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It didn't work out that way because: This will sound cold but I hope your ego finally understands what it accomplished; you created this mess by pushing boundaries and by willingly seeking and pursuing "love" and "freebies" from your MA(s) while knowing full well this was a unique professional intimate business relationship. I guess you now have a new challenge on your plate... Destructive behavior (drugs, alcohol, etc.) will never help you solve your problems and will only make them worst. Please, do yourself a favor and deal with the situation effectively starting with having a clear and objective head and with the will to let her go and to forget about her. Hopefully the lady will also refuse to see you in the future so you can move forward! If you decide to contact her again and she accepts to see you again, it will do you NO good and you will only keep running in never ending circles. Someone once said: Using your head would do to but I think that was pretty good advice! ............................................................................................... For what it's worth, maybe not for you but for others, when seeing a lady: - Always keep it real - Go in with clear and honest intentions; a simple massage, relaxation, conversation and a happy ending with a sexy and friendly lady- nothing more. If you have (or start having) alternative motives, this is when it will get complicated for both parties involved. - Don't ever try to change the nature of the professional relationship. Always remember that you are the client and she is the service provider. - If you are looking for/want/need personal friends with benefits, try dating sites. Professional ladies are not involved in this lifestyle to find personal lovers or personal friends. - Always keep it real (did I already say that?) - If you (or she) start having "feelings", walk/run away. It is the only smart thing to do. If you decide to "go with the flow" and see where it goes, be well aware it might not end the way you wanted it to. - Blurring boundaries, wanting more and going through with it usually never ends well. - If you really enjoy a good challenge, learn a new language ;) The list could be much longer but I guess this is a good start!

Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life. Additional Comments: Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life.

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Well if you think of it, you ain't going to continue looking for it after you finding it so its the last place you look. If you find it in the first place it would still be the last place you looked for it. But yes when you can't find something it does feel like why didn't I look here first.

I think the vote is unanimous, especially with a "GFE" Thats the basis of what makes a girlfriend. It helps to break the ice, create comfort and enhance intimacy. Half the fun of an encounter is gently caressing and looking at a womans body after sex. Anything else just seems forced and robotic.

Cuddling, kissing and hugging, for me is the whole reason for me seeing these lovely ladies. That sort of intimacy, is so therapeutic for me. Happy ending or getting off is secondary. Even if its only for a moment or its temporary, but when engaged in theses activities it provides me a sense of love, which for me is one of my needs I require. For someone who has been diagnosed with depression this is something I found clear my mind and keep me happy even if its for a moment. Reminding me and giving me hope when I'm really down that I can still feel good, and these sad feelings will eventual pass. Oh and on a side note this gets me off. Sex for me is just as much psychological as it is physical I have to feel the intimacy. Kinda why pse ain't for me cause I'll pass out from exhaustion before I orgasm.

Kissing is something that turns me on no end and is connected to just about every part of my body. When done right, I crave more...passion, intensity. There is also something terribly erotic about the slipping and sliding of tongues that makes me envision the sliding of cock or wet lips, both above and below. Love that connection during as well although sometimes the passion sweeps you up and mouths are busy making other noises recognizable throughout the ages. It's different on this side of the fence because to me, it's more about your pleasure and sharing in that then getting what I want. I get what I like/want from what you are prepared to share/give. If you are a kisser/hugger/cuddler, then the visual of the "touchdown dance" ensues because I love those aspects. If you're not, I'm still going to enjoy just within the boundaries. I'm very oral and very hands on, that's my nature. Flesh under my lips and hands is like fresh air in my lungs. Breathing is just a little shallower without but still good.

How come when you can't find something, it is ALWAYS in the last place you look?

Well I'll step out on a limb here and say you aren't in love with her You are infatuated with her, you like her but are also in lust with her Do you really think you are in love...try this. See her for a few dates obviously only if she agrees. No sex, no massage, no happy endings....just dinner and movie type date First will she charge you or will she see you as a conventional "civilian" date Second are you infatuated with her because of sex or because of the person she is I'm guessing she liked you as a client and opened up because she trusted you, and you vice versa. She may even consider you a friend...a friend who is a paying client For your sake and hers stop seeing her, no offence you don't seem able to emotionally handle this situation And stop the boozing and drugs they won't help you at all just start a downward spiral compounding your existing problem See NA and AA if you have too Good Luck RG

All 3 are equally safe or unsafe depending on YOUR choice. If you choose to do bbfs with any of the 3= unsafe. If you choose to do cfs with any of the 3= safe or as safe as can be. We as hobbyist really don't know what an SP does in her private or professional life, as the SP doesn't know what we do in our private lives. But the fact is we are both equally dangerous to each other. Lets face it, every encounter can be like a game of russian roulette for both. All we can do is be as safe as possible.

