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  1. 7 points
    I recently had some play time with some regulars of mine that I hadn't seen for a while. With these girls I have strong chemistry with and really enjoy being with. I just noticed that with certain girls when we say bye, We just hug for a few minutes and end it with some nice long passionate kisses. This too me shows that they genuine like me and enjoyed our times together. Thinking back over my many sessions. Some ended with just a quick hug and quick kiss, but the most enjoyable sessions ended with a nice hug and kiss. I'm starting to find the good bye kiss and hug important to me now. As with some girls, you never know if this is the last time you will see them or not. Due to them retiring or not travelling girls not coming back, or other personal reasons. Or the fact that I may give the hobby also. So with girls that truly mean something to me or have had a great time with. The final hug and kiss good bye shows me if there is some sort of connection between us and means something to me, just in case I never see them again :( I wonder if the SP's/MA's or hobbyist feel the same way.
  2. 7 points
    I love that last connection before someone leaves especially as I genuinely enjoy (and will miss) many who grace my door. This is something I always feel the urge to do however with new clients (and some repeats) I will let them make that move as I have encountered those that prefer to just "go". As long as they leave happy, I'm happy but I do miss the final hug and kiss when it doesn't happen. In some cases you never know if it might be the last time. Life happens.
  3. 6 points
    I totally agree with the last kiss being important. Its paramount as you really don't know if and when you may meet again. For me over the years its very important with my regular guests to be caught up on conversation as well. It's equally important to tell or hear that final funny story be it mine or my guests. So at my house or suite we usually linger at the door for some time talking before that final farewell kiss and hug.
  4. 6 points
    Yes, the parting can be just as important and enjoyable as the middle and the beginning. When you've achieved a certain age, you are painfully and poignantly aware that the person to whom you are bidding a fond farewell may not be there tomorrow so there is some part of me that is imbibing just as much of this person as possible in the moment. And then... The next time you see her you are so full of joy that she's there you get to start all over again! But then, every new day sort of comes as a surprise to me.
  5. 5 points
    I too very much enjoy the chat at the door and when the lady initiates hug & kiss - aside from appreciating the extra contact, I take it as the hint that I should get my butt out the door. Some of us are very shy and don't want to cross any boundaries - please don't hold back the hug & kiss!
  6. 5 points
    For as progressive as people claim to be now, there is still way too much "ism" in the world and it seems everyone is more involved with technology to pay attention let alone stand up. We see and hear many examples of racism that impacts every race and creed, our elderly get treated badly in many situations as do our youth. Special needs, sexual orientation...there is so much judging, bias and hate. I often wonder if this is a long held taught belief and it's just accepted as truth with no questioning. Just as bad is the pity. Like Summer, I have a special needs child with many issues. If I have her in a normal situation most looks are pretty normal. She's sweet and cute and affectionate. That changes if her wheelchair is involved or she tries to communicate. The pity stares drive me. I try very hard not to judge and to instead understand. It's not always easy because there are many taught behaviors that linger from childhood, ones I still see in members of my family who haven't questioned them. For me, I focus on myself and changing my behavior. If I can do that, maybe it will impact someone else and so on. Sometimes the world changes one person at a time.
  7. 5 points
    Like everyone else here, I do enjoy a long hug and some long passionate kisses when bidding a fond farewell. These long passionate hugs and kisses are equally important to me in the beginning and during the encounter. I find it not very memorable when she rushes to see you off without those acts. Sometimes, some other gestures could be very endearing as well. I remember after a lovely session recently with a reputable cerb lady here; when I bent down and put on my shoes, she lovingly touched up the hair on the back of my head and whispered gently "you don't want everyone to know that you just had sex!". It was such an adorable and unforgettable act that I will always remember her fondly!
  8. 5 points
    I have to agree! Though it's usually the other way arround. I make sure to give the lady a big nice hug before leaving, to make sure she knows that i really enjoyed our time together and that i care for her more then just sex. I'm usually more a repeat kind of guy then trying new ones so it's almost always a date with someone i know.
  9. 4 points
    I carry one of everything when it comes to body wash and for established guests I purchase their preferred soap; putting it in a soap saver with their monogram on it so they are the only one that uses it. I do believe that it's the little details that make an experience worth having... cat
  10. 3 points
    There's an old saying. The best blowjob is the one you're getting right now.
  11. 3 points
    My two sons are quarter-Japanese and you have to look at them very closely to tell. Yet somehow, in high school, my oldest found himself being shoved up against a locker by some guys screaming about how he needed to get his GDF Jap ass back to Japan. This in a Midwestern town of about a thousand. You can find a-holes anywhere.
