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There is a section of the Criminal Code which deals with this.

You ask a worthy question zorobaby. These are the factors and experience that influence my decision when deciding to see a younger than 40 guest... 1. Unrealistic expectations of what the session will entail. Porn has skewed manys perceptions as to what is genuine sex and what is done strictly to feed a visual desire. For the younger set it seems to be about how many sog's they are going to get or they have a list of activities that need to be completed in order for them to feel they got their moneys worth. For me this approach is exhausting in the playroom, both mentally and physically and when they leave I often reflect that the money wasn't worth the energy spent for me. This trait is not exclusive to younger clients, just more prevalent. 2. Contact. Many younger men contact us with little to no respect shown for us as people. One line text and emails are an instant red flag as are the phone calls that start with "How much for a blow job?" without even introducing yourself. The civil niceties are seldom present and they do not have the awareness or understanding of what it takes to be a sex worker and that we are living, breathing human beings with feelings that need to be treated as such the same as everyone else. Their inherent attitudes of youth often mislable us as disposable or less than and that is unacceptable to us. 3. Money. If I had a nickle for every time I've heard "Is your pussy made of gold?" from a not yet grown man cub, I'd be rich. My prices aren't and never have been in the upper price range of this industry. I provide outstanding service and take pride and care in ensuring my guests are cared for above and beyond the industry norm but younger men don't understand the cost of doing business for us. Indulging in women is like any other hobby, it takes money and the younger they are the less saved pennies they have to spend on the intangibles unlike their older counterparts. All that said, I have some younger guests on my dance card who I absolutely adore. They are mature beyond their years and we are a good fit so it works. They contacted me with well articulated emails and engaged in an exchange with me that showed they were indeed the kind of client I enjoy. At that point, the age became a non issue. The younger providers often have personal reasons for staying away from their peers and that should be respected but most providers will make an exception if you approach them with the right attitude... cat

This thread is the perfect example why screening clients can never be overstated. S'all I have to say.

Legal or not, it's totally unethical!

Age is only a factor if you make it one in this industry. What is important is to find a provider that appeals to you on more than just a physical level. There are some very mature young ladies on here that take their work seriously and treat their clients with the same respect they receive. At your age, you already realize that great sex takes more than just a beautiful body, it takes passion, spirit and the intelligence to ensure all your needs are met. You've certainly come to the right place, just do your research and have fun... cat

Hi there, and welcome to our community;) As a younger provider, I can say I prefer to see 35+ clients. I have no problem with younger gents closer to my age, but I find I click better and the chemistry is often more suitable with older gents. Age and looks is really irrelevant to me though in deciding whether or not I will enjoy a gent's company, the deciding criteria is someone who is respectful in all our correspondence, who I think I will be stimulated by intellectually and enjoy conversing with, and who shows a genuine interest in meeting with ME, as opposed to just the services I provide ;)

Hey guys, ive been reading around the forums for a while now and this is actually starting to eat at me a bit. In a growing amount of posts im seeing that people seem to think that "older gents treat women better than younger ones". Saying this makes it look like all clients under 35(?) seem to not treat the sp/ma well or we are only out for ourselves in alot of ways. I am mid 20's myself, and its starting to actually get to me that seems to be "the norm" way of thinking. Id like to see what others around my age seem to think, maybe the slightly older ones seem to think... ladies why is it that my generation is least preferred in the community? This isnt a rage thread... its a discussion thread. im not looking to start a fight with anyone, so please dont assume thats what im trying to do.

I dont know if its illegal but... its very disrespectful!

I marked 1/2 of my student's papers today and I have to correct the other half by Wednesday! I went to my favourite coffee shop and didn't budge for 5 hours. This evening I did most of my course preparation for the week... all in all it was a very productive day! I'm feeling proud of my accomplishments. If only I could be this productive everyday... >_<!

