them any less worthy of a visit, IMO. If you TOFTT you need to do a fair amount of and thorough research. The safer your chances will be by doing so. In the end you're really just taking an extra 5 to 10 min max, worth it if you enjoy a TOFTT.

Well stated comments. I agree with you completely bigalow as you are making very true fair and unbiased statement. I have come across rude dancers and lousy servers too in every bar including Barbarellas but since this is by nature a positive recommendation board (as far as I remember) then in my posts I ONLY reviewed the great ones. As an example there were almost two dozen dancers last night at Barbs but I mentioned less than a dozen and there were two servers and I mentioned one only. I was following the motto "If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all". Evidently we have nice posters and rude posters too everywhere even on this board. I likely have more recommendation posts for Barefax than Barbs as that was my place between November to April and recently more on Pigale than barbs and I actually voted for Barefax to be the best club in NCR not Barbs and somehow I am accused of shill for Barbs!!!! Go figure.

A bar is like any other place . You will have great dancers, rude dancers, great servers, rude servers. Just look at the gov't offices, where I deal with a lot of rude people in my job and demand things on the spot and others understand the problems are not in my control, like the circle of death on your computer. Where you are waiting forever to get to the next page. I have met rude dancers at all the clubs and lousy servers at all the clubs, but I have also met great dancers and servers. You get great workers and bad workers in every job. The rude and bad servers do not last long in this type of work because they get less dances and less tips. A bad server can ruin a restaurant or bar.

Just my perspective. GFE, PSE etc. etc. are all terms defined in the mind of the person using them. They have no fixed meanings. Its not complicated and these terms don't really help in my view. The lady always decides what she will offer. The lady always decides how specific she will be in her advertisements and correspondence. (these days ads should not be specific, in my view) The lady always decides what she will charge. Client decides if he will pay that donation. When they meet nothing happens that is not with her full consent no matter what a website or ad says. Your hygiene, respect and behavior are the major factors in how she will interact with you. If the experience is satisfactory to the client then he may wish to repeat. If not then wish her well and seek someone that meets your needs/desires. Each interaction is unique. Accept that not all are going to work. Sorry, but in this business, yes do your research and find reliable ladies, but ultimately you have to take a chance too. She does on every first date. So I suggest that we abandon all these terms and realize that each provider is unique and focus on good direct communication with each unique provider.

