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Today is Quebec's national day so happy birthday to all Québec gentlemen and beautiful ladies of cerb! How do you celebrate this Holiday...or do you celebrate at all? For my part I don't celebrate much on the 24th of june...for one i don't like crouds...specially on that day coz I found it is mostly a young croud that like to get drunk and be disturbing...It can be fun with a bunch of friend though :) There are a lot of shows, artist, signers performing ( not always the most popular either) in parks organized in more or less big cities and fireworks to end the evening. I have been to the state for the 4th of July and they sure know how to celebrate...not just on the 4th but days before and after...Our american Neighbors are very welcoming people! Do you have a favorite Holiday to celebrate? Canada day? or others... Bianca

Hmmmm This is a very interesting topic.I should be out riding but its raining so I am here and came across this thread. I can only speak for myself but I have made some really great friends in this profession.For myself I find it easier then dating so I do this by choice not be cause I have to.I do think it helps with loneliness if even for a brief couple of hours...everyone needs a human connection and to be touched and feel wanted and cared for. Different things happen in life that cause us to handle things differently or perhaps be more guarded.This is a good way to be held,have a human connection but yet still not have to completely open up until we are ready for that. Alexoxoxoo

Welcome to Halifax and good luck with your search . While you may find someone willing to visit you for what you mention be prepared for more than that . Especially in the evening .

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The best SP/MA encounters I've had have always been with women who I've clicked with. It's still about the sexual release, but that's so much better with someone I can talk to. I would caution the original poster though to remember that it is a service industry. I've talked to several providers who've been hounded by men who lost sight of the difference, guys who forgot that the "girlfriend experience" was on an hourly rate. It's great if an encounter can reduce your loneliness, but it's important to always keep that fact in mind.

On the contrary, I think if you read through the thread you'll see that those topics were raised in response to the OP's subsequent points and questions as the thread progressed. Clearly we're having different experiences with SPs, and approaching the OP's queries from different perspectives, but that's cool. He, and others reading the thread, will draw their own conclusions.

Personally, I think a lineup is a bit degrading! I like beautiful girls just as much as the next guy but looks are only one component, and I think a small one, of a great encounter. Maybe you're not looking for beauty but for a particular feature like small boobs (yipee) or big boobs, great legs, great bum, whatever. As stated above, I think the pictures provided by the hi-end spas would provide that info. I find a bit of homework goes a long way in finding the MA with the assets I most enjoy :) To answer your question, I'm not aware of any that provide a lineup. My 2 cents!

Fake photos, and that number's been associated with other fakes for months. Don't waste your time.

BBQ Maple Salmon with spinach salad and fresh fruit for dessert. A glass of white wine or a Corona for the adults.

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One issue I've faced with going to a SC with clients is that the bouncers will check your ID and then say your full name (first and last) out loud to 'welcome' you into the club. This has happened to me three times now. With the gentlemen in question it was fine because they knew my name anyway, but if this happened with a first time client I would be upset. I spoke to those bouncers after we were seated at the table and they apologized, but it hasn't really changed the behaviour as bouncers come and go and I think it's in their training to do that. For the girls that work at SCs, is it possible to change that practice? Not sure how, but it's not ideal and I feel they should know better than to do that.

As an eight year member on the board I can tell you it has always been Ottawa, Winnipeg and the East Coast who have been the biggest contributors to the board. Over the last couple of years there has been a significant increase in contributions from members in both Kingston and Thunder Bay. Even though this is the only national board, we have always struggled to get members from all area of Canada to contribute to CERB. I will forever try to encourage members from all areas of the country to contribute here. The C stands for "Canadian", don't complain there isn't information on your area if you are not contributing yourself. Happy hobbying! :D

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Jason, feel free to let the ladies you see know about CERB and tell them that it an SP friendly site. Many ladies avoid boards because they are very antagonistic towards providers so they choose to avoid all of them except the ones they need to advertise on locally. The more ladies from a specific region participate on a board, the more men are drawn to it... cat

http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/peter-mackay-s-prostitution-law-news-conference-sowed-confusion-1.2679800 in this article the Justice Department claims McKay was very wrong about some key parts of the bill, including the advertising. The parts of C-36 dealing with advertising have caused a lot of confusion. At the news conference, MacKay was asked if prostitutes who take out ads could be prosecuted. "If there is a direct connection to the selling of sex that does not present itself in a public way then it would be legal. But if it is done so in a way that is perceived as public or available to those under the age of 18 it would be illegal," he replied. Justice Department officials corrected the minister. They said prostitutes advertising their own services cannot be prosecuted under the new law.

