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4 points(this was directed to post # 51, btw, written and posted after 52 showed up lol) well, in reality the risk when you always do incalls has always been exactly the same sort of risk as c36 is introducing. If you were found in a bawdy house, that's when charges can be laid, names can be named, etc. That has always been the case, and that in effect is no difference from being in the incall now or being found to be paying an sp in the future. What i have a hard time following is why people seem to think that the enforcement/investigation/charging is going to somehow magically be easier for the one thing when it has rarely if ever been done for the current laws. If you go to a massage parlour, you will be at risk, just the same as when LE currently decides to investigate and do surveillance on mps now, so will they do this in the future for C36. Will they be out there every day, will every day be high risk? of course not, in the past at best some mps have been singled out for a raid, and 2 or 3 clients found in the bawdy house. In the future, some mps will be singled out and a different set of 2 or 3 clients will be found in there, but the difference is, the sps will not be chargeable for being found in a bawdy house. Another similar thing will be that the mp owner will again be chargeable, for something under c36, instead of what they are currently charged with. The reason most long time sps say it will be pretty much business as usual, and/or that all we are going to do is return to the way we used to advertise, is because we went thru this prior to the internet influx of tell all ads, and we didn't discuss rates/services in conversations before because doing that simply confirmed that our incalls were bawdy houses. Now doing that will confirm that a client can receive sexual services, so if a client is observed leaving said location, it can be presumed that sexual services were paid for and received. Instead of a bawdy house charge said client gets charged with something else. Again, do they currently charge the clients leaving or in any sp incall? nope, so why is there this huge assumption that suddenly they are going to be able to find and charge clients leaving sp's incalls all over the country, when they haven't been doing that now. No one is coming up with extra $$.
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4 pointsI do understand this and in no way want you to continue outside of your comfort. But I can say, and even the Chief of police in many area's has stated that they simply do not have the funds to prosecute. The only funds they have is the " easy to catch" so in other words street level, forced, and trafficked. They can not risk the little money they have on an advertiser that is clearly stating " I do not sell sexual services" . To go after a client who enquired, or an advertiser for time, is far too much expense, therefore would be a waste of funds that could have been used for exploited and underage. The last thing that LE wants, is too go threw all of that to have a " case dismissed" from lack of supporting evidence. Also, keep in mind, every in call you visited hotel or home, has always been illegal, and they did not have the funds for that either. I have been investigated once ( and this was when illegal for in call! ), they looked around to see if I had drugs around, child in my home, to make sure I was in fact independent and not forced. Shook my hand and said " thank you Sophia, I am glad to see a proper business run around here" then left. I was happy for this, as now I know I am not on the radar for any further investigations. At the end of the day, they knew I was not a menace to my community, or in danger of any kind. They will move on to find the underage and trafficked. If you fish the ocean or a barrel of fish, and you have one chance to eat, will you choose the barrel? Yes, because that is a for sure win, not the other. As for your question email or PM? Well go ahead and enquire for the time donation, but as far as fine details, I am sure you will see more SP's asking you to voice call. There is no way that they can trace voice calls during or after. Do not enquire for sexual services plain and simple. Foe a new lady on the scene, don't even ask on voice call, wait till your behind closed doors and ask away. No entrapment is allowed in Canadian laws.
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4 pointsCancellation and no shows are never ok by either the provider or hobbyist. If there was a final confirmation was done, and then she no showed, this is unfortunate. Sorry if this happened. However, I have a concern with your comments about deposits and information. Any REPUTABLE provider would never keep a deposit if she has to cancel. She stands to loose more by doing this. Because you had a bad experience, please do not tar every provider with the same brush. Many of us strive to maintain a reputation of integrity. I once had a client who transfered the entire fee. Shortly after, I had to cancel for reasons out of my control. I immediately refunded the money back. We eventually did get to meet and had a wonderful time together. If your encounter was with someone who has no reputation, then maybe you need to explore those that strive to maintain a stellar reputation. I certainly hope this is not an attempt to air dirty laundry. Sometimes things happen, and hope she was able to make this up to you.