Just read an interesting article in this weeks Coast Halifax. Here is a link to the article for all. http://www.thecoast.ca/halifax/red-light-greenlight-sex-work-at-the-brink-of-legalization/Content?oid=3966753&issue=3966634

as a burlesque dancer who works in the strip club i agree with you on the SHOWS part....these days, if a girl isnt doing magnificent pole acrobatics (which is definitely stage-worthy) girls just go up on stage and shake their asses or play with their naughty bits on stage and if someone REALLY dances or, heaven forbid, puts any sort of costuming or choreography into her act all it gets is eye-rolls from the other gals or club-goers...like they're "trying too hard" or something....thats why I'm super excited when i get to do a burlesque show outside the club because people hoot and holler and cheer as skin is about to be revealed and theres way more creativity than just laying down a blanket , getting down on all fours and spreading your legs.

Are you effin serious dude ? Who are you to judge what and how this woman chooses to earn ? Pretty ballsy of you to be so judgmental not only of her but of the other men of CERB. Do you have any proof or factual statistical information that meeting men from cerb is dangerous to her or the "little one" ? There is a huge fetish market for pregnant women and just because you don't understand it doesn't mean you can judge her or anyone who's into that. You probably do some freaky shit that might disgust some so save your judgment and read the credo of this site "if you can't say anything nice, say nothing at all" You cast the first stone in this case so prepare to have many stones come back to you. While I'm here do you know how ineffective your post is because of your ignorant and immature use of the word retarded ? Wow what an offensive word, so hurtful and totally in appropriate and way off base. Doesn't feel so nice to be judged now does it ?

Considering the recent discussions here on CERB about fat/skinny body shaming, I wanted to share this amazing website that I came across today! "The Nu Project is a series of honest nudes of women from all over the world. The project began in 2005 and has stayed true to the original vision: no professional models, minimal makeup and no glamour. The focus of the project has been and continues to be the subjects and their personalities, spaces, insecurities and quirks." It is quite a remarkable collection of photographs of a wide variety of real women. It is a showcases and celebrates the beauty in ALL women's bodies, in their natural state. All unique and beautiful in their own way! :) www.thenuproject.com Enjoy!

This is not a post about who does "sexting and camming". This is a serious discussion regarding ownership of photos/video from it. When one person sends the sexy picture over to the next person, is there a transfer of ownership? Does the other person now have the right to distribute that photo? When a person is "camming" to another person, does that person have the right to record it and then distribute it as they please? It is something that has always been nagging on my mind lately. I keep seeing these "my girlfriend/ my wife" pictures from men but I really wonder if it is just a person they are sexting/camming with. For me this is the main reason why I don't sext or cam- because of the ownership liability. Ideas? Thoughts?

Hey Capp, welcome to Cerb. Windsor has a few great local ladies & here is a link to Windsor Ads To the 2 great girls who helped me out with info when I visited: Lacy and Lexi Champagne Also we have Naughty Angel Here is her Cerb RECO It may be possible that she is on a break at the moment. Please do not let a lack of Reco here on Cerb for the other great women be any kind of deterrent. The fact is that Cerb simply isn't the review/reco/ad place in Windsor that it is in Ottawa/Montreal, etc. And when you visit these ladies sites, you will see links they have which will lead you to some more Windsor-centric ad venues. If you do see someone & have a great time, get back HERE with a reco. Help promote the site farther south. Sandi Forgot to qualify that a reco/review here or anywhere, should ideally be with the lady's permission. An even more stellar move: send it to her first for approval.( graphic details, something private, etc) It will score you major points as a gentleman enhancing YOUR standing in the future, which is a great thing if you need references. Also, know that Cerb requires 5 or 6 quality posts prior to starting your own reco thread. You can add on to an existing reco at any time. S

To me, cuddling, kissing and hugging are part of the GFE that I crave and cherish so much. The whole GFE is why I go to see my ATF's again and again. I would venture that the time spent on cuddling, kissing and hugging contitutes about 70% of the total time I will spend with my beautiful ladies.

Why do we live in a society where we pay more attention and give more notoriety to the people who commit crimes of murder and other unspeakable acts more than the people they have done it against? Look at the news or read the paper...it's all about book deals or movies of the week or whatever publicity these people get. Very sad that if I chose for instance to do something for example...in the end people would remember me more than the person I did it to. Where are the CBC specials for the victims...where are their book deals or movie scripts...where is their publicity? Maybe if we spent more time punishing the perpetrator and not glamourizing them ....then maybe criminals would be held more accountable for their actions...not given a book deal for it.