My purchase was a cute blue baby doll from la senza thinking that when i got home that i could catch my hubby's eyes with it nope didn't work at all so now it sits in the back of the dresser drawer :(

Thank you deepstrut for a different perspective. You are correct that sometimes when people look in the wrong places to cure loneliness that they can come out feeling more lonely and empty than before they started and that some people blur the lines between reality and fantasy. This can happen not only with an SP but with anyone. At least with an SP there won't be extended drama should either happen. In these situations, it is on the person looking at the situation to know themselves and to determine what it is they need and want and if this might be an option to gain it or a potential risk. Some learning is about trial and error and some is about putting yourself in a safe supportive environment to gain knowledge. You don't learn how to do a job by trial and error, you learn in a classroom, through mentoring or job shadowing. You then take that knowledge into situations where you apply it and learn through action to improve it. Relationships are not completely trial and error. We talk to people who have been through it, we ask advice, we read articles and then we apply those in a learn to improve capacity. In your example of a kid who can't sing. Having the support of their mother believing in them is a huge thing but not the only thing. If the mother encourages practice and lessons they are gaining the knowledge and skill before stepping into other situations that require them to apply it. SP's are not here to rubber stamp especially if someone is looking to gain experience. They share their knowledge, provide direction and make suggestions in a safe supportive environment. There are many SP's and clients who have developed friendships and provide emotional support within the boundaries they set up. This says that for some people, this can be a good emotionally supportive outlet. Like everything, it's not for everyone and as you and others have said, take a hard look at what you want/need, risks, pros and cons and determine if it is the best course of action. For the record, when I comment in these threads, I am not trying to seduce anyone to visit me. I believe there is a world of potential and possibility out there that we should be open to. That we should see our sexual and intimate needs as self care and as important as other things and that we need to look within to determine what works and doesn't work for us and to ignore those who may or may not agree with us. The world is full of differing perspectives, thoughts, biases, morals, labels, triggers etc. We are responsible for ourselves and should feel no guilt in taking care of ourselves if no others are harmed. Different perspectives are valuable as they give us ideas and thoughts and hopefully give us more options than we had before.

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I sent a fantastic afternoon with Savannah on her most recent visit to Ottawa. I cannot compete with the previous reviews but I feel I need to add my voice to the previous posters who sing praises to Savannah. I will add that Savannah is a beautiful women with striking eyes. Her laugh is contagious and her easy going manner will make you feel at easy. She is also damn sexy. After exchanging some travelling across Canada stories, things quickly progressed to a make-out session on the couch. There I discovered that Savannah is an awesome kisser and she was not wearing any underwear - both great things ;-) After an extended period of necking on the couch we progressed to the bedroom where the fun continued and Savannah showed me her extensive seduction skills - although to be honest she had me once I heard her laughter and taste her lips. At the end of our time together, I was completely relaxing with a huge smile on my face. I definitely hope that Savannah comes back to our great city in the near future. I still smile when I think about our little "visit".

More airfare....

I hope for a speedy recovery from surgery and your Summer seems like it will be filled with good times and making memories. That's awesome!

1 Surgery on Wednesday. 2 My boys finish school this week so they r coming to the city on sunday for two weeks. 3 Take my boys fishing for the first time. 4 take a trip to pei to visit some friends 5 When in PEI go to the drive in theater 6 Go Whale watching Im sure ill think of more later

I believe cerb-Ottawa was already quite busy before the socials started happening - I think the socials are a result of the strong community here. This lifestyle (i.e. the positive 'cerb' attitude) may also be a rather difficult one to market effectively. Having attempted to get valuable/thoughtful info on one or two other 'erb boards I find that cerb is the best.

