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Carrie Moon is a nominne for the following category: Favourite service provider/escort/massage worker @ the The Naked Truth Adult Entertainment Awards 2012 click here to read about it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=94529 Click here to visit her profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=15702 Congrats to you sexy lady !!!!!!! A very well deserved nomination!!! :)

I'm pretty sure most ladies on this site will respond the same way I'm going to: as long as you're clean and respectful, size does not matter! I've been with people big and small, short and tall, and pretty much every size/race/religion/age. The only experiences I did not enjoy were with the rude/dirty people. Plus, a curvy woman is great - nothing feels better than running your hands over a nice, soft curve. Yum. I think many people feel the same way - if they didn't, I myself wouldn't be successful in this business ;)

When each of us attain perfection we will have moved on to the next dimension. Then there will be no worry of time, space or even size. So relax and just look for someone you feel comfortable with. Be assurred your size will in no way inhibit a quality lady from enjoying herself with you.

Unfortunately there are still racist people out there. I for one have been told I am too "ethnic" or when I have had an add in the paper, upon asking if I am white and I reply no, have been hung up on or a hasty "ok thanks" click. I'm not knocking people who prefer Caucasian ladies, but they don't have to be rude to me. As far as it "being all in your head" being treated different as a minority, it's not.Unfortunately some people are still stuck in 1950 lol. The fact is, some people are still very close minded and still believe us beige/brown/red/yellow/black people are inferior to them.However, the best advice I got on this issue was from one of my professors in school a few years back. She said" You have to accept your skin is a different colour, and some people, no matter how nice, smart, funny or kind you are to them will never get past the fact you look different. You can't please everyone. So make yourself happy in knowing you're a wonderful person." That always stuck with me. I am mixed race, and I am from a place where it's VERY interracial. I judge people on how they treat me not the colour of their skin or circumstances.I don't care if you're plaid, as long as you're good to me I'll return the favour :) Even though I have had bad treatment in my life, i know that it is their issue because they close minded, and I am a beautiful person and it's their loss not mine. There's alot of wonderful people in this world who care for me and see my differences as an asset, not a reliability or a fault. So to answer your question, yes my views have changed since I entered this wonderful world, I never knew people could be so judgemental and cruel based on my skin and the way I look, but then on the other side of the coin I have never met so many wonderful people who are fascinated by our cultural differences and treat me like a rare exotic gem they are entranced by. It feels so good to be me!!!

So I decided to go for a little swim in the river today, on an off day from work, and well the best way to describe it would be refreshing....refreshingly cold that is. If I had a camera with me I could have probably posted a picture of my nipple in the fripple thread, lol. And I wouldn't even need to photo shop it to get it too show up a nice shade of blue, lol. Anyway, the real reason I posted this thread is I found an american website that gives the water temp of the river and the great lakes. http://www.ndbc.noaa.gov/station_page.php?station=alxn6 You can use the map to change the location to the one you want to check out. It also does the water temp of a number of other lakes and rivers in the states as well, but unfortunately not Canada. Still looking for a good site for that. Anyway, it's worth a look for those curious on water temp. And FYI the river was 16.7 C (62.1 F)

As women, I think it is a natural feeling to find something about ourselves that makes us self conscious. Also, as women, it is natural to find something appealing about almost anyone. Physical attributes are not what attract me to someone. I love men and women who are fun, take life for what it is and are willing to explore what turns them on! To me, there are no physical aspects of a woman that turn me off. Women are beautiful creatures no matter what! (unless you are a bitch LOL) Find someone who appeals to you and take it from there. I think you will be pleasantly surprised!

Again read What Angela and Boomer has to say about the reasoning behind this. I for one appreciate the diligence of Mrnice in maintaining comfort zones for all attendees. You have to see, trust is an issue for all concerned. It is not that you have done anything in particular wrong to the board, but we just would like to more about the people we are exposing ourselves to. Simply by posting or writing rec's, communicating back and forth with other's allows us to have a glimpse of your character. For all we know, you could be a loud/foul mouth, or violent when drinking, or a pimp looking for new talent.. Who knows?? We are simply protecting the integrity of our lifestyle, and safety with information we may share while there! This is a way for members to get to meet and greet those people whom we have conversed with( Even for the girls to get to know each other as colleagues too). Not necessarily to meet new clients. This is not a solicitation event, or a advertising venue. Just like the fitness commercial in the 80's says..." All you need is participation!"