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4 points"In Durham Region, officers interviewed 31 sex trade workers, with an average age of 26, and investigators believe nine were under some level of control. These 31 people represent the highest total for any police service during Operation Northern Spotlight II." I find that they BELIEVED 9 were under some level of control which means they can't actually prove it. What they don't factor in is the tendency for peope to default to the inaction of "it's easier to blame someone else for your actions than own it when challenged" if it's something they haven't reconciled within themselves... cat
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3 pointsLets come back to this very thread 6 months from now and see how things have been enforced. I agree with Fortunateone's comments. What if there was a rare police raid and a client was found in a bawdy house with the way the laws are on the books right now? You would still be subjected by LE, etc, maybe your wife would find out, etc. Why is it okay now but suddenly not okay by Dec 19 or whenever the deadline is? It's only now that much awareness has been given by the media that has people worried because of getting a criminal record. I understand why...don't get me wrong but to think you are safe now isn't entirely correct either yet people are still out there discussing, asking and agreeing when it comes to certain services. People associated with this industry ( SPs and clients alike) have all been breaking the law for years!! Do you know how much time, effort and money it would take for them to enforce this new law? If I were employed in a position in law enforcement, I would be so dreading the moment when this bill becomes official law. If you still want to hobby, then stick with who and what you know. There are plenty of reputable and well established SPs here with evidence to prove they are legitimate. Don't stray into unknown territories and you will be fine. I understand the worry of not wanting to get a record however the fear mongering that is happening when it isn't even law yet, is getting tiresome to be quite honest. Worrying and speculating about this when things aren't even finalized isn't good for anyone. Frankly, I'm tired of hearing all the doomsday b.s. If a person thinks that's how it's going to be then that will be the outcome. The sky isn't going to fall. Certain changes will be implemented and business will carry on but a bit differently. Yes I admit I've worried and speculated but I'm not going to let it get me down. There are many changes that I've had to adjust to while in this business and I adjusted. To me, this is just another brief period of adjusting. In some ways, it will do me a favor. No longer will I have to read "Rates, menu, location available?" I never want to see those words again! Now they will HAVE to say "Hello" to me! If a person feels out of sorts and has hesitation then it's probably best not to stay in the game. And this sort of feeling can apply towards any type of decision in a person's life. Not just this issue. Stop worrying! There are always alternatives such as established SPs who know how to be discrete!
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3 pointsWill SP'S and clients find a way around this new law undoubtedly with this business continue...of course the problem is that the new law has just made it harder on everyone. For the most part the criminal risk will move from the SP to the client... in the past i had to worry about my wife discovering my hobby and think about the view society would have of me if it became know that i had been with an escort... in the future i will still have those things to worry about but i have to add the risk of criminal charges and the loss of my job if I am convicted. That is a significant increase in risk and will undoubtly cause' at best a short term negative impact on the market. Add to that the fact that most clients will never want to give their names to sp's and you have a huge increase in risk for SP's. Will i quit i don't think so.. will i be less likely to connect with someone new yes. Just my opinion
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3 pointsSexy is all about manifesting. You think, therefore you are. Sexy is not having to prove a damn thing such as being sexy. lol. I am sexy.
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3 pointsI think this may have been mentioned before, but nothing turns me off more then when the guy can clearly tell I'm enjoying myself and stops to say "you should be paying me for this!" or when they're leaving, "I'm going to see you again, but I get a discount next time!". Well thanks for killing the mood, jeez :P Also, when they send a message at about 5 or 6 in the morning, and since I'm very much not awake at that time, by the time I'm up a few hours later I've received a bunch of "???", "hello?", "did I do something wrong?". Posted via Mobile Device
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3 pointsAssuming we have no family or friends because of what we do for a living or that we're lonely ALL the time. It's how you choose to live your life and what you make of it. If you're going to be lonely and sad then that's what you're manifesting in life. If you want to be happy, then you're going to be happy. Your job is what you do and not who you are. This includes all human beings and not just SPs. This is sad that some people can think this. We eat, breathe, feel and love the same as our clients. Sometimes I wonder if some guys think we're not human. lol. Some people would be surprised how many SPs have regular lives outside of this business. However many SPs would think it's no one's business but their own which is true and only reveal the side that clients wish to see. Some things are better left unsaid. Including an SP's personal life. We are there to fulfill a fantasy that shouldn't be marred by the real world.
