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I am picking this up from where Taloon felt that he had to leave off and I hope that this will work out for all. On June 22nd in downtown Halifax there will be a meet and greet or informal social. It will be held in a public location where we will be able to grab a bite to eat or have a drink. For this first ever gathering lets keep it simple and straightforward. I do hope that there will be a roughly equal mix of both men and women. I do not want to put any restrictions on this other than the obvious. Although this is not in any way a Cerb sponsored get together, please keep the following points in mind. * I would like to restrict it to Cerb members who are in good standing on the board. *We all know the underlying purpose of Cerb, however, as this will be in a public location I ask that there be no solicitation in any way by anyone, male or female. I would like us to be seen by the innocent bystander as simply a group of friends getting together for a few hours at a nice place at the end of the workweek. * No dress code stipulated other than that which suits the surroundings and suits the way that we wish to appear as a group of friends or co-workers. I am going to say 6 PM as a start time, and it can go as long or as short as anyone wishes to stay. For those who wish to attend you can notify me by PM. A day or two prior to the gathering I shall let you know the location. Any other tiny details can be worked out, but if you are able to stop in and meet some new or old friends in this context, then please let me know.

Excellent post, Angela! I would like to add that when a gentleman is looking to meet with a new lady but doesn't have reference(s) available, all the gentleman has to do is be upfront about it and most of us will work with him and offer him alternatives in order to compensate for his lack of reference(s). Additional comments: Gentlemen, please keep in mind that offering false references in hopes that we will not verify the information is definitely not the way to go...

Not all ladies require references, but it's wise to be prepared for those who may request them or state on their ads or websites that it's a requirement. Make sure before providing a reference that: you have her permission to do you give her the heads up that a particular lady may be contacting them the lady you're giving the reference to has the other lady's correct email address If you're a newbie and don't have a references, there are some of us who do accept appointments from first timers (most of us just require a valid callback number and decide by "tone" of your request). Bottom line - always respect a lady's booking requirements, whatever they may be.

I have been away for a few days but today's pick for me is Penelope Davis http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 I don't really know her but her online persona is so very sweet! Beautiful!!!

I watched it last night too..it pisses me off that so many shows portrait us the same way. Criminal minds is another..2 of my favorite shows. I wish they could see what they are doing to us. Then again there are places like that I guess. I miss Charlie from 2 and a half men.. lol At least he respected us..lol

Give the raccoons thier little share of corn and they will be happy! You can't out smart a raccoon mrrnice2. :biggrin:

She beat me to it, and I was worried that nominating her in turn would just look like mutual masturbation. But then I realised that CERB is not a place where mutual masturbation is frowned upon. So here she is, my Gorgeous Goddess of the day: Nathalie Lefebvre! She is beautiful, philosophical, genuine and inspires instant admiration. Her positive energy and natural warmth are wonderful to be around. The gentlemen have some nice things to say about her, too: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53274&highlight=nathalie+lefebvre Cheers, Nat! xoxo

I agree completely about Taloon being there and I hope that he will attend! I am awaiting a PM back from him and I will be starting an entirely new thread and I shall post it later on this evening.