I speak from SP side of things. Yes there are times when we cant respond. If family is visiting, or just after a tour. Some SP have a career outside of this as well. One friend of mine can only log on a few times a month, so she misses alot:( So If she is a full time SP, then giver her at least 4-5 days to respond, perhaps sending another inquiry within that time period. But after a week I would seek another and keep her in mind for next time. For me, I get really annoyed if I am not answering my phone, and the client wont give up calling every 15 min for 1-2 hours!! I more than likely will answer the phone with a stern and bit rude..." HELLO!" then ask why they would keep calling like a mad man. Sometimes I answer the phone just after getting back from a tour, and I get a hasty..." where the hell were you, I have been calling for a week! You are a hard girl to get a hold of!!" Sorry, but if I am in Ontario, why would I answer my phone with a NB number? I cant do anything for ya long distance. I dont like to be barked at for not being available to you every time you call. So If I dont answer the phone, then I must either not be accepting appt, or out of town, or real life needs my attention.These people usually wont get a booking with me, as I feel they may be too demanding of me. I always will respond to email within a week however:)

Ah, anticipation. 'Tis a wonderful thing. But who am I anticipating meeting right now? Well, truth be told... no one, because I have no plans at present. I was anticipating meeting someone yesterday, even though (especially because?) I'd met her before... but I have now, and so I'm not any more. And so now the process begins again. Who would I like to see next? A MA, or would FS hit the spot this time? Or maybe an evening in the kid-in-a-candy-store environment of a SC, picking and choosing whatever delights take my fancy at the time? Should I meet someone new, or reconnect with someone I've seen before? The anticipation is always there; it's always different, depending on which whims I choose to satisfy this time around, but it's always sweet... But for now... just the anticipation of the choice is fun. I could choose anything... and having chosen, that bubble bursts, to be replaced by the anticipation of the delights to come. Whether it be the pleasure of seeing a friend again and the happy memories of our last meeting, or the pure anticipation of finally putting a face to a name that I already know. I still don't know what to do. But I know I'm going to enjoy it.

Well there are magazines which we might be cover material for LOL Seriously, Phaedrus is right, we aren't the cover of Gentleman's Quarterly But we are gentlemen and treat the ladies with respect. That's what's important. The ladies are professional paid companions, and we their clients. As long as that is remembered, and that this isn't a dating site, you'll do fine RG

Honestly? Believe it or not, not all of us guys who see SPs are magazine-cover material ourselves. Crazy, isn't it? And yet the lovely ladies of CERB see us anyway...

If you like BBQ, especially chicken and ribs, than you should check out the International Chicken & Rib cook-off at the sparks street mall June 20-24. They have ribbers from Canada and the U.S. come in to compete for the best ribs, chicken, and sauce. If you like chicken and ribs but have never been to a ribfest it is definitely a must. I've tried ribs in a lot of different restaurants and very very few come close to these guys ribs. Pulled pork is also really good. And even if you don't go for the food sparks street mall in the summer is pretty nice. On a side note Brockville has a ribfest each summer in august, for big brothers and sisters, and most of the same guys that go to sparks street come here. So you have two, well actually three cause there is a ribfest in Kemptville this weekend. I guess I should probably admit here that I'm a rib-aholic, lol. When there done right ribs really are hard to beat :)