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3 pointsAs many of you know, cancer continues to march along, treatments both here and Toronto have had a very small delaying effect and I should see the new year. However, I am grateful for: -being able to appreciate a really nice camel toe like the one on my young nurse from the last two weeks (I really wanted to drop something on the floor so I could get closer!!!! Just like in elementary school) -being able to appreciate her thong and tight uniform highlighting her C breasts and BIG nipples (how do I know they were a C, I asked, when you have cancer you can ask any stupid question! and she smiled when she answered!!!!) -the many of you who have offered support either publicly or thru pm, always appreciated and quite frankly sometimes very needed -the ability to laugh at myself when I do something stupid, like banging my head with the toilet seat last week when puking! I mean really, who does that and how stupid am I to grab onto the seat rather than the porcelain??!! -the ability to see humour, sometimes dark, like when on the way home from Toronto last Friday, pulled over to puke, standing in front of the car, bent over, OPP stops and comes up behind me, scares the shit out of me and I spray his boots as I turn around. OOPS! no harm no foul, just dirty boots. after giving me a lecture to not stand in front of the car, he started to laugh, and so did I -the ability to see the beauty, sexuality and sensuality of the many Ladies of CERB I have visited over the last couple of years, MP's and SP's alike. Many of whom I consider friends. And the many I have yet to visit, but speak to in the chat room, on private messages. Luv ya all! So not to be a downer, it is true that my tongue still works, my hands and fingers love massaging and my brain is ...... well I was never the sharpest knife in the drawer!!!! Have a good one folks. Enjoy ! And remember: get lots of SEX, it does the body good! The Liquor Tom
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2 pointsA sculpture in Paris It's inspired by the shape of a Christmas Tree, apparently. It's definitely not a 25-foot-high buttplug. Okay? Here's another one of his works...
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2 pointsKimmie and I are in. In fact I have ordered the mistletoe already for the occasion!
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2 pointsFurther to Cat's point, I think they would also list any agency worker as someone they believe to be "controlled", so keep that in mind. Not everyone with an agent or a manager is coerced. I also love how the young people that legitimately are rescued through completely different operations are always lumped in with these pointless interviews. I'm sure it is done deliberately to try to make it look like these initiatives are more effective than they are. A short correction a few days later is better than nothing, but most people reading the story the first day will never see that. The police and/or media is clearly using a bit of propaganda there. It's frustrating.
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2 pointsI have rear parking and a rear entry, ( hey! Not that kind! lol) But often PPL will park down the street, then walk up to my front door! Like wha??? Your parking away for fears, but you come to my front door? LMAO. Not long ago, one Gent was on his way to airport, so naturally had a suitcase with him, instead of having the cab bring him straight to my driveway, he jumps out 3 houses down and is walking down the street ( residential area) with his suitcase and a suit and tie....OHHHHH DEAR!!! If he thought he was less obvious then he missed the mark on that one! I absolutely hate it when you park away, and walk up to my front door, or even up the driveway period. It looks so bad, especially when they look like they are sulking up the drive way in that paranoid way. It actually throws me for a loop and sort of ruins the excitement I had for that first moment of meeting:( Follow any instructions the lady gives you, we have this routine for a reason, cause it IS the best for you and her.
