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...Crosses the line Over the span of my career, on more occasions than I would like, I have had to have a conversation with a client who wants to "be friends". I think it's important to explain to hobbyists what this actually means to us; why it is crossing a line and why this conversation is one we should never have to have with a client. There comes a point with a good working relationship where a client reaches a certain comfort level with his provider and for some reason it sometimes flips a switch within him. This is the phase of the relationship where there are genuine feelings shared and some clients misinterpret these emotions. He feels it's time to renegotiate the relationship and take it to the next level, to make it "real". Sometimes it's a romantic gesture and those clients are just very confused men and that is not the situation I want to discuss. The men I'm appealing to are the ones that feel that we should "be friends". I would like to present this situation from the providers point of view. This is a conversation we providers unanimously dread. We very well may have genuine care and true fondness for this client; we may look forward to seeing him and enjoy his company immensely. Without a doubt these emotions change the quality of the experience for both parties in the best of ways but what it doesn't change is that THIS IS WHAT WE DO FOR A LIVING! Asking us to be friends is an impossible ask and puts us in a difficult place. No matter how we answer, the dynamic is forever changed and not for the better. Many providers develop friendships with clients, myself included but it doesn't change the fact that our time is our livelyhood. It's how we provide for ourselves and our loved ones and asking us to alter the arrangement at hand will not end well for either party. If we accept, we have now lost a valued client that will need to be replaced to maintain our financial responsibilites. If we decline, we risk hurting this person that we care about and losing a valued client that will need to be replaced. Either way, the provider loses. I admit that I see my work a little differently than most providers and I do consider my favorite guests to be friends as well as lovers. These men understand that I care deeply for them, they don't need free social time to see and feel that. They understand that if they choose not to contribute to my financial well being it will result in one of two outcomes. 1. I will have to spend the time I work with another client to ensure my financial obligations. or 2. I will have to find alternative forms of income which means a 9-5 job to pay my bills. Either way, the "friend" moves to the bottom of my responsibilities list. I first have to pay my bills, second is to take care of my loved ones and then third is my social life, which I don't actually have. This is our livelyhood and last time I checked, the bank doesn't take friendship for mortgage payments and according to Revenue Canada, it doesn't matter how many friends I have, there is no break on my taxes. If a client stops paying then he no longer provides for me or my basic needs. I have a couple of clients that moved from guest to friend but they were taken off the dance card. By honoring their "ask" for a friendship, they reliquished me as a lover and now I seldom get to see them as I just don't have time for socializing. I accept my guests into my life with great care. I willingly allow my guests time with my body and my spirit in exchange for the financial security they provide me. It is delusional to think that if a guest withdraws the financial aspect of the relationship that I will have the time or the energy to continue a relationship with him. My guests don't pay me to be their friend, they pay me so that I have the freedom to spend time with them, NSA and at their convenience. The demand is high for a "genuine GFE" experience but when we provide it we run the risk of guests misinterpreting it. Please understand that often when providers are a little aloof or cold, they may be simply trying to protect the business relationship as a lawyer or doctor would. For those of us who try to be more open and willing, don't put us in a situation where we end up losing you as a client because you "don't pay people to be your friend"... cat

Hello to my many friends here:) Although you know me, my lovely Maria Styles feels that she would like to have her profile opened here. She is sort of new to the industry, and is finding it difficult to find herself. She has been unfortunately exposed to the negative side of the industry in the past and is trying to find the all the positive side to this industry. Those negative experiences has seeped into her way of thinking:( She has seen a world of difference with working with me, but still needs a voice and support of her own. So I thought this could help her. I am encouraging her to open her own profile so that she can meet on line, the most amazing people! If it were not for the many ladies and men here, I too never would have known the since of pride and respect that one can experience in this community:) It is a lonely life at times to be in this trade, and with all the "gunk" clouding our own feeling on the subject it is hard to hear your own voice and feelings on the topic. I know for me at first it was the fact of living a double life that was the hardest to deal with. I was lucky enough to have met a few EXCEPTIONAL ladies in Ottawa that helped me threw that, and did "come out" to the ones that mattered in my life. Once I did that, I had so much freedom from my own conscience! For me, also it is the fact of doing good things for my life and future with the money I earn. 2 years ago I had no credit...now I do! 2 years ago I never paid taxes, therefore feeling like a non productive member to my comminity...now I do! 2 years ago could not hold a morgage with my bank...now I can! If you practice some self discipline and self control, making wise use of my cash has saved me from feeling useless, hopeless or like running in one spot! Anyone willing to witness their success, please do so in hopes to help new ladies like Maria...Just a few examples of when we --ucked up, and learned our lesson from it, then picked ourself up and becoming successful and strong business women because of it! I hope this thread will help any new SP out there find their way threw the maze of misconceptions of our trade:)