Most sites gravitate towards one region, or two. I know a couple of newer sites have attempted to be more national, but the result was regionalized with a spot of interest only when the site was new, and nothing since. I don't know why this happens, just does. ;)

If you share your experiences in Kitchener through recommendations, then the Kitchener forum might start getting more activity, not to mention the ladies there would likely appreciate a recommendation too. You are familiar with the Kitchener scene, so start up some discussions. Who knows, your experiences may entice some other gentlemen to take a drive there. Not to mention locals gentlemen may also start posting recommendations RG

Its interesting to see how everyone is approaching this from their own perspective with very little being asked of the OP in terms of his motivation. The question was is this a good way to cope with loneliness. We have gone down the road of is this a good place to learn to be with women, is it a negative act in society, and are the relationships real. Ill address each with my own opinion, fully expecting that each comment will hit a nerve. Are the relationships real and mutually fulfilling. Yes they are fulfilling in that the guy gets a service and the lady gets paid. Making the assumption that the lady is doing this for her own physical pleasure is a significant leap. I have known a few SP's as friends over the years, and I can tell you for 99% of the guys they see its about what they are willing to do, not what they are wanting to do. Do I think its all oooh's and aaaah's? absolutely I do.... What is the criteria we are using to think that its a real connection? Has she tossed the financial arrangement out the window and started seeing you for free? I think in an industry based on providing a fantasy for money its safer to assume that the connection is that, just fantasy. In most cases from the the lady is just hoping to not have a negative disrespectful experience. She certainly isn't excited. There are those rare exceptions but we should advise based on the likely outcome not the rare chance. I stand by my original statements. If you are deeply lonely, the likelihood of you finding anything other than a band-aid is slim. Very few of the ladies see themselves as mental health coaches, and none should make the dangerous proclamation that they provide that service. They provide a level of physical intimacy as a business, and in return they are well compensated. Without knowing the OP all I can say is that you need to seek the source of your loneliness. If you feel generally okay with yourself and are lacking the time or social circle to engage in a relationship that fills your intimate needs, then go have some fun. If you find yourself feeling alone and generally unhappy, you need to find out what causes that before you slap a band-aid on it, as it can be a very addictive hobby. As for choosing a provider, if you want the outcome that is being suggested by the other contributors, you should seek a more mature provider, and someone who is very active on CERB in her communication not just one line ads. If ladies are banned from CERB as you mentioned there is likely a reason that will be detrimental to your experience. If you are looking for a connection don't seek the hottest 20 year old SP, seek someone who offers more than just the longest menu. Again, don't just leap in assuming you won't hit bottom.

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You can talk to sps in ways that you can't talk to people you know, friends, families, acquaintences, coworkers, or people you meet when picking up groceries or coffee. It has the benefits of non judgmental time with someone who isn't going to see you day by day going about your life, and you are also reassured that what you say to them is confidential. As therapy it is costly, but it also includes intimacy which is also beneficial. You wouldn't be getting touched with regular therapy, and touch is also very healing. Some clients only come for conversation and touching, and no release not even nudity.

Pride to me is colour & difference & fun & showmanship & energy & display & like & everything we should have up here in Ottawa.

That's not an uncommon view ("I'd never PAY for it!") but it's based in a ridiculous, shallow, and outdated view of human relations. You don't have to answer to such narrow-minded people, when you've already made your mind up for yourself. From what you've described, you have some concerns about your interactions with women and you'd like to learn. You've made a perfectly reasonable decision to do something about that, in a way you can control. That's not desperate -- it's insightful, positive, and action-oriented. Carry on forward! I think you've probably had a chance by now to look around this site and see that people here are actually pretty cool and normal. Intelligent, thoughtful, and caring. Compare that evidence of your own eyes with the cliché judgments of others regarding sex workers and their clients. You have better information that them. So make a decision for yourself, know why you're taking the action you are, and proceed... and damn the nay-sayers.

