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I have read the entire tread and if I have done any of those to any gents I have met and they read this..I apologize in advance(I know I have been guilty to not reply fast enough at time due to my travels) I personally do not like the babe Hun etc name when I never met someone however it seem it the new type of intro some guys do. I try in general not to use those words as I hate them... My usual reply to text like that is Hello it's Victoria ..how can I help you ? I know it may sound cold however nice introduction always help to smooth a convo

One that is a turn off for me is when the SP and I are in the "act" and she begins to tell me to "cum for me baby" right after the act has begun. I really enjoy the intimacy of two people intertwined and I like this to last a little longer than 60 secs. As I am a little older now, it ain't going to happen in 60 secs. but this can be a real turn off for me, even to the point of wilting, if you know what I mean.

They know that. They also know that any legal challenge to the laws will take a decade, more or less, before the SCC rules on it... by which time it'll be someone else's problem. This isn't an effort to solve any problems. It's just kicking the can down the road.

Gents there is a phone number posted on this ad . Why not call and ask the correct questions ? Even better stick with a recommended Cerb lady . I am not trying to say Cerb ladies are the only answers to your prayers . However as some one that does not have the opportunity to be on here as much as I should I continuously see questions about this lady or that one from another site . Guys you already have a really good idea about most of the ladies on here and if you don't I bet its pretty easy to find out via PM. It always astounds me to see you novice and senior hobbyists questioning ladies from other sites and they are sometimes sketchy with quite a low donation . More than many times I see that gents have been burned and disappointed with the time spent with these bargains. Gee on a larger scale when I was younger and wanted to travel to exotic destinations I " dreamed of a less expensive place and hoped I'd have a wonderful vacation. Alas it was usually a pipe dream. Now I book only high quality and proven resorts . These past few years have been my best vacations . I expect quality and I pay for quality . Some how I have not been able to find a " cheap bargain " Food for thought!

The Hun, dear, sweets, pet names don't bother me. They are actually quite endearing. Lack of attentiveness (seeming preoccupied), televisions blaring or cell phones ringing make me feel less than important and in some way unwelcome. Soft music, candles etc. have the opposite effect on me. A lady not seeming to be ready when I arrive - "wait, I'll only be a minute" or a messy incall are also turnoffs. To much perfume or sickly sweet air fresheners (usually used to disguise tobacco smoke) are also a turnoff.

Ladies can call me whatever works for them, it is the service that I enjoy. Biggest turn-off at the beginning, is being told to wait... and wait and wait. Not a great start. I would say the next is the absence of some basic services that I thought we agreed to. Kissing, Daty, etc. Anyway, I tried to avoid this by asking more questions, but think sometimes this might irritate the ladies. Additional Comments: Ladies can call me whatever works for them, it is the service that I enjoy. Biggest turn-off at the beginning, is being told to wait... and wait and wait. Not a great start. I would say the next is the absence of some basic services that I thought we agreed to. Kissing, Daty, etc. Anyway, I tried to avoid this by asking more questions, but think sometimes this might irritate the ladies.

This site ONLY allows positive comments in public posts. If you do not have anything positive to say about a SP (or anything for that matter) when someone asks please simply say nothing at all. You can PM them if you wish with PRIVATE INFO but do not post publicly. You CAN NOT POST comments like I do not recommend Info on other site don't do it! stay away not worth it etc... etc.... etc......... That is NOT what this site is for. YES we know some of you would like it to be and YES we know some of you feel it is your god given right to post whatever you want on our members only board but the truth is... our house our rules and we DO NOT want it here. If you must read negative comments or if you must post negative comments then please do so on OTHER websites... or start your own. Do not PM me after I give you a warning or infraction telling me how I should run the site either (This is especially annoying with new members) yes of course mr. 1 post guy you can tell me how we should run the site you are so helpful! (NOT!) If you don't like our rules... start your own website and let us enjoy this one.

By being here or writing reviews after the Nordic model comes to pass

To me, Seduction is... A powerful aphrodisiac... It is the build up of sensual tension, the anticipation of pleasure to come... Seduction is a connection between 2 souls... If you seek the right chemistry, allow yourself to be seduced first... ;-)

I just love how succulent they are :) Additional Comments: I also love hearing a woman enjoying having them licked and sucked...Plus it helps get my tongue warmed up LOL :)

As will you, apparently. I can't speak to pimping; I have not directly experienced or witnessed such a thing. However, I did know a provider who preferred not to see blue (because really, what does the specific race matter?) male clients, because she had once been assaulted by a blue man. It wasn't explicitly advertised that she wouldn't see blue men, but she could often ascertain a client's race via screening methods. She knew that she didn't want to take the risk of having a client who would remind her of her assailant. I also knew a provider who came from a small, close-knit community, and preferred not to see clients from that same community, because she didn't want to risk encountering someone who might know her in "real" life. So, let's not jump to conclusions. There are a myriad of reasons why someone might choose to exclude certain clients.