I'm 51 and have been partaking in this lifestyle since July 2010 I've seen ladies from mid twenties to fifty. What matters most of all imho is the connection you make with a lady Never has my age been a consideration with the ladies I've seen What ladies do like is a client who is a gentleman RG

I will be organizing the next Ottawa social for both male and female CERB members in good standing on Thursday, February 7, 2013 in Ottawa. Since this is being organized by CERB members for other CERB members, please do not bother the MOD about this event. It will be held a centrally located venue in Ottawa. It will be in a reserved room of a public bar/restaurant. It will run from approximately 6:30 p.m. until closing time. There will be a variety of music played and dancing will be encouraged. There will be a limit of 60 spots available (ideally 30 gents/30 ladies), on a first-come, first-served basis to those members in good standing who have some presence on the board or in the hobby (if you have a low post count, but good rep, that's all we care about). There will be a cost for gents to attend and tickets will be available starting now. You will be able to pay by e-mail money transfer, postal money order or cash (in person). The price of the tickets will be $40. This is to cover drinks for the ladies, appetizers, door prizes and other expenses associated with organizing these events. There will be no cost to the ladies to attend, however you will have to confirm 3 days before the event that still intend on coming due to the fact we always sell out and end up with a waiting list. If you didn't get a chance last time, you will be given first priority. I am looking forward to seeing old friends and meeting new ones. This is a meet and greet social event in a public venue (no hanky panky :smile:) and as with past events, expect all attendees to behave accordingly. Remember, CERB members from all across Canada (and elsewhere) are welcome to attend. If you think you might like to join us, feel free to pm and let me know. Angela of Ottawa Your humble social organizer.

this should be required reading for all men and women out there. It would make life more exciting for a lot of people if the info was put into practice.

thanks to every one i'll be doing more post about sexuality soon so stay tuned ... i love itttttt sex is the best way to express yourself (well for me hihihi) Additional Comments: and DON'T FORGET to see the videos as well they are REALLLLLLYYYY informative and they will show you the wayyyyy ;-)

Some girls offers "video taping" with an extra in their services.. So why taping some without their approbation?

Well said! It's also one of the reasons why I prefer to entertain from my own incall location... no risks of hidden cameras anywhere!

Sorry but, I really don't like your chances right now getting a date with some ladies with a comment like that. Perhaps poor choice of wording? Don't know, but think about it,what lady is going to feel comfortable visiting yourself? Gen has it right about screening clients.

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Im ready to ROCK your world. My name is Crystal, one of my biggest pleasures in life is to please, so why not treat yourself and allow this sexy young babe take care of you. I offer amazing, non-rushed service that will have your mouth-watering. Soapy hot showers, a massage that will take away all your tensions, body slides you cant deny, i love to tease and to please. I can be an angel, or i can be your little devil. So what do you have to lose? your going to be coming back for more, and i cant wait to see you smile. Come play with me. :dncdick:

good luck RG all the best

I am the same... Purfume is too strong for me and has never been my style, but I like to use different lotions and body butters. I love almond and coconut or shea butter. Or one I have is made from peaches. Yumm :) For men, I am not a huge fan of cologne (especially too much makes me almost gag) ...But I love the smell of "clean"... and fresh soaps like Irish Spring! :)

I have always loved the smell of amber resin or amber essential oil. You can find some good amber incense but it's a bit harder. I've never really worn perfume, but I love how some of my moisturising lotions smell. They have natural ingredients like oatmeal and cocoa butter. They create mild scents that I always find very pleasant. I'm not sure if they appeal to men as much, though.

Hope things go well on your trip RG

The blanket fort social that is currently getting form on Twitter:D

My ex used to wear this fragrance from the bodyshop, it was VERY stimulating, made me very hard just to have her brush near me, and she knew it, lol

You mean, like this?