June 13th, 2012 The Fat Bastard's BBM experience By Gabriella Laurence SOLO E.A.G.L.E Entertainment Ottawa- Acclaimed number one agency of 2011, Fat Bastards BBM have decided to expand their upscale resort due to the growing demand for their unsurpassed services. A few months ago, the owners finally agreed to hire the extreme cleaning specialist and certified professional organizer Miss Kelly from Hoarders in order to help them clean up the unused and most cluttered part of their resort. ...... Following a few long months of non-stop hard work from the whole Hoarders' team and a lot of beer drinking on the owners' part, the new section of the resort will be completely ready to accommodate their first guests by next week. In order to promote the most luxurious section of their upscale resort, Fat Bastards BBM has created a distinctive Grand Opening package for his most discerning female clients who wish to spend a few relaxing days at the resort: - 2 night accommodations in one of the finest grounded air planes which was recovered years ago at a crash site with a complete outdoor ensuite bathroom that includes his and hers toilet and a rare old fashioned rusted bathtub from the 1890s. Your choice of two male companions during your entire stay along with a 2 day/3 nights cruise along the coast of the pacific BMM backyard lake. ...... Package bonus: during your stay onboard, avid golfers will also be able to stop and enjoy a round of golf on one of the most impressive floating golf courses of the Ottawa region: Extra bonus feature: Homemade Jacuzzi hot tub and skinny dipping followed by an erotic massage and everything else your heart desires. No restrictions! For more information about Fat Bastard BBM (locations, transportation, services & rates) please call 1-800-hungry-for-you - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - All made possible by Miss Kelly from Hoarders

For your consideration I'd like to present three goddesses. One of these ladies I've been fortunate enough to meet. Two of them I hope to meet soon. First, the incomparable Goddess Katherine. What can be said about Katherine. Stunning, a body that most 20 years old would kill for, an irrepressible personality that simply can't help make you feel wonderful, and sessions that truly leave you feeling like a king. Meeting Katherine was one of the highlights of this past year. and a link to some of her many recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=30844&highlight=katherine Next I offer you Megforfun. I love Meg's posts, her pics are stunning, and to be totally frank, they leave me feeling very lustful. And of course, Meg's recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=M&t=18300 Finally, I nominate Julie Wilde, What can be said about Julie ... but WOW. A beautiful nymph, full of wit and wisdom and a look that is simply captivating. I love this picture of her, but I can tell from the glimpses we've received that her new album will be full of gorgeous shots and her recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=76768

Wow, you just don't want to let this go, do you? Since you've never attended a social before, perhaps as someone who has organized 6 of them in Ottawa I can enlighten you a bit as to our experience which the Halifax folks haven wisely taken into consideration. We had new members or those who never posted (and apparently had never seen anyone on cerb) show up at our socials to simply lurk and that kept others who were more active on the board and the community away. A lot of work goes into organizing these events and if it's not attended by members who are actually "hobbiests" and "sps", then there is no incentive for these members to take time out of their busy schedules to meet with people who simply want to gawk or cash in on free drinks (yes we had ladies posing as SPs who did this also). I am not in any way implying that all new members or even older members with no posts are necessarily lurkers only, but seeing how there is limited room, of course more seasoned members should be allowed first dibs. I don't see any reason for posting what you did except to try and stir the pot which is totally unnecessary and not in the spirit of the board. As Boomer reminds us, this is not a CERB-sponsored party. It is organized by cerb members for other cerb members at the discretion of the organizers. Simply having a cerb handle does not equal entitlement.

This is a rather offensive comment. The organizing for this has been going on for months so there's been plenty of time to comment. Taloon finally quit as organizer after a lot of hard work because some people questioned his commitment as a relatively new and inexperienced member. It took MN2 to pick up the pieces and organize what I expect will be a great first event for Halifax. You must remember that this is not CERB sponsored, but a private affair held in a public venue. At this point it is at capacity and not accepting new participants. I believe that after all the hard work MN2 has every right to put some reasonable rules around it so as to have a discrete and successful event (he has had the benefits of seeing the way the Ottawa ones evolved). It's really important if you want to have more of them in the future that it's a success. Those new guys commenting here will have a chance in the future.

Hi, I have started a few conversations with SPs, although still have to have my first experience. My main question, and I am asking for 100% honesty please :) is, what about tubbiness? I'm a big gal, part of my reason for not wanting to try to meet a woman in the club, I am really just looking for some experiences to fulfill some desires, but am otherwise fulfilled in my life (am married). I am attractive for sure, but being plus size, I wonder if that is a factor for the SPs, say maybe they are not attracted to the person but then they have to act like they are. Just something I was wondering should anyone wish to discuss. Again, I love all bodies and types (though am a breast woman) but know how looks are perceived in general society, and in fact, the double standard is out there that I am here trying to fulfill my fantasy/desires based, among other factors, on your beauty. Not sure it that made sense, but thank you for allowing me to ask. Jenn

