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Yes I’ve noticed that I relax so much more after 3 or 4 sessions. That’s when some real mutual pleasure can happen. I'm not sure if the words “paint” and “excited” belong in the same sentence...

Thanks to @AdrianaMaxwell_TO for sharing this with us. I have to admit you may have inspired me to establish a twitter account! As always @lydiahardwood my ongoing appreciation and thanks too. Keep up the good work

Hey @lydiahardwood I was wondering about doing an interview with someone about offering online services in these COVID times. Lots of ladies going this route and probably a steep learning curve. I was thinking of maybe someone like @Cheeky.char. I hadn’t heard of her before November and now she’s on several sites that I’ve never heard of. I also get a strong sense of her personality just from her ads and tweets so she seems pretty media savvy. Just throwing that thought out there. Thanks

I think letting the session flow naturally is the best thing that can happen. While I understand the challenge of keeping things interesting, there’s also the fact that when you get to know an SP there’s also a level of comfort that develops and you can focus on each other’s mutual pleasure. Whereas meeting someone new, while thrilling, involves a lot of awkwardness and stumbling around to get acquainted.

Good to know that we share the same feeling my dear. To create a great session, both parties have to put an effort and respect, open and trust each other. Providers are not goddesses. We are not a mind reader either nor that we can create a miracle of a fantastic session if the clients do nothing or don’t put any effort into it. Therefore If someone tells me he is a first timer, I’m actually not that thrilled. With first timers, I have to do more mental preparation, making sure I’m 100 per cent ready to soothe their nerves and deliver the best service that they deserve. It’s not easy. Tips are expected lol 😊 btw, I am excited that my dear regular will teach me how to paint the walls of my house correctly in few days. Never done it before. I hope my house will be brighter in color and shinier in time for Christmas and New Year🎄🎵

Casinos new policies were really odd, they weren't hiring anyone who had already worked there and they implemented a Black/racialized dancer rule, I say racialized and not just Black because even Latina dancers or Asian dancers or Native dancers with a dark tan might be asked not to work based on whoever was there that day, and a weight limit. Previously, when they were Tease a lot of the appeal was that they were the only place smart enough to stand up against the Black/racialized dancer rule and that they had a variety of shapes and sizes. This was because Alanna (RIP) herself was indigenous and young, so her mindset was more current and relevant to the adult industry in general. Some clubs and owners have the mentality of only hiring already waif like "gorgeous" women, however a strip club is more like one big fetish party, and BBW's (and arguably racialized women) are a fetish. Additionally, a lot of curvy, thick, or BBW's are looking to get work done and plastic surgery is also another fetish. Many of the Tease patrons were interested in providing big checks for that, and actually a well known customer retired a thicker new African dancer to Toronto with a condo and new boobs to match! Unfortunately, the racial discrimination coupled with size discrimination deterred a lot of clean and established men. The bar at Tease had a lot of great top shelf alcohol which other clubs didn't, Casino didn't have most of that alcohol -- Rumchata or Johnny Walker for example and that's another thing I noticed wasn't helping profits during my shifts there before I was called overweight when I was an hourglass well proportioned M with size L T&A. They also hired a DJ Villi@n and put him front and centre for promo instead of the dancers themselves.. but it was actually suspected that Dj Villi@n was the main one extorting dancers (ex. tried to make me pay an additional $60 for stepping foot onto the stairs of the dj booth just to welcome him to the club...) and at the very least he was a white boy who was very relaxed and comfortable with the N slur and a lot of men are educated enough to not want to support or be constantly around misogynist or racist hip hop culture. Instead of complaining they tend to just fade from the place of business, wherever it is -- learned this from experience I'm now able to understand cleaning up my act means my use of language as well. Lastly, this isn't really a Casino point but probably more of a Canada point in my opinion -- because the face of North American strip club culture is very much the world famous Magic City Atlanta est. 1985, Blue Flame est. 1983, King of Diamonds, VLives, G5s, Ace of Spades/Ace of Diamonds etc. These places do not have racialization rules because the intention is to specifically support racialized women and put them ahead of non-racialized women just to create opportunities where there wouldn't be otherwise. And most size issues can be changed because most if not all BBW's want plastic surgery or else they wouldn't be there; additionally the average stripper pole can support up to 400pounds.. My suggestion for any club that wants to stay afloat is to copy the policies without stepping on any toes (or literally copy them and hire as much racialized dancers and BBW's as humanly possible lol). Because a business plan isn't limited to geographical location and many customers leave Ottawa, or Canada and frequent those clubs in the states because the ones here don't offer the same variety or even the same level of higher distinguished thought with regards to social politics and what's current -- and what's current right now is voters rights, LGBT+ rights, fighting against sizism, stocks, women's rights, and beyond all that: women who are smart and can hold a conversation about more than T&A. https://www.atlantamagazine.com/oral-history-magic-city/ https://www.bet.com/style/living/2019/10/25/hustlers-fo--real--strippers-at-world-famous-magic-city-in-atl-e.html

During the middle ages they celebrated the end of the plague with wine and orgies. Does anyone know if there is anything planned when this one ends?