Stopped by Barb's Saturday afternoon (8/17) and was a bit surprised to see my ATF Barb's dancer in the house. In the past, I've tended to think black outfits most flattered her, but during her first turn on stage (and earlier 'on the floor') Jenny looked stunning in an all white two-piece with the top consisting of a shortened t-shirt seemingly ripped at the hem and tied at the back giving a very tight fitting look up front. Simply gorgeous!

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Selena told me she does not like reviews/recommandations but I still felt to let Cerb gents that I had the privilège to meet her this morning and that I had a great hour rendez vous with this lady. I believe we hit it off from the start and I will definitely see her again on her next trip to the NCR.

How come a Big & Tall men's clothing store only carry about a quarter of their inventory as truly big or tall; the other three-quarters are for normals. Why don't they just call themselves a men's shop with some Big & Tall? I mean who are they marketing to? A big man with three skinny friends? They just decided to go clothes shopping together, cause that's what men typically do, and as luck would have it here is a store that has both? Come on! If I walk into another B&T shop that is 3/4 normal stock, I think I'll blow a gasket. And another thing, why do they make all the really cool stylish clothes for normals only? I wouldn't put most of the big & tall crap, they sell, on a horse. Even though most of it looks like horse blankets or tent covers. Clothing manufacturers should look around. They market to a shrinking portion of the population. Now, I ponderously get down off my heavy duty soap box and we can resume this most excellent thread.

Congratulations Emma on reaching 4000 post :)!

Congratulations Emma, on reaching a stellar 4,000-post milestone! Your many contributions to this site will always be appreciated and I look forward to many more marvelous posts yet to come. Thanks for being here and just being you! FR

Congrats Meaghan !!! 1000 Great posts !! and keep em coming :)

Straddled on a Harley with a mountain/waterfall backdrop (not picky where).

Congrats Meaghan on 1000 posts and for your contribution to Cerb!

In a field in the highlands of Scotland. More of a memory than a wish, but I do wish I were back there at that moment in time.....

Congrats Emma on reaching the 4000 post mark. You are one sexy and special lady to me. Hugs and kisses to you Emma!

Congratulations on this huge milestone, great posts and just a great contributor. See you very soon and am trusting all is well on your end. Katherine xoxo

How come that some of the bosses ask for something for "yesterday" (its urgent or the world will fall apart kinda thing), yet the work submitted sits on their desk for weeks on end? Mmmmm Wait.... i think i know why ....

I always loved fall...

It's because for a very long time women WERE considered the father's property, and if she was "sullied" she'd be almost worthless in those terms. So protecting the daughter's virginal state was important -- not so much for HER sake, but for the benefit of the family that "owned" her and was counting on marrying her off profitably someday. The idea of the woman as property has been mostly (mostly!) glossed over these days, but the wedding transaction still has some of those anachronistic elements in plain sight -- the father still "gives away" the bride to her new owner after all. (Were I in that circumstance, I hope I'd tell my father to mind his own business and give myself away, thanks very much.) The conservative elements in our culture still cling to these hopeless and backward attitudes in the form of "cherished traditions". It's nice to see the dad in the article with a level head. I like his approach. Arm your children with good judgement. When it's time, have some frank and non-creepy, unashamed talks with them about sexuality, its psychological context, and its pitfalls as well as rewards. And build a relationship such that you don't constantly impose your "help" and "advice", but your kids still know they can come to you those times they decide they need it. Then they can enter relationships and sexual situations with their eyes open... and you need to trust them to use that judgement on their own behalf. Inspecting every prospective partner and presuming to bestow a "guess I'll leave the shotgun over there this time" approval will just cause a daughter to hide her boyfriends as long as she can.

It's always bugged me that traditionally women are to be "protected" from sex whereas with men it's encouraged. Specifically, the stereotype of the father who protects his daughter like she's a forbidden treasure not to be spoiled but would high-five his son for his "conquests". I mean, just think how many or how many times it's the plot of a sitcom? It's pretty ingrained in most cultures. Obviously I'm not saying parents don't need to be somewhat wary or protective at all, just that there seems to be a double standard. Anyway, I thought this article on one father's perspective was very refreshing: http://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/brand-dear-daughter-i-hope-you-have-awesome-sex/

I had the pleasure of getting to meet MsManda recently. I have been having a lot of anxiety and nervousness recently as I have been going through some challenging times. I explained all this to her prior to meeting and she was very kind and said she would do her best to help me feel comfortable. I can say without a doubt one of the best experiences I have ever had with a sp, she also has the most amazing oral skills ever, I don't usually respond to oral that well, but with her technique I had no choice. She is beautiful, very friendly and she says things how they are. She also was able to carry on a interesting/philosophical conversation with a certain flow that reflects her wit and intellect. I left feeling relaxed, and feeling like she really cared about how I felt after our time. I am thankful for meeting her, and do plan to repeat. Cheers, V