I've debated starting this thread for months. Firstly when I left cerb last September, and more recently when I rejoined. I've heard some very, very outlandish rumours about why I left cerb, and retired from escorting last September. Which is why I chose to put this thread in the 'escort discussion' area. I've heard these rumours from people who heard them from people I've never met. And people who definitely should not be sharing my personal information. Especially personal information that isn't even true. So, I've finally decided to make it public. Here's the big reason I retired from escorting last year: I lost a friend. And two months later I lost another. And a few months after that, I lost another. Escorting is a business that requires a very, very large part of your emotions to be there. Massage does as well, but not to the same level. And I haven't been able to provide the connection escorting has required for quite a few months now. I did not retire because I was robbed. I was NOT robbed by a client or anyone to do with the business. I did get robbed, and shared that information with some SPs in private, and it is very sad that this information was not kept in private because it had nothing to do with work. I did not retire because my business was lacking, or because I couldn't afford a work apartment. I left because I wanted, when I went home at the end of the day, to be able to focus on my friends, and my life. Nothing scandalous. And it makes me very sad that I've continued to hear gossip and rumours about me and my life in the months since I made the change. We all share parts of ourselves with each other on a daily basis, both on this site, and in the work that we do. But here's a note to people to think that they have the right to pry, and butt in to the personal business of people who just want to be left alone: it hurts, it creates lies, and you're not helping anyone. I've grown tired of people telling me why they heard I've left, and I'm saddened that people think my life is something to be gossiped about. We all can get very personal in our discussions on this site, and in our sessions: but here's a tip that should be taken to heart by everyone: if it was told to you in private, that makes it private. Don't spread rumours about people, and don't break confidences. You're better than that. Everyone is. I am not posting this for anyone to offer condolences on the loss of my friends. I'm not posting this for people to offer sympathy or anger in any way, or to post stories about rumours they've heard. I simply decided that, after so many months of STILL being asked why I left, and still hearing rumours about my reasons, that I would share this. That's all. Thanks.

I'm going to disagree with you here. First, the issue of age and being a young person was brought up by you when you posted this thread I offered some advice (hopefully good) in answer to your question DukeSSK, Maverick and Rodehard also offered some advice. And five ladies replied, positively to you. (Peachy, Nicholette Vaughn, Meg For Fun, Angels Touch Massage and VIP Massage) I don't think any youth bashing was done. And as for the attitudes of young people, in all likelihood there have been encounters with young people who had a less than respectful attitude, it's unfortunate but it skews a person's perception My advice, be respectful, be up front with the lady about your age, and take it from there. A rambling RG

My guess any adult willing to have sex with someone underage doesn't care about whether the girl was coerced or not. Frankly those customers need to be strung up by the balls, they are as bad the alleged suspects in this case. As for being under age and driving a car. If coercing under age girls into prostitution doesn't bother them, driving under age won't bother them in the least And as has been said before, we don't know all the facts, there are very likely details the police haven't released...both from an investigative standpoint, and from this case still needs to go to trial As for the suspects being 15 year old girls, would people's opinion be harsher towards them if they were 15 year old boys? As for them being minors, our prisons are filled with criminals who got their start as young offenders, and continued on in their criminal lifestyle when they became adults. It's hard to fathom for most of us, some people just like the criminal lifestyle, and no amount of programs, interventions by social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists changes that Now all of what I said comes with the caveat we don't know all the facts, nor have they been convicted in a court of law RG

I am so sadden to hear this! To imagine with all that you had to deal with, you had to go threw such embarrassing conclusions!! I hope this friend had learned a lesson on what can happen when we do not respect privacy! It is a good thing that you are taking your power back, by discussing this openly, but yet should not be necessary either:( I have had my fair share of strange stories and conclusions about who I am and always am shocked how far some of it goes. It is not nice feeling to have to justify and validate things that are simply no one business! Hope you are feeling better now? For what it is worth, I never heard anything about these rumors, only hear good things!