I am in this hobby to see younger girls in their early to mid 20's which is almost half my age. If I wanted to see ladies my own age I meet them in the bars or at work are plenty around. I think it is normal for a gentleman to be attracted to younger ladies. I don't see why younger providers won't see you if you are nice to them and treat them well. Some even strongly prefer more mature guys than guys their own age because they are likely treated better in all probabilities by more mature gents. Remember this is not chossing a GF or BF. It is more like you will be paying for their time in a private place not a romantic relationship in public. If you are asking about dating someone much younger in public then it may be a different story altogether. It depends on how well maintained you are yourself for your age. A young looking gent with head full of youthful hair with little or no face wrinkes has a better chance to date in public with a much younger lady without drawing attention than the one who looks older with a belly and grey or balding hair and face full of wrinkes and the young lady may not accept the invitation fear embarassment. Mind you I have witnessed even in semi public places like strip bars men more than 2 to 3 times older hugging and kissing the younger girls like a GF lol even I become sometimes astonished to see that and rub my eyes a few times!!!!!!!. but no it does not happen in dance bars, restaurants and parks and libraries lol. Remember if it is a paid date nothing of sexual nature must occur in a public place (or even talk of it). In any case as long as it is private, and you treat them well, it will be fine, regardless.

Good luck Roaminguy! My thoughts are with you and your family! xo

Best wishes from me too and good luck.

"At the same time I have read more than once about 'timewasters,' so there is indeed a fine line that you must walk. Follow the lead of the SP and if you don't get enough from her prior to meeting to give you that comfort level then it would be OK in my opinion to not make the date and even explain why." I wouldn't get stuck on it being a fine line. If you are sending numerous emails seeking complete description of everything from the layout of our bedroom to what we will wear, say, think and ask what size we like, and where we like it, was this always the case or did we have other prefrences at another time in our lives....... if we have ever done this extreme porno scene or that one and if not why not etc. etc. Who our neighbors are, and if they are also sp's. etc. etc. Do our parents know etc. etc. This is a breif and somewhat mild version of a time waster, you should be fine as long as you dont make it seem like you are simply trying to get off through email communication I see no cause to worry hun. As long as you show up or cancel with plenty of notice, then no time is wasted.

I personally believe that you are on exactly the right track in wishing to communicate to some degree prior to meeting an SP. Your introductory email, or PM or text should be polite and serve as a brief personal introduction. Reading posts in the forums will give you a pretty good idea of how a particular SP thinks and I believe that you can get an appreciation for the person and make a somewhat informed opinion about whether the two of you will click. That "click" is important and can make a good experience become an amazing experience. Everyone is seeking the best experience possible and prior communication can make that first hello upon meeting become much easier and even more eagerly anticipated. At the same time I have read more than once about 'timewasters,' so there is indeed a fine line that you must walk. Follow the lead of the SP and if you don't get enough from her prior to meeting to give you that comfort level then it would be OK in my opinion to not make the date and even explain why. Good luck and enjoy your time on Cerb.

I'd be careful about that one & how you go about communicating. If it's through email introduce yourself & let them know what your looking for in services & personality. But don't email constant as many girls will start to think your just wasting time & want to only chat. You can always call & ask if they have some time to talk. Once again talking to a person gets a better feel of a person's personality. Some girls won't discuss services over the phone, so be sure to read their ads & their website if they have one. Lots of time just from reading an ad or website you'll find the do's & don'ts about how they prefer to communicate with a potential new client. Your not wrong for wanting some communication before hand. A responsible provider should also know who she is allowing into her incall location. It's easy to turn down a client just from his approach & if at all there's a sense of we are not going to hit it off. I myself know I'd rather say no to an appointment then go through an hour with someone I feel no connection with.

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Well first off, posting in this section will get you advice on which ESCORTS to see, though I am sure many of them would offer a massage along with everything else. You may want to view the "new to this" section which has a lot of advice about : a) guidelines to contacting providers b) many discussions about never expecting extras and always informing yourself before hand. You may also want to visit the recommendation threads, as everyone worth recommending is mentioned there already.

