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When a woman looks at you, and bites her lower lip...game on!!

If you are looking for mileage and options, Ariel and Barbs are not for you. Ariel is an amazing young lady who will light up your day when you talk with her and then have a great time in the champagne room. However, nothing extra is ever going to happen. Her dances are super hot, but completely within limits. She is a legend because she is beautiful, and fun, and cares about her regulars and friends. Barbs is the last place to seek extras. The walls in the CR are very low, there are cameras everywhere, they have installed mirrors, and the bouncers check the room often. This pretty much rules out any extras activity. It might also be why so many attractive dancers work at Barbs. Dancers and strip clubs are still relevant simply for the experience. If I want to see 3 or 4 lovely ladies in an evening, I can. I can also see many more on stage. Lots of variety, lots of energy. The massage or escort experience is different obviously. There is no reason why a hobbiest can't dabble in all of them.

So this is all a bit new to me but I will try to be open and honest here. This is a question I've wrestled with for most of my adult life - the pursuit of happiness. I like others have wrestled with depression and discovered this 8 or 9 years ago. I don't know how to describe it to those not going through it, but it's like being alone every minute of every day even if you're in a crowded room. In the darkest moments I have looked at the easiest "solution" but suicide luckily or me has not been the only solution. I think we all want to be happy and until recently I didn't know if I was capable of being happy. I experienced a high like no other thanks to a dream and a chance encounter where I believe I experienced love for the first time in my life. Unfortunately, as fate would have it , this was not to be. It's complicated and still very fresh in terms of the wounds. I learned I need to understand how to be "happy" with myself and by myself before I think I can be with anyone else. Otherwise, a dependent relationship where all I my "happiness" is dependent on what that other person says or does is doomed to fail. I wish everyone here could understand the depths and challenges of depression. It's not about just wanting to be happy. It's not about material things and sadly not even about sex or physical pleasure. Im sorry for rambling but this topic is timely and very relevant today as I step back, lick my wounds and look to recover and move on. I hope everyone finds happiness - whatever that may mean to each of you. Additional Comments: I think the time to appreciate the challenges of others might put things in perspective but on its own to feel joy o happiness it comes from within. The person whom I recently had a "relationship" with is the most amazing individual I've ever known. She has overcome adversity that would have destroyed me and probably most people. I think as someone who hasn't felt happiness and suffers from low self esteem I saw this as inspirational. I would even say it was attractive and "sexy" to me. That was all a bonus but also part of my mistake. I need to find my own strength and not try and enjoy the strength of others. I can't gain inner strength vicariously. I know that now but it's too late this time as I've lost her forever. I share this as I think spending time volunteering etc is always positive but it all starts and stops with knowing and liking yourself. External forces may help or hinder but I think happiness comes from within. Just my opinion.

Sometimes it is awkward meeting someone new, sometimes you end up feeling self conscious or overly 'aware' of yourself and what you are doing and wondering if the client is OK, or wonders what you are doing, lol. This is not unusual in first visits. I had a client once who seemed very unresponsibe, kind of slow to talk, so much of the session was quiet, and for me awkward. Even the getting dressed and end of the session time felt off. However at the door on his way out he gives me a smile and asks can he come back and see me again (the start of a long relationship lol). Turns out part of the reason for the quiet is he is hard of hearing :)

My answer would be both also. I initially started off seeing only a couple of SP's and MA's that I enjoyed being with. Saw a couple of new ones but not as good as my regulars, But this year I started meeting some new MA's and SP's and have had some great experience. Each experience seems to get better. I've repeated with many of these new girls and intend to see most of them again. However my known list is getting too large, and there are a few girls that I haven't met year that I would like too :). Known is good and each repeat get's better as you get to know each other. But meeting someone new generates new interest and excitement. However my problem is that all these Cerb women are so awesome, that if I could I would meet them all. How ever due to budget and time, I have to try to limit myself to only a few new ones at a time, as I really like to see my regulars also. So many women and yet so little time :(

