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It didn't work out that way because: This will sound cold but I hope your ego finally understands what it accomplished; you created this mess by pushing boundaries and by willingly seeking and pursuing "love" and "freebies" from your MA(s) while knowing full well this was a unique professional intimate business relationship. I guess you now have a new challenge on your plate... Destructive behavior (drugs, alcohol, etc.) will never help you solve your problems and will only make them worst. Please, do yourself a favor and deal with the situation effectively starting with having a clear and objective head and with the will to let her go and to forget about her. Hopefully the lady will also refuse to see you in the future so you can move forward! If you decide to contact her again and she accepts to see you again, it will do you NO good and you will only keep running in never ending circles. Someone once said: Using your head would do to but I think that was pretty good advice! ............................................................................................... For what it's worth, maybe not for you but for others, when seeing a lady: - Always keep it real - Go in with clear and honest intentions; a simple massage, relaxation, conversation and a happy ending with a sexy and friendly lady- nothing more. If you have (or start having) alternative motives, this is when it will get complicated for both parties involved. - Don't ever try to change the nature of the professional relationship. Always remember that you are the client and she is the service provider. - If you are looking for/want/need personal friends with benefits, try dating sites. Professional ladies are not involved in this lifestyle to find personal lovers or personal friends. - Always keep it real (did I already say that?) - If you (or she) start having "feelings", walk/run away. It is the only smart thing to do. If you decide to "go with the flow" and see where it goes, be well aware it might not end the way you wanted it to. - Blurring boundaries, wanting more and going through with it usually never ends well. - If you really enjoy a good challenge, learn a new language ;) The list could be much longer but I guess this is a good start!

Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life. Additional Comments: Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life.

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Well if you think of it, you ain't going to continue looking for it after you finding it so its the last place you look. If you find it in the first place it would still be the last place you looked for it. But yes when you can't find something it does feel like why didn't I look here first.

I think the vote is unanimous, especially with a "GFE" Thats the basis of what makes a girlfriend. It helps to break the ice, create comfort and enhance intimacy. Half the fun of an encounter is gently caressing and looking at a womans body after sex. Anything else just seems forced and robotic.

Cuddling, kissing and hugging, for me is the whole reason for me seeing these lovely ladies. That sort of intimacy, is so therapeutic for me. Happy ending or getting off is secondary. Even if its only for a moment or its temporary, but when engaged in theses activities it provides me a sense of love, which for me is one of my needs I require. For someone who has been diagnosed with depression this is something I found clear my mind and keep me happy even if its for a moment. Reminding me and giving me hope when I'm really down that I can still feel good, and these sad feelings will eventual pass. Oh and on a side note this gets me off. Sex for me is just as much psychological as it is physical I have to feel the intimacy. Kinda why pse ain't for me cause I'll pass out from exhaustion before I orgasm.

Kissing is something that turns me on no end and is connected to just about every part of my body. When done right, I crave more...passion, intensity. There is also something terribly erotic about the slipping and sliding of tongues that makes me envision the sliding of cock or wet lips, both above and below. Love that connection during as well although sometimes the passion sweeps you up and mouths are busy making other noises recognizable throughout the ages. It's different on this side of the fence because to me, it's more about your pleasure and sharing in that then getting what I want. I get what I like/want from what you are prepared to share/give. If you are a kisser/hugger/cuddler, then the visual of the "touchdown dance" ensues because I love those aspects. If you're not, I'm still going to enjoy just within the boundaries. I'm very oral and very hands on, that's my nature. Flesh under my lips and hands is like fresh air in my lungs. Breathing is just a little shallower without but still good.

How come when you can't find something, it is ALWAYS in the last place you look?

Well I'll step out on a limb here and say you aren't in love with her You are infatuated with her, you like her but are also in lust with her Do you really think you are in love...try this. See her for a few dates obviously only if she agrees. No sex, no massage, no happy endings....just dinner and movie type date First will she charge you or will she see you as a conventional "civilian" date Second are you infatuated with her because of sex or because of the person she is I'm guessing she liked you as a client and opened up because she trusted you, and you vice versa. She may even consider you a friend...a friend who is a paying client For your sake and hers stop seeing her, no offence you don't seem able to emotionally handle this situation And stop the boozing and drugs they won't help you at all just start a downward spiral compounding your existing problem See NA and AA if you have too Good Luck RG

All 3 are equally safe or unsafe depending on YOUR choice. If you choose to do bbfs with any of the 3= unsafe. If you choose to do cfs with any of the 3= safe or as safe as can be. We as hobbyist really don't know what an SP does in her private or professional life, as the SP doesn't know what we do in our private lives. But the fact is we are both equally dangerous to each other. Lets face it, every encounter can be like a game of russian roulette for both. All we can do is be as safe as possible.

