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The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

I think you just need to be you, find your own style, niche and be genuine or scripted, whatever works and remember you can't please everyone. There will be those who like you regardless, some will adore you and others will move on. We all have our fans but even though, that still won't guarantee a return visit. Because believe me you can give the best service, look great, talk sweet, be genuine, have a great locale that still won't be enough for some. There are types of men that want a regular girl, those who like variety and those who will try you because someone said you are great and some you just can't please. Just do for you that way you won't drive yourself crazy wondering:) Realistically everyone that sees you will form an opinion, good or bad. The most important one is the one you hold of yourself:)

How beautiful, and there can't be any better advice. You surpass yourself with every post. Men should be lined around the block for you and women should follow your lead, once again I bow to your eloquence and thank you for contributing. This post has helped me and made me realize something new-thank you

Anything done with love and kindness is memorable. We may not remember the specific person or events, but we remember that it happened with sincerity.

Maraena said it .... a real experience. "Make it real.....don't fake it real" A sense of mutual enjoyment in spending time together. It can be sensed by both parties !! and results in us guys coming back. And as time goes on and repeat visits happen ... chemistry, comfort zones and trust builds and it becomes so very easy and fun. Dates to look forward to. :) It just takes time. You have heard "be yourself" Jade eh ? ;) Well truth is it will play a big part in keeping us coming back !! Genuine smiles, sense of humor and personality is huge in repeat business for Me as an example. It is hard to fake a smile time and time again. It is hard to be funny when you are not, and it is hard to be someone you are not. and Hey. Maybe even make friends. Can never have too many of them.

I noticed while reading this thread, that everyone is saying "Be Yourself". Great advice, but if you're new to the industry and you're not familiar with things that men like, it's a good thing to start this thread to give you some things. Look at some of the recommendations that people have written about some of your peers, some might not have much information, some of go into great detail. I like everyone who is politically correct on this website will say be yourself, that's what we like, though there are also little things as well. Myself, I remember if a lady asks me if I want to set an appointment up in a certain way ( outfits, etc,) and sometimes the lady hasn't worn what was agreed upon, I don't write a bad review, I don't bring it up with the lady because it's not super important, I can get over it without making a big deal. If you are doing incalls, my opinion is that you have a nice location ( decorated, has a lived in feel), I feel that a room with a bed isn't all that exciting no matter how charming I feel you are. I think the environment reflects on the situation just as much as the person regardless of what you're meeting for. A stark room with a bed is just too business like in my opinion. Again, good points from everyone, the overwhelming theme seems to be yourself.

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What makes an encounter truly Memorable for me is when ,for a short while ,I forget I am a "client" and I become her intimate companion her suitor her friend and lover during our time together, the embraces warm the kisses real and that feeling stays with me until well after I,ve left and reality once again sets in !

Please note the ad Bp have a hot and wild time is by the same user that was demanding cam shows b4 we meet. I noticed similarities immediately and sure enough the cam fee was requested . I doubt the user is in our province

Hello, I was wondering what's your advices on how to be memorable? What makes you come back? I know the service is very important but what else? I welcome friendly advice from you guys. :) Thank you Jade

PLEASE, I urge all of you thinking of trying these type of drugs to visit your doctor and not be embarrassed! Honestly, they really don't give a shit about anything other than your health! If you are that self conscious, go to a clinic. The most important factor should be surviving the act and not how hard your dick gets! Life is more important than an orgasm! I have many friends over 50 who's doctors have even brought up the subject. It's not the fifties, it's a normal request now a days. Be safe, protect your health, become informed and THEN enjoy!

Mosquitoes that are as big as vultures!

I gave a very patient man $50 back last night. I arrived late for an outcall, we had plenty of time and weren't rushed, and he offered the full amount but I offered him a reduction for his patience. I'm sure he appreciated it although he certainly didn't expect it. What a sweetheart he was :p

I generally write recommendations for providers who have made a positive impression on me. This is my way of saying thank you and of letting others know when a great Service Provider is operating locally. I try to be selective on which enounters are recommendation worthy. If I haven't penned a recommendation it is either because the encounter was not that memorable or because life and other considerations have taken priority. I have written recommendations as late as 12 months after the encounter. In one case, I was seeing a special lady regularly for close to a year, frequently as often as weekly; when I realized that I had not offered up an endorcement of any kind! They say memory is one of the first things to go! My hope is that a well written recommendation will bring new business or renewed business to the lady in question.

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I enjoyed talking with you as well Zorro1990 and am thankful for all the times we shared together! I am going to be back and here to talk anytime! Thinking of you P.S..... you guys are all awesome and always there for me. I appreciate you guys so much! xoxoxoxox

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I like introducing myself through PM; text messages are too short to compose much of a greeting and introduction. Being a member may not automatically mean you're a gentleman, but it is yet another bit of information a lady can use to look up for references. Ads which state "phone or text only" wouldn't get a PM from me (I'm interpreting it as the lady not wanting to watch her inbox), but I do find myself wishing I could do initial contact through it, even if it's just for the first message. I don't know just how much a CERB reputation can be worth to a lady; probably doesn't matter that much, I'm just being who I am here too. Okay, maybe I'm a little bit less shy on here...