To me a real sexy woman just extrudes her sexiness. It's the way she looks at you with bedroom eyes and licks her lips. And has that come hither look. A woman who is really horny and want's you to ravish her, all she has to give you a look and you know what she wants:) Physical beauty and sexy clothes enhance the sexiness of a woman, but true sexiness comes from the inner person, it's not just physical but the confidence and look that generates sex appeal that makes you naturally drawn to her. A beautiful woman who is dressed sexy can act sexy, but a truly sensual woman can attract men, by the way she looks at them, smiles and smells. I'm not sure if I explained myself, but those that have experienced a truly sexy woman that enjoys what she does and has chemistry with you, will know what I mean :)

Do you think this is true? I'm not sure as I certainly am not. I make an average living at best but combined we are doing OK. I will admit this is part of the reason I haven't jumped in with both feet, but it's a very small portion as to why. I KNOW the ladies here are worth every penny they charge and then some, as you can't put a price on happiness. If an encounter lasts for an hour, how long does the feeling of happiness stay with you? Just that hour? If so, I would think you have much bigger problems. Hammy. I kind of know where you are coming from. Years and years ago I fell madly in love with someone I thought was my soul mate. She was perfect in my mind. I however, was someone that she loved, but was never sexually attracted to. This relation ship has haunted me to this day. I see her every few years and she usually appears just I happen to forget about her and all the feelings come flowing back. She knows how I feel about her to this day, but nothing has changed. She is divorced and looking for a man but I am still not the one. After 30 years have passed and 3 kids, she still has the body of a 20 YO and is sexy to the core. This woman can get you hard by looking at you. I must say (if I haven't already) CERB is such an awesome site. I love coming on here and learning about other people and about myself. This thread in particular has helped me over a bit of a hump and I appreciate all of the feedback that has been given. I do feel like a bit of an outsider at this point but in time, that may change. Thank you, especially to the ladies.

I have to agree with HalifaxMan58 and Midnite-Massage - my answer will be Both. I have my regulars whom I have been seeing for over a year. I am also lucky enough to have the opportunity to see a few new ones. For me, this is the best of both worlds and I won't change a thing. :icon_biggrin:

Was she pissed off or was it just a case of no chemistry? If no chemistry, well that sometimes happens. Not every two people will click. If pissed off, look back at your encounter, did you say or ask anything that could be construed by the lady as offensive. If you don't know then maybe send the lady a nice respectful email, and ask her if she is angry with you, and if so, why. The only person who can answer why the lady is angry (assuming she is in fact angry) is her. Then you can apologize to her if in fact she is angry, and you did something to cause her to be angry None of us on CERB know what happened during your encounter. Only you and the lady know what happened. You should, and just my opinion, direct your question to her, if you are concerned about if she is angry and why she is angry A rambling RG

This thread has been nagging me a bit for the last few days and I realized in my initial response I only answered half the equation and left out the most important part to me personally. My real and complete answer is both. There is nothing wrong with seeing someone who compels something in you even if they are new. However, it's the internal voice that you should listen to. Even in this industry there are connections and relationships and only you can determine which aspects are important. As for me personally, I love my regulars. I get excited to see them and I miss them when its been awhile. I like that connection and getting to know them and their desires. So for me to leave out the known part of the equation was wrong and against my character. If they were suddenly off on the next best thing, it would impact me. So, the answer here can only be what you make it and how you feel led. Only you know what you need at any given moment and how best to get it. You wouldn't go to someone new if you needed something you had established with someone else and if you wanted some NRE, you would look to someone new. Nothing is wrong with either as long as you feel good about the choice.

God what a face!

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him." "Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." - Buddha

Most CERBians are relatively affluent--this is an expensive activity after all. I'd suggest a few of them go volunteer at places that help the less fortunate, either homeless shelters or care facilities for disabled people. I spend four or five hours a week at a place that cares for long-term disabled people, people with spinal injuries, stroke victims, multiple sclerosis etc. Some of the stories of how they got there are heartbreaking and infuriating. Every day I leave there thinking how incredible it is just being able to walk by myself, to feed myself, to be independent. Yes I'm happy!