Quite the opposite....I think that the overall theme is that youth need not equal disrespect. I have met some young men that are way more mature than some 50 somethings. Respect and attitude have no age limit and I base my perceptions on the way someone communicates over their physical age :)

"hotness" has nothing at all to do with age :)

I have been away for a bit so I have been remiss in adding my goddess of the day. Today I have 2. Ms SaraMQ http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=46948 Her charm, her charisma, her sense of humour have me seeking out her wisdom frequently! This pic makes me want to kiss a girl! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=2920&pictureid=18202 Nicolette Vaughn http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=4180 My beautiful, sexy, sweet duo partner. I can't keep my hand off of this little minx whenever we are together! How could I resist this? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=4983&pictureid=31872

It is still classified as treatment-resistant or antibiotic-resistant, not "untreatable" yet. This is a really good read: http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/article/2012/06/13/no-clapping-matter-antibiotic-resistant-gonorrhea-is-on-way-and-we-are-not-prepar

Thanks RG. I'm not worried about the verification process. I understand completely that the ladies have to take precautions for their safety. More than willing to jump through as many hoops as I need to. I guess I'm just getting a little over-excited. I've been looking for this for quite some time and I do have my heart set on this particular girl. I'd just hate to have it fall apart over a missed email!

>Honestly? Believe it or not, not all of us guys who see SPs are magazine-cover material ourselves. Crazy, isn't it? >And yet the lovely ladies of CERB see us anyway... I'm model material for round things... A model blimp. Round is a shape (And I work out every day to maintain that fine roundness :-). One of the things I enjoy about this hobby is how warm and affectionate the girls have been with me. I'm a gentleman with the ladies, and they respond with real warmth. I love it when a girl I've been with before, recognizes me and burst into a big smile.

You can check for Lou Simone. She is from Montreal and I think she is on cerb as well.

Congrats, Jhena!

And here I was, about to suggest the bloody Art Gallery !!!! :confused0024: Additional Comments: @RG ..... Yup!!!

My CERB Goddess Of The Day today is Katherine. A very beautiful, sexy, and fit lady who makes a positive contribution to CERB. When she writes a post, I read it. Hopefully our paths will cross so we can meet in person Katherine's Profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=29603 What some gentlemen think of Katherine http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=K&t=30844 A picture of Katherine ok, two RG

Way to go and keep 'em comin!

Impressive participation! Congrats, Jhena.

Congratulations Beautiful Jhena, it's always a pleasure reading your posts. Keep the number counting climbing Beautiful!! Big Hugs, Lexy

I saw Luxie tonight for the first time, at her downtown apartment, and agree with all the glowing reviews of her. She is a smart, sexy, skilled woman. One thing to note though, for those looking at her earliest pictures compared to her current ones she is much thinner as shown in her current ones, she could seriously be a model with her current body type, but she still has great breasts for those of us who are fans. Fantastic kisser, great body, awesome setting with candles and smooth music, she wore sexy stockings as I requested, not a clock watcher (we actually went overtime for shot number two and when I mentioned the time she said something along the lines of: don't worry, just enjoy, which we both did) :). Note that she provides a safe GFE so the BJ is covered, but I had no complaints, it's actually my preference. Everything else you would expect was on the table, but YMMV of course. She's a fun person to hang around with before, during, and after, everything you could ask for in a great courtesan. So while I only partake in the hobby a few times a year, I will definitely repeat with Luxie.

Another piece of advice and this goes for all the young men out there.. don't ever tell an SP you're a hot 20 something. I have guys tell me this all the time. This means nothing to me. As long as you are polite to me, respectful and clean, you could look like Bubbles the Clown or a hot stud and you would still be equally treated the same way. When guys say this, there is an alterior motive present and that is that I might find them so enticing that I will make an exception and lower my rate. Sorry not going to happen.lol.

Congrats to you Pete on this. I have enjoyed reading what you write and appreciate all that you have shared with us.