I know how she feels Sophia. I remember the days of being afraid of the grid, living on it, being accountable for being an escort and it is the hardest hill to climb. Once you are at the top tho, there is no view like it! Welcome to our precious little corner of the world Maria! Send me a pm and we'll get to know each other... cat

Now that's one creative way to play drums, hehe :b:butt:

I haven't wrote anything like this since high school. This is a poem I wrote the other night. I am curious what people are going to think its got a hidden twist. TORN I long for you every day and night. As I gaze into your eyes I see the light. I realize I Cannot be with you cause it ain't right. Flirting with you is a dangerous game, For I don't know if you feel the same. I'm tired of living life in vain. My desire for you grows strong. You are my salvation I crave for so long. I just don't know that we belong. Even though you're my fantasy. I know I cannot let it become reality. Society would not accept another casualty. You've cost me everything. But without I'm nothing. In the end I'm still hurting. I see other woman to help forget. So please don't object. I haven't met anyone yet. I cannot speak your name. People will think I'm insane. You're my only thoughts in my brain.

I want start off by thanking those who read the poem. I ask that you keep an open mind and that there is no reason for concern. Re-read the poem I know it sound like I'm talking about a person but replace that person with death. How easy it is to get misinterpited. I do suffer from depression and I deal with suicidal thoughts often. They are uncontrollable thoughts nothing more. It doesn't control my actions. With help I've learn to manage and to deal with them. There are lots of people out there that probably feel the same way, I ask them not to be ashamed of it. It is not your fault and you may not be able to control your thoughts. I too felt ashamed and scared to talk about. I know first hand how easy people who don't understand what we may be going through can react. I've lost friends over this cause they can't handle it or the freak out sometime they even look at you differently. For those of you who never experienced this please don't judge us or look at us differently we are still the same person. For a long time I was afraid to tell people how I feel because of reaction I've got in the past. I've lost 2 people close to me do to suicide in the past. It effected everybody around them and I believe they to we're to afraid to tell anyone cause no one new they were depressed. But I understand now why they did what they did. They may no longer be suffering but the just past their pain to their loved one. There are ways to help manage the pain, so don't be ashamed or afraid. If someone reaches out or talks to you about how they feel please don't over react just listen. I hope I shed a bit of light to some people on what I struggle with but I am strong and capable of getting through it. Even in my darkest hours I still have a choice. So please this is not a cry for help nor me seeking attention or help. I just want to open people's eyes and help them understand.

One of my favorite quotes: Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. -Dalai Lama

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Another good one-Be who you are, say what you feel cuz those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!

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For sure I agree with both of you Gabriellia and RG, And RG you are an exclamatory and unique:) But I guess for me, when it comes to an older Gent, that has such great heart and soul, and whom does spend a great deal of time visiting us, I am a softy, lol... You see, it is a downfall from getting to know a client so well, knowing his pains, and tears, and marriage history, I do become more lenient, is that good thing...or bad??? Not sure. But this is one of thoes things that make me.... ME, so I will continue being me and hope I would not be taken advantage of in the process. Even in my "other " career, working in a vet clinic, an older man came in, his dog really needed help, and I lowered my price for him, as I could see he needed a lower discount so that he would continue coming back on a regular basis. However....this is a luxury not a necessity!!