Lucky Me! I decided to see a lady who is not on CERB yet and what a great morning today was!!! I saw ads on BP (and now EC) from a new lady, Sydra Rainhart. We been e-mailing each other for a while and arrange a meeting for this morning.!!! Sydra has an addictive personality that makes you wanting to come back over and over. The pictures on her website are very accurate. She has a very athletic body and a gorgeous smile that makes you feel at ease. Soon as I arrived at her in-call location, I felt like a young kid going on a first date! She sure found the way to make me feel welcome. No sooner was the door closed, that she had her arms around me and was giving me the most passionate DFK. She is such a wonderful kisser, its making it hard to concentrate on writing about it. We proceeded to the couch and had a stimulating conversation about current affairs, taking pauses for more kissing and to let my hands explore her wonderful body. Her skin is so smooth and warm, it was a perfect feeling for my hands on a cool day. Sydra is well verse on a multitude of subjects that we could have carried out a conversation forever. However, as my hands were starting to remove her clothes, it was time to move on to more pleasurable activities, and therefore we proceeded to the bedroom. Once besides the bed we carried on with more DFKs and getting rid of most excess clothing. Moved on the bed and I proceeded to kiss her all over and finish getting rid of her few remaining clothes. Ah sorry but that's about it for the glory details. For one thing, as often discuss, the experience differs between people, depending on chemistry and so on. So I prefer keeping the details of my experience with Sydra between her and I. However I will say she is very responsive to oral stimulation, and she can reciprocate extremely well. She does enjoy multiple positions and we share the same favorite. Her services compare with those of top notch Sps. Sydra is an amazing lady who's outstanding personality makes time go by so quickly , that you will want to come back and stay longer. She is a great addition to the gorgeous quality ladies to see in Ottawa. She plans to be in Ottawa a few days a week. I certainly look forward to seeing her again, many times, as she is a classy, eloquent and fantastic woman. Thanks Sydra for a memorable visit!!!

Carrie, Happy Birthday! I hope you have a wonderful day! May it be as beautiful and lovely as you are. You are a true Wonder Woman! Enjoy your day! : )

this Princess definetly made it a "fairy tale" and by that i mean one for the record books !! She has a natural beauty and i found her even more attractive than her pictures, she is very friendly and its like i had known her forever, she instantly puts you at ease.Her Fabulous lips and a really wicked frame had things moving instantly and we wasted no time getting better aquainted i will not get into the heat of the visit but hot it was and she had me "available" twice during my visit and that is a rarity - and gentlemen that is what she is as well a rare but delicious treat !!!

You should do it, precisely to put that nasty business behind you. The current website will probably always remind you of it. And you'll feel so good when a new site is up, and you see all your creativity and phenomenal sensuality reflected in it!!! Porthos

I know that in my friends list there are ladies that, except through posts and pm's on CERB, I haven't met. But we are on each other's friends list, and if the stars a line right for me, I hopefully can meet them...but I digress It is probably, in my humble opinion, better for the ladies' safety to provide a requested reference prior to an encounter. A friend from a friends list could have been put on that list quite a few years ago, and it could be a person that you have not had personal contact with at all, just posts/pm's. It would probably be better to use verification with a lady providing a reference. My guess a lady would be happy (assuming she has seen a gentleman) providing a reference for a guy, to another lady...in the end it benefits everyone. My two cents RG

Then it defies the discretion, confidentiality and privacy concept we all try so hard to provide each of our gentlemen who wish to 'fly below the radar' (in a good date situation, that is).

What I do when there is a lady I want to meet is provide the following, in an email My name (real name) My handle and that I'm on CERB Phone number Email address I also provide the name of a lady who is going to be my reference. If I have yet to contact her, I tell the lady a reference is forthcoming, but I wish to contact her first and ask her permission (seems to be the courteous thing to do) I then after sending the email go into CERB and send a PM to confirm board handle. And if the lady has any questions for me, I happily answer them RG

I think it's a great idea but I don't know how it could be implemented properly. I don't think anything on someone's publicly viewable profile is appropriate including the "Friends list as a reference list" usage. If I understand ahead of time that a lady uses her friends list only for references then quite frankly I am likely not to see her or at least not accept her friends request. A publicly viewable list of her all her good clients has to be bad on multiple levels. I think a public directory that would be created by the common adoption of such a thing would be a privacy issue as it's nobody's business what ladies I choose to meet including the ladies I choose to meet except in the case of reference(s) I gladly offer if asked for. But even then I get to choose who to use as a reference. We already give up enough information of who has met who in writing recommendations which is clearly one of the reasons I don't write more of them. Additional comments: Just to clarify the privacy problem, consider the case of a lady in Toronto I have seen some 40 times. I have developed a valued "professional" friendship (and probably put her kids through college) and then for whatever reason (there are many) I choose to visit someone else on this trip (and use a reference from lady in another city to avoid just this problem) and she by what ever means finds out that I saw someone else in Toronto (as they are now recommending me as a great client) and I get an "I'm hurt, why didn't you call me if you were in town?" kind of message. As far as I'm concerned, absolute discretion is part of the arrangement. This kind of situation has already occurred (because the ladies were friends and talked to each other about me when they shouldn't have, IMHO) :)