Just read an interesting article in this weeks Coast Halifax. Here is a link to the article for all. http://www.thecoast.ca/halifax/red-light-greenlight-sex-work-at-the-brink-of-legalization/Content?oid=3966753&issue=3966634

as a burlesque dancer who works in the strip club i agree with you on the SHOWS part....these days, if a girl isnt doing magnificent pole acrobatics (which is definitely stage-worthy) girls just go up on stage and shake their asses or play with their naughty bits on stage and if someone REALLY dances or, heaven forbid, puts any sort of costuming or choreography into her act all it gets is eye-rolls from the other gals or club-goers...like they're "trying too hard" or something....thats why I'm super excited when i get to do a burlesque show outside the club because people hoot and holler and cheer as skin is about to be revealed and theres way more creativity than just laying down a blanket , getting down on all fours and spreading your legs.

Are you effin serious dude ? Who are you to judge what and how this woman chooses to earn ? Pretty ballsy of you to be so judgmental not only of her but of the other men of CERB. Do you have any proof or factual statistical information that meeting men from cerb is dangerous to her or the "little one" ? There is a huge fetish market for pregnant women and just because you don't understand it doesn't mean you can judge her or anyone who's into that. You probably do some freaky shit that might disgust some so save your judgment and read the credo of this site "if you can't say anything nice, say nothing at all" You cast the first stone in this case so prepare to have many stones come back to you. While I'm here do you know how ineffective your post is because of your ignorant and immature use of the word retarded ? Wow what an offensive word, so hurtful and totally in appropriate and way off base. Doesn't feel so nice to be judged now does it ?

How important are kissing, cuddles and hug's in your sessions. For me, it is very important for the full enjoyment of a woman. I love a woman that kiss and cuddle. It's nice to be welcomed with a nice hug and kiss when you first meet. It's nice to say good by with a nice and kiss. Kissing is important in any encounter with either SP or MA, it can make or break a session. Sex is good, but without kissing or cuddling in between, it's just not the same. Cuddling and talking after the deed has been done is a nice way to relax and get to know a person. It's nice to be held and I find it more intimate some times then the sex itself. It shows that the person trust's you allow you to cuddle with them. What's your opinion? Do you women like to kiss, cuddle and hug during the session with a new person? or only after a 2nd or 3rd session.

Nikky promises to take all your stress away, and she does. After an exciting pm exchange over the past week, we had a very fun meeting today. No time wasted, she was out of her dress in seconds, and spread out on the bed looking sexy and tempting. Perfect spinner body, perfectly proportioned. My philosophy is that the woman cums first, :) and she did, repeatedly, dancing on my tongue. My turn, and she treated me to a hot bbbj. Then sex, mega- and multi-orgasmic. I love kissing while I'm fucking, and Nikky kisses so well, non-stop. She's an energetic and responsive lover. I felt satiated, unstressed, and unrushed. A great experience. I enjoyed this session hugely, and hope that Nikky comes back for more, soon!

Airline Tickets, Lingerie and Champagne....

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A bit late to the party ;), but I'd like to congratulate you on reaching your 1,000-post milestone and to thank you for your contributions to this site. Good going, and keep it up! Looking forward to more of your wit and humour. FR

Seriously, especially with your posts, comments implying suicide nothing to joke about at all. The "facts" we know about your situation are the ones you told us You posted asking for advice, you came to the CERB community so to speak, it wasn't us coming to you Suicidal comments nothing to kidd about. That just strikes me as someone now just seeking attention and again if you need that much attention you need help I'm now done with your thread. I think you just want to seek attention and I'm done giving you any. RG

Going through some of my old classic rock collection. The Chase is Better Than the Catch - Motorhead

Aw, you're only 3600 or so ahead of me. lol Good job!

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What about the smell of pussy on your face? ;) I'd say that's even better.

I used to see a woman at an MP who enjoyed getting guys to leave their wives for her just for the ego boost it gave her hope its not her you're seeing

Congratulations Emma on your 4000 post mark!

Shopping in the US and got myself the most gorgeous pair of Jennifer Lopez nude faux patent leather platform high heel shoes for about 75% of the original price :boobies:

The Red Light District in Amsterdam. I would close the curtains in my little glass space tho ;)

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Congratulations Emma. 4000 Amazing posts. Keep up the great work. Mikey

TODAY 4-9 ! Fellow hobbyists If this is your first visit be sure to check out.. RECO'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591PIC'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6979 I am a M/A with an INCREDIBLE drive.. A nautarlist at heart <3 ME in the buff = YOU leaving happy I am petite but my presence and personality are larger than life. I have a soft approch and a HARD finish. My techniques are magical And I love to entertain. Lucky you ! My Schedule: Thursday 3:30 to 11pm Friday 10 am to 11 pm Saturday **This week only* 4-9 Sunday 10 am to 9 pm Exclusively @ Angels

Congratulations darlin'. 1000 awesome posts. Keep em' coming!