As a client, he always has to remember how he found the sp in the first place. It was a business services advertisement, not a dating or friendships site. When you get a bit comfortable and relaxed it might be easy to forget that, but you shouldn't. Would you know this person if you hadn't found her that way? No. Would she see you in the first place if she hadn't put up that advertisement? No. Does any of that change just because it happens to be a 5th, 15th or 50th visit? NO. It doesn't mean she likes you less than anyone else she knows who isn't a client, it just means that that is the condition under which you met, and the conditions under which you continued to meet. You can't go and change the conditions by which you continue to see her, in other words. I suspect also that from time to time, there are somewhat manipulative people who threaten to take away that relationship (paid dates) if they don't get what they demand (unpaid dates) but that is so unfair. If that is the reason for setting up the first appointment, to somehow down the road attempt to change it to unpaid, then please do not make the first appointment, and spare us all that awkward moment of bringing it up and having to deal with that lol

This is an important topic. In Vancouver, there are a lot of what we call Asian micro-brothels. Some permanent residents or citizens who have immigrated, usually from China or Korea, provide opportunities for women from their home countries to come to Canada to work for up to six months. They rent houses and condos around the Lower Mainland and the ladies work from them. Sometimes the women stay in the same place for several weeks or months; more often, they work in one place and then move on to another, usually in another suburb. Some of these micro-brothels are affiliated with others in other cities, so it's possible for a worker to travel around the province, through the prairies or even across the country. The women who work in these brothels have come to Canada to be sex workers. They enter the country as tourists and leave within six months (the length of a tourist visa). They send most of their earnings back home. Most speak little English. The brothel owners always significantly undercut the going rates charged by independent companions. Their advertisements on the free and low-cost advertising sites are usually represented as ads from one or two girls, though there may be six or eight of them working in a house. The great majority of them are classic bait-and-switch ads. The photographs come from all kinds of places, but are almost never of the woman you will see if you make an appointment. The actual workers are generally older and don't look like svelte models. My Asian clients tell me that there are significant cultural differences when it comes to expectations about advertising. North Americans expect that the photograph will match the product they purchase and feel very annoyed when it doesn't. My clients say that the micro-brothel ads really are offering a fantasy, that the brothel owners have no compunction about whether the women look like the images they use for the ads. The woman in the photo isn't available, but the sexual services are, and that's what matters. I'm told that Caucasian clients generally don't repeat their visit. The brothels really are intended for Asian men who speak the same language and have the same cultural expectations. Since people read the ads and assume that what's being offered really does exist even though they don't check to be sure, one effect of these micro-brothels is that they put enormous pressure on independent providers, particularly those new to our industry, to charge significantly lower fees even though they're offering a dramatically different experience. As for whether the workers are being exploited, a lot may depend on definitions. The women do know what they're going to be doing when they come to work. However, since it's not legal to work when on a tourist visa, none of them is here legally. It's difficult to say how much the workers in the brothels know about safer sex practices, about STIs or their risk of infection. We also don't know how much these workers know about their legal rights in relation to sexual assault except that they're unlikely to call the police if there's a problem. Since they're visitors and have little English language skills, they're not likely to be tested or treated for STIs while they're here. About 20-40% of the fee the client pays actually goes to the girl he sees. Compared to what she might earn at home, this is still a significant income. Compared to what independent companions and those who work for reputable agencies earn, it's highway robbery.

I really can't comment on her massage skills as I only saw her when she was a full service SP. (I heard she is not providing FS anymore) I have not seen her for over 4 years now but before that had seen her over on half a dozen occasions. The sessions I had with her were always very enjoyable and action packed. From reading other guys reviews and talking to a few, I think she is really one of those SP's who if she likes you or finds you attractive provides an excellent session. If not then the session is not so great.

"Religion is like a penis. It's fine to have one. It's fine to be proud of it. But please don't get it out in public and start waving it around, and PLEASE don't try to shove it down children's throats!" Annoyingly, I can't find the original source for that quote...