Yes, everyone grieves in their own way, and needs the time and space to do so. It's hard to know how to proceed. But Sophia's advice is really sound. Angela, Your love and friendship will be a great source of strength, and he'll know it's there for him!

This is so sad Angela, There is almost no way to console such a thing, except to be there for your friend if he needs anything. Let him know you are there to help and to make anything you can easier for him while he and his friends try to recover from there loss. It is a hard place to be angela, but you are so compassionate, I am sure they will feel your love and support! xoxo

A very good friend of mine's best friend was killed when he rolled his jeep Tuesday evening. He's pretty choked up and I have no idea how to console him.

Peachy, perhaps this is a subject we could talk about in our private section at further length to establish some protocols and guidelines if the idea is of interest for the majority of the ladies. There is already an exisiting Cerb feature that is available to us: User Notes (2) I am taking Wrinkledintime's profile as an example since he was the last poster in this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=20826 The first box we see under his avatar contains: Send Message User Lists User Notes (0) and the user notes are only accessible by the ladies. Additional Comments: Most of us require at least one recent reference from another independent companion before a first time rendez-vous and the information is usually provided in the first e-mail contact by the gentleman. It's easy and it works very well. P411- screening service- https://www.preferred411.com/ also provides this reference option for members. It is free for the ladies to use and there is a small monthly fee for the gentlemen.

When building a fence a small wood splinter enters your eye, scratches your cornea and you require a trip to the ER. Now I know why I hate carpentry so much!

To our beautiful Carrie Moon, All together now.... Happy Birthday to you....Happy Birthday to you.....Happy Birthday Sweet carrie Moon..happy birthday to You...!!! And you know you will have many more!! XOXO

Happy birthday, the years sure don't seem to show.

Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces

Worked 36 hours straight due to thunderstorms....but just started a break and have 5 days off !!!! count em folks 5 days off ;) 5 days lol.... apparently this excites me ! Cheers :chug: What to do what to do ??? :roll:

Tragically Hip-38 Years Old RG

I just TOFTT this past weekend. Was fun. Massage was very erotic. No clock-watching. Not rushed. We accidentally went over the 30 mins and she did not even think to mention it or ask for extra - didn't even mind that I took a long shower before and after outside of the 30 mins. Lady was one of the most beautiful and physically fit MPs I have ever seen. I haven't been there in years. Went about 4 years back and had terrible service: rushed, dispassionate, mechanical, lazy, no deep tissue. Maybe it's changed?

Well, time to go back to someone who's been mentioned already, more than once... there's a reason for that! I refer, of course, to the incomparable Gabriella. What to say that hasn't been said already? Others have told you of her intelligence, and you can see for yourself how hot she is... but what I like most about her is that I've never met her without us ending up falling about laughing over something or other. There's a lot to be said for that :)

Walked without crutches for the first time in 4 months, what a treat.