I don't think you have anything to worry about just yet. The bill has to pass through Parliament & then Senate so it's not a done deal. I think the constitutionality of a new bill (especially this one) will be under the microscope. LE probably don't make any investigative moves retroactively prior to new law being enacted. They would be chasing their tails trying to prove criminal activity before something is actually considered a criminal offense. They also have to decide how to enforce new law. Will they use this forum as a tracker tool - they probably already do but so what?.... How many Senators (remember Wilbur Keon?), Ministers, Politicians, Backroom boys are clients themselves? What do you wanna bet those guys are gonna be chewing their nails about keeping their jobs if they pass an unpopular or stupidly draconian bill.

I'm guilty of not visiting my favorite groups often but, dog lovers in particular doesn't get any attention, imo, as do many:( So I stopped going, perhaps it's time to visit more:)

The common point that people make is that sp's are more informed and vigilant - some are and some are not It's often compared against picking up women in clubs who are less informed. Anyone giving bbbjs is in contact with potentially infected tissue More often than can reasonably be assumed when u r meeting some one in a bar I also don't thjnk that wanting information is ever really an issue wanting to be informed is the best way to protect every body's health.

Yes it will take time, I agree...BUT it s also going to take time for me to make my own changes. I would see my lawyer as I need to understand and prepare to make changes for my business. I am an agency in a very small town, so if they are going through with Nordic model I need to know exactly what "benefiting off others" is going include. Not just the girls who work here that pay me their fee, but also to the person I am paying my rent to. This is not the case for INDY providers, but I strongly feel agency's can become a target for them to watch closely, whereas I am stationary and do not travel it would be much easier for LE to gather info and harass my clients. Granted, they have their hands full with looking at the agency's who cause disturbances, minors etc. Besides, should it not be expected that I would, as a business owner who have many people depending on the fact I keep myself in the know, to protect the people that surround my business and especially protecting my clients that come and go from my location? It's the whole reason I have a lawyer in the first place.

Nordic Model proponents do not really believe that it's "okay" to sell sexual services. In fact, quite the opposite. The ideology believes that all sex workers are victims of male violence, pimps, mental issues, and "the patriarchy". It's grandiose purpose is unabashedly the complete outright abolition of sex work. It's plan is to achieve this by scaring clients from buying sexual services (with criminalisation), and therefor ending all demand for sexual services. Those who want to introduce a Nordic Model style of law to Canada believe that through basic legislation and criminalisation, Canada will be the only place on earth without prostitution. Here is a simple fact sheet about why we strongly oppose the failed Nordic model: http://chezstella.org/docs/Infosheets/En/ciminalizing_the_purchase_140322.pdf And here is a fact sheet about the "New Zealand model", which we propose (full decriminalisation of sex work): http://chezstella.org/docs/Infosheets/En/new_zealand_140322.pdf And yes, post Bedford decision, a Nordic style law will be challenged, and will not pass constitutional muster. Canada will have decriminalisation of sex work, maybe soon, maybe in 15 years. Truth is, clients are already criminalised through bawdy house laws and solicitation laws. They do not stop clients from purchasing sexual services, and the SCC said those laws were unconstitutional. This kind of law would be too. I'm really waiting to see what the new legislation will be, before getting ahead of myself though. It's coming down this week.

The new legislation is being presented this week. Let's wait to see what the new legislation actually IS, before we get ahead of ourselves. I'll post again when it comes down, along with a brief from our Canadian sex worker rights legal team about what it will actually mean for all of us. Follow or check out @CDNSWAlliance for all the latest. This is an alliance of all the main sex worker advocacy and rights groups from across the country. You don't need to have a Twitter account to see their tweets or click the links they post.

All-in you are 100% correct!. Usually they are up to no good and are looking for girls to pimp. I've experience this myself so I stay away.

Hi have a thing for Indian (South Asian) girls... so without further adooo.. Part 1 Zara at CMJ. Wonderful experience. She is mixed race - South and East Asian - Zara has awesome features and does still appear, at least to me, to be of Indian heritage... thereby taking me back to my youth and my old backpacking days! : ) Amazingly, Zara has turned me into a bit of breast-man lately. Give me a spank-able ass any day and I'll spend 24 hour there.. but for whatever reason Zara's boobs had me mesmerized and I had LOTS and LOTS of fun playing with her front, back and behind. Looking forward to her return from vacation!

I must say that, even with the old established laws, I found most lawyers to be totally clueless. Let's see what shakes out, and then find and share the lawyers that actually know what they're doing.