I respectfully dissent from the majority position. However despicable the alleged actions are, we are talking about minors. And they are not bordeline adults aged 17, but 15 year old. Minors are not considered adults in Canadian society, for good reasons. For example, they cannot vote because they are generally considered not to have attained the required intellectual maturity. If their alleged actions are proven in a court of law, they deserve to be punished. But they also deserve an opportunity to rehabilitate, and juvenile courts and detention centres will provide a better opportunity to do that. The victims and society would likely not be well served by their being judged and sentenced as adults. For one thing, it would have no deterrence impact on other immature kids tempted to act in a similar fashion as, again, they would likely not have the cognitive capacity to integrate such facts in their choice of action. Best, toine

Happy 5 years :) From all your lovely ladies xxx

Congrats Pete! :) Kerri xo

I really need to express the deep feeling of complete respect and admiration to the Gentlemen of CERB!! Each one of you who participate on this board just know exactly how to make a girl feel like a princess! You all make a lady feel so appreciated and welcomed here:) You are here for us when we need advice. When we need to laugh. When need to be assured about our way of life! You never make us feel dirty, or under-appreciated. Never have I been treated like a commodity with my CERB lovers. From my HEART I want to say Thank You! Ladies lets give a hand to the fine Gentlemen who make our days easier, with laughter, support, and genuin respect!!! Ladies, Please feel free to give thanks to your special loved peeps from CERB! WIT Cato RG Hockey Spud Porthos Liquor Scottthecunuck LeeRichards Rowdy 1963Kennedy Tokan Dameltanin096 Cometman Steveyk Ohhh my I could go on and on, but thanks to all of you for being there for me when I needed you!

I don't understand discrimination, but I have been through the consequences of it. As a white girl who lived in an aborginal area I was beat up frequently. I never understood it. As a gay female who has lost many friends when I came out... I don't understand it. I don't get it how someone can immediately judge a person as a whole because of skin colour, gender, orientation, etc. I've always accepted people into my life because I thought that everyone has something to give and learn from. To just cut someone off because you were born a different colour, background, orientation, etc just seems so odd to me. It's too bad that there are people out there who believe that they are right in discriminating against someone. People are people... we are all the same on the inside and that's what people should be focusing on. I feel sorry for anyone who is so closed minded that they can't open up their lives to someone who is diffeent from them. Look at all they are missing!!

Just wanted to congratulate WrinkledinTime for achieving over 100,000 reputation points. Clearly a well deserved and extraordinary milestone and a CERB first! Yes, it true -- If you go to the main page under Top 10 Stats and select reputations it shows an amazing 100,259 at the time of this writing. CERB members come and go, some are a staple and continue to participate. With WIT I have come to rely on his many posts for keeping me informed on news affecting this industry but all his posts are most insightful, helpful and appreciated. Please join me in congratulating him! Oh, and as a bit unusual (as anyone that really knows me knows I am), I call on lurkers that might not have posted before to join me. Make your first post here count by congratulating someone who truly deserves our praise, respect and admiration for his contributions to this wonderful community, I dare you! Maybe you have been reading his wonderful posts for years but are not the type to post here? Than I ask you to at least say "thanks" :) Sincerest congratulations WrinkledinTime, I am glad you are around and hope you will be here forever!

