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Those clubs are actually illegal in Canada now afaik. The brothels in Australia, and New Zealand could give you that now, until or unless the bawdy house law gets fully overturned. By the minute was invented, in my opinion, on review forums driven by clients. In the past, rates were set by services, not by time. The time would be up to the hour, but in general, you paid one amount for a hj, another for a bj, and another for FS. There was no GFE, ever, most understood the risks of risky services. If your hj was taking too long, the sp would need more $$, and the same for bj or FS lol Oh, and normally you got a nice massage/rub beforehand. But the guys would say that the sp tells them it is supposed to be an hour or half hour, but they didn't get that, and slowly but surely now we are all 'on the clock', and the time is more important than the service to a certain extent. time/rate combo that is. I think to be honest in the past that the times quoted were actually code for the service. Like she would say 200 for a half hour and 300 for an hour, but what she meant was 200 for a bj and 300 for FS. Time had nothing to do with it. It is similar to the old asian joke of "love you long time", well it goes along with 'love you short time'. One is FS and the other is a bj. In the past you didn't discuss rates for services in details on the phone, and there weren't any advertising venues that allowed for it either. People are so spoiled now, they don't even want to talk on the phone, they want everything in text or email and spoonfed the information about rates/services and details lol.

If you don't want to be asked for a dance then don't go. Not trying to be rude, but that is how the ladies make their money so of course they are going to try and get some customers. If you go to a furniture store a sales person is going to approach you and ask you if you need help, they work on commission so of course they are going to try and drum up some business. I have sat at the stage and have had ladies come over to me and ask me if I want a dance. Honestly I would rather they don't approach me but I expect it and I respectfully decline if it is a lady I am not interested in. From what I know, and it is very little, the ladies are paid little for their stage dances, they make their money from private dances so expect to be asked.

I don't discuss clients with other clients, period. I consider that to be a violation of confidentiality and of my own privacy. When someone asks me about interactions I've had with others, it's easy to turn that around and delve into it a little bit from the other person's perspective. Most of the time they have a fantasy about what I do or may do and that's what they're really trying to explore. I'm happy to do that, at length. But I never turn to a client for any kind of support about a personal problem. Boundaries are important. Having said that, as I reported last year, and roamingguy noted, above, I went to the police a year ago about someone who was stalking me. It was a very good experience and not only would I recommend others do the same thing, I would do it again if I needed to. Expect to be taken seriously not only because anyone who is being harassed deserves to be respected but also because, for obvious reasons, prostitutes rarely approach the police to ask for any kind of help. The officer I worked with automatically took me seriously because she figured that I deal with a wide variety of men on a regular basis and that sometimes they don't behave as well as one might hope. That I would raise a complaint is important. The police asked whether I preferred for them to go to his house or to call him into the police station. I thought that seeing him at home might be more effective, and so that's what they did. He lives in an RCMP jurisdiction. A Vancouver city police car in his driveway was noticeable. The police gave him a letter outlining what had happened, the information they had about him and my clear, repeated statements to him asking him to have no further contact with me. They required him to sign a statement undertaking not to contact me or anyone associated with me again for any reason. If he were to breach that agreement, he understood that he would immediately be arrested and the case would go to trial. At the same time, they put me on a special "watch" list so that if they received a 911 call from my address or phone number they would be alerted immediately that I had already made a complaint of criminal harassment. They would arrive prepared to deal with a situation that could conceivably have escalated significantly. I'm happy with the outcome.

She should tell him politely that she thinks there are other fish in the sea for both of them, and that she has no interest in seeing him or continuing to communicate with him further. Then ignore him. He'll eventually go away. Unless he is threatening her, I don't know why she should be afraid of him. I presume the OP is also a customer? If so, I wonder why she's bringing this to him? Looks like drama to me.

Would you pay double her rate if it's her birthday? Didn't think so. ;)

Seriously, some women feel so insecure about the way their vulvas look that they get plastic surgery (labiaplasty). When I got my copy of the book, I basically showed everyone who came over and made them try to guess which one was mine. Haha.

I watched a documentary not long ago about the making of the book, interviews with some of the models and the reasons for the project. As a guy who truly thinks all womens vulva,s are unique and beautiful in their own ways i was amazed to find out that most women felt so insecure about their "look" I found the doc highly educational and i believe it helped me to better understand some of my partners "shyness" with exposing their genitalia under the Lights so to speak. My appreciation for that Beautiful flower only increased and i think any women who is shy about her look should definitely puruse those pages.

Christine, - FWIW, I'd rather you have the orgasms, being shown to the door is nice but not necessary :)

I had and have no issues with Lee's services and advertisement at all. It was the other assumptions had myself wondering why guys would think that those types of services would be honored or offered (competition?) with other MA's and SPA's. I'm not commenting further on this.