  12. 2 points
    I always have steak in my freezer. I'm a good cook and good at giving blow jobs! :):):)
  13. 2 points
    Fake pictures are the first step in a bait and switch encounter. Not good, and no excuse for them RG
  14. 2 points
    for someone who doesn't show their face, tattoos etc selfies can often present a challenge, which is why I update my pro shots so frequently. It's important to still stay up to date. I tweet the occasional selfie but they are mostly fully clothed or distant for discretion reasons. The 'mirror' selfie can often fail due to where the mirror is placed in the room. Mirrored closet doors next to the bed can be huge fun but if you're working with a bathroom mirror the effect isn't as classy IMO. I find it's most important that the pics be of the lady in the advertisement. I just read another review of a lady that was glowing and positive, and mentioned that even though the pics are fake, they are 'close enough'. Bullshit.
  15. 2 points
    I choose to invest in my business so I only use professional photos on my website and ads, however I do post the odd selfie on twitter every now and then. I find the occasional selfie adds to who I am and allows others to see another side of myself. Keep in mind each lady is different and each one will do what is right for her and her business, personally I would not trust just anyone with a camera to take my photos (you never know what they will do with them afterwards)
  16. 2 points
    I just want to bump this thread to remind people, if you have severe allergies, please make that known to your SP before arriving for your appointment. I just had a very nice fellow cut his visit short with me because of a severe allergy to dogs and cats. I put the dogs away before people arrive, and he seemed okay with that, but when Mina, my black cat, sauntered in to sniff his jacket, it was obvious it wasn't going to work. He left a generous cancellation fee, even though I told him it wasn't necessary. I have a lot of allergies myself, but luckily nothing so severe that I'd have to abort an appointment. If your allergies are that severe, please spare yourself and the SP any possible waste of time/disappointment by letting her know up front. Thanks!
  17. 2 points
    I am kinda partial to this Fat Bastard brand soap Kate ;) It's extra stout....
  18. 2 points
    Happy flower: Vulture vs. Jackal: Fallen Sequoia:
  19. 2 points
    I too have special needs child. I have seen first hand the depths of peoples inhumanity. I have always campaigned and hoped to see changes in peoples attitudes, but I doubt I'll live that long.
  20. 2 points
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  21. 2 points
    i am a mixed race person , you wouldnt know it to look at me or my brother , we are very predominately take after our father . much like my sister very much takes after our mother . to the point people are surprised that she is related to us . its funny how free people feel when , even when they dont know you they feel safe with what they see and will open up quit freely bashing other races . and than to habe them not beleive me when i tell them i am cree,but once convinced how much back tracking they try to do or try to convince you it was just a joke . i used to see it all the time as a kid with how people would treat my mom . be so polite to the person in front of us and than seem absolutely bothered by thefact that that they had to serve my mom . some one called the police on my grandfather becaise he was with 2 little white boys ( me and my cousin it would off been around '77-78' ) , my father almost got arrested for losing on the cops . of course it was different when we would visit the reserve , one of my uncles would just laugh and laugh over how easy it was to pick out the little redheaded boy in a group of naive children .
  22. 2 points
    Welcome to the board. There is a ton of information here, and it would be nearly impossible to summarize it all. If you look at the top of this forum, there a number of threads labelled "sticky". This contains almost all the essential reading that a newbie should do. I would recommend the "advice for newbies" thread, as well as the "how to have sex with escorts" thread. The "Valuable information prior to visiting a service provider" thread really is a must read. Pay careful attention to the advice from the ladies about how to behave and how to contact them. Follow their rules, be a gentleman, and you will have a lot of fun. Porthos
  23. 1 point
    I am a big fan of Selfies (Photos of the escort taken in a mirror by herself). I once asked an escort why she only posted professional photos of her self and never posted any selfies. Her answer was that a lot of client assume that if you take selfies it is because you do not have enough money for professional pictures because you use the money for drugs. So I am curios to know if that is true. Do people think less of an escort who posts selfies as opposed to pictures that are taken by a professional photographer?
  24. 1 point
    This is meant to be as fun thread, no malicious posts please. For years my brother and I have had fun at each other's expense. It started when we we quite young as a lot of boys in particular like to do. Over the years we've still kept it up from time to time in more creative ways - notice I didn't say mature, mother still asks us what we want to be when we grow up. One of the better ones took place a couple of years ago when I got even with him for a winning lottery prank he did to me. The first day in the New Year I placed a noticeable ad in the local paper for a few days to the effect that - "Wanted to buy used Christmas trees, free pick up and his cell number" His phone rang like you won't believe. Have you been the receipient or perpetrator of an interesting prank(s)?