This is part of the reason I really enjoy working where I do. It's a flat fee for the room and my company! The tiered offerings always seemed to create a lot of confusion. If you communicate with the person you are going to see you can get the financials out of the way up front. This ensures that any tips that are beyond that are a token of appreciation for the encounter. I believe that just like any service industry the tip u leave should be in line with your own comfort level, and the service you were provided. I believe tips are not required, but I definitely remember the gentleman that offers one. In short in my opinion the answer to your question is that if you communicate up front you will never be left feeling like you shorted the lady, and anything above that is a kind token that will definitely be appreciated. Kelly

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Havent been to Bank St Studio for a while, and wasnt familiar with the ladies there now, other than Janie, who was not working the day i was browsing. Called and booked appt with Alma, and glad i did. Shes a pretty gal with lovely large natural breasts and a thick mane of wavy hair. I figured it was going to be fun when she walked into the massage room and gave me a playful smack on my ass as part of the hello ! Anyway, a great massage and a good time was had by all... Especially me. I would recommend a visit to see Alma !

Depression? Seriously, depression is an illness, and it should be thought of like any illness. See your doctor and get a referral to someone who can treat it properly. You wouldn't tell someone to HTFU if they had a broken arm or cancer, but too many people have that exact attitude towards people suffering from depression.

I believe everyone deserves a second chance!

So Wet Dripping Down my legs.. I am 26 years of age, with long Blond hair and beautiful hazel eyes. I have a fit, tight body. Sexy long legs and a ass that's out of this world. I am 5'10, baby soft skin! I have been working in the massage industry for 5 years now. My expertise will give you a unforgettable experience...! I am a very horny open minded girl who loves getting new experience's :wink: My services include teasing, flirting, role play, hard core, body slides, full body massage, Hottub sessions and reverse massage. I cater to some fetish's or you could cater to mine Schedule this week: Monday 2:30-9:00PM Tuesday 3:30-9:00PM Wednesday 3:30-11:00PM Thursday unavailable Friday 3:30-11:00PM Saturday 5:30-11:00PM

I have to say known, with a bit of the unknown. I have been hobbying for the past 12 years or so, not real frequent for various reasons. Over the years I have had a few ladies that I saw on a semi regular basis. I find over time the experiences get better. Eventually the ladies move on. This is when I need to move to the unknown. Sometimes its a home run and others its a flop. I have had a few encounters with highly reviewed ladies that were just no chemistry. When I fins someone I click with usually revert back to the known. Because I don't always have the opportunity to hobby as much as I would like I do prefer the known. Asterisk: Sometimes I am travelling or there is someone visiting that I am interested in seeing - into the unknown.

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From reading this post I can tell that I am not in the majority, and that my opinion will not be liked but I feel I have to say it. I don't know that this list is such a good idea, in fact I think it is a terrible idea. I am not trolling or hating on anyone, that is not my intention, I am simply trying to put myself in the shoes of the MPs whose names, contact information, and work places would be circulated by anyone with 20 reviews of SPs. 1) Just because someone posts 20 reviews does not mean he has seen those 20 SP's. LE can set up a fake user and make 20 reviews over a 3 month period and then have access to all of this information; not to mention RTMs who could do the same just to get access to the list so that they can find out if they have any employees on the list. We are not only putting their careers and freedom in jeopardy, but also their reputation and personal safety, namely since they are not SP's who work under fake names, but real girls using their birth names. 2) CERB is providing this service already. They have full time moderators and forums and most importantly, a place for these providers to put their names out there if they want too. Yes you have the freedom of speech to give random strangers the names of women who have trusted you enough to take a chance with you, but I think that they also have the right to anonymity. These forums offer both, a place for hobbyists to share experiences and information, and a place for SPs and MPs to advertise and get exposure if they so choose to do so; there is a reason the DND list exists and having this VIP list would completely bypass the safeguards that this forum provide. 3) Just because she did it for you does not mean she would do it for others. I know that I have never had the guts to ask a legit MP, someone who went to school and chose to give massages as her profession, to give me a HE. That is not to say that this is not a fantasy of mine. If I ever get the chance I would probably leave a SP sized tip for the girl, just for the privilege of being able to fulfill this fantasy of mine. And just like I fantasize about it, I am sure that there are plenty of MPs who also fantasize about doing something like that. So, if they did it for you, it might just have been that, a way for them to fulfill their fantasy. This does not mean that now they want to start servicing all of their clients. Keep in mind that they have this option if they want to do so and they probably can find enough clients on their own to fill up their day with R&ts. Most likely, if you had to convince her, she was probably doing it more for her than for you, you got a happy ending and she got to step outside her comfort zone and grow as a person. 4) My guess is that a lot of these girls on this VIP list probably told you, the person who added their name to that list, to keep it between you guys. If she asked that of you she probably asked it because she had her reasons, and she thought you were stand up enough to respect her wishes. These are not SPs who are choosing to get into the field and who are protected for the most part by anonymity and who lead 2 separate lives; these are girls who are completely exposed and who only have one life that life corresponds to the name that you put in that list. I am not anyone's mother to tell them what to do, and I certainly have done my share of shitty things in life, so I am not one to judge, but I really hope you guys get these girl's permission before you go putting their lives at risk by putting them on some pass around list. If you really want to help her bring in more clients then refer her to this site and have her open up a SP profile, the rest will take care of itself.