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Boundaries can be blurred for a variety of reasons. Life is complicated and relationships are sometimes complex, including those we have in this industry. While the blurring of boundaries isn't the norm, people are people, and sometimes people meet in this profession and become friends, develop relationships, get married, break up, reach out to each other for help and/or support and genuinely enjoy each others' company. We're all vulnerable, and our hearts are tender. This isn't the only profession where boundaries can be and are sometimes blurred. Any caring type profession has these issues as well (nannies, nurses, care-givers, therapists, doctors, etc.). It's an interesting question for sure, but I doubt you'll get much response. When those boundaries are blurred it really is a privilege and a gift. It should be respected as such. :)

It sounds like you may want to be more cautious with ur screening love <3 Here in my hometown deposits are not a big deal, but currently I am looking into mobile credit and pay pal for touring. Seeing as I don't travel much and there are many "no shows" I'd like to acquire credit info just so I can charge a cancellation fee. That way at the very least I can be sure my travel expenses would be covered if said pre-bookings didn't show up. But like sugar said......... Check to see if a SP is legit. Also having the credit info of a client when say........ You die.......... Is a good lead for the cops ;) Major deterrent for the "less then gentleman type" As for the original posting............. Scams like this girl with no reviews, postings or recommendations with credit ability fresh out the gate is a huge red flag. I hope no one was ripped off :(

I can't say much more than what has already been said, but I'll be sticking with this SP for as long as she's around. Her photos are initially what caught my eye, and somehow they didn't even do her justice. Absolutely breath taking. She is also extremely friendly/smart and interesting to talk to. Cannot say enough about this girl.

I had the pleasure of seeing MsManda recently and would like to add another glowing review to the list. Her pictures are what initially grabbed my attention and she looks even better in person. Beyond being absolutely beautiful, she was just pleasant to be around. The atmosphere and her attitude/behavior really helped me relax and be more comfortable. This was my first time seeing a provider, and I'm very thankful that I chose MsManda. I would highly recommend for other first timers based on my experience. If you couldn't tell from my recommendation, I will definitely be seeing her again!

I clean my house in heels, a scarf, jewelry and tiara... Even royalty can't find good help now adays ... cat

Their versions of Blowin' In The Wind, Seasons In The Sun, and Stand By Your Man are classics! I love everything they do. Another favourite is Richard Cheese. For any who don't know him, he does Vegas lounge singer versions of songs, like: And with a very special guest. ;-) Moving on to other artists:

Never heard that version. house of the rising sun is one of my favorites for sure. Once seen a one man band perform it and the guy nailed it. guitar, cymbals on his knees, banging drums with his feet and a harmonica. I'm pretty sure it's a public domain song too - you could record it with full royalties :) - think it's original form is very old - 1800's old. apparently they had houses of the rising sun then too ...

Fergie, Cypress Hill and Slash - originally by Guns 'N' Roses Shinedown - Simple Man originally by Lynyrd Skynard The Black Crowes - originally by Otis Reading Dwight Yoakam - Little Sister and both originally by Elvis Jimi Hendrix - All Along the Watchtower originally by Bob Dylan The Rolling Stones - originally by Bob Dylan Patti Smith - originally by The Rolling Stones Ron Burgundy - originally by The Starland Vocal Band Chris Cornell (Former lead singer of Soundgarden and Audioslave) - originally by Michael Jackson Chris Cornell - originally by Led Zeppelin Red Hot Chili Peppers - Higher Ground originally by Stevie Wonder Jeff Buckley - originally by Leonard Cohen No Doubt - originally by Talk Talk Billy Idol - Mony Mony originally by Tommy James Pantera - originally by Ted Nugent Motorhead - originally by Richard Berry then by The Kingsmen Guns 'N' Roses - originally by Nazareth

I had to remove a thread tonight and I am very upset that people are posting crap like this. Some idiot PM'd one of the members claiming that one of the local girls has aids. The member posted this along with other nonsense. Why he felt it was necessary to start a thread like this I will never know but I am done with people trying to slander other peoples reputations. If your too stupid to realize a PM or POST like this is just slanderous and made by either a jealous competitor, ex-boyfriend or drunken idiot trying to cause a problems then let me help you out by telling you first hand that you should just delete the PM and report the user name to me so we can get rid of the trolls! If you feel the need to accuse someone of such a thing publicly do it elsewhere as I don't care to slander anyone on this site and as long as I am moderator of this site I will NOT tolerate it from anyone else here! I will shut down the board before I allow that to happen so if you enjoy the site please respect this policy and rule.