I have picked up my guitar again after twelve years without doing so and am loving the peace and solitude that it brings as I rediscover it. I am a nervous traveller. I enjoy travelling in Canada more than anything and have little interest in going to foreign locations, due to my nervousness. I am retired. There is a lot to be said for stopping work while at the top of your game. I am told that my CERB name is well chosen, but there are a few times when I do not feel like mrrnice. Those occasions are rare. I love to drive. I think nothing of driving the 17 hours to see my daughter. One day I truly believe that I will awake and with sixty minutes of preparation be on the road for Vancouver. Yes, I would like to meet Samantha Evans again. I love trout fishing and can sit and watch my bobber not even move for hours and still be content. Sitting outside at the bonfire staring into the flames is a calming influence and leads to great conversations with myself. I am scared that I could be a pyromaniac. Many would I think feel that I lead a boring life. I have my large farm property, play in my flower gardens, work at my vegetable garden, bike on the trails, and go to bed early. I am widowed and am slowly becoming able to accept that. I have just today been approached by a friend who wants to set me up with a lady friend of hers for a coffee date. I said yes. CERB has been mostly a good thing for me, but not always. I just this spring gave away my first ever brand new car that I bought in 1976 for the outlandish price at the time of $5400. A 1976 MGB. Fire engine red. I love to camp and still use a little nylon dome tent and sleep on the ground. The Montreal Canadiens are my team. I loved the Expos and was distraught when they moved to Washington. I have opened myself to new life experiences that a year and a half ago I never would have considered. I believe that a friend is a friend is a friend. Hard times happen, but a friend stays that way. I would wear my shorts 365 days of the year if I could but I can dress up nicely. I have been told that shaving my head would look good on me. I may yet do so. Blue and green look pretty well the same to me. I absolutely adore intelligent women. It is an aphrodisiac for me. I do believe that to a certain point, age IS just a number. Its easier to look on the bright side than to look on the dark side. I read, and read a lot, but strictly and almost exclusively popular fiction.

My CERB Goddess Of The Day is a lady who has already been mentioned in the Goddess of the Day thread. I haven't met her...yet, but I certainly have noticed her, and that is Kyra Graves. A lady who makes positive contributions to to CERB. Always insightful and reflective posts. I enjoy reading what she writes. Here is Kyra's Profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=20352 What some gentlemen have to say about her http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=K&t=10403 A photo or two RG

I have been thinking on this and will be posting probably this evening information about a very simple meet and greet. If I end up simply having a drink by myself then so be it, but June 22nd there will be an opportunity for those who would like to get together to say hello over a glass of wine or a drink to do so in a public location. Details to follow, and they will be very simple. :) Sometimes simple works!

This isn't a poor me thread, or looking for sympathy or anything of that sort. But just a reminder for those who are in the situation I once was, that you have a choice, albeit a tough one. I was watching something on TV that just stuck with me all week. It was of this woman who was made to feel bad because she was upset with her partner's bad treatment of her. To clarify, he treated her bad, she got upset about it, he blamed her for making him feel bad because of her being upset. I'd love to say that this hasn't happened to me. Or someone I love dearly. But it happens, and it doesn't necessarily happen in a typical relationship. It can be between a parent and a child, supposed friends, and so on. In my case, I kept quiet about constantly being put down a fair bit, actually almost always. She got used to it, and when I started to speak up, things started to go downhill fast from there. She made feeble attempts to try better, moments that I'd place an incredible amount of importance while downplaying the elephant in the room. I made the decision, rather unconsciously to stop it all. I started to withdraw, and after one pretty uncalled for insult, I just gave up. It took me 4 years, and 2 months. The month after was one of the hardest and the most self consuming/unproductive of my life. I made the right decision, but felt terrible for doing so and thought about just going back. It took so much to not choose the easy option, except the thought in my mind that it would only be temporary. Some how, slowly, it got better. It's not perfect, and it hurts time to time, and I try not to think of her at all, good or bad moments. I guess my point for this thread is for the people here who ever find themselves being put down, and to some point it's been therapeutic to just say it (my family just knows I don't talk to her at all). From experience, no one who loves you will put you down. I made so many excuses in my mind that my relationship with her would get better, it never did, and if I stayed, I'm sure it never will. It is my suggestion that you don't look for answers from them as to why it went so bad, they are the reason. And most importantly, it may hurt in a manner that I can not describe when you do decide to call it quits. It will end, it will get better and your life will be better off without whoever that person is.