Exactly my point. Kissing, digits, and daty do not involve my interaction with semen, so the risk of catching an std from those three are minimal to none, there has never been a reported case of women catching HIV from DATY, ever. There are, however, reported cases of women, and photos if anyone cares to google, of women with std's from bbbj. This is proven medical fact. The disease is in the semen. No semen, no HIV. Very simple. My point was this, very simply, if you will put an unprotected member into one hole in your body, why is it any different in another? Your body is all connected, one unit. You mouth and your cookie aren't separate, the all belong to one organism, you. That's like saying, "oh ill inject heroin into my arm, but not into my foot." It's all connected, so I'm just trying to understand the reasoning/logic behind this thought process, of why one orifice is "safe" but another is not. I used to get mad about girls who did bbbj when i first started, I used to blame them when clients would call me, book an appointment, we're all set to go, and then they ask " oh btw, you do do bbbj right?" My response, as many can attest to, is always "as my health and safety, as well as the health and safety of my clients is my #1 priority, I do not engage in any unprotected services." and some would cancel on me. I do not hide that I'm a safe gfe, it's on my website in black and white. Some really respect me because of this. I had more than a few they tell me they're terrified of bringing something home, and I'm one of the few they can truly relax with, my business practices put their mind at ease. Some don't care either way. Others cancel on me. Why do I say all this? Because my perception has changed over the last my few years in my time in this industry. I realized getting mad at the ladies who do BBBJ is irrelevant, it will not change the fact that ladies will still offer it, and men will still ask for it. If you want to take risks like that, that your perogative. Just as I no longer get upset at the ladies who BBFS. There was at time when bbbj was taboo, someone told me they got in trouble working for an agency for a letting a guy cum on her chest. Now, fast forward 10 years, BBBJ is now the norm. In the U.S. SAFE GFE is norm, as well as Australia. Why did it change here? Because the ladies offer it, quite simply. If ladies didn't offer it, then no one could buy it. I remember one lady said "Back in the 90's, no guys had problem cumming with a condom on." Somewhere along the line, someone started offering, more guys asked for it, more ladies offered it. Us safe gfe's are few and far between, I am one of the last of a dying breed. So I wonder, why should BBFS be any different? Now, someone offers it, so now it's being purchased.I don't understand how can you get upset at guys for asking for BBFS when BBBJ's are the norm. It's just a natural progression. I think the logic is "if she does it unprotected in one orifice, she might let me in another." Dangerous logic, but logic none the less. For the sp, the risk factors for both are pretty high, you are the receiver of ejaculatory fluids, no matter which orrifice you get it in.The roads may be different, but they all lead to the same place. Being angry is pointless. I'm not knocking anyone's business practice, like i stated it's your body your choice. I honestly don't care what another lady does, its her life she can with it as she pleases. My point is, you can't get mad at guys asking for BBFS or ladies providing it anymore than us SAFE GFE's can get mad at ladies for providing BBBJ's. If we want to change guys asking for BBFS, the only way to do so is to stop the ladies that offer it, much like the only way to stop people from asking for bBBJ's is to stop offering them.Good luck with that. The ladies in countries like Cambodia do BBFS, so people ask for it and it's rampant. However, in countries like australia where SAFE GFE is the norm, unprotected services are frowned upon, and the ladies that do offer it (much like the ladies who offer BBFS here) are shunned. Whats the difference? The ladies in Cambodia are willing to do BBFS, the ladies in Australia are not. So really at the end of the day, what is asked of us by our client base is a direct reflection of what we are willing to offer. So we cannot get mad a them, the guys asking or the sp's that provide. We as sp's are the ones to blame.

Want to thank all of you who have forwarded their positive thoughts, reco's on food, and prayers for me. It is greatly appreciated. Had my first "dose" (no really, not that dose, the other dose) this morning. Other than generally yucky, hanging in and hosting a golf tourney for autism research tomorrow and one supporting military families on Saturday. Plugging on! Thanx again TL

There is a time and a place for paying those kind of compliments and costco is just not one of them. You did well to resist the urge. Smiles from strangers are appreciated by most women, I believe. But lewd remarks from strangers walking up to you out of nowhere are generally not popular. It is pretty objectifying. You probably wouldn't make a girl feel complimented, but rather dehumanised. Appreciate her quietly -- we all look and there's nothing wrong with that. But don't walk up to a woman and make any remarks about her body. How is she supposed to respond to a comment like that? She knows, and she's probably happy you enjoy how she looks. But she doesn't want to hear your opinion of her ass while she's going about her day.

I salute all the gentlemen mentioned here, you guys are great like brothers from another mother. Thank you Sophia for starting this thread, hugs and kisses we love you and all the ladies of CERB.

I love how this applies not only to CERB, but life more generally. It only takes a moment to make a difference in someone's life. A passing hello, a "how are you?", a "do you need help carrying your groceries?". Sometimes it's recognizing a person's vulnerability, or giving them back their dignity when someone is being disrespectful. It's those little moments that are so important, and they are apparent on CERB (and in our lives) everyday. When we're rushed we have a tendency to forget how a moment can change someone's life. We're so impatient as a society, and I try as best as I can to take my time and be mindful of those around me.

I visit strip clubs once in a while (in great company- not alone lol) and Chez Parée is my favorite; the ladies are gorgeous, friendly and there is always a large number of them at the club on pretty much any given night ;) http://en.chezparee.ca/ 1258 Stanley Street- downtown

I grew up in small town Ontario.. white as white can be... and when I moved to bigger and bigger cities started encountering other races and colors. I have never been brought up to be racist and I believe that shapes who you are as far as your beliefs are concerned. As an sp.. no different. I don't discriminate on color, size or shape. So long as you're respectful and courteous and your money is green (or brown, or blue, or purple. etc) you're welcome to book me.