After the fourth session, I will see my clients differently. First, I feel grateful. Second, I ask them jokingly don’t they get bored of seeing me lol. Third, I know they like me the way I am and there is no need to put or perform certain acts or service. For me, this is the best and I look forward to seeing them again and again. i am outgoing and truly enjoy the company of a person. This week, I have one of my dearest regulars who will teach me how to paint the wall of my house. Excited! 😚

I'll be honest I have never seen any of @AdrianaMaxwell_TO ads on here mind you that I don't really look at the ones from Toronto because I rarely visit. I really like the picture that you posted of yourself @AdrianaMaxwell_TO. So thank you for interviewing her @lydiahardwood it was another great one.

Thank you Adriana for your views on this topic. Some fascinating things to discuss for sure. Can’t be said enough how clients should respectfully communicate. I know I don’t always do some of these things. Usually I’m paranoid about putting in The wrong number and reaching the wrong person so I usually keep my intro pretty brief. I have visions of “WHO THE HELL ARE YOU??” Kinds of responses because of a typo. thanks as always Lydia. I hope you get a raise or some tips with the fantastic job you do here. Your input certainly makes all the difference.

Lots of positives: communication was easy; she was at a nice, high-end hotel; and her body is gorgeous. The pictures don’t do those breasts justice.

Most definitely let the session flow naturally. Yes, clients are seeking an intimate encounter but also a connection, friendship etc. Perhaps some are missing out by having a short session where sex is the only objective (not that this is wrong), but could gain much more from a longer date, taking the time to chat, share a drink/meal or what ever. Of course each person has their own needs/reasons to visit a provider. As such, from my view point like anything you get out what you put in. Regardless, sessions are generally enjoyable for all.

Agree! I’m not a good actor, so I tend to let the session flows naturally and see whether or not we can build a good chemistry during a session. As you mentioned before, the first session can be a great session but it will be more challenging for the second and even more challenging for the third one and so on. But....hey...that’s why I don’t like to be labeled SW or even worse prostitute, because I’m truly not. I, we as an escort deliver companionship not only sex. A mutual, intimate communication at the SAME LEVEL is the only way to maintain a strong relationship between a provider and a client. Sex is definitely part of it but it’s for sure not the most important aspect of it, at least for the long run 😊

I have been throwing this around in my head. I want to see your thoughts. Here's the idea; I invest with the stock market how I see fit, I enjoy penny swings and dividends, I am self trained and always learning. I typically only take a 20% risk volatility (The game is to have an entrance point and an exit point, top and bottom 😜 ) I am looking for a min commitment of $1000 (payment options can be arranged). My ideal number in total to work with is $10,000. Min Hold would be one year to allow me to grow the amount I Get a 25% commission from the principle amount, plus 50% of all profits. You would get 50% profits as well, I can send them to you or invest for more growth. If I loose it all, you loose it all. I will have a spread sheet set up to show you growth, and send you snaps as we grow, or make you squirm as you loose your pants. It's the one time findom will pay you back. I am not a license stock broker or any of those things for legal purposes. I am one to always want to add value and help build people up. Allow me the opportunity to allow us both to grow. If anyone is up for chatting, and making it happen. Big hugs, Stephanie ❤️

@lydiahardwood The above mentioned account has just one post (& has a membership less than 24 hours), yet was allowed to post recommendation.

Seconded! Great choice and a wonderful lady.

I could be wrong but the ball seems to be going back and forth between some maybe more prominent members. I don't deny their merits and I , for one, have often benefited from reading their comments and from their experience. However, how about throwing the ball in a different direction. This is a provider I have nominated before and still feel she deserves the recognition. She is Kylie Jane, @EliteKylie. She is a regular on Lyla, she has several great recommendations and thousands of views. I personally know her and know how respected she is and also that she has the good of her clients always in mind. In these pandemic days she kept the safety of her clients first even if it meant a loss to her. She is my choice. I hope more will agree!!

I am sitting at home like a good boy but I can tell ya, when this is over I will be like a bull being released from the barn in the spring after being locked up all winter. Explaining it will not do it any justice, you really need to see it. Tension massage... oh there will be tension. I’ll feel bad for her having to do that wipe down after.

This Kitten loves to be adorable, giggle and often posts in the SP section. A friendly reminder she loves to play firm and fair just as much as being explored and has one hell of a open mind. Let her enjoy getting to know what makes you tick, giving orders and testing your obediency. A goddess to be be worshiped and praised. I dont care to hurt you (too much) but would love to bind and explore you sensually. Use my feathers to see where you tickle most and have a set of hands that love to explore. Are you worthy of uninhibited fun free from judgement?