I was there this week! It was a fun exhibit. Some displays were broken mind you, and I kinda wanted to rewrite some of the information presented as it was very exclusionary of trans people. There was a game with what I found to be a questionable moral "Sleep with lots of people, and you'll all get HIV!" But on the other hand, as far as I know Ottawa hasn't had anything like this before, and I think that overall it acts as a friendly and approachable exploration of sexuality suitable for young people. Certainly not 'child pornography' or any of the other criticisms that folks who have never actually visited the exhibit have been slinging around. Sheesh.

sasha grey

I have been peaking at this thread from time to time since it was started... People, keep it simple and have a get together! Keep the same date and time and decide on a place to meet for a few drinks if the private room has already been canceled. I understand the need for privacy but at this point, just do what you have to and have fun! You'll just be meeting with new and 'old' friends! If some are not comfortable with the idea, they always have the option of not going. Quite simple if you ask me! There's also no need to collect money and have everything pre-planned; if you want to buy the ladies a drink(s) or order food/snacks then just do it when you feel like it. That's what we all do when we go to a lounge/bistro/restaurant bar, no? ;) Cheers! xox

It is with disappointment that I read of the cancellation of the social in June in Halifax. I have been following the conversation here on this thread from its inception and recognized the insecurities that were being expressed. Rightly and correctly, every person involved has to be aware of and have respect for discretion, confidentiality and personal comfort levels not only for themselves but for others. With the idea of a social being 'new' to the Maritime area those things appear to have caused concern and worry. Were these concerns justified? I do not know. I DO know that I had intended to go and that I was looking forward to meeting fellow Cerb members in a pleasant and purely social context. I have been busy and travelling for the past number of weeks and when I get home and think a bit, then perhaps I may suggest an alternative for June or for at some point in the early fall. For the moment however I will take all of this at face value and as I tend to do to I will look at the upsides. It is quite clear that there is interest in the idea and in most cases where there is a will there is a way. Therefore I am anticipating that this will happen in one form or another in the near future and in a very simple form. I want to thank Taloon for his valient attempt at trying to bring this idea to fruition, and I hope that the experience has not dampened his enthusiasm for being a contributing member of this amazing community. At the moment if my 'ticket' money can be used to offset expenses already committed to then please use it for that. If that is not necessary or required then Taloon please donate it to a women's shelter in Halifax. For the moment then, looking to a social in the not too distant future.

Wow ..... As one of the ladies who was willing to donate her time for this event I feel that I have a right to speak my mind on this topic I find it sad, that someone tried to show his credibility in a big way entering the cerb community as a new member offering to squash everyones doubts and concerns as they arrised was simply told to give up because of a few select opinions. I'm sorry but to thr lady who offered to help and than gave her opinion to shut it down, you as a new member for some reason your advice is being given more credibility than taloon? I just feel Ir people weren't comfortable in the event don't go and don't try to ruin it for everyone else. What started out as an event that was supposed to be a fun, event for mature adults of cerb turned into something that had way too much drama from people who should've just said they didn't want to go if they had an issue. Anyways yall can come over to my island and have a nice lil shin dig but only good times and good spirits please ;) Xoxoxoxo Aubrey

Best wishes to Cato on his birthday. May this day be memorable and may this year be full of joy for a Cerb member who represents the best of Cerb: a wealth of recommendations for the ladies, many interesting posts as well as being the lifeforce behind quite a few social groups. Sincerely, toine

for me : I prefer independents. I have a good reason: i missed being caught in a raid many years back - i left the establishment 20 minutes before the raid. If I would have been there - even just sitting in the lobby of the establishment I would have been charged. r100rs

I will reiterate what I said in the above post because it's happening to me again. Please don't send me a PM and a text asking for a specific time a couple of days in advance and then you don't respond back by text or PM when I need to confirm for the next day. If I don't hear back from you with an "Okay, I'll call you on this day an hour before we meet", there is no appointment. I'm not going to chase anyone down nor am I going to call anyone without their permission if they don't have the courtesy to reply back which takes only a minute or two. I have better things to do with my time.