Hello Readers Not the most PC savvy person even in my own family, I managed to go through a few different newcomer threads coming to the conclusion that perhaps an official newcomer introduction might be what I was searching for to make my first post rather than jump straight into a social group or a relevant discussion thread. Hence, the following. I am a mid twenties gentleman based in Mississauga, ON, with plenty of traveling within GTA. A hobbyist might be a strong word for me but in any case I do enjoy the company of courtesans from time to time. I am ofcourse new to this board and hopefully it might give a little more structure to future introductions as well as be part of this community. I look forward to making the acquaintance of some wonderful people. Till later. Md

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

On Valentine's Day I treated myself with an appointment with Alexxandria from ALO. The initial contact and appointment booked was quite easy, plus she has one very sexy accent. :) Here is some eye candy for you gentleman, and some more... We also exchanged some pm's back and forth, and I told her I like to dominate a session by giving a lady a reverse massage, she allowed me too, most of the hour was spent on her, and making her feel like a queen on Valentine's Day. Alexxandria, has one very sexy and fit body, as you can see from above, she loves to work out and it shows. She has a great personality, loves to laugh and loves to enjoy life to the fullest. I think the last 15 minutes was spent with her on me giving myself a massage, and a delicious body silde. The finish for me was amazing she certainly knew how make to make very aroused, with a lot of teasing involved to get to the finish. Thanks Alexxandria, you were a lot fun to spend Valentine's Day with, by the way you looked amazing in your red teddy, and red high heels. 2 more pictures gents.... and her profile link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=80417

Happy DIRTY ROARing DROOLing SLURPing WET and WILD BIRRRTHDAY baby! haha!! Giddy Up ROCKSTAR! Celebrate LONG and HARD. xo Muah!

Welcome to CERB Maria...you will find it a community with like minded people who have mutual respect for one another RG

Go with an experienced provider, and explain your situation and your concerns. You won't come across like a bumbling idiot, and you'll leave feeling great about yourself. I think that since entering this lifestyle I've become more comfortable with my sexuality, developed better skills, and in general learned a lot ... both about myself and about how to please a woman. I've tried things (and enjoyed them) that 15 years ago i could never have even imagined. In some ways, if you don't feel like you're very skilled, that's a really good reason to see a professional. You'll do fine, and over time you'll do even better. And believe me, you're not going to get laughed at or made to feel badly about yourself. You'll be treated well, and develop more and more confidence. Go forth and have a great time. Porthos

A meerkat, watching out for the community :)

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big softies, shaggy i a 60' kind of way, plays with all, loves to snuggle....have a big couch, don't shed

I like to think that I would be a large cat. Likely a jungle cat, probably like an ocelot. I climb trees, growl and purr, and sometimes I like to pounce! haha Good question.

Great question, I'd be a goat, they are all ways thinking, seem to take joy in what ever they are doing and can be such joyous jerks. Bonk

Regarding the "Front Desk Inspection" keep in mind this is a government town. Everyone is always checking their smartphone. When you enter the hotel, phone in hand, locate the elevators. Proceed directly to them while checking out your phone. You will fit right in!

Loanna!!!! She is a daytime dancer who dances part-time. When she dances depends on the schedule of her real job.