Heaven as described in the bible is the location of the throne of God as well as the holy angels. Well tonight I didn't see any God but plenty of Goddesses and the holy angels as well. This was Barbarellas at 340 Queen street not a distance spiritual place up there somewhere in the universe. The very popular Jenny is back as a waitress/bartender!!! Soon after arrival I was greeted by the first Goddess. Yes I was very nicely surprised to see our very popular Jenny. She approached me from a distance with her very friendly smiling beautiful face. She was working as the waitress tonight. r__d and thousands of Jenny fans would love to read this that she will be working at the bar at Barbarellas as bartender soon likely in the evenings so you can sit at the bar and talk to her for hours as many patrons do. I was also very happy that she will be working at Barbarellas again as she would be an absolute great addition to an already great bar. I asked for her permission if I can convey this very good news on this board and she gracefully granted that permission. As the stage dancing was underway I sat next to stage (yes Barbarellas is like home to me and so friendly that I feel I am among my family and long time friends) and was the only one at stage watching all these angels on stage. I had private dances with the following angels tonight. Layla the Arab princess (on stage and Champagne room). She has been reviewed before. Harley with love from Russia. The beautiful sweet Russian on stage first and she was my first angel tonight in the Champagne room. She said that the owner at Barbarellas is a nice person and treat ladies very well. Harley is here only 4 more weeks and this angel will fly away from Ottawa. See her now and as much as you can or you will never get the chance again. She dances on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays. Phoenix half Persian princess/Goddess - As Harley was dancing for me in the CR I had my second big nice surprise of the night. I saw the very popular Phoenix walked in!!!!. Wow you are so right Cato as always She must have descended from heaven. She has the cutest face. Being of mixed race make her so unique and cute and she is so so friendly, Needless to say that i had private dances with her. She appeared genuinely happy to see me after more than a year and said next time she misses me she comes on a Saturday (usually she is not working Saturdays). Then Samantha the Greek goddess. Yes the lovely young fair skinned brunette. She was with her regular and kept on going into Champagne room with this regular however she did find to time to come over as I was sitting next to stage for a hug and Kiss. Havana, with love from Cuba!!!! Then I noticed a very cute young girl standing at the DJ booth. I signaled her to come over. She came over smiling oh yeah she was the very famous Havana from Cuba (I think I read heavenly posts about her on the other board and people asking about her over there now I see why. A very fair skinned and kind of spinner and a very sexy body with very cute small pair of boob and cute face. She went on stage first (and so did I in her third song) and then I had a large number of private dances with her. She gave me the web site for a place in Cuba to visit. My other favorite beautiful brunette Kitty Kat was not there but she will be there next Saturday daytime. So Kitty Kat lovers beware of the next Saturday angelic descend from heaven. Beautiful blondie, Sammie mostly dances Thursday and Friday evening which both are working days for me so I am exhausted. I also remember these ladies on stage: Sandra - A very small blonde looks very young and pretty. Sandy - A larger blonde and sexy lady Bianca - A sexy large blonde and pretty Katrina - A very pretty brunette and very friendly. She kept smiling at me while on stage and came over to hug and kiss after her stage dance for the small bill I put for her on stage. I can see now why she is so popular. She is so sexy pretty and friendly all at the same time. Between two to three dozen patrons at 11:30 and about a dozen and a half beautiful ladies there to show you gateway to heaven. When I left a crowd of patrons was also standing outside smoking so over three dozen and likely much more later. I was happy to see ladies were constantly going in and out of Champagne rooms making good money. Party like environment. Bouncer at the door opening the door for ladies and was very polite and never came inside the CR all the time I was there likely never. The place was clean and classy, ladies were friendly and classy and temperature comfortable though my blood was boiling and my heart pounding thanks to the angels at Barbarellas. It was also confirmed by one of the dancers that most of the chairs in the CR are not comfortable to dance on. So dear nice person owner please change the chairs. I had a great 4 hours at Barbs tonight. It feels like home. The staff are very friendly. Everyone is welcoming and nice. The ladies are most exotic. The environment is the best. No other bar or place anywhere on this universe can match Barbarellas for the beautiful, friendly ladies it has and the professional staff and friendly warm environment it offers. Long live Barbarellas and God bless the ladies who work there. Please support this bar and the angels who dance there as much as you can. It won't be there for long and you may regret later why you didn't drop by more often while it was still open. H & K

Pink lace brazilians

The afternoon buffet brought me back to Pigale (I switched from Barefax). I took my own advice and left Ottawa early at 3 instead of 3:30 and I was there at Pigale only 15 minutes later as opposed to 45 (what a difference half hour makes in traffic. It was quiet upon arrival. Seconds after my arrival as I was about to sit on a table I saw a friendly smiling face approaching with a hug. It was Tasha the sweetest with angelic face. I took my own advice and too her to Champagne room. She was great and I had fantastic time with her. They did have a number of stage dances between 3:30 to 6.00 pm. I remember seeing the following dancers on stage: Tasha (soon after the private dance she went on stage), Franchesca (this girl is popular for private dance not sure why), Kelly, Kylie, Gabrielle, Selina (she is pretty and very tanned from Barefax now here), Skyla, Ashley (Tall blonde), Natasha(blonde), Lacey, Bailey (tall tanned with glasses), Stacy (the short haired skinny snob), Candice (the new short brunette dancer), Jody (very fair skin and pretty) and a few others I can't remember. I also took Bailey to the CR. She is originally from New Brunswick moved to Ottawa. She is very friendly. Maybe too friendly for me. Recommended highly if you go for mileage but not my cup of tea. She said she was the daytime manager at Pigale last year and I saw her last Friday she was helping out Candice (the new short brunette dancer) with her own acquaintances. Wanted to take Stacy to CR too but she always walked alongside the path between DJ booth and the bar at the other end with her head up looking straight ahead. Regretfully she didn't make any money (she has to learn this is a strip bar not dance bar in approaching patrons) but her friend Candice was a faster learner and approached the patrons and made quite a bit today unlike last week. Good for her.