  25. 1 point
    I'm glad that a lot of you feel the same about the final hug and kiss good bye. Thought I was getting to sentimental as I get older. But since starting this hobbying, I've met so many fantastic women that I enjoy being with, and have lost contact to some that have retired, that sometimes the last hug and kiss is the last memory I have of them. Like someone else said, Life happens. and no one knows what life will bring next :)
  26. 1 point
    I did some research on this a while back for a book I am working on which should be completed in the year 2087 at the rate I'm going. The publisher approach can work, but they tend to ask for exclusivity periods when you submit for review, meaning it can take years to shop around. The self publish approach is doable, but if the book does well, can be problematic if you use a self publish feature on Google, or just expensive to market and produce if you use a vanity publisher. Most recommendations were to go with an agent who can get your submission to folks likely to take a serious look, although you have to sign away some rights too. Toronto has some well respected agencies for non-fiction printing Canadian based books, but if it is general, recommendations were largely to try an agent in the US.
  27. 1 point
    I have a liquid soap that is just 'soap' scent, nothing overpowering, and then always have something fresher like Dial, Zest or Irish Spring. I like those scents, and it is often helpful on showers prior to a session starting for someone who needs a good cleanup :)
  28. 1 point
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  29. 1 point
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  30. 1 point
    I have a small army of suds in my bathroom -- I try to keep a stock of well-known brands as well as unscented body washes, and am happy to hang on to a guest's preferred brand :)
  31. 1 point
    A clean scent is no issue.. >off-topic... cigarette smell is would be an absolute killer for me.. With 2 teenaged boys in the house, soaps and shampoos / bodywashes rotate as high rate of knots at my place. Boys can be just as bad as teen girls.... me- YO.. out the shower..!!! its been 20 minutes.. you are getting the hot water bill.." LOL So my point is, as long as its a fairly regular scent - no issues here what ever it is. It just cant be overpowering - thats all.. D.
  32. 1 point
    Good topic and something that should be of interest to anyone who's Real World includes someone who cares about scent. I would love it if the proper scent were on hand for showering but with so many differing tastes it seems impractical. Of course, we could decide a universal choice, like Irish Spring, and everyone switch to that. Thanks to the proliferation of Travel Sizes I carry my own body wash and shampoo. For me, problem solved.
  33. 1 point
    I would be happy to buy preferred brands. I currently make sure to have a selection of Dove Men, Irish Spring, and Dove Sensitive as it's unscented. If there are others preferred, I'll stock up!
  34. 1 point
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  35. 1 point
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  36. 1 point
    After searching for about a week or so for a place near my house that would fix my glasses (the frame was broken at the hinge), A kindly old man at a private optician place offered to fit the lenses into new frames since mine could not be fixed(something that none of the other stores bothered to tell me). After trying a fair number of his frames, he told me that nothing of his would fit my lenses. He then proceeded to offer me new lenses for free to fit one of his frames. Always nice to have someone lighten your financial load, especially when you didn't even ask for it.
  37. 1 point
    Yes I agree with you Cristy, it does sound interesting and promising. BUT I would only trust it so far as a backup method to a condom. Nothing is 100% effective (except abstinence - no one wants that). So I am a firm believer in a two system plan. (i.e. condom & pill; condom & IUD; condom & patch; etc...) {Especially in this life style} Keep in mind that the article stated "The rings are being manufactured now, and the device soon will undergo its first test in women." "...clinical studies on the use of the ring is to start in 2014". So everything sounds theoretical so far. Women will have to remember to replace it every 3 months (90 days). I know some women who have trouble remembering to take "the pill" every day. I look forward to hearing about the real world data after it has been on the market for a few years. Great post! Thank you for sharing this Cristy. :)
  38. 1 point
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  39. 1 point
    It reminded me of an episode of MASH that I saw. It was about an injured soldier who needed a blood transfusion and surgery. The (white) soldier told the doctors to make sure they gave him the "right blood type". While the soldier was in post op the doctors painted his body with some medical dye making him appear black. When the soldier regained consciousness he was horrified. He actually believed they gave him the wrong type of blood. After spending the next few days as a black man he realized how wrong he was about his prejudice. Then the doctors told him the story about Dr. Charles R. Drew, the man who invented "blood transfusion and storage". Dr. Drew was in a car accident and needed a blood transfusion and was denied because of his skin color. (This story about the doctors death was some what inaccurate, but the doctor was real.) Dr. Charles R. Drew http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Drew
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  42. 1 point
    I would suggest if anyone has an opportunity to post a comment in any news article, especially like this one, BEFORE they get closed for comments 3 hours after it goes up, to put a link to the Say No to the Nordic model petition. When you see results like the one in the above article poll, it may mean more exposure to the types of people who would sign such a petition. thousands of viewers, in other words, :)
  43. 1 point
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  44. 1 point
    Last night, Pulp Fiction Right now The Good The Bad and The Ugly RG
  45. 1 point
    I have seen her a few times. She is shy at first but warms up quickly if you are friendly and don't rush her. Excellent at what she does, very clean and doesn't rush. Gives amazing oral (deep throat, bbbj, cim without asking for it) she is very petit. Took only about two minutes or oral on her to make her squirt. She squirted with oral, sex and just touching her clot with my finger all in the same hour. Stay away from her roommate or her place. Tons of traffic in and out. Good luck. Hope this helps.