Hey Gents and Ladies ! Just want to begin this by saying that this is not directed at anyone or meant to be anyone's point of view. These are just a few etiquette pointers to make things smoother .. Here are a few tips that may make a first encounter easier or make another visit go a bit more smoothly. When contacting a lady you shouldn't ask them to lower their prices. When a lady sets a price it is what she feels she is worth. Don't try to bargain that with her. It can make it so she doesn't want to meet you or she may take offense to the question. I know I can't speak for all but I know it bothers me a bit. Donation (a rate set by an individual lady).. I don't know about any gents, but there may be a time when you thought, "How do I go about paying her? When .. Before or after? " .. Well the answer to that is have the donation in a white envelope. Give it to the lady within a few moments of greeting and introduction. Some SP's even prefer you to put the envelope in the bathroom or on something that's in plain sight. That way the lady doesn't have to feel rude by having to interrupt the conversation to ask for her money. Get things out of the way smoothly so the time together can move on without that interruption. Also after you get to know someone and they become a regular companion the donation may be left till the end because of a mutual trust or agreement made. The time spent between a Gent and a Lady, much enjoyed by both, has to end. A set time is usually discussed in advanced. When the time does come be courteous of the lady's time and save both from a tense moment. Also a lady shouldn't ask Gents to be coming over and shouldn't be contacting the gent for dates. When a gent wants to see you he will contact you for a date. Personally I enjoy getting to know each other and keeping in touch in between encounters. But I do not ask for anyone to make a booking with me. During the visit the lady should make you feel comfortable, relaxed, cared about and sometimes make you feel you're living out a wild fantasy. She meets your every need while providing a non rushed (no one likes to be rushed lol) and genuine experience. She may even be providing a clean and safe environment where the encounters take place. Conversation is key from booking a session, to the moment you meet and to make the date comfortable for both individuals. Try to avoid touching personal subjects. Remember discretion is usually a must on both parts. Be a bit awkward if the conversation gets going and you guys end up knowing the same people or even may happen to know each others spouses (ouch right ? lol). Most importantly respect. We are all real people. We all have unique bodies, views and personalities. Give respect and it shall be received. I'm sure with everyone you may encounter. And may the ladies do the same. Appreciate each Gent for their unique qualities and personalities. I respect everyone I meet and respect has been given back. Hopefully this thread will help someone out ! Ashley xo

Indeed!

Stopped in this aft. had some fun with Cassandra. Pretty sweet young lady, nice friendly personality. Great natural rack & it comes with a nice firm ass too! Will definately see her again....soon. Saw the very cute Sara was there, & Claire too!

The ladies also obviously owe a significant amount of money to the people who made all the traveling arrangements which may (and probably does) include false passports and pay offs for documentation necessary to leave the country. I know that a cheap round trip ticket is going to cost 1000, and passport costs and visas to enter Canada will add to that as well. So even at best the sp who arrives owes say $1500 first, and that will need to be paid off one appointment at a time. I do think that their take home portion may be higher, as in if the charge is 120 for the session (usually 45 minutes) their 60 will be used for themselves. I do not know if the pay back comes out of the 60 the handlers take, or that is just the cost covering being there, and that they still have to pay off the 1500 out of their 60. These things are not discussed, as the majority of clients who do use these services, from Vancouver to Toronto, want the low rates, and lack of restrictions, and will favourably review them while at the same time pointing out the fake pics, fake ages, and general false advertising that they would flame, blame and trash anyone else for. (And by fake age I mean usually anthing from 10-15 years off, if not more in some cases) I think anyone from a union background or in any type of business would object to people working under the table, who also undercut rates, but usually it isn't about the rates or the pressure to do more for less,, it is the principle of the thing. Why do the laws of this country not apply when it comes to the sex trade business, and why should we allow anyone to be exploited with overwork and underpay simply because it is convenient for a few? Bring them in on work visas and employ them in a massage parlour then, imo, do it properly, no one will have any reason to object. It seems like an obvious thing. Canadian border people turn people away for trying to enter without a proper work visa when it is obvious they are being employed by someone somewhere. I don't see a difference with this business. It also seems like a thing that would be dead easy to police, but that is also largely not done.

Help break the myths.

I totally agree. I also much preferred to be spontaneous during the entire year with a surprise romantic dinner out, an out of the blue gift or a surprise delivery to the door of jewelry or lingerie. I still do this, but with Cerb ladies ;) ha I usually froze the flowers before the lady got them given our Manitoba winters ! and if there was chocolate involved it was on her boobs and belly button with a strawberry perched on top with my tongue and lips on top of that :) I like Cleo's version of calling it Vag Day !!! Skip all the flowers and formalities and say "Happy Vag Day honey ! Wanna play bury the bone ? " ;) Isn't that what most fellas are after as an end result anyways ? Apparently I am bah humbug in a Valentines Day sort of way.........

I have to agree with Fredsmith on this one. I didn't take it for more than what it was - a hobbyist who has enjoyed Emily J. why make anything more out of it?? ....and i haven't even met Emily, yet :)

Something that should probably be added from the other side of the fence... a SP who's good at what she does will be able to make you feel like you're her favorite person in the world, and that she'd like nothing better than to spend every waking moment with you. But when you feel like that... it just means you've met someone who's very good at what she does, and although she may genuinely like you and enjoy seeing you, that doesn't mean she wants to do so all the time. Yes, SP/client relationships do - very occasionally - go beyond the strictly professional. That doesn't mean it's likely to happen to you, Gentle Reader, or that you should try to make it happen.