Hello Gentlemen, I have returned from an extended vacation and haven't been around much lately but have been receiving messages asking if I have retired. I am still available but do not advertise as much as I used to. If you do not see me advertising regularly, I am still available although I am a low volume provider. If you are interested in meeting, I am available to meet new clients Mon-Fri 9 am -5 pm and clients I am already acquainted with I'm available to meet Mon-Sun 9 am -8 pm. For my regulars, I will be available this weekend and available to meet new clients this Monday. Please take a look at my profile as well as my website if we haven't had the pleasure of meeting before. Have a great weekend! Nicki xo

Turquoise lace booty shorts!

I have been with her several times now with each time better than before. To me she is sensual with a capital S. Would not hesitate to recommend her.

Let it go. Why so serious? Be hopeful.

To the OP. I have not seen Porscha for some time but still remember my time with her. Enough said I think, she will make you feel like a King.

Thanks for the review. I have heard some good things about her, have not had the pleasure yet but...... Glad you enjoyed.

Unfortunately, that's part of the risk that comes with toftt. Very unfortunate this happened to you, but at least if you stick with established, well reviewed ladies, when she says she forgot something and she'll be right back, you'll know she's telling the truth.

Yes it is unfortunate and happens to me a lot more recently and in my case it is not just an attempt to gouge me for extra song(s) but they actually do it as I pay and don't argue. Most often they start at the end of the song and charge for full (at Barbarellas specifically). That said it is best to boycott the dancer who does that rather than the club as the club has no role or fault in all this (make the one who gains $20 or $40 in short term to lose hundreds in long term as I for one boycott that dancer no matter how pretty she maybe). Dancers also moving from club to club. The dancer for which you boycotted the club may be next day in a club you have not boycotted. Beside this is not club specific and happens everywhere so you may be left with nowhere to go. I also don't feel comfortable to share the names of those dancers who gouge in public or private just in case for the one in a thousand possibility that I maybe mistaken.

have you asked the manager or owner to look up the cameras of the club for you ? nuden will look up the camera, look at when she came see you , if you gave her a bill , and all the story it could have been easily resolved... no need to tarnish the club here with a warning post that they won t read, by telling them you re giving them a warning, when you're clearly NOT a simple phonecall, ask for the owner, tell the situation, he will come back to you with answers and IF the lady took your 20$, she will be gone you can be sure of that because they are honest people sorry to sound rude, but i defend my club . you state : " I could've persued it with management there but I thought if I posted the warning here for all to see and Nuden lost business because of it then Nuden management would wake up and have the problem addressed so I'm posting the warning here" that's rude, so you want us dancers to loose business too because of a simple situation that could be resolved with 2 minutes of your time? not impressed, i tought this was a positive board

I also believe guilt is a taught/learned behavior. Through generations we have been taught a long list of things we should feel guilty about and many of these things are judgements from others on how we should behave. I believe we have to honestly look at many of the things we feel guilty about and determine if it is programmed/learned or if it IS truly coming from within ourselves as a guiding point. So many people feel guilty when they "self care" yet this is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Life is not black or white. There are so many nuances and intricacies to it and every situation is unique to the people involved. if we approach our lives with love and respect and in doing what's best for ourselves and those involved, I feel there will be a lot less guilt and a lot more love and happiness. In regard to the aspects pertaining to this industry, there is SO much judgement and guilt flung about from so many sources. If it adds to your life, makes you happy, fulfills a need and isn't hurting anyone, why feel guilty? If someone is guilty because of someone else's opinion or judgement, the true issue is why does someone else's opinion have the ability to steal power and make them feel that way. If it's because of a relationship, where does the guilt stem from and is it because we should or shouldn't do this or that (learned behavior) or are we ignoring something we are not open and honest about looking at. Having the thought of a Universal Standard is a learned concept. It implies everyone has to fit into the box and everyone is the same when that's very far from the truth. Each and every person is unique and what bothers one, doesn't bother another. If both have the same experience and society judges that experience as negative or bad and something you should feel guilty about, if one feels guilt and the other doesn't, what does that say? It says that it's a taught/learned behavior. I think we unnecessarily suffer a LOT due to learned behaviors and limiting beliefs.. including guilt!

Good evening ladies and gents! While I have been a service provider for a little while now, I am quite new to the escort-related section of the internet. A little about me: Outside of this world I am a belly dancer and pole dancer, and I dabble a little in theatrics and performing. My dream is to become a burlesque showgirl! Anyway, I look forward to meeting you all and networking with you :) xoxo Venus Reign