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2 pointsThat reminds me of a response I had to a recent review I wrote of you Victoria. For the rest of you, the guy read my well-written review and proceeded to ask me who this woman was and a bunch of other nonsense. I thought my head would explode but I gathered myself and as politely as I could, explained to him that just a couple forums down was the advertising section for our particular area and all her info was right there as well as a link to her website. He posted back thanking me and then asked, "Lovely looking lady, what's her rates, menu?" Luckily, a fellow poster stepped in and set him straight. I may have been banned from the site if I had responded. Thank god for self control. As I read this thread from time to time, it seems that basic reading comprehension has to be at or near the top of the list because 99% of the things some guys do are clearly stated as "no-no's" on virtually every SPs ad and/or webpage. I seriously don't know how you ladies do it. Your patience is amazing. Kudos ladies because I think I might snap if asked some of the shit you get asked.
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2 pointsNational ads aren't a red flag for SB's actually. They will relocate for the right SD and many SD's fly their SB's in for visits. Having some distance ensures things don't get messy... cat
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2 pointsI have a lovely older gentleman that needs help and I pick him up and take him home. I think there are quite a few ladies that live in more rural areas that know some clients very well and in the spirit of co operation we just help where help is needed. I totally understand that ladies in larger cities can't be trekking across town running taxi but here in my little area its easy to do . (When I am here ) :icon_smile:
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2 pointsAny discounts for returning customers? Why dont you just get a boyfriend with money and then you won't have to do this? What a piss off! Did it ever occur to people that I have chosen to do this and don't need to it? No one's business why I do. Why do some men think we need a man to take care of us? What? Because we cant stand on our own two feet? ive been taking care of myself since i was 19 years old. I dont need a man and frankly I don't want a bf right now. The last one was too much of a headache. I bet you say that to all the guys. Okay thanks for calling me a bullshitter. I'm not fake and as genuine as they come but I realize that it's more about themselves when they make that comment. Posted via Mobile Device
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1 pointAs always...CMJ finds fantastic ladies...Jewel is new (two weeks) but you would never know it by the attitude and touch. Very responsive...very quickly....Very hot in the shower....(even before the water got warm)...very friendly...likable...cute...fun...sweet...devilish...and short (ya I mean not very tall...I like that) quick to get started...slow to finish... if she clicks with you as she did with me you are in for a very good time. I highly recommend her!!! How do you always find such amazing ladies Jasmin! cheers lucky guy
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1 pointI've been saying this from the get go. No extra money has gone to police for enforcement of C36. And the police aren't parked at Timmies right now having a donut just chomping at the bit waiting to enforce it. This isn't even a police driven legislation. This is a MacKay bill in response to the SCC decision on Bedford. But to the police, this is just a new law used to enforce prostitution offences...it's not some ideological/philosophical /quasi religious calling for them as it appears to be for MacKay, Joy Smith and others Some simple common sense solutions, no discussion of sex for money, ladies, call yourselves escorts, not prostitutes. Guys, don't look for a menu of services, nor ask, and ladies, don't advertise one We all know what's going on with C36. The ladies and gentlemen who can adapt will still carry on in this lifestyle. Those that don't adapt, they're the ones who may be the first C36 casualties A rambling RG