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Great is not a good enough word to describe this Venus. If I took the words spectacular, sexy, pretty, sexy, orgasmic, sexy and magnificent and combined them into a word, it still wouldn't do her justice. (Was that a little over the top? Perhaps some hyperbole? Maybe but damn is she smoking.) Did you go for a swim tonight? Additional Comments: If you're implying that I'm the Mario Lemieux of sex, then that would make me the Magnificent One of sex. We'll have to ask the girls if it's true. I don't share my cerb handle with anyone (except for today's beauty), so I'll have to ask in person. Let's make a list.

Has anyone seen this sp. advertises on Bp age 24 brown hair 125 pounds says nothing too kinky. She seems interesting, wondering if anyone has seen her? Can not find her name.

me get a relaxing massage by a hot little vixen, I'll make sure you never forget, come get touched by an Angel! About me- Sexy petite 21year old with long red hair, sparkling green eyes! Out going, bubbly and ready to rock your world!! Providing- Flirty and dirty relaxation massage Soapy sexy showers Reverse massages Body slides- Duo massages(4 hands, 2girls) Hotub sessions & you'll leave happy. Schedule TODAY: 10-9 Rates- Single Massage 30mins: $55 45mins: $65 60mins: $80 Hot Tub Sessions 30mins: $70 45mins: $85 60mins: $100 Duo Massage rates also available upon request Location- West end, Clean & cozy Contact-To book an appointment please send me a PM or text me @ 613-413-0733

In the recent past, there was a general rule of thumb for tipping of $20 per service. This may not apply everywhere though, and can tend to be location-specific. First, of course, there's the "door fee", which usually ranges from $30 to $70 depending on duration of the session and the location you go to, daily special deals, etc. This is the part of the fee that is given to the spa for their administrative costs, such as rent, maintenance, and advertising. If you go to see an independent, they still need to pay for these sorts of costs for their own place, so you would include it in their fee as well, but they would call it their basic fee. The door fee or the basic fee is usually all that's ever given over the phone, the rest is discussed in private. The tips are usually discussed directly with the girl, but some indies may give you the overall fees on the phone. Now as for the tips, as mentioned it operates on a $20/service rule of thumb. First charged service is usually the HJ. The next service is whether you want the girl topless or nude; topless is $20, nude is another $20. So a topless HJ would be maybe $40, while a nude HJ would be $60. Then some girls offer extra services beyond that, such as bodyslides, etc., which could be another $20. Now in most spas, they'll never itemize it that way, they would consider it crass, but they usually just suggest a tip between $60 and $100 is suggested. But that falls somewhat into the $20 rule of thumb range too, maybe a little more.

A member has to have a certain amount of posts to be able to post in the recommendations. This would discourage people from joining just to 'shill' for a provider.

It would be a pretty quick way for any RMT to lose their license. Add in the fraudulent insurance claim and the customer is also looking at fraud. And if you are one of my employees on WCB or using our benefit plan I'd fire you right quick. And they would only have to do it once for word of it to spread all over these boards. I can't believe you guys keep on asking.