If you find two ladies who are duo partners, to see, tell them what you want, and they may be able to assist you in finding a male for your MMFF. Of course keep in mind they have to be comfortable with the idea too Good Luck RG

In the spirit of open discussion - why with no MM touching? I see what an MFF threesome adds to the mix, and I see what would be added to the mix in an MMFF foursome with MM touching, but I don't see what's added with no MM touching - for you, that is, I see what could be added for the FFs. Welcome to CERB, by the way - this isn't a a criticism or an attack, just a friendly question.

Holy badonk a donks, picture number three:) I want those! Beautiful.

No more than a gentleman writing a recommendation now about a lady he saw at her incall which is technically illegal Or ads for escort agencies...I'm no lawyer but I believe illegal (living off the avails) Whether it's current law or new law, don't expect the police all of a sudden to be extra motivated to go after anyone in this lifestyle, be it companion or lady The new law is merely a political response to the SCC decision If it's going to be a new law enforcement priority, then expect the government (federal, provincial and municipal) to increase spending to give to police departments the resources needed to enforce the new laws. If they didn't see it as a priority before, don't count on it as a priority now Just my opinion RG

There will be a current and former sex-worker only social from 7:30 p.m. - 9:30 p.m. on Wednesday June 4th (tomorrow). It is open to sex-workers from any sector of the industry including erotic massage, escorts, cam workers, erotic dancers, people who offer BDSM services, phone workers, agency workers, and independents, etc. It is also open to any person of any gender and sexual orientation. There will be vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free snacks available. Please feel free to drop by for 15 minutes and then leave, or stay for the entirety of the two hours. Please PM me for the location (same location as usual). Again, this is for workers only (current and former). Thanks, Nat xox Additional Comments: It would seem the new legislation that will regulate sex work in Canada will be tabled tomorrow by Peter MacKay. That being said, I will bring copies of the bill, as well as a synopsis from PIVOT Legal Society (really awesome people), and general information about what it might mean, etc.

An invitation to visit the social group area on cerb. There's been lots of new posts in many of them, and you will find something you like! :)

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Probably not, as you know we are paid for time . Its a lot of time to go to NB spend the day and return for one client, Sorry !

I defiantly agree! That is exactly what I posted in the beginning she may date black gentlemen and she may not want to run into someone she may know on that level or even family There are so many possible reasons Wouldn't really make no sense to keep going on because only she would know why

Play one other hypothetical here. The companion is married She is married to a black man Her husband is unaware of her profession (he thinks she is a MA, but not a SP) In her city it has a small black community, and her husband has relatives and friends in that community The lady doesn't want to run a real risk of running into her husband's family/friends There can be all sorts of reasons, not all necessarily racist. So don't assume the worst...you don't know To quote Oscar Wilde, "When you assume you make an ass out of u and me" A rambling RG

Since I was stuck in Montreal I decided to have diner at Madison's ...one of my fav restaurant...so here's what I'm having...grilled veg with a side order of grilled chicken...perfect portion :)

Guys who book to just cancel, seems to be a game some like to play. What they feel they accomplish doing this is beyond me, however, I do keep a bad date list and know that guys that do this have the character flaw, not I:)

I knew you were a pussy freak;) and that'll make some very happy;)

Don't insult an SP by requesting this. If you feel there is too much risk for you to go see an SP, don't go see one. Anyone can get an STI, not just a service provider and this is a great way to never hear from an SP again. There is always risk and the only risk free way is abstaining from sexual activities and intercourse all together. Don't expect an SP to clear your mind where STDS are concerned. You are responsible for your own sexual health as is everyone else.

a turnoff for me is arriving and find that the SP or MA is either high as a kite, or drunk as a skunk. might just be me, but I don't find it professional to be doing that when your providing a service.

Jeebus. I must be part Newf. Those terms of endearment are central to my means of addressing people. I think, if taken in its purest form, the act of endearing someone by saying "hun", "sweets", "darling" or even *gasp* "babe"... is a genuine form of drawing someone closer. By doing so, you aren't trying to demean or diminish them - you are letting them know that your intention is to be inclusive, that they mean something to you. In short, they like you!!!

Use logic... I clearly meant that they (The strippers) found that those of that particular demographic (black) found within their place of employment (a strip club) generally purchased their services (private dances) as an excuse to try to rope them in to a managed arrangement (pimping). Want your own opinion? Head to Pigales or Barefax tonight and hang around the bar and listen to the conversations around you. Its hilarious how obvious they are at times.