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1 pointJuicy Round Tits, Firm Booty And Toned Frame!!! I PROMISE AN AMAZINGLY UNIQUE TIME ! I STRIVE to tease, please, put you at ease...AND give you the ultimate satisfaction guaranteed. I LOVE mutual encounters of eroticism and TRUE pleasure as well as ENTICING conversations & bonding relationships. Hot & Juicy Schedule For Today: (Fri. Oct. 17th) is posted below, check it out!. You can also Pre-Book your session ! My Appearance: 24 year old, long haired brunette, dazzling sexy hazel eyes, lightly tanned, silky smooth skin, I stand at 5'3, 125lbs with curves in all of the right places, 36C perfect tittys!, gorgeous face features and i am Italian & French of nationality. My Personality: Very outgoing, playful, sensual, erotic, open minded, seductive, naughty, bubbly, sweet, classy, talkative, sweet, caring, intelligent, respectful, honest and discreet. WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT IN A UNIQUELY EROTIC EXPERIENCE WITH ME: -Gents please PM/PRIVATE EMAIL, TEXT OR CALL ME IN REGARDS TO MY ALL MY SPECIAL SERVICES & RATES- thank you for your discretion I kindly appreciate it :)- Fees: (Door Fees): 30mins: $50 45mins: $60 60mins: $80 PLUS tipping in the room !! Location: (Friday): Merivale & Hunt Club. (Incalls Only). Angels Touch Spa. Clean, discreet, upscale & professional. ATM on-site, Free parking, fresh towels, nice big showers in each room & hygienic products. Hygiene is a MUST ! Schedule For Today: (Fri. Oct. 17th): Fri: 11am-11pm EMAIL. PM. CALL. TEXT: For more info or to book your ADDICTIVE session ! 613-600-3943 (Text Only) Email: [email protected] Personal Website: http://taylordevine.massagefiles.com/ Angels Touch: 613-274-7073 (Request Taylor) (Call Only) RECOMMENDATIONS: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ltr=T&t=155684 AD WITH COMMENTS: http://www.cerb.ca/classifieds/ottaw...al-beauty.html SEXY PICTURES: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6848 *NEW*: ANGELS TOUCH WEBSITE UNDER TAYLOR'S PROFILE: HAPPY CLIENT COMMENTS: http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/sit...ylors-profile/ CIAO FOR NOW!, CRAVE TAYLOR BOYS! XOXO MUAHS!
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1 pointMy first pension cheque finally deposited into my bank account..Yayyyyy:-) I'm a happy boy Someone I need to contact:-) RG
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1 pointa turn off when booking with a clients is when: a client asks to lower my rates. in the words of Jimmy Fallon's alter ego "sarah" it makes me feel "EW!"
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1 pointMMF and I'm not telling. And please, no PMs telling me you can fulfill this. lol I may already have. ;)
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1 pointMr G. For example. You ever taken a poop while reading the news in the Press, Penthouse forum or purrrhaps talkin on the phone ? That's multi tasking. Two hands, two feet, two lips and two ears. Use 2 or more at the same time and multi tasking is indeed possible ;) IMO
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1 pointCome join me at CMJ West tomorrow. We'll laugh between discussion and caresses and while one sexy-as-hell time while we're at it. I'm sharing my day with the sexy and stunning Jessica tomorrow too. You could even sit back, relax and enjoy the show ;) My look is somewhere between sexy library and the girl-next-door with the dark hair, blue eyes and glasses. My demeanor is bright, friendly and cute until the fun begins ... then I'm a lioness on the prowl. I love to tease and play. Dirty talk to plant the steamiest of sexy ideas in your mind. Tell me what turns you on... I offer a genuinely amazing massage with body slides, reverse body slides, perhaps a little kink thrown in here or there, sensual showers for two and plenty of playful smiles... that shift to a sly grin hidden behind luscious locks, while my talented hands massage, stroke and caress your straining body. Exhales... on THAT note... I'll see you on Friday xxoo E-mail: [email protected] and I'll extend my invitation. Call: 613-523-6199 to make a special request for me. Next week's schedule: Tuesday, October 21 10a - 3p
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1 pointI thought I would just add this to my first recommendation if that is alright. I recently was able to have a repeat visit with this magnificent and spectacular lady on her latest tour stop in Grande Prairie AB. As soon as I saw her ad, I just knew that I had to see her again. Once again, this beautiful woman amazed and thrilled me. I wasn't nearly as nervous this time around and I think our connection was even better but honestly, I think Victoria can make you feel comfortable and relaxed anyway. Just a remarkable, down to earth, friendly quality that is almost impossible to express in words. Not to mention a sensuality and sexiness that really gets the motor revving and the juices flowing. I was so happy, I forgot my watch in her room. Oh well, a good excuse for my next visit (like I need an excuse). Victoria, you are very special and amazing and am looking forward already to our next encounter.