My best wishes to you too theliquor. I hope that you have a quick recovery.

11 pages, so this may already be there... But, I find people in such a rush these days that they try to barrel their way on to an elevator the moment the doors open rather then leaving a little room, taking a breath and allowing passengers (if any) to exit first. It's a small thing, maybe not a WTF, but annoying

I'm in Saint John also there is Celina , not sure of here screen name.

To return to the OP's questions... :) The ladies who have very active reco threads tend to be new to the industry, and younger. The ones who have been around a little longer (by which I mean more than a few months) tend to get recos far less often. This doesn't mean that they suddenly became bad at what they do... Bear in mind also that some SPs seem to actively solicit recos, whereas many don't, and some seem to actively discourage them. Bear in mind also that a low-volume SP will necessarily have a much lower pool of potential reco-writers. Finally, I think we guys are far less likely to write another reco for someone if we've already written one, so SPs who have a larger proportion of repeat and long-term clients are also likely to have far fewer recos. Of course, it's also possible that someone doesn't have recos because there's a good (ie negative) reason for that... but you won't find that out here, as the rules of the board dictate that the negative stuff doesn't get said. But if someone's really worth avoiding, people will say things like "can't comment publicly", or "PM me for details". That's often a bad sign. So, to conclude... you can't actually tell much from the fact that someone doesn't have a lot of recos.

Dude. You'd be creating a situation where you exert power over her, and she's required to have sex with you according to a schedule or else you can threaten to take away her home. It wouldn't matter that you'd found someone foolish enough to sign such an agreement on some particularly dark day. What happens when she changes her mind about the service? What if you no longer "like" her? She has to leave her home because she's not servicing you? And what if she was so desperate that she had nowhere else to go and is afraid to say "no" or she'll be kicked out; she's now your monthly sex slave? Do not do this. Do not even consider putting another person in such a horrible situation. Additional Comments: Oh for fuck's sake.

If you are still looking, you may want to pm michaella caress.

I think the ladies who last longer in this business are people who are sexually comfortable with themselves and while it's a lucrative business, I'm a firm believer in the fact that if you don't like what you're doing for a living then don't do it. I don't do anything I don't want to do and yes, while --some-- do it for the cash, they are usually in and out of this business fairly quickly. I treat this like a business but at the same rate, many ladies provide good service and are not revolving door when it comes to seeing clients. As for women enjoying sex with less partners, then please explain why married men come to see us? Some wives simply no longer enjoy having sex so that puts that theory right out the window. For the record, I'm not judging married men for doing that as that's what we are here for. In fact, I believe SPs do in fact save many marriages.

Be conscious of the fact there are scanners out there. Authorities perhaps may use them.......... and many people have nothing better to do but sit at home with their scanners and listen to people on their cordless phones, cel phones, police and emergency personnel frequency radios etc etc.... A good old fashioned landline & corded telephone is "safer" barring a wire tap or operator listening ;) I prefer a text because at least initially....the only ones that see it is myself and the one on the other end of the text. What they choose to do with it in the future is out of my control....trust level....but at least nobody is listening :)

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After seeing Leigh's website and ads, plus a few postings here on CERB, I decided to take the plunge and visit. What I met was a very pretty, very sweet, young lady at the door at a small, but very clean apartment. The apartment is in an ok part of town, and the bedroom was nicely lit up. Lots of kissing to begin with, plus an exceptional massage& bodyslide. You would be a fool not to book a full hour with Leigh, and even more of a fool to try and save $20 by not going with her "ultimate GFE" package. Leigh is a gorgeous young lady, who is very enthusiastic about what she does. Not a clock watcher either. If you can be nice to this lady, she will pay you back in spades. I definitely plan to repeat.

Clients have to rely on the positive reviews and can see how sexy Leigh is in her pics!!!