It's been almost a couple years since I met my first companion, and though I only get the occasional chance to enjoy the company of one of the lovely ladies hereabouts, I feel like I've learned a lot in that time. I still remember how nervous I was contacting my first provider... I'm sure I made a few rookie mistakes... Luckily she was very welcoming and understanding... And my initial stunned shock... Soon enough gave way to pure bliss... And by the end I had been made to feel like a champion... So thank you to that first lady, and to those incredible ladies I've had the pleasure of meeting since, and to any whose company I may someday get the opportunity to share. Because though I may still sometimes feel pretty shy, the memories and anticipation you create leave me a bit more...well...animated. :) ........... So, anyone else have a story? Or (to have fun and keep it simple), anyone have that one image or gif that sums up how Cerb and the people you meet here make you feel?

Pretty much all of the above but mostly faking. I don't want some generic, "oh baby, oh baby, oh god" fake orgasm crap. I would honestly prefer the lady say, "that isn't doing it for me hon, let's try this or that". And if nothing works, so be it. At least I know what not to do or what needs working on and don't go through life thinking I'm good when I'm not. Any lady I've been with, I have expressed my need for that honesty up front. The other thing is this. Enjoy what you are doing or get out of the biz, imo. When you hate your job, it comes out of you in waves for everyone to see and feel.

I have been fortunate to meet some great ladies. And also for me the 'connection' is important so if I feel we've had a good time together...I'm often a repeat customer. But a couple things in my experience would fall into the 'turn off' category. 1. Obviously 'No Shows'. Yeh it happens to guys too. I've had it happen a couple of times. And I've always left the benefit of the doubt, provided the lady with opportunity to explain/apologize....and nothing. 2. 'Over the Top' It can be in talk, attitude, or looks. I know this gets to be personal choices but my preferences are just down to earth, respectful, and classy ladies. I like having real conversations. For me my dates go way better when we connect on various levels as well as physical. I've learned to look at ads better and communicate more openly with prospective dates. I remember meeting up with a lady at an agreed location (my 5 star hotel had card key) and although her ads/pics described a 'down to earth' 'classy' woman, she was wearing knee high stripper boots, a short mini skirt, and furry coat and lots of make-up. I know I could have been more specific. Walking through the lobby, past reception, concierge and the lounge was quite the scene. I'm sure some guys like this...but at least for me - just be yourselves. Thanks for the chance to comment and again the majority of ladies who read this are AAA....already absolutely adorable. Cub

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I'm not entirely sure I understand the point of this thread - so instead of assuming I'm going to ask for clarification... Are you suggesting that there are members of this board, primarily women (given what you've written here) that only "thank" or "nominate" their friends posts, and not just anyones? Please clear that up for me, as I am unsure of your meaning :)

You should:) She has amazing boobies and I'm sure many other qualities that'll make you or any of the other gents happy men. Any of you who ask about a lady I hope would be generous enough to reco about your experience if worthy so others can also enjoy and so the lady in question can benefit that way everyone wins. Happy hobbying:)

I kinda think a lot of what we look for in this hobby is that element of seduction.... that feeling that we are seducing sexually a beautiful sexy lady or more often that the amazing women we meet are sexually seducing us through their acts of enticement and temptation. The ladies who I have met who are especially adept at the art of seduction have an innate ability to be charming ... to ascertain after just a few minutes of conversation or the exchange of a handful of texts or emails what makes us tick...what things will heighten our desire for them. They use their intelligence ... the ability to choose just the right word that will create sexual association in our mind ..., the use humour to relax us and make us feel comfortable so that we let down our inhibitions and and of course they use physical contact... a touch or a kiss and their amazing smell to arouse our interest. Seduction is creating that relaxed welcoming environment that is also highly sexually charged... it's really amazing because we know in this industry that sex will happen but yet we desire the seduction,,, the atmosphere of lust and desire... the undeniable feeling that the two people there in the room are being drawn together by something more powerful than just a sex act. Now maybe that is just me ... maybe that is what i have experienced and need... in my most successful encounters i have generally had significant contact with the lady before the meeting.. we have talked and gotten to know a bit about each other .... this contact by phone or text or email is like a pursuit... sometime me pursuing her .. sometime her pursuing me ... but in ether it creates an environment of seduction and passion that i find amazing. Sorry for the rambling... because all i really know is that the seduction is important to me the feeling of pursuit and attraction is very important to me.... the intensity is important to me... Just my opinion..

The waiting is over, I TOFTT and am glad I did. Review posted here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=178543 Additional Comments: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=178543

I hoped you called the sp to cancel. Not showing up when you've received all the location information, including room number, is extremely scary to many sps.

Part of the fun of meeting someone new is the excitement and anticipation. Hoping that you will connect and have a great time or an out standing time. If you aren't nervous and excited, What's the point :) If she's just as nervous as you it means that she is just as excited and anticipating just like you :). If she's not then to her it's just another day at the office :(