I can't vote known or unknown. I think "both" is missing from the vote, IMHO. As most of you know I am new to the life style. It is exciting meeting new ladies, & it is also exciting having repeats, both of which I've done. As has already been said when you first met the lady she was an unknown. All we know is what we've found out on this great site through their posts, blogs, videos, & P.M.'s with them. We really don't know what is going to happen until we met in person. Will there be chemistry? Will you make a connection? At first I had thought it would be good just to find one SP that I had chemistry with and stick with that lady. I quickly found out that probably wasn't a good decision on my part. I found myself starting to have very deep feelings for this SP. I explained the situation with her, and it was decided we take a break from each other, which was the only thing to do of course. I began seeing other SP's who I have repeated with, and I believe I am back on track now and have my head on straight. Eventually I would like to go back to seeing this SP, as I feel I can better handle my feelings now. Slow and sure, one step at a time. So after my little rant, I would say both are good to do! My 5 cents worth!

Great day for horror movies and popcorn!!!!Friday the 13th marathon whoo hoo...and yes I had a pretty good day considering the superstition..hope everyone has a wonderful safe Friday evening xo Additional Comments: Great day for horror movies and popcorn!!!!Friday the 13th marathon whoo hoo...and yes I had a pretty good day considering the superstition..hope everyone has a wonderful safe Friday evening xo

I started in this business when I was eighteen, and I have always been painfully aware of the perceptions some people hold of young SPs. I cannot address the circumstances of other young SPs in this business, but I can talk about mine. Necessity was a factor that led me to this work, but I have never felt trapped in this situation. I know the risks of my occupation, and I still choose to do it over other jobs because this job allows me to be creative and independent, teaches me business skills and allows me to connect with people I wouldn't have otherwise met. Is it really necessary for me to have access to other high-paying, 'empowered' positions to make this choice valid? I am not a child. I am a young adult with an enterprising spirit who hates doing shift work for minimum wage and would simply prefer not to have to answer to any boss. At last, I have found work that does not leave me feeling exploited. Please don't belittle my agency, maturity or intelligence with sweeping ageist statements. My age does not make me a victim by default. I have tried to de-emphasize my age in advertisements because I am concerned about the assumptions clients will make about me as a young person. But that isn't really something I want to have to conceal, and I would prefer if people would make the effort to see me as a whole person, and not an age-based stereotype.

I completely understand the budget part and that is probably the greatest factor. no one wants to feel like they wasted their budget. That said, life dynamic and if one does not take a risk (even a well researched and thought out risk) then there is no potential for greatness. Remember, all your regular ladies were once a risk (to put it into perspective). CERB is wonderful in that you can explore the person via posts, pictures, PM, and a variety of interactions here before you make the decision thus reducing the risk. If someone is ringing your bells at a distance, chances are they will do the same in person provided you go in with an open mind, openness to the person and no expectations. I for one, believe that a life without risk and potential for greatness is a life not lived. Enjoy what you can when you can. When it's good, give thanks, when it's not, be thankful for the experience (because there is always something good in the experience). in the end, the decision is up to you and what sort of risk limit is comfortable for you.

I met w/her the other night; Due to the rules of the board, I cannot comment.