A lot of has already been said, and covered but for myself it has been being good friends,admiring,trusting,laughing,chatting, cuddling, saying hello to each other when you're not together and mutual admiration for each other but knowing when not to cross the line. Setting up plans for each repeat visit with longer durations, you get very comfortable, relaxed in each other's company.

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I am fairly new, therefore haven't met many friends, but I did post a reco before and I always ask first if it's ok. I agree, it's always nice to read a beautiful review. On the other hand ppl should refrain from negative comments. If you have nothing nice to say, then dont say anything. Thanks

I ended up dealing with Trish again over the recent robbery. She was very helpful in explaining how to proceed and what information I need to provide and what information I did NOT need to provide.

After an amazing 1st meeting with a wonderful CERB Lady I popped her a quick thank you message and said that I hoped to see her again... she was very polite and professional as she replied that she thought she had wine on her breath when we met and that for our next meeting we both might want to freshen up with some mouthwash... lol... yes she politely told me my breath was not great.... i learned from that lady and now alway have mouthwash and toothbrush and toothpaste in my vehicle... when I get to hotel I head to one if the public washrooms brush my teeth...use monthwash ...wash my hands and then text the lady to say I have arrived. I am quite thankful to this lady for being so honest yet tactful with me.

This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

I was awakened last night by a severe calf cramp. White hot pain lancing up ones leg is a great way to break the sleep cycle. When the alarm roused me from sleep's embrace this morning, I still had the echo of last night's agony pulsing up my leg. Short of waking up with a migraine, this is my least favourite way to start the day. Additional Comments: Aww RG, we will always be here for you. I realize this may be a weak substitute, but I like to think there are men & women in this community who truly care about each other. Not a bad definition of a family, even if it is a virtual family.

Yes retired. Her account is not active anymore. She will be missed...

Just asking this from curiosity. Hope to hear from ladies too if this happens to you a regular basis, and what might be in the minds of the gents. Often times I will book a session. Most often, men will say " I seen your posts on cerb" or what have you. But often, nothing is mentioned of CERB membership. It makes me a bit "gun shy" when I find out you are a CERB member but wish to not tell me. Does this mean you are hiding your handle from me, or just truly do not think it matters to me? See, if you book me on CERB and something happens that is NOT cool, then I guess I can report it, or ask others for a reference, but when not booking from CERB, then I do not have the site to help protect me. Is this the reason why some forget to mention that they are on CERB, so that there is no trace of us meeting? I do not know why, but it gives me the ebby gebby's to find out you are on cerb, but decide not to tell me:( Just as you wish us to be honest and open when booking, so do we. I do not like the idea of booking a handle that perhaps has pulled a bad one on another sp. That is what CERB is for, not just RECO for the ladies but the safety network for the ladies too. Curious to hear your input. I may consider a different rate for booking threw CERB, will this work?

When drawing meets reality!!!

I am still on my road trip but I expect to get home tomorrow. I had an awesome visit with family and we did lots of things together. I had a visit with a Cerb lady too.:) I will have another highlight later on if my Canadiens can start their comeback against the Rangers tonight. It's been a great week and I am ready to get home. :)

I've never had anyone scratch or even leave a finger print on my car luckily. If it happened I would probably cry.

Maybe he has this around his neck and it covers up the smell But if he knew he smelled enough to need covering up he wash And you'd think he'd see it when washing And deal with it when he noticed Sometimes you got to say WTF!!! Funny how common sense just isn't that common A half lighthearted rambling :-) RG