Congratulations Meaghan on your milestone Looking forward to your next 1000 contributions RG

Congrats Emma! A true elegant lady and a great contributor on this board !

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I was in to ness today , seen Jane as May was booked for a few hours , Jane was looking very good as usual , her massage started as normal and about ten minutes in the towel was on the floor that was covering my butt , she gave my backside a good going over , as she moved down to the legs her hands kept brushing the sensitive area in between my legs , by this time I was at full attention .. About 35 minutes in She asked me to flip . I thought for sure she would grab the towel off the floor .. To my surprise she didn't right away , here I am in all my glory and she just smiled at me .. Then she did grab the towel and placed it over me , she started to rub my belly and with in no time he was peeking out of the towel , she kept brushing her fingers over him . She went on to do my legs and kept teasing all the while then to the arms .. I was thinking ok nothing was going to happen .. Once she finished my arm she started on the belly again .. Sure enough next thing I knew she had a grasp on my happy place .. She just smiled at me . I smiled back .. Needless to say I left a very Very happy man

You don't always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens :)

Absolutely! I remember when I first started escorting, I considered dancing and ruled it out because a girl actually had to know how to put on a show and I have 2 left feet! I loved the performance and the showmanship the headliner would bring and the club girls would constantly try to up their game so maybe they could headline one day. A couple of weeks ago I was at a club here, it was a very quiet night for both clients and girls; the stage was empty. The manager and I were kibitzing and he motioned to the stage suggesting I go up. I told him I would rather put a man on that stage and have my way with him than dance. (yes, I'm that bad a dancer). He laughed and replied "just pretend there is a guy there! That's all the girls do." and I realized he was serious. It was a sad realization for me. The game has changed and not for the better in my opinion. An art was lost... cat

I haven't seen this girl .. But with that said VIPOtG always has quality ladies . They always give an accurate description of their ladies , excellent service in the tradition asian style , so I would not be afraid of booking with any lady from this agency

An interesting and easy to understand article explaining what could be next after the laws are struck down and what sex workers want and need in a post-decrim Canada: http://rabble.ca/columnists/2013/04/sex-workers-are-coming

Husband tells of his life married to a sex worker By Lucy Kippist http://www.heraldsun.com.au/lifestyle/husband-tells-of-his-life-married-to-a-sex-worker/story-fni0d7e4-1226693480721

Everyone floats except Amanda. She's the only one really calling the shots. Even Helen floats in a way by going with what the house wants instead of making her own moves. Everyone who has been voted out has been because of Amanda. Helen just helps her in pushing her agenda and is so fake and hard to watch! Personally didn't like BBCAN. Seems that the caliber of player is weaker than the US counterpart...

I havent read all the replies so if I'm repeating anything forgive me, but I like to have recommendations to refer a new potential client to... I'm not exactly the best at self promotion or talking myself up so if a wary or nervous potential client asks me something seemingly silly (but valid i guess) like "well what kind of experience can I expect?" or "what sets you apart from the other ladies?"...i can give my two cents but its easier to say "Dont take my word for it.....check out my 11 pages of reviews from some very satisfied customers". Hehe ;)

One of the things I love about this board and other places like it is it is dynamic and in a constant state of evolution. What may have started out as a recommendation board has grown into a community based on its members. The threads, comments, polls, chats, ads etc. all add value to the board making it more than it started out as. As has been said, there is so much value here that every member has the ability to meet their needs in whatever way they choose. reading reco's, reading ads or posts, links to websites, twitters, blogs etc. There is no right or wrong way and THAT is the beauty here. To each their own and because of the community we have built, there really IS that much variety. So, while I do it individually as I can, I want to thank everyone who participates because it is that key point that allows everyone here to get whatever they want from the site.

I don't talk dirty either normally. But in the heat of the moment when my lady uses the dirty words, it really turns me on - as long as she is not swearing at me, lol.

Agree. Manda us amazing. Pictures are accurate and she focuses on pleasing you and what you want A must see. Posted via Mobile Device

I had the pleasure of meeting MsManda earlier this month and I will say she was worth it. She is a real classy lady. I booked her for an hour, but I must say one hour with her is not enough, you NEED at least 2 to truly enjoy her, which I will the next time I see her. She is a great SP who is not a clock watcher. Her pics are 100% her. She is a real joy to meet. Great conversation and company. She is amazing and her skills wow!! I would recommend her to anyone.

Two covers of Don't Fear the Reaper that I love - Gus - HIM -

Frijid Pink doing "House of the Rising Sun" by the Animals. But we're going way back to 1971