This is the OP's original question, we are talking about seeing teenagers in this business which may be legal but is it ethical. Additional Comments: Now this is what you are arguing, basically it's ok to have sex with an underage child, be it man with underage girl, or woman with underage boy. Mind you, you never said anything about a man with underage boy or woman with underage girl. Since this thread is about seeing teenage companions, even if legal is it ethical, are you arguing about seeing underage escorts. Honestly beyond your obvious disdain for a minimum legal age, I don't know. And for fact, the minimum legal age in Canada isn't an abstraction, it's real, set out in the Criminal Code of Canada. you don't like it, go to France or Sweden. But French law or Swedish law applies to France or Sweden, not to Canada Just how low in age do you want to go? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=511551#post511551 Why this thread, apparently in Yemini it is legal for a "man" to marry a 8 year old...do you think the age should be lowered to 8 now if your argument for lower legal ages is other countries do it. Law of the land in Canada is 18 years old. Don't like it, go find another country to live in catering to your predilections. And one more thing, maybe you should read the CERB Rules & FAQ. Couple copied and pasted here for you Streetwalkers - Car Dates - FS MASSAGE SPA'S - ETC .... (ALL ILLEGAL IN CANADA)We DO NOT discuss ILLEGAL activities here. This includes. - Streetwalkers (Public prostitution is illegal) - Car Dates (Something streetwalkers do - public prostitution is illegal in Canada) - FS Commercial unit (Massage Spa - Brothel - etc... are all considered common bawdy houses and illegal) - Underage Prostitution - Drugs - Etc... Please use common sense people! You must be 18 years of age older to participate, advertise or be advertised or discussed on cerb You must be of legal age (That is 18+ years of age in Canada) to use (AND JOIN) this website. We may ask you to prove your legal age if at anytime your legal age is in question. If you are under the legal age of 18 you are not welcome to post on this site and you should not be involved in this business.. If you are asked for proof of age and you refuse a bulletin will be posted on the site and your name will be added to the DNR LIST (Do not recommend or discus list) and you will not be allowed to post here, all posts about you will be removed and we will tell the members why you have been placed on this list. Just finding this advocating of seeing someone underage, especially on a thread talking about seeing teenage legal aged companions disturbing to say the least. Eighteen years old is the real and true age in Canada, not some abstraction. Find out how well your arguments go in Court if caught and charged by the police having sex with someone underage. RG

As I am in my early 40's my age limit is from 25 years to about 50 years old. Many ladies who are 25 are very mature and tend to have a University education. They have a certain sophistication and elegance about them. They also tend to be knowledgeable about a variety of subjects to enjoy some wonderful conversations with. Many 18 year olds lack the maturity to make an informed decision about whether or not to have sexual relations. Like Christy said some mistake sex with love. Something I did many times when I was that age. I find it morally wrong when a 50+ gentleman pursues a relationship with a lady that has only just turned 18 even if she was the one to initiate it. I guess it was the way I was brought up and it's just my opinion.

All of the Mp/Mas' listed are wonderful, but if I was visiting, and had only one experience available, then the Jessica experience is not to be missed.... Her hours are curtailed for school, but good luck

I do think in your post when you say "pubescent girl" you meant younger-18+ at least I hope:) But the next sentence is the one that worries me. Young girls do want to have sex but I don't think they always know what they are doing when they pursue it and *some* will have sex with anyone that gives them the right attention. It is for that reason my mothering-protecting instincts are ignited. I know when I was at that age I slept with a lot of guys, I was searching for affection, love and mistook sex as affection. The repercussions of those encounters deeply affected me, the affects of which really never arose to later in my life. I'd hate to see that happen to anyone. Being a young sp can in *some* even cause more regret, since especially today your past lingers forever in this techno world, if you are not completely grounded and resigned to the affects this lifestyle can have on ones future. I am in no way defaming this profession as its one I embrace but for those just starting out, beginning their lives and not thinking long term, who you have sex with, how many times, when and where can leave a trail mentally and physically you may not be mentally prepared or mature enough to deal with at such a young age. As we age and gain life experience we are better prepared and more able to deal with unconventional choices, make better decisions and have a better idea of what we want or don't want our future to hold.

Really looking forward to seeing everybody at the social Sept 19th!...YaY!! Thanks again to Spud.....Mistert....and Loneskater for organizing! Cheers Mates!! Hastings56:bigclap:

Hey it is Nichole, Yes I am still around but I have been working way less. I will gradually work on my advertising and start touring again slowly mid-October with a full time return in February 2014. I will post my tour dates and schedule soon. Thank you to those who support me.

I prefer exotic if possible; Asian, Middle Eastern. Slim, tight body, great ass. Larger breasts are a plus, not requirement. Height not a concern. Age not really a concern. Definitely not a blonde. Any suggestions? I realize this is a EB/TO thread, but another place is not out of the question. Additional Comments: What can I say? I decided to check out EB. The place is very clean and the owner/ manager was very helpful. I flipped through the book of girls that were working. They definitely try to cover the bases in terms of variety. Several of the girls on shift weren't my type at all. Three of them were, but one was already booked. That really left me a choice of two. As fortune would have it the girl I thought was by far the hottest was available. When I say hot, I mean I don't think she had a single flaw; tight body, beautiful face, and some nice sized store bought accessories. Tub for two was nice, and the massage was great. An overall enjoyable experience. Would I repeat? I'm on the fence because I'm not really sure that it's my thing. I think I prefer having the focus more on the woman than on myself. The pampering was nice, but I also enjoy being on the giving end. However, that being said the girl was great.