I have many favorite scents. The most memorable and endearing ones are vanilla and sandlewood.

I used to have a girlfriend who wore a vanilla scented perfume. It used to drive me mad. I still think of her to this day when I smell vanilla.

My favorites are vanilla, cinnamon or jasmine.

I have received good feedback (well and some other incentives) on the mild scent of this body wash: Softsoap Juicy Pomagranate and Mango Infusion. Available at discerning spas (Costco)

You being from Montreal and probably french how about Lola L'amour?

For the gent that posed this question, he had stated "twenties" as a age , I would think that most young "ladies" are mature and not flaky. There is numerous of women here on this board that are either going to University or College while working as an SP/MA I don't think any of them are flaky. In fact they do live up to their end of the bargain. He did say " girls in their twenties" that is more than legal, and if that is what he desires, so be it. I think that at least 75% of the MA's/SP's for Ottawa area are within that twenties age group. I find them all very mature and genuine.

Prince - Darling Nikki, Gett Off, If I Was Your Girlfriend...most Prince songs in fact.

Nothing wrong with "Old Skool". "Doin' it" - LL Cool J "You're making me high" - Toni Braxton "My pony" - Ginuwine "Splash Waterfalls" & "What's your fantasy?" - Ludacris "Toss it up" - 2PAC (aka Makaveli at the time) "Bump N grind" - R Kelly "Turn your lights down low" (REMIX) - Bob Marley feat Lauryn Hill "I'll make love to you" - Boyz II Men "Sexual healing" - Marvin Gaye "Between the sheets" - Isley Brothers funny AND sexy songs: "Automobile" - Eazy E "Girls, girls, girls" - Beastie Boys "dog sh-t" - Wu Tang Clan "She's got skillz" - All4One "It wasn't me" - Shaggy

I would love to meet up with Emily as well, I have met MsManda and AmberWyld, both are very well mannered, friendly, and very accomodating to a guy who is still new to the hobby and gets nervous alot, lol. I shouldn't forget to write that they are both absolutely beautiful, really sexy ladies. You won't go wrong with either of those, let me tell you! There are others on BP that I check in on from time to time but nothing has come of it yet. Cheers

Can someone explain the new thanks key, I've searched the site for info on it but can't find anything and I'm feeling left out because I don't have one:icon_cry:. Have I done something wrong, does it have to be earned? Thanks in advance-

As I see it, an SP is no different than any other lady you meet; is no different than your partner, wife or gf. When you think about it, they all get paid in one way or another. SPs get cash and the rest get paid in gifts and bribes to stay in the relationship, and if you don't spend on them they use the "you don't love me any more" statement. What i am trying to say is paying a lady to be intimate with her does not entitle you to do what you wish and ignore her feelings. These encounters are supposed to be mutual and when both parties understand and respect eachother, the result is always a wonderful experience for both. Please respect the ladies and treat them right and they will do anything they can to please you.

WOW! Your willing to risk another woman's safety for your own selfish reasoning. I don't know how you sleep at night... A reference is not doing another's homework or screening. It is plain and simple helping another SP stay safe. Your attitude and response sickens me. When I ask for a reference. I want to know you've seen him. That's it. I don't care what details you have about him unless he put you in danger. If the client contacts me, your not helping me get the client - he's already interested I don't know what bubble you live in but in today's society helping one another stay safe is more important than any amount of money. You should know even though you have a really wrong perception of what a reference is all about. One day after you have a potential bad date or wish to not be high volume and decide to screen that you will need ALL of us SPs you so badly think awful of for screening to vouch for you.... I'm so glad my life and safety means so little to you...

I think that the difficulty may come from the fact this type of clients may not have the best reputation inside the SP community. The lack of care and concern in this comment is definitely a warning flag for me. I think this gentleman just kicked himself out of the curb...