To begin with, when I book an encounter, even with a lady I haven't met yet, in the back of my mind I'm thinking I'll be writing a recommendation of our encounter after the encounter...and why do I think that?.....who would book an encounter with someone he thought would not provide a recommendation worthy encounter. Guess I'm a glass is half full type of guy. Second, a recommendation doesn't provide intimate details, nor does it have to. But it means I had a good time in the lady's company and I believe another gentleman would too. But it is an opinion, and every encounter is both unique to that lady and gentleman and YMMV plays heavily into it. Even repeat encounters are unique, the third encounter with a lady isn't a clone of the first encounter. And each and every recommendation since the very first one I ever wrote was given to the lady to read, and give her yay or nay. Not that she writes it or tells me what to say but she may not want one posted. There have been times no recommendations have been written. With the exception of a lady not wanting a recommendation written, I am extremely disappointed when I can't (yes can't) write one...it means I had a terrible date. I'm not a hard client to please. Encounters are human interactions, not final exams, and involve give and take, not a rehearsed script, if that makes sense. And a lady who is a good companion, but we have no connection/chemistry, well that isn't anyone's fault. And if she does everything "right" if that's the way to put it, she gets a recommendation. When I am with a lady I just can't recommend, then the time together was for me just bad. And I think for other gentlemen they would have a bad encounter too. For me to look at an encounter that way actually takes a lot of work.But that said I'm glad for CERB, which allows us to focus on the good, recommendation worthy encounters, and not allow negative reviews. If negative reviews were allowed, there would be a few, well six I'd write...and I'd rather not. Finally a recommendation for me at least is first and foremost a public thank you to the lady for providing a wonderful encounter and escape. Then second, maybe, just maybe, it will help the lady get another gentleman which would help her business. And third, sort of the opposite side of the second reason, it will let gentlemen know of a great companion that they might want to see. But for those recommendations I have written, I enjoyed writing them, because it brings back an immediate flashback to a great encounter and the lady who made it possible. And a secret exposed, every now and then I look back at a recommendation I wrote, it brings back fond memories. But if after the encounter, I'm thinking my time with the lady had a intangible value far greater than the donation she asked, and I have a smile on my face over our time together, well that's why I write a recommendation. A rambling RG

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Wow.... excellent...not sure it could be said any better.... Thanks Cat

Dorinda I bet every Cerb man is hoping it's the city where they live, myself included:)

I with you.... do whatever works for you... my comment was a personal one... i don't look for a discount from ladies because I am a CERB member...i get great benefits already from bring a member. Just my opinion

One other thing that I just recalled, and why I started confirming my board handle via PM. A very well known member here (he can say who he is) awhile back reported on other people booking ladies using his board handle. But a guy sending a email or text or whatever could say they are for example, roamingguy, yet never send a PM confirming board handle Using the PM to confirm board handle ensures it is, well using me, in my case, roamingguy is contacting you, not someone else claiming to be roamingguy. A rambling RG

LMAO...not what I meant!!

Well, since I recently sucked Miss Jane's cock, partly to settle some confusion in my own mind, I'm very clear on *my* answer: I may be technically bi-sexual, or more accurately pan-sexual, in the sense that I'm going to have fun in a sexual sense with just about anything and anyone, no matter what shape their genitals are. I'm not strictly heterosexual or homosexual, since those imply a 100% perfectly strict adherence to only have sexual contact (or being sexually excited) by a single gender, and that's not the case. On the other hand, I don't identify as LGBT in any other sense. I'm definitely not "gay". I only want romantic relationships with females. This could possibly extend to TGs who are extremely feminine (including emotionally) as those are female in my mind. I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with a "man" (including FtM TGs, sorry guys) even though I have no objection to having fun with one sexually. The problem is that western society conflates who/what you want a romantic relationship with, with who/what you want to fuck, and those aren't necessarily the same thing. Consequently, I'd provide a completely different answer to a biologist than I would to a psychologist, if they both asked me if I was bisexual. -Adam

I was up early as usual this morning. I was sitting down enjoying my breakfast when I realised I was sweating. This is highly irregular for me unless I have been doing something to work up a sweat for. ;) Turns out that it is +24 and feels like +34.

The number one things that pisses me of and this is not directed at Cerb gents. Most ladies advertise elsewhere of course and one common theme is these people don't bother to read one thing about me. I get tons of calls and there is no, "Hello my name is Bill, how are you?" Sometimes its , "hey just wondering what your rates are". If I'm in a good mood I usually tell him that if this is first question it probably isn't going to work. lol. If I'm in a bad mood I just hang up. Generally this type of fool will call right back and say the same thing. Never once have I been able to turn this sort of call around.

When I was 29 years old I chose to start my escort business.. I honestly believe that was the perfect age for me. When I first started although I had an innocence about me I was still mature and was able to learn quickly on how to be a good escort. And I loved it! Now at 36 with almost 8 years of great memories and experiences I feel that I am not only confident in my skills but also with life in general. I feel that we SP's understand men on a level that most civillian women just wouldn't understand. I walk away from almost all of my appointments with a smile.. this industry has reminded me that real men do exist. I did leave the industry for a couple of years (2011-2013) - I came back because I was missing out on apart of who I am and what I enjoy doing. Since I have been back I have been reminded of how much I was meant to be a service provider lol So, I don't know if it is age, experience or lifestyle choices that make girls different ... I think some just don't care to view this as a business and that's fine too xoxo

Vanessa... Much like many of the other threads, the reason that I come to see a provider is to see that specific provider. I am not fussy on services and am not there to critique the neighbourhood, the building or even the furnishings. You can't be responsible for the outward appearance of a building that you don't own; it would be unreasonable to believe that it would be a reflection on your personal tastes or desirability. Unless there is a knife wielding man in a hockey mask outside your door, atmosphere is a negligible concern for the discerning hobbyist. It's with you that the true magic begins...