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1 pointI presume you're a gay male. I don't swing that way myself, so I can't provide any specific recommendations. However, there are several ads on CL placed by masseurs who service only male clients. These ads are under services > therapeutic and are mixed in with ads from masseuses and a few female full service providers posing as masseuses.
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1 pointPlease be conscious of how long it may take to be picked up, especially when at a private residence. While I won't have the alarm clock set, I will expect you to respect the time I have set aside for you! I can't very well ask you to stand on the stoop and ask you to wait for an extended period of time but I would expect that you contemplated your departure prior to the eleventh hour! Our time together is just that...our time together. If you wish to use some of that time awaiting a taxi, your choice. If you choose to wait til the last minute, and face a 30 plus minute wait, well, I should be compensated, no? I probably have plans!!!
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1 pointHi FunAdventures, One thing you may want to do is take a look at many of the websites other ladies have up. Each person has their own rules but you'll get a good idea of the range of methods people employ. "No blocked numbers" seems to be the most common three words you'll ever see on an ad. Some ladies will only meet with a guy if he can provide her with references from other ladies he has already seen. Others require a gent to provide his real name and occupation first. Others just require to be able to talk on the phone first or even just message so they can get a sense of the person and use their intuition. I don't think I'm revealing any secrets here since these are all things you'll see publicly on different websites and ads, but at the end of the day you get to decide which rules make you feel safe, and don't feel like you have to back down if anyone pushes back against them.
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1 pointI once had a client take a taxi to my incall. It was snowing out. When we called for a return cab, none were available. They would not come out. I ended up driving him home. The roads were not that bad, so to the cabbies that night, you're a bunch of woosies.
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1 pointIf she asks you text at a certain time, text her at the exact time she asks you. I ask clients to call me 10 minutes before our appt to get logisitics and tell them if they are delayed and not at the location where I ask them to call me to let me know they are delayed. I do not like when someone texts me even if it's 5 mins earlier than I expect. Most of the time I'm trying to get ready and this makes me stressed out. There are many last minute things we have to tend to in order to set the right mood. This includes not looking stressed out. Show up at the time she asks you. Not before and not after. Call if you're delayed. It's always appreciated. As for giving up waiting for a confirmation, if I were the client, I'd wait 20 minutes max. Maybe try to follow up with her the next day asking her what happened. It could be a legitimate reason. If she doesn't get back to you, then it's probably best to move on. I've had a few run ins like getting ready and my cell phone fell into the sink where it got damaged with a lot of water or having a crappy phone charger that for some reason wouldn't charge my phone when I really needed it to charge. In this case I wasn't able to contact the client but made it up to one of them by giving them a discount. I've had a few disasters over the years including have a cell phone fall into the toilet. I'm sure in the case of the guy who I was supposed to meet and my cell phone fell into water, I'm sure he was pissed. I don't blame him but had no way of contacting him because his number was on there.
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1 pointThis is precisely my approach. Ladies who operate discreetly and professionally have never been on LE's radar. Especially in certain areas of the country where the municipalities take a much more liberal and friendly view of ladies in the industry. We will see the most adversity in our advertising venues. Those will be restricted, but as Meaghan pointed out: this gives ladies the advantage of no longer catering to the clients who insist on a menu list and is a great opportunity for all of us to up the class level of the industry. Ladies will advertise as ladies, not a McMenu and clients will have to have a bit more tact and eloquence when contacting ladies. Many will dislike this shift as some are more focused on specific services and ladies will be much more reluctant or outright refuse to discuss any particulars of what happens during their time with a client, but I think overall this could be a very good shift. And I like to think of it this way: by removing the menu, we are reducing the probability of a client having a sort of script in his head of how he envisions his encounter to play out. While it's natural to have a scenario of how we hope things will be in our heads, it can actually hinder a great time. Not always, but you know the saying that expectations are preconceived resentments. There rings some truth in that.