Honestly, spending time with an SP is a very open, honest, non judgmental way to explore, learn and enjoy. You don't have to worry about many of the things associated with meeting a "real" person. By this I mean, you go into the relationship knowing boundaries and knowing that they are there to keep you safe and comfortable. You don't have to worry about someone thinking the wrong thing, seeing something that's not there, expecting too much etc. This could be looked at as therapy because if you choose the right person, they will help you with whatever it is you need and want, the focus is on you within whatever limits are discussed. There is no need to "perform" or live up to any sort of expectation. It's wonderful you have a friend you can be so open with and who cares about your well being. However, YOU are the one on CERB and seeing the true identity of the industry. Seeing what it can give you as opposed to all the fallacies attached. In the end, it boils down to what you want, desire, need, the risk you're willing to take and what is in your best interest. Listen to your inner voice as it will provide the right answers.

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I don't fault your friend for trying to look out for you (as she understands it). But she seems to have the cliché, streetwalker view of SPs. That is NOT what you're looking for, and that's why I suggest you start with an SP from CERB. I think that offers the best chance to find someone responsible and caring. Legalities aren't much of an issue (for now...). Check out the legal threads for specifics, as there's a change of law possible which MAY soon alter the legal landscape regarding prostitution in Canada. STIs are a manageable risk; there are threads here for that too. Finally... you aren't required to provide a complete sexual resume to all your future partners (nor they to you). We all get to choose what to share from our past. There's no shame in what you're planning, but it will be your call whether, and how, to deal with that and a future partner when the time comes. Don't let some hypothetical future partner's possible prudery* keep you from taking positive action for yourself, today. * alliteration -- it's fun!

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When your staying in a hotel and other guests think they are gods or something. Treating the staff like shit. Seriously makes me mad.

I have been asked on all kinds of social dates from dinner, NHL games, CFL Games, Strip Club, Massage Parlour, Shopping and just about everything else. My most favourite dates have been the ones in social every day atmospheres like pubs and lounges. I live in reality and choose not to script my dates so no - nothing on the fantasy end for me. Someone's skills in bed has absolutely nothing to do with if I would see them again or not. And no I have not been asked to teach or be a surrogate

A fun encounter with a SP creates a very human connection. Over time, the SP and the guest get to know each other and it is the most human of bonds. Does it help loneliness? I would suggest so.

So according to the parliamentary website C-36 was not on the agenda today however Elizabeth May just tweeted that they are voting on it now and that the Conservatives are ramming it through. Guess we wait to see what happens next. 137 Yays, 177 Nays

People who don't know how to navigate traffic circles. C'mon folks, it's not brain surgery.

Tease welcomes unaccompanied women.

They hide the phone #, that is probably so no one sees this: http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/escort-service-hiring-18/1740405 The name of the agency is also hidden, Barely Legal is the name. But that term is usually blocked on most sites. they don't have a problem showing the number probably in the hiring ad. I do think that anyone promoting "Barely Legal' to be the agency name is a problem. You've got one seriously unhappy sp in this ad https://cityxguide.com/diamond-and-starr-18/ You also have an agency who has no problem using face pics for these new sps. I do not feel this agency has the best interests of these sps in mind. They are advertising for 18 to 21, petite build, and my guess is all the ads will say the sp is 18, barely legal, or new. Which will end up attracting some clientele who like to push boundaries.

This lady has the same phone number as Shaylynn. Two girls or the same? Different photos. Anyone know?

If you don't control who a woman has sex with, you can't control whose children she ends up having. And without that, apparently it is just chaos out there :) Sex is still used as a weapon of war. Girls are still thrown out or killed if they have sex before their assigned marriages. Girls are still mutilated in order to ensure they are not capable of enjoying sex, because apparently they are so controlled by this that they will do crazy things in order to have sex with multiple partners. The mutilation, fear of death, ostracizing, keeps them in line, so, again, we can all know who's the baby's daddy.

Meh. Twitter is what it is. It's sexy, it's fun, it's funny and informative. I've met some AMAZING people there and had as much fun as 140 characters can allow. So use it how you will, enjoy it as you might, and let others do the same.

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