  46. 1 point
    1. Do you think that purchasing sexual services from an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: Consensual commercial sexual services/activities between consenting adult service providers and clients should not be a criminal offence. Government has no legitimate role in criminalizing consenting adult sexual activity regardless of whether it is a commercial or non commercial transaction. Criminal law should focus on violence, threats of violence, extortion, withholding of passports/visas, illegal confinement and underage commercial sexual activity. Broadly these acts would fall under the headings of underage prostitution, human trafficking, pimping and assault. I do not support the Nordic model in which one partner (the client) in the service transaction is criminalized. While such laws have been passed elsewhere, I do not believe the Canadian constitution allows for such inequitable rights or criminal laws. I can't think of any other example in Canada where one person can be doing something legal while simultaneously another participant is deemed to be engaged in a criminal act. Any violent acts or threats etc by a client should be prosecuted just as they would be in the case of any two individuals where such harmful behaviour occurred. 2. Do you think that selling sexual services by an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I do not think that consenting adults selling sexual services should be criminalized. I think everyone recognizes that sex work can never be successfully "abolished". It has and always will exist. Criminalizing homosexual sex and anal sex in the past for example was a misguided attempt to eliminate them. The desire for sex, intimacy, human contact and variety is too deep to stamp out these desires. These desires cannot always be met by accepted social convention. Sex workers (women, men and transgendered) fulfil a need and niche in the commercial market. The next question is will prohibition through criminalization of service providers make citizens in general safer and more specifically will it make sex workers safer? The Supreme Court acknowledged that providing sexual services has unique risks. The social stigma associated with providing sexual services creates a social climate which increases the risks to service providers. Criminalization only increases the stigma and the resulting risks. While much of the Supreme Court's reasoning was based upon the fact that adult prostitution is currently legal, criminalizing it will not eliminate sex work nor will it eliminate or even reduce the risks to sex workers. Criminalization will continue to keep sex work in the shadow. Sex workers who have the means and skills will continue to work using online marketing. Even nordic countries acknowledge they've made no dent in this market. Outside sex workers will be forced even further into the shadows, unsafe locations, be further alienated from law enforcement and have even less opportunity to screen clients. The Nordic model assumes that sex work is exploitation of women by men. Obviously the largest portion of the market for sexual services is male heterosexual clients and female sex workers. The Nordic model however fails to acknowledge the diversity of sex workers and their clients (male sex workers for males, women for women, women for male/female couples, men for male/female couples, transgender workers for males etc.) How can a law be adopted which supposedly targets the exploitation of women by men, yet simultaneously sweeps in many other citizens? Finally, I've met many sex workers and they do not fit the stereotype of exploited or downtrodden women. Many have university degrees, have other small businesses (accounting, design etc) and like many people have made conscious choices about how they want to make their income and how long they want to do this work. Some women, while very intelligent, have not been able to get jobs that pay living wages for a variety of reasons (education, no work experience and a mid life divorce etc.). While sex work was not their first choice of work, they are comfortable doing this work. They will continue do it if it is entirely criminalized (just as many aspects of their work are already criminalized). Will criminalization of their work in its entirety make their lives better? I recognize that some sex workers are in exploitive conditions. These people deserve protection under our criminal laws, just as any citizen does. Existing laws related to assault, extortion etc should be used for their protection and strengthened if necessary to achieve successful prosecution of exploitive pimps or clients. 3. If you support allowing the sale or purchase of sexual services, what limitations should there be, if any, on where or how this can be conducted? Please explain. Comment: The federal government does not need to be involved in specifying where sex work can or cannot occur. This is a zoning and licensing issue for Municipalities. Specifying where sex work can occur is certainly not an issue for criminal law. Municipalities currently have sufficient enabling powers to specify acceptable locations, exterior appearance, signage, concentration and separation distances form other sensitive uses etc. These decisions need to be unique for each community. No community should be given the power to ban any aspect of sex work if it remains legal and if the laws related to indoor sex work are liberalized. Public solicitation, usually on public streets remains problematic. It has social and legal issues similar to panhandling. Outdoor sex workers however should not be forced into unsafe locations which increase their potential risks. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I'm answering this question, not on the basis of the assumptions implied by the phrase "prostitution of an adult", which suggests exploitation. My answer is for sex workers who are exercising free will and are making their own choices on how they want to work (independent or agency). Sex workers should be able to pay for accommodations, booking/phone services, personal assistants, marketing services, online services, legal advice, financial advice, drivers, security, clothing, sex toys, restaurants etc. Sex workers should also be able to hire agencies that manage many of these logistics on their behalf. Certainly anyone who is living with a sex worker (partner, children, friends, parents etc) should not be criminally penalized because they receive some financial benefit. Sex workers should be able to financially contribute their earnings to their families and friends just as any other wage earner in Canada can. Anyone who forces a sex worker to involuntarily "hand over" their earnings should be held criminally accountable for any for threats, extortion, intimidation, violence etc which have been used. 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? Comment: The Supreme Court's decision was very well reasoned, particularly in the face of an issue which has much social stigma attached to it. What stood out regarding their decision and written opinion was that it was based upon factual information and not morality. Any Federal response should also be based upon the factual information which we currently know about sex work and should avoid imposing morality upon citizens. There are many things which are considered immoral by a portion of the population (premarital sex, divorce, abortion, interethnic marriage, interfaith marriage, gay marriage, consumption of alcohol, cutting your hair, revealing clothing, working on the sabbath, using mechanical equipment etc. Canada is a secular society and should adopt laws which have a secular basis. What is a secular basis? Minimizing actual harm to our citizens and giving citizens autonomy to live their lives based upon values which may be unpopular or uncommon, provided they do not harm others. Many opponents of sex workers and their clients build straw man arguments. The sex work industry is characterized as being dominated by sex trafficking and exploitation of underage girls. These are certainly harmful behaviours, but there is no factual evidence or peer reviewed studies to support the view that these behaviours are representative of the industry. Fear mongering and decisions based upon fear mongering and inaccurate information will not result in sound law. Criminalizing clients or both clients and sex workers will only draw law enforcement attention away from harmful exploitation. Law enforcement will target easy arrests and never get to the hard undercover work required to crack down on the small proportion of trafficking and underage exploitation. The image of men and women involved in the sex work industry (as clients and providers) presented by abolitionists/prohibitionists is not representative of the majority of clients and workers in my experience. Most are ordinary people with diverse, common and ordinary backgrounds. While those participating in the sex industry will disagree with abolitionists/prohibitionists that sex work is inherently harmful, we all agree that we can find some common ground, which should be the basis for criminal law. Criminal law should continue to focus on exploitation through violence or coercion of adults and any exploitation of underage children or youth.
  47. 1 point
    All the above girls are great, each one different in their own ways. Don't forget JessicaMassage, Gina and Kellyxo. These girls offer true GFE experiences and are very good at treating you like a king and making sure that you are happy. It's always YMMV, it depends on the chemistry or connection and hygiene. Not all experiences are the same and depends on how the two of you relate to each other. Overall, they were all fun in different ways. Some were exceptional, but every experience is always different, even when it comes to repeat visits, otherwise it would be predictable. That's why meeting new girls is interesting, never know what's going to happen :) Can't forget the latest MA that I've seen. ChantalSummers, she is rapidly gaining a reputation as being a sexy fun GFE MA. She has a great sense of humour and is dedicated to making sure you are enjoying yourself.
  48. 1 point
    There's a few I could recommend publically, such as Luscious Lilly or Loraine Laney. And then I'd recommend anybody else, that you have gotten along well enough with, to be lucky enough to get onto their own trusted GFE whitelist. ;)
  49. 1 point
    Gabriella Laurence picture in a pool is very hot and creative!
  50. 1 point
    She's definitely a great one. She deserves more publicity, but she just doesn't want it. I asked her once if I could post a rec for her, and she just said that it wasn't necessary.
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