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1 pointYou are welcome peachy. For myself, I am no longer advertising any sexual services. Not because I am afraid for myself, but to protect my clients. I will also not answer any questions about my services. I will kindly explain to my inquiry that by asking me, they are on fact breaking the law. If they can't read between the lines then I can't really help them. I look at this legislation as a way of running my business the way I want to now. Clients will no longer calling the shots. I am in control now. I am relieved I no longer have to say yes I will do xxx for $xxx. Can clients really understand what it feels like to promise a service to someone I have never met before? I've never promised a service and not provided it. However, there are some that push and maybe their hygiene sucks. So no more advance promises. I will be using stories and songs to help those who want to understand the type of encounter they will experience. Currently, I am advertising as a hot mistress. No one sees a mistress as companionship alone. Sex is implied. Just not openly stated. Read between the lines. I'm still providing the same services. Just advertising it differently.
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1 pointThat kind of text seems to be a common theme. Seriously, I can almost feel the frustration that you ladies must have at this utter nonsense. Would it honestly kill a person to say hello? And, to be frank, if that was the initial contact, it is just wrong. Never have I asked for a ladies address or location until after booking, confirmation and right before the encounter. Part of the problem, imo, is this whole "text speak" thing we have going on in the world today. It seems that many people are completely unable to put together a coherent sentence structure. Hell, most of the time they can't even finish a word correctly. Our language is being flushed down the digital toilet.
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1 pointOoh, she's MILFy, just love it. Kinda reminds me of a Joan Collins, or Elizabeth Taylor in their younger middle days.
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1 point"Busy day?" Please don't ask me that. I know it may be a light chit chat innocent question but I don't reveal my business. I'm not a high volume provider so that answers the question already. Can you do half hour for $80? NO!!! I just need oral for $60. Hell to the no!! My rates are non negotiable. I am a professional in my business. Please don`t insult me with this b.s.
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1 pointNot reading the profile, emails, blocked calls, texts, explict questions. Can't stress enough about reading the add or profile. Oh & the ones that try to negotiate your boundaries or for cheaper service. Very disrespectful smh...
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1 pointGreat thread. Can't believe I missed this. Cock picks. Wasn't so bad on my old phone because my screen was so small that you couldn't make out the picture. No I have a new phone its like ok, well now that I've seen your junk, I think i'll pass. Did I ask you for a picture? Why would you do that? Arriving early. Our time is specific. Don't show up early unless you let me know. Also, if you are going to be late, let me know. If your appointment starts at 2 and you show up at 2:30 it might affect our finish time. Let me know please. Random texts in the middle of the night with "hey". Can I get 420, snow, or any other term for illegal products. Do I have a sign saying I'm a dealer? Just because I am an escort, does not mean I do these things. However, asking if I have beer or wine on hand is ok. If you have allergies to pets, smoke or anything else - tell me upfront. I would rather know in the beginning then have to deal with it after. I do smoke and have pets. I can't change that so it's better to be upfront. There are some services I do not provide and it's clear on my website and profile. So if I say no greek, that also means font put your finger up my butt. Nothing worse then having to stop and shimmy my body away from your access because you won't stop when I tell you I don't like it. Same as saying "can I slip it in for a second without a condom? " nothing makes me more nervous then someone who has no interest in my personal health. Please let me know what you want when I ask you what you are interested in our session. If you cum quick and want to prolong it, tell me. I offer msog, but not everyone can do this. If I know ahead of time, we can work together on this. Negotiate - just don't do it. If you feel my rates are too high, that's your choice to move on. Thank me and go on. Just don't get nasty and say something that will get you into my do not book list. Have a great day!
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1 pointKuddos to you RG. There have been many posts regarding how often SP's get tested but yet I can't remember any about hobbiests. It is each person's personal obligation to be safe and to be in control of their sexual health!
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