It's called GFE (girlfriend experience) because you are seeing a companion who interacts with you the way ideally a girlfriend should. I don't think anyone would consider sex by the minute, or better put the 30 minute encounter a GFE, it is a service for one purpose, to relieve sexual urges. And there is a market for it or it wouldn't be offered. But a GFE is much different. And it involves much more than sex IMHO. Personally, and just me, but seeing a lady just for relief of sexual urges would be an empty experience, but seeing a lady who provides a GFE, well it is an escape and indulgence of a few hours, with special ladies. And that isn't an empty experience, but a experience which is memorable and a fond memory too And in my experience the GFE has turned out to be far superior to any experience I've had with any real girlfriend My ex-girlfriend(s) it's true never checked their watch. They would go off shopping, promise to be back in half hour, and two to three hours later they would be back. Yup, never checked their watch once, or cared (why do women like shopping so much LOL) But god forbid if I would ever do that to them, I'd never hear the end of it It's a GFE because the lady is the man's ideal version of what a girlfriend should be. It involves, not just sex, but all aspects of companionship, without the drama or strings attached like a relationship And it has for me lasted the entire time I've requested with a lady, never had an issue with clock watchers etc. But you do have to pay the lady's donation to get a GFE, and don't expect the clock to keep running My experiences have been positive, I like the GFE's I've experienced and will continue to experience in this lifestyle. And the connections I've made with ladies in this lifestyle are real and memorable. The ladies are much much much more than simple providers of sex, they are companions in the true sense of the word. And it's been far superior to any girlfriend/dating experience I had...which is why I don't date anymore And one more quick thought, at least for me, an encounter with a lady providing a GFE seems to work best if you treat her like you are her boyfriend...that for the few hours you've got together, you treat the lady like she is someone special, your girlfriend. And in my experience that has been easy, the ladies I meet are special and treated with all the respect due a girlfriend RG

I will confirm the Jennie sighting at B's today! She even asked me if she could do the showcase dance for me!! Of course I refused.. NOT! -hehe Gotta luv her! -Alg

One trick that I sometimes use while waiting for a specific lady is to buy a glass of wine or a cheap drink and let it sit beside you. Most get the hint that you are waiting for someone to return. -Alg

I don't think they are paid anything for their stage dances. In fact they have to pay hefty fees to be allowed to work there (DJ fee, bar fee....). If they don't make money in the CR, then they are worse off after hours of work. That is why sometimes it is really hard to decline. even politely. My suggestion, take them for one dance if you are not very interested (and let them know beforehand that you want only one dance otherwise they may be offended) and save the 3 to 5 dances for those who you are really interested.

Jumping in here, I ran the picture from the ad through both Tineye and Google. Tineye returned no hits BUT Google turned up a few that were just too close to be a coincidence. Links are provided below. http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_h8ensOfhe3o/TSrzbb4KqqI/AAAAAAAAE9c/CmfqyxUXrY4/s1600/Ai%2BShinozaki%2Bjapan.jpg http://img594.imageshack.us/img594/7835/22494766348972916.jpg

During my last trip home I had to visit one of my favourite clothing stores there and fell in love with a dress, I found it in my size and was ready to buy it when I suddenly saw the tag which said 'DO NOT WASH' so it wasn't hand wash or dry clean only but a non-washable dress!! :confused0024:

I was attracted to Lee's latest Ad (re Tongue Massage) and decided to answer the call, so to speak. After arranging a time through texting, we finally got to meet. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=57472 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=369154#post369154 I gotta tell ya, Lee has the most engaging personality. She just doesn't expect your complete attention, she demands it! You better eat your wheaties boys 'cuz she's got some serious energy to lay down on you. I told her the kind of session I would like to share & she was very accommodating. Such a good soul this lady has. She is a Cape Bretoner thru-&-thru. Very welcoming, charming, made me feel at ease instantly. You couldn't meet a nicer person. We did just fine thank you. Go see her.:bigclap:

Looking at the medal standings and realizing that we now have more medals than Uzbekistan, Mongolia, Qatar, Azerbaijan, AND Moldova.

Why would that even come to mind? Competition? Or obligations? Two set of rules? No one can walk in a spa or even a Indy Ma and say well "so and so gives me a bj" regardless of what is said above in thread or the OP advertisement as a Indy. That I do not see or cannot see happening at all. I certainly do not see a MA lady offering that sort of service in a advertisement while working with a spa why would they compromise a situation?

Jumping on the scale and seeing it read lower than last time. This makes 15 pounds since April that I have lost.

Being TOLD that a tip would be appreciated.

Geting an unexpected phone call from someone very special and hearing some really nice words I needed to hear.

Having a highlight two days in a row. Today's highlight is noting on the CERB stats that posts to the "Highlights of the day" thread out-number the "Things that suck" thread by 20% (1199 vs. 990). That can only be a good thing, right?

I guess the fact that I can touch my own tongsils with my tongue does mean I have no gag reflex....thanks to everyone that recommend me:) I will be in Ottawa August 15-17th:)

I would agree with the foregoing replies about harassment and the police. The one thing I would suggest is that she saves all the emails she has received and maintain some sort of a log concerning his activities. When she does come to the conclusion that the police are the best option she will have the evidence that the cops can use to put the pressure on this guy. The other reason the police are a good bet is that they may already have some history on the guy and this may be the extra complaint that helps them get him. It's quite possible that he's hit on more than just you, so you are doing a good turn for any other of his victims.

Sorry I did not find one larger...

Just back from a hot session with Claire, now a stunning redhead. She was beautiful before, as a blonde, but wait till you see this transformation! Amazing!!! :)

You know you're getting old when you have lunch and start planning what to eat for supper (OMG, I'm turning into my parents).