Going to the OP's actual question, what would I do for a last hurrah if I knew, for whatever reason, I was leaving the game? I would figure out how to explain being gone for 24 hours. I would arrange to spend those 24 hours with a specific terribly wonderful lady. We would spend 22 of those hours just being... chatting, walking, drinking wine, holding each other in bed. Interspersed in there we would spend one hour on a duo with her and another specific lady. We would spend another hour just the two of us being as intensely sexual as possible. And if everything went according to plan, at the end of the 24 hours, the EMTs would show up to take me to recovery.

She will be a very lucky woman. I have done Staycations in the past where I am with a Gent for hours and hours. I have also gone on vacations with some very happy results. So speaking from experience, treat her well, firstly. For your chosen Lady, perhaps ask her what she might like and if it suits you, do it. Flowers and good conversation or a spicy movie might work, you won't be "active" the whole time. Also try something you have never done before. Perhaps an agreed upon third playmate for an hour or so? Or do what you wanted and have a parade with your favourites. It is your weekend after all! Make it memorable. I would like to note here that I am always sad to see men leave because of age. Either theirs or the SP pool. But especially when they think they are "beyond" an acceptable age. You might be stunned to know that there are some very sexy and desirable older Gents out there that hobby well into their 70's and even 80's. It is always a pleasant surprise. If the SP's are getting younger to a hobbiest, and I am not trying to change your mind here, sometimes one needs to find someone they are more comfortable with. Again, it's been my experience that sometimes it's not all about the sex, but comfort and connection, which of course then brings out some amazing sex, in whatever form it takes. Of course if you like variety, then I wish you the best choices CERB has to offer. :icon_smile:

The sp only access ladies currently can not see hidden profiles but this is causing issues with verification, because of this council has voted and we would like to grant any verified sp (sp only access) the ability to view hidden profiles (to help with the screening process) so this announcement is to let veryone know that in a few weeks (if we can get this working) the sp only ladies will be able to view private profiles (for screening and security). This way no "bad" clients can hide from sp only ladies. If anyone has questions or objects you can pm me or comment.

What she said!

I'm not trying to start a debate about fees. I've been doing this longer than most and am well versed in the "pay to play" philosophy. When it comes to guys simply looking for an R&T the reason most guys don't see SP's is more about the cost. Most of the local SP's will charge a guy $100 -120 for even a half hour of massage with a happy ending (HJ or BJ) and more for an hour. The "relaxation" massage places are usually in the $45 - 60 per hour and another $20 for the tip. Thus you can get a nice relaxing 1 hour massage and a HJ for $70 - 80. When I was actively pooning I spent a generous sum and saw my share of ladies for FS and think most would have nice things to say about me. But there were those times when I needed a kink worked out of my back and just felt like a little stress release as well. For those occasions the R&T providers fit the bill. Cheers

If understanding your needs or desire and taking the courage to do something about it is shameful then I don't know what isn't? The only person that can make you feel ashamed is yourself, because what other people may think, shouldn't matter. This is your life and you decide what you want to do.

I know this is going to sound rude because my straightforwardness always sounds rude in text ( as opposed to in person where you would see me smiling and hear the sarcasm in my voice that is often missed in written word ) ... ...anyhoo here goes: Tell that guy to stay away from the reco section of cerb. There's lots going on in Genereal discussion area... He should also stay away from threads asking for recommendations I suppose. Does he expect you to not allow reco's? Sorry, I thought he was a client, not a BF....then again, no BF of mine ever dictates what I do either, so... It is not your fault or problem that he cannot cope with his reality, that of course being that he pays for a service and other people do too. "Oh you don't like reading reco's of me? DON'T READ EM! kthnxbye"